2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity 即將成為新娘的霜霜 聽到妳滿是煩躁的心情，沒有了即將成為新娘的喜悅和幸福，有點替妳擔心。 妳說，剛跟父母吵了架，為了婚禮。 可，妳自己知道，父母的建議才是好的。 妳就是感到很煩，胸口很堵，很想大聲地發脾氣，可又找不到正當理由，所以就只能在討論婚禮的事情上，找大家的麻煩。 妳說，妳擔心著婚禮還沒舉行，大家的情感都吵散了。 我問了妳，當初答應結婚的決定是什麼？ 妳說，男友想結婚，雙方談了未來的一些事情，妳回家問妳爸媽的意思，家人也覺是結婚的好時機，所以妳也就答應。 我說，以為是因男友求婚浪漫，當下衝動Say了”Yes”。 妳說，妳自己是個理智的人，求婚感覺也沒多浪漫，且妳不喜歡很多人注視下的求婚，還好妳男友夠了解妳，沒有做這些安排，不然妳可能當場的反應會傷到很多人的心，情況會變得很尷尬。 我問，結婚，為何讓妳覺得很煩？是婚禮的瑣碎覺得厭煩？還是其他什麼？ 妳說，妳也不知道，就感覺結婚後，妳不能再成為妳，光是想到這點就覺煩躁不已。 我再深入地詢問，妳說，結了婚後，沒有了自由，像是被綁住，無法呼吸。 我微笑著跟妳回應說，我單身，沒有類似經驗的可跟妳分享。不過從家人、朋友、電視、小說裡，有記得一些事情可以分享。 聊到後來，妳說了一句話，我笑了出來。 妳說，妳知道了，妳陷入了煩躁的情緒裡，但沒有好好想過到底為什麼煩躁，所以好像問題很多，其實，現在冷靜想想，原本糾結的事情，有些，連”事”都稱不上，根本就不是問題。 最後我們的結論就是，溝通，跟現在的未婚夫，未來的老公溝通。 妳跟男友之間的愛很濃，妳擔心婚後吵架會把情感吵薄了，可忘了先思考你們會為什麼事情吵架？吵架之前，是否有什麼想法，就提出來先討論，互相了解呢。 最後，妳說，今晚可以好好睡覺了。 然後我們就結束了談話。 妳，感覺像是位女漢子，一但不糾結，就放下。這樣的個性，挺好。 送給妳祝福的塔羅牌：【負面性Negativity】。 來自宇宙的訊息是，提醒碧霜，遇到糾結的事情時，負面思緒和情緒會先慣性地湧現，這部分要注意。在發生這樣的情況時，適時地與相關的人進行討論、分享，有助於卡住的思緒或情緒。 預祝霜霜 新婚幸福 百年好合！ 2024-08-26 Blessings to Bishuang: Dear Bishuang, who is about to become a bride, Hearing your anxious feelings, lacking the joy and happiness of becoming a bride, I feel a bit worried for you. You mentioned that you just had an argument with your parents about the wedding. But you know that your parents' suggestions are well-intentioned. You just feel annoyed, like there's a weight on your chest, wanting to vent loudly but without a proper reason, so you end up taking it out on the wedding discussions. You said you're worried that even before the wedding happens, everyone's emotions will already be scattered by the arguments. I asked you, what was your initial reason for agreeing to get married? You said your boyfriend wanted to get married. Both of you talked about the future, you went home and asked your parents' opinion, and your family also thought it was a good time to get married, so you agreed. I thought it was because of a romantic proposal from your boyfriend, and in a moment of impulse, you said "Yes." You replied that you are a rational person and the proposal wasn’t particularly romantic. Moreover, you don’t like being the center of attention during a proposal. Fortunately, your boyfriend knows you well and didn’t plan anything like that; otherwise, your reaction might have hurt many feelings, making things awkward. I asked why getting married makes you feel so annoyed. Is it the trivialities of the wedding that you find frustrating, or something else? You said you don’t really know; you just feel that after getting married, you can no longer be yourself, and just thinking about it makes you feel uneasy. I probed a little deeper, and you said that after marriage, there would be no more freedom, like being tied down and unable to breathe. I smiled and responded that, as a single person, I don’t have similar experiences to share. However, from family, friends, TV, and novels, I do recall some things that might be worth sharing. As our conversation continued, you said something that made me laugh out loud. You mentioned that you realized you were caught up in your anxious emotions without really thinking about why, so it seemed like there were many problems. However, upon calmly reflecting, some of the things that were troubling you weren’t even real "issues" at all. Our final conclusion was communication—communicating with your current fiancé, your future husband. The love between you and your boyfriend is strong. You worry that arguments after marriage might dilute your feelings, but you forgot to consider what you might argue about. Before arguing, why not bring up your thoughts and discuss them openly to better understand each other? In the end, you said you could finally have a good night's sleep tonight. And then we ended our conversation. You seemed like a strong woman, someone who, once they let go, truly lets go. That’s a great personality to have. The Tarot card drawn for you: Negativity. The message from the universe is to remind you, Bishuang, that when you encounter tangled situations, negative thoughts and emotions might habitually surface first, and you should be mindful of this. When this happens, it is helpful to discuss and share with the relevant people to clear the blocked thoughts or emotions. Wishing you a happy marriage and a lifetime of love! #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment 給迫不及待，等不及約好的時間，提前到來的丹丹 ~ 年輕的妳，很有自己的想法與主張；妳，不迷惘，不慌張，妳只是想找一個人聽妳說，聽妳訴，聽到妳的心聲而已。 妳覺得，年輕，最大的本錢是時間、精神和體力。這點我非常認同的。所以妳想趁著年輕，多賺錢，不想花費太多時間和金錢在玩樂上面，這點，實在是讓我太佩服妳了。 想當年，在妳這樣花樣年華的年紀，與同事週六的約會和玩耍，可是我認為人生的重頭戲呢。 有著成熟思想的妳認為，年輕，腦子記憶力較好，反應較快，應該用來學習、累積與思考。 所以妳不太跟朋友外出，這就造成了今日的困擾，朋友們覺得妳不好搞，妳希望朋友能懂妳的渴望和企圖。 記得我當下跟妳說 ~ 『妳的生活，是妳的，朋友的生活，是朋友的。』 『每個人的背景條件不同，這是先天給的；每個人想要的生活不同，這是後天自己想要的。』 妳認同了這些話，可仍陷在感覺與朋友格格不入的氛圍裡。 然後我接著跟妳分享了自己的人生 ~ 我覺『年輕呀，正是適合努力往前衝的年紀呢。』 每個人想要衝去的方向不同而已。 我有朋友喜愛旅遊，可以把薪水、時間和心力都用在旅遊，樂此不疲；而我有點相反，我喜歡穩定，旅遊很美好，對我來說卻不會很常安排。 每個人對生活、對樂趣、對人生意義都有不一樣的看法與想要完成的人生使命。 不管是如何，都很好。 我也曾經遇到朋友認為我和他們其他人沒有話聊，聚會時，即使我只是坐在旁邊聽他們說，他們也覺我礙眼。於是，他們有些聚會沒有找我了。 當我知道時，有點難過，不過更多的是鬆了一口氣。 我知道這群朋友很好，所以我捨不得離開，但終究別人幫我做了這個分離的決定，我就順著這個勢，疏離淡去。 這就是所謂的〝道不同，不相為謀〞。 彼此之間說不到一塊，那就別勉強雙方了。 『會有那麼一群跟妳志同道合的人，在前方不遠處等著妳。』 『也許懂妳的，可以跟妳一起成長交流的朋友，在新世界，就等妳去找到。』 我記得我最後是這樣跟丹丹妳說的。 妳的笑有點沒有精神，因妳捨不得現在這群朋友。 這就是丹丹誤會我的意思了。 我總認為，朋友有很多種，也有很多不同階段還是層級。 不是分高低，不是分親疏蜜離。 我還有跟丹丹說這些話，不知道妳有記得嗎？ 『妳會知道有些朋友適合一起做甚麼，有些事情適合哪些朋友。』 『不是將朋友分種類，或分級，而是每位出現在我們身邊的朋友，他們對我們人生影響的事情 是不同的。』 我喜歡跟朋友相聚，因為跟朋友一起開懷大笑，讓我覺得生命很好，日子很好，人生很好，歲月靜好。 『我知道很多朋友只能陪伴自己一段時間，無法長久，無法一輩子。』 所以我總是珍惜〝當下〞、〝現在〞。 相聚時，專注，用心。 工作時，認真，奮鬥。 學習時，投入，努力。 人生由許多階段連接而成，生活由不同面向組合而成，日子是綜合的寶箱，而非單一口味的獨屬盒。 偶爾跟朋友出去玩玩，放鬆，也不錯。 大部分時間想要學習、累積，讓自己未來爬得更高，走得更遠，這志向，更好。 加油 ~ ！ 妳的人生調色由妳自己決定。 送給妳的塔羅祝福：【滿足 Fulfillment】。 來自宇宙的訊息，這是一張情感的塔羅牌，提醒丹丹，珍惜朋友的關心，她們可能是希望妳在努力的路途上，也可同時間享有友情的潤澤，家人的關心與照顧。當妳退一步去思考朋友的出發點時，妳就會察覺到妳身在充滿愛與關懷裡，心中是滿滿的幸福。 2024-08-25 Blessings to Dandan: Fulfillment To the eager Dandan who arrives early, unable to wait for the agreed-upon time~ As a young person, you have your own thoughts and opinions. You are not confused or flustered; you simply want someone to listen to you, to hear your stories, and to understand your innermost feelings. You believe that the greatest assets of youth are time, energy, and physical strength. I completely agree with this perspective. That's why you want to take advantage of your youth to earn more money and are reluctant to spend too much time and money on entertainment. I truly admire this about you. Back in the day, when I was your age, I considered outings and weekend gatherings with colleagues as the highlights of life. However, with your mature mindset, you believe that while young, with a sharper memory and quicker reflexes, you should focus on learning, accumulating knowledge, and reflecting on life. As a result, you don't go out much with friends, which has led to today's troubles—your friends find you difficult to connect with, while you wish they could understand your desires and ambitions. I remember telling you then: "Your life is yours, and your friends' lives are theirs." "Everyone has different circumstances, which are given by nature; everyone desires a different kind of life, which is what they strive for later." You agreed with these words but still felt out of sync with your friends. Then I shared my own life experiences with you: I believe that youth is the time to strive forward with all your might. Everyone just has different directions they want to pursue. I have friends who love traveling and can devote their salaries, time, and energy to it without getting tired. I'm somewhat the opposite; I prefer stability. Travel is wonderful, but I don't plan it often. Everyone has different perspectives on life, fun, and the meaning of life and different missions they want to accomplish. No matter what, it's all good. I've also had friends who felt they had nothing to talk about with me. Even if I just sat beside them, listening, they found me annoying. So, some of their gatherings didn't include me. When I found out, I was a bit sad but more relieved. I knew these friends were great, so I was reluctant to leave, but in the end, they made the decision for me to part ways, and I just went with the flow, gradually drifting apart. This is what they call "different paths, no mutual plans." If you can't see eye to eye, don't force either side. "There will be a group of like-minded people waiting for you not far ahead." "Perhaps friends who understand you, who can grow and exchange ideas with you, are waiting for you in a new world." I remember saying this to you at the end. Your smile seemed a bit spiritless because you were reluctant to let go of your current group of friends. That’s where you misunderstood me. I always believe there are many kinds of friends and different stages or levels. It's not about ranking higher or lower or being closer or more distant. Did you remember I also told you this? "You will know which friends are suitable for what activities, and what things are suitable for which friends." "It's not about categorizing or grading friends but recognizing that each friend who appears around us has a different impact on our lives." I enjoy gathering with friends because laughing heartily with them makes me feel life is good, the days are good, life is great, and the years are peaceful. "I know many friends can only accompany me for a while, not forever, not for a lifetime." So, I always cherish the "present" and the "now." When gathering, I focus and put my heart into it. When working, I am serious and strive hard. When learning, I dedicate myself and work diligently. Life is composed of many stages; living consists of different facets; the days are a comprehensive treasure chest, not a single-flavored exclusive box. Occasionally going out to play and relax with friends is also good. Spending most of your time learning and accumulating, aiming to climb higher and go further in the future, is an even better ambition. Keep it up~! The colors of your life are yours to choose. Here is a tarot blessing for you: Fulfillment. A message from the universe, this is a card of emotions, reminding you, Dandan, to cherish the care of your friends. They may wish for you to enjoy the nourishment of friendship and the care and support of family even while striving on your path. When you take a step back and consider your friends' perspectives, you'll realize you're surrounded by love and care, and your heart will be filled with happiness. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

蒐集天才少女混音？！Charli xcx 驚喜眾人的最新兩首混音單曲！

 Hi there，今年6月時 Charli xcx 發行了最新專輯《BRAT》(2024)，我一直在猶豫要要寫一篇關於這張專輯的文，因為專輯內的歌曲其實都很不錯，不過因為我覺得專輯的整體性很高，所以不太有辦法挑出其中幾首歌來分享；現在 Charli 釋出了兩首混音可說是剛剛好，在專輯的特色當中加進了其他兩位鮮少參與混音或合作曲的天才少女歌手，對此我非常滿意，聽過之後覺得不但保留了 Charli 自己的特色，同時更聽到了合作歌手平時聽不到的電子風格。 👉 推薦閱讀：愛昏頭的荒唐抉擇，Charli XCX 在感情中總是選擇壞男人？！ 〈The girl, so confusing version with lorde〉 Charli xcx & Lorde Charli 和 Lorde 的合作是個驚喜，兩人間有趣的小故事是有不少歌迷覺得他們的長相相似，甚至也有人真的將他們認錯，所以不斷地希望他們兩人可以合作；而 Lorde 很少跟其他音樂人合作，除了自己作品發表後又被 DJ 進行混音之外，比較有印象的合作大概就只有和 Khalid、Post Malone、SZA 等人的混音〈Homemade Dynamite (remix)〉(2017) 了。這次將 Charli 專輯中〈Girl, so confusing〉進行混音，其實我自己認為改動不算大，但聽起來的整體感覺就是莫名地差很多。 在 Charli 原有的基礎上，Lorde 將自己的段落重新填詞，不知道是不是因為混音的關係，在 Lorde 的段落中似乎也比自己的歌曲要來的嗆辣，第一次聽雖然有點不習慣這樣的改變，但不得不說兩人的聲音非常契合，搭配起來算是很舒服的組合，同時在這樣的情況下也凸顯兩個人各自的聲音，並且將氣氛也照顧得很好，所以這首混音曲釋出之後就成為了我在 Charli 這個專輯時代最愛的歌曲之一！ 〈Guess featuring Billie Eilish〉 Charli xcx & Billie Eilish 讓人意想不到竟然將收錄在專輯豪華版《Brat and it's the same but there's three more songs so it's not》(2024) 的〈Guess〉混音，而更讓人意想不到是請到了 Billie 合作！比起上一首歌的 Lorde，Billie 雖然比較常有合作曲，像是和 blackbear、Justin Bieber、Khalid 等人都合作過，不過作為助陣歌手、而不是主要歌手這倒是第一次。在這首歌當中的 Billie 其實有點他自己新專輯《HIT ME HARD AND SOFT》(2024)的味道，這個想法蹦出來之後，我自己也覺得這兩張專輯間的相似之處真的不少。 👉 推薦閱讀：直面自我的溫柔重擊！Billie Eilish 剖析內心的新專輯好評不斷！ 在玩弄電音、舞曲元素的 Charli、Billie 兩人看起來很自由，尤其在搭配音樂的 MV 中也展現出他們的想法，表達了對於女性身體自主的看法，也算是一首蘊含女性權力的作品。而另一件被注意的事情是，不少人認為他們在這首歌當中夾雜了對於 Taylor Swift 的不滿，無論是在音樂看法或是商業的銷售上，但這也是網友們自己的猜測，雖然引起了不小的討論， Charli、Billie 本人並沒有證實有此意。不管怎麼樣我認為這首歌好聽就夠了，本人沒有公開說明的事情就別胡亂臆測了。 / 在這次《BRAT》的專輯時代中，Charli xcx 推出了比起以往更多的混音合作曲，像是在以上這兩首歌之前就推出了〈The von dutch remix with addison rae and a.g. cook〉、〈The von dutch remix with skream and benga〉、〈The 360 remix with robyn and yung lean〉等歌曲，所以在網路上有一說是 Charli 即將推出混音專輯《The brat remix album》，不過這是未經官方證實的消息，所以在消息確定之前就先聽聽這幾首已經發行的過過癮吧！ 👉 推薦閱讀：Charli XCX 和 Troye Sivan 宣布聯合巡演！來複習一下合作的起點！ 追蹤我的 Instagram：written_by_boy 追蹤我的 Facebook：睿忒 Writer 追蹤我的 Spotify 歌單：Writer's Monthly Picks

2024 0718 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

2024 0718 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer 昨日才與年輕的大侄子講到，我和他兩人都應該要重新調整生活節奏與時間感。 我們把日子過得太過零碎了，而他正值青春年華，時間不應是如此鬆散無憂。 人，活著，還是要有點目標比較好玩。 無所事事的最高段，不在於生活內容裡沒有所謂的事情，而是將目標與生活合而為一，自在的度過每一日，自然的達成目標。 你最近的目標是什麼呢？ 你近期的渴望又是什麼？ 近期我的心思都在陪伴家人，很自然的，又把自己的目標給隱形了。 難怪我總得花費比同學更長久的時間才能抵達終點線。 但，這是我自己想要的，刻意經營的生活內容，實現自我及與家人情感連結共存的美好公式。 你也可以有自己的時間節奏表。 快慢自由決定。 內容自己選擇。 今天的我們擁有即將達成目標的興奮感。 在「駕馭者」的日子裡，享受著馳騁的快感。 在「駕馭者」的日子裡，學習駕馭情緒，不被衝動給控制。 收放自如的情緒與情感，在職場裡，在談判過程中，在需要演繹不同面向時，是眾人不敢忽視的強敵。 在「駕馭者」的日子裡，放下謹慎與小心，大膽乘風破浪一次，看自己憑著一股衝勁可前進到哪裡。 保守，仔細，小心是日常。 偶爾脫軌一下又何妨。 只要平時建立足夠安全網。 不怕刮風下雨淹池塘。 拿出魄力，再次站上自己人生的舵手崗位，駕馭前進的方向，掌握前進的速度。 起風啦 ~ 啟航！ July 18, 2024 Tarot Reading: Surfer Yesterday, I spoke with my young nephew, and we both agreed that we should adjust our life pace and sense of time. Our days have become too fragmented, and he, being in his youth, should not have such a loose and carefree schedule. Life is more enjoyable with a bit of purpose. The highest level of idleness is not about having nothing to do, but about integrating goals with daily life, living each day naturally, and achieving goals effortlessly. What are your recent goals? What have you been longing for lately? Recently, my thoughts have been focused on spending time with my family, and naturally, my own goals have become invisible again. No wonder it always takes me longer to reach the finish line compared to my classmates. But this is what I want, a deliberately managed life where self-fulfillment and emotional connection with family coexist beautifully. You can also have your own time rhythm. Decide the pace freely. Choose the content yourself. Today, we have the excitement of nearing our goals. On the day of "The Surfer," enjoy the thrill of riding the waves. On the day of "The Surfer," learn to master your emotions and not be controlled by impulsiveness. Well-managed emotions and feelings are formidable in the workplace, during negotiations, and when needing to showcase different facets. On the day of "The Surfer," let go of caution and be bold to ride the waves and see how far your momentum can take you. Being cautious, meticulous, and careful is everyday life. Occasionally going off track is no big deal. Just ensure you have enough safety nets in place. Don’t fear the wind, rain, or floods. Show your courage and take the helm of your life once again. Steer your direction and control your speed. The wind is rising ~ set sail! #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Surfer

2024年8月｜免費手機桌布下載

⎋ 關鍵字：#手機桌布 #2024年 #手機 #iphone #KreaAI #生活 #自然 #語錄 #風景 #太陽 #沙灘 #陽光 #桌布 ＃星空 #療癒 #靜 #自己 #光 #免費 #下載 #文字 #日常 #文字 #相信 #八月 #圖像生成 #AI #sun #nature #iphone #canva #free #photo #life #sky #design #building #blue #view 嗨大家！夏天來了，也來到了分享免費手機桌布的時候了！本月我特別透過 Krea AI 生成，為大家製作六款富含復古濾鏡效果的桌布，以期讓你的手機畫面更加生動和獨特。當然，如果你想親手製作屬於自己的手機桌布，可以點按 Canva 操作教學瞭解教學，發揮你的創意吧！ ( ➜ 桌布下載連結 ) 01 艷陽沙灘 Prompt: Beach Scene: A vibrant beach scene under the bright August sun, clear blue sky, and gentle waves in the background. 02 希望燈塔 Prompt: Seaside Lighthouse: A lone lighthouse standing on a rocky shore, against the backdrop of a clear blue sky and open sea. 03 沙漠露營 Prompt: Bedouin tents in Wadi Rum, weaved from desert tales. 04 星空夜景 Prompt: Meteor Shower: A sunset streaking across a clear night sky filled with stars, with a simple line below. 05 雪景山巒 Prompt: Grand alpine meadows, with wild horses grazing beneath snow-capped peaks. 06 清涼一夏 Prompt: Clear Blue Pool Water: A close-up of the clear, rippling water in a swimming pool, with sunlight reflecting off the surface, giving a refreshing and cool feel perfect for the hot August days. 今天的分享就到這邊啦，期待下一篇的分享，祝福大家都有個美好的一天！喜歡窩DEMAA(OS: 就是取自”我的媽啊“的諧音)的朋友，歡迎按讚追蹤分享。如果你想要打造屬於自己風格的手機背景，不妨試試本次所使用的 Krea AI。這個 AI 圖像生成工具不僅可以幫助你創造獨特的背景，還能滿足你客製化的需求。另外，窩DEMAA 不定期有不同的文章內容分享，快 點此來 窩DEMAA 網站瀏覽囉！ Contact Us ｜ FB｜ IG｜ Tiktok｜ Matter｜ 方格子｜ Line

2024 0717 今日塔羅：誠信 Integrity

2024 0717 今日塔羅：誠信 Integrity 這幾日，與一位朋友討論著計劃和時間。 之前他曾允諾可等待我確定的日期。 這兩日與他確認與敲定日期時，他表示，希望可以提早。 我這邊卻有難度。 當初討論出來的日期就是我比較可以進行的時候。 現，他因自己的一些規畫，所以時間有點困難，希望我調整。 並非我不願意，真的是有困難，無法調整。 於是，他一咬牙說，既然當初說好是那一日，那就不變吧。 我謝謝他的體諒，也知道他是沒有辦法才會提出是否可調整的想法。 因我們都是重然諾的人。 我們一旦承諾了，不管經過多少時間，也許中間會有許多變數，甚至自己吃虧或者是會有其他的影響，可是，我們的承諾品質不會改變，承諾的內容不會改變，承諾的價值不會改變。 過去，我寧願讓人辜負我，我也重然諾。 結果就是被當猴子耍弄，被辜負，被欺壓，搞得自己像是個呆瓜般，受人嘲笑。 而，我們的良善不應該被欺負得。 我們的善良應該要發揮在值得的人身上，不然我們就是另類的”幫兇”，因我們默許他們的欺凌，而沒有反抗，沒有反擊。 於是，我再也不沉默。 我還是會做到我的誠信，我還是會遵守我的承諾，但，我也不再讓人隨意揮霍我的好，我的溫柔，我的關心呵護和我對朋友的愛。 今天是『誠信』的一天。 如果你遺忘很久了，請趕緊想起來。 如果你遺失很久了，請趕緊找回來。 如果你遺棄很久了，請趕緊撿回來。 我個人認為『誠信』是身為一個人的基礎。 沒有了誠信，管你位置有多高，管理權勢有多大，都是讓人在心底裡瞧不起。 況且，世事輪迴，世道有報。 若你不怕，跟天抗吧。 畢竟，這世間很多的道理，只要是君子，知悉了，不須人管自然自律；非君子者，知悉也好，不知也罷，不管天道地道與人道，他只有承認他自己的道。 面對這樣的人，我們不跟他爭論，不與他辯駁。 惡人，就讓老天收拾吧。 我們良善之人的誠信陽關道，建立在互諒、互持、互挺、互懂之上。 妥協，是因想求得共好，而非爭輸贏。 誠信，是內心裡正直的道路，是行走在現實社會中的自律標準。 誠信，是美德，非惡魔的謊言所能遮蔽的恆久之光芒。 誠信，是正直信念，是我們須捍衛的信念。 我，誠信，為自己，為家人，為朋友，為眾生，為萬物。 我，誠信，為遵從自己內在的光與聖道。 我，誠信，為遵從自己發願的善與行願。 我，誠信，為遵從世界美好的大同。 Tarot Reading for 2024-07-17: Integrity These past few days, I've been discussing plans and timing with a friend. He had previously promised to wait for me to confirm the date. When I checked and finalized the date with him these past two days, he expressed a desire to move the date up. However, it is difficult for me. The date we initially agreed upon was the one that worked best for me. Now, due to his own plans, he finds the date difficult and hopes I can adjust. It's not that I am unwilling, it’s just genuinely challenging and unfeasible for me to adjust. So, he gritted his teeth and said, "Since we originally agreed on that date, let's stick to it." I thanked him for his understanding, knowing that he wouldn't have asked for an adjustment if it wasn’t necessary. We both value keeping our promises. Once we make a commitment, no matter how much time passes, no matter the variables or personal sacrifices involved, our promise's quality, content, and value remain unchanged. In the past, I would rather be wronged than break my promises. The result was that I ended up being toyed with, betrayed, oppressed, and made a fool of, ridiculed by others. But our kindness should not be taken advantage of. Our kindness should be directed toward those who deserve it; otherwise, we become accomplices by tolerating their bullying without resistance or retaliation. Therefore, I will no longer remain silent. I will maintain my integrity and keep my promises, but I will no longer allow others to squander my kindness, my gentleness, my care, and my love for friends. Today is a day of 'Integrity.' If you have forgotten it for a long time, please remember it quickly. If you have lost it for a long time, please retrieve it quickly. If you have abandoned it for a long time, please pick it up quickly. Personally, I believe that 'Integrity' is the foundation of being human. Without integrity, no matter how high your position or how great your power, you will be despised in people's hearts. Moreover, the world follows cycles, and there are consequences for our actions. If you are not afraid, then challenge the heavens. After all, many truths in this world are self-evident to a gentleman, requiring no external enforcement for self-discipline; for those who are not gentlemen, it makes no difference whether they know or not. They will acknowledge only their own path, regardless of divine or human principles. In dealing with such people, we do not argue or dispute. Let heaven deal with the wicked. Our integrity as kind-hearted people is built on mutual understanding, support, and empathy. Compromise seeks common good, not victory or defeat. Integrity is the path of righteousness within our hearts, the standard of self-discipline in society. Integrity is a virtue, an everlasting light that cannot be obscured by the devil's lies. Integrity is a belief in righteousness that we must defend. I uphold integrity, for myself, for my family, for my friends, for all beings, and for all things. I uphold integrity to follow my inner light and holy path. I uphold integrity to follow the good I have vowed and the actions I have committed to. I uphold integrity to follow the ideal of a harmonious world. #DreamCatchTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Integrity

2024 0711 今日塔羅：魔鬼之樂 Devil’s Play

2024 0711 今日塔羅：魔鬼之樂 Devil’s Play 身邊許多朋友，利用暑假帶著他們的孩子四處遊玩著，搞得我也沒啥想要努力、奮鬥、打拼的心情。 雖然原本這心思就不是很濃厚，現在更是薄弱到吹彈可破的程度。 哇！ 好想度假喔！ 好想出國玩！ 不過，我就是很膽小。 生活裡只有玩樂，心不安定。 生活裡只有吃喝，身不穩定。 還是有點負擔，扛些責任，讓生活煙火氣濃些，灶暖心也安。 不過，也不用把自己搞得太過硬頸。 可歌則歌。 可喝則喝。 可食則食。 可樂則樂。 近日文章產出很慢，甚至有時就直接跳過，沒有產出。 我還是都有抽牌。 一來想把握與家人團聚的日子和時光。 二來確實最近有著一些想法，還沒想透，沒有太多思緒，可是也不想胡亂分享，所以也就決定，既無思緒，就跳過吧。 日子不會因我一天沒有產出文章就亂了套。 計畫、行動也不會因我一天沒有文章分享就歪了。 最好的安排。 最好的時光。 就是 ~ 該幹嘛時就幹嘛。 需做什麼時就做什麼。 正念一念間，一呼一吸的當下，在下一秒，則即已是過往，已過去了。 July 11, 2024, Today's Tarot: Devil's Play Many friends around me are using the summer vacation to take their children on various trips, making me feel less motivated to work hard and strive for success. Although my drive was never very strong, now it’s almost nonexistent, fragile like a bubble ready to burst. Wow! I really want to go on vacation! I really want to travel abroad! However, I am very timid. A life filled only with play feels unsettling. A life filled only with eating and drinking feels unstable. It’s still necessary to bear some responsibilities, to carry some burdens, to make life a bit more substantial, to warm the heart and find peace. But, don’t be too hard on yourself. Sing when you can sing. Drink when you can drink. Eat when you can eat. Enjoy when you can enjoy. Recently, my article production has been very slow, sometimes even skipping days without any output. I still draw a card each day. Firstly, I want to cherish the time and moments spent with my family. Secondly, I’ve been having some thoughts lately that I haven’t fully worked through, and I don’t want to share them hastily, so I decided to skip sharing when I don’t have clear ideas. Life won’t fall apart just because I didn’t produce an article for a day. Plans and actions won’t go awry just because I didn’t share an article for a day. The best arrangements. The best times. Are ~ Doing what needs to be done when it needs to be done. Doing what needs to be done when it needs to be done. Mindfulness in each breath, in the present moment, and in the next second, it becomes the past, it has passed. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #DevilsPlay

2024韓國爆紅必買彩妝Fwee腮紅布丁膏開箱試色

自從5月份買了第一個Fwee腮紅布丁膏之後，就覺得它好用到不行，這兩個月陸陸續續又買了三個，這次來試色+總結一下心得 我一共買了4個顏色，分別是like、oh、baby、without,其中without 跟baby都比較容易缺貨，如果有看到補貨，很值得立刻下單喔！ Like 先從Like開始，這款讓我聯想到很加州的陽光芭比粉，健康膚色也能用，有一種很有活力有朝氣又愛運動的感覺 （圖片來源：fwee) 顏色很顯色，所以用一點點就可以了，用量非常省，手部試色我有刻意用多一點，但是實際用在臉上，輕點輕拍就可以了 Oh 再來是oh這個色號，在芭比粉中又更冷色調了一些，已經接近桃紅色了，不過上臉卻意外的好看，很顯白，配現在流行的水光感粉嫩唇或歐美裸唇都很適合 （圖片來源：free) 因為這款比第一個like 還要顯色，所以這個顏色我用拇指粉撲去拍開，跟粉底也融合的很好，底妝不會被蹭掉 Without Without 是這四個裡面沒那麼顯色的，也是布丁腮紅裡面的超熱門色號，帶一點暖色調的粉裸色，基本上可以說是完全不挑膚色都可以使用的腮紅 （圖片來源：fwee) 我個人也覺得without 這個顏色很新手友好，不但好上色，又不會一下就太紅，而且顏色也很顯嫩，超級自然，難怪我一開始根本就買不到啊！ Baby Baby這個顏色與其說是嬰兒嫩粉，我覺得它更像歐美高中生喜歡的曬後腮紅，像是Dior 後台腮紅01這樣的顏色，是一種渡假中被太陽曬的略帶紅潤又很有氣色的自然紅潤感 （圖片來源：fwee) 這個顏色雖然也是熱賣色，但是更適合化妝不是那麼新手的人，因為它真的超級顯色，怕一不小心就失手，但是如果訓練一下自己，這個顏色我個人是滿喜歡的，用量少一點就好，因為這個顏色我忘記拍上臉照了，所以發一張出去渡假的照片，當天用的就是Baby 這個色號 附帶提一下，買Fwee 的腮紅就會送一個fwee 鑰匙扣，打開來裡面可以裝腮紅膏，用粉底刮棒就可以挖腮紅膏進去了，出去玩的時候可以帶，減少化妝品的體積，而且鑰匙扣好可愛，顏色都是隨機送的，裡面還有小鏡子 蝦皮就有fwee 旗艦店囉！ 以上就是這free腮紅布丁膏4個顏色的試色心得 #fwee #fwee腮紅#fwee布丁膏#fwer#唇頰膏#fwee腮紅膏試色#fwee必買#fwee鑰匙扣

2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬 回饋 Reward

2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬 回饋 Reward 昨晚幾個朋友相聚。 四個大人加上一個大孩子。 其中三個大人的工作經驗是人力資源。 人，就是如此奇妙。 個性不同，特質不同，雖然都是從事人力資源的工作，可發展方向也非常不一樣。 三個臭皮匠湊在一起，那真的就是，吵鬧不已。 辛苦了另一位妹子的耳朵了。 我喜歡這樣的日子。 有家人，有好友。 有美食，有笑聲。 這是我的財富，我超愛的財富。 不過，我當然也喜歡最直觀的，最主觀的所謂的財富。 紙鈔疊疊疊。 存款數字加加加。 再來一些寶石、鑽石增添光芒。 豪車？ 不愛。 車對我來說，是行動工具。 豪宅？ 看在哪？ 我喜歡的，總被人笑說買了就準備套牢一生一世吧。 可，就自己住，住到百年之後成為了遺產，不也是一生一世嗎！ 瞧！ 我多俗氣，多坦率。 日子啊！ 男女之間的情情愛愛只是其一，但不是唯一。 錢財是萬惡之首，但沒有了卻萬事烏有。 人生五顆球，我的生命的大圓圈裡，各顆球的比重因人生不同階段而調整。 不須探究原因，不需了解情況。 家人，親人，情感濃烈，也抵不過生離死別的牽引。 何況，友人及旁人。 即便如此，不輕言放手，不輕易放棄。 人生五顆球，讓人生精彩，讓日子多彩。 在每一重要時刻，體會與收穫人生結的果實，幸福滿滿。 Tarot for Today, July 10, 2024: Reward Last night, a few friends gathered. Four adults and one big kid. Three of the adults have experience in human resources. People are indeed fascinating. Different personalities, different traits, even though all of them work in human resources, their career paths are very different. When the three of them get together, it's really noisy. Kudos to the other girl's ears for enduring it. I love these kinds of days. With family, with friends. With good food, with laughter. This is my wealth, the wealth I adore. Of course, I also like the most straightforward and subjective kind of wealth. Stacks of cash. Savings numbers increasing. And some gemstones and diamonds to add some sparkle. Luxury cars? Not for me. To me, cars are just a means of transportation. Luxury houses? Depends on the location. The ones I like are always mocked as lifetime burdens. But, living alone in it until it becomes an inheritance after a century, isn't that a lifetime too? See! How materialistic and candid I am. Life! Romantic love is just a part of it, but not the only part. Money is the root of all evil, but without it, everything is meaningless. The five balls of life, in my big circle of life, the weight of each ball adjusts according to different stages of life. No need to explore the reasons, no need to understand the situation. Family, relatives, deep emotions can't outweigh the pull of life and death. Not to mention friends and others. Even so, I won't easily let go or give up. The five balls of life make life wonderful and colorful. At every important moment, experiencing and reaping the fruits of life, full of happiness. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Reward

2024 0705 今日塔羅：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 0705 今日塔羅：欣喜者 Rejoicer 還在了解AI生成圖的我，在這幾日被軟體平台停止使用權，因我這段時間使用的次數已達最上限，若要繼續使用，需要付費。 還在思考是否要購買，每月的好幾百元對於現無固定收入而言，不低。 可，人，就是這樣雙標。 若這筆錢是花費在我家姪子姪女身上，我卻不覺得這錢花得心疼，反而開心。 難怪我無法財富自由。 因我的思緒總是與有錢人不同，與會注意開支的人不同。 我著重的點老是在於開心與否。 我喜歡像欣喜者那樣，沐浴在喜悅的氛圍裡，沉浸在幸福泡泡中。 我很喜歡姪子姪女們跟我分享所有關於他們的一切。 開心的，有興趣的，興奮的，難過的，不舒服的。 被他們重視，被他們需要的感覺，是滋潤內心的情感，是滋養人生的愛，是豐富生活的能量。 今天的我陪著我的大寶(我的大姪子)，無法實質給予幫助。 畢竟，人生許多重要大事都是只有靠自己去拚搏，努力。 那，我做了什麼呢？ 我在這炎炎夏日早起。 開車載大寶出門。 在他午休時間先找好餐廳等他一起來吃飯。 坐在舒適的冷氣房哩，吃一餐美味、營養又可口的飯菜。 簡單聊著天，讓他可以休息一下。 然後我回到自己的屋子，等傍晚再前往接他一起回老家。 我對大寶說，姑姑過去在人生許多時候都很希望有人可以這樣疼我，呵護我。 但，終究我都沒有這樣的機會。 謝謝你，給姑姑這樣美好的機會，圓了姑姑的小心願。 欣喜者 ~ 不是只有接收，接受。 付出，亦然可享受到愛的喜悅和呵護。 珍惜交心的時刻。 珍惜相知相惜的情誼。 相信直覺與天性。 傾聽女性的意見與感受，因女人的直覺，有時會準得嚇到你。 生命是喜悅的。 若感覺心情是鬱卒或堵堵的，那就，一起大聲唱歌吧 ~ 唱首古老的歌。 唱首心中的歌。 唱首抒發情緒或情感的歌。 唱首直搗你心，直切你情，直中你痛，讓你痛哭流涕的歌。 Tarot for Today, 2024-07-05: The Rejoicer I’m still learning about AI-generated images, and recently, the software platform I was using suspended my access because I reached the maximum usage limit. To continue, I need to pay a fee. I'm still deciding whether to purchase it. Spending several hundred dollars a month is significant for someone with no fixed income. Yet, people are often inconsistent with their standards. If this money were spent on my niece and nephew, I wouldn't feel any regret. On the contrary, I would be happy. No wonder I can’t achieve financial freedom. My thoughts are always different from those of wealthy people, different from those who are careful with their expenses. I always focus on whether something brings me joy. I like to be like the Rejoicer, bathing in an atmosphere of joy, immersed in bubbles of happiness. I love it when my niece and nephew share everything about their lives with me. The happy moments, the things they’re interested in, the excitement, the sadness, the discomfort. Feeling valued and needed by them nourishes my heart, enriches my life with love, and energizes my daily existence. Today, I accompanied my eldest nephew. I couldn’t offer any substantial help. After all, many important matters in life can only be achieved through one’s own efforts. So, what did I do? I woke up early on this hot summer day. I drove my nephew out. During his lunch break, I found a restaurant and waited for him to join me for a meal. We sat in a comfortable, air-conditioned room, enjoying a delicious, nutritious meal. We chatted simply, giving him a chance to rest. Then I went back to my place, waiting to pick him up in the evening to go back home together. I told my nephew that in the past, I often wished someone would care for and cherish me like this during many moments in my life. But ultimately, I never had such an opportunity. Thank you for giving me this wonderful chance, fulfilling my small wish. The Rejoicer ~ It’s not just about receiving and accepting. Giving can also bring the joy and care of love. Cherish the moments of heartfelt connection. Treasure the friendships where you understand and cherish each other. Trust your instincts and nature. Listen to the opinions and feelings of women because sometimes, women’s intuition can be astonishingly accurate. Life is joyful. If you feel down or blocked, then let’s sing loudly together ~ Sing an old song. Sing a song from your heart. Sing a song that expresses your emotions or feelings. Sing a song that touches your heart, cuts straight to your emotions, and makes you cry your heart out. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Rejoicer

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