Alyson’s 4/15 Tarot：隱士 Hermit (17-57)

Alyson’s 4/15 Tarot：隱士 Hermit (17-57) 問題：我4/14的未來日記主題 抽牌：隱士 Hermit 今天總算可以睡飽一點。 天呀！我竟然將自己美好無所事事的時光給終結了。 每天充實的課程內容，收穫很多，卻也讓人疲憊。 越是這樣忙碌的日子，越是要注意飲食。 今天的主要需完成的任務是食物採買。 而今天的塔羅牌是「隱士」。 若以十二星座，是屬處女座。 若以處女座給大家最深的印象就是該做什麼事情，就會安排好時間好好進行。 這就是我今日「未來日記」的內容。 「未來日記」的第三週主題是「隱士」。 除了上面提到的與處女座有直接關係以外，這張塔羅牌有療癒者的意涵。 真是與我生活的觀念是貼近的。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/146906047 我一直認為，與其吃各種的營養食品、保健食品，倒不如好好吃飯，從天然的食物裡獲取一大堆的營養。 「隱士」在山林間，自己種植著五穀，吃著從土壤吸收的元素，讓身體獲取大地之母的營養，如同我們在母親的子宮裡那樣，富足而心神安穩。 如同「隱士」之名 ~ 踏實地生活。 充實地日子。 富實地心靈。 飽實地休息。 這週，身體微恙，上週一整個地腳步匆忙，都忘了好好地看看天空，好好地嗅著空氣中春天花開的芬芳，好好地吃一頓飯。 這週，除了學習以外，也要注意好好地生活，不庸碌地生活。 「未來日記」的第三週，「隱士」有著歸隱於山間，不太與陌生的人交集，不太往熱鬧喧囂的地方趕集。 在自己生活的一方，過著簡單的生活，並同時向內進入自己的內在，獲得自我覺察，並透過與神性連結，透過這股力量，經過雙手，帶出療癒，帶出創造，帶出引導。 我，尚在學習。 我是接受他人的療癒，感受他人的溫暖，並且放鬆太過緊繃的身體。 「隱士」，是我這週的「未來日記」主調，與我為自己設定的生活模式同調。 宇宙事先安排提供的訊息與我內心渴求的現況一致，真的是很美妙的事情。 Alyson's 4/15 Tarot: Hermit (17-57) Question: My 4/14 future diary theme Card drawn: Hermit Today, I finally managed to get some extra sleep. Oh my, I actually put an end to my blissful idle moments. The packed schedule every day brings a lot of learning, but it also leaves me exhausted. The busier the days, the more important it is to pay attention to eating well. The main task for today is grocery shopping. And the Tarot card drawn for today is "Hermit." In terms of the zodiac, it corresponds to Virgo. If there's one thing that stands out about Virgo, it's their knack for scheduling and executing tasks efficiently. This aligns with the theme of my "future diary" for today. The theme for the third week of the "future diary" is "Hermit." Besides its association with Virgo mentioned earlier, this Tarot card signifies healing. It resonates closely with my philosophy of living. I've always believed that rather than consuming various nutritional and health supplements, it's better to eat well and derive a plethora of nutrients from natural foods. The Hermit resides in the wilderness, cultivating grains and consuming elements absorbed from the soil, nourishing the body with the essence of Mother Earth, much like how we are nourished in our mother's womb, feeling abundant and spiritually serene. Just like the name "Hermit" suggests, Live solidly. Live fulfilling days. Nourish the soul abundantly. Rest abundantly. This week, with a slight physical discomfort and the rush of last week, I forgot to gaze at the sky, inhale the fragrance of spring blossoms in the air, and have a proper meal. This week, besides learning, it's also important to focus on living well, living without haste. In the third week of the "future diary," "Hermit" entails withdrawing to the mountains, avoiding interactions with strangers and bustling places. Living a simple life in one's own space, while delving inward to gain self-awareness, and connecting with the divine, channeling healing, creativity, and guidance through this power, manifesting through one's hands. I am still learning. Accepting healing from others, feeling their warmth, and relaxing my overly tense body. "Hermit" sets the tone for my "future diary" this week, aligning with the lifestyle I've set for myself. The message the universe provided in advance resonates perfectly with what my heart desires—it's truly a marvelous thing. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Hermit

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner 以前總會說，「太陽底下確實沒有什麼新鮮事」，安撫著大驚小怪，呼天搶地的人們。 這幾年高科技的發展，去除掉人的貪念，對於權勢的慾望而製造許多的戰爭、紛爭以外。 我想以前的網路免費電話和視訊，到近年的人工智能，這應該都是新鮮事了吧。 從去年開始參加一些學習課程，有些內容聽著聽著就覺得索然無味，有些課程不僅是津津有味，連班上同學看起來都可愛極了，這真是很棒的收穫。 想要學習的思緒與心情延續到了今年。 最近的我要在二個半月內學會三到四個電腦軟體。 第一個禮拜，同學們是收穫頗豐，我是挫折滿滿。 後來才知道只有我和另一位同學從未接觸過這些軟體，其他同學感覺是再進修，再研習的。 上週和家人及朋友打趣道，「我這輩子最認真學習的時光就是現在呢。」 上課認真，尤其是週一到週五的電腦軟體課程，連分心都不敢，一恍神就完全聽不懂，原本就跟不上的我，每堂課都在追趕著大家的背影中度過。 週末假日的課程是完全不同領域，也會有專業內容，艱澀難懂。 雖然忙碌成這樣，每一日，我都覺得有趣極了。 每天就只有進步一點點的進展，也都讓我開心，快樂，還有感到滿足。 雖然我也很想念無所事事的美好，無所事事的另一種充實生活，不過能有新學習，交到新朋友，每天都有話題閒扯，沖淡學習挫折的心情，很是精實的生活。 今天的塔羅牌是『學習者』。 這是我最近的生活寫照呢！ 『學習者』 ~ 允許自己像個孩童般探索著愛情或情感。 沒有一份感情是可以複製、貼上的那樣相似。 獨立的特質，獨立的思考，獨立的情感，獨立的反應，又會因不同的對象，不同的角色，不同的經歷，不同的人格，激盪豐富多元的火花。 這就是人與人相處最為迷人的地方了。 我渴望財富，卻也有許多堅持。 違心的錢，不賺。 雖然我被一些誆過，尤其是保險員。 我不懂的情況下做了錯誤的決定，這樣的虧損，我自己認了。 為了個人業績，沒考量到客戶的需求與經濟情況，為賺佣金而舌燦蓮花，這樣的金錢，這一生的你認為那些是你應得的報酬。 這並非說業務不能賺佣金，賺，當然可以，但若有點欺瞞，有點訛詐，有點規避，有點說謊，那就是很不厚道的事情。 對於金錢，對於財富，我們也需一段時間就思考和釐清，去察覺對金錢的看法和評價。 與健康相比，金錢是在甚麼位置？ 可，沒有了金錢，又要如何照顧到健康？ 多次媒體報導，在許多國家，很多肥胖的人，健康都很不好，但為何無法改變現況，甚至越來越糟糕？ 因為貧窮。 因為便宜的食物很多都是我們所謂的垃圾食物。 曾經我也想嘗試運用綠茶鐵，來改善身體狀況。 購買可以製作一杯綠拿鐵的食材費用是昂貴的，至少是我沒辦法輕鬆負擔得。 健康，無價。 生病，標價。 擁有健康，得有金錢支撐。 關於財富，我們除了學習或試著深思以外，難道就舉手投降，放棄？ 非也。 非也。 關於財富，這也是專業、精深且博大的知識及技能架構出來的。 可，我們可以慢慢學，學習我們需要理解的部分。 對我們的理財、投資或者是規劃，都會有不小的幫助。 持續學習，長久學習。 這不容易，除了毅力外，還要抱持對知識，對資訊的好奇心，渴望和期待裡面的知識有多棒。 寶藏，都是神秘且不容易發覺，挖掘到的。 要知道哪裡有寶藏，得先學習甚麼是寶藏。 還有挖掘、保存、運送、市場與銷售等等的事項要知曉。 唯一之法，學習。 對我來說，學習，真的是挺有意思的。 Today's Tarot: Learner (May 21, 2024) In the past, people often said, "There is nothing new under the sun," to soothe those who were easily startled and panicked. However, recent advancements in high technology have proven otherwise, aside from the greed for power that leads to wars and conflicts. From free internet calls and video chats in the past to the artificial intelligence of recent years, these indeed are new developments. Since last year, I’ve been participating in various learning courses. Some of them are quite dull, while others are not only fascinating but also make the classmates look extremely adorable. This has been a wonderful experience. My eagerness to learn continues this year. Recently, I’ve committed to learning three to four computer software programs within two and a half months. The first week, while my classmates gained a lot, I felt immense frustration. I later found out that only one other classmate and I had no prior experience with these software programs; the rest were just refreshing and furthering their knowledge. Last week, I joked with my family and friends, "The most diligent learning period of my life is now." I attend classes seriously, especially the computer software courses from Monday to Friday. I dare not let my mind wander for a moment, or I’d completely lose track. Each class is a race to catch up with everyone else. Weekend courses are in entirely different fields, also involving specialized content that is complex and challenging. Despite being so busy, I find each day incredibly interesting. Even a little progress every day makes me happy, joyful, and satisfied. Though I miss the bliss of idleness and the fulfilling life it brings, I cherish new learning experiences, making new friends, and having daily conversations that lighten the mood from learning setbacks. It’s a truly enriching life. Today's tarot card is 'Learner'. This reflects my current lifestyle perfectly! Learner Allow yourself to explore love or emotions like a child. No relationship can be copied and pasted to be the same. Independent characteristics, independent thoughts, independent emotions, and independent reactions will generate rich and diverse sparks due to different individuals, roles, experiences, and personalities. This is the most charming aspect of human interactions. I yearn for wealth, but I also have my principles. I won’t earn money against my conscience. Though I’ve been deceived before, especially by insurance agents, I acknowledge my mistakes when I made wrong decisions out of ignorance. For those who eloquently sell insurance for their commission without considering the clients' needs and financial situations, the money they earn might seem like their rightful reward to them. This isn't to say that agents shouldn't earn commissions; they can, but if there's deception or dishonesty involved, it’s unethical. Regarding money and wealth, we need time to think and clarify our perceptions and evaluations of money. Compared to health, where does money stand? Without money, how can we maintain our health? Many media reports indicate that in many countries, overweight individuals often have poor health. Why can't they change their situation, or why does it worsen? Because of poverty. Cheap food is often what we call junk food. I once tried to use green tea iron to improve my health. However, the cost of ingredients to make a cup of green latte was too high for me to afford easily. Health is priceless. Illness has a price tag. To maintain health, financial support is essential. Besides learning or contemplating wealth, should we just surrender and give up? No, absolutely not. Wealth is built on extensive and profound knowledge and skills. But we can learn gradually, understanding the parts we need. This will greatly benefit our financial management, investments, or planning. Continuous learning, lifelong learning. It’s not easy. It requires perseverance and a constant curiosity and enthusiasm for knowledge and information, eager to discover how wonderful it is. Treasures are mysterious and hard to find and uncover. To know where treasures are, we must first learn what they are. There are also aspects like excavation, preservation, transportation, market, and sales to understand. The only way is through learning. For me, learning is genuinely interesting. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Learner

Alyson’s 4/14 Tarot：力量 Strength (16-57)

Alyson’s 4/14 Tarot：力量 Strength (16-57) 問題：我4/13的未來日記主題 抽牌：力量 Strength 昨天參加一個培訓課程，關於協談，關於志工，關於自殺議題。 課程內容是嚴肅的，同學是親切的，老師們與主辦單位的人們很是溫柔。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/146682463 上午滿滿的四小時，有數據分析，有現況分享，有醫師專業知識的傳授。 下午滿滿的四小時，是團體課程，有遊戲，有認知，有分享。 上完一天課程結束後，回到家要寫功課，將一天的學習心得與團體體驗一一回饋。 將所有指定作業完成已凌晨。 太累了，沒有精神再提筆寫「未來日記」的塔羅日誌。 今天補上。(然後今天的，卻又得明天補了，希望明天我可以將進度趕上，別再拖延。) 今天「未來日記」的塔羅抽牌是「力量」。 完完全全地貼切著我今日一整天的學習課程。 我報名參加一個志工培訓課程。 這是『1995』是防治自殺專線志工培訓。 經過三階段的學習與評量後，方能成為志工，才能開始進行協助他人的事情。 若問我，那麼多的志工，為何選擇『1995』？ 很難回答這個問題，因沒有仔細酌量與思考過。 二十多年前知道『1995』，覺得這是很有意義的，且真摯佩服這些大愛的志工們。 這些是無名英雄，協助他人，是不留名，不現身的。 一直有想貢獻能力予社會的想法，在朋友號召下，連同我和幾位朋友就一起報名了。 曾有過想哭卻哭不出來的痛嗎？ 曾有過痛到心已麻痺，只覺空洞嗎？ 找不到生命的出口，眼前雖不是黑暗，但確實是看不清楚的。 在迷濛裡，沒有方向，心，虛浮著，恐懼驟升，無法停歇地慌。 可以跟誰說？ 會讓人擔心的。 會被人責罵的。 不安穩的心，煩憂的事情不間斷，何時可安歇？何處可安息？ 生命的幽谷，這路，多長？多窄？多暗？多讓人害怕？ 不經意掉下的小石，打在無處可躲藏的身心上，痛得眼淚逼出，沒人知道傷痕累累又疲乏的靈魂，早已蒼白無力。 如果，因為我短短的陪伴，靜靜的凝聽，電話那頭的陌生人，在這段時間裡放心地坦述，願意再多走一點點的路，我就會感受到值得。 疼惜每個受傷的靈魂，疼惜每個傷痕，疼惜每個痛苦和難過。 不懂，這世上為何就是有人忍心傷害他人？ 不懂，為何有時施暴者是那些受害者最親近，最親密的人？ 在這麼多不懂和問題下，解題或找到答案從來我就不擅長。 但我能”傾聽”，我能”陪伴”，我能”理解”。 我曾踏上山巔，我也曾走在山坡丘陵與小低谷裡。 低谷就已讓我難受與心傷，那些在幽谷小徑中走不出來的人，又是承受多少的傷和痛。 我認為能有幫助別人的機會，是幸運，是緣分。 我覺得能夠擁有能力去幫助別人，是幸福的人。 我想擁有幫助他人的能力並且也擁有幫助別人的機會，這是福氣，這是福報。 我會珍惜這堅守心智的”力量”。 我會守護好想要付出與貢獻的”心力”。 這是我的寶貝，要更加珍惜保護的寶貝。 「力量」這張塔羅牌，在埃及祭祀人員的頭上頂著一個大盤，上面有顆蛋型狀的寶物，這是讓人用生命，用誓言，用心保護守護的。 如同，我想保守住自己堅強的心志，保守住自己內心的信念與期盼。 ”將愛傳下去” ~ 傳給需要的人。 親愛的宇宙，請賜予我溫柔的力量，堅定的力量，希望的力量。 Alyson's 4/14 Tarot: Strength (16-57) Question: My theme for the diary of 4/13 Card Drawn: Strength Yesterday, I attended a training course on negotiation, volunteering, and suicide prevention. The content of the course was serious, the classmates were friendly, and the teachers and organizers were very gentle. The morning session was packed with four hours of data analysis, current situation sharing, and imparting professional knowledge from doctors. The afternoon session, also four hours long, consisted of group activities, cognitive exercises, and sharing. After completing a full day of classes, I returned home to do my homework, diligently reflecting on the day's learning and group experiences. I stayed up until the early hours of the morning to complete all the assigned tasks. I was too exhausted to muster the energy to write the Tarot journal for the "Future Diary" yesterday. Today, I'm catching up. (And then, today's, which will have to be postponed until tomorrow, hoping I can catch up with my progress tomorrow and not procrastinate anymore.) Today's Tarot draw for the "Future Diary" is "Strength," perfectly reflecting my entire day of learning. I signed up for a volunteer training course. It's the "1995" Suicide Prevention Hotline Volunteer Training. After three stages of learning and assessment, one can become a volunteer and start helping others. If you were to ask me why I chose "1995" out of so many volunteer opportunities, it would be difficult to answer because I hadn't carefully considered or thought about it. More than twenty years ago, I learned about "1995" and felt it was meaningful. I truly admire these selfless volunteers. They are unsung heroes who assist others without seeking recognition or fame. I've always had the desire to contribute to society. At the urging of friends, a few of us signed up together. Have you ever experienced pain so intense that you couldn't cry? Have you ever felt so numb to the point of emptiness? Unable to find an exit from life's struggles, although not in darkness, everything seems blurry. Lost and directionless, with a floating heart, fear rises abruptly, and the panic is relentless. Who can you talk to? It would worry them. You'd be blamed. The restless heart, the continuous worry, When will it find peace? Where can it find solace? How long and narrow is the valley of life? How dark and terrifying is it? The small stones that fall inadvertently, hitting the body and mind with nowhere to hide, the pain forces tears out, but no one knows the soul, battered and weary, has long been pale and weak. If, because of my brief company, quiet listening, the stranger on the other end of the phone feels comfortable enough to confide and is willing to walk a little further, I feel it's worthwhile. Caring for every wounded soul, every scar, every pain and sorrow. Why is it that some people can hurt others without remorse? Why is it that sometimes the perpetrators are the ones closest to the victims? Under so many questions and uncertainties, I've never been good at finding solutions or answers. But I can "listen," I can "accompany," I can "understand." I've walked on mountain peaks, I've walked in hills and valleys. The valleys were already painful and heartbreaking for me. How much pain and hurt do those who can't find their way out of the dark paths of the valley endure? I believe having the opportunity to help others is fortunate, it's fate. I feel that having the ability to help others is a blessing. I want to have the ability to help others and also have the opportunity to help others; this is good fortune, this is karma. I will cherish the "Strength" of my perseverance. I will guard the "heart and soul" I want to contribute and give. It's my treasure, a treasure I must cherish and protect even more. The Tarot card "Strength" depicts a large disk resting on the heads of Egyptian priests, with an egg-shaped object on top, something to be protected with life, vows, and heart. Just as I want to preserve my strong determination and safeguard my inner beliefs and hopes. "Pass on the love" ~ Pass it on to those in need. Dear universe, please grant me gentle strength, firm strength, and hopeful strength. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Strength

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion 你是嚴格對待自己的人嗎？ 你是嚴肅要求他人的人嗎？ 你是凡事都認真看待的人嗎？ 你是每句話都在心裡牢牢記著的人嗎？ 當你沒達到自己設定的目標時，你有什麼感受？第一個冒出來的心情是哪一種？是否會分析失敗的原因？這樣的失敗又讓你如何看待自己？ 生自己的氣？ 對自己感到失望？ 當這麼多的負面情緒與想法在腦袋裡亂竄的時候，是否曾有過一絲絲的溫柔閃過？是否曾有想告訴自己一些體己話，「你做得很棒」，「你已盡了最大的努力」。 慈悲，我們會給予長者，給予弱者，給予父母，給予小孩，給予朋友。 慈悲，我們最常忘記給予自己。 在過去拼命的工作生涯中，當有臨時狀況發生的時候，我常會苛責自己，覺得自己能力太差，思慮粗糙，沒有事先設想好可能會發生的所有情況。 於是，在每次的專案活動結束後，我總是將剛結束的相關資料再翻閱一次，並將下次可注意的事情寫完整。 然後，在電腦資料夾裡預設一個下次類似專案的資料夾，裡面存放著我現在對於未來一年後類似活動的預設計劃草稿。 可能就是因為如此在那幾年裡我的身體每半年崩垮掉一次，每次需長達一週以上的時間才能慢慢恢復。 這幾天的身體和心理狀況，很是糟糕，無法進食，連藥粉或者是藥水，身體都會自主排斥的無法吞嚥，還會因過度抗拒而吐，體力更是無法支撐，只能昏睡。 多年後，我放過自己，離開了那個高壓的工作環境。 之前的嚴重內耗，身體反撲得厲害。 需付出的代價，直到今日仍未還清。 苦不堪言，也只能自己承受。 這真是自作虐，就難活的清爽自在。 看著身邊的朋友們，好多人對自己的要求始終都很高。 小說寫著霸道總裁總是很高、很帥、很冷漠，不管是哪項都是”很”這個最高等級。 現實生活中，在職場上，靠著自己拚到一個位置的人，都是很認真、很賣命、很勞碌，也是哪項都是”很”這個等級。 還會被要求高情商、高度協調、高度配合、高度抗壓、高度耐操。 看著社會上那麼多人拚著命，賣著健康的努力，也沒什麼事發生，自己也會是那個幸運兒吧。 可，誰又能保證誰不會是那個”萬中選一”的呢？ 在你的心中，你認為「慈悲」是什麼？ 你如何看待「慈悲」？ 在悲傷的時刻，還能惦記到別人的好，這是共情，是體貼，也是一種慈悲。 倘若在憤怒之際，怒火要噴天時，突然想到對方過去的貼心和彼此間曾有過的笑容，瞬間冷靜下來了，我覺這是一種對他人和對自己的慈悲。 我覺得若眼前的人是曾經欺侮過你，辜負過你的人，懇求你的協助和放下昔日的糾葛，而你，放下了，也放過了，這不只是慈悲；若用這幾年的網路小說用詞，這是聖母神佛層級的大愛，我自認為做不到。 領航者塔羅對於『慈悲』這張牌是這樣認為的 ~ 在愛的世界裡，你是善於為愛注入溫暖和祥和能量的，有你在的場子，大家都會感受到和樂和喜悅。 總是有強大的共情力和同理心，在你的心中及懷抱裡，總是有更多的諒解與更多的寬容。 慈悲有著一隻黃金佛手印，這手印賦予著抽到牌的人，運用慈愛、療癒力及安定力量，去協助與療癒跟你請求指引的人。 因為心懷慈悲，心胸寬大，財運總是會跟隨著善良的人。 財富，範圍不是只有金錢與俗稱的財產，還有許多非具體或實際的。 常有機緣與陌生之人有場愉快的邂垢，就是一種美好的財富。 佛教認為「慈悲」是複合詞，由四無量心的「慈」與「悲」合成，其意義相近。 在網路上看到一位佛教宗師對於「慈悲」的講解，與我內心的以為很是貼近。 「慈悲，原是佛教用語，拆開來看，「慈」是把快樂給人，「悲」是拔一切眾生苦。眾生有苦，我們幫助他解決，帶給他快樂，這個心就叫「慈悲心」。金菩提宗師教導大家：「真正的慈悲就是特別的愛，就像母親呵護孩子一樣的精神特質，包含關懷、包容、真誠、愛心，還有一顆善解人意之心。」慈悲所產生的愛是非常廣博的，他對所有生命都心懷慈悲，從自然界中的山川、河流、鮮花、動物，到任何需要幫助的人，都具有一種憐憫、慈悲之心。」 基督教 「慈悲是讓一個人得到比他應得的還更寬容的對待。 透過耶穌基督的贖罪，才可能有慈悲。 我們的天父知道我們有弱點和罪。 祂寬恕我們的罪，幫助我們回去與祂同住，這就是慈悲的表現。」 不管是哪一種信仰，或是沒有任何信仰。 我覺「慈悲」，是從小我，小愛出發，懂得愛自己的人，不須提醒，自然能夠覺察到別人的用心和難處，會因理解、體諒而溫柔。 慈悲就如同”善”，像漣漪一圈一圈擴散了出去，永不停歇。 資料來源：金菩提宗師 https://www.jinbodhi.org/79729/ Today's Tarot: Compassion Are you someone who holds yourself to strict standards? Are you demanding of others? Do you take everything seriously? Do you hold onto every word spoken? When you don't reach your set goals, how do you feel? What's the first emotion that surfaces? Do you analyze the reasons for failure? How does such failure make you see yourself? Do you get angry with yourself? Do you feel disappointed? Amidst the chaos of so many negative emotions and thoughts swirling in your mind, have you ever felt a hint of tenderness? Have you ever wanted to tell yourself some comforting words like "You did great" or "You've done your best"? Compassion, we give it to elders, to the weak, to parents, to children, to friends. Compassion, the one we often forget to give to ourselves. During my years of relentless work, whenever unexpected situations arose, I often blamed myself, feeling inadequate and poorly prepared, failing to anticipate all possible scenarios. So, after every project, I would review the relevant materials and jot down things to pay attention to next time. Then, I would create a folder in my computer for similar future projects, storing drafts of plans for activities similar to what I had just finished. Perhaps because of this, my body collapsed every six months during those years, taking over a week each time to slowly recover. These past few days, my physical and mental condition has been terrible, unable to eat, unable to swallow even powdered medicine or liquid without my body rejecting it, even vomiting due to excessive resistance, and my strength unable to sustain me, only able to fall into a deep sleep. Years later, I forgave myself and left that high-pressure work environment. The severe internal strain from before led to a strong backlash from my body. The price to pay, still not fully settled until today. It's unbearable, but I have to endure it myself. It's truly self-inflicted suffering, making it difficult to live comfortably and freely. Looking at my friends around me, so many of them have high demands on themselves. Novels depict dominant CEOs as tall, handsome, and aloof, everything being "very" to the highest degree. In real life, those who rise through the ranks in the workplace through their own efforts are very serious, hardworking, and diligent, also embodying "very" in every aspect. They are also expected to have high emotional intelligence, high coordination ability, high cooperation, high resistance to pressure, and high endurance. Seeing so many people in society striving and sacrificing their health without much happening, could I also be one of the lucky ones? But who can guarantee that one won't be the "one in a million"? In your heart, what do you think "compassion" is? How do you view "compassion"? In moments of sadness, being able to remember the good in others is empathy, thoughtfulness, and also a form of compassion. If in anger, when the flames are about to erupt, suddenly remembering the intimacy of the past and the smiles shared, instantly calming down, I think this is a form of compassion for both others and oneself. If the person in front of you is someone who has once mistreated you, disappointed you, and now seeks your help and forgiveness, and you, being able to let go and forgive, this is not just compassion; in terms of the internet novels of recent years, this is a level of great love akin to a saint or a deity, something I believe I couldn't achieve. According to the Navigator Tarot, this card "Compassion" is seen as follows ~ In the world of love, you are adept at infusing warmth and peaceful energy into love. Wherever you are, everyone will feel joy and happiness. You always possess strong empathy and compassion. In your heart and arms, there is always more understanding and tolerance. Compassion bears a golden Buddha's palm imprint. This imprint endows the one drawing the card with the ability to use love, healing, and stabilizing power to assist and heal those who seek guidance from you. Because of compassion and generosity, wealth always follows the kind-hearted. Wealth, its scope is not limited to just money and material possessions, there are also many intangible or abstract forms. There are often opportunities to have pleasant encounters with strangers, which is a kind of beautiful wealth. In Buddhism, "compassion" is a compound word, composed of the "loving-kindness" (maitri) and "compassion" (karuna) of the Four Immeasurables, with similar meanings. I saw an explanation of "compassion" by a Buddhist master on the internet, which resonated deeply with my inner thoughts. He said: "Compassion, originally a Buddhist term, when broken down, 'loving-kindness' is giving happiness to others, and 'compassion' is alleviating the suffering of all beings. When beings suffer, we help them solve their problems and bring them happiness. This heart is called 'compassionate.' Master Jin Bodhi teaches us: 'True compassion is a special kind of love, like the spirit of a mother caring for her child, including caring, tolerance, sincerity, love, and understanding of others.' The love generated by compassion is very extensive, with compassion for all life, from the mountains and rivers of the natural world, to flowers, animals, and any people in need, having a heart of compassion and mercy." In Christianity, "Compassion" is treating someone more leniently than they deserve. Compassion is only possible through the atonement of Jesus Christ. Our Father knows our weaknesses and sins. He forgives our sins and helps us return to dwell with Him, which is the expression of compassion. Regardless of the faith, or lack thereof, I believe "compassion" starts from loving oneself and understanding oneself, without needing reminders, naturally able to perceive others' intentions and difficulties, responding with gentleness due to understanding and empathy. Compassion is like "goodness," spreading out like ripples, never ceasing. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Compassion

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment 這週末週日，很靜。 靜得連門都沒走出去。 想到外面赤熱的太陽，想著自己很難承受溫度急冷急熱的變化，還是別出門找罪受了。 在家，有冷氣，有食物，雖沒有奢華享受，可自己的窩，怎麼待怎麼舒服。 曾有人跟我說，沒出門的日子，怎是過充實的生活呢？ 這道理，其實我是比較沒有辦法接受的，但不評論。 雖然我認為充實生活，為何一定要出門才能擁有。 不過，大家對於充實生活的定義不同，那也就不奇怪想法不一致了。 只是，今天恐會讓大家失望的是，今天的塔羅牌，沒有抽到直接的，顯而易見的正向牌卡。 今天的塔羅牌是『失望』。 對什麼失望呢？ 對人？ 對事？ 對自己？ 對結果？ 我查看了自己今日的行事曆，沒有大事，難道這樣就不擔心會發生失望的情況嗎？ 非也。 我對自己失望的，不會只有今天。 課程結束之後這些天來，蠻多天我都因自己的消極感到失望。 明明，需要做的事情那麼多。 明明，塔羅閱讀師的事情目前是半吊子狀態，還欠一些資料沒提供給老師，可就是沒開始進行。 但我卻仍沒重整好自己。 維基百科裡寫道，「失望是人類情緒的一種，是由於沒有達到某種期望或實現希望的情況而產生的不滿足而導致的情緒。失望和後悔有類似之處，不同之處在於後悔的情緒是由先前的選擇導致了令人不滿的結果而造成，而失望情緒則更多是由於令人不滿的結果，與造成這種結果的原因關聯不大。失望是人的心理壓力的來源之一。研究失望情緒的起因、表現和對人行為、意識的影響是心理學的課題之一。」 失望，是對現況，對當下的情緒。 要如何跨越失望？ 是要等時間過去？ 還是已想好如何主動出擊？ 失望，也會積累。 我曾因積累了太多的失望，對人雖沒產生絕望的心情，可也距離不遠了。 因那時的我對任何人都不感興趣，也不想交流。 是很大的打擊之後的正常反應。 是被背叛欺負之後的正常反應啊！ 於是學習到了，不將自己的情感寄託在他人身上。 先愛自己，且是很愛很愛的程度。 別人如何待我，不好的態度，那就笑看唄，可若是彼此開心互動與往來，當然就是歡喜接受。 不受別人惡意的行徑給困擾。 失望因此就減少。 既然今天塔羅牌是『失望』，那就讓我們小心點行事。 在沒能力對抗或衝破之前，我們躲，我們閃，總可以做到的，是吧。 2024/07/01 Today's Tarot: Disappointment This Sunday was very quiet. So quiet that I didn't even step outside. Thinking of the scorching sun outside and knowing I can hardly withstand sudden changes in temperature, I decided not to go out and suffer. At home, there's air conditioning, food, and while it's not luxurious, my own space is always the most comfortable. Someone once told me, how can you live a fulfilling life without going out? Honestly, I can't quite accept this notion, but I won't argue. I believe that a fulfilling life doesn't necessarily require going out. However, everyone has a different definition of a fulfilling life, so it's not surprising that opinions vary. But today, I might disappoint everyone because today's tarot card is not directly and obviously positive. Today's tarot card is "Disappointment." Disappointed by what? People? Things? Oneself? Results? I checked my schedule for today and there are no major events. Does that mean there's no worry of being disappointed? Not really. I'm often disappointed in myself, and today is no exception. For many days after my course ended, I've been feeling disappointed in my own passivity. Clearly, there's so much to be done. Clearly, I'm still halfway through my tarot reading assignments, with some materials still pending for my teacher, yet I haven't started. But I still haven't managed to pull myself together. Wikipedia states, "Disappointment is a type of human emotion, arising from unfulfilled expectations or hopes. It is similar to regret, but while regret is caused by unsatisfactory results due to previous choices, disappointment is more related to unsatisfactory outcomes, regardless of the cause. Disappointment is a source of psychological stress. Studying the causes, manifestations, and effects of disappointment on human behavior and consciousness is one of the subjects of psychology." Disappointment is an emotion tied to the current state, to the present moment. How do we overcome disappointment? Do we wait for time to pass? Or have we already figured out how to take the initiative? Disappointment can also accumulate. I once accumulated so much disappointment that, although I didn't become completely hopeless about people, I wasn't far from it. At that time, I had no interest in anyone and didn't want to interact. It was a normal reaction after a significant blow. It's a normal reaction after being betrayed and bullied! So I learned not to place my emotional reliance on others. First, love yourself, and love yourself deeply. How others treat me—if it's negative, I'll just laugh it off, but if we have happy interactions, then I'll gladly accept. Don't let others' malicious actions bother you. This way, disappointment decreases. Since today's tarot card is "Disappointment," let's be cautious in our actions. Until we have the ability to confront or overcome it, we can avoid it. We can dodge it, can't we? #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Disappointment

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2024 0513今日塔羅：突破 Breakthrough

2024 0513今日塔羅：突破 Breakthrough 剛稍早，雷神可能這次不在團隊內，天空先悶了一些時間，然後碰一聲，大雨直接傾落，連反應的時間都沒有，若人在外面，妥妥成了落湯雞。 人生會有這樣類似的情景，沒有個心理準備，馬上來個大轉變，幾乎通常都是”無常”這腳色的主場。 一瞬間，天雲變色。 一瞬間，山崩地裂。 一瞬間，意外傷亡鐵錚錚的事實，從前再也無法挽回。 今日跟朋友聊著生活，聊著人生，聊著”變數”，剎那間，對於努力前進和拼命動力，有著嘆息的句點。 可是，人生路上，就是這樣，想法改變沒有停止線。 感嘆是一時，計畫與周全是一世。 我們在嘆息聲中領悟。 我們在挫折聲中成長。 我們在悲憤淚水裡立志更加堅強。 我們在打擊崩垮下濛濛渺渺茫茫。 有句歌詞，「愛情就像一條河，每個人都是摸著石頭過河。」 人生，不也是，像一條河，有奔騰，有停滯，有涓涓細流，有深深的漩渦。 今天的塔羅牌是『突破』。 讓我想起以往工作經驗的習慣。 工作，難免會遇到困境，面臨僵局。 我會視情況而思考要如何面對。 有種事情屬於非常重要等級，不過節奏不須太急躁，因重要而無法輕鬆面對，任何的動作皆會影響後續發展與發酵，但還有時間可以酌量。 這時，建議採取的方式”緩”或”暫停”。 等局勢。 局勢先動，我們再伺機調整行動。 也會有這樣的事情，重要且急的事情，且已非初次站在擂台上的局，奪得先機是攸關未來走向甚至結局如何。 『突破』是我曾採用過，且成功的戰略。 而進行突破之前，得先破除僵局。 僵局破除之法在於『突破』之道。 所謂『突破』 ~ 不是”甘願與否”、”願不願意”或”想不想要”的衡量與思考。 面臨的是就是必須轉變，必須調整，必須改變。 帶著急迫的節奏。 帶著且戰且走且調整的謀略。 考驗的是危機處理能力，冷靜思考能力與團戰是否共心。 提刀上馬，勇往直前，跳躍障礙，衝過攔阻，是最佳制敵之心法。 在戰場上，不能讓猶豫拉垮行動力，不能讓三心兩意澆熄戰鬥力。 去吧！衝吧！實踐吧！ 像奔騰跳躍中的駿馬 ~ 蹬！跳躍！漂亮！完美落地！ Today's Tarot: Breakthrough Just a while ago, it seemed like Thor wasn't on the team this time. The sky stayed cloudy for a while, then with a crash, heavy rain poured down without warning, leaving no time for reaction. If you were caught outside, you'd be soaking wet in an instant. Life can throw us similar situations. Without mental preparation, sudden major changes occur, often with the role of "impermanence" taking center stage. In an instant, the sky changes color. In an instant, mountains crumble. In an instant, the harsh reality of unexpected casualties, irretrievable once gone. Today, chatting with friends about life, about the variability of life, there was a sigh, a punctuation mark to the efforts and driving force to move forward. Yet, on the path of life, thoughts change without a stop sign. Sighing is momentary; planning and consideration are lifelong. We find understanding amidst sighs. We grow amidst setbacks. We resolve to be stronger amidst tears of frustration. We navigate through the haze amidst crushing blows. There's a lyric that goes, "Love is like a river, everyone is feeling their way through." Isn't life, too, like a river? It rushes, it stagnates, it trickles, it swirls deep. Today's Tarot card is 'Breakthrough'. It reminds me of habits from past work experiences. In work, encountering difficulties and facing deadlocks is inevitable. I assess how to proceed based on the situation. Some matters are of utmost importance but don't require haste. Because of their significance, they can't be approached lightly; any action will affect subsequent developments and outcomes, but there's still time for deliberation. In such cases, it's advisable to take a "slow" or "pause" approach. Wait for the situation to unfold. Let the situation move first, then adjust our actions accordingly. There are also situations that are both important and urgent, and it's not the first time facing such challenges. Seizing the initiative is crucial for determining future outcomes and even the final result. 'Breakthrough' is a strategy I've employed before and succeeded with. But before a breakthrough can happen, the deadlock must be broken. The method to break the deadlock lies in the path of 'Breakthrough'. The so-called 'Breakthrough' isn't about whether one is willing or unwilling, or whether one wants it or not. It's about the necessity of change, adjustment, and transformation. It's urgent. It requires a strategy of fighting while adapting. It tests crisis management abilities, the capacity for calm reflection, and whether the team is united. Take up the sword, mount the horse, advance courageously, leap over obstacles, and charge through barriers; this is the best strategy for defeating the enemy. On the battlefield, hesitation dulls action; wavering weakens combat prowess. Go forth! Charge! Act! Like a spirited horse leaping forward—kick, leap, elegant, perfect landing! #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Breakthrough

2024 0412 今日塔羅：大師 Master

2024 0412 今日塔羅：大師 Master https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/146350390 哈囉！ 昨天過得如何呢？ 有收穫到開心的事情，或讓你感到喜悅的事情嗎？ 還是遇到了故人，彼此溫暖問候了？ 在經歷過一天枯燥無味的理論課程轟炸後，又被一位粗魯沒有禮貌的人給影響了心情。 我告訴自己，不要生氣，沒有必要。 轉頭卻又覺得，為何我不能生氣？為何我要勸自己不要生氣？ 就在這樣反覆猶豫的態度下，車子抵達運動場。 就先把情緒發洩在每一個努力運動的步伐裡。 還好，我沒有因一個無關緊要的人而忘記自己的計畫。 還好，我沒有因一時情緒低落的情況而疏忽自己的健康。 還好，我始終都知道，稍早的那人說的話，是她對自己的嫌棄，而她自己受不了，於是找人代受。 她是一個怎麼樣的人，與我無關緊要。 打明兒起，遠離。 走了幾千步，心情平靜。 這時夕陽讓天空瀰漫著霧狀般的橘。 很美。 經過一個街角，隨手一拍。 回到家後才發現竟然拍到很不錯的照片。 我是幸運的孩子。 我是受老天眷顧的孩子。 今天的塔羅牌抽到「大師 Master」。 宇宙說，已累積足夠經驗的我們，擁有過不少成就感的我們，懷抱過一些成功的我們，掌握了一些人生歷練的我們，是時候該回饋一下了。 在群體中已非初生之犢的我們，要時刻保持謙虛，要懂得分享與提攜，懂得”正確生活之道”，就也要開始執行。 心，不要只掛念著職位、名聲和權勢。 是該想想提攜後進的事情了。 就如同，過去我們也是受前輩的指導與提攜，才有後面發光的自己。 人生的回憶，不要只有工作。 陪伴你一起走的生命之路，不應該是同事、競爭對手這些過客。 真誠得說 ~ 沒有什麼職位值得我們耗盡人生的大部分時間去拚搏。 沒有什麼職位值得我們犧牲人生的更重要人事去佔有。 Today's Tarot: The Master Hello! How was your day yesterday? Did you have any joyful experiences or encounters with old friends that warmed your heart? After enduring a dull bombardment of theoretical lectures, my mood was further affected by the rudeness of someone. I told myself not to get angry, that it wasn't worth it. But then I wondered, why shouldn't I be angry? Why should I try to convince myself not to be? With this conflicting attitude, I arrived at the sports ground. I let out my emotions with every determined step in my workout. Fortunately, I didn't forget my plans because of an insignificant person. Fortunately, I didn't neglect my health due to a temporary low mood. Fortunately, I always knew that what that person said was more about their own insecurities than about me. Who she is doesn't matter to me. Starting tomorrow, I'll keep my distance. After walking a few thousand steps, my mood calmed down. The sunset cast a misty orange glow across the sky. It was beautiful. At a street corner, I snapped a quick photo. Only when I got home did I realize it was actually quite good. I am a lucky child. I am a child blessed by fate. Today's Tarot card is "The Master." The universe says that for those of us who have accumulated enough experience, achieved some successes, felt some accomplishments, and learned some life lessons, it's time to give back. For those of us no longer newcomers in our communities, we must always remain humble, share our knowledge, and support others. As we understand the "way of correct living," we must start to put it into practice. We shouldn't just focus on positions, reputation, and power. It's time to think about supporting the next generation, just as we were guided and supported by our predecessors. Life memories shouldn't only consist of work. The companions on our life journey shouldn't be just colleagues or competitors passing through. To be honest, No position is worth sacrificing the majority of our lives to strive for. No position is worth sacrificing more important aspects of life to obtain. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Master

Alyson’s 5/13 Tarot：壓抑 Oppression  (45-57)

Alyson’s 5/13 Tarot：壓抑 Oppression (45-57) 問題：我5/12的未來日記主題 抽牌：壓抑 Oppression 有一些事情，即使到老可能都不習慣。 有一種心情，即使到老可能都仍無法平靜。 人生難就難在”奢求”。 奢求在無法改變的事情面前是那樣蒼白無力。 只能”躲”或是”避”降低衝擊的力道。 隨著時間的堆砌，表面越來越可以平面如鏡。 幸福的是，今天，有好友。 一起吃早餐，聊聊近況，很久沒見，總是有許多話想說。 在這樣特別的日子裡，在自己已是局外人的現實中， 有人陪伴，很是美好。 「陪伴，是最好的協助。」 若是一個人，不至於情緒崩潰，但壓抑的內心，會在不自覺中襲擊。 在壓抑的日子裡， 一個人的時光，我不會出門。 我會在自己的小窩裡，也許發呆，也許閱讀。 煮一些菜，感覺餓的時候吃一些。 啃食蘋果，告訴自己好像健康有多一點點。 在自己的小窩，自在，隨心。 讓『壓抑』在分秒針旋轉不停的時間中，慢慢消散，退去。 被束縛住，掙脫不開。 有時是自己不想解開，自己靠上了腳銬手鍊，在柔軟的心窩打上許許多多的結，無法輕易解開。 有的時候，束縛，是因想牢牢惦記。 在烏鴉鴉的小黑屋裡，阻斷了交流，阻斷了感受。 而這樣，好嗎？ 甜美的生活，誰都想。 清新的日子，誰都愛。 沒有對照，哪來的觸動。 逃避不了的時候，也可不用逼自己一定要勇敢面對。 情緒、心情，不管是喜樂還是生氣、悲傷，都會因時間而平息下來。 感覺壓抑的時候，放過自己吧，這段時間就當作自己在進行心靈大掃除，然後面對的大魔王是抽油煙機。 慢慢地梳理，慢慢地清洗。 累了，倦了，乏了，那就歇息吧。 Alyson's 5/13 Tarot: Oppression (45-57) Question: My theme for 5/12's future journal Card Drawn: Oppression There are things, even in old age, that one may never get accustomed to. There's a state of mind that may never find peace, even in old age. The difficulty of life lies in "yearning." Yearning feels so feeble when faced with the unchangeable. One can only "hide" or "avoid," diminishing the force of impact. With time, the surface becomes as smooth as a mirror. Thankfully, today, there are good friends. Having breakfast together, catching up on recent events. It's been a while since we've seen each other, always plenty to talk about. On such a special day, in the reality where I'm already an outsider, having someone accompany me is truly wonderful. "Companionship is the best assistance." If one were alone, emotional breakdown might not occur, but the suppressed heart would strike unwittingly. On days of oppression, I won't venture outside alone. I'll stay in my own little corner, perhaps daydreaming, perhaps reading. Cooking some food, eating when hunger strikes. Nibbling on an apple, convincing myself I'm a little healthier. In my own cozy corner, at ease, carefree. Letting 'oppression' dissipate, slowly fade away in the relentless ticking of the clock. Bound, unable to break free. Sometimes it's because I don't want to untie myself, I've tied myself up in handcuffs, knots in the soft cocoon of my heart, not easily undone. Sometimes, bondage is because of a desire to cling tightly. In the dark little room, communication is cut off, feelings are blocked. Is this okay? Everyone wants a sweet life. Everyone loves fresh days. Without contrast, where's the stimulation? When escape is impossible, there's no need to force oneself to face it bravely. Emotions, moods, whether joy or anger, sadness, will all subside with time. When feeling oppressed, give yourself a break. Consider this time as a spiritual spring cleaning, facing the big boss being the kitchen exhaust fan. Slowly tidy up, slowly cleanse. If you're tired, weary, exhausted, then rest. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Oppression

《慾望城市》經典金句，１０句多愛自己的經典名言：我們會留著不再穿的裙子，但我們會把不需要的男人丟掉

慾望城市應該是很多女生都看過的經典，現在串流平台上終於要上架了，已經等不及要重刷一遍凱莉的生涯了！在看劇之前先來回顧一下，在劇中１０句多愛自己的經典名言吧！ 「要走出一段感情，需要的時間是你們交往總時間的一半。」—夏綠蒂 “It takes half the total time you went out with someone to get over them.” —Charlotte 儘管不是每個人的狀況都是這樣需要時間消化，但在全心全意付出的情況下，這句話真的很貼近現實狀況。 單身才不代表沒人愛妳。而是代表妳很完美，並且能夠決定妳想要什麼樣子的生活、選擇要和誰一起走過人生的每個片段。– 凱莉 Being single used to mean that nobody wanted you. Now it means you’re pretty sexy and you’re taking your time deciding how you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with. – Carrie 不得不說，單身絕對是最自由的狀態，因為選擇多，時間也多，而且通常選擇權都掌握在自己手上。 「聽我說，所謂對的人只是一種幻覺。去過自己的生活吧。」—莎曼珊 “Listen to me. The right guy is an illusion. Start living your lives.” —Samantha 儘管莎曼珊在第一季說出句非常犀利的話，但其實就是在訴說多多愛自己一點啊各位。 像我一樣生活吧！盡情享用男人，但不要期望他可以填滿妳的生活。– 莎曼珊 Go through life like I do: enjoy men, but don't expect them to fill you up.– Samantha 莎曼珊在劇裡面真的講出很多獨立女性的金句，敢愛敢放的個性真的太讓人喜歡！不要期望男人可以填滿你的生活，可以決定如何規劃跟填滿你生活的只有你自己。 我不會受任何人的批判，只要我還活著，我穿任何我想穿的衣服，睡任何我想睡的男人。– 莎曼珊 I will not be judged by you or society. I will wear whatever and blow whomever I want as long as I can breathe and kneel.– Samantha 正面看待身邊一些負能量跟道德綁架，選擇權在自己手中，別放棄了！ 我們會留著不再穿的裙子，但我們會把不需要的男人丟掉。– 凱莉 We keep dresses we’ll never wear again, but we throw away our ex-boyfriends. – Carrie 共勉之各位，戀戀不捨留在自己身上就好，對於不適合、單方面付出的愛，我們還是丟還給世俗吧！ 很多人說沒有事物是永恆的。夢想會改變、流行也會過去，但友情永遠都不會過時。– 凱莉 They say nothing lasts forever. Dreams change, trends come and go, but friendships never go out of style. – Carrie 唉雖然現實中凱莉跟莎曼珊兩個演員似乎是鬧翻的狀態，人心也容易變，但不得不說這也不能以偏概全，有些人在許多年過去，他還是在那裡默默支持你。 我們從頭到腳都沈浸在愛情裡，愛情是唯一永遠不褪流行的時尚。– 凱莉 We were dressed from head to toe in love... the only label that never goes out of style. – Carrie 愛自己、愛宇宙、愛身邊事物，愛是可以改變一個人整體氣場最重要的關鍵。 總有一天，會有一個人喜歡你的全部，了解你的一切缺點後，還是義無反顧的選擇愛上你。– 凱莉 Somewhere out there is another little freak who will love us and understand us and kiss our three heads and make it all better. – Carrie 「我在尋找愛情，真正的愛情。荒謬的、不順便的、消耗的、不能沒有對方的那種愛。」—凱莉 “I’m looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can’t-live-without-each-other love.” —Carrie 她在巴黎，身穿迪奧。最後一季的最後一集，我最愛最愛的台詞，也是典型凱莉式台詞，經歷了這麼多風波、跟人事物、還有不對的人，凱莉終於還是跟BIG在一起了嗚嗚! 雖然那時候看到BIG逃婚真的是差點把螢幕摔了... 雖然慾望城市最新的劇沒辦法看到四個人合體有點可惜，但慾望城市在我們心中的地位還是穩穩地~你心中最喜歡的金句是什麼呢?

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Alyson’s 4/15 Tarot：隱士 Hermit (17-57)

Alyson’s 4/15 Tarot：隱士 Hermit (17-57)

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0521今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

Alyson’s 4/14 Tarot：力量 Strength (16-57)

Alyson’s 4/14 Tarot：力量 Strength (16-57)

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0426 今日塔羅：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024最新！KPOP女藝人專輯銷量首週初動TOP10！aespa、NewJeans居冠亞，TWICE回歸創自身新高！

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