2024 0712 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0712 今日塔羅：改變 Change 昨晚跟家人們聊著關於大家都變老了的話題。 鬢如霜。 髮如雪。 時光易催容顏老。 駐顏有術，是另一話題，是我不熟悉的內容。 皺紋，是時光刻鏤的痕跡。 白髮，是智慧精粹的結果。 美麗，不應該被侷限於年輕如昔，貌美如春。 要改變的非外貌，而是觀念。 要改變的非外型，而是觀點。 從心底發出的想要的改變，那可真的是能讓人煥然一新的驚艷。 難免會遇到話不投機的人，說半句都嫌太多的時刻。 改變的不會是別人，若期望著，那是癡心妄想。 改變的從來就是自己。 不為別人而變。 為自己而改，為在乎的人而變。 改變，要忖度情勢。 在沙漠中建立水道，是憨傻，總不能真學愚公移山吧。 老想著改變，也得想想策略，也不能老是天馬行空，得實際一點。 改變，真的得改，尤其是現在變化快速的時代。 若問我，我如何改變？ 我，膽小，不敢太過冒險，一點一點慢慢改。 一段時間之後，再回首，改變的也就不只一點點。 Today's Tarot Reading: Change Last night, I talked with my family about how we're all getting older. Temples like frost. Hair like snow. Time quickly ages our appearance. Having techniques to retain youth is another topic, one I'm not familiar with. Wrinkles are the marks carved by time. White hair is the essence of wisdom. Beauty should not be limited to youthful looks and spring-like charm. What needs to change is not appearance, but perception. What needs to change is not form, but viewpoint. A change desired from the heart can truly bring a stunning transformation. It's inevitable to encounter people with whom conversations are difficult, and moments when even a few words feel too much. You can't change others; expecting that is wishful thinking. The one who changes is always oneself. Don't change for others. Change for yourself, and for those you care about. Change should consider the circumstances. Building a waterway in the desert is foolish; you can't really emulate Yu Gong moving mountains. Wanting change also requires strategy; you can't always be impractical, you need to be realistic. Change, indeed, needs to happen, especially in these rapidly changing times. If you ask me, how do I change? I am timid and afraid to take big risks, so I change little by little. After some time, looking back, the change is more than just a little. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Change

大娛樂家｜The Greatest Showman 🎬 

前幾天因為看完了 Sing-a-long The Greatest Showman！忍不住又去聽了一次他的所有歌曲，真的是太愛太喜歡這部電影/音樂劇了！每句歌詞都富有含意！每個人都是獨一無二，要活出自己，找回夢想的初衷，為夢想奮力一搏！！！ 故事劇情與歌曲 出生寒微的 P.T. Barnum 在豪宅遇見了有錢的富家千金 Charity 後，雙方一見鐘情，儘管他們來自截然不同的社會階層，這份愛情依然堅定不移，在結婚後，Barnum 更是懷抱著改變命運的夢想，立志要為 Charity 和他們的兩個女兒提供更好的生活，因而有了這首 A Million Dreams ，期望創造出他夢想中的世界～ They can say, they can say it all sounds crazy. They can say, they can say I've lost my mind. I don't care, I don't care, so call me crazy. We can live in a world that we design. 之後 Barnum 開了一間奇異博物館，展示世人不曾見過的東西，但沒什麼人光顧。在受到女兒的啟發說「爸爸，你的博物館需要活的東西」後，他決定召集各地的奇人異士，以每個人不同的特點作為宣傳，擁有天籟之聲的鬍子女、對人生充滿熱情的侏儒、愛爾蘭巨人、空中飛人兄妹等等，讓平時不被大眾所接受的人們獲得了勇氣，勇於站上舞台表現自己，讓獨一無二的秀活躍起來！透過 Come Alive 這首歌來傳遞積極、振奮人心的訊息，鼓勵人們甦醒、接納自我，並勇敢地追求夢想！ Cause you're just a dead man walking. Thinking that's your only option. But you can flip the switch and brighten up your darkest day. Sun is up and the color's blinding. Take the world and redefine it. Leave behind your narrow mind. You'll never be the same. Come alive! Come alive! 在成功演出一段時間、開始有了名氣後，Barnum 漸漸不滿於現狀，想要進入上流社會的階層中獲得認同，於是找了由 Zac Efron 飾演的富家子弟 Phillip，期望他能一同參與進他的事業中，而有了在酒吧中說服 Phillip 入股過程的歌 The Other Side !!! 這首歌是我裡面最喜歡的一首！特別的深入人心，看著酒杯一杯又一杯的在吧台上來回喝下，再配上輕快的舞蹈動作，整個畫面瞬間就讓人覺得富有了生命力，真的是超喜歡的一趴！而這一段其實也是我們很多人的縮影，在一個自己不喜歡的環境中，因為現實因素而屈就自己，自欺欺人地說自己過得很好、很適應，但其實或許是屈就於現實而不離開，但同時內心又總是有個夢，希望可以自由做自己，為自己的夢想拼一次！ So trade your typical, for something colorful And if it's crazy, live a little crazy You can play it sensible, a king of conventional Or you can risk it all and see 然而在獲得名聲後，Barnum 逐漸被眼前的利益蒙蔽了雙眼，從原本要讓世人看到每個人都是獨一無二的初衷，變成了追逐名利和炫耀，逐漸迷失了自我！他不再只是想帶給人們快樂，當初為了獲得更多掌聲的夢想也變調，陪伴家人的時間也越來越少，將馬戲團丟給合作夥伴 Phillip 經營，自己則帶著聲樂家 Jenny Lind 到處世界巡迴演出，因而有了這首表達人們內心總是慾望於窮的 Never Enough ！不僅僅象徵著不停往上爬、追求更大名利的 Barnum ，或許也同樣反映在我們的生活中！我們所追求的是什麼？是自我實現？是生活最低需求？還是盲目追求只為彌補內心的空虛，在我們努力地擠進社會時，可能連自己需要的是什麼都不知道，只是存粹想要填滿這永遠不滿足的空洞而已～ 在表演後，雖然受到了許多的掌聲，但同時他原先創辦的馬戲團也持續遭到保守派的謾罵和驅逐，而 Barnum 也被名利所蒙蔽，渴望被更高階層的人們接受，開始疏遠這些馬戲團成員，讓馬戲團成員們感受到深深的傷害和失望！他們意識到即是在 Barnum 建立的馬戲團內，他們依然被排除在外！於是，他們決定不再隱藏自我、也不再因為自己的不同感到羞恥，他們齊心協力，勇敢地站出來，不再躲避別人目光，驕傲地展示自己的身份和個性！這首 This is Me 也成為了宣告自我價值的宣言 !!! 也是這整部電影的核心展現 -- 「夢想與自我接納」，擁抱自己的不完美，不受外界的標籤而影響！ I am who I'm meant to beThis is me!!! 受到這首歌的鼓舞，Philip 重新審視了自己的價值觀，終於意識到規則並不是不可打破的，他和 Anne 也可以不理會社會的偏見，去書寫屬於他們自己的故事，因而有了這首 Rewrite the stars !!! 兩人用歌曲來對話，訴說著對於這份情感的堅定、迂迴、痛苦與真心，相互交疊碰撞，再搭配著空中飛人，真的是超級精彩！傳達出一種積極的力量 -- 我們可以選擇改變，不讓命運的星晨為我們做決定，而是由自己去書寫屬於自己的未來！ It's up to you, and it's up to me No one can say what we get to be So why don't we rewrite the stars Maybe the world could be ours tonight 接著，鏡頭再次切回 Barnum，為了掌聲、為了虛榮、為了證明自己不是弱勢，Barnum 透過與 Jenny Lind 的巡迴演出成功成為他心目中的上流成員！然而，在醜聞的發布、馬戲團因為一場惡意的火災而付之一炬、Barnum 和 Charity 感情的結束，一切回到原有生活後，他才終於看清一切，知道什麼才是自己所追求的夢！From now on 這首超讚的歌也因此誕生！ 在汲汲營營的過程中、在為追求掌聲時，我們也不知不覺地失去了很多，回過身來，從今天起，記起初衷，好好為自己、為愛你的人而努力！也許不受社會待見，but it is me，愛自己、肯定自己比什麼都重要，在努力地追逐自己的夢想時應謹記初衷往前進～～ For years and years, I chased their cheers The crazy speed of always needing more But when I stop, and see you here I remember who all this was for 最後，開頭和結尾都用同一首歌曲 The Greatest Show 相互應，迅速將觀眾引入 Barnum 的夢幻世界中，完全是視覺和聽覺的盛宴，從開始的雄心勃勃，到結尾的成就感，呼應了 Barnum 找回初衷並堅持了夢想，充分展現 Barnum 和他的馬戲團經歷重重挑戰後找回自我和成功的巔峰時刻，給這篇故事一個圓滿 Ending～ This is the greatest show !!! 這部《大娛樂家 The Greatest Showman》可以說是我最喜歡、也一直重溫的經典之作！在電影中，馬戲團不只是帶給台下的人歡笑，同時團員也因為這個馬戲團享受到人生第一次的開懷大笑，真正肯定自己、喜歡自己！而歌舞部分也可以說是這部片最厲害的地方！華麗的布景配上動人心弦的音樂，再加上劇情的進展與角色的內心，所帶來的撼動是無法言喻的，大大推薦給大家～～ （影片全部來源自 Youtube） 我是shana ！之後會繼續分享好玩好吃的生活呦 想看到更多關於我的旅遊＆美食分享～ 歡迎快快來追蹤我的IG和 PopDaily！ ! (直接點擊紫色字體就可以連結過去囉） IG：shanayyt PopDaily：shana 還有還有！喜歡這篇文章的話，別忘記幫我按讚、分享給身邊的朋友！ 其他文章： 📍美國洛杉磯旅遊懶人包 📍德國交換生活

2024 0617 今日塔羅：狂喜 Ecstasy

2024 0617 今日塔羅：狂喜 Ecstasy 週末週日有沒有玩樂、休息還是跟朋友、家人聚聚。 我連著兩天的學習，被考試、與朋友交流、聽講座、整理好久沒花時間整理的e-mail，這兩天的時光，超級精實，內容堅硬得可以打鐵了。 雖累，但歡喜。 雖乏，但滿足。 今日的塔羅牌是『狂喜』。 真是讓人期待會有什麼事情，讓我們的心情感到喜悅和開心，讓我們的情感覺得甜美和喜樂。 上週六，考試考得很差，不過，沒糾結，我志向沒啥志氣，只求過關，進階到下一階段。 考取最高分的兩位是我朋友們，看到我翹嘟嘟的表情，請我喝抹茶拿鐵，被這樣的關心和接住，很開心，很暖。 學習志工的課程內容中，被提醒著”傾聽”是最好的陪伴，在朋友群裡，關心、接住，再來一場談笑鬧場，外加一頓美食，當下真的會感覺人生一些關卡，也沒那麼嚴肅，沒那麼複雜。 常回頭看過往，不是還在糾結中，不過確實是心裡還沒放下，所以即使往前走，依然常常回首。 停留在心中的未必是那已不重要的人，有的時候是疙瘩，是傷痕，是自己想到都很想嘲弄嗤笑一聲的傻樣。 沒啥需要特別留意，再過個幾年，連笑談都不再記起這樁事了。 “當下”，是最美的一瞬間。 我蠻期待狂喜發生的當下，我會是什麼反應。 大叫，不太容易出現在我個人的反應項目裡。 呆愣，倒是很有可能，我的情緒反應線有時會非常延長，長到都已經散場了，我才反應過來，才想著怎剛剛沒有太好的回應。 『狂喜』 ~ 是享受著情感的甜美與喜悅。 是種輕飄飄飛上雲端的感受。 是想好好珍惜和讚嘆老天與世界。 是想最愛的人，最想念的人也能看到、分享到得願所償的感動。 宇宙說，當在職場上，能帶給他人喜樂的你，也能將這份才華創造出自己所想要的願景。 我曾經經歷過這樣的狂喜和喜樂，即使在收穫前，歷經許多的辛苦和漫長時間的經營。 豐沛且流動的情感，支持著我們勇敢前進，與人分享生命的美好，希望旁人也能夠擁有對於生命狂喜的感動與經歷。 我想，當心中有這樣的想法時，喜悅的種子已栽種在很多人的心中，即使他們不知道，你也不可能知道，這不會影響宇宙的運行和喜樂事情的發生。 享受吧！這被賜予的恩典。 Tarot for Today: Ecstasy (June 17, 2024) Did you spend the weekend having fun, relaxing, or gathering with friends and family? I spent both days studying, taking exams, chatting with friends, attending lectures, and sorting through long-neglected emails. These past two days have been incredibly productive and intense, almost as if the tasks were as hard as forging iron. Despite the exhaustion, there's a sense of joy. Though tired, I am satisfied. Today's tarot card is 'Ecstasy.' It's exciting to anticipate what might bring joy and happiness to our hearts, what might make our emotions feel sweet and delighted. Last Saturday, my exam didn't go well. But I'm not dwelling on it—my aim is not very ambitious; I just want to pass and move on to the next stage. The two highest scorers were my friends. Seeing my pouty face, they treated me to a matcha latte. Their care and support made me feel warm and happy. In the volunteer training course, I was reminded that "listening" is the best form of companionship. Among friends, showing concern, being there for each other, having a good laugh, and sharing a meal can make life's challenges seem less serious and complicated. I often look back at the past, not because I'm still tangled up in it, but because I haven't fully let go. Even as I move forward, I frequently glance back. What lingers in my heart isn't necessarily about those who are no longer important, but sometimes it's about unresolved issues, scars, or moments of foolishness that I now find laughable. There's no need to dwell on them. In a few years, even these memories might fade away. "The present moment" is the most beautiful instance. I'm quite curious about how I'll react when ecstasy occurs. Screaming isn't usually part of my reaction repertoire. Being stunned is more likely—I sometimes take so long to react that I only realize what's happened after the event has passed, wondering why I didn't respond better at the time. 'Ecstasy'~ It's about savoring the sweetness and joy of emotions. It's a feeling of floating up to the clouds. It's about cherishing and marveling at the universe and the world. It's wishing that the ones you love and miss can also see and share the joy of fulfilling dreams. The universe says that when you can bring joy to others in the workplace, you can also use this talent to create the vision you desire. I've experienced such ecstasy and joy before, even though it came after enduring a lot of hardship and a long period of effort. Abundant and flowing emotions support us to move forward bravely, sharing the beauty of life with others. I hope others can also experience the ecstasy and joy of life. I believe that when we have such thoughts in our hearts, the seeds of joy are already planted in many people's hearts, even if they don't know it, and you can't possibly know either. This won't affect the workings of the universe or the occurrence of joyful events. Enjoy this bestowed grace! #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Ecstasy

2024 0515今日塔羅：沉悶 單調 Dullness

2024 0515今日塔羅：沉悶 單調 Dullness 週三，表示一週的工作日過了一半，即將邁進下半場。 心情開心，距離週五輕鬆夜晚更近了。 心情沉悶，還要度過漫長三天才能迎接到快樂周末。 昨晚線上的課程，老師說到，當作決定的時候，要慎重，這可是影響著接下來你的生活，甚至是你的人生，快樂、美好、輕鬆與否。 而做決定，千萬別在心情急躁或沉悶時進行。 未來，要期待，要想像美好的情景，這是喜悅的事情，要在心中幸福滿溢時，思考與決定。 可惜，今天的塔羅牌是『沉悶、單調』。 雖然不太適合做出決定的日子，可，轉個彎思考，今天就是適合沒心沒肺的好生休息一下。 哪來的大事需要每日謀略與規劃。 生活就是如此，柴米油醬醋茶，瑣事、煩雜，讓人嘶吼鬼叫累到趴。 我工作最後的兩三年，學會也喜歡上單調的日子，總認為這近三十個月有著靜心、平凡的美好時光。 工作時工作，周末回老家陪老爸，與朋友相約運動加一頓早午餐。 沒有需要征戰的戰場。 沒有需要廝殺的戰役。 沒有假面假笑的應酬。 沒有虛情違心的人情。 可，總是有人對於”平靜”感到不耐煩，總喜歡生事，總喜歡刷存在感，搞得大家跟著他一起沉淪，一起人仰馬翻。 即使無法理解，也無法閃避。 這世界就是這樣，包羅萬象的人們啊！ 要為”沉悶、單調”聲明一下，這兩個詞，不是負面詞，頂多就是老被人當作陪襯色。 可沒這樣的大地色調，如何襯托花的嬌豔，草的翠綠，小昆蟲的輕盈。 這兩詞的出現，也是提醒著 ~ 好生調養一下。 腳步別老是匆匆又忙忙。 心思別常是重重又茫茫。 沉悶日，沉澱日。 單調日，單純日。 淨心，靜心。 『沉悶單調』 別讓頑固阻礙了愛，擋了情。 別讓沉重卡住了能量，攔住了流動。 別讓僵化凍結了好奇，斷截了嚮往。 別讓防禦擴張了過度，揚張了捍衛。 宇宙建議這一天我們可以小小地檢視與審視，內觀與覺察。 Tarot for Today, May 15, 2024: Dullness and Monotony Wednesday signifies the midpoint of the workweek, ushering us into the latter half. Feeling cheerful? Friday night is getting closer. Feeling down? Three long days remain until the joyous weekend. In last night's online class, the teacher mentioned that making decisions requires careful consideration, as they affect not only your immediate life but potentially your entire future—whether it will be happy, wonderful, or relaxed. Decisions should never be made in a state of agitation or dullness. Looking ahead, we should anticipate and imagine beautiful scenarios, a joyful exercise to be done when our hearts are filled with happiness. Unfortunately, today’s tarot card is 'Dullness and Monotony.' Though it might not be the best day to make decisions, we can take a different perspective: today is perfect for a carefree rest. Not every day requires strategy and planning. Life is like this: daily chores and tasks that exhaust us. In my last two or three years of work, I learned to appreciate and even enjoy monotonous days. I found these nearly thirty months to be a time of serene, ordinary beauty. Working during the week, visiting my father on weekends, exercising and having brunch with friends. No battlefields to conquer, No fights to win, No pretentious social engagements, No insincere relationships. However, some people grow impatient with 'peacefulness,' always seeking to stir things up, forcing everyone to follow their chaos. Even if we cannot understand, we cannot avoid it. This world is just like that, full of all kinds of people! Let’s defend 'Dullness and Monotony.' These words are not negative; they are often overlooked background colors. But without these earth tones, how could we highlight the vibrancy of flowers, the greenery of grass, and the lightness of small insects? These words remind us to take good care of ourselves. Don't always rush. Don’t let your thoughts become heavy and confused. Dull days are days to settle. Monotonous days are days of simplicity. Clear your mind, calm your heart. 'Dullness and Monotony' Don’t let stubbornness block love and feelings. Don’t let heaviness obstruct energy and flow. Don’t let rigidity freeze curiosity and cut off aspirations. Don’t let excessive defense expand and exaggerate protection. The universe suggests that on this day, we should take a moment for introspection and awareness. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Dullness

2024 0419 今日塔羅：魔鬼之樂 Devils Play

2024 0419 今日塔羅：魔鬼之樂 Devils Play 學習課程的內容對我來說實在是蠻困難的。 今天忍不住跟班主任說，看著大家的背影，追得好辛苦。 班主任苦笑回覆說，妳得繼續撐著。苦，得忍著。不然要賠錢的。 聽到這話，我也只能握緊拳頭，默默低著頭進教室裡繼續上課。 好久沒有這樣的心情了 ~ 開心迎接週五的心情。 真是太棒了！ 今天，是週五，地獄學習週我撐過了第二次。 下次，就是第三次需要再度經歷的苦熬日子了。 不過，那也是兩天後的事情。 今晚，就來歡樂放鬆一下啦。 昨天就計畫了，週五的晚餐要吃點不一樣的。 鹹酥雞？炸雞？還是披薩呢？ 好想念有夥伴，與朋友同公司工作的情景。 週五晚，可以相約吃晚餐，喝咖啡，聊得天南地北都不怕累。 現在，買了披薩還要考慮吃不完，怎麼辦。 宇宙知道我們經過一週的努力工作，認真學習，都挺累得。 宇宙說 ~ 魔鬼之樂之夜！開趴囉！ 就是歡樂，就是激情，就是興奮不已。 喝一杯，喝兩杯，喝得天花亂墜，小心危險，注意安全。 犒賞自己，慰勞自己，辛苦了！ https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/147134758 當然可以慶祝的，自己身上經歷的辛勞，自己最清楚，自己不重視，不對自己好些，要等誰呵護妳呢？ 等一等，不可怕。 恐怖的是，慢慢等，慢慢等，等到花兒都謝落了，還沒等來。 慶祝生命力 ~ 慶祝辛勤努力 ~ 慶祝歡喜收穫 ~ 慶祝豐收喜樂 ~ 若要送走悲傷，就用歡笑與愉快吧。 若要提振精神，就用歡樂與開懷吧。 若要破除舊有，就用喜樂與更新吧。 今天是二十四節氣的穀雨。 據說是黃帝向全國百姓和丞相宣布倉頡造字的成就，在這一天，天空下起了一場雨，雨中帶著許許多多的穀米。 在這節氣裡，有些事情要注意： l 不要生氣 忽冷忽熱的天氣，讓我們的身體光是適應就耗費不少元氣，別再加重身體的負擔。 l 不要穿太少衣物 還沒到完全夏天，小心夜間露水重，別著涼。 l 不要去森林 冬眠的動物們已甦醒，肚子很空很餓的他們，單獨或成群結隊外出覓食了。別去驚擾他們的饗宴。 l 注意濕氣 雨下完了，太陽還沒來，青苔倒是先趕上了。 濕，讓環境增加了危險，讓身體增加了黏滯感，不清爽，不舒服。 l 注意傳染病 春風吹呀吹，吹到妳我的心窩，也吹起了無法斷絕根部的雜草及等待風起的病毒。 小心，還是戴起口罩，保護自己吧。 l 別輕易去山區 春雷動，春雨落。 在山中，在山谷，在溪河裡。 暴漲，不知會是何時何地。 不熟悉，別亂入。 熟悉，別輕忽。 在這個重要的節氣，請妥善照顧好自己的健康與安全。 Tarot Reading for April 19, 2024: Devils Play The content of my study course is quite challenging for me. Today, I couldn't help but tell the homeroom teacher that chasing after everyone's backs was so exhausting. The homeroom teacher smiled bitterly and replied, "You have to keep holding on. Endure the bitterness, or else you'll lose money." Hearing this, I could only clench my fists tightly, silently lower my head, and continue attending classes in the classroom. It's been a while since I felt like this - eagerly welcoming the mood for Friday. It's just great! Today is Friday, and I survived the second week of hellish learning. Next time, it will be the third time I have to endure such hardship again. But that's two days away. Tonight, let's relax and have some fun. I planned it yesterday; I want something different for Friday dinner. Fried chicken? Pizza? I miss having companions, working in the same company as friends. On Friday evenings, we could arrange to have dinner together, drink coffee, and chat endlessly without getting tired. Now, after buying pizza, I have to consider what to do if we can't finish it. The universe knows we've worked hard all week, studied seriously, and we're all quite tired. The universe says, "The night of devil's play! Let's party!" It's all about joy, passion, and excitement. Have a drink, have two, indulge until you're dizzy. Be careful, it's dangerous. Reward yourself, comfort yourself, you've worked hard! Of course, you can celebrate; you know best the hardships you've experienced, if you don't value yourself, who else will take care of you? Wait a moment, it's not scary. What's terrifying is waiting slowly, waiting until the flowers wither, and still not getting what you waited for. Celebrate vitality, Celebrate hard work, Celebrate joyous harvest, Celebrate abundant joy. If you want to bid farewell to sadness, use laughter and joy. If you want to boost your spirits, use joy and openness. If you want to break free from the old, use joy and renewal. Today is the Grain Rain, one of the twenty-four solar terms. It is said that on this day, Emperor Huang announced the achievement of Cangjie in creating characters, and it rained heavily with lots of grains. During this solar term, there are some things to note: *Don't get angry. The sudden changes in temperature make our bodies consume a lot of energy just to adapt, don't burden yourself further. *Don't wear too little clothing. It's not fully summer yet, be careful of heavy night dew, don't catch a cold. *Avoid going into the forest. Hibernating animals have woken up and are very hungry. They are going out alone or in groups to find food. Don't disturb their feast. *Watch out for humidity. After the rain, before the sun comes out, moss has already appeared. The dampness makes the environment more dangerous, and the body feels sticky and uncomfortable. *Be mindful of contagious diseases. The spring breeze blows, blowing into your and my hearts, also blowing up the weeds and viruses waiting for the wind. Be careful, wear your mask to protect yourself. *Don't easily go to mountainous areas. Spring thunder, spring rain. In the mountains, in the valleys, in the streams. Flash floods, we don't know when or where. If you're not familiar, don't enter. If you're familiar, don't underestimate it. During this important solar term, please take good care of your health and safety. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #DevilsPlay

【8個張員瑛自我管理法】把自己當偶像養 早晚是女王!

張員瑛看完你不可能不愛上她

張員瑛有「天生愛豆」、「偶像模範生」等稱號，除了有芭比娃娃般的長相身材、學業全A、五代女團最紅的成員之一，一個轉圈就轟動全網、吃個草莓就登上熱搜，她做了哪些努力才能有今天，看完本篇「張員瑛」，你不可能不愛上她，把自己當愛豆培養，成為人間張員瑛不是夢! 👉🏽【KPOP歷代女團神顏】潤娥至今仍無敵、五代張員瑛人氣最高！👉🏽 ILLIT剛出道就代言【歷代寶礦力代言人】全是女神，孫藝珍、朴信惠都是! 張員瑛- 堅持運動、維持體態 即使行程滿檔張員瑛也堅持運動，平均一個禮拜五天都會現身運動中心，透過皮拉提斯、空中瑜珈來維持體態和增強肌群，在《出差十五夜》節目上，IVE所有人都在吃宵夜，只有張員瑛一口也沒碰，老天給他芭比般臉蛋、漫畫大長腿、小蠻腰，但她對自己的要求從來沒有鬆懈過，令人感到相當佩服。 張員瑛- 每一秒都在儀態管理 張員瑛不只堅持運動，早上睡醒第一件事情不是滑手機，而是拉筋伸展，出席活動、上節目都是全程腰背挺直，空檔滑手機也是拿得很高、絕不低頭擠出雙下巴，還曾在綜藝節目上表示：「在家裡除了睡覺以外，都不會躺著」，有人說她是「眨眼級容貌管理」也有人說他很「裝」，比如雙手拿草莓就連上好幾天新聞，不過她確實一刻都沒有鬆懈。 張員瑛- 時時刻刻都在保養 張員瑛不到20歲，正是肌膚狀態最好的時候，但她也沒有因此亂熬夜、不忌口，即便因為工作忙碌、作息不太規律，也會盡可能早睡，除了可以讓身體休息，更能提升身陳代謝。她的日常的飲食守則就是「低鹽、低糖、少澱粉」，行程忙碌就在機場直接敷起面膜，為得就是每個表演時候都是最上鏡的狀態。 張員瑛- 拒絕內耗、屏蔽攻擊 張員瑛一個小動作就會上熱搜，面對大量的讚美和批評，張員瑛甚至有著超齡的強大內心，參加李泳知網路節目《雖然沒準備什麼菜》分享自己面對攻擊時，總是保持著「不是事實I don't care，你是你、我是我，只要做好自己要做的事情就好」，把攻擊都屏蔽在外，不被他人消耗能量。 張員瑛- 愛自己才是人生大事 張員瑛曾說過：「愛惜自己、永遠把自己放在第一順位，懂得愛自己別人才會愛你，希望各位認為自己是最美麗、最帥氣、最珍貴的，那樣的話周圍的人也會跟著愛惜你」，她為自己感到驕傲、永遠展現自己最好的一面，把自己當作人生女主角。 張員瑛- 情緒超穩定 張員瑛不只長得像公主，連日常舉動都超有愛、超替別人著想，他曾經說：「我進行了很多緊湊的行程，自然會有情緒低落的時候，但我會努力維持在中間水平，因為我的情緒上下波動的話，周圍的人也會很累」，和「情緒穩定」的人在一起，真的會感到安心和幸福。 👉🏽《單身即地獄3》慧善內核穩定5大祕技 「不怕失去」輕鬆拿下海王官熙! 女孩都該知道的戀愛情緒! 張員瑛- 員瑛式思考 「員瑛式思考」並不是什麼新的觀念，只是因為她的超級正能量連帶影響了粉絲、並陸續在SNS上傳開，她曾舉例：「我前面的人把我想買的麵包全買走了，所以我特別幸運，可以買到剛出爐的麵包，果然幸運女神是站在我這邊的！」，擁有創造幸福的能力、對每件事都很正向，只能說這女孩實在太招人喜歡了。 張員瑛- 時間管理大師 張員瑛不只偶像做得好，連當學生的成績都相當優秀，曾獲得過三次數學競賽的獎項，也會長笛、鋼琴、小提琴和游泳。如果你看過她在2023 Asia Artist Awards主持的畫面可能會驚呆，必須使用韓語、英語以及日語主持，不只英文講得像母語人士，當她發現資料上日文翻譯錯誤時，甚至能自己修改，每一項工作她都帶著很強的責認感去做準備。所以說哪有什麼天生idol，張員瑛有堅定的目標、高度的自律、強大的心智，能有今天的成績沒有人不服吧! #張員瑛 #李泳知 #員瑛式思考 #自律 #張員瑛身材 #張員瑛成績 #IVE #張員瑛自律 #韓國女團 #五代女團 #張員瑛轉圈 #IVE回歸 #HEYA #安兪真

2024 0528今日塔羅：成功 Success

2024 0528今日塔羅：成功 Success 昨天你有接收到宇宙關於”創造力”的祝福嗎？ 若有，恭喜你呀。 收到祝福的你，有沒有好好地運用與發揮呢？ 若跟我一樣，有珍惜，且趕緊運用，應該會發現，真的是下筆如神助，滑鼠如神功，滑順地不得了，思緒清晰，且記憶力提升不少。 謝謝宇宙讓我，總算有一天的學習課程作業於下課準時完成。 總算換我聽到同學們的哀號聲，內心累積多日的挫折稍微減低一些。 更讓我開心的是，今天我們大家抽到的塔羅牌是『成功』。 會是成功什麼呢？ 什麼事情會成功？ 成功的定義是什麼？ 哪些事情是挑戰完成的成功？ 還是原本就是時間將至的成功？ 想這麼多幹嘛呢。 只要是成功，就值得開心，值得原地跳舞，轉圈，從天空灑落花瓣般的掌聲雷動。 『成功』是地球牌排序的第一張，是王牌呀。 不管在哪個面向，不管探討那個方向，不管詢問那種意向，結果都是成功。 成功猶如站在領獎台上的驕傲，心中滿滿地苦盡甘來的委屈。 是的，就是委屈。 有多少次懷疑是否能做到。 有多少時間是犧牲其他的美好，日子裡只有繼續努力。 有多少選擇是沒得選擇，只因路還很漫長，回頭太難，分心風險太大。 成功 ~ 讓我們在愛情世界裡有一席之地。 在愛情的領域裡，抽到成功塔塔羅牌的人，就像是關係裡的太陽核心，另一半總是繞著你打轉，以你為中心，照顧著你，尊重著你，只希望你開心。 別濫用，別欺負另一半對你的好。 將別人的好視為理所當然，會遭到天打雷劈的反噬。 在成功氛圍裡，你擁有創造財富的資源，就是看到此篇文章的你，別懷疑。 宇宙的消息，宇宙的祝福，不是每個人都可以接收到，也不是每個人都能明瞭，大部分的人其實是不相信的。 不相信天地萬物運行有其道理。 不相信天地萬物之上有高我，有第五次元，有能量，有磁場，有不可言說的天機。 成功，在事業上，在學習上，是指要效法土星落地務實的奮鬥與努力。 成功，非一蹴可幾。 成功，非偶然，若稱為必然，那前提是先辛勤種植、耕耘、施肥、除草與即時收割。 成功，在身心靈，是整合、協調和和諧的層次，是健康平衡的第一步。 成功，是萬中選一的吉時，趁這時候，加把勁，目標在前，也許就差這最後幾里路，利用成功這東風，加速前進。 享受成功的同時，也要追求身體健康。 健康是第一順位的數字，若沒有了健康，存摺後面有幾位數的”0”皆是無用之幣。 Tarot of the Day for May 28, 2024: Success Did you receive the universe’s blessing of “creativity” yesterday? If so, congratulations! For those who received the blessing, did you make good use of it? If you cherished and utilized it, as I did, you might have found that your writing flowed effortlessly, your mouse glided smoothly, your thoughts were clear, and your memory improved significantly. Thanks to the universe, I finally completed my coursework on time for one day. At last, I heard the groans of my classmates, and the frustration accumulated over many days eased somewhat. What makes me even happier is that today’s tarot card for all of us is 'Success'. What kind of success might it be? What things will succeed? What is the definition of success? Which accomplishments are successful challenges completed? Or are they successes that were simply waiting for the right time? Why think so much about it? As long as it's success, it’s worth celebrating, worth dancing in place, twirling, and showering ourselves with applause like petals falling from the sky. ‘Success’ is the first card in the Earth suit; it’s the ace. No matter the aspect, no matter the direction of exploration, no matter the intention of the inquiry, the result is success. Success is like the pride of standing on the podium, the sense of relief and fulfillment after enduring hardships. Yes, it’s a relief. How many times have we doubted our ability to achieve? How much time have we sacrificed other joys, continuing to work hard every day? How many choices did we have no choice but to make, just because the road was still long, turning back was too difficult, and the risks of distraction were too great? Success ~ Allows us to have a place in the world of love. In the realm of love, drawing the Success card means you are the sun at the center of the relationship, your partner always revolves around you, taking care of you, respecting you, and just wanting you to be happy. Don’t misuse or take advantage of your partner’s kindness. Taking someone’s goodness for granted will result in severe backlash. In the atmosphere of success, you have the resources to create wealth, as do those reading this article—don’t doubt it. The universe’s messages and blessings aren’t received or understood by everyone; most people actually don’t believe in them. They don’t believe in the rationale behind the operation of all things in heaven and earth. They don’t believe there is a higher self, a fifth dimension, energy, a magnetic field, or unspeakable celestial secrets above all things in heaven and earth. Success, in career and learning, means emulating Saturn’s practical struggles and efforts. Success isn’t achieved overnight. Success isn’t accidental; if it’s called inevitable, the premise is diligent planting, cultivation, fertilization, weeding, and timely harvesting. Success, in body, mind, and spirit, is the level of integration, coordination, and harmony, the first step toward health and balance. Success is the golden moment chosen out of thousands. Seize this moment, give it your all, and with the goal ahead, you may be just a few miles away. Use the momentum of success to accelerate forward. While enjoying success, also pursue physical health. Health is the number one priority; without it, the zeros in your bank account are just meaningless digits. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Success

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change 現在有一句話說，「變，才是現在永恆的定理。」 跟不上”變”，不想”改變”，不是你唾棄了世界，是世界已走在很前面，遺棄了你。 談”變”還是”改變”，談何容易。 人生在世，有許多珍貴的事物，那些都有著〝不變〞的真理。 真愛，珍愛。 變，就不值錢了。 鑽石、寶石的閃耀與高價在於”不變”。 也許日後變了形，如同人類日漸衰老，英挺帥氣，青春美貌已隨時光漸消失，但本質沒有改變，依然堅如磐石，依然硬如地殼，如同我們愛人的心。 改變，不容易。 論個性，難調。 論品行，難雕。 還好，氣質可靠培養，特質可靠養成。 人生，還有得救，還能有所期待。 最近宇宙一直提醒著改變呢。 我是想這樣慢慢地調整，改變著自己，分享給大家 ~ 第一，語調的正能量。 從疑問句，驚嘆句，現改為肯定句，溫馨提醒句。 怎麼說呢？ 我現在的寫法：「最近宇宙一直提醒著改變呢。」 我以前的寫法：「為什麼最近宇宙一直提醒著改變？」 大部分的用字差不多，用心程度也是相近，你喜歡哪句。 第二，鍛鍊樂觀與平衡的心智。 正事越是讓我崩潰，休息時間我越是快樂哼曲調。 生活日日平靜，無味，只要不涉及危險，有點波浪，這海平面也就生動了起來，海底的生物也醒了過來，生機，就盎然了。 第三，做好正念之四好。 四好，賜好。 老天賜予的好好。 好好吃飯。好好睡覺。好好放鬆。好好愛。 心知足，就能專注。 專注，就能做好事情。 事情做好，人就會好好的。 我近年在努力的，就這幾項，不多，可也不容易。 有很多心得與感悟。 有不少灰心及氣餒。 生活即使簡單，也是充滿了改變。 『改變』，你的愛，進入改變期。 不管是愛自己，還是愛著別人，改變，都是為了更美好的將來。 不用擔心，這改變不是誰變了心。 世界確實一直在改變，且速度越來越快，即使快到很難適應，我們也是不得不接受與學習。 很多時候，改變，是蠻好的事情。 科技的改變，讓事情的處理上更輕易。 與地球那端的距離更加拉近。 不在同一個國度或同一時區的彼此，不再那樣困難聯繫，甚至不用花費任何金錢。 科技，讓有心人，更加靠近。 大發利市的趨勢財與智慧財，誰抓得住誰獲利滿滿。 這已不是過去那個認真、努力就能賺錢的時代。 這是個需要衝，且要敢衝，才能賺到錢的時代。 為了生存，我們需改變。 為了未來，我們需改變。 因為改變，不同的壓力，許多的壓力，接踵而來。 現在已不是像過去那樣地一個簡單的時代。 現在，和諧與均衡更加重視，也更加迫切需要。 身體要能迎頭追趕改變，需要後援，需要調整。 身心要能迎接面對改變，需要支持，需要更新。 我們個人的硬體與軟體皆需要懂得改變，才不造成彼此拖累，互相折騰的窘況，方能處在改變之潮流裡，且不被沖走。 每天改變一點點，一個月的改變加起來至少有三十點。 改變，加上時間這項發酵器，是複利的累積。 而你所能做的，就是改變自己不敢向前的腳步。 踏出舊習，踏入新境，心境因應改變而調整，會發現，前進也沒那麼難。 就是辛苦多了一點。 但，不難。 改變，不需等待，不需擇日，動心起念時就可馬上進行。 Today's Tarot: Change There's a saying, "Change is the eternal truth of the present." If you can't keep up with "change" and don't want to "change," it's not that you're rejecting the world; it's that the world has advanced far ahead, leaving you behind. Talking about "change" or "changing" isn't easy. In life, there are many precious things that hold the truth of "unchanging." True love, cherished love. Once changed, they lose their value. The brilliance and high value of diamonds and gemstones lie in their "unchanging" nature. Perhaps they may change form in the future, like how humans age, losing their youthful beauty, but their essence remains unchanged, as solid as a rock, as unyielding as the Earth's crust, like the hearts of our loved ones. Change isn't easy. Difficult to adjust in terms of personality. Difficult to sculpt in terms of conduct. Fortunately, temperament can be reliably cultivated, and special qualities can be reliably developed. In life, there's still salvation, still something to look forward to. Lately, the universe has been constantly reminding me of change. I think I'll gradually adjust like this, changing myself and sharing it with everyone~ First, maintaining a positive tone. From questions and exclamations to affirmations, gentle reminders. How about this? My current wording: "Lately, the universe has been constantly reminding me of change." My previous wording: "Why has the universe been constantly reminding me of change lately? " The choice of words is similar, and the level of care is about the same. Which do you prefer? Second, cultivating an optimistic and balanced mindset. The more stressed I am with work, the happier I hum during breaks. If life is calm every day and tasteless, as long as it doesn't involve danger, a little wave makes the sea surface come alive, and the creatures at the bottom of the sea awaken, vitality abounds. Third, practicing the Four Goods of mindfulness. The Four Goods, the bestowed goods. The goods bestowed by heaven. Eat well. Sleep well. Relax well. Love well. Contentment leads to focus. Focus leads to doing things well. When things are done well, people will be well. These are the few things I've been striving for in recent years, not many, but not easy either. There are many insights and realizations. There's quite a bit of discouragement and frustration. Even if life is simple, it's still full of change. "Change," your love, is entering a period of change. Whether it's loving yourself or loving someone else, change is for a better future. Don't worry, this change doesn't mean someone's heart has changed. The world is indeed constantly changing, and the pace is getting faster. Even if it's so fast that it's hard to adapt, we still have to accept and learn. Many times, change is a good thing. Technological advancements make tasks easier. The distance from one end of the Earth to the other is getting closer. Being in different countries or time zones no longer makes it difficult to connect, and it doesn't even require spending any money. Technology brings like-minded people closer. In the trend of booming financial and intellectual wealth, it's about who can seize the opportunity and profit the most. It's no longer the era where you could earn money just by being serious and hardworking. This is an era where you need to push forward boldly to make money. For survival, we need to change. For the future, we need to change. Because with change comes different pressures, many pressures, one after another. Nowadays, it's not as simple as it used to be. Now, harmony and balance are more valued and urgently needed. Physically, we need support to keep up with the changes, we need adjustments. Mentally, we need support to face the changes, we need updates. Both our hardware and software need to know how to change so we don't burden each other, so we don't end up in a situation where we're dragging each other down amidst the tide of change, but rather we can flow with it without being swept away. Changing a little bit every day, at least thirty points of change add up in a month. Change, coupled with time as a fermenter, is the accumulation of compound interest. And what you can do is to change the steps you're afraid to take forward. Step out of old habits, step into new territory, adjust your mindset in response to change, and you'll find that moving forward isn't so difficult. It's just a little harder. But not impossible. Change doesn't need to wait, doesn't need to choose a day, just act when the urge arises. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Change

Alyson’s 5/21 Tarot：魔術師 Magician (53-57)

Alyson’s 5/21 Tarot：魔術師 Magician (53-57) 問題：我5/20的未來日記主題 抽牌：魔術師 Magician 我今天的塔羅牌是『魔術師』，一位像是有魔法的神秘人物。 今天的電腦學習課程要交一份作業，可家裡並沒有買那昂貴的軟體系統，因此無法在家做功課。 還好，今天，老師有給予一些時間，讓我們可以一邊進行，有疑問還可以跟老師請教。畢竟作業主要是老師需要知道學員的學習狀況，而非把學生逼到瘋狂。 「會」，在這系列的學習課程是關鍵字，也是學習初衷的唯一途徑。 昨晚沒有睡太多，因忙碌和美日學習上課滿滿地一週，每天一大早就要出門。 累過頭了，也就難以入眠。 原本超怕今日上課猛打瞌睡，真實情況是沒有偷打瞌睡，精神反而還可以，真的是要好好照顧身體，今天身體很給面子，撐到最後半小時才開始精神恍惚。 作業已完成，交出去了。 課堂作業也快完成。 今天的學習告一段落。很是開心。 『魔術師』 ~ 宇宙賜與多才多藝的才能，且是已具足這些才能。 想想，我會的項目不少，專精是另一回事，但應是可打趴普通人等。 只是，這些才能沒能成無變現能力，於這個世代來說，比玩票性質更膚淺，比只是玩玩更不用心。 魔法magic，來自古字「magh」，力量的意思。 魔法師，可接收到宇宙的直覺指引，且迅速果決，力量來源於成為宇宙的通道，於是宇宙會以禮還禮。 魔術師擁有透過圖繪或文字把事情改面化的能力。 擁有溝通的天賦，且能將內心裡的爆發力發揮在每一次與人的流動中。 今天真的是太幸運了，是魔術師，好開心。 要讓自己常常成為魔術師，就是要學習，吸收，消化，內化，累積，與經驗。 今日的功課繳交和學習吸收狀況就像是魔術師那般，自然且熟悉地操作著電腦。能這樣自如地運用，這樣的學習進度和成果，我自己很喜歡，也有點小得意。 我可是原本一丁點都不會，沒接觸過也沒注意過呢。 這近一個半月的學習及練習，自己會運用一些了，給自己掌聲鼓勵。 開心。 Alyson’s 5/21 Tarot: The Magician (53-57) Question: The theme of my future diary for 5/20 Card Drawn: The Magician Today’s tarot card is 'The Magician', a mysterious figure who seems to possess magical powers. Today's computer learning course required us to submit an assignment. However, I don't have the expensive software system at home, so I couldn't do the homework there. Fortunately, the teacher provided some time today for us to work on it and ask questions if needed. After all, the purpose of the assignment is for the teacher to understand the students' learning progress, not to drive them crazy. "To know" is the keyword in this series of learning courses and the only path to the original intention of learning. I didn’t sleep much last night due to a busy week filled with daily classes. I have to leave early every morning. Being overtired made it hard to fall asleep. I was initially very worried that I would be dozing off during class today. Surprisingly, I didn’t nod off and felt quite alert. It’s crucial to take good care of the body, and today my body cooperated well, staying alert until the last half hour when I started feeling a bit dazed. The assignment is finished and submitted. The classroom work is nearly complete as well. Today’s learning session has come to an end, and I feel very happy. Magician ~ The universe bestows versatile talents, and these talents are already present within. Reflecting on this, I realize I possess numerous skills. Mastery is another matter, but I should be able to outshine the average person. However, these talents have not turned into productive abilities. I n this era, they are considered superficial and lack dedication beyond mere dabbling. Magic, derived from the ancient word "magh," means power. A magician can receive intuitive guidance from the universe and act swiftly and decisively. Their power comes from being a conduit for the universe, which reciprocates in kind. The Magician has the ability to transform situations through imagery or words. They possess the gift of communication and can channel their inner explosive energy in every interaction with others. Today, I am incredibly fortunate to have drawn the Magician card. It makes me very happy. To often become the Magician oneself requires continuous learning, absorbing, digesting, internalizing, accumulating, and gaining experience. Submitting today’s homework and absorbing the learning content felt as natural and familiar as a magician skillfully operating a computer. Being able to use it so effortlessly reflects a learning progress and outcome that I am quite proud of. Initially, I didn’t know anything, had no experience, and hadn’t paid any attention to it before. After a month and a half of learning and practice, I can now use some of the software. I give myself a round of applause for this achievement. Happy. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Magician

Alyson’s 4/13 Tarot：慈悲 Compassion (15-57)

Alyson’s 4/13 Tarot：慈悲 Compassion (15-57) 問題：我4/12的未來日記主題 抽牌：慈悲 Compassion 今天要聊的是「慈悲」這張塔羅牌。 且主題是「死亡」裡的慈悲。 「死亡」這張牌並不是厄運的訊息，也不是大難來臨前的警告。 這張塔羅牌是在說，是時候要將過去老舊的匠氣丟棄掉。 何謂”過去”，想當然爾，就是說不是現在，更不用考量會與未來有關。 已踏上新的路程，選擇新的生活，過去的一些習慣，思維，還有技能，有可能都已成沉痾而不自知，卻還當寶貝珍惜著。 該醒醒囉！！ https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/146479027 「死亡」這張塔羅牌，我覺得還有大刀闊斧的意思，該斷得趕緊斷，該換得趕快換，該捨得的，就別再捨不得。 沒有將累贅放掉，卸掉，要如何前進。 沒有卸掉的，無用的舊包裹，只會拖住前進的腳程。 猶豫，從來就都不是個好態度。 趁早，還有趕上的機會，趕緊醒醒吧！ 我參加了完全不懂，沒接觸過的課程訓練。 每天都很吃力，我樂此不疲。 這是我在經歷我的「死亡」階段。 今天凌晨告知大家今日的集體塔羅牌是「大師」。 那時我是想不通的，現在我是沒有太多機會跟別人接觸的，哪有什麼時候可分享經驗呢。 結果事情的真相很讓我意外，也讓人開心。 原來，今天沒有成為「大師」的我，是那個享受被「大師」指導的學習者。 這是豐盈的果實。 是過往的善意積累的回饋。 這次學習的課程，我一直都很緊張，尤其是今天的電腦平面插畫學習，我一直用不好，老是找不到老師剛剛才講解過的樞紐，且電腦還因我過於急躁猛按滑鼠，直接當機，我原本就已經跟不上腳步了，現在被自己搞成直接休息，只能傻眼瞪著電腦螢幕。 經過觀察和注意，今天，我應是那個班級舉手跟老師求救最多次的學生了。 實在是詢問太多次了，後來我不好意思再請教老師了。 於是，轉過頭，請教坐在後面的同學。 哇！是一個年輕，清秀的男孩子。 前幾天的下課時間，他都是趴在桌上休息，都沒機會看他長的模樣呢。 我用誠懇的眼光請教著。 年輕人走到我位置幫我看電腦螢幕，然後告訴我問題點。 我第一次的電腦插畫，畫得真的是不好看，可是這位年輕人，很親切，很友善，很有愛心。 他很真誠地同意了我所說的，我的畫，真的有點奇怪。 然後鼓勵我，多加練習，會越來越好。 直到今天下課時，我問了後面同學好多次。 甚至在有一點點小小進步時，很開心地趕快轉頭跟他說。 很可愛的年輕人，竟然握起拳頭跟我說，太棒了！做得好！ 然後為我鼓掌，替我開心。 這孩子，真的是很溫柔呀。 我真摯回應說，現在的年輕孩子都像你這樣，說話很懂得鼓勵人，且好正向呀！ 他害羞得微笑了。 今天，我想應該不只是今天，應該說從今天開始，我像是擁有自己的小老師那般有人可以依賴。 今天晚上要喝杯啤酒，讓自己心情放鬆一下，也慶祝這週學習有點進步的成果，還有日後有人可以幫忙的幸福。開心呀！ 宇宙呀！ 塔羅呀！ 不僅知道會發生甚麼事情，甚至連心情要如何轉折都知道。 「未來日記」的塔羅紀錄，我都是晚上要寫當天發生的事情時才去翻看之前插牌記錄的筆記。 關於「未來日記」的當天早上或前一天晚上（若我有記得要先描繪日記想要如何寫的這件事情），這時我都是在腦海裡思考當天的預計行程，但只有寫在行事曆上面的事情才會去事先想像，學習、上課，這類事情，在我的觀念裡是日常，比較不會特別去思考和設想。 昨天發生讓人不愉快的事情，今天也就會有後續事情發展。 放過自己，是當陷入不開心的事情時要先做好的事情。 請記得 ~ 先照顧好自己的需求與情緒，不是自私的行為。 我們得先自己有能力，得有好情緒，好態度和健康的身體，才有機會付出。 否則，反而造成家人和旁人的麻煩及負擔。 今天早上，昨天用粗魯態度對待我的人前來解釋，但並非道歉。 我只說，多提醒的話語是我和朋友間都會做出的關心。 她還想說明，但我不想再聽了。 我沒有忘記昨天她的惡質態度，可也直接表達昨日被她那樣無禮對待後的我，生氣和不舒服。 我沒打算原諒，也沒想要再繼續糾結這事情。 遠離，就好。 我沒有惡面相向，但也不想勉強自己說〝沒關係＂之類的話，反過來安慰對方。 她道歉，是她該做的。 接受與否，是我自己可以選擇的。 有時候，就是有人很討厭的會說，＂對方都道歉了，且是小事，幹嘛還抓著不放？＂ 這真的是奇怪的論點。 ＂道歉＂是萬能的免死金牌嗎？ 道歉，是做錯事情的人要回應給受害者的基本禮貌，但並非道德綁架的工具。 她並非跟我熟識的人，我為何需要承擔她的愚蠢行為和事後解釋呢。 我認為我沒有以其人之道還其人之深，已是我對她的「慈悲」。 且，我也不想委屈自己，因此我認為不接受她的解釋是我對自己的「慈悲」。 Alyson’s 4/13 Tarot: Compassion (15-57) Question: Theme of my journal entry on 4/12 Card drawn: Compassion Today's discussion is centered around the Tarot card "Compassion," within the theme of "Death." The "Death" card doesn't signal doom or warn of impending disaster. It suggests it's time to discard outdated attitudes. By "past," it means not the present, let alone the future. Having embarked on a new journey, choosing a new life, some old habits, thoughts, and skills may have become stagnant, yet still cherished. It's time to wake up! I interpret the "Death" card as a call to make bold changes, to cut ties where needed, to let go of what no longer serves us. Holding onto burdens only hinders progress. Hesitation has never been a good attitude. It's time to wake up while there's still a chance! I enrolled in a completely unfamiliar training course. Every day has been challenging, yet I find joy in it. This is my "death" phase. Early this morning, I shared with everyone that today's collective Tarot card is "Master." At the time, I couldn't grasp its relevance, considering I have limited interaction with others these days. But the truth turned out unexpectedly delightful. Today, I, who didn't become "The Hierophant," found myself enjoying being guided by one. It's a rich harvest, a reward for past kindness. Throughout this course, I've been anxious, especially during today's lesson on computer graphic design. I struggled to follow along, often unable to locate what the instructor just explained. Then, my impatience led to a computer crash. I was already falling behind, and now I was stuck, staring at a blank screen. Observing closely, I realized I was the student who raised their hand the most for help. Eventually, I felt too embarrassed to ask the teacher again. So, I turned to the student behind me. Wow! He was a young, handsome guy. In previous days, he always seemed tired during breaks, and I never really got a good look at him. I asked him earnestly for help. He came over, looked at my screen, and pointed out the issue. My first attempt at computer art wasn't great, but this young man was kind, friendly, and compassionate. He agreed my drawing looked a bit odd but encouraged me to practice more, assuring me I'd improve. By the end of today's class, I had asked the student behind me for help countless times. Even when I made a tiny bit of progress, I eagerly turned to him to share. He was adorable, fist-bumping me, saying, "Great job!" and applauding me, genuinely happy for my improvement. What a gentle soul. I replied sincerely that young people like him nowadays are so good at encouraging others and being positive. He smiled shyly. Today, and perhaps from now on, I feel like I have my own little teacher to rely on. Tonight, I'll have a beer to relax, celebrating the progress I've made this week and the happiness of having someone to help in the future. How joyful! Universe! Tarot! Not only do you know what will happen, but you also predict how emotions will shift. I usually review my Tarot notes in the evening when writing about the day's events for my "Future Diary." In the morning or the night before (if I remember to plan my diary entry), I think about the day's schedule, but I only imagine things already written in my calendar. Learning, attending classes—these are part of my routine, so I don't usually dwell on them. Unpleasant events from yesterday will likely have consequences today. Being kind to oneself is essential when feeling unhappy. Remember—taking care of your needs and emotions isn't selfish. We must be capable, emotionally stable, and healthy ourselves before helping others. Otherwise, we'll only burden our family and others. This morning, the person who treated me rudely yesterday came to explain, not apologize. I simply mentioned that reminders like hers are a form of concern I share with friends. She wanted to explain further, but I didn't want to hear it. I haven't forgotten her disrespectful behavior from yesterday, nor have I concealed my anger and discomfort from being treated that way. I don't intend to forgive or dwell on it further. Moving on is best. I won't pretend it's okay or force myself to comfort her. Apologizing is her obligation. Accepting it is my choice. Sometimes, people might say, "She apologized, and it's a minor issue, why hold onto it?" That's a strange argument. Is an apology a cure-all? Apologizing is basic courtesy from someone who's done wrong, not a tool for moral coercion. She isn't someone I know well, so why should I bear the burden of her foolish behavior and subsequent explanations? I believe not retaliating in kind is my "compassion" toward her. And I don't want to feel resentful, so rejecting her explanation is my "compassion" toward myself. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Compassion

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