2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance

2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance 預約的時間到了，遲遲沒看到人影上線，原來還在工作，真的是辛苦了。 阿成說自己的房屋銷售員，政府頒布了幾個專案，讓許多年輕人原本只能默默放在心中的購屋念頭，瞬間有了具體實現的機會，因此很多客人約著要看房子。 阿成說，看起來絡繹不絕的客人潮，好像能夠有不錯的成交結果和獎金收入，但實則並沒有如此美好。 他說，大家都會在網路找資料，爬文，做許多的功課。 我則認為這樣是正確的，減少了資訊落差，也就不會有人被當冤大頭任意宰殺，血流成河的慘況。 阿成說，立場不同啦。 我同意。我也反問阿成，你看車子，會不會先做功課，先問一下別人或者上網。 他說，當然會啊。 我說，那就對了呀。房子，多貴，一輩子可能就這麼一次機會，謹慎點再出手，合理呀。 我再進而分享自己的想法給阿成，我說，若房子好，價錢合理，不須你發揮舌燦蓮花之洗腦大法，有興趣的客戶，一看就懂，就下單了。若房子不怎麼樣，價錢又不合理，你再怎麼勤勞，再怎麼帶不同組的客人前往，在現在資訊更為透明的時代，有機會成功嗎？當然沒有。 每個產業都在喊生意不好做，每個老闆都在說壓力好大，每個員工都在哭做不下去了。 會吵的比較會有糖吃，哭、鬧、折騰，好像比較能夠獲得更好的待遇。 所以，遇到人，遇到事，先哭鬧！先比慘！已成為大家面對事情的第一反應。 好像成為了全民運動似的，大家的慣性。 其實，世界上絕頂聰明就那幾個人，世界上80%的財富也在那些人的手上，我們這些80%的平凡人就是努力、認真、拚命在剩下的20%財富爭奪自己的財富地位。 可能我認識的都是一般人，還真沒發覺誰的工作有比較好做。 阿成接著說帶新人很累，很麻煩，不想這樣過日子。 可小小職員的我們哪有說”不”的立場與機會，況且帶新人是很好的學習，但固執的阿成你說，你什麼都不想要，你只想做好自己的工作就好。 可是我們都知道，工作不可能獨善其身，就如同活在這個世界上一樣，人不可能只顧好自己就好。 不過，深感疲憊又覺厭煩的阿成，你已完全不想聽這些話。 我也只能跟你說，照顧好自己，跟主管聊聊，還有最近天氣變化大，注意身體適應。 然後，你說了，你覺得何時開始整個人都不對了。 原來，你帶著客人去了一間不是很乾淨的房子，你說從那天之後你常覺頭暈。 我當下建議你隔天去找專業的人協助一下，並且在心中跟對方打聲招呼，對於打擾了感到抱歉。 你才恍然大悟到自己竟然沒注意到這樣的註記和禁忌，真的是不應該。 看來，最近的你因疲憊和心情不佳，對於工作沒有了之前的嚴謹和熱情，很是可惜。 有些過錯，是完全不可犯的，而我覺你因情緒控制不佳而觸碰到了禁忌，還讓你的客戶因你的不小心而身體不適，這是很不應該。而這些實在很難對於已經不堪負荷的你再多說的話。 只能藉由請宇宙透過抽塔羅牌的指引給你祝福 ~ 而宇宙送給你的塔羅牌祝福是【聰穎 Brilliance】。 宇宙提醒，我跟你分享的是你最近忽視且不在意，但對你而言應是很重要的事情。 如果你有靜下心聽進我傳達給你的文字和有點擔憂你的心思，你應該會有「啊！豁然開朗。」的當下震撼與感受。 倘若沒有，很可惜，你錯過了宇宙透過我們聊天的機會給予你的指引和祝福。 期冀過幾天，你的心情平復許多，能回看我們的對話，也許那時還有機會可以接收到這關鍵的灼見。 2024-11-14 Ah Cheng: Brilliance The scheduled time arrived, yet you hadn’t logged in. It turned out you were still working—really tough on you. Ah Cheng mentioned he’s a real estate agent, and the government recently rolled out a few programs that have given many young people the tangible chance to pursue homeownership, something they’d only dreamed of before. As a result, many clients are eager to schedule viewings. He said that while the influx of clients might look promising for good sales and bonuses, reality isn’t quite as bright. People are doing extensive research online, reading up, and gathering plenty of information. I think this is great—it reduces information asymmetry, which means fewer people end up being taken advantage of. Ah Cheng said our perspectives differ. I agreed and asked if he wouldn’t also research a car before buying, by asking around or looking it up online. He said, “Of course.” So, I replied, “Exactly. Buying a house is even more expensive, and it’s likely a once-in-a-lifetime purchase. It’s only sensible to be cautious.” I went on to share my perspective: if the property is good and the price fair, you won’t need to spin persuasive pitches. Interested clients will know it’s a good deal at a glance. But if the property lacks appeal or is overpriced, no matter how hard you work or how many clients you bring through, your chances of closing the deal in today’s transparent market are slim. Every industry complains business is hard; every boss says they’re under pressure, and every employee laments they can’t go on. People who complain seem to get better treatment, so it’s as if we’ve collectively adopted whining as our first reaction to challenges. It’s almost become a national pastime. In reality, only a few truly brilliant people exist, and 80% of the world’s wealth is in their hands. The rest of us ordinary folks are just striving to claim a piece of the remaining 20%. Maybe I only know regular people, but I haven’t noticed anyone’s work getting any easier. Ah Cheng then said that training new hires is exhausting and complicated, and he doesn’t want to keep doing it. But we’re just small-time employees; we don’t have the power to say “no.” Besides, training new hires is a valuable learning experience, but stubborn Ah Cheng insists he just wants to focus on his own work. We both know work isn’t done in isolation, just as living in this world isn’t. You can’t just look out for yourself. However, an utterly worn-out Ah Cheng doesn’t want to hear this anymore. So, all I can say is: take care of yourself, talk things over with your supervisor, and with the recent weather fluctuations, be mindful of staying well. Then you mentioned that you started feeling off some time ago. It turned out you had shown a client a rather unkempt property, and since that day, you’ve often felt dizzy. I suggested you see a specialist the next day and mentally apologize for any disturbance caused. You realized that you hadn’t observed such precautions and felt it was an oversight. It seems that recently, due to exhaustion and low spirits, you’ve lost the rigor and enthusiasm you once had for work, which is unfortunate. Some mistakes simply can’t be made, and I believe that poor emotional management led you to inadvertently break a taboo, causing discomfort to your client. But given how overburdened you already are, it’s tough to say much more. So, I asked the universe to bless you through a Tarot card pull, and the universe’s gift to you is the Brilliance card. The universe reminds you that I’m sharing with you things you’ve recently ignored or dismissed, but which are very important to you. If you take my words to heart and sense the concern behind them, you might experience a moment of clarity, a “lightbulb moment.” If not, that’s unfortunate—you’ll have missed the universe’s guidance and blessing through our conversation. Hopefully, in a few days, after you’re feeling more settled, you’ll look back on our exchange and still have a chance to receive this crucial insight. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion 在擁擠的人群中，他像一棵大樹，立在那兒，不管旁邊的攤販如何吆喝叫賣著，他就是靜靜地等待。 在傳統市場裡，人們有著共同的行進動線的默契，當然，也有混亂的時候，但，大多數我們總是習慣從入口的右邊開始，一攤攤的逛，然後走到自己覺得可以回頭的點時，再往回走，再逛起另一邊的攤位。 這傳統市場是我這兩年採買食材的地方。 一開始覺好大，現在依然，沒有一次有全程走完，逛完的。 傳統市場就是如此，多去幾次，嘗試購買不同攤位後，自己喜歡的、習慣的攤位差不多也就拿捏準了，後來的採買就是抓緊一個原則，快，狠、準，從入口開始直接衝去目的攤位，盯上，拿起，付錢，轉身，離開，沒多停留的。 可從前兩個月，注意到了這位賣菜的伯伯，第一次看到，沒跟他買，可能我去的時間太晚了，他賣菜板車上剩下的菜，乾乾扁扁的，感覺不能再放。 可，我買菜挑選的需求是可以再放幾天的，一次吃不完那樣多的呀。 再來注意到老伯伯是在颱風後的採買。 每攤的青菜價格都高得嚇壞人，可每個老闆都說，颱風後，有青菜可以採買已是難得，物稀價當然貴。 我忍痛拿出荷包的紙鈔，買了一小把青菜，這確定是有益身體健康，怎我覺買這把青菜，我的心臟好痛。 這樣一小把的葉菜不夠我未來幾天的人體需求，突然之間聽到老伯伯說，一籃菜50元，不論是哪一種菜。 天呀！ 我問伯伯，您這樣有賺嗎？ 他的聲音輕輕的，有點沙啞，說，沒有。颱風剛過，大家都辛苦了，他有去大盤批菜，就出來賣。大家吃新鮮，吃的開心，這次沒有賺，沒有關係。 老伯伯的菜，比一般菜攤的菜看起來老，長比較大，大部分的人買菜喜歡挑嫩一點的。 我覺老伯伯的心意，讓人感動，我挑了兩盆。 伯伯幫我將菜裝進袋子裡的同時，有其他人靠近了。 結果，我開始幫老伯伯推銷他的菜。 伯伯聽到後對我微微笑。 沒多久，伯伯的菜賣掉了九成。 不是我很會叫賣，實在是老伯伯賣的價錢便宜。 回來後，我趁新鮮川燙了其中一種菜，青江菜。 看起來個頭大，可口感不粗糙，菜的纖維沒有想像中的老，不會不好咀嚼，是很可以的。 於是，這次，我特地去找老伯伯買菜。 一樣的身影，一樣的裝扮，一樣的板車，一樣一籃籃的菜，然後，一樣的寧靜。 結果，一樣，忍不住在其他客人靠近時，幫老伯伯叫賣。 沒想到，這時有位歐巴桑，推擠著老伯伯說，老伯伯擋住她的客人了？！ 伯伯的面前是我，我回頭看，沒有人站在我後面啊。 這位歐巴桑說的客人，是？？？ 伯伯也沒跟歐巴桑理論。 歐巴桑動手把伯伯的板車往旁邊挪動，又往前推，我趕緊跳到旁邊，免得撞到。 然後歐巴桑推著她的板車經過我時，叨唸著，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，就是轉不到她的客人前面去。 我自己翻譯成，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，但都沒有客人上前去。 看了歐巴桑賣的東西，我也只能說抱歉，無法跟她購買呀。 她賣的是痠痛藥膏，這不是我的菜呀。 回家後，老伯伯的身影一直盤繞在腦海裡。 想請宇宙送給老伯伯祝福 ~ 願他安康，願他祥和，願他福氣，願他無生無量。 宇宙送給老伯伯的塔羅牌祝福是【慈悲 Compassion】。 哇！有沒有覺得宇宙、高我、能量、磁場以及塔羅很奇妙。 在總共88張的塔羅牌裡，抽到的牌卡就是如此呼應著老伯伯的調性。 宇宙覺老伯伯的慈悲與祥和是讓人景仰與推崇的。 在世為人，慈悲為懷，虛懷若谷，體諒諒解，寬容包容，這是溫暖的力量，是慈悲祥和的力量，是愛的力量。 November 14, 2024 – The Vegetable Vendor: Compassion Amid the crowded marketplace, he stands like a large tree, rooted in place, quietly waiting while other vendors shout and call to attract customers. In the traditional market, there's an unspoken understanding of the flow of foot traffic, though it can be chaotic at times. Most people start from the right side of the entrance, browsing from stall to stall until they reach a point they consider a turning-back spot, then retrace their steps to explore the stalls on the other side. This market has been my go-to spot for grocery shopping over the past two years. Initially, it felt overwhelmingly large, and even now, I have yet to walk through it in its entirety in a single visit. That's the nature of traditional markets; with each visit, I experiment with different vendors, gradually narrowing down my favorites. Eventually, I adopted a routine: entering, heading directly to the targeted stalls, picking up items, paying, and leaving—no lingering. Two months ago, though, I noticed an elderly vegetable vendor. The first time I saw him, I didn’t buy anything; I was probably too late, and the vegetables left on his cart were somewhat wilted, seemingly unable to last much longer. I prefer produce that I can store for a few days, enough to be used gradually. The next time I noticed him was after a typhoon. Vegetable prices had skyrocketed across all stalls, and vendors explained that post-typhoon greens were scarce and therefore expensive. I reluctantly handed over my cash for a small bundle, painfully aware of the cost for the sake of health. That small bundle wasn’t nearly enough for my needs over the coming days. Then, I overheard the elderly vendor say, “One basket of vegetables, 50 dollars, any kind you want.” I was taken aback! I asked him, "Are you making any profit this way?" With a soft, slightly hoarse voice, he replied, “No. It’s right after the typhoon; everyone’s going through tough times. I managed to get some greens at wholesale, so I brought them out for people to enjoy fresh and happy meals. I won’t make a profit this time, and that’s okay.” His vegetables were more mature and larger than what most shoppers would typically pick, as many prefer tender greens. But I was moved by his kindness and sincerity and chose two baskets. While he packed the vegetables for me, others began approaching his stall. I found myself helping to promote his vegetables. Hearing my efforts, he gave me a gentle smile. Soon, 90% of his vegetables were sold—not because I’m good at marketing but because his prices were simply reasonable. When I got home, I blanched one of the greens—bok choy. Although large, it was surprisingly tender and easy to chew. So, this time, I specifically went back to find the elderly vendor. There he was, with the same demeanor, same attire, same cart, and same quiet presence. Once again, I couldn’t help but encourage other customers to buy from him. Unexpectedly, a middle-aged woman suddenly shoved him, complaining that he was blocking her customers. I was standing in front of him and looked back—there was no one behind me. So, who exactly were her “customers”? Without arguing, the vendor allowed her to push his cart aside. I quickly stepped aside, avoiding a collision as she maneuvered her own cart past me, muttering about how she couldn’t manage to position herself in front of her customers. I interpreted her mutterings as her frustration with not attracting customers. I looked at her goods, which turned out to be pain-relief ointment—definitely not something on my shopping list. Back home, the elderly vendor’s figure lingered in my mind. I silently sent a blessing to him, hoping the universe would grant him health, harmony, fortune, and boundless peace. The Tarot card blessing from the universe for the vendor is Compassion. Isn’t it marvelous how the universe, our higher selves, energy, the magnetic field, and Tarot align in such a magical way? Out of 88 cards, the one drawn resonated perfectly with his spirit. The universe acknowledges the vendor’s compassion and serenity as qualities to be admired. In this world, living with compassion, embracing humility, and showing understanding and tolerance for others embody a warm power—a power of compassionate serenity, the power of love. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian 給找工作遇到挫折的孟孟 ~ 妳說工作好難找。都找不到妳想要的。 討論工作這檔事，我擅長，我以前做人力資源的。 我問了問，想找哪一類的工作？ 妳說，文書方面的。 我再問，有文書處理相關的證照嗎？ 妳說，有。 我又問，文書處理相關證照有官方和民間的，這在履歷加分上是不同層次的，妳的證照是哪單位發的？ 妳猶豫不確定，因從沒注意過。 於是，今天的聊天變成是職涯了解了。 我們聊了妳的想法，就業市場對於履歷如何評核，妳要如何讓自己過去的工作表現於文字描寫上呈現出亮眼的優勢。 我們也聊了證照對於求職的加分和幫助。 然後，我也提了一些建議，畢竟聊天的時間很短暫，無法詳盡地說，但有些功課可以自己上網學習。 因此提供一些建議與查詢資料的建議。 最後，妳說，妳沒想到在這次與我的對話裡可以學習到新思維。妳以為就是聽聽妳的心情，聽妳的抱怨與不安；妳未曾設想過竟然可以獲得具體且有用的事情。 我說，緣分很奇妙吧！老天知道妳面臨的問題，於是安排了妳我這場的相聊。 送給孟孟的塔羅祝福：【守護者 Guardian】 來自宇宙的消息，認真的孟孟，妳的心智如同水晶般，閃耀與美麗。可也因妳美麗的心智迷人且豐富，容易被迷惑，容易被利用。所以要如何守護好妳的初衷，妳的心智，不受外界影響，那是很重要的事情。 祝福孟孟找到喜歡的且合適的工作，並且加強鍛鍊自己的心智，美好的未來，就在不遠前方等著妳。 Blessing for Mengmeng on August 27, 2024: To Mengmeng, who is facing difficulties in job hunting ~ You mentioned that finding a job is challenging and you haven't been able to find what you want. Discussing job-related matters is my expertise—I used to work in human resources. I asked, "What kind of job are you looking for?" You replied, "Something related to clerical work." I then asked, "Do you have any certifications related to clerical work?" You answered, "Yes, I do." I further inquired, "There are official and unofficial certifications related to clerical work, and they add different levels of value to your resume. Which institution issued your certification?" You hesitated, unsure, as you had never paid attention to this before. Thus, today's chat turned into a career exploration session. We talked about your thoughts, how the job market evaluates resumes, and how to highlight your past job performances in writing to stand out. We also discussed how certifications can enhance your job search. Then, I gave some suggestions. After all, our chat was brief, and I couldn't cover everything in detail, but there are some things you can research online yourself. So, I provided some advice and tips for further study. Finally, you said you hadn't expected to gain new perspectives from our conversation. You thought it would be just about sharing your feelings, complaints, and anxieties; you never imagined you would receive concrete and useful information. I said, "Isn't fate amazing? The universe knew about the challenges you are facing, so it arranged for us to have this conversation." Tarot Blessing for Mengmeng: [Guardian] A message from the universe: Dear diligent Mengmeng, your mind is like a crystal—bright and beautiful. However, because your beautiful mind is charming and rich, it's easy to be misled or taken advantage of. Therefore, knowing how to protect your original intentions and keep your mind from being influenced by external factors is very important. I wish Mengmeng finds a job that you love and suits you well. May you also strengthen and sharpen your mind. A wonderful future is just waiting for you not far ahead. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity 即將成為新娘的霜霜 聽到妳滿是煩躁的心情，沒有了即將成為新娘的喜悅和幸福，有點替妳擔心。 妳說，剛跟父母吵了架，為了婚禮。 可，妳自己知道，父母的建議才是好的。 妳就是感到很煩，胸口很堵，很想大聲地發脾氣，可又找不到正當理由，所以就只能在討論婚禮的事情上，找大家的麻煩。 妳說，妳擔心著婚禮還沒舉行，大家的情感都吵散了。 我問了妳，當初答應結婚的決定是什麼？ 妳說，男友想結婚，雙方談了未來的一些事情，妳回家問妳爸媽的意思，家人也覺是結婚的好時機，所以妳也就答應。 我說，以為是因男友求婚浪漫，當下衝動Say了”Yes”。 妳說，妳自己是個理智的人，求婚感覺也沒多浪漫，且妳不喜歡很多人注視下的求婚，還好妳男友夠了解妳，沒有做這些安排，不然妳可能當場的反應會傷到很多人的心，情況會變得很尷尬。 我問，結婚，為何讓妳覺得很煩？是婚禮的瑣碎覺得厭煩？還是其他什麼？ 妳說，妳也不知道，就感覺結婚後，妳不能再成為妳，光是想到這點就覺煩躁不已。 我再深入地詢問，妳說，結了婚後，沒有了自由，像是被綁住，無法呼吸。 我微笑著跟妳回應說，我單身，沒有類似經驗的可跟妳分享。不過從家人、朋友、電視、小說裡，有記得一些事情可以分享。 聊到後來，妳說了一句話，我笑了出來。 妳說，妳知道了，妳陷入了煩躁的情緒裡，但沒有好好想過到底為什麼煩躁，所以好像問題很多，其實，現在冷靜想想，原本糾結的事情，有些，連”事”都稱不上，根本就不是問題。 最後我們的結論就是，溝通，跟現在的未婚夫，未來的老公溝通。 妳跟男友之間的愛很濃，妳擔心婚後吵架會把情感吵薄了，可忘了先思考你們會為什麼事情吵架？吵架之前，是否有什麼想法，就提出來先討論，互相了解呢。 最後，妳說，今晚可以好好睡覺了。 然後我們就結束了談話。 妳，感覺像是位女漢子，一但不糾結，就放下。這樣的個性，挺好。 送給妳祝福的塔羅牌：【負面性Negativity】。 來自宇宙的訊息是，提醒碧霜，遇到糾結的事情時，負面思緒和情緒會先慣性地湧現，這部分要注意。在發生這樣的情況時，適時地與相關的人進行討論、分享，有助於卡住的思緒或情緒。 預祝霜霜 新婚幸福 百年好合！ 2024-08-26 Blessings to Bishuang: Dear Bishuang, who is about to become a bride, Hearing your anxious feelings, lacking the joy and happiness of becoming a bride, I feel a bit worried for you. You mentioned that you just had an argument with your parents about the wedding. But you know that your parents' suggestions are well-intentioned. You just feel annoyed, like there's a weight on your chest, wanting to vent loudly but without a proper reason, so you end up taking it out on the wedding discussions. You said you're worried that even before the wedding happens, everyone's emotions will already be scattered by the arguments. I asked you, what was your initial reason for agreeing to get married? You said your boyfriend wanted to get married. Both of you talked about the future, you went home and asked your parents' opinion, and your family also thought it was a good time to get married, so you agreed. I thought it was because of a romantic proposal from your boyfriend, and in a moment of impulse, you said "Yes." You replied that you are a rational person and the proposal wasn’t particularly romantic. Moreover, you don’t like being the center of attention during a proposal. Fortunately, your boyfriend knows you well and didn’t plan anything like that; otherwise, your reaction might have hurt many feelings, making things awkward. I asked why getting married makes you feel so annoyed. Is it the trivialities of the wedding that you find frustrating, or something else? You said you don’t really know; you just feel that after getting married, you can no longer be yourself, and just thinking about it makes you feel uneasy. I probed a little deeper, and you said that after marriage, there would be no more freedom, like being tied down and unable to breathe. I smiled and responded that, as a single person, I don’t have similar experiences to share. However, from family, friends, TV, and novels, I do recall some things that might be worth sharing. As our conversation continued, you said something that made me laugh out loud. You mentioned that you realized you were caught up in your anxious emotions without really thinking about why, so it seemed like there were many problems. However, upon calmly reflecting, some of the things that were troubling you weren’t even real "issues" at all. Our final conclusion was communication—communicating with your current fiancé, your future husband. The love between you and your boyfriend is strong. You worry that arguments after marriage might dilute your feelings, but you forgot to consider what you might argue about. Before arguing, why not bring up your thoughts and discuss them openly to better understand each other? In the end, you said you could finally have a good night's sleep tonight. And then we ended our conversation. You seemed like a strong woman, someone who, once they let go, truly lets go. That’s a great personality to have. The Tarot card drawn for you: Negativity. The message from the universe is to remind you, Bishuang, that when you encounter tangled situations, negative thoughts and emotions might habitually surface first, and you should be mindful of this. When this happens, it is helpful to discuss and share with the relevant people to clear the blocked thoughts or emotions. Wishing you a happy marriage and a lifetime of love! #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

18種讓妳成為旅遊達人的方法!!!

成為你探險世界的指南!!! http://news.distractify.com/travel/travel-responsibly/ 1. 要清楚的瞭解,你旅遊的地方,同時也是別人的家. "接觸別人的文化,體驗別人的文化,學習別人的文化" 2. 行前的調查及規畫是非常重要的!!! thisworldrocks.comNo, you don’t have to be the guy who memorized the guidebook or the Wikipedia page for a particular destination, but it’s always a good idea to have a sense of where you’re going. Where do the locals like to spend their time? What is the culture like? Is tipping customary, or will it be offensive? You can never be wholly prepared for every experience abroad, but it’s nice for both parties if you make an effort to minimize unnecessarily awkward interactions with the local people. 3. Respect the culture thisworldrocks.comYou’ll learn a lot about where you’re headed from a little research, some of that may catch you pretty off-guard. Perhaps you never would have known that despite the fact that you’re headed to the hot desert, the conservative culture in that country views the wearing of shorts or skirts as inappropriate. Perhaps eating with one hand as opposed to another is offensive, or adding condiments to your food is insulting. Remember, you’re a guest in their country, keeping an open mind and flexing to their cultural demands (however foreign or unusual they may seem) will set you apart from the other “tourists.” 4. Ask before photographing anyone thisworldrocks.comThis is huge, and a great way to demonstrate that you’re respecting local people. It is very much the case that some cultures strongly believe that to be photographed is to lose part of their soul. In other places, the custom for locals allowing themselves to be photographed comes with the expectation of a tip. And if that street performer or vibrantly dressed individual riding some exotic animal declines, respect their wishes as you would hope a traveler in the opposite situation would do for you. 5. Learn a few key phrases 4hdwall.comEven if you have to muscle through them, there is a) nothing more frustrating abroad for both parties than when you can’t communicate basic needs to someone who is trying to help you out but doesn’t speak your language, and b) locals will recognize and almost always appreciate the effort you’re making. Even just knowing the essential simple phrases like “hello,” “please” and “thank you” demonstrates a wealth of respect. 6. Meet some people usimages.detik.comHonestly, one of the greatest things you can collect abroad is friends. People will “remember that time…” infinitely better than you will remember your trip looking at some kitschy souvenir that likely broke on your way home. Plus, there’s a lot you can learn about other countries and cultures by speaking directly with someone who lives it every day (and better still, they can show you places and sites you would have never found on your own). 7. Buy local artisansofmorocco.files.wordpress.comA good guide will take you to parts of the country that are less glamorous, for the opportunity to pick up handcrafted souvenirs made by local artisans. While they may not mention it, not only are those one-of-a-kind crafts a way more awesome thing to take home than a plastic model of whatever city you’re visiting, but also buying those directly benefits the craftspeople and the town they live in. When you see statistics about tourism stimulating economies, that’s a huge part of what they’re talking about, and those villages and towns depend on your dollars much more than those kiosks adjacent to main attractions do. 8. Look into a home stay nobswall.comNothing will give you a more authentic experience in any destination like a homestay. There’s something to be said about a proper home cooked meal, no matter what country you’re in. Again, you’re supporting local families, you’ll gain privileged insight into what real life is like in that place, and you’ll make a whole family of friends without having to proactively introduce yourself to a bunch of strangers. 9. Try the food twisper.comOne of my biggest regrets as a traveler is flying halfway around the world, just to eat Burger King and drink Starbucks. For a long time I was too meek to eat at local restaurants, let alone get as far out of my comfort zone as would be required to eat at a foreign cart food. Then I realized everyone who lives there does, and for good reason. If you want a genuine taste of what another country has to offer, eat the local food where the rest of the locals are eating. 10. Breathe richculture.coOne of the biggest differences between a traveler and a tourist is the mission. As a tourist, you might attempt to greedily collect photos of major attractions like Pokemon, so that no one viewing the slideshow later knows that you only spent 10 minutes passing by the Louvre on your way to the Eiffel Tower. Trying to do and see it all means you’ll likely get to do very little, and see it all for only an instant. Breathing, slowing down, and tossing the itinerary frees you up to experience things as they come, and more fully immerse in the experience you want. Traveling can also be quite stressful, especially when all the plans go haywire, you miss a connection and are stranded somewhere even-more-foreign, or you do something catastrophic like lose your wallet (as I have done, twice). Breathe then, and remember that it’s all part of the adventure. 11. Be spontaneous ibankcoin.comWith your newfound itinerary-free time, do whatever sounds good in the moment, and change your mind often if you think something else would be better. Enjoy being liberated from “doing what you’re supposed to do” and “seeing what you’re supposed to see.” You’ve got limited time, but rather than trying to cram as much as you can in as little time as possible, maximize your experience by going with the flow, and live at the pace you want to live at. 12. Get lost…it’s fun cmm.aeNo seriously, get properly lost. Then breathe, and remind yourself it’ll be okay. Then give yourself the opportunity to get acquainted with a place that’s so much more than an aerial view printed on some paper. Weave between streets, duck into alleys, ask for help if you need it, but explore like you’re discovering the place for the first time (because you are, after all, discovering the place for the first time). 13. Ditch the tour group, do it on your own travelalltogether.comWhile it is convenient to be with a group of other vacationers and have a manufactured experience delicately balanced for controlled culture shock, there’s a lot to be gained by tackling a new place on your own. Sure, the tour group method will help you see everything you may want to see and more, but on the merits of your research you could likely do the same or better, for much less money. Plus, you don’t have to wait for a herd of people to stop staring at a sculpture you don’t find particularly interesting, nor do you feel herded for wanting to spend an afternoon staring at a painting that your guide has only budgeted 15 minutes for. 14. Seek the road less traveled stepping2yourdreams.files.wordpress.comNot just the road less traveled by tour groups, but the road less traveled in general. You know those hole-in-the-wall places in your hometown? Or your favorite deserted lookout spot? There are those places literally all over the world, and they just take a little finding. 15. The best things in life are still free, no matter where you go lapausecafe.files.wordpress.comWalk the streets, hike the hills, play in the ocean. Visit a park, people watch, and just be generally stoked to be somewhere completely new. You probably paid a bunch to get there, now revel in all the things that don’t cost a dime. 16. Take public transit 3.bp.blogspot.comWhen in doubt, do as the locals do, and the locals take public transit. It’s way cheaper, you’ll probably meet some people along the way, it’ll help you get to know the place you’re in better, and you may even get a little lost. 17.Realize that your ideal vacation might not be where you expect to find it 3.bp.blogspot.comIt’s been ages since your last vacation, and you just want to get away. Visions of palm trees and crystal clear waters crashing on amazing beaches flood your mind, and you can almost feel the sun on your skin and the warm white sands between your toes. There’s nothing for miles but you and your book. So (if you’re like me) the first thing you do is Google “Hawaii vacations,” like hundreds of thousands of other people every day. There’s nothing wrong with going to Hawaii, and sure there are spots on the islands where you can have everything you envisioned, but you may also have to share it with a ton of other people. The more readily a vacation spot comes to mind, the more likely you’re not the only one with that idea, so the perfect getaway might take a little more research. Fortunately, there’s a trillion other fascinating and perfect little islands all over the world, and a wealth of resources to help you find the one that will give you the experience you’re looking for, plus perhaps a pleasant surprise. 18. Travel frequenciesoflife.files.wordpress.comWhether you’re an aspiring traveler, a gung-ho tourist, a genuine globetrotter, or anything in between, one of the greatest things you can do for yourself is to just get out there. We live on an amazing planet full of wonders that none of us will ever see all of in our lifetimes, but that should in no way stop you from trying. 

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment 給迫不及待，等不及約好的時間，提前到來的丹丹 ~ 年輕的妳，很有自己的想法與主張；妳，不迷惘，不慌張，妳只是想找一個人聽妳說，聽妳訴，聽到妳的心聲而已。 妳覺得，年輕，最大的本錢是時間、精神和體力。這點我非常認同的。所以妳想趁著年輕，多賺錢，不想花費太多時間和金錢在玩樂上面，這點，實在是讓我太佩服妳了。 想當年，在妳這樣花樣年華的年紀，與同事週六的約會和玩耍，可是我認為人生的重頭戲呢。 有著成熟思想的妳認為，年輕，腦子記憶力較好，反應較快，應該用來學習、累積與思考。 所以妳不太跟朋友外出，這就造成了今日的困擾，朋友們覺得妳不好搞，妳希望朋友能懂妳的渴望和企圖。 記得我當下跟妳說 ~ 『妳的生活，是妳的，朋友的生活，是朋友的。』 『每個人的背景條件不同，這是先天給的；每個人想要的生活不同，這是後天自己想要的。』 妳認同了這些話，可仍陷在感覺與朋友格格不入的氛圍裡。 然後我接著跟妳分享了自己的人生 ~ 我覺『年輕呀，正是適合努力往前衝的年紀呢。』 每個人想要衝去的方向不同而已。 我有朋友喜愛旅遊，可以把薪水、時間和心力都用在旅遊，樂此不疲；而我有點相反，我喜歡穩定，旅遊很美好，對我來說卻不會很常安排。 每個人對生活、對樂趣、對人生意義都有不一樣的看法與想要完成的人生使命。 不管是如何，都很好。 我也曾經遇到朋友認為我和他們其他人沒有話聊，聚會時，即使我只是坐在旁邊聽他們說，他們也覺我礙眼。於是，他們有些聚會沒有找我了。 當我知道時，有點難過，不過更多的是鬆了一口氣。 我知道這群朋友很好，所以我捨不得離開，但終究別人幫我做了這個分離的決定，我就順著這個勢，疏離淡去。 這就是所謂的〝道不同，不相為謀〞。 彼此之間說不到一塊，那就別勉強雙方了。 『會有那麼一群跟妳志同道合的人，在前方不遠處等著妳。』 『也許懂妳的，可以跟妳一起成長交流的朋友，在新世界，就等妳去找到。』 我記得我最後是這樣跟丹丹妳說的。 妳的笑有點沒有精神，因妳捨不得現在這群朋友。 這就是丹丹誤會我的意思了。 我總認為，朋友有很多種，也有很多不同階段還是層級。 不是分高低，不是分親疏蜜離。 我還有跟丹丹說這些話，不知道妳有記得嗎？ 『妳會知道有些朋友適合一起做甚麼，有些事情適合哪些朋友。』 『不是將朋友分種類，或分級，而是每位出現在我們身邊的朋友，他們對我們人生影響的事情 是不同的。』 我喜歡跟朋友相聚，因為跟朋友一起開懷大笑，讓我覺得生命很好，日子很好，人生很好，歲月靜好。 『我知道很多朋友只能陪伴自己一段時間，無法長久，無法一輩子。』 所以我總是珍惜〝當下〞、〝現在〞。 相聚時，專注，用心。 工作時，認真，奮鬥。 學習時，投入，努力。 人生由許多階段連接而成，生活由不同面向組合而成，日子是綜合的寶箱，而非單一口味的獨屬盒。 偶爾跟朋友出去玩玩，放鬆，也不錯。 大部分時間想要學習、累積，讓自己未來爬得更高，走得更遠，這志向，更好。 加油 ~ ！ 妳的人生調色由妳自己決定。 送給妳的塔羅祝福：【滿足 Fulfillment】。 來自宇宙的訊息，這是一張情感的塔羅牌，提醒丹丹，珍惜朋友的關心，她們可能是希望妳在努力的路途上，也可同時間享有友情的潤澤，家人的關心與照顧。當妳退一步去思考朋友的出發點時，妳就會察覺到妳身在充滿愛與關懷裡，心中是滿滿的幸福。 2024-08-25 Blessings to Dandan: Fulfillment To the eager Dandan who arrives early, unable to wait for the agreed-upon time~ As a young person, you have your own thoughts and opinions. You are not confused or flustered; you simply want someone to listen to you, to hear your stories, and to understand your innermost feelings. You believe that the greatest assets of youth are time, energy, and physical strength. I completely agree with this perspective. That's why you want to take advantage of your youth to earn more money and are reluctant to spend too much time and money on entertainment. I truly admire this about you. Back in the day, when I was your age, I considered outings and weekend gatherings with colleagues as the highlights of life. However, with your mature mindset, you believe that while young, with a sharper memory and quicker reflexes, you should focus on learning, accumulating knowledge, and reflecting on life. As a result, you don't go out much with friends, which has led to today's troubles—your friends find you difficult to connect with, while you wish they could understand your desires and ambitions. I remember telling you then: "Your life is yours, and your friends' lives are theirs." "Everyone has different circumstances, which are given by nature; everyone desires a different kind of life, which is what they strive for later." You agreed with these words but still felt out of sync with your friends. Then I shared my own life experiences with you: I believe that youth is the time to strive forward with all your might. Everyone just has different directions they want to pursue. I have friends who love traveling and can devote their salaries, time, and energy to it without getting tired. I'm somewhat the opposite; I prefer stability. Travel is wonderful, but I don't plan it often. Everyone has different perspectives on life, fun, and the meaning of life and different missions they want to accomplish. No matter what, it's all good. I've also had friends who felt they had nothing to talk about with me. Even if I just sat beside them, listening, they found me annoying. So, some of their gatherings didn't include me. When I found out, I was a bit sad but more relieved. I knew these friends were great, so I was reluctant to leave, but in the end, they made the decision for me to part ways, and I just went with the flow, gradually drifting apart. This is what they call "different paths, no mutual plans." If you can't see eye to eye, don't force either side. "There will be a group of like-minded people waiting for you not far ahead." "Perhaps friends who understand you, who can grow and exchange ideas with you, are waiting for you in a new world." I remember saying this to you at the end. Your smile seemed a bit spiritless because you were reluctant to let go of your current group of friends. That’s where you misunderstood me. I always believe there are many kinds of friends and different stages or levels. It's not about ranking higher or lower or being closer or more distant. Did you remember I also told you this? "You will know which friends are suitable for what activities, and what things are suitable for which friends." "It's not about categorizing or grading friends but recognizing that each friend who appears around us has a different impact on our lives." I enjoy gathering with friends because laughing heartily with them makes me feel life is good, the days are good, life is great, and the years are peaceful. "I know many friends can only accompany me for a while, not forever, not for a lifetime." So, I always cherish the "present" and the "now." When gathering, I focus and put my heart into it. When working, I am serious and strive hard. When learning, I dedicate myself and work diligently. Life is composed of many stages; living consists of different facets; the days are a comprehensive treasure chest, not a single-flavored exclusive box. Occasionally going out to play and relax with friends is also good. Spending most of your time learning and accumulating, aiming to climb higher and go further in the future, is an even better ambition. Keep it up~! The colors of your life are yours to choose. Here is a tarot blessing for you: Fulfillment. A message from the universe, this is a card of emotions, reminding you, Dandan, to cherish the care of your friends. They may wish for you to enjoy the nourishment of friendship and the care and support of family even while striving on your path. When you take a step back and consider your friends' perspectives, you'll realize you're surrounded by love and care, and your heart will be filled with happiness. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner 最近有朋友們發現，對於文字的用字上，我有自己的較真。 也許我用的詞不常見，或者有可能自創的句子，朋友們覺得很是生動與貼近。 心裡很是開心。 被看見，被欣賞的滿足。 前天晚上的線上課程學習到一個新詞「擾動」。 課堂上老師是用在與靈魂、靈性有關。 比如，擾動靈魂，擾動心性。 不知道大家之前是否有曾聽過這動詞。 以往我只聽過「攪動」、「攪亂」、「擾亂」。 所以一聽到「擾動」，感到好興奮，認為學到一個新詞，且這詞好適合用在身心靈關於能量運動中的狀態。 在『學習者』塔羅牌的這一天，建議大家可以試著將自己的心房打開，也許會不經意的有新學習，新獲得。 在學習過程中，我發現自己總是非常貪心地什麼都想碰觸一些。 以正向思考來說，我的學習是雜食派，只要有興趣的，就東碰一點，西碰一些，妥妥當當地符合學生時代對於經營管理系或企業管理系的期待，就是啥都知道，啥都能扯，能聊，但若再往深一點扒，那就真不知道有什麼料可被挖掘。 以消極面來說，很多面向都知道一些，那可能就是其實都不懂。 不懂深度，不懂門道，不懂專業，也就不懂何謂。 四不懂，就難與專業人士真正的交流與分享，有點可惜。 不過，「多欲為苦，生死疲勞。枉心不歇，歇即菩提。」* 若今日所學能有彈性，是為了累積生命的厚度，想學什麼事情，也要有機緣才有機會學習，這是人生樂事無誤。 喜歡學習的人，對於眼界，不會侷限。 看事情呢，有著更大的寬度與包容。 對新事情喜歡探索，總在探索中，新事物、新訊息，與自己舊有的制約產生衝擊與火花。 我很佩服那些可以從這些火花中，抓到靈感，進而規劃、實現自己的理想或事業的人。 有人喜歡從歷史學習，有人喜歡探索未知。 領航者塔羅牌，這張『學習者』是水晶小孩。 水晶小孩，感覺象徵著剛挖掘出來並洗淨、淨化過的水晶，如同小孩，擁有純真，待鍛鍊、雕琢的心智，像是個大池，等著倒入許多新奇好玩的事物。 這個大池如同我們的心智，倒進入的，將會影響許多事情如何選擇，如何決定的資料來源。 有些是訊息，有些是學習，有些是經驗，有些是代價。 我們的心智需要鍛鍊與磨練，需要學習與吸收。 心智的運作，心智的能量，心智的潛力，心智的影響與心智的陷阱，總是多元、多樣又變化多種。 在鍛鍊歷程中，也要小心注意，過去的成功方式，不一定適用現在，適時的因應與調整是必須的。 這時，新的問題來了，什麼時候需要調整？適時是指什麼？因應對策是什麼？如何調整？調整為什麼？ 要尋求、找到這一切切問題的答案，關鍵只有一個，那就是學習。 不斷學習，精進學習，多元學習，跳出舊有框架思維的學習，也許有機會能慢慢找到答案。 Tarot of the Day, June 27, 2024: The Learner Recently, some friends have noticed that I am quite particular about my choice of words. Maybe the words I use are uncommon, or perhaps I create my own sentences. My friends find them very vivid and relatable. This makes me very happy. The satisfaction of being seen and appreciated is immense. The night before last, I learned a new term, "disturbance," in an online course. The teacher used it in the context of the soul and spirituality, such as disturbing the soul or disturbing the mind. I wonder if any of you have heard this verb before. Previously, I had only heard of "stirring," "disrupting," and "disturbing." So, when I heard "disturbance," I was excited, feeling I had learned a new word that perfectly describes the state of energy movement related to body, mind, and spirit. On this day represented by the 'Learner' tarot card, I suggest that everyone try to open their hearts. You might unintentionally gain new knowledge and new insights. In the process of learning, I find myself always wanting to touch on everything. From a positive perspective, my learning is omnivorous. As long as I am interested, I will touch on a bit of everything. This aligns perfectly with the expectations of students in business management or corporate management, knowing a bit about everything, able to talk about anything, but if you dig deeper, there might not be much substance to uncover. On the downside, knowing a little about many areas might mean understanding nothing deeply. Not understanding depth, not understanding the intricacies, not understanding the profession, and therefore not understanding the essence. This superficial understanding makes it difficult to truly engage and share with professionals, which is a bit unfortunate. However, "Desire leads to suffering; life and death bring fatigue. When the mind ceases, enlightenment is attained."* If today's learning can be flexible, it is to accumulate the depth of life. Wanting to learn something also requires the right opportunity, which is indeed one of life's pleasures. People who love learning are not limited by their perspectives. They see things with greater breadth and tolerance. They love exploring new things, always finding new things and new information that clash and spark with their old conditioning. I greatly admire those who can capture inspiration from these sparks and then plan and realize their ideals or careers. Some like to learn from history, while others like to explore the unknown. The 'Learner' card in the Navigator Tarot represents a crystal child. Crystal children symbolize newly unearthed and purified crystals, much like children, with innocent minds awaiting training and honing, like a large pool ready to be filled with many new and interesting things. This large pool, like our minds, influences the choices and decisions we make with the information poured into it. Some are messages, some are lessons, some are experiences, and some are costs. Our minds need training and honing; they need to learn and absorb. The operation of the mind, its energy, potential, influence, and traps are always diverse and ever-changing. In the process of training, we must also be careful. Past successful methods may not apply now; timely adaptation and adjustment are necessary. This brings a new question: When is adjustment needed? What does timely mean? What are the countermeasures? How to adjust? Why adjust? To seek and find answers to all these questions, there is only one key: learning. Continuous learning, diligent learning, diverse learning, and learning beyond old frameworks may slowly lead to the answers. 補充資料來源：”*”之文句係抄自臉書傅月庵老師之文章擷取而來。 咒語：根據您的要求，我已經為您創作了一幅新的插畫。插畫中的主角是一位約40歲的臺灣女性，她的頭髮是中短的，微卷，且表現出一種俏麗和灑脫的氣質。她身著現代的服裝，並披著紅色的斗篷。她正處於一個充滿書籍和學習材料的環境中，面部表情展現出對新知識的好奇和熱情。背景是一個寧靜的學習環境，充滿了書籍和學習材料，強調了學習和知識的重要性。 #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Learner

Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot：憤怒 Anger (57-57)

Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot：憤怒 Anger (57-57) 問題：我5/24的未來日記主題 抽牌：憤怒 Anger 太棒了！總算來到「未來日記」的最後一天。 長達五十七天的塔羅實驗，近兩個月的時間來到尾聲。 呼！ 不算短的時間。 五十七天，應有五十七篇，最後產出五十篇。 沒有產出的七篇，其中有五篇因身體或時間狀況無法寫出，剩餘二篇，塔羅預先抽出的牌卡與當日沒有事項連結，實在不知要如何下筆，因此就空著。 而產出的五十篇中，有二篇，預先抽出的塔羅牌卡與當天的實際日記無法互相呼應，思索後，決定就不進行記錄，其實應該也是要寫下，這樣實驗的過程和紀錄才能夠完整，可實在是太忙了，忙到每天睡眠不足又太疲憊了。 這次實驗表格的紀錄需要再調整，再精進。 有的時候就是這樣，計畫的時候，不是沒有考慮周全，而是經驗值不夠，所以有需要紀錄的項目沒能去設想到，直到現在要整個資料整理、回顧時，才發現，紀錄不夠完整，不夠詳盡。 有點可惜。 可也無法再多著墨什麼。 對於是實驗主題的最後一天來說，今天的塔羅牌『憤怒』，實在不是一個美好的句點。 轉個彎思考，今天，是一年三百六十五天的其中一天，並不特別，是我迄今歲數近一萬八千天的其中一天，並不稀奇。 不是美好的句點，感覺也就沒有那麼可惜或需要多較真了。 不過，也驗證了今天的很多事情，都是不順利，且現在回想是有一點點情緒產生的。 首先，原本週五課程的老師突然離職，換了一位新老師，是錯愕。 再來，新老師教學內容是我個人已經付費購買的軟體，花了不少錢，現在可以用老師分享的學生權益使用二個月，感覺這兩個月的費用像是被坑了，心情有點不美麗。 學習內容是自己沒有時間，也不會研究的使用方式，有收穫，卻又敗在其他軟體搞不懂的項目裡，好難過，對自己失望了。 請助教老師協助了解一些事情，被打馬虎呼巄過去。對於工作如此不盡心的人，想起前一段時間他說他被以前的學員投訴工作狀態，對照他今日的情況，突然覺得他沒被冤枉。 對這樣的情況，我非他同事或主管，無法評斷也不想臆測，只覺可惜了。 緣分是要俱足。 俱足之前看自己是佈施呢，還是結怨？ 現在栽種的是什麼，日後也就結什麼果。 根據磁石法則來論，以後，只怕會跟他爭論、爭執，進而衍生出爭議的事情，可能會層出不窮。 這做人做事的道理，難言明。 燈不能點亮，話不能說白。 道，貴在自悟，痛在自誤。 想吃的晚餐，今天沒有營業，小難過。 隨意找家燒烤店，簡單點了幾樣，要價竟然是一天的伙食費用，覺得自己真不會持家，挫折不已。 年紀大了，往昔的大怒，大聲責罵，已難再有了。 除了心裡面不想以外，身體狀況也不允許如此高起低跌般的刺激。 頂多就是心口，有點堵，小塞一下。 過了，也就沒事了。 因為知道『憤怒』 ~ 憤怒的情緒就像杯子那般脆弱，稍微大力一碰撞，就裂了，碎了。 憤怒讓自己像是一隻持續噴出火焰的恐龍，眼睛睜紅，感覺血腥、爆力、兇殘，讓人害怕，膽懼。 惹不起，講不得，那躲可以吧，避也可以吧。 像渾身扎滿仙人掌刺，不讓人靠近，久了，也就沒有人想靠近。 如果說，這股火熱的怒氣，能夠試著轉為正面能量，成為激勵心智的動力，那也就不浪費這次被老天安排的”跨坎的試煉”。 只是，有時難免覺得老天好煩，讓人好生地安穩平靜過日子，不可嗎？ 非得要餵食人生毒藥，然後再評估每個人的自癒能力？ 這分數是要幹嘛呢！ 未來？此世？ 來生？下一世？ 搞不懂。 也不想懂。 果然，我今天的狀態真的是『憤怒』。 現在竟然跟老天叫起板來了。 老天啊！別這個自我情緒的宣洩也要搞個評估與計分，未過與補考，然後造成人間慘兮兮。 福兮？禍兮？禍福相攜，可別搞得慘慘兮兮。 Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot: Anger (57-57) Question: The theme of my future diary on 5/24 Card Drawn: Anger Great! Finally, the last day of the "Future Diary" experiment. A fifty-seven-day Tarot experiment, nearly two months, is coming to an end. Whew! Not a short period. In fifty-seven days, there should be fifty-seven entries, but only fifty were completed. Seven entries were not produced: five due to health or time constraints, and two because the Tarot cards drawn didn't connect with the day's events, leaving me unsure how to proceed, so I left them blank. Among the fifty completed entries, two had Tarot cards that didn't correspond to the actual diary, and after some thought, I decided not to record them. Ideally, I should have written them down to make the experiment more comprehensive, but I was too busy, too tired, and sleep-deprived. The record of this experiment needs adjustment and refinement. Sometimes, it's not about not considering everything thoroughly during planning but lacking enough experience. Some items that needed to be recorded were overlooked. Only when organizing and reviewing the data now do I realize the records are incomplete and insufficiently detailed. It's a bit regrettable. But there's no more to add. For the final day of the experiment theme, drawing the Tarot card "Anger" is not a pleasant ending. Turning the corner in my thoughts, today is just one of the three hundred sixty-five days in a year, not particularly special. It's one of the nearly eighteen thousand days of my life so far, not unusual. Since it's not a beautiful ending, it doesn't feel as regrettable or worth fussing over. However, it did confirm that many things today were indeed unsmooth, and in retrospect, some emotions did arise. First, the originally scheduled Friday class teacher suddenly resigned, replaced by a new teacher, which was shocking. Then, the new teacher's course content was about software I had already paid for, costing quite a bit. Now, I can use the teacher-shared student access for two months, making me feel like I got scammed out of those two months' fees, leaving me a bit upset. The learning content involved methods I didn't have the time or ability to research. While there were gains, I also struggled with other software aspects I couldn't understand, feeling disappointed in myself. Asking the teaching assistant for help on some issues, only to be brushed off, made me think of the time he mentioned previous students complaining about his work attitude. Comparing it to his behavior today, I suddenly felt he wasn't wrongly accused. For such situations, since I'm neither his colleague nor superior, I can't judge or speculate, just feel it's a pity. Fate needs to be complete. Before completeness, am I sowing goodwill or resentment? What I plant now will bear fruit in the future. According to the law of attraction, I fear future disputes and conflicts may arise, leading to endless issues. These principles of conduct and work are hard to articulate. The light can't be lit, and words can't be said plainly. The way is to understand it oneself, the pain lies in misunderstanding it. The dinner I wanted wasn't open today, a small disappointment. Randomly chose a barbecue place, ordered a few items, only to find it cost an entire day's meal budget, feeling I can't manage a household, deeply frustrated. With age, the days of great anger and loud scolding are gone. Besides not wanting to in my heart, my health doesn't allow for such highs and lows of stimulation. At most, a slight chest congestion. Once it's over, it's done. Because I know "Anger" ~ Anger is as fragile as a glass; a slight bump shatters it. Anger makes me like a dragon spewing flames, eyes bloodshot, feeling bloody, violent, ferocious, making people fearful and apprehensive. Unapproachable, unspeakable, can only avoid and evade. Like a cactus covered in spikes, preventing closeness, over time, no one wants to approach. If this burning anger can be transformed into positive energy, becoming a motivational force, then it wouldn't waste this "crossing the threshold" trial arranged by heaven. But sometimes, it's hard not to feel heaven is annoying, can't people live a peaceful life? Must we be fed life's poison, then evaluated on each person's healing ability? What's the point of these scores! Future? This life? Next life? The following life? Can't understand. Don't want to understand. Indeed, my state today is "Anger." Now I'm even arguing with heaven. Oh heavens! Don't evaluate and score even this emotional outburst, causing misery in human life. Blessing? Curse? Blessings and curses come hand in hand; don't let it turn into a miserable situation. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Anger

Alyson’s 5/18 Tarot：智者 Knower (50-57)

問題：我5/17的未來日記主題 抽牌：智者 Knower 今日，一邊忙著課堂上的實作練習，休息時間也在思考著。 思考甚麼？ 時間的安排 何時需要處理好生活上的柴米油鹽家事、瑣事 有些線上學習課程需安排時間進行 有許多書都還沒安排時間閱讀 想去陽明山上那個山谷裡的咖啡廳 想去朋友介紹的茶行 有段時間沒去看爸媽了，很想很想他們倆。 這兩週都有夢見他們，早上起來時，明明依稀記得，可得趕著出門上課。 經過一整天課程內容的摧殘，晚上回到家，連一個鏡頭都沒記起來，夢 … 已消散在我匆忙的腳步裡。 總算，昨天，我的「未來日記」與塔羅抽牌的實驗進入第七週，也是最後一週。 我不禁鬆口氣。 在忙碌不已的日子，每天兩篇塔羅抽牌閱讀和紀錄的文章，這工作量蠻重的。 你們不知，花不到五分鐘看完的文章，從抽牌，到文章完成，心情紀錄卡完成，上傳至臉書、部落格，所有整個流程做完，一篇至少要九十分鐘。 而兩篇，花費了幾乎我每個夜晚的所有時間。 可是得堅持，得努力完成。 今天我個人的塔羅牌就是在告訴我，不能中斷，不能停止，繼續學習，繼續前進，繼續進行手上的事情。 老天不會讓你決定了或白忙一場那些跟你毫無關係的事情。 現在辛苦的，努力的，積累的，很快地，就會覺知到，先前的準備原來是為了這一刻，這一個日後會刻印在你心裡的時刻。 『智者』 ~ 你的心智像水晶，歷經萬年所形成，是帶著過往所學知識總和的水晶球。 因天賦，因智慧，因知識，比許多人看見得多，思慮得多，計畫得多。所以有人認為你是智者，是可預見未來趨勢的人，是能夠創造出新觀點的人。 你知道自己的能耐，能做甚麼，做到甚麼，需要甚麼，擁有甚麼，缺乏甚麼。 所以你會是個指導者，領導者，整合者，協調者。 今天的我，對同學分享著我塔羅閱讀的學習與專業。 今天的我，對同學分享著我塔囉閱讀的創業與計畫。 現在的我，只要有機會就會傳播塔羅現在是我生活中很重要的事情，且是可以協助他們，指引他們，當他們有需要的時候。 現在的我，開始站在最前面，宣揚著塔羅和我的事業。 挺喜歡這樣的改變。 「山不會就我，當然是我去就山。」 "If the mountain won't come to Muhammad, then Muhammad must go to the mountain." Alyson’s 5/18 Tarot: The Knower (50-57) Question: The theme of my future journal for 5/17 Drawn card: The Knower Today, while busy with practical exercises in class, I was also reflecting during breaks. Reflecting on what? 1.Managing my schedule 2.When to handle daily chores and household tasks 3.Allocating time for some online courses 4.Making time to read many books I've yet to start 5.Visiting the coffee shop in the valley of Yangmingshan 6.Going to the tea shop recommended by a friend It’s been a while since I visited my parents, and I miss them a lot. I've dreamt about them for the past two weeks, and although I vaguely remember the dreams when I wake up, I have to rush out to class. After a whole day of demanding coursework, by the time I get home in the evening, I can’t recall a single scene; the dreams … have dissipated in my hurried steps. Finally, yesterday, my “future journal” and Tarot drawing experiment entered the seventh week, which is also the last week. I couldn’t help but breathe a sigh of relief. In these busy days, writing and recording two Tarot draw readings daily has been quite a workload. You wouldn’t know that an article that takes less than five minutes to read actually requires at least ninety minutes to complete the whole process—from drawing the cards, to finishing the article, mood journal, and uploading to Facebook and the blog. And two articles took up almost all my evenings. But I had to persist, had to strive to complete it. Today, my personal Tarot card is telling me that I cannot interrupt or stop; I need to keep learning, keep moving forward, and keep working on what I have at hand. Heaven will not let you decide or waste effort on things that have nothing to do with you. The hardships, efforts, and accumulation of today will soon make you realize that all the prior preparation was for this moment, this moment that will be etched in your heart. The Knower ~ Your mind is like a crystal, formed over millennia, encompassing the sum of all past knowledge. Due to talent, wisdom, and knowledge, you see more, think more, and plan more than many others. Hence, some consider you a knower, a person who can foresee future trends, and someone capable of creating new perspectives. You know your abilities, what you can do, what you need, what you have, and what you lack. Thus, you will be a guide, a leader, an integrator, and a coordinator. Today, I shared my Tarot reading learning and expertise with my classmates. Today, I shared my Tarot reading entrepreneurship and plans with my classmates. Now, whenever there’s a chance, I will spread that Tarot is a crucial part of my life, and it can assist and guide them when they need it. Now, I am starting to stand at the forefront, promoting Tarot and my business. I quite like this change. "The mountain won’t come to me, so I must go to the mountain." "If the mountain won't come to Muhammad, then Muhammad must go to the mountain." #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Knower

2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space

2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space 端午連假總共三天，第一天，忙著跟朋友相約聊天。 第二天，忙著趕功課進度，整理電腦資料，清潔家裡。 第三天，睽違很久的睡到自然醒，中午跟家人吃飯相聚。 快樂時光好快就結束了。 接下來規律的學習日子也不錯。 今天哥哥說，他覺得我現在的生活模式挺好的。 有新知的學習，有與他人交流交際，有和朋友相約，有和家人相聚，有時間和心力照顧好自己。 我當下忘了回應他，我也很喜歡現在的生活和現在的自己。 慎終追遠，在端午節日是我們文化上的祭祀。 昨晚，不小心按到了平板，畫面跳出來2019年與老爸對話的視窗畫面。 我愣住了好幾分鐘，眼睛都沒眨一下，直盯著平板。 往上滑看了對話的內容，我貼了一個餐廳的連結，跟爸爸說，打算帶他去那個地方走走。 爸爸回應了我揮揮手。 於是，昨晚我看到時，驚愣住，因我以為爸爸又再跟我揮揮手，打招呼。 老爸，很想您，只是沒再跟任何人提起。 我努力生活，就是希望能讓您放心，沒有罣礙。 我明白，很多人微笑的背後都有不同的感傷故事。 我也是。 確實，自己的感受，心情，自己受，受得住，過得去，那就好了。 『時空』 ~ 情感，穿越了時間，跨越了空間。 愛與在乎，始終都在，不曾停止，不曾消逝，不曾退去。 人的一言一行一決定，總在〝因果業力〞法則上加減乘除。 今日的善，他日的果。 昔日的業，今日的劫。 現在遇到的困境，碰到的困難，遭到的難過，我就會回想著過去，到底，哪裡做錯了？是什麼行為讓別人不開心了？是說錯了話？表錯了情？還是要如何才能討人喜歡呢？ 多數時候是沒有獲得答案的。 是有多擔心害怕不被喜歡？ 有的時候就是需要回到過去，探討、了解，才能知道原因。 時空，就是這樣吸引人去回想過去。 畢竟，我們已經花費人生大部分的時間在想像未來，計畫未來了。 在時空裡，我們能夠有計畫性地規劃著許多事情，有人覺得這就是預言，其實這只是多份心去注意、觀察、思考，也就有了洞悉、卓見及計畫。 檢視過去，洗淨廢棄，在這時空的日子裡。 內觀現在，審度現在，在這時空的日子裡。 想像未來，計畫未來，在這時空的日子裡。 跨越時空的想著、念著、愛著。 願一切安好。 願事事順利。 願日日如意。 願希望實現。 在這『時空』的日子裡，我總忍不住想許願，想著世界和平，想著家國安康，想著大家都平安。 June 11, 2024 Tarot of the Day: Time Space The Dragon Boat Festival holiday lasts for three days. On the first day, I was busy meeting up with friends and chatting. On the second day, I was busy catching up on homework, organizing computer files, and cleaning the house. On the third day, I finally slept in and woke up naturally after a long time, and then had lunch with my family. Happy times pass by so quickly. The regular days of learning ahead are also quite nice. Today, my brother said he thinks my current lifestyle is quite good. I am learning new things, socializing with others, meeting up with friends, gathering with family, and have time and energy to take care of myself. At that moment, I forgot to respond to him, but I also really like my current life and myself as I am now. Honoring ancestors during the Dragon Boat Festival is a part of our cultural rituals. Last night, I accidentally pressed my tablet, and the screen showed a conversation window with my dad from 2019. I was stunned for a few minutes, staring at the tablet without blinking. I scrolled up to see the conversation. I had sent a restaurant link to my dad, telling him I planned to take him there for a visit. Dad responded with a wave emoji. So, when I saw it last night, I was shocked because I thought my dad was waving at me again, saying hello. Dad, I miss you very much, but I haven’t mentioned it to anyone. I am working hard to live well, hoping to put your mind at ease and have no worries. I understand that many people have different sad stories behind their smiles. So do I. Indeed, as long as you can bear and get through your feelings and emotions, that's enough. "Time Space" ~ Emotions transcend time and space. Love and care are always there, never stopping, never fading, never retreating. Every word, action, and decision a person makes is always subject to the law of "cause and effect". Today's good deeds are tomorrow's rewards. Past deeds are today's consequences. When I encounter difficulties and sadness now, I reflect on the past. Where did I go wrong? What actions made others unhappy? Did I say the wrong thing? Did I express the wrong emotions? How can I please others? Most of the time, there are no answers. How much do I worry about not being liked? Sometimes, you need to go back to the past, explore and understand, to find the reason. Time Space attracts people to reminisce about the past. After all, we spend most of our lives imagining and planning for the future. In Time Space, we can plan many things with foresight. Some call it prophecy, but it's really just paying more attention, observing, and thinking, leading to insight, foresight, and planning. Reviewing the past, cleaning up waste, in these days of Time Space. Observing the present, assessing the present, in these days of Time Space. Imagining the future, planning for the future, in these days of Time Space. Thinking, remembering, and loving across time and space. May everything be well. May everything go smoothly. May every day be satisfying. May all hopes be realized. In these days of "Time Space", I can’t help but make wishes, thinking about world peace, family and national well-being, and everyone's safety. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #TimeSpace

and-then-s...搜尋結果

2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance

2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

18種讓妳成為旅遊達人的方法!!!

18種讓妳成為旅遊達人的方法!!!

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot：憤怒 Anger (57-57)

Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot：憤怒 Anger (57-57)

Alyson’s 5/18 Tarot：智者 Knower (50-57)

Alyson’s 5/18 Tarot：智者 Knower (50-57)

2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space

2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space