2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬 回饋 Reward

2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬 回饋 Reward 昨晚幾個朋友相聚。 四個大人加上一個大孩子。 其中三個大人的工作經驗是人力資源。 人，就是如此奇妙。 個性不同，特質不同，雖然都是從事人力資源的工作，可發展方向也非常不一樣。 三個臭皮匠湊在一起，那真的就是，吵鬧不已。 辛苦了另一位妹子的耳朵了。 我喜歡這樣的日子。 有家人，有好友。 有美食，有笑聲。 這是我的財富，我超愛的財富。 不過，我當然也喜歡最直觀的，最主觀的所謂的財富。 紙鈔疊疊疊。 存款數字加加加。 再來一些寶石、鑽石增添光芒。 豪車？ 不愛。 車對我來說，是行動工具。 豪宅？ 看在哪？ 我喜歡的，總被人笑說買了就準備套牢一生一世吧。 可，就自己住，住到百年之後成為了遺產，不也是一生一世嗎！ 瞧！ 我多俗氣，多坦率。 日子啊！ 男女之間的情情愛愛只是其一，但不是唯一。 錢財是萬惡之首，但沒有了卻萬事烏有。 人生五顆球，我的生命的大圓圈裡，各顆球的比重因人生不同階段而調整。 不須探究原因，不需了解情況。 家人，親人，情感濃烈，也抵不過生離死別的牽引。 何況，友人及旁人。 即便如此，不輕言放手，不輕易放棄。 人生五顆球，讓人生精彩，讓日子多彩。 在每一重要時刻，體會與收穫人生結的果實，幸福滿滿。 Tarot for Today, July 10, 2024: Reward Last night, a few friends gathered. Four adults and one big kid. Three of the adults have experience in human resources. People are indeed fascinating. Different personalities, different traits, even though all of them work in human resources, their career paths are very different. When the three of them get together, it's really noisy. Kudos to the other girl's ears for enduring it. I love these kinds of days. With family, with friends. With good food, with laughter. This is my wealth, the wealth I adore. Of course, I also like the most straightforward and subjective kind of wealth. Stacks of cash. Savings numbers increasing. And some gemstones and diamonds to add some sparkle. Luxury cars? Not for me. To me, cars are just a means of transportation. Luxury houses? Depends on the location. The ones I like are always mocked as lifetime burdens. But, living alone in it until it becomes an inheritance after a century, isn't that a lifetime too? See! How materialistic and candid I am. Life! Romantic love is just a part of it, but not the only part. Money is the root of all evil, but without it, everything is meaningless. The five balls of life, in my big circle of life, the weight of each ball adjusts according to different stages of life. No need to explore the reasons, no need to understand the situation. Family, relatives, deep emotions can't outweigh the pull of life and death. Not to mention friends and others. Even so, I won't easily let go or give up. The five balls of life make life wonderful and colorful. At every important moment, experiencing and reaping the fruits of life, full of happiness. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Reward

2024 0711 今日塔羅：魔鬼之樂 Devil’s Play

2024 0711 今日塔羅：魔鬼之樂 Devil’s Play 身邊許多朋友，利用暑假帶著他們的孩子四處遊玩著，搞得我也沒啥想要努力、奮鬥、打拼的心情。 雖然原本這心思就不是很濃厚，現在更是薄弱到吹彈可破的程度。 哇！ 好想度假喔！ 好想出國玩！ 不過，我就是很膽小。 生活裡只有玩樂，心不安定。 生活裡只有吃喝，身不穩定。 還是有點負擔，扛些責任，讓生活煙火氣濃些，灶暖心也安。 不過，也不用把自己搞得太過硬頸。 可歌則歌。 可喝則喝。 可食則食。 可樂則樂。 近日文章產出很慢，甚至有時就直接跳過，沒有產出。 我還是都有抽牌。 一來想把握與家人團聚的日子和時光。 二來確實最近有著一些想法，還沒想透，沒有太多思緒，可是也不想胡亂分享，所以也就決定，既無思緒，就跳過吧。 日子不會因我一天沒有產出文章就亂了套。 計畫、行動也不會因我一天沒有文章分享就歪了。 最好的安排。 最好的時光。 就是 ~ 該幹嘛時就幹嘛。 需做什麼時就做什麼。 正念一念間，一呼一吸的當下，在下一秒，則即已是過往，已過去了。 July 11, 2024, Today's Tarot: Devil's Play Many friends around me are using the summer vacation to take their children on various trips, making me feel less motivated to work hard and strive for success. Although my drive was never very strong, now it’s almost nonexistent, fragile like a bubble ready to burst. Wow! I really want to go on vacation! I really want to travel abroad! However, I am very timid. A life filled only with play feels unsettling. A life filled only with eating and drinking feels unstable. It’s still necessary to bear some responsibilities, to carry some burdens, to make life a bit more substantial, to warm the heart and find peace. But, don’t be too hard on yourself. Sing when you can sing. Drink when you can drink. Eat when you can eat. Enjoy when you can enjoy. Recently, my article production has been very slow, sometimes even skipping days without any output. I still draw a card each day. Firstly, I want to cherish the time and moments spent with my family. Secondly, I’ve been having some thoughts lately that I haven’t fully worked through, and I don’t want to share them hastily, so I decided to skip sharing when I don’t have clear ideas. Life won’t fall apart just because I didn’t produce an article for a day. Plans and actions won’t go awry just because I didn’t share an article for a day. The best arrangements. The best times. Are ~ Doing what needs to be done when it needs to be done. Doing what needs to be done when it needs to be done. Mindfulness in each breath, in the present moment, and in the next second, it becomes the past, it has passed. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #DevilsPlay

2024 0628 今日塔羅：大祭司 Hierophant

2024 0628 今日塔羅：大祭司 Hierophant 詢問了理財規劃，抽到塔羅牌是『大祭司』。 無關金銀財寶。 無關財富自由。 好像，我像宇宙許了一個美好的願望，宇宙懶得理我，卻讓我不小心踩到狗屎那樣的心糟意煩。 謹遵教條，是這張塔羅牌很顯著的涵義。 土黃色是整張塔羅牌的主色，在說著能量來自於土地，來自於地球。 我們是地球的孩兒，我們依賴著地球強大的氣場，我們吸收著地球許許多多的能量。 大祭司這張塔羅牌，對於通俗喜好總是較為抗拒的。 悠長的河呀，千年的河，過往映照過希望，衰頹，映照過美好，哀痛。 鍛鍊心智，學習知識，累積經驗，傳承所學，是大祭司一輩子的職責與功課。 可，最近的我很想庸俗一些，接地氣一點。 日子，不能老是只猛在身心靈方面精進，沒有經濟的烘托，肚子扁空的情況下，哪有辦法只顧腦袋瓜裡是否豐盈。 就像此刻，肚子餓，思緒、文字、詞句也就一樣匱乏了。 宇宙不願意給予指引，就是在說著，沒把現在這功課學好前，其他的啥都不會有機會的。 所以還是認分地好好經營塔羅閱讀這新事業。 Tarot of the Day, June 28, 2024: The Hierophant I inquired about financial planning and drew the Hierophant tarot card. It has nothing to do with gold, silver, or treasures. It has nothing to do with financial freedom. It feels like I made a beautiful wish to the universe, but instead of granting it, the universe ignored me and made me accidentally step in dog poop, leaving me feeling upset and frustrated. Adherence to doctrine is a significant meaning of this tarot card. The primary color of the card is earthy yellow, symbolizing energy from the earth, from the planet. We are children of the Earth, relying on its powerful energy field and absorbing its abundant energy. The Hierophant card tends to resist popular preferences. The long river, the millennial river, has reflected hopes, declines, beauty, and sorrow. Training the mind, learning knowledge, accumulating experience, and passing on what has been learned are the lifelong responsibilities and lessons of the Hierophant. However, recently, I want to be a bit more mundane, a bit more grounded. Life cannot always be about spiritual and mental advancement alone. Without financial support, how can we focus solely on enriching our minds when our stomachs are empty? Just like now, when I'm hungry, my thoughts, words, and phrases are equally lacking. The universe's unwillingness to provide guidance is telling me that unless I master the current lesson, nothing else will come. So, I should focus on diligently building my new career in tarot reading. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Hierophant

2024 0718 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

2024 0718 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer 昨日才與年輕的大侄子講到，我和他兩人都應該要重新調整生活節奏與時間感。 我們把日子過得太過零碎了，而他正值青春年華，時間不應是如此鬆散無憂。 人，活著，還是要有點目標比較好玩。 無所事事的最高段，不在於生活內容裡沒有所謂的事情，而是將目標與生活合而為一，自在的度過每一日，自然的達成目標。 你最近的目標是什麼呢？ 你近期的渴望又是什麼？ 近期我的心思都在陪伴家人，很自然的，又把自己的目標給隱形了。 難怪我總得花費比同學更長久的時間才能抵達終點線。 但，這是我自己想要的，刻意經營的生活內容，實現自我及與家人情感連結共存的美好公式。 你也可以有自己的時間節奏表。 快慢自由決定。 內容自己選擇。 今天的我們擁有即將達成目標的興奮感。 在「駕馭者」的日子裡，享受著馳騁的快感。 在「駕馭者」的日子裡，學習駕馭情緒，不被衝動給控制。 收放自如的情緒與情感，在職場裡，在談判過程中，在需要演繹不同面向時，是眾人不敢忽視的強敵。 在「駕馭者」的日子裡，放下謹慎與小心，大膽乘風破浪一次，看自己憑著一股衝勁可前進到哪裡。 保守，仔細，小心是日常。 偶爾脫軌一下又何妨。 只要平時建立足夠安全網。 不怕刮風下雨淹池塘。 拿出魄力，再次站上自己人生的舵手崗位，駕馭前進的方向，掌握前進的速度。 起風啦 ~ 啟航！ July 18, 2024 Tarot Reading: Surfer Yesterday, I spoke with my young nephew, and we both agreed that we should adjust our life pace and sense of time. Our days have become too fragmented, and he, being in his youth, should not have such a loose and carefree schedule. Life is more enjoyable with a bit of purpose. The highest level of idleness is not about having nothing to do, but about integrating goals with daily life, living each day naturally, and achieving goals effortlessly. What are your recent goals? What have you been longing for lately? Recently, my thoughts have been focused on spending time with my family, and naturally, my own goals have become invisible again. No wonder it always takes me longer to reach the finish line compared to my classmates. But this is what I want, a deliberately managed life where self-fulfillment and emotional connection with family coexist beautifully. You can also have your own time rhythm. Decide the pace freely. Choose the content yourself. Today, we have the excitement of nearing our goals. On the day of "The Surfer," enjoy the thrill of riding the waves. On the day of "The Surfer," learn to master your emotions and not be controlled by impulsiveness. Well-managed emotions and feelings are formidable in the workplace, during negotiations, and when needing to showcase different facets. On the day of "The Surfer," let go of caution and be bold to ride the waves and see how far your momentum can take you. Being cautious, meticulous, and careful is everyday life. Occasionally going off track is no big deal. Just ensure you have enough safety nets in place. Don’t fear the wind, rain, or floods. Show your courage and take the helm of your life once again. Steer your direction and control your speed. The wind is rising ~ set sail! #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Surfer

2024 0712 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0712 今日塔羅：改變 Change 昨晚跟家人們聊著關於大家都變老了的話題。 鬢如霜。 髮如雪。 時光易催容顏老。 駐顏有術，是另一話題，是我不熟悉的內容。 皺紋，是時光刻鏤的痕跡。 白髮，是智慧精粹的結果。 美麗，不應該被侷限於年輕如昔，貌美如春。 要改變的非外貌，而是觀念。 要改變的非外型，而是觀點。 從心底發出的想要的改變，那可真的是能讓人煥然一新的驚艷。 難免會遇到話不投機的人，說半句都嫌太多的時刻。 改變的不會是別人，若期望著，那是癡心妄想。 改變的從來就是自己。 不為別人而變。 為自己而改，為在乎的人而變。 改變，要忖度情勢。 在沙漠中建立水道，是憨傻，總不能真學愚公移山吧。 老想著改變，也得想想策略，也不能老是天馬行空，得實際一點。 改變，真的得改，尤其是現在變化快速的時代。 若問我，我如何改變？ 我，膽小，不敢太過冒險，一點一點慢慢改。 一段時間之後，再回首，改變的也就不只一點點。 Today's Tarot Reading: Change Last night, I talked with my family about how we're all getting older. Temples like frost. Hair like snow. Time quickly ages our appearance. Having techniques to retain youth is another topic, one I'm not familiar with. Wrinkles are the marks carved by time. White hair is the essence of wisdom. Beauty should not be limited to youthful looks and spring-like charm. What needs to change is not appearance, but perception. What needs to change is not form, but viewpoint. A change desired from the heart can truly bring a stunning transformation. It's inevitable to encounter people with whom conversations are difficult, and moments when even a few words feel too much. You can't change others; expecting that is wishful thinking. The one who changes is always oneself. Don't change for others. Change for yourself, and for those you care about. Change should consider the circumstances. Building a waterway in the desert is foolish; you can't really emulate Yu Gong moving mountains. Wanting change also requires strategy; you can't always be impractical, you need to be realistic. Change, indeed, needs to happen, especially in these rapidly changing times. If you ask me, how do I change? I am timid and afraid to take big risks, so I change little by little. After some time, looking back, the change is more than just a little. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Change

2024 0618 今日塔羅：負面性 Nagativity

2024 0618 今日塔羅：負面性 Nagativity 昨日有小小的不開心。 上課教室空調因過去空間配置與現在的方式不一樣，導致左右兩邊像是冰山和赤道。 左邊舒適宜人時，右邊得穿上戴帽外套，冷風還會從袖口、褲管口灌進，冷吱吱的。 若是右邊溫度感受舒服，那左邊就會像被掐喉般，悶得透不過氣來。 因此，右邊同學去調整了空調設定，左邊同學不開心，自己又不想說這事，用一個很可笑的理由要我去跟右邊同學溝通。 我拒絕了。 我表示，這是小事，你可以直接跟他溝通的。 這與我跟那位同學交情比較好，無關。 沒把這事放在心上的我，在休息時間跟左邊同學打招呼，被他刻意忽視，不理會。 我就這樣被列入他冷暴力的名單裡。 多無辜呀。 對於不成熟、不理智的人，我們很多時候真的是莫可奈何。 我當然可不以為意，但同學的態度確實有讓我感到難過和不舒服。 在過去幾週一起上課的期間裡，這位同學很常找我協助他，在休息時間一直拉著我要聽他說一些負面心情的話。 他說，他沒有可以說說話的人。 他今天的反應讓我反思過去幾週我對他的包容與體諒是不是太多了。 不過這樣多次互動，也就較清楚知道，課程結束後與他不會成為朋友我也不會有小小的難過。 結果，今天的塔羅牌抽到『負面性』。 若你也有這樣的情緒，不妨抽絲剝繭一下，想想是甚麼事情，甚麼原因造成的。 我現在的這課程蠻吃力的，週一確實會是大家要為新的一週學習課程重新調整步調，週二大部分同學都已可進入狀況。 不過，週二的課程內容很繁瑣，非常細緻的各種人工智能指令。 還沒上課，我的心已感到比平時多些煩躁。 可能積累了這段時間的疲憊，也沒能找到時間好好休息，我的心情就也輕鬆不起來，直盼望著這週趕緊結束，趕快過去。 我好再度迎接”無所事事的美好歲月”。 『負面性』 ~ 總看到對方的缺點。 昨天的我，是。 總覺得對方過於負面。 昨天的我，是。 最近開始抱怨自己，批評別人。 關於自己，我是。 關於他人，有一點點 … 其實也就是有。 學習 ~ 學習對負面思緒說”不”。 學習對負面情緒說”滾”。 學習對負面腦袋說”斷”。 學習對負面體驗說”捨”。 學習對負面批判說”離”。 學習看見光，享受光的明亮。 學習感受愛，沉浸愛的溫暖。 學習辨真實，相信實的穩固。 學習悟真理，了解真的坦率。 Tarot for Today, 2024-06-18: Negativity Yesterday, there was a bit of unhappiness. In the classroom, the air conditioning setup didn't match the current space layout, causing the left and right sides to feel like an iceberg and the equator, respectively. When the left side felt comfortable, people on the right had to wear hooded jackets, with cold air seeping in through sleeves and pant legs. If the right side felt comfortable, the left side would feel suffocatingly hot. As a result, a student on the right adjusted the air conditioning settings, which made the students on the left unhappy. Instead of voicing this issue, one of them asked me to speak to the student on the right, using a ridiculous excuse. I refused. I said this was a small matter that they could handle directly. This had nothing to do with the fact that I was better friends with the student on the right. I didn't dwell on this, but during the break, when I greeted the student on the left, they deliberately ignored me. Just like that, I was added to their silent treatment list. How innocent I am. Dealing with immature and irrational people often leaves us helpless. While I can shrug it off, the student's attitude did make me feel sad and uncomfortable. Over the past few weeks of class, this student often sought my help and constantly pulled me aside during breaks to vent their negative feelings. They said they had no one else to talk to. Their reaction today made me reflect on whether I had been too tolerant and understanding over the past few weeks. However, after these repeated interactions, it's clear that once the course is over, I won't feel sad about not becoming friends with them. As it turns out, today's tarot card is "Negativity." If you also have such emotions, try to dissect and analyze what events and reasons caused them. This course I'm taking is quite challenging, and Mondays are when everyone has to readjust to the new week's learning pace. By Tuesday, most students are already in the groove. However, Tuesday's course content is very detailed and intricate with various AI commands. Even before class started, I felt more restless than usual. Perhaps due to accumulated fatigue and not finding time to rest properly, I haven't been able to lighten my mood, and I'm just hoping this week will end quickly so I can return to "the beautiful days of doing nothing." Negativity Always seeing others' flaws. Yesterday, that was me. Always feeling that others are too negative. Yesterday, that was me. Recently starting to complain about myself, criticize others. About myself, yes. About others, a little bit...actually, yes. Learning Learn to say "no" to negative thoughts. Learn to say "go away" to negative emotions. Learn to say "cut off" to negative thinking. Learn to say "let go" to negative experiences. Learn to say "leave" to negative criticism. Learn to see the light, enjoy the brightness of light. Learn to feel love, immerse in the warmth of love. Learn to recognize truth, believe in the solidity of truth. Learn to understand truth, appreciate the honesty of truth. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Negativity

《鬼怪》連OST都扣人心弦！ 11個part的官方原聲帶，聽到讓你耳朵懷孕～～

一部叫好叫座的好戲，音樂的搭配是非常重要der！在悲傷的timing隨附著適合的背景音樂，讓觀眾差點掉不下來的眼淚瞬間落下；歡樂的時刻，加上輕快愉悅的背景音，讓觀眾跟著有莫名的幸福感～ ​（圖片來源: twitter.com/） 已經播出12集的《鬼怪》，目前已經釋出11帕特的官方OST，這些OST一播出來就會馬上讓人聯想到戲中的場景。有網友表示，每次看《鬼怪》好像也在聆聽一場音樂盛宴，認真這麼誇張嗎！？我們就來聽聽這11帕特的OST，看看網友們是否有浮誇到～ Part1. Stay With Me (燦烈、Punch) 戲劇一開始就是要下猛藥，EXO燦烈+OST女王Punch的組合，讓Stay With Me已經被列為《鬼怪》的代表歌曲，連小編沒追劇的朋友都有聽過呢～ Part2. 내 눈에만 보여 My Eyes (10cm) ​（圖片來源: http://cfile3.uf.tistory.com/） 韓國的好聲音常常隱身在獨立樂團中～之前有來台開唱的10cm主打的就是吉他伴奏，清新感十足。 Part3. Hush (Lasse Lindh) 《鬼怪》這次請來了瑞典情歌王子-Lasse Lindh為他們獻唱一曲，因為Hush這首OST，不知道有迷有人跟小編一樣，有時候會以為自己在看美劇？ ​（圖片來源: http://koreanpoploveit.blogspot.tw/） Part4. Beautiful (Crush) 由HIP HOP＋R&B歌手-Crush演唱的曲目，每次聽到Beautiful都會想到金信深情看著我⋯⋯不是啦～是池听晫的樣子XD 長得很不抒情的Crush，他的聲音卻溫柔到會讓人耳朵懷孕啦～～ Part5. You Are So Beautful (Eddy Kim) Eddy Kim歐爸一出手便知有沒有！廣大的網友表示「每次聽到歐爸的歌都會覺得好幸福～」，甚至有些人還說「drama的OST怎麼少得了歐爸吶」。 Part6 Who Are You (Sam Kim) 這首目前頗受《鬼怪》觀眾們的愛戴，因為Sam Kim有點沙啞又空靈的歌聲，直接唱入觀眾的心。建議姊妹們可以用耳機聽一下這首歌，有種像在音樂廳唱的遼闊感唷：） 才子的必配物就是吉他無誤！！Sam Kim底迪在No Sense裡厲害的吉他指法是要迷死多少女孩們的心，好帥喔～～（小編心花怒放中） Part7 I Miss You (韶宥) Sistar的韶宥這次也為《鬼怪》的原聲帶奉獻一曲，聽到現在第7個帕特，不知道你們有沒有發現這次幾乎都走一種「氣音」的港覺呢？？ Part8 The First Snow (鄭俊日) & Part9 I Will Go To You Like The First Snow (Ailee) 還記得池听晫興奮地向鬼怪大叔喊：「初雪！」的樣子吧，雪在《鬼怪》裡似乎是重要的角色（畢竟是冬天啊），不管是場景，角色們的對話也時常提到，那麼OST當然也不能離題囉！ Part10 Wish (Urban Zakapa) Urban Zakapa是由2男1女組成的美聲團體，他們一起合聲的時候根本是天籟呀！！適合期末報告爆炸時，閉著眼聽一下，你會覺得世界沒那麼無望，但還是要面對現實完成報告諾，因為你旁邊沒有鬼怪大叔幫你（跪）⋯⋯ Part11 第11帕特有三首歌並列，分別是- And I”m Here (김경희 音譯：金京熙） Stuck In Love (김경희 音譯：金京熙） Winter Is Coming (한수지 音譯：韓秀智） 最後最後！！雖然不是官方OST，但這首Never Far Away，身為鬼怪迷不能不知道呀。前奏一下就有一種我已經是《鬼怪》裡頭角色的fu~ 資料來源： 整理報導 #10cm #Ailee #Crush #EddyKim #EXO #Goblin #LasseLindh #OST #Punch #SamKim #SISTAR #UrbanZakapa #泡菜 #燦烈 #鄭俊日 #韓劇 #韶宥 #鬼怪 #김경희 #한수지 

想要讓自己從愛情長跑中解脫，這5件事你絕對要做到！

失去一段長時間的戀情，其實是可以讓人很心碎的。畢盡經過這麼長時間的相處，兩個人早就密不可分。而就算旁人想要從旁去幫助你解脫，我想那也不會是一件簡單的事。只有你自己，才能讓自己解脫。而這個讓你有機會的，不會是哪個曾經跟你曖昧的人，而是那個你一定會稱他是『好朋友』的人。這個人是會為了你挑戰任何事情的人。不管你現在是不是準備好去開始新戀情，你還是得知道如何把自己救出來。 1.讓自己為了失去這戀情而感傷 當你失去一個陪伴你度過整個高中時期的人，我難過是一定的。你會一直讓自己陷入在絕望裡，什麼事都不想做，而別人也最好不要來煩你，更重要的是，不要在你面前放閃！但是，有一天，你會發現你花了太多時間在不高興，卻沒有花時間讓自己繼續前進。至於要怎麼讓自己前進，我想重要的是當你想前進的時候，不要去壓抑自己的情緒，因為即使回憶起你們，你也能好好控制自己的情緒。但是，什麼時候該讓這段戀情成為過去？答案就是當你已經開始覺得妳受夠了自己長時間低落。什麼腳長時間？例如當你在跟你朋友重複說著失戀的事情的時候，已經能感受到他們的不耐煩，那就是時候了 ​（圖片來源: http://pinsta.me） 2.讓自己陶醉在自己的小世界裡 讓自己終於能把時間用在自己有興趣的事物上！你可以挑戰一些你從來沒做過的事去轉移自己的注意力。例如：開始學自己開車、或是挑戰100件你害怕的事。雖然之前這些事都有人想辦法幫你解決，但是相信我，有時候自己做會更有趣！或許，這樣聽起來有點白癡，但是如果能透過失戀去學會如何自己開車或面對自己害怕的事的話，我想失戀也可能不完全是一件壞事。或許之後再想起這段時期的時候，你反而會因為在這段時間學會獨立而感到驕傲。 ​（圖片來源: http://pinsta.me） 3.去做一件你愛的事，即使這會勾起回憶 這是一個表示你已經放手的轉戾點。當我失戀的時候，我自己去國外旅行還拜訪了幾個住在國外的朋友。那段時間我體驗到了一個人旅行的美好，並重新學習如何獨立。其實，我之前也常常跟前男友到處旅行。但是，當我一個人去旅行的時候，才讓我發現即使他不在，我還是能自己做很多事情。當沒有他的時候，我才發現我從來不知道要怎麼讀地圖或是搭地鐵，因為當我們一起的時候，這些事情總是他在做。當我一個人旅行的時候，我開始學會不依賴任何人找到路，我想這是另一種成熟。不管你跟你的前男友喜歡一起登山還是聽演唱會，告訴自己即使這些事一個人做也可以很享受！ ​（圖片來源: http://pinsta.me） 4.搞清楚你們還能不能繼續當朋友 有些前男友可以繼續當朋友。但是有些前男友，可能會用你的捨不得來拖住你。雖然這些可能都跟你們如何分手或是你在分手後是怎麼看他的有關。但是，我還是不建議你們繼續跟前男友當朋友。除非你可以真的只把他當朋友，不然你們就會有極高的機率復合，那只會讓你收更多傷而已。 ​（圖片來源: http://pinsta.me） 5.停止追蹤你前男友的臉書 當你們分手後，請停止追蹤你前男友的臉書。你可以不用解除跟他的朋友關係。但是你可以選擇不要追蹤他的動態。當你們兩個都想放手的時候，那證明你們應該要繼續好好享受各自的生活。你不用去了解妳前男友如何放下這段戀情，也不要讓他有任何機會再傷害你。就算你已經徹底忘了他，看到他跟別人一起做一些你們曾經做過的事還是很痛苦。所以，就算幫自己一個忙，停止追蹤他吧！ ​（圖片來源: http://pinsta.me） 資料來源： http://elitedaily.com/dating/surviving-breakup-with-dignity/1035876/

2024 0703 今日塔羅：愛 Love

2024 0703 今日塔羅：愛 Love 曾經，我有愛，但說不出口。 曾經，我覺我沒有愛，也沒啥好說出口。 曾經，愛，距離我好遠，好遠。 曾經，愛，晨升日落的一分一秒裡。 為愛，曾經不顧一切，想要付出一切。 為愛，曾經傷痕累累，誰也不再相信。 為愛，癡迷過。 為愛，幸福過。 為愛，痛苦過。 為愛，窒悶過。 愛，是雙刃劍，是手心手背的兩難。 愛，是你的心裡有我，有你，有我們一起。 愛，是為你而勇敢，為你而退一步，為你而方方面面地周到。 愛，說不完，道不盡。 擁有愛，幸福，滿足，是富有，福福泰泰的模樣。 在愛裡，應該像魚兒那般優游自在，想嬉戲時歡騰在一起，不受拘束。 在愛裡，應該像捧著盛開的繽紛花朵，興奮，甜蜜且滿足，不受打擾。 在愛裡，應該像聽到海螺傳出來的聲音，字句都是愛，都是蜜，純淨。 在愛裡，應該像在沙漠中喝到的井水，清心，浸潤，珍惜，得知不易。 寫了這麼多關於愛，我像是也徜徉在一圈圈愛的漣漪中，感受著愛的豐盈與美好。 祝福大家在愛的滋養裡，強壯，無畏，勇敢，且善良。 2024 0703 Today's Tarot: Love Once, I had love but couldn’t express it. Once, I felt I had no love, and nothing worth expressing. Once, love felt so distant, so far away. Once, love was in every second of the rising and setting sun. For love, I once disregarded everything, willing to give everything. For love, I was once scarred, no longer trusting anyone. For love, I was infatuated. For love, I was happy. For love, I was in pain. For love, I was suffocated. Love is a double-edged sword, a dilemma of the palm and the back of the hand. Love is having you in my heart, having me in your heart, and us together. Love is being brave for you, stepping back for you, and being considerate for you in every way. Love is endless, inexhaustible. To have love is to be happy, content, wealthy, and blessed. In love, one should be as free as a fish swimming leisurely, frolicking together when desired, unrestrained. In love, one should hold blossoming flowers with excitement, sweetness, and satisfaction, undisturbed. In love, one should hear the sound from a conch, every word filled with love and sweetness, pure. In love, one should drink from a well in the desert, feeling refreshed, nourished, cherishing, and knowing its rarity. Writing so much about love makes me feel as if I am also drifting in ripples of love, experiencing its fullness and beauty. Wishing everyone to be strong, fearless, brave, and kind, nurtured by love. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Love

✄ 度過炎熱夏天的方法 Summer Survival Tips

以下是9個我自己不負責任的方法僅供參考😆 圖片排列左到右、上中下：1～3、4～6、7～9 1. 安排晚上運動-流汗之後可以直接洗澡🛁 2.早起-比太陽早起🐛 3.室內活動-例如看展等 4.旅行-要熱就熱個夠or去季節顛倒的國家避暑⛱️ 5.美食-吃美食分散夏天的熱 🍜 6.睡覺-不動能減少流汗的機會😪 7.回憶法-回想冬天的太陽有多美好 8.可愛動物-療癒的動物可以分散夏天的熱 🐶🐱🦦🐒 9.恐怖小說-看各種會背脊發涼的小說或鬼片😱 📣歡迎分享更多度過炎炎夏日的方法給我📣 ✄ Summer Survival Tips 1. Exercise - Shower immediately after evening workouts to wash off sweat. 2. Early rising - Get up before the sun rises. 3. Indoor activities - Such as visiting exhibitions. 4. Travel - Embrace the heat or escape to countries with reversed seasons to avoid the heat. 5. Foodie - Enjoying delicious food to distract from the summer heat. 6. Sleep - Remaining still can reduce sweating. 7. Memories - Reflect on the beauty of the winter sun; remembering it makes enduring the summer easier. 8. Cute animals - Healing animals can distract from the summer heat. 9. Chilling thriller: Watch a variety of stories or horror movies that send shivers down your spine. Here are 9 methods of my own for your reference. 📣 Feel free to share more ways to get through the scorching summer with me. 📣 #SummerSurvivalTips #howisurviveinsummer #Earlyrising #Indooractivities #Travel #Foodie #nightwalk #Sleep #Memories #Cuteanimals #夏天生存法 #如何度過夏天 #炎炎夏日 #運動 #早起 #室內活動 #旅行 #美食 #睡覺 #回憶法 #可愛動物 #恐怖小說 #여름이겨내기 #2024 #ARen #doodle #대만 #아이비일러스트 #illustration #일러스트 #브랜드디자인 #ivyellowed 

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《鬼怪》連OST都扣人心弦！ 11個part的官方原聲帶，聽到讓你耳朵懷孕～～

《鬼怪》連OST都扣人心弦！ 11個part的官方原聲帶，聽到讓你耳朵懷孕～～

想要讓自己從愛情長跑中解脫，這5件事你絕對要做到！

想要讓自己從愛情長跑中解脫，這5件事你絕對要做到！

2024 0703 今日塔羅：愛 Love

2024 0703 今日塔羅：愛 Love

✄ 度過炎熱夏天的方法 Summer Survival Tips

✄ 度過炎熱夏天的方法 Summer Survival Tips

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2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬 回饋 Reward

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2024 0711 今日塔羅：魔鬼之樂 Devil’s Play

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2024 0628 今日塔羅：大祭司 Hierophant

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2024 0718 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

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2024 0712 今日塔羅：改變 Change

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2024 0618 今日塔羅：負面性 Nagativity

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✄ 度過炎熱夏天的方法 Summer Survival Tips

✄ 度過炎熱夏天的方法 Summer Survival Tips

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2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬回饋 Reward