2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance

2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance 預約的時間到了，遲遲沒看到人影上線，原來還在工作，真的是辛苦了。 阿成說自己的房屋銷售員，政府頒布了幾個專案，讓許多年輕人原本只能默默放在心中的購屋念頭，瞬間有了具體實現的機會，因此很多客人約著要看房子。 阿成說，看起來絡繹不絕的客人潮，好像能夠有不錯的成交結果和獎金收入，但實則並沒有如此美好。 他說，大家都會在網路找資料，爬文，做許多的功課。 我則認為這樣是正確的，減少了資訊落差，也就不會有人被當冤大頭任意宰殺，血流成河的慘況。 阿成說，立場不同啦。 我同意。我也反問阿成，你看車子，會不會先做功課，先問一下別人或者上網。 他說，當然會啊。 我說，那就對了呀。房子，多貴，一輩子可能就這麼一次機會，謹慎點再出手，合理呀。 我再進而分享自己的想法給阿成，我說，若房子好，價錢合理，不須你發揮舌燦蓮花之洗腦大法，有興趣的客戶，一看就懂，就下單了。若房子不怎麼樣，價錢又不合理，你再怎麼勤勞，再怎麼帶不同組的客人前往，在現在資訊更為透明的時代，有機會成功嗎？當然沒有。 每個產業都在喊生意不好做，每個老闆都在說壓力好大，每個員工都在哭做不下去了。 會吵的比較會有糖吃，哭、鬧、折騰，好像比較能夠獲得更好的待遇。 所以，遇到人，遇到事，先哭鬧！先比慘！已成為大家面對事情的第一反應。 好像成為了全民運動似的，大家的慣性。 其實，世界上絕頂聰明就那幾個人，世界上80%的財富也在那些人的手上，我們這些80%的平凡人就是努力、認真、拚命在剩下的20%財富爭奪自己的財富地位。 可能我認識的都是一般人，還真沒發覺誰的工作有比較好做。 阿成接著說帶新人很累，很麻煩，不想這樣過日子。 可小小職員的我們哪有說”不”的立場與機會，況且帶新人是很好的學習，但固執的阿成你說，你什麼都不想要，你只想做好自己的工作就好。 可是我們都知道，工作不可能獨善其身，就如同活在這個世界上一樣，人不可能只顧好自己就好。 不過，深感疲憊又覺厭煩的阿成，你已完全不想聽這些話。 我也只能跟你說，照顧好自己，跟主管聊聊，還有最近天氣變化大，注意身體適應。 然後，你說了，你覺得何時開始整個人都不對了。 原來，你帶著客人去了一間不是很乾淨的房子，你說從那天之後你常覺頭暈。 我當下建議你隔天去找專業的人協助一下，並且在心中跟對方打聲招呼，對於打擾了感到抱歉。 你才恍然大悟到自己竟然沒注意到這樣的註記和禁忌，真的是不應該。 看來，最近的你因疲憊和心情不佳，對於工作沒有了之前的嚴謹和熱情，很是可惜。 有些過錯，是完全不可犯的，而我覺你因情緒控制不佳而觸碰到了禁忌，還讓你的客戶因你的不小心而身體不適，這是很不應該。而這些實在很難對於已經不堪負荷的你再多說的話。 只能藉由請宇宙透過抽塔羅牌的指引給你祝福 ~ 而宇宙送給你的塔羅牌祝福是【聰穎 Brilliance】。 宇宙提醒，我跟你分享的是你最近忽視且不在意，但對你而言應是很重要的事情。 如果你有靜下心聽進我傳達給你的文字和有點擔憂你的心思，你應該會有「啊！豁然開朗。」的當下震撼與感受。 倘若沒有，很可惜，你錯過了宇宙透過我們聊天的機會給予你的指引和祝福。 期冀過幾天，你的心情平復許多，能回看我們的對話，也許那時還有機會可以接收到這關鍵的灼見。 2024-11-14 Ah Cheng: Brilliance The scheduled time arrived, yet you hadn’t logged in. It turned out you were still working—really tough on you. Ah Cheng mentioned he’s a real estate agent, and the government recently rolled out a few programs that have given many young people the tangible chance to pursue homeownership, something they’d only dreamed of before. As a result, many clients are eager to schedule viewings. He said that while the influx of clients might look promising for good sales and bonuses, reality isn’t quite as bright. People are doing extensive research online, reading up, and gathering plenty of information. I think this is great—it reduces information asymmetry, which means fewer people end up being taken advantage of. Ah Cheng said our perspectives differ. I agreed and asked if he wouldn’t also research a car before buying, by asking around or looking it up online. He said, “Of course.” So, I replied, “Exactly. Buying a house is even more expensive, and it’s likely a once-in-a-lifetime purchase. It’s only sensible to be cautious.” I went on to share my perspective: if the property is good and the price fair, you won’t need to spin persuasive pitches. Interested clients will know it’s a good deal at a glance. But if the property lacks appeal or is overpriced, no matter how hard you work or how many clients you bring through, your chances of closing the deal in today’s transparent market are slim. Every industry complains business is hard; every boss says they’re under pressure, and every employee laments they can’t go on. People who complain seem to get better treatment, so it’s as if we’ve collectively adopted whining as our first reaction to challenges. It’s almost become a national pastime. In reality, only a few truly brilliant people exist, and 80% of the world’s wealth is in their hands. The rest of us ordinary folks are just striving to claim a piece of the remaining 20%. Maybe I only know regular people, but I haven’t noticed anyone’s work getting any easier. Ah Cheng then said that training new hires is exhausting and complicated, and he doesn’t want to keep doing it. But we’re just small-time employees; we don’t have the power to say “no.” Besides, training new hires is a valuable learning experience, but stubborn Ah Cheng insists he just wants to focus on his own work. We both know work isn’t done in isolation, just as living in this world isn’t. You can’t just look out for yourself. However, an utterly worn-out Ah Cheng doesn’t want to hear this anymore. So, all I can say is: take care of yourself, talk things over with your supervisor, and with the recent weather fluctuations, be mindful of staying well. Then you mentioned that you started feeling off some time ago. It turned out you had shown a client a rather unkempt property, and since that day, you’ve often felt dizzy. I suggested you see a specialist the next day and mentally apologize for any disturbance caused. You realized that you hadn’t observed such precautions and felt it was an oversight. It seems that recently, due to exhaustion and low spirits, you’ve lost the rigor and enthusiasm you once had for work, which is unfortunate. Some mistakes simply can’t be made, and I believe that poor emotional management led you to inadvertently break a taboo, causing discomfort to your client. But given how overburdened you already are, it’s tough to say much more. So, I asked the universe to bless you through a Tarot card pull, and the universe’s gift to you is the Brilliance card. The universe reminds you that I’m sharing with you things you’ve recently ignored or dismissed, but which are very important to you. If you take my words to heart and sense the concern behind them, you might experience a moment of clarity, a “lightbulb moment.” If not, that’s unfortunate—you’ll have missed the universe’s guidance and blessing through our conversation. Hopefully, in a few days, after you’re feeling more settled, you’ll look back on our exchange and still have a chance to receive this crucial insight. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

紐約生活紀錄與學習筆記@chiujujulian_an 

Fashion trend forecasting enables you to future-proof your product with actionable guidance through the fashion industry’s transformational shifts, from sustainability targets and changing consumer lifestyles to digital design. Fashion experts collate and contextualise research, data and design influences from across the globe. From scientific innovation and social media to catwalks and e-commerce, our extensive research streams are validated with a combination of data sources to bring you strategic forecasts fundamental to planning and designing future collections.面對不穩定性，通過定價策略跟市場制價通路策略，有望緩解目前的成本壓力, 行業有理由保持樂觀，因為老花系列跟不對稱年輕花案對比產生，對市場來說是轉機，新的一年消費者有望看到更多的價格上漲。破碎化的未來2024年，全球前景可能還不穩定，由於新的金融市場，地緣政治和其他挑戰研究影響消費者信心，美國歐洲和中國的時尚市場面臨不同的阻力，要求供應商 品牌跟零售商加強應急計劃等措施。隨著2023年極端災害的事件影響，時尚產業價值鏈變得十分脆弱。在這總背景下，時尚行業極端需要提升供應鏈的彈性，並助力減碳排對應日後的重建。 @chiujujulian_an Taiwanese Data Professionals (TDP) was honored to invite Annette Chiu and Paul Gassle to give talks about the integration between data and fashion and Paul introduced a useful python package, dateutil, for wrangling data in data and times. Why chose dateutil? There are many different time zones and different transition of Daylight Saving Time around the world. These problems were difficult to observe and solve. Paul provided an interesting case in China. China Standard Time is 8 hours ahead of Coordinated Universal Time (UTC+8). However, the time zone in Urumqi is UTC+6. There were two time zones in China, which was confusing for some data scientists. Other problems of time zone, such as parsing, recurrences, and calendar offsets arose due to the complexity of date and time. Paul worked on dateutil to solve these problems and provided a better package for data scientists.【Speaker】Annette Chiu | Marketing Data Analyst @ ChangeFashionPaul Ganssle | Software Engineer @ Bloomberg【Introduction】Annette Chiu is a data analyst and project manager at ChangeFashion Inc, a startup in Manhattan, where she is responsible for digital marketing analysis, sales reporting, sales forecasting, and executing pricing strategies. She has an undergraduate degree in Industrial Engineering and Engineering Management from National Tsing Hua University. She will share her experiences of transitioning into data science and analytics.Paul Ganssle is a software developer at Bloomberg and contributor to various open source projects. Among other projects, he maintains of python-dateutil. He’s given engaging talks at Python community events. He will talk about the utilities that the dateutil project provides for working with datetimes, including recurrence rules, datetime parsing and time zone support.【Notes】The WeWork entrance is 27 E 28th Street between Park South and Madison AveThe nearest subway stop is at 28th Street on the 6 Line and the RW Line on 28th Street and Broadway.Our event begins at 6pm .【Schedule】After-hour @Rooftop Bars NYC (230 Fifth Ave, New York, NY 10001)https://www.eventbrite.com/e/its-about-time-data-people-tickets-45977098740 People exchange items in their communities more than ever now. For better or worse, the internet has hyperconnected us. Boundaries between online and offline life are dwindling in many respects. One of the benefits of this is the ability to buy and sell used goods from local strangers.This upcoming year I will discuss how he approached the problem and go through the steps he followed to create and build an application, a highly predictive model for predicting load defaults using Lending Club data, from data exploration to feature selection to portfolio optimization.This presentation provides a glimpse of the level of practical knowledge, technical expertise, and presentation skills that our students acquire and sharpen throughout their time at the boot camp. Join us online and get a sense of what it’s like to learn data science and build your career with smart thought.Good day everyone, I’m a business analyst who believes that product management is an investment in my entrepreneurial pursuit. I am a PM who recently left my home country Taipei to New York, with aspirations to build my career overseas. During my 6+ years of professional experience and 2.5 years as a full stack engineer before transitioning to full-time Product Management, I’ve navigated diverse industries, from small-scale startups to multinational corporations. I’m keen to connect, exchange ideas and grow together with everyone here. Cheers!

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master 老林，從腦海裡突然閃過你的身影，再想到當初你坐在我對面的情景，我深深為自己年輕時傲嬌的樣子感到羞愧，且需要跟你道歉，須打自我的內心跟你好好地說聲對不起。 那時的你，正值人生低谷，主管是你以前的同學，所以你才有機會進到公司。這是主管跟我說的，那時的我並沒有太多的判斷能力，可我確實也因為這樣而開始用有色眼光看待你。 我們那時的主管對我很不好，是一位天蠍女，對待她不喜歡的人會用言語辱罵，用情緒恐嚇。我是單位裡除她以外的唯一女生，所以很快就發現她跟其他同事說話態度和對待我時是天壤地別。 那時的我才25歲。 即使我想用力反抗也無用，因多國股東結構下，同事們各有各的靠山和派系，唯有我沒有。 你幸福多了，不會做的事情，做不來的事情，有你同學指點一二。 而我做對的事情，她會大聲喝罵我說她要的不是結果，她不爽我沒照她交代的過程去做；但我是照她交代的去做啊，但我又可能為每次的工作交代進行錄音當證據呢。 於是，她欺負我，我就不爽你。 她對我兇，我就不理你。 很多次，你想安慰我，但你說你嘴拙，怕說了我更生氣，你也一直勸我服個軟，就雨過天晴。 人，就是這樣，年輕時，筋Q軟，但腰挺很直，脾氣很硬。有了年紀後，筋變硬，懂得彎腰的重要性，但卻彎不下去了。 總之，離開那裡，我告訴自己，絕對要成為更厲害的自己。 我將那時認識的你們所有全都拋卻忘記，唯有欺壓我的人牢記在心裡。 我的2/3人生過去了，有沒有成為更厲害的自己沒人在意。但，我想起了你，想到了那個傲嬌的自己。但我卻忘記了你的名，只記得你的姓氏。 我在心裡跟你致歉，跟你道歉，說對不起，我請宇宙送給你祝福，也請宇宙傳達我的歉意至你的心中，也許你會突然想到我，閃過我的臉孔，那就是你接收到我的心意。 宇宙送的祝福塔羅牌是：【大師 Master】。 記得你的手藝超好，你曾煮過好幾次美食帶來公司分享，你愛你的家人，疼惜你的老婆，這樣的你，現在應是幸福的，你感恩你的同學給你機會，你嘗過低谷的苦澀，這樣的你，從那之後應都是知足快樂的。 我想，在你擅長且喜歡的領域，你應該早已成為一方大師，很多人跟你學習著。 祝福你 ~ 真心誠意！ 希望現在的你，雖然年紀有點老，可擁有專業好手藝的你，跟家人和樂生活，與老婆幸福過日子。 2024.11.28 To Mr. Lin: The Master Mr. Lin, Your image suddenly flashed across my mind, and I recalled the scene of you sitting across from me. I feel deeply ashamed of my arrogant attitude in my younger years and feel the need to sincerely apologize to you from the bottom of my heart. At that time, you were at a low point in your life. Your supervisor was a former classmate, which was why you got the opportunity to join the company. The supervisor shared this with me, and back then, my ability to judge was limited. Unfortunately, I allowed this information to color my perception of you. Our supervisor wasn’t kind to me. She was a Scorpio woman who used verbal insults and emotional intimidation against those she didn’t like. I was the only woman in the department besides her and quickly noticed the stark difference in how she treated me compared to others. I was only 25 at the time. Even though I wanted to resist, it was futile. In a company with a multinational shareholder structure, each colleague had their own allies and factions—except me. You, on the other hand, were more fortunate. When you struggled with tasks, your classmate guided you. Meanwhile, when I completed tasks correctly, I’d still get scolded. She would yell, claiming that while the results were right, she was displeased because I hadn’t followed her specified process. But I had followed her instructions! Yet I couldn’t possibly record every work directive as evidence. Thus, her bullying of me made me resent you. Her hostility toward me made me ignore you. Many times, you tried to comfort me, but you admitted you weren’t good with words and worried that speaking up might make me angrier. You often advised me to soften my stance, saying that things would get better if I let it go. That’s how people are. When we’re young, we’re flexible but stubborn, standing tall and proud with hardened tempers. As we age, our bodies stiffen, but we learn the importance of bending—only to find it harder to do so. In any case, after leaving that place, I told myself I must become a better version of myself. I let go of everyone I knew there, except for the ones who oppressed me—I kept them firmly in my memory. Two-thirds of my life has now passed. Whether or not I’ve become a better person, no one truly cares. But I thought of you and my arrogant younger self. I’ve even forgotten your first name, only remembering your surname. In my heart, I apologize to you, saying, “I’m sorry.” I ask the universe to send blessings your way and to convey my apology to your heart. Perhaps you’ll suddenly think of me and see my face flash before you—that will be my heartfelt message reaching you. The blessing sent by the universe through the Tarot card is: [The Master]. I remember your incredible skills. You cooked many delicious meals and shared them with the office. You loved your family and cherished your wife. Someone like you must be living a happy life now. You were grateful to your classmate for the opportunity and had experienced the bitterness of life’s lows. With that, I believe you have since lived a life of contentment and joy. I imagine that in the field you excel in and love, you’ve already become a master, with many learning from you. Wishing you all the best—sincerely and wholeheartedly! I hope that now, though older, you continue to enjoy a harmonious life with your family, happiness with your wife, and the fulfillment that comes from your exceptional skills. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1116 小夜：財富 Fortune

2024 1116 小夜：財富 Fortune 親愛的小夜 短短相識的時光裡，剛開始的妳熱情，像是急著要求表現，會一直不斷發出求鼓勵的訊息給妳身旁的人，但不包括我。 我能明白這樣背後的心情。 當一個人對於自己所處的位置感到不踏實，擔憂會被人看出來那虛弱的能力，總會有不同於平常的反應。 我的出現並非是要指摘這部分的狀況，我覺能有默契，能互相，能討論的一起合作是職場上最棒的模式。 知識、技術還是專業，趕快學習，盡快累積，就可以了呀。 態度，是基本。 很可惜的是，對於我思緒的分享妳未能聽進，並沒有放在心裡。 妳整天像個陀螺一直轉，可真正完成的事情卻沒有，連一份資料建檔都分好幾次才完成，妳永遠在重新進入一項工作的進度到哪，因為妳總是被人或事打斷後，就轉頭去忙其他的事情。 沒有邏輯，沒有輕重緩急，沒有選擇性的瞎忙，這讓我擔憂不已。 我也是妳自己不小心說出口才知道原來妳背有靠山。 是我眼拙了。 已經厭倦人情糾葛角力鬥爭的我，很快地就明白這兒不適合我的調性。很快地又有新進人員補上了我那沒坐熱的位置，然後那人跟妳共事相處後即刻跟高階主管請命希望公司可以讓妳離開，因覺妳不合適。 說實在的，這樣的發展讓我驚訝不已。過往，對於不適任的同仁我也是會選擇建議中止勞雇關係，可不會是在如此短的時間就下決定。 從妳的文字裡接收到妳憤怒、生氣的情緒。 於是我請宇宙送給妳祝福，抽到的塔羅是【財富 Fortune】。 找到妳的天賦在哪，很是重要。 也許妳有嚮往的工作或職位，那花時間去了解，是否真對妳合適。 記得嗎？我們剛認識的第一天，我一直跟妳詢問與確認，是否真的想要從事這類型工作？現在一直讓妳有情緒的事情都是這職位工作內容的日常。 妳擁有很好的熱情與積極特質，把這運用發揮在妳擅長的方向，事情就會如抓到風的尾巴，乘風飛翔起來。 2024.11.16 Xiao Ye: Wealth (Fortune) Dear Xiao Ye, In the short time we've known each other, you started with an intense enthusiasm, as if eager to prove yourself. You kept sending out messages seeking encouragement to those around you—but not to me. I can understand the emotions behind this. When someone feels insecure about their position, worried that their weaknesses might be exposed, they often react differently from their usual self. My presence wasn’t meant to criticize this; I believe the best workplace dynamic is built on mutual understanding, collaboration, and open discussion. Knowledge, skills, and expertise—just learn them quickly and accumulate them as soon as you can. Attitude is the foundation. Unfortunately, it seems my thoughts didn’t reach you or leave any impression on you. You were constantly busy, spinning like a top all day long, yet accomplishing little. Even a single task like filing a document required multiple attempts to complete. You were always restarting your work because you’d get interrupted by people or things, then shift your focus elsewhere. Lacking logic, prioritization, and discernment, you were stuck in aimless busyness, which worried me deeply. It was only by accident that I learned you had some backing, something I initially overlooked. As someone weary of office politics and power struggles, I quickly realized this environment wasn’t a fit for me. Soon, a new hire replaced me in the position I barely warmed, and after working with you, that person immediately appealed to senior management, suggesting your departure due to perceived unsuitability. Frankly, I was quite surprised by how things unfolded. In the past, I have recommended terminating employment for colleagues who were unfit for their roles, but never within such a short time frame. From your messages, I could sense your anger and frustration. So, I asked the universe to send you a blessing, and the Tarot card drawn was “Wealth (Fortune).” It is crucial to discover where your talents truly lie. Perhaps you have a dream job or role you admire—take the time to explore whether it genuinely suits you. Do you remember our first day together when I kept asking and confirming whether you truly wanted to pursue this type of work? The things now upsetting you are simply the daily realities of this job. You have admirable passion and a proactive spirit. If you channel these qualities into an area you excel in, you’ll catch the tailwind and soar. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

電視台年末頒獎典禮終於要來了，2015各家的情侶獎到底會獎落誰家呢？你們支持哪一對啊？

每年年末各家電視台都會舉行演技大賞頒獎典禮，其中最受人矚目的就是男演員、女演員人氣獎和最佳情侶組合了！今年也默默地追了好多愛情劇，一起來回顧一下今年的粉紅色泡泡吧 SBS 劉亞仁/申世景《六龍飛天》 周元/金泰希《龍八夷》 朴炯植/林智妍《上流社會》 盛駿/U-IE 《上流社會》 玄彬/韓志旼《海德哲基爾與我》 朴有天/申世景《看見味道的少女》 KBS 李源根/鄭恩地《無理的前進》 蘇志燮/申敏兒《Oh My Venus》 呂珍九/金雪炫《橘子果醬》 車太鉉/孔孝真《製作人》 金秀賢/IU《製作人》 陸星材/金所炫《Who Are You-學校2015》 南柱赫/金所炫《Who Are You-學校2015》 MBC 朴敘俊/黃正音《她很漂亮》 柳演錫/姜素拉《心情好又溫暖》 李準基/李侑菲《夜行書生》 尹博/李聖經《女王之花》 池晟/黃正音《Kill Me, Heal Me》 朴敘俊/池晟《Kill Me, Heal Me》 ​（圖片來源: Google/Pinterest） MBC還有男男CP也太幽默了吧！因為三家電視台今年都出超多部電視劇，裡面的情侶檔也都太多了，漏掉你支持的情侶檔快來留言告訴我們唷！ 資料來源： 整理報導

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment 給迫不及待，等不及約好的時間，提前到來的丹丹 ~ 年輕的妳，很有自己的想法與主張；妳，不迷惘，不慌張，妳只是想找一個人聽妳說，聽妳訴，聽到妳的心聲而已。 妳覺得，年輕，最大的本錢是時間、精神和體力。這點我非常認同的。所以妳想趁著年輕，多賺錢，不想花費太多時間和金錢在玩樂上面，這點，實在是讓我太佩服妳了。 想當年，在妳這樣花樣年華的年紀，與同事週六的約會和玩耍，可是我認為人生的重頭戲呢。 有著成熟思想的妳認為，年輕，腦子記憶力較好，反應較快，應該用來學習、累積與思考。 所以妳不太跟朋友外出，這就造成了今日的困擾，朋友們覺得妳不好搞，妳希望朋友能懂妳的渴望和企圖。 記得我當下跟妳說 ~ 『妳的生活，是妳的，朋友的生活，是朋友的。』 『每個人的背景條件不同，這是先天給的；每個人想要的生活不同，這是後天自己想要的。』 妳認同了這些話，可仍陷在感覺與朋友格格不入的氛圍裡。 然後我接著跟妳分享了自己的人生 ~ 我覺『年輕呀，正是適合努力往前衝的年紀呢。』 每個人想要衝去的方向不同而已。 我有朋友喜愛旅遊，可以把薪水、時間和心力都用在旅遊，樂此不疲；而我有點相反，我喜歡穩定，旅遊很美好，對我來說卻不會很常安排。 每個人對生活、對樂趣、對人生意義都有不一樣的看法與想要完成的人生使命。 不管是如何，都很好。 我也曾經遇到朋友認為我和他們其他人沒有話聊，聚會時，即使我只是坐在旁邊聽他們說，他們也覺我礙眼。於是，他們有些聚會沒有找我了。 當我知道時，有點難過，不過更多的是鬆了一口氣。 我知道這群朋友很好，所以我捨不得離開，但終究別人幫我做了這個分離的決定，我就順著這個勢，疏離淡去。 這就是所謂的〝道不同，不相為謀〞。 彼此之間說不到一塊，那就別勉強雙方了。 『會有那麼一群跟妳志同道合的人，在前方不遠處等著妳。』 『也許懂妳的，可以跟妳一起成長交流的朋友，在新世界，就等妳去找到。』 我記得我最後是這樣跟丹丹妳說的。 妳的笑有點沒有精神，因妳捨不得現在這群朋友。 這就是丹丹誤會我的意思了。 我總認為，朋友有很多種，也有很多不同階段還是層級。 不是分高低，不是分親疏蜜離。 我還有跟丹丹說這些話，不知道妳有記得嗎？ 『妳會知道有些朋友適合一起做甚麼，有些事情適合哪些朋友。』 『不是將朋友分種類，或分級，而是每位出現在我們身邊的朋友，他們對我們人生影響的事情 是不同的。』 我喜歡跟朋友相聚，因為跟朋友一起開懷大笑，讓我覺得生命很好，日子很好，人生很好，歲月靜好。 『我知道很多朋友只能陪伴自己一段時間，無法長久，無法一輩子。』 所以我總是珍惜〝當下〞、〝現在〞。 相聚時，專注，用心。 工作時，認真，奮鬥。 學習時，投入，努力。 人生由許多階段連接而成，生活由不同面向組合而成，日子是綜合的寶箱，而非單一口味的獨屬盒。 偶爾跟朋友出去玩玩，放鬆，也不錯。 大部分時間想要學習、累積，讓自己未來爬得更高，走得更遠，這志向，更好。 加油 ~ ！ 妳的人生調色由妳自己決定。 送給妳的塔羅祝福：【滿足 Fulfillment】。 來自宇宙的訊息，這是一張情感的塔羅牌，提醒丹丹，珍惜朋友的關心，她們可能是希望妳在努力的路途上，也可同時間享有友情的潤澤，家人的關心與照顧。當妳退一步去思考朋友的出發點時，妳就會察覺到妳身在充滿愛與關懷裡，心中是滿滿的幸福。 2024-08-25 Blessings to Dandan: Fulfillment To the eager Dandan who arrives early, unable to wait for the agreed-upon time~ As a young person, you have your own thoughts and opinions. You are not confused or flustered; you simply want someone to listen to you, to hear your stories, and to understand your innermost feelings. You believe that the greatest assets of youth are time, energy, and physical strength. I completely agree with this perspective. That's why you want to take advantage of your youth to earn more money and are reluctant to spend too much time and money on entertainment. I truly admire this about you. Back in the day, when I was your age, I considered outings and weekend gatherings with colleagues as the highlights of life. However, with your mature mindset, you believe that while young, with a sharper memory and quicker reflexes, you should focus on learning, accumulating knowledge, and reflecting on life. As a result, you don't go out much with friends, which has led to today's troubles—your friends find you difficult to connect with, while you wish they could understand your desires and ambitions. I remember telling you then: "Your life is yours, and your friends' lives are theirs." "Everyone has different circumstances, which are given by nature; everyone desires a different kind of life, which is what they strive for later." You agreed with these words but still felt out of sync with your friends. Then I shared my own life experiences with you: I believe that youth is the time to strive forward with all your might. Everyone just has different directions they want to pursue. I have friends who love traveling and can devote their salaries, time, and energy to it without getting tired. I'm somewhat the opposite; I prefer stability. Travel is wonderful, but I don't plan it often. Everyone has different perspectives on life, fun, and the meaning of life and different missions they want to accomplish. No matter what, it's all good. I've also had friends who felt they had nothing to talk about with me. Even if I just sat beside them, listening, they found me annoying. So, some of their gatherings didn't include me. When I found out, I was a bit sad but more relieved. I knew these friends were great, so I was reluctant to leave, but in the end, they made the decision for me to part ways, and I just went with the flow, gradually drifting apart. This is what they call "different paths, no mutual plans." If you can't see eye to eye, don't force either side. "There will be a group of like-minded people waiting for you not far ahead." "Perhaps friends who understand you, who can grow and exchange ideas with you, are waiting for you in a new world." I remember saying this to you at the end. Your smile seemed a bit spiritless because you were reluctant to let go of your current group of friends. That’s where you misunderstood me. I always believe there are many kinds of friends and different stages or levels. It's not about ranking higher or lower or being closer or more distant. Did you remember I also told you this? "You will know which friends are suitable for what activities, and what things are suitable for which friends." "It's not about categorizing or grading friends but recognizing that each friend who appears around us has a different impact on our lives." I enjoy gathering with friends because laughing heartily with them makes me feel life is good, the days are good, life is great, and the years are peaceful. "I know many friends can only accompany me for a while, not forever, not for a lifetime." So, I always cherish the "present" and the "now." When gathering, I focus and put my heart into it. When working, I am serious and strive hard. When learning, I dedicate myself and work diligently. Life is composed of many stages; living consists of different facets; the days are a comprehensive treasure chest, not a single-flavored exclusive box. Occasionally going out to play and relax with friends is also good. Spending most of your time learning and accumulating, aiming to climb higher and go further in the future, is an even better ambition. Keep it up~! The colors of your life are yours to choose. Here is a tarot blessing for you: Fulfillment. A message from the universe, this is a card of emotions, reminding you, Dandan, to cherish the care of your friends. They may wish for you to enjoy the nourishment of friendship and the care and support of family even while striving on your path. When you take a step back and consider your friends' perspectives, you'll realize you're surrounded by love and care, and your heart will be filled with happiness. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust 小陸從上一個工作裸辭至今也快要近三年。他說倒也不是著急想要回到職場，純粹是因非常確定，也接受了一個事實，那就是，他個人本身，完全沒有自律的好態度，更沒有自我約束的好習慣。 從剛開始，於半夜滑手機平板，一丁點也不想睡覺，到後來，需要睡覺，想要睡覺，身體卻完全不理會大腦的意識與意志，整個狀況就是身體有自己的節奏與步調，完全無視大腦的命令和意志的渴求。 他形容到那次面試的時間是過去二十年來第一次如此快速且短暫的，徵才公司董事長問了三個問題，卻都在還沒完成回答前打斷了他的陳述與說明，甚至不給予時間與機會提出詢問導致他無法獲得更多訊息。 當下他是不悅的，現在的他認為應該聽從這個情緒的直覺。 因當時他被理智腦給說服了，以為董事長如此簡潔有力的抓重點，於管理風格上是強勢且有力道，是直接表達指示、命令，不需下屬或員工的臆測。 事實的真相總是得進入實際環境裡才知道。 面試時說會成為工作夥伴的年輕孩子早就於上個月前離職了，被告知現職的助理可以協助很多事情，實際狀況是空有熱誠，懷有熱情，可惜沒有該職務的工作基礎，沒有相關經驗，也不具備基礎理論，卻是把基本常識當作知識的叫囂著，把每天忙得像陀螺，對於他在旁的指導與建議，充耳不聞，還反過來指責他沒能快速進入狀況。 在職場最害怕不懂專業的人要帶領真正懂得的人，更危險的是下屬以年資來吆喝新進主管。 此處不宜久留，提出去意。 於面試時被告知的職務工作目標與實際狀況不符合，且感覺上是有刻意、惡意掩蓋實際狀況，即使是職場裡的老鳥，在萬惡的資本家面前，也只有被欺凌的份。 宇宙呼應其需要祝福的指引，抽到的塔羅牌是：【信任Trust】。 宇宙說，遭遇到這樣的事情，更是突顯信任的重要。光，是信任的象徵，讓你感受到有光的存在的人，不要害怕，試著再次給予信任，試著看到他人的善良，試著建立與擁抱新關係，宇宙與老天不會給你無法處理的事務，相信自己的能力，相信自己的際遇，相信善良的自己會遇到美好的機緣。 2024 1024 Xiao Lu: Trust Xiao Lu has been out of work for nearly three years since quitting his last job without securing another. He says it’s not that he’s in a hurry to return to the workforce; rather, he has come to terms with a reality—that he himself lacks a good attitude toward self-discipline and does not have the habit of self-restraint. Initially, he would stay up late at night, scrolling on his phone or tablet, without any desire to sleep. Later, when he needed and wanted to sleep, his body completely ignored his mind’s consciousness and will. His body seemed to have its own rhythm and pace, completely disregarding the brain’s commands and desires. He described a recent interview as the fastest and shortest one he’s had in the past twenty years. The chairman of the recruiting company asked him three questions but interrupted him before he could finish each answer. He wasn’t given the time or opportunity to ask questions, leaving him with no further information. At the time, he was displeased, and now he feels he should have trusted his emotional instinct. Back then, however, his rational mind convinced him that the chairman’s concise focus on key points was a sign of a strong, efficient management style—one where instructions are given directly, leaving no need for employees to guess. But the truth only reveals itself once you are in the actual environment. The young colleague, who was supposed to be his future work partner according to the interview, had already left a month earlier. He was told that the current assistant could help with many tasks, but in reality, while passionate and enthusiastic, the assistant had no foundation for the job. Lacking experience and theoretical knowledge, the assistant mistook basic common sense for expertise, staying busy like a spinning top. Worse still, the assistant ignored Xiao Lu’s guidance and suggestions, even blaming him for not adapting quickly enough. What Xiao Lu fears most in the workplace is when someone without expertise leads those who truly understand the work. Even more dangerous is when subordinates use their seniority to shout down a newly appointed supervisor. This was not a place to stay long, so he decided to leave. The job's responsibilities, as described in the interview, did not match the reality, and it felt as though the truth had been deliberately hidden. Even seasoned professionals can find themselves bullied by ruthless capitalists. Seeking guidance, Xiao Lu turned to the universe and drew the Tarot card: Trust. The universe said that encountering such experiences only highlights the importance of trust. Light is a symbol of trust. Don’t be afraid of those who make you feel the presence of light. Try to trust again, try to see the goodness in others, and try to build and embrace new relationships. The universe and the heavens will not give you more than you can handle. Trust in your abilities, trust in your circumstances, and trust that your kind-hearted self will encounter beautiful opportunities. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

夏日納涼特輯，這幾部鬼神韓劇絕對讓你背脊發涼，但是其實鬼神不可怕，可怕的是人！

接近夏日韓綜都會推出跟鬼神有關的特輯，因為夏天就是要你冷到背脊發涼，最近也越來越多韓劇題材跟鬼神有關，你看過幾部了呢 主君的太陽（恐怖指數：★★★★★） 推到不行的主君，大家一定都看過，裡面的鬼真的是讓小編完全不敢晚上看，後面一口氣全部看完不然真的太寫實太可怕拉 我的鬼神君（恐怖指數：★） 大家都超愛朴寶英的演技，但是處女鬼申順愛也超值得提的啊！真的是讓人覺得人比鬼可怕的韓劇，但也讓人見識到鬼人之間也有粉紅色泡泡啊 Who Are You（恐怖指數：★★★） 當初因為和主君的太陽同檔撥出，後來才追的，覺得女主角真的超會演啊！裡面的鬼也都很具象化，被嚇到是稀鬆平常的事 鬼神在幹什麼（恐怖指數：★） 李準和趙秀香主演，離開李準後再度以鬼魂身分回來，其實看起來跟人沒兩樣的女鬼，一點都不恐怖，反而有點感人，只有一集可以去看看喔 能看見鬼的警察處容（恐怖指數：★★★★） 總共有兩季，裡面的鬼比主君的太陽還不恐怖，但是等級跟Who Are You差不多，每次看到沒有眼珠的鬼都還是會被嚇得半死拉 鬼神照太可怕還是放一些基本款的不要嚇到你們了！不知道女孩們看了幾部，超膽小的小編除了我的鬼神君之外都只敢早上看或是一次追完全部再安心睡覺，都不用開冷氣就超涼了拉！ ​（圖片來源: Google） 資料來源： 整理報導

2024 0902 給阿雄的祝福：女祭司 Priestess

2024 0902 給阿雄的祝福：女祭司 Priestess 阿雄，你好，今天的你提早到。你問是否可提早開始，剛好我也沒其他事情，於是我們就馬上開始今日的約談，並且開門見山地直接了解你遇到的問題還是困難。 你說，工作非常忙，今天和同事有一點小糾紛。 你說，你討厭現在的上班氣氛，同事之間不互相幫忙，該認真工作都不認真，整天只知道嘻皮笑臉。 曾經擔任人力資源工作的我馬上先了解，「主管知道嗎？主管有清楚你們團隊現在的工作狀況嗎？主管有採取任何行動嗎？」 你說，「主管知道，但不管，你講到很多次狀況，可是都沒有什麼幫助。」 還說，「主管說，那些都是新人，一些時間熟悉工作後，就不會這樣散漫了。」可是，沒有人告訴新人應該要做到什麼工作，都已經來一個月來，還是新人？你說，你很想吐槽主管這句話。 阿雄，很多工作，到職一個月而已，真的還只能算是新人，甚至即使到職三個月，也還是只有新人的程度。 我說，「會不會在對於新人的定義，你和主管的想法不同。」「你覺得怎樣的工作表現不算新人 … 。」我還沒說完想要表達的，心情不好的你搶話說道，「我很想跟老闆說，〝你知道你在說什麼嗎？時間是不等人的，其他人不上手，工作要做比較多的是你。」 接著，你不太想聽我說了，你持續說著，「根本沒辦法好好工作。」「上班不喜歡被外物影響。」「業務工作很競爭，沒有時間可以浪費。」 我能感受到現在的工作環境讓你感覺到窒悶，沒有被重視，甚至有被同事拖後腿的感覺。 我試著詢問，「有沒有試著跟同事溝通，大家一起努力工作 … 」。 我的話還是沒有機會說完，你說，「不想說太多，不想牽扯太多。」「已經浪費太多時間在這裡了。」「做得夠多，說的也很多，沒人贊同。」「需要更好的工作環境。」「繼續這樣下去不知道我可以撐多久。」「真的倒楣，工作遇到這些隊友。」 我趕緊插話說，「今天要不要先從修改履歷開始？」 你說，「也是可以，不過想要明天才開始。明天休假。」 都好，終究是要開始，要有行動，才會有機會改變。 於是最後我建議了，「履歷修改好後，先放下一兩天，然後再拿出來看，思考可以再如何調整，哪裡要修改，這樣履歷的品質會更優。」 你道謝後，說「心態不好，做什麼事情都做不好，亂手亂腳的。」「討厭這樣的心態在工作。」 我說，「也許你的好運就在你轉換的地方等著你。」 情緒還有點上頭的你說，「或許真是這樣。很多事情沒遇到不知道。」 我說，「只有前進才知道前方有什麼等著我們。」 你說，「沒錯，原地踏步怎麼會有成長。」然後接著說，「其實我自己已經決定好了想怎麼做。就從明天開始做。」 宇宙給阿雄的塔羅牌祝福和消息：【女祭司 Priestess】。 情緒遲遲無法冷靜的阿雄，不佳的情緒狀況會影響我們的思緒和判斷。能明白在紛紛擾擾與不開心的狀況下，冷靜是多麼不容易的事情。 不過我們都知道，沒有了冷靜，就沒有辦法客觀的審視情況，事情或同事也許沒有你現在認為的那麼糟糕。 喪失了冷靜，也會造成無法平衡的評估自己。 有的時候看似積極進取的決定與行為，其實是另一種消極的逃避與抗議。 試著讓自己come down一點，再決定要如何改變，有的時候改變，不一定是指環境的不同，而是我們的觀念與態度不同。 Blessings for Ah Hsiung on September 2, 2024: Priestess Hello, Ah Hsiung. You arrived early today. You asked if we could start earlier, and since I had no other plans, we immediately began today's session, diving straight into understanding the issues or difficulties you are facing. You said that work has been very busy, and today you had a minor dispute with a colleague. You mentioned that you dislike the current work atmosphere, where colleagues don't help each other. Those who are supposed to work seriously don't, and they just fool around all day. Having worked in human resources before, I immediately inquired, "Does your supervisor know? Are they aware of your team's current work situation? Have they taken any action?" You said, "The supervisor knows but doesn't care. You've mentioned the situation many times, but nothing much has been done." You also mentioned, "The supervisor said that those are just new employees, and after some time getting familiar with the job, they won't be so lax." But no one has told these new employees what they are supposed to do. They've been here for a month; are they still considered new? You said you wanted to retort to the supervisor's comment. Ah Hsiung, in many jobs, after just one month, you are still considered a newcomer. In fact, even after three months, you might still be at the level of a newcomer. I said, "Perhaps your definition of a newcomer differs from your supervisor's. What kind of job performance do you consider to not be that of a newcomer...?" Before I could finish expressing my thoughts, you interrupted in your frustration, saying, "I really want to tell the boss, 'Do you even know what you're saying? Time waits for no one. If others don't get the hang of it, the ones who have to do more work are us.'" Afterward, you were not too keen on listening to me. You continued, "I can't work properly in such an environment. I don't like external influences at work. The business environment is highly competitive, and there's no time to waste." I can feel that the current work environment makes you feel stifled, undervalued, and even held back by your colleagues. I tried to ask, "Have you tried communicating with your colleagues, encouraging everyone to work hard together...?" Before I could finish, you said, "I don't want to say too much or get too involved. I've already wasted too much time here. I've done enough and said enough, but no one agrees. I need a better work environment. I don't know how long I can keep going if things continue like this. It's really unlucky to work with these teammates." I quickly interjected, "How about starting by updating your resume today?" You said, "That's also possible, but I'd rather start tomorrow. I'm off tomorrow." That's fine. The important thing is to start; actions lead to opportunities for change. Finally, I suggested, "After updating your resume, set it aside for a day or two, then review it again to see what can be adjusted or modified. This way, the quality of your resume will be even better." After thanking me, you said, "When my mindset is off, nothing I do goes well, and I feel clumsy. I hate having this kind of mindset at work." I said, "Maybe your good fortune is waiting for you at the place where you make a change." With your emotions still high, you said, "Maybe that's true. You don't know until you encounter it." I said, "Only by moving forward will we know what awaits us ahead." You replied, "That's right; there can be no growth by standing still." Then you added, "Actually, I've already decided what I want to do. I'll start tomorrow." The Tarot card blessing and message from the universe for Ah Hsiung: Priestess. Ah Hsiung, your lingering emotional turmoil can affect your thoughts and judgment. It's understandable how difficult it is to remain calm amidst turmoil and unhappiness. However, we all know that without calmness, it's impossible to objectively assess the situation. Things or colleagues may not be as bad as you currently perceive. Losing calmness can also lead to an imbalanced evaluation of yourself. Sometimes, decisions and actions that seem proactive are actually another form of passive avoidance and protest. Try to calm down before deciding on any changes. Sometimes, change doesn't necessarily mean a different environment but rather a shift in our mindset and attitude. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0823 給欣佩的塔羅祝福：演員 Actor

2024 0823 給欣佩的祝福：演員 Actor 可愛的欣佩 今天很高興能有機會跟妳聊聊天。 妳說今天的心情一大早就不是很好，因為跟朋友吵架了。吵架的原因，妳沒說，但一直說著兩人常常這樣吵架，至今兩人沒吵散，但，不知道哪天會有不同的結果。 我聽著，是有點擔憂的。我從來就不認為感情會越吵越好。感情若要越吵越好，是因為後面還有一個溝通、討論、深度聊聊的階段，唯有更加體認到對方的善與關心，感情才會隨著吵架次數增加而建立更為緊密。 吵架，只是一個媒介，一個方式。 吵架，不是結論，不是終點，不是僅止於此。 聊天的過程中知道妳擁有直率、爽朗的個性，加上年紀很輕就進入社會歷練，所以妳的思維，想法，總比周遭同事或朋友更多，更遠，更周全。 妳看事情的角度也比旁人寬廣。 所以有時朋友不懂得妳的觀念和堅持的論點。 這讓妳很挫折。 可，有智慧的妳也有能力面對處理這樣的困境。 祝福妳與朋友今晚微醺地談心。 把事情說開了，心情也就通了。 送給妳我的塔羅祝福 ~ 【Man of Wands 演員】。 來自宇宙的訊息：面對不同的人，不同的角度，不同的看法，說著不同的話。聰穎的妳知道，朋友之間，有時候不須辯論是非對錯，觀點不同罷了，一切都在妳的心中有定數的。 Dear Xinpei, I'm glad to have the opportunity to chat with you today. You mentioned that you weren't feeling great this morning because you had an argument with a friend. You didn't specify the reason for the argument, but you mentioned that you two often argue like this. So far, these arguments haven't led to a fallout, but who knows when things might change. Listening to this, I felt a bit concerned. I've never believed that relationships improve through arguments alone. If arguments are to strengthen a relationship, it’s because there’s a stage of communication, discussion, and deep conversation that follows. Only by gaining a deeper understanding of each other’s kindness and care can a relationship become stronger through the increase in arguments. An argument is just a medium, a method. An argument is not a conclusion, nor an endpoint; it doesn't end there. During our chat, I learned that you have a straightforward and cheerful personality. You entered society at a young age, gaining a lot of experience, so your thoughts and ideas are often more comprehensive and far-reaching than those of your colleagues or friends. Your perspective is also broader than most. That's why sometimes your friends don't understand your ideas and the points you insist on. This frustrates you. But with your wisdom, you also have the ability to handle and face such challenges. I wish you and your friend a heartfelt conversation over a few drinks tonight. Once things are spoken out, your feelings will be resolved as well. I'm sending you my tarot blessing ~ [Man of Wands - The Performer]. A message from the universe: In facing different people, perspectives, and opinions, you say different things. The clever you know that among friends, there’s no need to debate who is right or wrong; it’s just a difference in viewpoints. Everything is already settled in your heart.

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