2024 0301 公告 ANNOUNCEMENT

2024 0301 公告 ANNOUNCEMENT https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/142148401 自2024.3.1起，週六、週日與放假日，暫停塔羅閱讀。 首先，要先給自己鼓掌，喝采。 做得非常好，連續二個月，即使休假，即使出國遊玩，每天都有如計畫，如實，如時得閱讀塔羅牌，並且設計讀牌心得卡，及寫下讀牌紀錄。 下週，要找個機會，鼓勵、激勵與慰勞自己。 為何決定2024年3月1日起，暫停週末假日與放假日的塔羅閱讀呢？ 這兩個月，我每天都在思考，要如何呈現最適合的塔羅讀牌，不管是心得卡上的圖案選擇，文字句子，都再三思酌，加上閱讀塔羅牌時的紀錄，說真實的，這是一件耗心力與耗時的工作。 人，總是如此，在放鬆休假時，大部分是不會需要，也不會想要任何方式的指引與提醒。 做了這樣的決定，塔羅牌抽到”先知Seer” 顯現是內在世界的具體結果。 看見，運用智慧，把現有事業願景推向更高格局。 神聖的儀式，充滿療癒，也開啟靈性的道途。 塔羅閱讀以外，應該也要充實知識與智慧的思考。 Starting from March 1st, 2024, Tarot readings will be suspended on Saturdays, Sundays, and public holidays. Firstly, let's give ourselves a round of applause, cheers. You've done exceptionally well for two consecutive months. Even during vacations or travels abroad, you've managed to stick to the Tarot readings diligently, every day, as planned and on time. You've even designed insight cards and kept records of your readings. Next week, make sure to find an opportunity to encourage, motivate, and reward yourself. Why the decision to suspend Tarot readings on weekends and holidays starting from March 1st, 2024? For these two months, I've been contemplating daily on how to present the most suitable Tarot readings. Whether it's the choice of imagery on the insight cards or the wording of sentences, everything has been meticulously considered. Along with documenting the readings, truth be told, it's been mentally and time-consuming work. People tend to be like this. During relaxation and vacation, they usually neither need nor want any form of guidance or reminders. Making this decision, drawing the "Seer" card, indicates a tangible outcome in the inner world. Seeing, utilizing wisdom to propel existing career visions to higher levels. Sacred rituals, full of healing, also open spiritual paths. Beyond Tarot readings, it's essential to enrich knowledge and engage in thoughtful contemplation. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Seer #Wands #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #先知 #權杖 #信念

2024 0221 今日塔羅：負面性 Negativity

2024 0221 今日塔羅：負面性 Negativity https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/140529169 這兩天，心裡有沒有開始這些小劇場 ~ 看見對方的缺點， 討厭對方的嘴臉， 批評對方的言談， 埋怨對方的不公。 從農曆年長假結束後，工作了好幾天， 每天被一堆待辦事項壓垮了笑臉， 剛休完假後的熱情也磨滅， 看著桌曆，距離下個放假日感覺像是還有幾萬年 … 人與人之間最揪心的就是人欺負人， 說真實的，人心，真的比鬼還可怕多了。 因為自私， 因為貪婪， 因為怯懦， 因為權勢， 因為比較， 職場上，工作交流裡，單純是太過天真，反而會被欺凌，承受的虧更龐大。 人，為何要為難他人呢？ 共同努力，如同雙向共同奔赴的愛情那般美好，可很多人卻不想要 …。 心中產生了一堆負面情緒 ~ 克制、忍耐、壓抑及自省，是今日功課。 These days, have you started these little dramas in your mind? Seeing the flaws in others, Hating their faces, Criticizing their words, and Complaining about their unfairness. After the Lunar New Year holiday ended, I've been working for several days, every day crushed by a pile of tasks, my smile fading away. The enthusiasm I had just after the holiday is also worn out. Looking at the calendar, the next holiday feels like it's thousands of years away... The most heartbreaking thing between people is when one person bullies another. Honestly, the human heart is scarier than ghosts. Because of selfishness, Because of greed, Because of cowardice, Because of power, Because of comparison, In the workplace, in work communication, being too naive can lead to bullying, and the losses incurred are even greater. Why do people make life difficult for others? Working together, like the beautiful mutual love that two people pursue, should be cherished, but many people don't want that... A lot of negative emotions have arisen in my mind. Today's homework is to restrain, endure, suppress, and reflect. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Negativity #Crystals #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #水晶 #負面性 #心智

2024 0220 今日塔羅：成長 Growth

2024 0220 今日塔羅：成長 Growth https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/140289592 有心，就會有所不同。 即使只有一點點的累積，一段時日之後，會看到成果。 今日的塔羅抽到”成長”。 昨日的牌卡是”恐懼”，有在你身上發生嗎？ 我突然於清晨醒了過來，以為已睡飽，其實只睡了一點點。 想到一直決心要動起來，卻因怠惰偷懶了數個月， 窗外的天氣微涼，氣溫在回暖中，於是起床換運動服，在自己的小客廳動一動。 為何今日如此激勵？ 身體因近日得大吃大喝，胖腫了起來，心裡擔憂著，若再不克制食量，若再不開始運動，很快得，我又要變回原來的圓圓、胖胖、矮矮、腫腫的模樣。 我不想要回到以前的樣子。 這是我這段時間的恐懼。 對於恐懼，我的策略是「面對」。 當知道要處理的是什問題，就沒有什麼好害怕的。 把注意力放在打破現狀，處理解決問題上。 人，就是如此，一旦啟動了「行動」開關， 事情就會開展起來，每一步，每一階，都會有所不同，成長，也就隨之而來。 "With determination, comes difference." Even with just a small amount of effort, after a period of time, you will see results. Today's tarot draw is "growth." Did you experience the card "fear" that appeared yesterday? I woke up suddenly in the early morning, thinking I had slept well, but actually, I had only slept a little. Realizing that I had been determined to start moving but had been lazy for months, I saw the slightly cool weather outside, the temperature warming up, so I got up and changed into workout clothes, moving around in my small living room. Why am I so motivated today? Because my body has swollen from recent indulgence in eating and drinking. I worry that if I don't control my food intake, if I don't start exercising again soon, I'll quickly return to my old round, chubby, short, swollen appearance. I don't want to go back to how I used to be. This has been my fear during this time. My strategy for dealing with fear is to "face it." When you know what problem you need to address, there's nothing to be afraid of. Focus on breaking the current situation and resolving the problem. That's how people are. Once you flick the "action" switch, things start to unfold, and with each step, each stage, there will be differences, and growth will follow. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Growth #Wands #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #權杖 #成長 #信念

2024 0318 今日塔羅：困惑 Confusion

2024 0318 今日塔羅：困惑 Confusion 「DcreamCatcher-Tarot」是我未來塔羅工作室的英文名字。 工作室的中文名字是「捕夢人」。 每個工作天，我會抽兩張塔羅牌閱讀， 運用閱讀牌卡時的直覺力與洞悉能力， 設計當日的塔羅閱讀心靈記錄卡片，同時也將過程描述成文章。 一張塔羅心靈記錄卡，底色為白色： 這張卡片記錄是，向宇宙呼喊，請宇宙傳遞給大家的祝福或提醒。 一張塔羅心靈記錄卡，底色為黑色： 這卡片記錄的是向宇宙提問後，根據抽到的塔羅進行閱讀的記錄。 "DreamCatcher-Tarot" is the English name for my future Tarot studio. The studio's Chinese name is "捕夢人". Every workday, I will draw two Tarot cards for readings, utilizing my intuition and insight while interpreting the cards. I will design Tarot reading soul record cards for the day and describe the process in articles. One Tarot soul record card, with a white background, records calling out to the universe, conveying blessings or reminders to everyone. One Tarot soul record card, with a black background, records the reading based on the Tarot drawn after asking questions to the universe. https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/143696755 矛盾、 理不清楚、 思緒混沌。 到底，什麼為真？什麼為實？ 人生，工作，財富，情感，會只是一場大夢而已嗎？ 生命結束在一抔土。 在已無法土葬的現在，終點在於一瓦罐，置放於一層架。 人生在世數十年，說長，挺短；覺得短時，尤其是痛苦、難過、掙扎，又覺人生漫長。 人世間，很多事情，沒有辦法說對論錯。 是與非，黑與白，怎能是論斷這紅塵一切的標準。 人間清醒。 可也學習難得糊塗。 煩忙之際，用杯咖啡。 透過薄薄的水霧看著桌面，一堆未完成的事情。 眼睛環繞著屋子，已曬乾的衣服還沒摺堆在床上，流理台內有還沒刷洗的鍋碗，冷凍庫裡有一些食物，卻沒心思料理。 日子可以簡單過。 那為何我們還要如此辛苦打拼？ 這幾天有點搞不懂人生到底是什麼？ 認真辛苦工作賺錢，然後花不少錢買天然、無添加的食物，怕吃過多非天然的添加物品。 原本人類是追求進步而成長。 走過了頭，一切都變成假的了之後，在破壞環境之後，如今反過來追求天然，嚮往大自然。 到底，進步這條路，咱們是怎麼走歪的呀？ 有時，迷茫、困惑，也好。 是機會想想，要什麼？ Contradictions, Unclear reasoning, Chaotic thoughts. What is truth? What is real? Is life, work, wealth, emotions, just a big dream? Life ends with a clump of soil. In a time where burial is no longer feasible, the endpoint lies in an urn, placed on a shelf. In the span of several decades in life, it feels long, yet it seems short; especially in moments of pain, sadness, and struggle, life feels long again. In this world, many things cannot be definitively labeled right or wrong. True or false, black or white, how can they be the standards for judging everything in this mundane world? Clear-minded in the world. Yet learning to embrace moments of confusion. In the midst of busyness, a cup of coffee. Looking through the thin mist at the tabletop, a pile of unfinished tasks. Eyes scanning the room, clothes already dry but unstacked on the bed, unwashed dishes in the sink, some food in the freezer but no desire to cook. Days can be lived simply. So why do we still toil so hard? These days, it's a bit hard to understand what life really is. Working hard to earn money, then spending a lot on natural, additive-free food, fearing the consumption of too many unnatural additives. Originally, humans pursued progress and growth. But after going too far, everything became artificial, and now, after damaging the environment, we long for the natural world. How did we veer off track on the path of progress? Sometimes, confusion and perplexity are good. It's an opportunity to ponder, what do we really want? #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Confusion #Crystals #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #困惑 #水晶 #心智

2024 0125 今日牌卡：狹隘 ~ 有點負面，但，不怕，加油！

今日牌卡：狹隘 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/132644956 不是你的錯 不是你不夠好 不是你不夠優秀 只是，就像任督二脈，天靈穴沒有通 火侯就是不對 有時候很無力吧！ 明明會的東西不少，怎緊急需要運用時就沒有辦法？ 人 都有腦袋霧茫茫的時期 都有腦袋像是撞牆後的混亂 就是得接受一年365天不可能天天都是晴朗天 就是得承認有時候要用”時間”來拖延輸贏的關鍵時間點 無法串聯 那就先擱著吧 急，也無用 It's not your fault. It's not that you're not good enough. It's not that you're not excellent. It's just that, like the Ren and Du meridians, the heavenly connecting points aren't aligned. The timing is simply not right. Sometimes it feels so powerless! Even though you know a lot of things, why is it that when you urgently need to apply them, it's just not possible? People experience periods of a foggy mind. All go through times when their minds feel chaotic, like hitting a wall. It's essential to accept that not every day of the 365 days in a year can be sunny. And sometimes, you just have to acknowledge that "time" is crucial in determining the key moments to delay or win. If it doesn't connect, Just put it aside for now. Rushing won't help. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Ecstasy #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #狂喜

2024 0207 今日塔羅：改變

2024 0207 今日塔羅：改變 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/137461672 沒有準時發出今日的塔羅牌卡 是故意為之 確實有，因明知要發，卻沒發 非故意為之 也是，想發，可因無想法，不知從何下筆，也就沒發 算是符合今日塔羅”改變”的意思，是吧 今天是農曆年最後一個上班日 早上起來 窗戶霧濛濛的水氣 如此可知外面飄著雨 今日，沒能像前兩天那般有著暖烘烘的太陽 在一兩週之前 心裡就一直浮現 今年農曆年有可能水氣瀰漫，霧濛濛 今日的天氣，是起頭的意思嗎？ 很久沒注意大夥上班的日子 也沒去搞懂為何明天政府調整為休息日 不像過去是從事人力資源的 這樣也挺好的，不是嗎? 該翻篇的 就別再沒有意思的眷戀 這類事情，從來就非關割捨 不是那般重要 也非生命中定得承受的 早上以為今天算是小年 然後被糾正說，明天才是 這又印證了我自己的老話 能不用腦，就懶得用，然後，腦就 … 亂掉了內容 Not sending out today's tarot cards on time. Some are intentional, Certainly, knowing that they should be sent but not sending them out. Not intentional, Also, wanting to send them out, but due to a lack of ideas, not knowing where to start, they weren't sent out. This fits the meaning of "change" in today's tarot, doesn't it? Today is the last working day of the lunar new year. In the morning. The mist on the window Indicates that it's raining outside. Today, there's no warm sun like the past two days. A week or two ago, I've been thinking this lunar new year might be damp and misty. Is today's weather a sign of the beginning? I haven't paid much attention to everyone's working days for a long time. Nor have I understood why the government has adjusted tomorrow to be a day off. It's not like I'm in human resources anymore. That's fine too, isn't it? It's time to turn the page, Let go of meaningless attachment. These things have never been about cutting ties, They're not that important, Nor are they something one must endure in life. In the morning, I thought today was Little New Year, Then I was corrected, tomorrow is. This confirms my own old saying again, If I can avoid using my brain, I'm too lazy to use it, and then... my brain just goes blank. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Change #Worlds #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #地球牌 #改變

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沉寂後的壓力釋放！理性咆嘯的 Paramore 喚醒內心深處的柔軟！

 Hi there，其實已經想要分享這首歌很久了，終於在最近又想起來，今年初發行新專輯《This Is Why》(2023) 的 Paramore，首波主打單曲〈This Is Why〉(2022) 是在前一年就釋出，算起來也已經過了一段時間，不過好聽程度是過了多久都可以再拿出來分享的。距離他們的上一張專輯《After Laughter》(2017) 已經相隔六年，中間也經歷了主唱 Hayley Williams 的單飛計畫，以個人名義發行了兩張錄音室專輯，所以說當時等到〈This Is Why〉的釋出真的是讓歌迷們很感動啊！ 在〈This Is Why〉之前，Paramore 的三位團員在接受採訪時都表示覺得樂團的發展了一個瓶頸，僅管團員之間彼此是沒有問題的，不過在創作方面似乎遇到了停滯不前的問題；好在經過調整之後我們依舊聽到了他們的新作品，雖然很明顯地從主打單曲〈This Is Why〉就可以聽出來，他們和之前的作品似乎做出了一些調整，風格也有一點變化，但整體上來說還是熟悉的 Paramore 啊。 在這首〈This Is Why〉裡我總覺得 Hayley 的聲音更加圓滑了，少了點直直往前衝的傲氣，多了的是更加收放自如的滑順，不曉得是不是和自己先前的單飛計畫有關係，將自己的個人風格影響到了在樂團中的表現，這種融合聽起來的確非常有趣。另外這首歌也有種莫名奇妙的感覺，就像下一步不知道要往哪走，但是主歌、副歌聽下來卻又是有條理的順序，因此整體聽起來實在是很過癮啊！ 據說〈This Is Why〉是在專輯當中最後寫的一首歌，並且在完成歌曲沒多久就立刻安排了 MV 的拍攝；從畫面來看不算是大成本製作，不過卻將歌曲當中的歇斯底里表達得很好，也很契合歌曲的氛圍。或許乍看會不太懂 Paramore 想要傳達什麼，不過可以在多聽幾次之後慢慢了解到，他們沒有針對什麼人吶喊，而是面對這個世界的所有問題點咆嘯。 在歌曲當中可以看出 Paramore 擅長的龐克、搖滾風格，並且也加入了一些 funk 的元素進來，而很顯然地他們在這種音樂的嘗試中不滿足，在上週又發行了混音版本的專輯《Re: This Is Why》(2023)，把每首歌都重新找了一位音樂人合作，再度碰撞出不同的感覺，像是這首〈This Is Why〉就請到了 Foals 合作，同樣是在2000年代就開始玩搖滾的團體，搭配起來實在別有風味；所以除了原來的版本，我也很推薦可以聽聽新發行的版本，聽起來或許又是另一番天地。 最後來說一下 Paramore 在《This Is Why》這張專輯給我的感覺，一直都有在聽他們的音樂，但卻沒有倒很著迷，不過這次的專輯從第一首〈This Is Why〉就讓我越聽越上癮，有種特別的吸引力。不得不說有些他們的老粉絲會覺得這次的風格改變得有點多，但確實要適時地加點新東西，才會把我這種路人粉絲也吸引過來啊！ 追蹤我的 Instagram：written_by_boy 追蹤我的 Facebook：睿忒 Writer 追蹤我的 Spotify 歌單：Writer's Monthly Picks

Alyson’s 5/15 Tarot：改變 Change (47-57)

Alyson’s 5/15 Tarot：改變 Change (47-57) 問題：我5/14的未來日記主題 抽牌：改變 Change 今天與朋友討論的事情與今日的塔羅牌非常吻合 ~ 改變。 一個多月以來，每天持續學習新技能，希望能夠累積更多的學習經驗。 一邊學習，一邊思考，該怎麼做可以持續學習與練習，可以如何運用呢。 與同學討論與交換想法，並請教同學之後她會如何持續練習我們現在所學習的技能。 我們都朝著自己設定的未來前進，這樣的感覺，很是不錯。 前幾日才知道昔日有位同事今已成為理財名人，還有雜誌專訪。 我沒有投資理財的知識與技術，雖然非常羨慕，可終究不是適合我的路。 我沒有投資創業的機遇與財力，真的很是羨慕，可總是得面對現實的路。 可，我知道，我也是許多人羨慕的對象目標。 擁有選擇權，已屬幸運與幸福。 我現在要創造的是未來的平穩和豐盈。 如果我想要協助更多人，那我需要具備更多的能力。 我清楚明瞭，我的這一世，是需要不停動手勞動，動腦勞心的。 學習，是不二法門。 累積學習，多元學習，有效學習，融會學習，聰明學習是我這幾年得多加努力，且戰且實驗且調整的策略。 我首先改變的是執行力。 過往想比做的多，我的塔羅老師，我的前主管，都比我還著急。 他們怕我的大運勢都快已經過去了，我仍還在拖遲，在猶豫。 而我擔憂的是，每日我都距離我的大限更靠近一點，再不加緊腳步，如何完成我這一世的使命，對我的英雄之旅，又該如何論結局。 我也改變了思考邏輯。 我不再問怎麼辦，也不問為什麼。 看到學習機會的資訊，時間允許，就立即報名參加。 時光不為誰停留，機會也是，時機更是。 接著我改變我的筆觸。 從提問句，改變為肯定句。 從主觀詞，改變為客觀詞。 從無病呻吟的調性，希望能夠改變為晴朗輕鬆的陽光類型。 最近這段期間，真的是我這輩子最用功，最認真，最癡迷於學習的時光了。 很忙，很累，很是疲倦。 收穫滿滿。 獲益滿滿。 學習滿滿。 喜悅滿滿。 『改變』 就是要如同變色龍，隨著情勢、季節而不斷改變。 改變，是從內心開始營造，非長髮剪成短髮，原是蘿莉風改為清新脫俗風。 改變，最棒的情境是自然地發生，但有時還是得逼迫一下。 停滯不動，如同蟬寶寶變成蛹，若不想使勁地破繭而出蛻變成蝴蝶，死亡也就成了另一個必然的結局。 在改變之前，我做了以下的事情 ~ 第一、 確定目標，重新導航。 第二、 做功課，瞭解實現目標的選擇種類。 第三、 檢視自己，更加了解自己，並明白欠缺甚麼，也就是要學習補足的事情。 第四、 衡量評估自己當下現況可以擔起哪一項選擇。 第五、 行動，學習。 第六、 通告家人、親人、好友們，生活比重因學習而要調整。 這是我這世最後一次志向與職業大翻盤，需下猛藥，需認真面對。 第七、 享受不足，享受吸收知識的過程，像是飢腸轆轆時吃著一口口的美食，那滿足感和喜悅，讓人感到幸福，開心不已。 第八、 一邊學習，一邊審視現實，擬定及調整學習步調、節奏與方向。 第九、 不斷鼓勵、激勵自己並適時犒賞自己。 學習，除了動力，也要不停添加柴火，維持動能。 該休息時，休息。 該獎勵時，獎勵。 第十、 接受唯有現在才是最需重視與珍惜。 當下該怎麼辦，就怎麼辦，別再問怎麼辦。 Alyson's 5/15 Tarot: Change (47-57) Question: The theme of my future diary for 5/14 Drawn card: Change The topic I discussed with friends today aligns perfectly with today’s tarot card ~ Change. For over a month now, I have been continuously learning new skills daily, hoping to accumulate more learning experience. While learning, I think about how I can sustain my practice and how I can apply what I've learned. I discussed and exchanged ideas with classmates, asking them how they plan to continue practicing the skills we are currently learning. We are all moving towards our self-set futures, and it feels great. A few days ago, I learned that a former colleague has become a financial celebrity and has been featured in a magazine interview. I don’t have the knowledge or skills in investment and finance. Although I am very envious, it is ultimately not the path for me. I lack the opportunities and financial means for investment and entrepreneurship. I am indeed envious, but I must face the reality of my own path. However, I know that I am also an object of envy for many. Having the power of choice is already a blessing and a happiness. What I need to create now is future stability and abundance. If I want to help more people, I need to acquire more abilities. I clearly understand that in this life, I need to continuously work hard and think diligently. Learning is the only way. Accumulating learning, diversified learning, effective learning, integrated learning, and smart learning are strategies I must diligently pursue, experiment with, and adjust in the coming years. The first thing I am changing is my execution. In the past, I thought more than I did. Both my tarot teacher and my former supervisor were more anxious than I was. They worried that my major opportunities were slipping away while I hesitated and delayed. What I worry about is that every day brings me closer to my final deadline. If I don’t pick up the pace, how will I fulfill my life’s mission and complete my hero’s journey? I have also changed my thought process. I no longer ask “What to do?” or “Why?” When I see learning opportunities and if time permits, I immediately sign up. Time doesn’t wait for anyone, nor do opportunities or timing. Next, I changed my writing style. From questioning sentences to affirmative ones. From subjective words to objective words. From a tone of lamentation to a bright and relaxed sunshine type. Recently, this has been the most hardworking, earnest, and obsessive learning period of my life. Very busy, very tired, very exhausted. But filled with abundant harvests, benefits, learning, and joy. “Change” means being like a chameleon, constantly changing with the situation and the seasons. Change starts from within, not merely cutting long hair into short or switching from a cute style to an elegant one. The best change happens naturally, but sometimes it needs to be forced. Stagnation, like a cicada larva turning into a pupa, if it doesn’t strive to break out of its cocoon and transform into a butterfly, death becomes the inevitable outcome. Before making a change, I did the following: 1.Confirmed my goals and re-navigated. 2.Did my homework to understand the options for achieving my goals. 3.Examined myself to understand my deficiencies and what I need to learn to fill those gaps. 4.Assessed what choices I can handle given my current situation. 5.Took action and started learning. 6.Informed family, relatives, and friends that my life balance would need adjusting due to my learning. This is my last major ambition and career overhaul in this life, requiring serious effort and a serious approach. 7.Enjoyed the process of learning, akin to savoring delicious food when hungry, bringing satisfaction and joy, making me feel happy. 8.Continuously reviewed reality while learning, adjusting the pace, rhythm, and direction of my learning. 9.Constantly encouraged and rewarded myself appropriately. Learning requires not only motivation but also the continuous addition of fuel to maintain momentum. Rest when needed, reward when deserved. 10.Accepted that only the present moment is most crucial and should be cherished. Do what needs to be done now without asking what to do. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Change

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change 現在有一句話說，「變，才是現在永恆的定理。」 跟不上”變”，不想”改變”，不是你唾棄了世界，是世界已走在很前面，遺棄了你。 談”變”還是”改變”，談何容易。 人生在世，有許多珍貴的事物，那些都有著〝不變〞的真理。 真愛，珍愛。 變，就不值錢了。 鑽石、寶石的閃耀與高價在於”不變”。 也許日後變了形，如同人類日漸衰老，英挺帥氣，青春美貌已隨時光漸消失，但本質沒有改變，依然堅如磐石，依然硬如地殼，如同我們愛人的心。 改變，不容易。 論個性，難調。 論品行，難雕。 還好，氣質可靠培養，特質可靠養成。 人生，還有得救，還能有所期待。 最近宇宙一直提醒著改變呢。 我是想這樣慢慢地調整，改變著自己，分享給大家 ~ 第一，語調的正能量。 從疑問句，驚嘆句，現改為肯定句，溫馨提醒句。 怎麼說呢？ 我現在的寫法：「最近宇宙一直提醒著改變呢。」 我以前的寫法：「為什麼最近宇宙一直提醒著改變？」 大部分的用字差不多，用心程度也是相近，你喜歡哪句。 第二，鍛鍊樂觀與平衡的心智。 正事越是讓我崩潰，休息時間我越是快樂哼曲調。 生活日日平靜，無味，只要不涉及危險，有點波浪，這海平面也就生動了起來，海底的生物也醒了過來，生機，就盎然了。 第三，做好正念之四好。 四好，賜好。 老天賜予的好好。 好好吃飯。好好睡覺。好好放鬆。好好愛。 心知足，就能專注。 專注，就能做好事情。 事情做好，人就會好好的。 我近年在努力的，就這幾項，不多，可也不容易。 有很多心得與感悟。 有不少灰心及氣餒。 生活即使簡單，也是充滿了改變。 『改變』，你的愛，進入改變期。 不管是愛自己，還是愛著別人，改變，都是為了更美好的將來。 不用擔心，這改變不是誰變了心。 世界確實一直在改變，且速度越來越快，即使快到很難適應，我們也是不得不接受與學習。 很多時候，改變，是蠻好的事情。 科技的改變，讓事情的處理上更輕易。 與地球那端的距離更加拉近。 不在同一個國度或同一時區的彼此，不再那樣困難聯繫，甚至不用花費任何金錢。 科技，讓有心人，更加靠近。 大發利市的趨勢財與智慧財，誰抓得住誰獲利滿滿。 這已不是過去那個認真、努力就能賺錢的時代。 這是個需要衝，且要敢衝，才能賺到錢的時代。 為了生存，我們需改變。 為了未來，我們需改變。 因為改變，不同的壓力，許多的壓力，接踵而來。 現在已不是像過去那樣地一個簡單的時代。 現在，和諧與均衡更加重視，也更加迫切需要。 身體要能迎頭追趕改變，需要後援，需要調整。 身心要能迎接面對改變，需要支持，需要更新。 我們個人的硬體與軟體皆需要懂得改變，才不造成彼此拖累，互相折騰的窘況，方能處在改變之潮流裡，且不被沖走。 每天改變一點點，一個月的改變加起來至少有三十點。 改變，加上時間這項發酵器，是複利的累積。 而你所能做的，就是改變自己不敢向前的腳步。 踏出舊習，踏入新境，心境因應改變而調整，會發現，前進也沒那麼難。 就是辛苦多了一點。 但，不難。 改變，不需等待，不需擇日，動心起念時就可馬上進行。 Today's Tarot: Change There's a saying, "Change is the eternal truth of the present." If you can't keep up with "change" and don't want to "change," it's not that you're rejecting the world; it's that the world has advanced far ahead, leaving you behind. Talking about "change" or "changing" isn't easy. In life, there are many precious things that hold the truth of "unchanging." True love, cherished love. Once changed, they lose their value. The brilliance and high value of diamonds and gemstones lie in their "unchanging" nature. Perhaps they may change form in the future, like how humans age, losing their youthful beauty, but their essence remains unchanged, as solid as a rock, as unyielding as the Earth's crust, like the hearts of our loved ones. Change isn't easy. Difficult to adjust in terms of personality. Difficult to sculpt in terms of conduct. Fortunately, temperament can be reliably cultivated, and special qualities can be reliably developed. In life, there's still salvation, still something to look forward to. Lately, the universe has been constantly reminding me of change. I think I'll gradually adjust like this, changing myself and sharing it with everyone~ First, maintaining a positive tone. From questions and exclamations to affirmations, gentle reminders. How about this? My current wording: "Lately, the universe has been constantly reminding me of change." My previous wording: "Why has the universe been constantly reminding me of change lately? " The choice of words is similar, and the level of care is about the same. Which do you prefer? Second, cultivating an optimistic and balanced mindset. The more stressed I am with work, the happier I hum during breaks. If life is calm every day and tasteless, as long as it doesn't involve danger, a little wave makes the sea surface come alive, and the creatures at the bottom of the sea awaken, vitality abounds. Third, practicing the Four Goods of mindfulness. The Four Goods, the bestowed goods. The goods bestowed by heaven. Eat well. Sleep well. Relax well. Love well. Contentment leads to focus. Focus leads to doing things well. When things are done well, people will be well. These are the few things I've been striving for in recent years, not many, but not easy either. There are many insights and realizations. There's quite a bit of discouragement and frustration. Even if life is simple, it's still full of change. "Change," your love, is entering a period of change. Whether it's loving yourself or loving someone else, change is for a better future. Don't worry, this change doesn't mean someone's heart has changed. The world is indeed constantly changing, and the pace is getting faster. Even if it's so fast that it's hard to adapt, we still have to accept and learn. Many times, change is a good thing. Technological advancements make tasks easier. The distance from one end of the Earth to the other is getting closer. Being in different countries or time zones no longer makes it difficult to connect, and it doesn't even require spending any money. Technology brings like-minded people closer. In the trend of booming financial and intellectual wealth, it's about who can seize the opportunity and profit the most. It's no longer the era where you could earn money just by being serious and hardworking. This is an era where you need to push forward boldly to make money. For survival, we need to change. For the future, we need to change. Because with change comes different pressures, many pressures, one after another. Nowadays, it's not as simple as it used to be. Now, harmony and balance are more valued and urgently needed. Physically, we need support to keep up with the changes, we need adjustments. Mentally, we need support to face the changes, we need updates. Both our hardware and software need to know how to change so we don't burden each other, so we don't end up in a situation where we're dragging each other down amidst the tide of change, but rather we can flow with it without being swept away. Changing a little bit every day, at least thirty points of change add up in a month. Change, coupled with time as a fermenter, is the accumulation of compound interest. And what you can do is to change the steps you're afraid to take forward. Step out of old habits, step into new territory, adjust your mindset in response to change, and you'll find that moving forward isn't so difficult. It's just a little harder. But not impossible. Change doesn't need to wait, doesn't need to choose a day, just act when the urge arises. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Change

WHY搜尋結果

2024 0301 公告 ANNOUNCEMENT

2024 0301 公告 ANNOUNCEMENT

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2024 0221 今日塔羅：負面性 Negativity

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2024 0220 今日塔羅：成長 Growth

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2024 0318 今日塔羅：困惑 Confusion

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Alyson’s 5/15 Tarot：改變 Change (47-57)

Alyson’s 5/15 Tarot：改變 Change (47-57)

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0508 今日塔羅：改變 Change