2024 0529今日塔羅：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0529今日塔羅：滿足 Fulfillment 昨天的我，頭痛了整天。 前一晚，又是一個難以入眠的夜。 連清晨幾點開始落下的豪雨都意識清明，聽得清清楚楚。 這樣的日子有點難熬。 下一回，還會不會讓自己落入如此窘境？ 難說，難說。 人，很辛苦的體驗是從經驗中學習。 我，很笨著的老是未能從經驗中的學習，讓自己下次要避免這樣的事再發生。 昨晚跟多年不見的朋友碰面，兩人一起吃個飯，聊著近況，很舒服的時光。 輕鬆的心情，讓人不想面對明天，還有後天，還有好幾個後天的緊湊學習日子。 矛盾的人呀！ 沒事時，覺無聊。 要忙的事情堆擠一起時，又期盼趕緊結束這沒完沒了的感覺。 日子總是有時匆忙，有時從容。 生活總是有時恬淡，有時張揚。 滿足，有時是因接受，有時則是因付出。 豐富的美食佳餚，好酒甜果，美麗盛開的花朵，知足的心情，在與他人情感交流後，滿滿。 滿足，在豐收後。 人緣好。 財富豐。 事業通。 生活足。 好好享受這樣的美好。 這是辛勞的你，應得的。 這是很棒的你，值得的。 2024/05/29 Today's Tarot: Fulfillment Yesterday, I had a headache all day long. The night before was yet another sleepless night. I was fully aware of the heavy rain that started to fall early in the morning, hearing every drop clearly. Days like this are a bit tough to endure. Will I let myself fall into such a predicament again next time? Hard to say, hard to say. People often learn through tough experiences. I, on the other hand, am rather slow in learning from experience, always failing to prevent such things from happening again. Last night, I met up with a friend I hadn't seen in years. We had dinner together, chatted about recent events—it was a very comfortable time. A relaxed state of mind makes one not want to face tomorrow, the day after, and the many packed days of learning ahead. How contradictory! When there's nothing to do, I feel bored. When tasks pile up, I can't wait for this endless feeling to end. Some days are rushed, some are leisurely. Life sometimes feels calm, other times, exuberant. Fulfillment can come from acceptance at times, and from giving at others. With rich delicacies, fine wine and sweet fruit, beautifully blooming flowers, and a contented heart, one feels fulfilled after connecting emotionally with others. Fulfillment comes after a harvest. Good relationships. Abundant wealth. A thriving career. A life well-satisfied. Enjoy this beauty to the fullest. This is what you, who work so hard, deserve. This is what you, who are so wonderful, are worthy of. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Fulfillment

Alyson’s 4/23 Tarot：皇帝 Emperor (25-57)

Alyson’s 4/23 Tarot：皇帝 Emperor (25-57) 問題：我4/22的未來日記主題 抽牌：皇帝 Emperor 我的『未來日記』第三週的主題是皇帝。 這也是我的本命牌。 『皇帝』 ~ 許多人看到皇帝擁有強大的權勢，至高無上的地位。 可，又有多少人注意到從小深長於皇室的人們，要學習多少的知識，要傳承著亙古遺傳的家族歷史。 在人前，皇室成員需要有禮儀，有禮貌，一切都有禮的依據要遵循。 凡人的我們，總是自在得不得了，誰管我們在路上忍不住猛打呵欠的醜態。 皇帝，是領袖，有著天生的領導力，與攝人的氣魄。 領導統御、溝通協調、如何謀人在於安內。 開創新世界是具有野心、企圖心的皇室接班人內心強烈的渴望，更是一輩子追求的目標及理想。 皇帝，需要有老鷹般清晰的心智，鯨魚的情感掌控力，公羊般的身體精力旺盛。 簡而言之，皇帝，這位置，是強人才能坐鎮得住。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/147557713 而這是我第三週的主題，讓我有點害怕。 已經習慣閒適生活的步調，雖然在學習新技能，但與領導、與資源、與果決力、組織能力風馬牛不相關。 也許，這週會發生甚麼新鮮事。 就讓我們拭目以待。 Alyson's 4/23 Tarot: Emperor (25-57) Question: The theme of my future journal on 4/22 Card drawn: Emperor The theme for the third week of my "future journal" is the Emperor. This card also represents my birth card. The Emperor ~ Many see the Emperor as wielding immense power, occupying a position of supreme authority. But how many notice the depth of knowledge and the weight of familial history that those born into royalty must inherit and learn? In public, members of the royal family must maintain decorum, politeness, adhering to the protocols of civility. Us ordinary folks, we're always so carefree, nobody cares about our embarrassing moments when we can't help but yawn uncontrollably on the streets. The Emperor is a leader, possessing innate leadership qualities and a commanding presence. Leadership involves governance, communication, coordination, and the ability to maintain peace within. The ambition and desire to create a new world burn strongly within the hearts of royal heirs, driving them towards lifelong pursuits and ideals. The Emperor requires the clear-mindedness of an eagle, the emotional control of a whale, and the robust physical energy of a ram. In short, only the strong can occupy the position of Emperor. And this being the theme for my third week, I must admit I feel a bit apprehensive. Having grown accustomed to the pace of a leisurely life, though I'm learning new skills, leadership, resource management, decisiveness, and organizational abilities are entirely foreign to me. Perhaps, this week will bring some fresh experiences. Let's wait and see. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Emperor

Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot：憤怒 Anger (57-57)

Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot：憤怒 Anger (57-57) 問題：我5/24的未來日記主題 抽牌：憤怒 Anger 太棒了！總算來到「未來日記」的最後一天。 長達五十七天的塔羅實驗，近兩個月的時間來到尾聲。 呼！ 不算短的時間。 五十七天，應有五十七篇，最後產出五十篇。 沒有產出的七篇，其中有五篇因身體或時間狀況無法寫出，剩餘二篇，塔羅預先抽出的牌卡與當日沒有事項連結，實在不知要如何下筆，因此就空著。 而產出的五十篇中，有二篇，預先抽出的塔羅牌卡與當天的實際日記無法互相呼應，思索後，決定就不進行記錄，其實應該也是要寫下，這樣實驗的過程和紀錄才能夠完整，可實在是太忙了，忙到每天睡眠不足又太疲憊了。 這次實驗表格的紀錄需要再調整，再精進。 有的時候就是這樣，計畫的時候，不是沒有考慮周全，而是經驗值不夠，所以有需要紀錄的項目沒能去設想到，直到現在要整個資料整理、回顧時，才發現，紀錄不夠完整，不夠詳盡。 有點可惜。 可也無法再多著墨什麼。 對於是實驗主題的最後一天來說，今天的塔羅牌『憤怒』，實在不是一個美好的句點。 轉個彎思考，今天，是一年三百六十五天的其中一天，並不特別，是我迄今歲數近一萬八千天的其中一天，並不稀奇。 不是美好的句點，感覺也就沒有那麼可惜或需要多較真了。 不過，也驗證了今天的很多事情，都是不順利，且現在回想是有一點點情緒產生的。 首先，原本週五課程的老師突然離職，換了一位新老師，是錯愕。 再來，新老師教學內容是我個人已經付費購買的軟體，花了不少錢，現在可以用老師分享的學生權益使用二個月，感覺這兩個月的費用像是被坑了，心情有點不美麗。 學習內容是自己沒有時間，也不會研究的使用方式，有收穫，卻又敗在其他軟體搞不懂的項目裡，好難過，對自己失望了。 請助教老師協助了解一些事情，被打馬虎呼巄過去。對於工作如此不盡心的人，想起前一段時間他說他被以前的學員投訴工作狀態，對照他今日的情況，突然覺得他沒被冤枉。 對這樣的情況，我非他同事或主管，無法評斷也不想臆測，只覺可惜了。 緣分是要俱足。 俱足之前看自己是佈施呢，還是結怨？ 現在栽種的是什麼，日後也就結什麼果。 根據磁石法則來論，以後，只怕會跟他爭論、爭執，進而衍生出爭議的事情，可能會層出不窮。 這做人做事的道理，難言明。 燈不能點亮，話不能說白。 道，貴在自悟，痛在自誤。 想吃的晚餐，今天沒有營業，小難過。 隨意找家燒烤店，簡單點了幾樣，要價竟然是一天的伙食費用，覺得自己真不會持家，挫折不已。 年紀大了，往昔的大怒，大聲責罵，已難再有了。 除了心裡面不想以外，身體狀況也不允許如此高起低跌般的刺激。 頂多就是心口，有點堵，小塞一下。 過了，也就沒事了。 因為知道『憤怒』 ~ 憤怒的情緒就像杯子那般脆弱，稍微大力一碰撞，就裂了，碎了。 憤怒讓自己像是一隻持續噴出火焰的恐龍，眼睛睜紅，感覺血腥、爆力、兇殘，讓人害怕，膽懼。 惹不起，講不得，那躲可以吧，避也可以吧。 像渾身扎滿仙人掌刺，不讓人靠近，久了，也就沒有人想靠近。 如果說，這股火熱的怒氣，能夠試著轉為正面能量，成為激勵心智的動力，那也就不浪費這次被老天安排的”跨坎的試煉”。 只是，有時難免覺得老天好煩，讓人好生地安穩平靜過日子，不可嗎？ 非得要餵食人生毒藥，然後再評估每個人的自癒能力？ 這分數是要幹嘛呢！ 未來？此世？ 來生？下一世？ 搞不懂。 也不想懂。 果然，我今天的狀態真的是『憤怒』。 現在竟然跟老天叫起板來了。 老天啊！別這個自我情緒的宣洩也要搞個評估與計分，未過與補考，然後造成人間慘兮兮。 福兮？禍兮？禍福相攜，可別搞得慘慘兮兮。 Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot: Anger (57-57) Question: The theme of my future diary on 5/24 Card Drawn: Anger Great! Finally, the last day of the "Future Diary" experiment. A fifty-seven-day Tarot experiment, nearly two months, is coming to an end. Whew! Not a short period. In fifty-seven days, there should be fifty-seven entries, but only fifty were completed. Seven entries were not produced: five due to health or time constraints, and two because the Tarot cards drawn didn't connect with the day's events, leaving me unsure how to proceed, so I left them blank. Among the fifty completed entries, two had Tarot cards that didn't correspond to the actual diary, and after some thought, I decided not to record them. Ideally, I should have written them down to make the experiment more comprehensive, but I was too busy, too tired, and sleep-deprived. The record of this experiment needs adjustment and refinement. Sometimes, it's not about not considering everything thoroughly during planning but lacking enough experience. Some items that needed to be recorded were overlooked. Only when organizing and reviewing the data now do I realize the records are incomplete and insufficiently detailed. It's a bit regrettable. But there's no more to add. For the final day of the experiment theme, drawing the Tarot card "Anger" is not a pleasant ending. Turning the corner in my thoughts, today is just one of the three hundred sixty-five days in a year, not particularly special. It's one of the nearly eighteen thousand days of my life so far, not unusual. Since it's not a beautiful ending, it doesn't feel as regrettable or worth fussing over. However, it did confirm that many things today were indeed unsmooth, and in retrospect, some emotions did arise. First, the originally scheduled Friday class teacher suddenly resigned, replaced by a new teacher, which was shocking. Then, the new teacher's course content was about software I had already paid for, costing quite a bit. Now, I can use the teacher-shared student access for two months, making me feel like I got scammed out of those two months' fees, leaving me a bit upset. The learning content involved methods I didn't have the time or ability to research. While there were gains, I also struggled with other software aspects I couldn't understand, feeling disappointed in myself. Asking the teaching assistant for help on some issues, only to be brushed off, made me think of the time he mentioned previous students complaining about his work attitude. Comparing it to his behavior today, I suddenly felt he wasn't wrongly accused. For such situations, since I'm neither his colleague nor superior, I can't judge or speculate, just feel it's a pity. Fate needs to be complete. Before completeness, am I sowing goodwill or resentment? What I plant now will bear fruit in the future. According to the law of attraction, I fear future disputes and conflicts may arise, leading to endless issues. These principles of conduct and work are hard to articulate. The light can't be lit, and words can't be said plainly. The way is to understand it oneself, the pain lies in misunderstanding it. The dinner I wanted wasn't open today, a small disappointment. Randomly chose a barbecue place, ordered a few items, only to find it cost an entire day's meal budget, feeling I can't manage a household, deeply frustrated. With age, the days of great anger and loud scolding are gone. Besides not wanting to in my heart, my health doesn't allow for such highs and lows of stimulation. At most, a slight chest congestion. Once it's over, it's done. Because I know "Anger" ~ Anger is as fragile as a glass; a slight bump shatters it. Anger makes me like a dragon spewing flames, eyes bloodshot, feeling bloody, violent, ferocious, making people fearful and apprehensive. Unapproachable, unspeakable, can only avoid and evade. Like a cactus covered in spikes, preventing closeness, over time, no one wants to approach. If this burning anger can be transformed into positive energy, becoming a motivational force, then it wouldn't waste this "crossing the threshold" trial arranged by heaven. But sometimes, it's hard not to feel heaven is annoying, can't people live a peaceful life? Must we be fed life's poison, then evaluated on each person's healing ability? What's the point of these scores! Future? This life? Next life? The following life? Can't understand. Don't want to understand. Indeed, my state today is "Anger." Now I'm even arguing with heaven. Oh heavens! Don't evaluate and score even this emotional outburst, causing misery in human life. Blessing? Curse? Blessings and curses come hand in hand; don't let it turn into a miserable situation. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Anger

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion 大頭貼放著自己兩歲時的可愛照片，感覺彤彤從小就在愛的氛圍裡成長。 果然沒猜錯，彤彤是獨生女，沒有兄弟姊妹，獨享寵愛，也需一肩扛家庭。 不過還很年輕的彤彤很是明白，自己享有的獨寵，另一個面向就是要承擔更多的責任。 跟彤彤建議說，找幫手很重要，有些事情讓擅長的人協助，會更有幫助。 最近被工作和家裡的事情搞得忙碌不已的彤彤，沒有特別想要談談的事情，也沒有特別想要問的，就只是想跟不認識的我東扯西講，提到什麼聊什麼。 於是我們講到了女孩們最常出現的話題，”胖與瘦”及”甜食與肥胖的關係”。 彤彤竟然說，她愛吃甜食，但她沒胖過。 真的是太讓人羨慕了。 跟我是完全不同類型的。 我是與”瘦”絕緣的連深呼吸都能像氣球般鼓起來的類型。 有時這樣的漫聊，也不錯。 很快的時間到了，要彤彤趕緊去吃晚餐，太晚吃，對胃的負擔比較大。 給彤彤的塔羅祝福：【困惑Confusion】。 來自宇宙的消息，提醒彤彤，因還年輕，所以有些事情搞不太清楚，那是正常的，其實，我年齡半百了，很多事情也還是搞不清楚。 困惑，常常會讓我們陷入迷茫中，有時突破現況需要外力來個石破天驚的大震撼，脈絡也就清晰許多了。 彤彤加油 ~ 。 Blessings to Tong Tong on August 29, 2024: Tong Tong’s profile picture shows an adorable photo of herself at the age of two, giving the impression that she has grown up in an atmosphere full of love. As expected, Tong Tong is an only child with no siblings, enjoying exclusive affection but also having to shoulder the family's responsibilities alone. However, young as she is, Tong Tong understands very well that enjoying exclusive affection also means taking on more responsibilities. I suggested to Tong Tong that finding help is important, and letting those who are good at certain things assist can be more beneficial. Recently, Tong Tong has been overwhelmed by work and family matters. She didn’t have anything specific she wanted to talk about or ask; she just wanted to have a casual chat with a stranger like me, talking about whatever came to mind. So, we ended up discussing topics commonly brought up by girls: "being fat or thin" and "the relationship between sweets and obesity." Tong Tong said that she loves sweets but has never gained weight. How enviable! She’s a completely different type from me—I’m the type that is far from "thin," and even deep breaths can make me puff up like a balloon. Sometimes, such casual conversations are nice. Soon it was time, and I told Tong Tong to go have dinner quickly, as eating too late can be more of a burden on the stomach. Tarot Blessing for Tong Tong: [Confusion]. A message from the universe reminds Tong Tong that since she is still young, it's normal to be unclear about certain things. Actually, even at my age, approaching fifty, there are many things I still don't understand. Confusion often leads us into bewilderment, and sometimes breaking through the current situation requires an external force to create a shocking upheaval, making the context much clearer. Tong Tong, keep it up! #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬 回饋 Reward

2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬 回饋 Reward 昨晚幾個朋友相聚。 四個大人加上一個大孩子。 其中三個大人的工作經驗是人力資源。 人，就是如此奇妙。 個性不同，特質不同，雖然都是從事人力資源的工作，可發展方向也非常不一樣。 三個臭皮匠湊在一起，那真的就是，吵鬧不已。 辛苦了另一位妹子的耳朵了。 我喜歡這樣的日子。 有家人，有好友。 有美食，有笑聲。 這是我的財富，我超愛的財富。 不過，我當然也喜歡最直觀的，最主觀的所謂的財富。 紙鈔疊疊疊。 存款數字加加加。 再來一些寶石、鑽石增添光芒。 豪車？ 不愛。 車對我來說，是行動工具。 豪宅？ 看在哪？ 我喜歡的，總被人笑說買了就準備套牢一生一世吧。 可，就自己住，住到百年之後成為了遺產，不也是一生一世嗎！ 瞧！ 我多俗氣，多坦率。 日子啊！ 男女之間的情情愛愛只是其一，但不是唯一。 錢財是萬惡之首，但沒有了卻萬事烏有。 人生五顆球，我的生命的大圓圈裡，各顆球的比重因人生不同階段而調整。 不須探究原因，不需了解情況。 家人，親人，情感濃烈，也抵不過生離死別的牽引。 何況，友人及旁人。 即便如此，不輕言放手，不輕易放棄。 人生五顆球，讓人生精彩，讓日子多彩。 在每一重要時刻，體會與收穫人生結的果實，幸福滿滿。 Tarot for Today, July 10, 2024: Reward Last night, a few friends gathered. Four adults and one big kid. Three of the adults have experience in human resources. People are indeed fascinating. Different personalities, different traits, even though all of them work in human resources, their career paths are very different. When the three of them get together, it's really noisy. Kudos to the other girl's ears for enduring it. I love these kinds of days. With family, with friends. With good food, with laughter. This is my wealth, the wealth I adore. Of course, I also like the most straightforward and subjective kind of wealth. Stacks of cash. Savings numbers increasing. And some gemstones and diamonds to add some sparkle. Luxury cars? Not for me. To me, cars are just a means of transportation. Luxury houses? Depends on the location. The ones I like are always mocked as lifetime burdens. But, living alone in it until it becomes an inheritance after a century, isn't that a lifetime too? See! How materialistic and candid I am. Life! Romantic love is just a part of it, but not the only part. Money is the root of all evil, but without it, everything is meaningless. The five balls of life, in my big circle of life, the weight of each ball adjusts according to different stages of life. No need to explore the reasons, no need to understand the situation. Family, relatives, deep emotions can't outweigh the pull of life and death. Not to mention friends and others. Even so, I won't easily let go or give up. The five balls of life make life wonderful and colorful. At every important moment, experiencing and reaping the fruits of life, full of happiness. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Reward

Alyson’s 3/04 Tarot：勇氣 Courage

Alyson’s 3/04 Tarot：勇氣 Courage 面對內心的黑洞 瞧見了啥？ 看見了啥？ 找到了啥？ 糾結很久且以為的問題， 其實，只是感受， 無關對錯，無論大小， 難過是真，傷心是真，痛哭也是真。 往事不可諫，來者猶可追。 過去的以為，如今看來有點傻氣，可也別苛責自己。 今日的放下，如昔看開有點豪氣，該讚賞鼓勵自己。 過去的以為，不是錯。 今日的明白，不是過。 有時是機緣未到， 不過，其實常多是智慧沒到的問題。 這一路，沒白走。 滿臉淚，沒白流。 敬 過去一路走來的自己！ 致 提出勇氣面對內心黑洞的自己！ Facing the abyss within, What did you glimpse? What did you see? What did you find? Entangled in issues thought to be profound for so long, In truth, they're just emotions, Irrelevant of right or wrong, Regardless of magnitude, Sadness is real, Heartache is real, Shedding tears is real. The past cannot be disputed, but the future can still be pursued. What was once believed, now appears somewhat naive, but don't be too hard on yourself. Today's letting go, seems somewhat bold, and should be appreciated and encouraged. What was once believed, was not a mistake. Today's understanding, is not a failure. Sometimes it's just that the opportunity hasn't arrived yet, But, often it's simply a matter of lacking wisdom. This journey hasn't been in vain. The tears shed, were not for naught. Cheers to the self who has come this far! To the self who bravely confronts the abyss within! #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Courage #Wands #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #勇氣 #權杖 #信念

2024 0122 今日牌卡：沉著、冷靜、平靜

今日牌卡：沉著 冷靜 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/132587416 心，定 八風吹不動 念，堅 石錘敲不散 淡定 也就不受約束 淡漠 也就不被擺弄 在自己的城堡裡 悠然不得 不被外面風吹草動影響 不因物喜己悲七上八下 沉著‧冷靜‧平靜 Calm the mind, unmoved by the eight winds. Hold onto thoughts, unshaken by the hammer's strike. Maintain composure then there is no constraint. Remain indifferent, and manipulation has no hold. In one's own fortress, dwell peacefully, unaffected by external influences. Neither elated by favorable circumstances, nor distressed by adversities. Serenity. Composure. Tranquility. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Equanimity #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #沉著冷靜平靜

Alyson’s 2/17 Tarot：停滯 Stagnation

Alyson’s 2/17 Tarot：停滯 Stagnation 這幾日，天氣明顯回暖 春，已即將悄悄緩慢抵達了 只是在我的腦袋裡 被提早一步先到的春困給占領了 打開書本 關於人力資源的專業 關於商業管理的常識 已入不了眼 也進不了腦 經過思維後唯一被萃取出來的念頭 ~ 找家咖啡廳享受一下吧 既然停滯 既然困住 那就順勢 ~ 不動，好好吃飯，好好睡覺，這樣就好 These days, the weather has noticeably warmed up, Spring is quietly approaching. But in my mind, I am already overwhelmed by early spring drowsiness. Opening textbooks About human resources expertise About common sense in business management They just can't hold my attention Or penetrate my mind. After some pondering, the only thought that emerged ~ Let's find a café and enjoy a moment. Since I'm stuck, Since I'm trapped, Then let's go with the flow ~ Stay still, eat well, sleep well, that'll do. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Stagnation #Cups #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #聖杯 #停滯

2024 0718 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

2024 0718 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer 昨日才與年輕的大侄子講到，我和他兩人都應該要重新調整生活節奏與時間感。 我們把日子過得太過零碎了，而他正值青春年華，時間不應是如此鬆散無憂。 人，活著，還是要有點目標比較好玩。 無所事事的最高段，不在於生活內容裡沒有所謂的事情，而是將目標與生活合而為一，自在的度過每一日，自然的達成目標。 你最近的目標是什麼呢？ 你近期的渴望又是什麼？ 近期我的心思都在陪伴家人，很自然的，又把自己的目標給隱形了。 難怪我總得花費比同學更長久的時間才能抵達終點線。 但，這是我自己想要的，刻意經營的生活內容，實現自我及與家人情感連結共存的美好公式。 你也可以有自己的時間節奏表。 快慢自由決定。 內容自己選擇。 今天的我們擁有即將達成目標的興奮感。 在「駕馭者」的日子裡，享受著馳騁的快感。 在「駕馭者」的日子裡，學習駕馭情緒，不被衝動給控制。 收放自如的情緒與情感，在職場裡，在談判過程中，在需要演繹不同面向時，是眾人不敢忽視的強敵。 在「駕馭者」的日子裡，放下謹慎與小心，大膽乘風破浪一次，看自己憑著一股衝勁可前進到哪裡。 保守，仔細，小心是日常。 偶爾脫軌一下又何妨。 只要平時建立足夠安全網。 不怕刮風下雨淹池塘。 拿出魄力，再次站上自己人生的舵手崗位，駕馭前進的方向，掌握前進的速度。 起風啦 ~ 啟航！ July 18, 2024 Tarot Reading: Surfer Yesterday, I spoke with my young nephew, and we both agreed that we should adjust our life pace and sense of time. Our days have become too fragmented, and he, being in his youth, should not have such a loose and carefree schedule. Life is more enjoyable with a bit of purpose. The highest level of idleness is not about having nothing to do, but about integrating goals with daily life, living each day naturally, and achieving goals effortlessly. What are your recent goals? What have you been longing for lately? Recently, my thoughts have been focused on spending time with my family, and naturally, my own goals have become invisible again. No wonder it always takes me longer to reach the finish line compared to my classmates. But this is what I want, a deliberately managed life where self-fulfillment and emotional connection with family coexist beautifully. You can also have your own time rhythm. Decide the pace freely. Choose the content yourself. Today, we have the excitement of nearing our goals. On the day of "The Surfer," enjoy the thrill of riding the waves. On the day of "The Surfer," learn to master your emotions and not be controlled by impulsiveness. Well-managed emotions and feelings are formidable in the workplace, during negotiations, and when needing to showcase different facets. On the day of "The Surfer," let go of caution and be bold to ride the waves and see how far your momentum can take you. Being cautious, meticulous, and careful is everyday life. Occasionally going off track is no big deal. Just ensure you have enough safety nets in place. Don’t fear the wind, rain, or floods. Show your courage and take the helm of your life once again. Steer your direction and control your speed. The wind is rising ~ set sail! #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Surfer

Alyson’s 5/14 Tarot：平靜 Equanimity (46-57)

Alyson’s 5/14 Tarot：平靜 Equanimity (46-57) 問題：我5/13的未來日記主題 抽牌：平靜 Equanimity 需要誠實說，昨晚寫完未來日記的塔羅抽牌後，不經意地看到在一個多月前抽到今天的塔羅牌是『平靜』。 當下，我第一個湧入的想法是，不可能。 我現在學習的課程是我過往從未接觸過的軟體，且在短時間內一次須要將三個軟體系統都要學會。 不誇張的說，每堂課我都是在驚慌失措下度過，每天都在腦袋崩潰成泥、右手像是癱軟無力程度下結束課程。 別說『平靜』已非我近期生活裡會出現的情景，輕鬆的時光，早就不復相見。 怎麼可能呢？ 宇宙與塔羅牌又再次驗證了”奇妙”。 今天老師有放緩了步調，課堂進度慢慢地跟上，是第一喜。 如期成功繳交了作業，是第二喜。 今日最後一堂課大家都有達到繳交第二份作業的進度，第三喜。 目睹同學心情上有點狀況發生，拍拍他的肩膀，分享一顆糖，再多送他一個微笑，點點頭，沒有言語。 他有接收到我的關心和打氣的聲音，第四喜。 另一同學，好像被事情困擾著，上課時，電話鈴響，他跟老師打聲招呼到外頭接聽電話，中間傳來一陣激烈的聲音。 辛苦了，希望事情能夠順利。 休息時間，悄悄地，送他一顆糖，一樣沒有言語。 今日課程結束，他主動跟我微笑說再見。 看來已調整不少，佩服這年輕孩子，若是我，可能無法如此快速平息原激動的情緒。 看到別人成熟的模樣，我欣賞，也算一喜。 今日，真的一切都壟罩在『平靜』氛圍下。 『平靜』 ~ 有水晶的硬度，像沉著的心智。 平靜，是自我覺察的結果。 不帶批判，不做分析，不給建議。 就如同另一培訓課程裡所提的，這是諮商志工的工作三要素。 我們是旁觀者，非袖手旁觀，非冷漠疏遠，而是指，陪伴，支持，客觀，不評價，不論斷，不指導。 當我們非當事人時，又怎有資格、立場對他人給與評論呢。 當我們非當事人時，又怎清楚是非、對錯，何況，這世上大部分的事情是無關對錯。 今天，我做到了理性、客觀、沒有言語但溫暖的打氣。 Alyson’s 5/14 Tarot: Equanimity (46-57) Question: Theme for my future journal entry on 5/13 Card Drawn: Equanimity To be honest, after drawing the Tarot card "Equanimity" for my future journal entry on May 13th, I couldn't help but recall that over a month ago, I drew the same card for today. At that moment, my immediate thought was, it couldn't be. The course I'm currently studying involves software I've never encountered before, and I have to learn three different systems within a short period. It's not an exaggeration to say that I've been navigating through each class in a state of panic, with my mind feeling like mush and my right hand feeling limp and powerless by the end of each day. Needless to say, "equanimity" hasn't been a recent occurrence in my life, and carefree moments have long been absent. How could it be possible? Once again, the universe and the Tarot cards have affirmed the "wonders." Today, the instructor slowed down the pace, which was the first delight. Successfully submitting assignments on time was the second delight. In the final class today, everyone made progress on submitting their second assignment, which was the third delight. Seeing a classmate feeling a bit off, I patted his shoulder, shared a candy, gave him an extra smile, nodded without saying a word. He received my concern and encouragement, which was the fourth delight. Another classmate seemed troubled by something; during class, his phone rang, and he excused himself to take the call outside, where I could hear intense voices. "Hang in there, hope everything goes smoothly." During break time, quietly, I gave him a candy, still without words. As today's class ended, he smiled and said goodbye to me voluntarily. It seems he has adjusted quite a bit. I admire this young man; if it were me, I might not have been able to calm down my excitement so quickly. Seeing others mature, I admire, which is also a delight. Today, everything truly enveloped in an atmosphere of "equanimity." Equanimity ~ Has the hardness of a crystal, like a composed mind. Equanimity is the result of self-awareness. Without criticism, without analysis, without giving advice. Just like what was mentioned in another training course, these are the three elements of a counseling volunteer's work. We are observers, not bystanders, not indifferent, but rather, companions, supporters, objective, non-judgmental, non-evaluative, non-directive. When we are not the ones involved, how can we have the qualifications or position to comment on others? When we are not the ones involved, how can we be clear about right and wrong? Moreover, most things in this world are irrelevant to right or wrong. Today, I achieved rationality, objectivity, and warm encouragement without words. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Equanimity

#Tarot搜尋結果

2024 0529今日塔羅：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0529今日塔羅：滿足 Fulfillment

Alyson’s 4/23 Tarot：皇帝 Emperor (25-57)

Alyson’s 4/23 Tarot：皇帝 Emperor (25-57)

Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot：憤怒 Anger (57-57)

Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot：憤怒 Anger (57-57)

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬回饋 Reward

2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬回饋 Reward

Alyson’s 3/04 Tarot：勇氣 Courage

Alyson’s 3/04 Tarot：勇氣 Courage

2024 0122 今日牌卡：沉著、冷靜、平靜

2024 0122 今日牌卡：沉著、冷靜、平靜

Alyson’s 2/17 Tarot：停滯 Stagnation

Alyson’s 2/17 Tarot：停滯 Stagnation

2024 0718 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

2024 0718 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

Alyson’s 5/14 Tarot：平靜 Equanimity (46-57)

Alyson’s 5/14 Tarot：平靜 Equanimity (46-57)

#Tarot搜尋結果

2024 0529今日塔羅：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0529今日塔羅：滿足 Fulfillment

Alyson’s 4/23 Tarot：皇帝 Emperor (25-57)

Alyson’s 4/23 Tarot：皇帝 Emperor (25-57)

Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot：憤怒 Anger (57-57)

Alyson’s 5/25 Tarot：憤怒 Anger (57-57)

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬 回饋 Reward

2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬 回饋 Reward

Alyson’s 3/04 Tarot：勇氣 Courage

Alyson’s 3/04 Tarot：勇氣 Courage

2024 0122 今日牌卡：沉著、冷靜、平靜

2024 0122 今日牌卡：沉著、冷靜、平靜

Alyson’s 2/17 Tarot：停滯 Stagnation

Alyson’s 2/17 Tarot：停滯 Stagnation

2024 0718 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

2024 0718 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

Alyson’s 5/14 Tarot：平靜 Equanimity (46-57)

Alyson’s 5/14 Tarot：平靜 Equanimity (46-57)

2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬回饋 Reward

2024 0710 今日塔羅：報酬回饋 Reward