2024 0423 今日塔羅：挫折 Setback

2024 0423 今日塔羅：挫折 Setback 今日的塔羅牌是『挫折』。 有可能是因最近股市的不安。 有可能是近期的情緒較為高漲。 有可能是天氣忽涼忽悶，天空都陰陰暗暗的。 感覺上不舒坦，也就無法平靜地迎接今日會面臨的事情。 像天氣悶住的那股熱轉移到我們的胸口，無法順暢，無法輕鬆自在。 宇宙提醒著 ~ 今日，不好過。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/147555538 今天，甚至近期，感到挫敗就像經歷一場心靈災難與浩劫，感到害怕、恐懼，怎麼辦？ 元氣大傷，心灰意冷，一蹶不振的灰暗，感覺心情無法展開，怎麼辦？ 貧瘠的能量，無法擔負起所需的熱能供應，怎麼辦？ 計畫被阻攔，被擱置，被忽視，踢到鐵板，痛到麻木，要如何突破？ 『挫折』這張塔羅牌也告訴我們 ~ 危機就是轉機。 被阻攔的計畫，再想想，也許有哪個環節沒有思慮周全；但實在是找不到毛病的完美報告，那今天就先放在一旁，明日再試。 別讓今日的挫折成為明日的憂愁。 別把精神浪費在抱怨，無法幫助事情的開展。 先處理自己可以著手進行的事情。 若還是不行，那就整理文件，進行資料歸檔，老舊的資料，備份後就清除掉。 將所處的環境進行整理、整頓、清掃、清潔與整齊。 也許，明日運勢就動起來了。 Today's Tarot: Setback Today's Tarot card is "Setback." It could be due to recent market instability. It could be because emotions have been running high lately. It could be the unpredictable weather, with the sky overcast and gloomy. Feeling uneasy, unable to face the day's challenges calmly. It's like the heat trapped in the stifling weather, unable to flow smoothly, unable to feel at ease. The universe reminds us—today won't be easy. Feeling defeated today, even in the recent past, is like experiencing a spiritual disaster and catastrophe. Feeling afraid, fearful, what to do? Energy depleted, spirits dampened, overwhelmed by darkness, feeling unable to lift one's mood, what to do? Barren energy, unable to provide the needed warmth, what to do? Plans blocked, shelved, ignored, hitting a wall, numb with pain, how to break through? The "Setback" Tarot card also tells us— Crisis can be a turning point. For plans that are blocked, reconsider; perhaps there's an aspect not fully thought out. But if a flawless solution can't be found, set it aside for today and try again tomorrow. Don't let today's setbacks become tomorrow's worries. Don't waste energy complaining, it won't help move things forward. Start with what you can do. If that's still not working, organize documents, archive data, get rid of outdated materials after backing up. Tidy up your surroundings, clean, and organize. Perhaps, tomorrow, fortune will start to turn. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Setback

Alyson’s 3/15 Tarot：慈悲 Compassion

Alyson’s 3/15 Tarot：慈悲 Compassion 「DcreamCatcher-Tarot」是我未來塔羅工作室的英文名字。 工作室的中文名字是「捕夢人」。 每個工作天，我會抽兩張塔羅牌閱讀， 運用閱讀牌卡時的直覺力與洞悉能力， 設計當日的塔羅閱讀心靈記錄卡片，同時也將過程描述成文章。 一張塔羅心靈記錄卡，底色為白色： 這張卡片記錄是，向宇宙呼喊，請宇宙傳遞給大家的祝福或提醒。 一張塔羅心靈記錄卡，底色為黑色： 這卡片記錄的是向宇宙提問後，根據抽到的塔羅進行閱讀的記錄。 "DreamCatcher-Tarot" is the English name for my future Tarot studio. The studio's Chinese name is "捕夢人". Every workday, I will draw two Tarot cards for readings, utilizing my intuition and insight while interpreting the cards. I will design Tarot reading soul record cards for the day and describe the process in articles. One Tarot soul record card, with a white background, records calling out to the universe, conveying blessings or reminders to everyone. One Tarot soul record card, with a black background, records the reading based on the Tarot drawn after asking questions to the universe. 問題：這兩個月有動起來(收入)的機會嗎 抽牌：Three of Wands 慈悲 Compassion 閱讀： 八字都不只撇一撇的事情，依然告黃了。 已非一件、二件而已。 問宇宙，我想有機會可以動起來，可以嗎？ 宇宙送給我了一雙佛手，金色耀耀，會讓眼睛閃閃發光的那樣金澄澄。 本就耐心欠缺，情勢卻是得再等。 等到潮起潮落，月陰缺至月情圓。 等到擔憂風止，不再吹過，旗幡不飄揚了，仗，還能勝嗎？ 古書左傳說了，『擊鼓，一鼓作氣，再而衰，三而竭。』 對我的衝動，也是如此。 隱忍，從來不在行事風格裡。 『慈悲』這張塔羅牌，慈悲的權杖，散發出的光，都暖了。 暖了眼，暖了腦，也暖了心。 連”戰”的意念都消弭了。 全身暖暖，屋裡暖暖，也就想睡了。 衝動、打仗、拚搏，睡醒再說吧。 睡醒？明日嗎？ 非也。 睡醒，腦醒，心醒，清醒，意念醒，也就動了。 預估約莫三、五天後。 讓時間證明之。讓文字紀錄之。讓宇宙鑒察之。 Question: Is there an opportunity to make a move (income) in these two months? Card drawn: Three of Wands - Compassion Reading: Even matters with more than just a cursory glance have still turned sour. It's not just one or two things. I asked the universe, can I have the opportunity to make a move? The universe handed me a pair of Buddha's hands, shining in gold, sparkling like that golden glow that makes your eyes twinkle. Though I lack patience, the situation demands further waiting. Waiting for the ebb and flow, for the waning moon to become full again. Waiting for worries to cease, for the winds to stop blowing, for the flags to no longer flutter. Can we still win the battle then? As the ancient book "Zuo Zhuan" says, "Beat the drums: when the drums sound once, spirits rise; when they sound twice, spirits weaken; when they sound three times, spirits are exhausted." This applies to my impulses as well. Restraint has never been part of my modus operandi. The "Compassion" tarot card, with its compassionate scepter, radiates warmth. It warms the eyes, warms the brain, and warms the heart. Even thoughts of "warfare" dissipate. Warm all over, warm in the room, just feels like sleeping. Impulse, battle, struggle... let's talk about it after waking up. Waking up? Tomorrow? Not quite. Waking up, awakening the brain, the heart, the clarity, the thoughts... then action. Estimated about three to five days from now. Let time prove it. Let words record it. Let the universe observe it. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Compassion #Wands #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #慈悲 #權杖 #意念

2024 0329 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

2024 0329 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/144832450 昨日的你是否有做一些回饋呢？ 你知道嗎？ 對人的微笑，就是一種回饋。 回饋，不是一定要花費金錢和時間的。 回饋，從簡單一般的日常執行，就可以讓他人感受到善和美的氣息。 昨天的我，態度和氣且帶著微笑，順手幫忙了一個人。 一位大姐分享著從神明那拿到的糖果，我也用拿到的牛札糖交換。 邀請一位老人家靠近神明一些，大家一起沾染觀世音菩薩的生日歡喜。 去到咖啡廳跟年輕老闆，像是朋友般話聊他的農曆春節開店情景。 將生日蛋糕分享給家人和住家的守衛大哥，清潔打掃的大姐，大家一起蒙受觀世音菩薩的庇佑和平安。 宇宙今日送給我們大家的祝福是「駕馭者」。 這是聖杯子牌。 聖杯是情緒，也是情感。 今日，情緒高漲，會凌駕於一切之上。 就是想跟著感覺行動。 追逐風，追逐浪花一朵朵。 控管大哥和冷靜小弟要出現。 注意 ~ 挑戰過了頭，刺激過於猛。 小心，別南牆撞了頭，過激，結果頭破血也流。 Did you give back yesterday? You know what? A smile to others is a form of giving back. Giving back doesn't always require spending money or time. Simple acts in daily life can spread kindness and beauty to others. Yesterday, I helped someone with a positive attitude and a smile. A lady shared candies she got from a temple, and I exchanged them with some sweets I had. I invited an elderly person closer to the temple, and we all celebrated the birthday of Guanyin Bodhisattva together. At a café, I chatted with the young owner about his experiences of opening during the Lunar New Year, like friends. I shared a birthday cake with my family, the guards, and the cleaning staff at home, as we all basked in the blessings and peace of Guanyin Bodhisattva. Today's blessing from the universe for all of us is "Surfer." This is from the Tarot deck. The Chariot represents emotions and feelings. Today, emotions will run high, surpassing everything else. It's about acting on impulse, chasing the wind, and chasing every single wave. Remember, the overseer and the cool-headed one must appear. Beware – excessive challenges and stimulation can be dangerous. Be cautious not to hit a brick wall too hard, for excessive actions may result in injury and bloodshed. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Surfer

Alyson’s 2/09 Tarot：大祭司

Alyson’s 2/09 Tarot：大祭司 我請宇宙於大年初一送給我龍年的祝福塔羅牌 抽到了大祭司 與前兩週學姊們讀書會裡讓我們抽2024年的財富牌一樣 也是抽到了大祭司 這是一而再地傳遞與告知 2024年我需要 ~ 勤勤懇懇 扎扎實實 穩穩噹噹 日復一日 用熱情 用熱忱 發自內心的能量 發自內心的渴切 每日將宇宙送給大家的祝福或傳遞的訊息 透過塔羅牌 透過解讀 透過消化 一日又一日地寫出來 即使回應的訊息沒有期盼中的熱情 要像修行者 修，是習自己的內在 行，是律自己的行為 耕耘的一切 在該豐收的季節 宇宙自然會回饋到自己的身上 不急、不躁、不計較 On the first day of the lunar new year, I asked the universe to send me blessings for the Year of the Dragon through tarot cards. I drew “Hierophant” card. Similar to the fortune card draw during the study session with my senior sisters two weeks ago for 2024, I also drew “Hierophant” card. This is a repeated message and indication. In 2024, I need to be diligent, steadfast, and stable. Day after day, With passion and enthusiasm, I must emit energy from within, Fueled by inner eagerness. Every day, I will write down the blessings or messages the universe sends to everyone through tarot cards, interpretation, and digestion. Even if the responses lack the anticipated enthusiasm, I must act like a practitioner—cultivating my inner self and regulating my behavior. All the efforts put forth will naturally yield returns in due season. There's no rush, impatience, or comparison. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Hierophant #塔羅 #捕夢人 #大祭司

2024 0515今日塔羅：沉悶 單調 Dullness

2024 0515今日塔羅：沉悶 單調 Dullness 週三，表示一週的工作日過了一半，即將邁進下半場。 心情開心，距離週五輕鬆夜晚更近了。 心情沉悶，還要度過漫長三天才能迎接到快樂周末。 昨晚線上的課程，老師說到，當作決定的時候，要慎重，這可是影響著接下來你的生活，甚至是你的人生，快樂、美好、輕鬆與否。 而做決定，千萬別在心情急躁或沉悶時進行。 未來，要期待，要想像美好的情景，這是喜悅的事情，要在心中幸福滿溢時，思考與決定。 可惜，今天的塔羅牌是『沉悶、單調』。 雖然不太適合做出決定的日子，可，轉個彎思考，今天就是適合沒心沒肺的好生休息一下。 哪來的大事需要每日謀略與規劃。 生活就是如此，柴米油醬醋茶，瑣事、煩雜，讓人嘶吼鬼叫累到趴。 我工作最後的兩三年，學會也喜歡上單調的日子，總認為這近三十個月有著靜心、平凡的美好時光。 工作時工作，周末回老家陪老爸，與朋友相約運動加一頓早午餐。 沒有需要征戰的戰場。 沒有需要廝殺的戰役。 沒有假面假笑的應酬。 沒有虛情違心的人情。 可，總是有人對於”平靜”感到不耐煩，總喜歡生事，總喜歡刷存在感，搞得大家跟著他一起沉淪，一起人仰馬翻。 即使無法理解，也無法閃避。 這世界就是這樣，包羅萬象的人們啊！ 要為”沉悶、單調”聲明一下，這兩個詞，不是負面詞，頂多就是老被人當作陪襯色。 可沒這樣的大地色調，如何襯托花的嬌豔，草的翠綠，小昆蟲的輕盈。 這兩詞的出現，也是提醒著 ~ 好生調養一下。 腳步別老是匆匆又忙忙。 心思別常是重重又茫茫。 沉悶日，沉澱日。 單調日，單純日。 淨心，靜心。 『沉悶單調』 別讓頑固阻礙了愛，擋了情。 別讓沉重卡住了能量，攔住了流動。 別讓僵化凍結了好奇，斷截了嚮往。 別讓防禦擴張了過度，揚張了捍衛。 宇宙建議這一天我們可以小小地檢視與審視，內觀與覺察。 Tarot for Today, May 15, 2024: Dullness and Monotony Wednesday signifies the midpoint of the workweek, ushering us into the latter half. Feeling cheerful? Friday night is getting closer. Feeling down? Three long days remain until the joyous weekend. In last night's online class, the teacher mentioned that making decisions requires careful consideration, as they affect not only your immediate life but potentially your entire future—whether it will be happy, wonderful, or relaxed. Decisions should never be made in a state of agitation or dullness. Looking ahead, we should anticipate and imagine beautiful scenarios, a joyful exercise to be done when our hearts are filled with happiness. Unfortunately, today’s tarot card is 'Dullness and Monotony.' Though it might not be the best day to make decisions, we can take a different perspective: today is perfect for a carefree rest. Not every day requires strategy and planning. Life is like this: daily chores and tasks that exhaust us. In my last two or three years of work, I learned to appreciate and even enjoy monotonous days. I found these nearly thirty months to be a time of serene, ordinary beauty. Working during the week, visiting my father on weekends, exercising and having brunch with friends. No battlefields to conquer, No fights to win, No pretentious social engagements, No insincere relationships. However, some people grow impatient with 'peacefulness,' always seeking to stir things up, forcing everyone to follow their chaos. Even if we cannot understand, we cannot avoid it. This world is just like that, full of all kinds of people! Let’s defend 'Dullness and Monotony.' These words are not negative; they are often overlooked background colors. But without these earth tones, how could we highlight the vibrancy of flowers, the greenery of grass, and the lightness of small insects? These words remind us to take good care of ourselves. Don't always rush. Don’t let your thoughts become heavy and confused. Dull days are days to settle. Monotonous days are days of simplicity. Clear your mind, calm your heart. 'Dullness and Monotony' Don’t let stubbornness block love and feelings. Don’t let heaviness obstruct energy and flow. Don’t let rigidity freeze curiosity and cut off aspirations. Don’t let excessive defense expand and exaggerate protection. The universe suggests that on this day, we should take a moment for introspection and awareness. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Dullness

2024 0204 立春日適合行動&創造 ~ 今日牌卡：創造者

今日牌卡：創造者 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/136528627 因為是立春 特意地跟宇宙要祝福牌 ~ 宇宙給我們的訊息是"創造者" 這真是很奇妙的事情 農曆24節氣，立春是第一個，意義是指春天從此開始 網路查了，聽說從漢朝時代，就有立春日的一些禮俗 春天來臨，農民開始準備春耕了 塔羅"創造者"也具有行動的意義 腦力激盪，發揮創意，檢視思維&觀點，允許自己體驗與接受新行動 若天冷身乏，具體的行動可以從翻開一本書開始 ~ 進而走向越來越大的行動 Because it is the beginning of spring, I deliberately sought blessings from the universe, and the message from the universe for us is "Inventor." It's truly a fascinating thing. In the traditional Chinese lunar calendar, there are 24 solar terms, and "Li Chun" marks the first, symbolizing the beginning of spring. After doing some online research, I learned that there have been customs associated with Li Chun since the Han Dynasty. As spring arrives, farmers begin preparing for spring plowing. In Tarot, the card "Inventor" also signifies taking action. Stimulate your mind, unleash creativity, examine thoughts and perspectives, and allow yourself to experience and accept new actions. If the weather is cold and you feel sluggish, concrete actions can start with opening a book, leading to progressively larger actions. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Inventor #Crystals #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #創造者 #水晶

Alyson’s 3/30 Tarot：改變 Change (1-57)

Alyson’s 3/30 Tarot：改變 Change (1-57) 問題：我的未來日記第一週的主題 抽牌：Eight of Worlds Change 改變 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/144950131 今日夢想實現：煮了一鍋湯圓，花了一小時散步，和朋友聊一下午 從內心萌了芽，在腦海裡顯化，畫出了好幾多燦爛美麗盛開的花。 在行動後實現，在日子裡綻放，只因自己堅定不移往前進的步伐。 「3分鐘未來日記」 「3分鐘未來日記」這本書傳授用正向的，正確的，直接的，直白的，優美的文字寫「過去式語法」的未來日記，讓人可以一天天地越來越接近夢想，進而實現。 夢想 我認為每個人都有不只一個夢想。 當還是個學生時，關於課業成績，關於友情，甚至關於愛情，每一面向都有想要的成果。 後來成為了上班族，關於工作，同事，愛情，甚至與主管間的關係，更是複雜，想要的樣子，又更多了。 不管是哪方面的夢想，大部分都是為了活出自己想要的模樣和生活的景象。 也許關於金錢，關於中樂透，關於生活。 我想透過「3分鐘未來日記」教導的方法，一天一天將自己的夢想能夠更為聚焦，更為具體。 有具體的夢想，才知道要朝哪個方向前進，才能明白中間要做那些努力與成就什麼事情。 當然，這個夢想不是〝小幸運〞，是大計畫，是攸關生活、未來，甚至是人生的。 就因為是大夢想，所以更須嚴謹一些，計畫周詳一些，衡量周密一些。 第一週主題：改變 第一週的主題是『改變Change』。 改變什麼呢？ 改變與夢想之間的關係是什麼？ 大多時候，夢想沒能實現，不是因外務、旁人干擾導致，主要關鍵因素都是在於自己。 我們的內心不夠堅定，不夠強韌，不夠具有熱血奔向夢想的勇氣。 我們會膽怯，會猶豫，會猶疑，會無法肯定。 堅信，很少是會被刻意培養的信念。 這，確實有點可惜。 就是因未來不確定，沒人敢承諾，即使是對自己。 堅持，不移，多難的理想，多高的志向。 變化，是自然，如春、夏、秋、冬。 改變，是天性，如變色龍，蛇蛻皮，毛毛蟲蛻變成蝶。 羽化，是改變的最美呈現。 變化與改變，不是要整個重頭翻過一遍。 改變的是心智能量更強大，不變的是實現夢想的中心思想。 變化的是精神氣力更專注，不變的是朝向夢想的堅定步伐。 調整與彈性，鬆弛緊度，張力有律，在朝夢的路上，不因一時過於高昂的士氣，消耗掉過多的熱忱，造成很快得就把熱情燃燒殆盡，最終熄滅，變成了夢一場。 我們的改變，得從心底挖掘，翻動，辨明與丟棄。 把心裡的土，整理整理。 撿拾起石頭，挖掘出垃圾，一併丟棄，如同毛毛蟲蛻變成蝴蝶後，原先保護的蛹，也就不再適用，帶不走，拉不起，那就放下吧。 蝴蝶的翅膀，那樣輕薄，那樣輕盈。 這是不能承載太多的負擔。 瞻前顧後，朝夢的路上窒礙難行。 朝三暮四，朝夢的路上難定羅盤。 心中的度量衡，審思忖度，分辨明白，什麼該珍惜，什麼該拋卻了。 有時候的拋下，不能說是冷情無心。 細想，一生能同舟共濟有幾人。 如此，也就能以較為淡然態度去想那些一個個的人生過客了。 改變，要改變什麼呢？ 你想好了嗎？ Alyson's 3/30 Tarot: Change Question: Theme for the first week of my future diary. Card drawn: Eight of Worlds – Change Achieved Today's Dream: Cooked a pot of glutinous rice balls, spent an hour walking, and chatted with friends all afternoon. A seed sprouts from within, manifesting in the mind, painting a picture of numerous brilliant blooms. Realized through action, blossoming in the days, all because of the unwavering steps forward. "3-Minute Future Diary" "3-Minute Future Diary" This book teaches how to write a future diary using positive, correct, direct, straightforward, and beautiful language in the past tense, allowing one to gradually approach and achieve dreams day by day. Dreams Dreams I believe everyone has more than one dream. As a student, there are desires for academic success, friendships, and even love. Later, as a working adult, desires regarding work, colleagues, love, and even relationships with supervisors become more complex, with more things desired. Regardless of the aspect of dreams, most are about living the life and having the appearance one desires. Perhaps about money, winning the lottery, or life itself. I want to use the method taught by the "3-Minute Future Diary" to focus and make my dreams more concrete day by day. With specific dreams, one knows which direction to move in and understands the efforts and achievements required along the way. Of course, this dream is not just a "small stroke of luck"; it's a big plan that affects life, the future, and even one's entire existence. Because it's a big dream, it needs to be more rigorous in planning, more detailed in execution, and more thorough in evaluation. Theme of the First Week: Change The theme of the first week is "Change." What changes? What is the relationship between change and dreams? Most of the time, dreams remain unrealized not because of external factors or interference from others but primarily due to oneself. Our inner selves lack firmness, resilience, and the courage to passionately pursue dreams. We become timid, hesitant, doubtful, and unable to affirm. Belief, rarely, is something deliberately cultivated. This, indeed, is a bit regrettable. It's because the future is uncertain, no one dares to promise, even to oneself. Persistence, unwavering, ideals in adversity, lofty aspirations. Change is natural, like the seasons of spring, summer, autumn, and winter. Change is innate, like a chameleon, shedding skin, or a caterpillar metamorphosing into a butterfly. Metamorphosis is the most beautiful presentation of change. Change and transformation don't mean starting over entirely. What changes is the mental strength becoming stronger, while the unchanging aspect is the central idea of realizing dreams. What changes is the spiritual focus becoming more concentrated, while the unchanging aspect is the steadfast steps towards dreams. Adjustment and flexibility, loosening and tightening, maintaining tension in rhythm, on the path to dreams, not allowing overly high spirits to consume too much enthusiasm too quickly, causing the flames of passion to burn out rapidly and ultimately extinguish, turning into mere dreams. Our change needs to be excavated from the depths of our hearts, overturned, discerned, and discarded. Tidy up the soil in our hearts. Pick up stones, dig out trash, and discard them all, just like after a caterpillar transforms into a butterfly, the cocoon that once protected it is no longer useful, so let it go. The butterfly's wings are so delicate, so light. They cannot bear too much burden. Hesitation and hesitation make the path to dreams difficult. Indecision makes the compass on the path to dreams uncertain. The measure in our hearts, thoughtful consideration, discernment, understanding what should be cherished and what should be let go. Sometimes letting go cannot be said to be cold-hearted. Consider how many people can accompany us through life. In this way, one can think of those transient guests of life with a more indifferent attitude. What do you want to change? Have you decided? #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Change

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment 給迫不及待，等不及約好的時間，提前到來的丹丹 ~ 年輕的妳，很有自己的想法與主張；妳，不迷惘，不慌張，妳只是想找一個人聽妳說，聽妳訴，聽到妳的心聲而已。 妳覺得，年輕，最大的本錢是時間、精神和體力。這點我非常認同的。所以妳想趁著年輕，多賺錢，不想花費太多時間和金錢在玩樂上面，這點，實在是讓我太佩服妳了。 想當年，在妳這樣花樣年華的年紀，與同事週六的約會和玩耍，可是我認為人生的重頭戲呢。 有著成熟思想的妳認為，年輕，腦子記憶力較好，反應較快，應該用來學習、累積與思考。 所以妳不太跟朋友外出，這就造成了今日的困擾，朋友們覺得妳不好搞，妳希望朋友能懂妳的渴望和企圖。 記得我當下跟妳說 ~ 『妳的生活，是妳的，朋友的生活，是朋友的。』 『每個人的背景條件不同，這是先天給的；每個人想要的生活不同，這是後天自己想要的。』 妳認同了這些話，可仍陷在感覺與朋友格格不入的氛圍裡。 然後我接著跟妳分享了自己的人生 ~ 我覺『年輕呀，正是適合努力往前衝的年紀呢。』 每個人想要衝去的方向不同而已。 我有朋友喜愛旅遊，可以把薪水、時間和心力都用在旅遊，樂此不疲；而我有點相反，我喜歡穩定，旅遊很美好，對我來說卻不會很常安排。 每個人對生活、對樂趣、對人生意義都有不一樣的看法與想要完成的人生使命。 不管是如何，都很好。 我也曾經遇到朋友認為我和他們其他人沒有話聊，聚會時，即使我只是坐在旁邊聽他們說，他們也覺我礙眼。於是，他們有些聚會沒有找我了。 當我知道時，有點難過，不過更多的是鬆了一口氣。 我知道這群朋友很好，所以我捨不得離開，但終究別人幫我做了這個分離的決定，我就順著這個勢，疏離淡去。 這就是所謂的〝道不同，不相為謀〞。 彼此之間說不到一塊，那就別勉強雙方了。 『會有那麼一群跟妳志同道合的人，在前方不遠處等著妳。』 『也許懂妳的，可以跟妳一起成長交流的朋友，在新世界，就等妳去找到。』 我記得我最後是這樣跟丹丹妳說的。 妳的笑有點沒有精神，因妳捨不得現在這群朋友。 這就是丹丹誤會我的意思了。 我總認為，朋友有很多種，也有很多不同階段還是層級。 不是分高低，不是分親疏蜜離。 我還有跟丹丹說這些話，不知道妳有記得嗎？ 『妳會知道有些朋友適合一起做甚麼，有些事情適合哪些朋友。』 『不是將朋友分種類，或分級，而是每位出現在我們身邊的朋友，他們對我們人生影響的事情 是不同的。』 我喜歡跟朋友相聚，因為跟朋友一起開懷大笑，讓我覺得生命很好，日子很好，人生很好，歲月靜好。 『我知道很多朋友只能陪伴自己一段時間，無法長久，無法一輩子。』 所以我總是珍惜〝當下〞、〝現在〞。 相聚時，專注，用心。 工作時，認真，奮鬥。 學習時，投入，努力。 人生由許多階段連接而成，生活由不同面向組合而成，日子是綜合的寶箱，而非單一口味的獨屬盒。 偶爾跟朋友出去玩玩，放鬆，也不錯。 大部分時間想要學習、累積，讓自己未來爬得更高，走得更遠，這志向，更好。 加油 ~ ！ 妳的人生調色由妳自己決定。 送給妳的塔羅祝福：【滿足 Fulfillment】。 來自宇宙的訊息，這是一張情感的塔羅牌，提醒丹丹，珍惜朋友的關心，她們可能是希望妳在努力的路途上，也可同時間享有友情的潤澤，家人的關心與照顧。當妳退一步去思考朋友的出發點時，妳就會察覺到妳身在充滿愛與關懷裡，心中是滿滿的幸福。 2024-08-25 Blessings to Dandan: Fulfillment To the eager Dandan who arrives early, unable to wait for the agreed-upon time~ As a young person, you have your own thoughts and opinions. You are not confused or flustered; you simply want someone to listen to you, to hear your stories, and to understand your innermost feelings. You believe that the greatest assets of youth are time, energy, and physical strength. I completely agree with this perspective. That's why you want to take advantage of your youth to earn more money and are reluctant to spend too much time and money on entertainment. I truly admire this about you. Back in the day, when I was your age, I considered outings and weekend gatherings with colleagues as the highlights of life. However, with your mature mindset, you believe that while young, with a sharper memory and quicker reflexes, you should focus on learning, accumulating knowledge, and reflecting on life. As a result, you don't go out much with friends, which has led to today's troubles—your friends find you difficult to connect with, while you wish they could understand your desires and ambitions. I remember telling you then: "Your life is yours, and your friends' lives are theirs." "Everyone has different circumstances, which are given by nature; everyone desires a different kind of life, which is what they strive for later." You agreed with these words but still felt out of sync with your friends. Then I shared my own life experiences with you: I believe that youth is the time to strive forward with all your might. Everyone just has different directions they want to pursue. I have friends who love traveling and can devote their salaries, time, and energy to it without getting tired. I'm somewhat the opposite; I prefer stability. Travel is wonderful, but I don't plan it often. Everyone has different perspectives on life, fun, and the meaning of life and different missions they want to accomplish. No matter what, it's all good. I've also had friends who felt they had nothing to talk about with me. Even if I just sat beside them, listening, they found me annoying. So, some of their gatherings didn't include me. When I found out, I was a bit sad but more relieved. I knew these friends were great, so I was reluctant to leave, but in the end, they made the decision for me to part ways, and I just went with the flow, gradually drifting apart. This is what they call "different paths, no mutual plans." If you can't see eye to eye, don't force either side. "There will be a group of like-minded people waiting for you not far ahead." "Perhaps friends who understand you, who can grow and exchange ideas with you, are waiting for you in a new world." I remember saying this to you at the end. Your smile seemed a bit spiritless because you were reluctant to let go of your current group of friends. That’s where you misunderstood me. I always believe there are many kinds of friends and different stages or levels. It's not about ranking higher or lower or being closer or more distant. Did you remember I also told you this? "You will know which friends are suitable for what activities, and what things are suitable for which friends." "It's not about categorizing or grading friends but recognizing that each friend who appears around us has a different impact on our lives." I enjoy gathering with friends because laughing heartily with them makes me feel life is good, the days are good, life is great, and the years are peaceful. "I know many friends can only accompany me for a while, not forever, not for a lifetime." So, I always cherish the "present" and the "now." When gathering, I focus and put my heart into it. When working, I am serious and strive hard. When learning, I dedicate myself and work diligently. Life is composed of many stages; living consists of different facets; the days are a comprehensive treasure chest, not a single-flavored exclusive box. Occasionally going out to play and relax with friends is also good. Spending most of your time learning and accumulating, aiming to climb higher and go further in the future, is an even better ambition. Keep it up~! The colors of your life are yours to choose. Here is a tarot blessing for you: Fulfillment. A message from the universe, this is a card of emotions, reminding you, Dandan, to cherish the care of your friends. They may wish for you to enjoy the nourishment of friendship and the care and support of family even while striving on your path. When you take a step back and consider your friends' perspectives, you'll realize you're surrounded by love and care, and your heart will be filled with happiness. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0429 今日塔羅：狹隘 Narrowness

2024 0429 今日塔羅：狹隘 Narrowness 這世界上有太多的事情我們實在是不懂。 常會有這樣的感悟，「世界什麼時候變成這副模樣了？」 科技的發展日異變遷快速得嚇人。 技術每日都在向上升級，往前發達。 我這一代的人，感覺還沒老，若沒繼續學習，會完全跟不上世界的脈動。 今天的塔羅牌是 ~ 狹隘。 在面對沒有把握的事情面前，我們，需要低調，低調，再低調。 在面臨不是很懂的事情面前，我們，需要請教，請教，再請教。 別被自己的心智給限制了。 框架不一定看得到，摸得著。 坐著，一直不動，完全不知道四面八方的牆，在時光荏苒裡往內移動。 不足，是自然。 沒誰是全能。 若有人幾乎是全能，老天很快就會召喚回去。 『狹隘』的出現是為了讓我們正視自己的缺，自己的短，自己的不足。 沒去過大山，別胸有成竹的告訴大家山有多高。 沒看過雲海，別心有戚戚的告訴大家雲有多近。 不懂的時候，可以靜靜地傾聽。 不須急躁，有的時候，我們的聲音沒被聽到，也不會影響我們身處的小世界得運轉。 心智的『狹隘』會造成了畫地自限，目光短淺，以管窺天。 如何有彈性？變通？ 如何讓擁有的知識、才能，融合？而非各自疏離。 這些需要花費時間思考、計畫與實驗。 今天想不透，不用著急，明天繼續思考衡量。 跨出自己所設置的牢籠、框架，才有機會與外面接觸，與外界連結。 會發現，外面的世界好精采，外面的世界好百態，外面的人，很多都很可愛。 Today's Tarot: Narrowness There are so many things in this world that we simply don't understand. It's common to have the feeling, "When did the world become like this?" The rapid pace of technological development is staggering. Technology is constantly upgrading, advancing forward. People of my generation still feel young, but if we don't keep learning, we'll completely lose touch with the pulse of the world. Today's Tarot card is "Narrowness." When faced with uncertainty, we need to be discreet, discreet, and even more discreet. When encountering something we don't quite understand, we need to seek guidance, seek guidance, and seek it again. Don't let your mind limit you. Frameworks aren't always visible or tangible. Sitting still, unaware of the walls closing in around you as time passes. Shortcomings are natural. No one is omnipotent. If someone is nearly omnipotent, the heavens will soon call them back. The appearance of "Narrowness" is meant to make us confront our own shortcomings. If you've never been to the mountains, don't confidently tell others how high they are. If you've never seen a sea of clouds, don't sadly tell others how close they seem. When you don't understand, you can quietly listen. There's no need to rush; sometimes our voices aren't heard, but it doesn't affect the workings of our small world. Mental "Narrowness" leads to self-imposed limits, short-sightedness, and peeking at the sky through a straw. How can we be more flexible? How can we integrate our knowledge and talents rather than keeping them separate? These questions require time for reflection, planning, and experimentation. If you can't figure it out today, don't worry; continue to ponder and evaluate tomorrow. Only by stepping out of the cages and frameworks we've constructed for ourselves do we have a chance to connect with the outside world. You'll discover that the outside world is fascinating, diverse, and filled with lovely people. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Narrowness

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57)

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57) 問題：我4/02的未來日記主題 抽牌：豐收 Harvest https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/145387285 發現從休息開始至今二年多的時光裡，一直在調整，想找到或建立適合現在的自己。 以前，不怕，因有爸爸。 現在，怕，也得自己處理。 以前，低潮，不怕，有爸爸在。 現在，失落，怕，該怎麼辦？ 去年，我把自己封閉在家。 今年，我把自己推了出門。 去哪？ 去市場。 去操場。 去有人的地方。 這是我自己非常清楚知道的改變。 我的『未來日記』第一階段要先「改變」。 改變與豐收，一個是因，一個是果，然後又互成為對方的因和果。 古代的九個太陽，是種詛咒 現代的九個木星，是種祝福 這張「豐收」的塔羅牌，是讓人想到心情飛揚，若是穿著裙子，就會想轉圈圈的裙擺擺揚，然後，定住，撒花慶祝。 冰箱裡沒有新鮮青菜。 打算今天出門跑一趟。 這市場是去年才開始去的，不熟悉。去過幾次後，也開始慢慢找到自己喜歡的攤子。 固定買青菜的有四攤。 每次都會買一卷潤餅當午餐。 之前軟排骨用得很好吃的那攤已不再。 一開始以為較便宜的水果攤，其實是賣很貴的。 每一次的前往，都是一次次的學習與累積。 每一次的採買，都是豐收，都是改變。 在市場裡，能更感受到季節的交替，天氣的變化。 想吃的，想買的，也有可能會失望，找不到，然後學習調整。 有時，老天會教你如何”改變”。 當辛勞努力之後，宇宙允諾的豐盈 最艱苦的工作已完成，只待收割 對於沒有具體勞動的我，哪來的豐收？ 我自己現在是這樣看得，我的豐收，不一定是物品，不一定是具體，不一定是有形。 我的豐收，在於接觸的人，沾染到他們的歡樂，是喜豐收。 我的豐收，在於流淌的事，沾染到這些的人氣，是喜豐收。 我的豐收，在於穿過的想，沾染到腦袋的思考，是喜豐收。 腳程是很緩慢，但越來越有感。 思考是很雜亂，但越理越明白。 欣賞、讚賞自己辛苦後的成果 為這纍纍結果評個高分 當我不一樣，我就是得更加勇敢。 當我不一樣，我就是得更努力闖盪。 當我不一樣，我就是得失敗後馬上思量。 當我不一樣，我就是得事事掛心上，樣樣學精光。 該看的書一大落，沒能有太多時間在感傷。 我已是枚歐巴桑，落淚也不可能有人為我心傷。 好想學習那位女孩好情商。 好想擁有那位學者好智商。 認知到自己不足的困窘，隨著年紀，隨著閱讀，隨著理解別人的一些模樣，更顯得蒼白無力。 心中有點懊惱，怎以往沒能多學習一些。 還好，現在知道了，也有時間，一點一點再累積。 一位媽媽在她兒子開口撒嬌說，晚餐想吃什麼時，馬上豪氣答應。這位媽媽說她有這樣的經濟能力，且兒子撒嬌想要跟她吃飯，有什麼比這更重要，更幸福的事情。 一位大姐在我們一起買水果的攤子前面跟我分享在那個市場哩，她的採買經驗，哪攤的好吃，哪攤的品質好。這是美好的交流。 今天，內心有許多感想，一項項皆像是收成的果實。 在市場看到的，遇到的笑臉，也是收穫。 這些，不是豐收，是什麼。 Alyson's 4/03 Tarot: Harvest (5-57) Question: Theme of my diary entry on 4/02 Card drawn: Harvest I've found that during the two-plus years since I began resting, I've been adjusting, trying to find or build a version of myself that fits the present. In the past, I wasn't afraid because I had my father. Now, I'm afraid, and I have to deal with it myself. In the past, when I hit a low, I wasn't afraid because my father was there. Now, I feel lost, afraid. What should I do? Last year, I kept myself closed at home. This year, I pushed myself out the door. To where? To the market. To the playground. To places where there are people. This is a change I'm very clear about. The first stage of my "Future Diary" is to "change." Change and harvest, one is the cause, the other is the result, and then they become each other's cause and effect. The nine suns of ancient times were a curse. The nine Jupiters of modern times are a blessing. This "Harvest" tarot card makes one think of exuberant feelings, like twirling in a skirt, and then stopping, throwing flowers to celebrate. There are no fresh vegetables in the fridge. I plan to go out for a run today. I started going to this market just last year, so I'm not familiar with it. After going a few times, I've slowly started to find the stalls I like. There are four stalls where I usually buy vegetables. I always buy a roll of pancakes for lunch. The stall where I used to buy delicious soft ribs is no longer there. I initially thought the fruit stall was cheaper, but it's actually quite expensive. Every trip is a learning experience and accumulation. Every purchase is a harvest, a change. In the market, I can feel the changing seasons, the weather. Things I want to eat, want to buy, may be disappointing, unable to find, and then I learn to adjust. Sometimes, heaven teaches you how to "change." After hard work, the universe promises abundance. The most difficult work has been completed, only waiting to harvest. For me, who hasn't done any physical labor, where does the harvest come from? This is how I see it now: my harvest may not be tangible items. My harvest lies in the people I meet, the joy I share with them, is a harvest of joy. My harvest lies in the things I encounter, the enthusiasm I pass on to others, is a harvest of happiness. My harvest lies in the thoughts I have, the insights I gain, is a harvest of wisdom. The journey is slow, but I feel more and more. The thinking is chaotic, but the clearer it becomes. Appreciating and acknowledging the results of my hard work, Giving high marks to these abundant results. When I'm different, I have to be braver. When I'm different, I have to work harder. When I'm different, I have to reflect immediately after failure. When I'm different, I have to care about everything, learn everything thoroughly. A lot of books to read, not enough time to be sentimental. I'm already a middle-aged woman, there's no one to hurt for me when I cry. I really want to learn from that girl's emotional intelligence. I really want to have the intellect of that scholar. Realizing my own shortcomings, as I grow older, as I read, as I understand others' experiences, it becomes more apparent. There's a bit of regret in my heart, why didn't I learn more in the past. Fortunately, I know now, and there is time, slowly accumulating bit by bit. A mother, when her son sweetly asks what he wants for dinner, immediately agrees. She says she has the emotional ability to do this, and her son's desire to have dinner with her is more important and happier than anything else. An older sister shares her shopping experience with me in front of the fruit stall we're buying from together, telling me which stalls have delicious food and good quality. It's a beautiful exchange. Today, there are many thoughts in my heart, each one seems like the fruit of the harvest. The smiling faces I see in the market are also a harvest. If these aren't harvests, then what are they? #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Harvest

#Alyson搜尋結果

2024 0423 今日塔羅：挫折 Setback

2024 0423 今日塔羅：挫折 Setback

Alyson’s 3/15 Tarot：慈悲 Compassion

Alyson’s 3/15 Tarot：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0329 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

2024 0329 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

Alyson’s 2/09 Tarot：大祭司

Alyson’s 2/09 Tarot：大祭司

2024 0515今日塔羅：沉悶單調 Dullness

2024 0515今日塔羅：沉悶單調 Dullness

2024 0204 立春日適合行動&創造 ~ 今日牌卡：創造者

2024 0204 立春日適合行動&創造 ~ 今日牌卡：創造者

Alyson’s 3/30 Tarot：改變 Change (1-57)

Alyson’s 3/30 Tarot：改變 Change (1-57)

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0429 今日塔羅：狹隘 Narrowness

2024 0429 今日塔羅：狹隘 Narrowness

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57)

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57)

#Alyson搜尋結果

2024 0423 今日塔羅：挫折 Setback

2024 0423 今日塔羅：挫折 Setback

Alyson’s 3/15 Tarot：慈悲 Compassion

Alyson’s 3/15 Tarot：慈悲 Compassion

2024 0329 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

2024 0329 今日塔羅：駕馭者 Surfer

Alyson’s 2/09 Tarot：大祭司

Alyson’s 2/09 Tarot：大祭司

2024 0515今日塔羅：沉悶 單調 Dullness

2024 0515今日塔羅：沉悶 單調 Dullness

2024 0204 立春日適合行動&創造 ~ 今日牌卡：創造者

2024 0204 立春日適合行動&創造 ~ 今日牌卡：創造者

Alyson’s 3/30 Tarot：改變 Change (1-57)

Alyson’s 3/30 Tarot：改變 Change (1-57)

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0429 今日塔羅：狹隘 Narrowness

2024 0429 今日塔羅：狹隘 Narrowness

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57)

Alyson’s 4/03 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (5-57)

2024 0515今日塔羅：沉悶單調 Dullness

2024 0515今日塔羅：沉悶單調 Dullness