跨年神曲紅髮艾迪Ed Sheeran - Bad Habits 

One, two, three, fourOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohEvery time you come around, you know I can't say noEvery time the sun goes down, I let you take controlI can feel the paradise before my world implodesAnd tonight had something wonderfulMy bad habits lead to late nights endin' aloneConversations with a stranger I barely knowSwearin' this will be the last, but it probably won'tI got nothin' left to lose, or use, or doMy bad habits lead to wide eyes stare into spaceAnd I know I lose control of the things that I sayYeah, I was lookin' for a way out, now I can't escapeNothin' happens after two, it's true, it's true, my bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohMy bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohMy bad habits lead to your very pure intention ends when the good times startFallin' over everything to reach the first time's sparkIt started under neon lights, and then it all got darkI only know how to go too far bad habits lead to late nights endin' aloneConversations with a stranger I barely knowSwearin' this will be the last, but it probably won'tI got nothin' left to lose, or use, or do bad habits lead to wide eyes stare into spaceAnd I know I lose control of the things that I sayYeah, I was lookin' for a way out, now I can't escapeNothin' happens after two, it's true, it's true, my bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohMy bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohWe took the long way 'roundAnd burned 'til the fun ran out, nowMy bad habits lead to late nights endin' aloneConversations with a stranger I barely knowSwearin' this will be the last, but it probably won'tI got nothin' left to lose, or use, or doMy bad habits lead to wide eyes stare into spaceAnd I know I lose control of the things that I sayYeah, I was lookin' for a way out, now I can't escapeNothin' happens after two, it's true, it's true, my bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohMy bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohMy bad habits lead to you I found a love for meDarling, just dive right in and follow my leadWell, I found a girl, beautiful and sweetI never knew you were the someone waiting for meCause we were just kids when we fell in loveNot knowing what it wasI will not give you up this timeBut darling, just kiss me slow, your heart is all I ownAnd in your eyes you're holding mineBaby, I'm dancing in the dark with you between my armsBarefoot on the grass, listening to our favorite songWhen you said you looked a mess, I whispered underneath my breathBut you heard it, darling, you look perfect tonightWell I found a woman, stronger than anyone I knowShe shares my dreams, I hope that someday I'll share her homeI found a love, to carry more than just my secretsTo carry love, to carry children of our ownWe are still kids, but we're soak in loveFighting against all oddsI know we'll be alright this timeDarling, just hold my handBe my girl, I'll be your manI see my future in your eyesBaby, I'm dancing in the dark, with you between my armsBarefoot on the grass, listening to our favorite songWhen I saw you in that dress, looking so beautifulI don't deserve this, darling, you look perfect tonightBaby, I'm dancing in the dark, with you between my armsBarefoot on the grass, listening to our favorite songI have faith in what I seeNow I know I have met an angel in personAnd she looks perfect, no I don't deserve thisYou look perfect tonight 夜上海繁花過年曲千里之外 「那薄如蟬翼的未來，經不起誰來拆」 ♣片種：烽火愛情 ♣場景：30年代上海外灘 泰式鐘聲營造的中國風揭開故事的序幕，30年代的上海灘，上演一齣生死氣闊的烽火兒女情。方文山詩意描述那個屬於徐志摩與陸小曼的年代，戰亂的大時代，為了安全，情人分離，「我送你離開，千里之外」誰知到白頭竟然再也無法相見；這次更邀請中國風翹楚費玉清合唱這首古典風情的情歌，堪稱一絕，感人的旋律與畫面由周杰倫一手包辦，從音樂到故事的發想，再延伸到音樂電影的拍攝，周杰倫一氣呵成，編織這齣可歌可泣的時代大劇。 屋簷如懸崖 風鈴如滄海 我等燕歸來時間被安排 演一場意外 妳悄然走開故事在城外 濃霧散不開 看不清對白妳聽不出來 風聲不存在 是我在感慨夢醒來 是誰在窗台 把結局打開那薄如蟬翼的未來 經不起誰來拆我送妳離開 千里之外 妳無聲黑白沉默年代 或許不該 太遙遠的相愛我送妳離開 天涯之外 妳是否還在琴聲何來 生死難猜 用一生 去等待聞淚聲入林 尋梨花白 只得一行 青苔天在山之外 雨落花台 我兩鬢斑白聞淚聲入林 尋梨花白 只得一行 青苔天在山之外 雨落花台 我等妳來一身琉璃白 透明著塵埃 妳無瑕的愛妳從雨中來 詩化了悲哀 我淋濕現在芙蓉水面採 船行影猶在 妳卻不回來被歲月覆蓋 妳說的花開 過去成空白夢醒來 是誰在窗台 把結局打開那薄如蟬翼的未來 經不起誰來拆我送妳離開 千里之外 妳無聲黑白沉默年代 或許不該 太遙遠的相愛我送妳離開 天涯之外 妳是否還在琴聲何來 生死難猜 用一生我送妳離開 千里之外 妳無聲黑白沉默年代 或許不該 太遙遠的相愛我送妳離開 天涯之外 妳是否還在琴聲何來 生死難猜 用一生 去等待 【千里之外電影版】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou [千里之外電影版 Far Away ] -Off... 【心雨】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【心雨 Rainy Mood】-Official ... 【本草綱目】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【本草綱目Chinese Herbal Manua... 【白色風車】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【白色風車 White Windmill】-Off... 【夜的第七章】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【夜的第七章 Chapter Seven】-Off... 【夜的第七章電影版】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【夜的第七章電影版 Chapter Seven】-... 【紅模仿】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【紅模仿 Moulin Rouge】-Offici... 【迷迭香】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【迷迭香 Rosemary】-Official M... 【退後】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【退後 A Step Back】-Official... 【聽媽媽的話】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【聽媽媽的話 Listen to Mom】-Off... 【菊花台】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【菊花台 Chrysanthemum Terrac... 

2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance

2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance 預約的時間到了，遲遲沒看到人影上線，原來還在工作，真的是辛苦了。 阿成說自己的房屋銷售員，政府頒布了幾個專案，讓許多年輕人原本只能默默放在心中的購屋念頭，瞬間有了具體實現的機會，因此很多客人約著要看房子。 阿成說，看起來絡繹不絕的客人潮，好像能夠有不錯的成交結果和獎金收入，但實則並沒有如此美好。 他說，大家都會在網路找資料，爬文，做許多的功課。 我則認為這樣是正確的，減少了資訊落差，也就不會有人被當冤大頭任意宰殺，血流成河的慘況。 阿成說，立場不同啦。 我同意。我也反問阿成，你看車子，會不會先做功課，先問一下別人或者上網。 他說，當然會啊。 我說，那就對了呀。房子，多貴，一輩子可能就這麼一次機會，謹慎點再出手，合理呀。 我再進而分享自己的想法給阿成，我說，若房子好，價錢合理，不須你發揮舌燦蓮花之洗腦大法，有興趣的客戶，一看就懂，就下單了。若房子不怎麼樣，價錢又不合理，你再怎麼勤勞，再怎麼帶不同組的客人前往，在現在資訊更為透明的時代，有機會成功嗎？當然沒有。 每個產業都在喊生意不好做，每個老闆都在說壓力好大，每個員工都在哭做不下去了。 會吵的比較會有糖吃，哭、鬧、折騰，好像比較能夠獲得更好的待遇。 所以，遇到人，遇到事，先哭鬧！先比慘！已成為大家面對事情的第一反應。 好像成為了全民運動似的，大家的慣性。 其實，世界上絕頂聰明就那幾個人，世界上80%的財富也在那些人的手上，我們這些80%的平凡人就是努力、認真、拚命在剩下的20%財富爭奪自己的財富地位。 可能我認識的都是一般人，還真沒發覺誰的工作有比較好做。 阿成接著說帶新人很累，很麻煩，不想這樣過日子。 可小小職員的我們哪有說”不”的立場與機會，況且帶新人是很好的學習，但固執的阿成你說，你什麼都不想要，你只想做好自己的工作就好。 可是我們都知道，工作不可能獨善其身，就如同活在這個世界上一樣，人不可能只顧好自己就好。 不過，深感疲憊又覺厭煩的阿成，你已完全不想聽這些話。 我也只能跟你說，照顧好自己，跟主管聊聊，還有最近天氣變化大，注意身體適應。 然後，你說了，你覺得何時開始整個人都不對了。 原來，你帶著客人去了一間不是很乾淨的房子，你說從那天之後你常覺頭暈。 我當下建議你隔天去找專業的人協助一下，並且在心中跟對方打聲招呼，對於打擾了感到抱歉。 你才恍然大悟到自己竟然沒注意到這樣的註記和禁忌，真的是不應該。 看來，最近的你因疲憊和心情不佳，對於工作沒有了之前的嚴謹和熱情，很是可惜。 有些過錯，是完全不可犯的，而我覺你因情緒控制不佳而觸碰到了禁忌，還讓你的客戶因你的不小心而身體不適，這是很不應該。而這些實在很難對於已經不堪負荷的你再多說的話。 只能藉由請宇宙透過抽塔羅牌的指引給你祝福 ~ 而宇宙送給你的塔羅牌祝福是【聰穎 Brilliance】。 宇宙提醒，我跟你分享的是你最近忽視且不在意，但對你而言應是很重要的事情。 如果你有靜下心聽進我傳達給你的文字和有點擔憂你的心思，你應該會有「啊！豁然開朗。」的當下震撼與感受。 倘若沒有，很可惜，你錯過了宇宙透過我們聊天的機會給予你的指引和祝福。 期冀過幾天，你的心情平復許多，能回看我們的對話，也許那時還有機會可以接收到這關鍵的灼見。 2024-11-14 Ah Cheng: Brilliance The scheduled time arrived, yet you hadn’t logged in. It turned out you were still working—really tough on you. Ah Cheng mentioned he’s a real estate agent, and the government recently rolled out a few programs that have given many young people the tangible chance to pursue homeownership, something they’d only dreamed of before. As a result, many clients are eager to schedule viewings. He said that while the influx of clients might look promising for good sales and bonuses, reality isn’t quite as bright. People are doing extensive research online, reading up, and gathering plenty of information. I think this is great—it reduces information asymmetry, which means fewer people end up being taken advantage of. Ah Cheng said our perspectives differ. I agreed and asked if he wouldn’t also research a car before buying, by asking around or looking it up online. He said, “Of course.” So, I replied, “Exactly. Buying a house is even more expensive, and it’s likely a once-in-a-lifetime purchase. It’s only sensible to be cautious.” I went on to share my perspective: if the property is good and the price fair, you won’t need to spin persuasive pitches. Interested clients will know it’s a good deal at a glance. But if the property lacks appeal or is overpriced, no matter how hard you work or how many clients you bring through, your chances of closing the deal in today’s transparent market are slim. Every industry complains business is hard; every boss says they’re under pressure, and every employee laments they can’t go on. People who complain seem to get better treatment, so it’s as if we’ve collectively adopted whining as our first reaction to challenges. It’s almost become a national pastime. In reality, only a few truly brilliant people exist, and 80% of the world’s wealth is in their hands. The rest of us ordinary folks are just striving to claim a piece of the remaining 20%. Maybe I only know regular people, but I haven’t noticed anyone’s work getting any easier. Ah Cheng then said that training new hires is exhausting and complicated, and he doesn’t want to keep doing it. But we’re just small-time employees; we don’t have the power to say “no.” Besides, training new hires is a valuable learning experience, but stubborn Ah Cheng insists he just wants to focus on his own work. We both know work isn’t done in isolation, just as living in this world isn’t. You can’t just look out for yourself. However, an utterly worn-out Ah Cheng doesn’t want to hear this anymore. So, all I can say is: take care of yourself, talk things over with your supervisor, and with the recent weather fluctuations, be mindful of staying well. Then you mentioned that you started feeling off some time ago. It turned out you had shown a client a rather unkempt property, and since that day, you’ve often felt dizzy. I suggested you see a specialist the next day and mentally apologize for any disturbance caused. You realized that you hadn’t observed such precautions and felt it was an oversight. It seems that recently, due to exhaustion and low spirits, you’ve lost the rigor and enthusiasm you once had for work, which is unfortunate. Some mistakes simply can’t be made, and I believe that poor emotional management led you to inadvertently break a taboo, causing discomfort to your client. But given how overburdened you already are, it’s tough to say much more. So, I asked the universe to bless you through a Tarot card pull, and the universe’s gift to you is the Brilliance card. The universe reminds you that I’m sharing with you things you’ve recently ignored or dismissed, but which are very important to you. If you take my words to heart and sense the concern behind them, you might experience a moment of clarity, a “lightbulb moment.” If not, that’s unfortunate—you’ll have missed the universe’s guidance and blessing through our conversation. Hopefully, in a few days, after you’re feeling more settled, you’ll look back on our exchange and still have a chance to receive this crucial insight. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor 辛苦了，陸陸，一位新手媽媽。 照顧剛出生三個多月寶寶的妳，在做自己和成為一個好媽媽的角色中徘徊，猶豫中的妳常感到痛苦與辛苦。 痛苦的是，妳覺得怎會有這樣的心態出現，感覺好像對不起自己的寶寶。 辛苦的是，這樣的猶豫與不決，發生的頻率非常高，讓妳在寶寶入睡時，明明已經很累了，卻捨不得休息，因妳害怕著，若不抓住這短短的時間，那妳就更沒有時間，更沒有機會做自己了。 現在的妳，精神不好，體力不佳，沒有人家說的坐完月子，讓身體充分休息與獲得營養滋補的豐腴模樣。 和老公的小小家庭中，不僅沒有人協助，內心的孤單、徬徨更讓妳覺得難過，即使想跟老公說說心裡話，看著他辛苦工作回來後疲憊的樣子，妳內心裡再多的苦澀，也說不出口。 想跟娘家媽媽訴說，又怕遭到責罵。 於是妳決定找我聊聊。 懷孕經驗，我沒有。 生產經驗，我沒有，但有長年痛經的經驗，妳說，這妳不需要。 坐月子經驗，我沒有。 照顧寶寶的經驗，我只有1/10，夠嗎？ 妳說妳笑了出來，當看到我這樣的回應時。 其實，人類始終都是多重角色在生存著。 當我們還小的時候，是孩子，甚至是孫子輩，是兄弟姊妹，也是學生，還有同學與朋友。 長大了，是上班族，但依然還有著孩子的角色，幸福的人也還保有孫 子角色，男女朋友，下屬，同事還有朋友。 當成為媽媽之後，不代表需要漠視、忽視、放棄其他角色。 無論我們一身具備哪些角色，我們自己，絕對不能遺忘呀。 自己是所有其他角色的延伸。 記得自己，照顧自己，認識自己，唯有自己好，其他角色才能做得好。 因此我給妳的建議是，寶寶休息睡覺時，把握這時間，妳也好好休息。寶寶醒來的時候，可以跟寶寶互動，也可讓寶寶自己玩耍，老公回來跟寶寶親近時，這個時段，可以跟老公討論，讓妳做自己想做的事情，即使妳只是躺在沙發上，那也可以，就是不要打擾妳，中斷妳在進行的事情。 平衡，讓我們得以持續擁有能量與力量往前繼續邁進。 宇宙送給妳的塔羅牌祝福是【皇帝 Emperor】。 我腦海中浮現的感受是，請將妳的寶寶視為皇帝，妳是導引他，輔助他，給予他愛和支持的母后。 要成為一個優秀的生命導師，要先有堅強的心智與人生的智慧，要先學習人生的真理與世界運行的道理，要懂得鼓勵與支持，堅持教育與教導，懂得設定目標與堅強地朝目標努力。 當妳明白妳所學習到的，經驗積累的，都是需先成就自己，才有機會傳承給孩子時，成為自己與成為一個好母親，其實是同一件事情，也就不需經歷選擇的過程，也就不會有兩難的痛苦。 祝福陸陸 ~ 妳能想到這樣的猶豫困擾，妳就是已踏上智慧的路途上，成為妳孩子溫暖的依靠。 2024-11-08 To Lulu: The Emperor Thank you, Lulu, a new mother. Caring for a baby just over three months old, you find yourself wavering between being yourself and becoming a good mother. In your hesitation, you often feel both pain and struggle. The painful part is the thought that these feelings somehow mean you’re letting your baby down. The struggle lies in how often these indecisions arise, leaving you reluctant to rest even when your baby sleeps—fearing that if you don’t seize these fleeting moments, you’ll have even less time, even fewer chances, to be yourself. Right now, you’re physically and mentally exhausted. You haven’t had the full rest and nourishing care some say should follow the postpartum period. In your small family with your husband, not only is there no extra help, but the loneliness and uncertainty sometimes feel overwhelming. Even when you want to confide in your husband, seeing him come home so tired from work makes you hesitate, keeping your bitterness inside. You think about talking to your mother, but you’re afraid she might scold you. So, you decided to talk with me. I have no experience with pregnancy. I have no experience with childbirth, though I do know the long struggle of painful menstruation. But you said that wasn’t what you needed. I have no experience with postpartum care. I only have 1/10 of the experience in caring for a baby. Is that enough? You said you laughed when you read my response. Actually, as humans, we always carry multiple roles in life. When we’re young, we’re children, grandchildren, siblings, students, classmates, and friends. As adults, we’re employees, still children, and for the lucky ones, still grandchildren, and we’re also partners, subordinates, colleagues, and friends. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to ignore, neglect, or give up your other roles. No matter what roles we take on, we must never forget ourselves. The self is the foundation from which all other roles extend. Remember yourself, care for yourself, and understand yourself. Only when you are well can you fulfill your other roles well. So, my suggestion for you is to take time for yourself when the baby is asleep. Rest, and when the baby wakes, engage with them or let them play independently. When your husband comes home to connect with the baby, use this time to do something just for you—even if it’s simply lying on the couch, uninterrupted and undisturbed. Balance allows us to sustain the energy and strength to keep moving forward. The tarot card blessing the universe sends you is The Emperor. The feeling that arises in my mind is this: see your baby as the Emperor, and you as the Empress guiding, supporting, loving, and nurturing him. To be an outstanding life guide requires a strong heart and life wisdom. You must first learn the truths of life and understand the principles by which the world operates. It involves learning to encourage and support, committing to teaching and guiding, and setting goals while steadfastly working towards them. When you understand that everything you learn and every experience you gain are all for building yourself so that you may someday pass this on to your child, you’ll realize that becoming yourself and becoming a good mother are, in fact, the same path. There will be no more choices to make, no painful dilemmas to face. Blessings to you, Lulu. Just by reflecting on these struggles and hesitations, you’ve already stepped onto the path of wisdom, becoming the warm support your child can rely on. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1122 38年華女孩：魔鬼之樂 Devil’s Play

2024 1122 38年華女孩：魔鬼之樂 Devil’s Play 女孩，不哭不哭，眼淚是珍珠。 網路小說裡也說，眼淚，不管是幾歲，都是惹人憐愛的金豆豆。 聽著妳的哭泣，突然想到了這兩句。 一邊生氣，一邊罵著過份，太欺負人了，一邊哭泣著妳，一時半會我也勸不來，讓妳冷靜冷靜。 就讓妳哭吧，宣洩著，罵吧。 氣極敗壞時，情緒吞忍著是會生病的，何況，還是被欺負，更得發洩。 可心軟，無力，又膽小，哪敢對誰罵，就是找人說說話，一邊哭，一邊大聲說著，然後當一回小丑。 雖然臉上著妝花了，可心裡的壞情緒沒了，值得。 妳說，我怎不問妳發生什麼事情？ 我說，妳一邊哭，一邊罵已經很忙了，還有第二張嘴可以說嗎？ 妳說，怎過了這麼多年，我還是這樣的一張嘴？ 我說，過了這麼多年，妳有換了另一張臉了嗎！ 果然，朋友間的默契就是這樣三言兩語，胡說八道，好默契跨越了中間消失斷聯的時光，毫無生疏感呀。 妳說，老了，記憶都錯亂了。有時覺得好煩，感覺全世界都在欺負妳，常覺得孤單，到底一個人這樣拼命是幹嘛？ 妳說，這世界怎麼了？社會怎麼了？是非正義都不見了。 妳叨叨絮絮地說，我靜靜地聽。 明明沒有喝酒，卻像是酒醉般的胡言亂語。 被傷透了吧。在這冷涼的秋天裡。 沒事的，一杯熱茶，舒緩神經，一杯咖啡，清醒在世間。 酒，別碰了吧！ 又沒酒量，也沒酒膽，壯膽，又蠻橫不起來，何苦來哉。 請宇宙送個祝福給妳，抽到的塔羅牌是【魔鬼之樂 Devil’s Play】。 哈！實在真的是太奇妙了。 確實，妳總是活在當下。 當下的快樂，從妳爽朗的笑聲陣陣傳遞出來就可知道。 當下的糾結，從妳馬上吃驚大叫的聲音也可得知。 當下的生氣，從妳立即脹紅的臉，緊握的拳頭看到。 妳就是如此真性情的女中豪傑。妳直爽，不虛偽。妳帥氣，不做作。 就是喜歡這樣直率的妳。 願妳未來更為順遂。 福生無量。 2024/11/22 A 38-Year-Old Girl: Devil’s Play Girl, don’t cry, don’t cry. Tears are pearls. Even in online novels, they say tears, no matter your age, are precious little gems that evoke pity. Listening to your sobs, those lines suddenly came to mind. I was both angry and scolding, “This is too much, such unfairness!” And yet, there you were, crying your heart out. I couldn’t console you right away and just let you cool down for a bit. So go ahead, cry it out, let it all out, and shout if you must. When emotions boil over, suppressing them can make you sick. Especially when you’re being bullied — that frustration needs to be released. But being soft-hearted, powerless, and timid, you wouldn’t dare curse anyone directly. Instead, you found someone to talk to, crying and shouting at the top of your lungs. For a moment, you played the clown. Even though your makeup smudged, your bad mood was lifted. Worth it, right? You asked, “Why don’t you ask me what happened?” I said, “You’re already busy crying and ranting; do you have a second mouth to tell me more?” You said, “After all these years, why do I still talk like this?” I replied, “After all these years, have you changed your face?” Ah, the tacit understanding between friends is built on such nonsensical banter. Good camaraderie effortlessly bridges the gaps of time and lost connections, making it feel as though no time was lost at all. You said, “I’m getting old. My memories are muddled. Sometimes I feel so annoyed, like the whole world is against me. I often feel lonely and wonder why I work so hard, pushing myself like this.” You asked, “What’s wrong with this world? What’s wrong with society? Where have truth and justice gone?” You rambled on, and I listened silently. Though you hadn’t touched a drop of alcohol, your words spilled out like the ramblings of someone intoxicated. You must’ve been hurt deeply. On this chilly autumn evening. It’s okay. A cup of hot tea can soothe your nerves; a cup of coffee can awaken you to life. As for alcohol? Best to leave it be. You lack the tolerance, the courage, and even the recklessness to let it embolden you. Why bother? Let’s ask the universe to send you blessings. The Tarot card you drew was Devil’s Play. Ha! What an incredible coincidence. Indeed, you live in the moment. Your happiness is obvious in the bursts of hearty laughter you let out. Your worries are clear from the way you gasp in surprise and cry out loud. Your anger is visible in your flushed face and clenched fists. You’re a woman of unbridled authenticity, bold and straightforward. You are unpretentious, unapologetically cool, and free of pretense. That’s precisely why I like you, just as you are. May your future be smooth and fulfilling. Infinite blessings to you. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

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2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust 小陸從上一個工作裸辭至今也快要近三年。他說倒也不是著急想要回到職場，純粹是因非常確定，也接受了一個事實，那就是，他個人本身，完全沒有自律的好態度，更沒有自我約束的好習慣。 從剛開始，於半夜滑手機平板，一丁點也不想睡覺，到後來，需要睡覺，想要睡覺，身體卻完全不理會大腦的意識與意志，整個狀況就是身體有自己的節奏與步調，完全無視大腦的命令和意志的渴求。 他形容到那次面試的時間是過去二十年來第一次如此快速且短暫的，徵才公司董事長問了三個問題，卻都在還沒完成回答前打斷了他的陳述與說明，甚至不給予時間與機會提出詢問導致他無法獲得更多訊息。 當下他是不悅的，現在的他認為應該聽從這個情緒的直覺。 因當時他被理智腦給說服了，以為董事長如此簡潔有力的抓重點，於管理風格上是強勢且有力道，是直接表達指示、命令，不需下屬或員工的臆測。 事實的真相總是得進入實際環境裡才知道。 面試時說會成為工作夥伴的年輕孩子早就於上個月前離職了，被告知現職的助理可以協助很多事情，實際狀況是空有熱誠，懷有熱情，可惜沒有該職務的工作基礎，沒有相關經驗，也不具備基礎理論，卻是把基本常識當作知識的叫囂著，把每天忙得像陀螺，對於他在旁的指導與建議，充耳不聞，還反過來指責他沒能快速進入狀況。 在職場最害怕不懂專業的人要帶領真正懂得的人，更危險的是下屬以年資來吆喝新進主管。 此處不宜久留，提出去意。 於面試時被告知的職務工作目標與實際狀況不符合，且感覺上是有刻意、惡意掩蓋實際狀況，即使是職場裡的老鳥，在萬惡的資本家面前，也只有被欺凌的份。 宇宙呼應其需要祝福的指引，抽到的塔羅牌是：【信任Trust】。 宇宙說，遭遇到這樣的事情，更是突顯信任的重要。光，是信任的象徵，讓你感受到有光的存在的人，不要害怕，試著再次給予信任，試著看到他人的善良，試著建立與擁抱新關係，宇宙與老天不會給你無法處理的事務，相信自己的能力，相信自己的際遇，相信善良的自己會遇到美好的機緣。 2024 1024 Xiao Lu: Trust Xiao Lu has been out of work for nearly three years since quitting his last job without securing another. He says it’s not that he’s in a hurry to return to the workforce; rather, he has come to terms with a reality—that he himself lacks a good attitude toward self-discipline and does not have the habit of self-restraint. Initially, he would stay up late at night, scrolling on his phone or tablet, without any desire to sleep. Later, when he needed and wanted to sleep, his body completely ignored his mind’s consciousness and will. His body seemed to have its own rhythm and pace, completely disregarding the brain’s commands and desires. He described a recent interview as the fastest and shortest one he’s had in the past twenty years. The chairman of the recruiting company asked him three questions but interrupted him before he could finish each answer. He wasn’t given the time or opportunity to ask questions, leaving him with no further information. At the time, he was displeased, and now he feels he should have trusted his emotional instinct. Back then, however, his rational mind convinced him that the chairman’s concise focus on key points was a sign of a strong, efficient management style—one where instructions are given directly, leaving no need for employees to guess. But the truth only reveals itself once you are in the actual environment. The young colleague, who was supposed to be his future work partner according to the interview, had already left a month earlier. He was told that the current assistant could help with many tasks, but in reality, while passionate and enthusiastic, the assistant had no foundation for the job. Lacking experience and theoretical knowledge, the assistant mistook basic common sense for expertise, staying busy like a spinning top. Worse still, the assistant ignored Xiao Lu’s guidance and suggestions, even blaming him for not adapting quickly enough. What Xiao Lu fears most in the workplace is when someone without expertise leads those who truly understand the work. Even more dangerous is when subordinates use their seniority to shout down a newly appointed supervisor. This was not a place to stay long, so he decided to leave. The job's responsibilities, as described in the interview, did not match the reality, and it felt as though the truth had been deliberately hidden. Even seasoned professionals can find themselves bullied by ruthless capitalists. Seeking guidance, Xiao Lu turned to the universe and drew the Tarot card: Trust. The universe said that encountering such experiences only highlights the importance of trust. Light is a symbol of trust. Don’t be afraid of those who make you feel the presence of light. Try to trust again, try to see the goodness in others, and try to build and embrace new relationships. The universe and the heavens will not give you more than you can handle. Trust in your abilities, trust in your circumstances, and trust that your kind-hearted self will encounter beautiful opportunities. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion 在擁擠的人群中，他像一棵大樹，立在那兒，不管旁邊的攤販如何吆喝叫賣著，他就是靜靜地等待。 在傳統市場裡，人們有著共同的行進動線的默契，當然，也有混亂的時候，但，大多數我們總是習慣從入口的右邊開始，一攤攤的逛，然後走到自己覺得可以回頭的點時，再往回走，再逛起另一邊的攤位。 這傳統市場是我這兩年採買食材的地方。 一開始覺好大，現在依然，沒有一次有全程走完，逛完的。 傳統市場就是如此，多去幾次，嘗試購買不同攤位後，自己喜歡的、習慣的攤位差不多也就拿捏準了，後來的採買就是抓緊一個原則，快，狠、準，從入口開始直接衝去目的攤位，盯上，拿起，付錢，轉身，離開，沒多停留的。 可從前兩個月，注意到了這位賣菜的伯伯，第一次看到，沒跟他買，可能我去的時間太晚了，他賣菜板車上剩下的菜，乾乾扁扁的，感覺不能再放。 可，我買菜挑選的需求是可以再放幾天的，一次吃不完那樣多的呀。 再來注意到老伯伯是在颱風後的採買。 每攤的青菜價格都高得嚇壞人，可每個老闆都說，颱風後，有青菜可以採買已是難得，物稀價當然貴。 我忍痛拿出荷包的紙鈔，買了一小把青菜，這確定是有益身體健康，怎我覺買這把青菜，我的心臟好痛。 這樣一小把的葉菜不夠我未來幾天的人體需求，突然之間聽到老伯伯說，一籃菜50元，不論是哪一種菜。 天呀！ 我問伯伯，您這樣有賺嗎？ 他的聲音輕輕的，有點沙啞，說，沒有。颱風剛過，大家都辛苦了，他有去大盤批菜，就出來賣。大家吃新鮮，吃的開心，這次沒有賺，沒有關係。 老伯伯的菜，比一般菜攤的菜看起來老，長比較大，大部分的人買菜喜歡挑嫩一點的。 我覺老伯伯的心意，讓人感動，我挑了兩盆。 伯伯幫我將菜裝進袋子裡的同時，有其他人靠近了。 結果，我開始幫老伯伯推銷他的菜。 伯伯聽到後對我微微笑。 沒多久，伯伯的菜賣掉了九成。 不是我很會叫賣，實在是老伯伯賣的價錢便宜。 回來後，我趁新鮮川燙了其中一種菜，青江菜。 看起來個頭大，可口感不粗糙，菜的纖維沒有想像中的老，不會不好咀嚼，是很可以的。 於是，這次，我特地去找老伯伯買菜。 一樣的身影，一樣的裝扮，一樣的板車，一樣一籃籃的菜，然後，一樣的寧靜。 結果，一樣，忍不住在其他客人靠近時，幫老伯伯叫賣。 沒想到，這時有位歐巴桑，推擠著老伯伯說，老伯伯擋住她的客人了？！ 伯伯的面前是我，我回頭看，沒有人站在我後面啊。 這位歐巴桑說的客人，是？？？ 伯伯也沒跟歐巴桑理論。 歐巴桑動手把伯伯的板車往旁邊挪動，又往前推，我趕緊跳到旁邊，免得撞到。 然後歐巴桑推著她的板車經過我時，叨唸著，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，就是轉不到她的客人前面去。 我自己翻譯成，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，但都沒有客人上前去。 看了歐巴桑賣的東西，我也只能說抱歉，無法跟她購買呀。 她賣的是痠痛藥膏，這不是我的菜呀。 回家後，老伯伯的身影一直盤繞在腦海裡。 想請宇宙送給老伯伯祝福 ~ 願他安康，願他祥和，願他福氣，願他無生無量。 宇宙送給老伯伯的塔羅牌祝福是【慈悲 Compassion】。 哇！有沒有覺得宇宙、高我、能量、磁場以及塔羅很奇妙。 在總共88張的塔羅牌裡，抽到的牌卡就是如此呼應著老伯伯的調性。 宇宙覺老伯伯的慈悲與祥和是讓人景仰與推崇的。 在世為人，慈悲為懷，虛懷若谷，體諒諒解，寬容包容，這是溫暖的力量，是慈悲祥和的力量，是愛的力量。 November 14, 2024 – The Vegetable Vendor: Compassion Amid the crowded marketplace, he stands like a large tree, rooted in place, quietly waiting while other vendors shout and call to attract customers. In the traditional market, there's an unspoken understanding of the flow of foot traffic, though it can be chaotic at times. Most people start from the right side of the entrance, browsing from stall to stall until they reach a point they consider a turning-back spot, then retrace their steps to explore the stalls on the other side. This market has been my go-to spot for grocery shopping over the past two years. Initially, it felt overwhelmingly large, and even now, I have yet to walk through it in its entirety in a single visit. That's the nature of traditional markets; with each visit, I experiment with different vendors, gradually narrowing down my favorites. Eventually, I adopted a routine: entering, heading directly to the targeted stalls, picking up items, paying, and leaving—no lingering. Two months ago, though, I noticed an elderly vegetable vendor. The first time I saw him, I didn’t buy anything; I was probably too late, and the vegetables left on his cart were somewhat wilted, seemingly unable to last much longer. I prefer produce that I can store for a few days, enough to be used gradually. The next time I noticed him was after a typhoon. Vegetable prices had skyrocketed across all stalls, and vendors explained that post-typhoon greens were scarce and therefore expensive. I reluctantly handed over my cash for a small bundle, painfully aware of the cost for the sake of health. That small bundle wasn’t nearly enough for my needs over the coming days. Then, I overheard the elderly vendor say, “One basket of vegetables, 50 dollars, any kind you want.” I was taken aback! I asked him, "Are you making any profit this way?" With a soft, slightly hoarse voice, he replied, “No. It’s right after the typhoon; everyone’s going through tough times. I managed to get some greens at wholesale, so I brought them out for people to enjoy fresh and happy meals. I won’t make a profit this time, and that’s okay.” His vegetables were more mature and larger than what most shoppers would typically pick, as many prefer tender greens. But I was moved by his kindness and sincerity and chose two baskets. While he packed the vegetables for me, others began approaching his stall. I found myself helping to promote his vegetables. Hearing my efforts, he gave me a gentle smile. Soon, 90% of his vegetables were sold—not because I’m good at marketing but because his prices were simply reasonable. When I got home, I blanched one of the greens—bok choy. Although large, it was surprisingly tender and easy to chew. So, this time, I specifically went back to find the elderly vendor. There he was, with the same demeanor, same attire, same cart, and same quiet presence. Once again, I couldn’t help but encourage other customers to buy from him. Unexpectedly, a middle-aged woman suddenly shoved him, complaining that he was blocking her customers. I was standing in front of him and looked back—there was no one behind me. So, who exactly were her “customers”? Without arguing, the vendor allowed her to push his cart aside. I quickly stepped aside, avoiding a collision as she maneuvered her own cart past me, muttering about how she couldn’t manage to position herself in front of her customers. I interpreted her mutterings as her frustration with not attracting customers. I looked at her goods, which turned out to be pain-relief ointment—definitely not something on my shopping list. Back home, the elderly vendor’s figure lingered in my mind. I silently sent a blessing to him, hoping the universe would grant him health, harmony, fortune, and boundless peace. The Tarot card blessing from the universe for the vendor is Compassion. Isn’t it marvelous how the universe, our higher selves, energy, the magnetic field, and Tarot align in such a magical way? Out of 88 cards, the one drawn resonated perfectly with his spirit. The universe acknowledges the vendor’s compassion and serenity as qualities to be admired. In this world, living with compassion, embracing humility, and showing understanding and tolerance for others embody a warm power—a power of compassionate serenity, the power of love. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master 老林，從腦海裡突然閃過你的身影，再想到當初你坐在我對面的情景，我深深為自己年輕時傲嬌的樣子感到羞愧，且需要跟你道歉，須打自我的內心跟你好好地說聲對不起。 那時的你，正值人生低谷，主管是你以前的同學，所以你才有機會進到公司。這是主管跟我說的，那時的我並沒有太多的判斷能力，可我確實也因為這樣而開始用有色眼光看待你。 我們那時的主管對我很不好，是一位天蠍女，對待她不喜歡的人會用言語辱罵，用情緒恐嚇。我是單位裡除她以外的唯一女生，所以很快就發現她跟其他同事說話態度和對待我時是天壤地別。 那時的我才25歲。 即使我想用力反抗也無用，因多國股東結構下，同事們各有各的靠山和派系，唯有我沒有。 你幸福多了，不會做的事情，做不來的事情，有你同學指點一二。 而我做對的事情，她會大聲喝罵我說她要的不是結果，她不爽我沒照她交代的過程去做；但我是照她交代的去做啊，但我又可能為每次的工作交代進行錄音當證據呢。 於是，她欺負我，我就不爽你。 她對我兇，我就不理你。 很多次，你想安慰我，但你說你嘴拙，怕說了我更生氣，你也一直勸我服個軟，就雨過天晴。 人，就是這樣，年輕時，筋Q軟，但腰挺很直，脾氣很硬。有了年紀後，筋變硬，懂得彎腰的重要性，但卻彎不下去了。 總之，離開那裡，我告訴自己，絕對要成為更厲害的自己。 我將那時認識的你們所有全都拋卻忘記，唯有欺壓我的人牢記在心裡。 我的2/3人生過去了，有沒有成為更厲害的自己沒人在意。但，我想起了你，想到了那個傲嬌的自己。但我卻忘記了你的名，只記得你的姓氏。 我在心裡跟你致歉，跟你道歉，說對不起，我請宇宙送給你祝福，也請宇宙傳達我的歉意至你的心中，也許你會突然想到我，閃過我的臉孔，那就是你接收到我的心意。 宇宙送的祝福塔羅牌是：【大師 Master】。 記得你的手藝超好，你曾煮過好幾次美食帶來公司分享，你愛你的家人，疼惜你的老婆，這樣的你，現在應是幸福的，你感恩你的同學給你機會，你嘗過低谷的苦澀，這樣的你，從那之後應都是知足快樂的。 我想，在你擅長且喜歡的領域，你應該早已成為一方大師，很多人跟你學習著。 祝福你 ~ 真心誠意！ 希望現在的你，雖然年紀有點老，可擁有專業好手藝的你，跟家人和樂生活，與老婆幸福過日子。 2024.11.28 To Mr. Lin: The Master Mr. Lin, Your image suddenly flashed across my mind, and I recalled the scene of you sitting across from me. I feel deeply ashamed of my arrogant attitude in my younger years and feel the need to sincerely apologize to you from the bottom of my heart. At that time, you were at a low point in your life. Your supervisor was a former classmate, which was why you got the opportunity to join the company. The supervisor shared this with me, and back then, my ability to judge was limited. Unfortunately, I allowed this information to color my perception of you. Our supervisor wasn’t kind to me. She was a Scorpio woman who used verbal insults and emotional intimidation against those she didn’t like. I was the only woman in the department besides her and quickly noticed the stark difference in how she treated me compared to others. I was only 25 at the time. Even though I wanted to resist, it was futile. In a company with a multinational shareholder structure, each colleague had their own allies and factions—except me. You, on the other hand, were more fortunate. When you struggled with tasks, your classmate guided you. Meanwhile, when I completed tasks correctly, I’d still get scolded. She would yell, claiming that while the results were right, she was displeased because I hadn’t followed her specified process. But I had followed her instructions! Yet I couldn’t possibly record every work directive as evidence. Thus, her bullying of me made me resent you. Her hostility toward me made me ignore you. Many times, you tried to comfort me, but you admitted you weren’t good with words and worried that speaking up might make me angrier. You often advised me to soften my stance, saying that things would get better if I let it go. That’s how people are. When we’re young, we’re flexible but stubborn, standing tall and proud with hardened tempers. As we age, our bodies stiffen, but we learn the importance of bending—only to find it harder to do so. In any case, after leaving that place, I told myself I must become a better version of myself. I let go of everyone I knew there, except for the ones who oppressed me—I kept them firmly in my memory. Two-thirds of my life has now passed. Whether or not I’ve become a better person, no one truly cares. But I thought of you and my arrogant younger self. I’ve even forgotten your first name, only remembering your surname. In my heart, I apologize to you, saying, “I’m sorry.” I ask the universe to send blessings your way and to convey my apology to your heart. Perhaps you’ll suddenly think of me and see my face flash before you—that will be my heartfelt message reaching you. The blessing sent by the universe through the Tarot card is: [The Master]. I remember your incredible skills. You cooked many delicious meals and shared them with the office. You loved your family and cherished your wife. Someone like you must be living a happy life now. You were grateful to your classmate for the opportunity and had experienced the bitterness of life’s lows. With that, I believe you have since lived a life of contentment and joy. I imagine that in the field you excel in and love, you’ve already become a master, with many learning from you. Wishing you all the best—sincerely and wholeheartedly! I hope that now, though older, you continue to enjoy a harmonious life with your family, happiness with your wife, and the fulfillment that comes from your exceptional skills. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0717 今日塔羅：誠信 Integrity

2024 0717 今日塔羅：誠信 Integrity 這幾日，與一位朋友討論著計劃和時間。 之前他曾允諾可等待我確定的日期。 這兩日與他確認與敲定日期時，他表示，希望可以提早。 我這邊卻有難度。 當初討論出來的日期就是我比較可以進行的時候。 現，他因自己的一些規畫，所以時間有點困難，希望我調整。 並非我不願意，真的是有困難，無法調整。 於是，他一咬牙說，既然當初說好是那一日，那就不變吧。 我謝謝他的體諒，也知道他是沒有辦法才會提出是否可調整的想法。 因我們都是重然諾的人。 我們一旦承諾了，不管經過多少時間，也許中間會有許多變數，甚至自己吃虧或者是會有其他的影響，可是，我們的承諾品質不會改變，承諾的內容不會改變，承諾的價值不會改變。 過去，我寧願讓人辜負我，我也重然諾。 結果就是被當猴子耍弄，被辜負，被欺壓，搞得自己像是個呆瓜般，受人嘲笑。 而，我們的良善不應該被欺負得。 我們的善良應該要發揮在值得的人身上，不然我們就是另類的”幫兇”，因我們默許他們的欺凌，而沒有反抗，沒有反擊。 於是，我再也不沉默。 我還是會做到我的誠信，我還是會遵守我的承諾，但，我也不再讓人隨意揮霍我的好，我的溫柔，我的關心呵護和我對朋友的愛。 今天是『誠信』的一天。 如果你遺忘很久了，請趕緊想起來。 如果你遺失很久了，請趕緊找回來。 如果你遺棄很久了，請趕緊撿回來。 我個人認為『誠信』是身為一個人的基礎。 沒有了誠信，管你位置有多高，管理權勢有多大，都是讓人在心底裡瞧不起。 況且，世事輪迴，世道有報。 若你不怕，跟天抗吧。 畢竟，這世間很多的道理，只要是君子，知悉了，不須人管自然自律；非君子者，知悉也好，不知也罷，不管天道地道與人道，他只有承認他自己的道。 面對這樣的人，我們不跟他爭論，不與他辯駁。 惡人，就讓老天收拾吧。 我們良善之人的誠信陽關道，建立在互諒、互持、互挺、互懂之上。 妥協，是因想求得共好，而非爭輸贏。 誠信，是內心裡正直的道路，是行走在現實社會中的自律標準。 誠信，是美德，非惡魔的謊言所能遮蔽的恆久之光芒。 誠信，是正直信念，是我們須捍衛的信念。 我，誠信，為自己，為家人，為朋友，為眾生，為萬物。 我，誠信，為遵從自己內在的光與聖道。 我，誠信，為遵從自己發願的善與行願。 我，誠信，為遵從世界美好的大同。 Tarot Reading for 2024-07-17: Integrity These past few days, I've been discussing plans and timing with a friend. He had previously promised to wait for me to confirm the date. When I checked and finalized the date with him these past two days, he expressed a desire to move the date up. However, it is difficult for me. The date we initially agreed upon was the one that worked best for me. Now, due to his own plans, he finds the date difficult and hopes I can adjust. It's not that I am unwilling, it’s just genuinely challenging and unfeasible for me to adjust. So, he gritted his teeth and said, "Since we originally agreed on that date, let's stick to it." I thanked him for his understanding, knowing that he wouldn't have asked for an adjustment if it wasn’t necessary. We both value keeping our promises. Once we make a commitment, no matter how much time passes, no matter the variables or personal sacrifices involved, our promise's quality, content, and value remain unchanged. In the past, I would rather be wronged than break my promises. The result was that I ended up being toyed with, betrayed, oppressed, and made a fool of, ridiculed by others. But our kindness should not be taken advantage of. Our kindness should be directed toward those who deserve it; otherwise, we become accomplices by tolerating their bullying without resistance or retaliation. Therefore, I will no longer remain silent. I will maintain my integrity and keep my promises, but I will no longer allow others to squander my kindness, my gentleness, my care, and my love for friends. Today is a day of 'Integrity.' If you have forgotten it for a long time, please remember it quickly. If you have lost it for a long time, please retrieve it quickly. If you have abandoned it for a long time, please pick it up quickly. Personally, I believe that 'Integrity' is the foundation of being human. Without integrity, no matter how high your position or how great your power, you will be despised in people's hearts. Moreover, the world follows cycles, and there are consequences for our actions. If you are not afraid, then challenge the heavens. After all, many truths in this world are self-evident to a gentleman, requiring no external enforcement for self-discipline; for those who are not gentlemen, it makes no difference whether they know or not. They will acknowledge only their own path, regardless of divine or human principles. In dealing with such people, we do not argue or dispute. Let heaven deal with the wicked. Our integrity as kind-hearted people is built on mutual understanding, support, and empathy. Compromise seeks common good, not victory or defeat. Integrity is the path of righteousness within our hearts, the standard of self-discipline in society. Integrity is a virtue, an everlasting light that cannot be obscured by the devil's lies. Integrity is a belief in righteousness that we must defend. I uphold integrity, for myself, for my family, for my friends, for all beings, and for all things. I uphold integrity to follow my inner light and holy path. I uphold integrity to follow the good I have vowed and the actions I have committed to. I uphold integrity to follow the ideal of a harmonious world. #DreamCatchTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Integrity

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment 給迫不及待，等不及約好的時間，提前到來的丹丹 ~ 年輕的妳，很有自己的想法與主張；妳，不迷惘，不慌張，妳只是想找一個人聽妳說，聽妳訴，聽到妳的心聲而已。 妳覺得，年輕，最大的本錢是時間、精神和體力。這點我非常認同的。所以妳想趁著年輕，多賺錢，不想花費太多時間和金錢在玩樂上面，這點，實在是讓我太佩服妳了。 想當年，在妳這樣花樣年華的年紀，與同事週六的約會和玩耍，可是我認為人生的重頭戲呢。 有著成熟思想的妳認為，年輕，腦子記憶力較好，反應較快，應該用來學習、累積與思考。 所以妳不太跟朋友外出，這就造成了今日的困擾，朋友們覺得妳不好搞，妳希望朋友能懂妳的渴望和企圖。 記得我當下跟妳說 ~ 『妳的生活，是妳的，朋友的生活，是朋友的。』 『每個人的背景條件不同，這是先天給的；每個人想要的生活不同，這是後天自己想要的。』 妳認同了這些話，可仍陷在感覺與朋友格格不入的氛圍裡。 然後我接著跟妳分享了自己的人生 ~ 我覺『年輕呀，正是適合努力往前衝的年紀呢。』 每個人想要衝去的方向不同而已。 我有朋友喜愛旅遊，可以把薪水、時間和心力都用在旅遊，樂此不疲；而我有點相反，我喜歡穩定，旅遊很美好，對我來說卻不會很常安排。 每個人對生活、對樂趣、對人生意義都有不一樣的看法與想要完成的人生使命。 不管是如何，都很好。 我也曾經遇到朋友認為我和他們其他人沒有話聊，聚會時，即使我只是坐在旁邊聽他們說，他們也覺我礙眼。於是，他們有些聚會沒有找我了。 當我知道時，有點難過，不過更多的是鬆了一口氣。 我知道這群朋友很好，所以我捨不得離開，但終究別人幫我做了這個分離的決定，我就順著這個勢，疏離淡去。 這就是所謂的〝道不同，不相為謀〞。 彼此之間說不到一塊，那就別勉強雙方了。 『會有那麼一群跟妳志同道合的人，在前方不遠處等著妳。』 『也許懂妳的，可以跟妳一起成長交流的朋友，在新世界，就等妳去找到。』 我記得我最後是這樣跟丹丹妳說的。 妳的笑有點沒有精神，因妳捨不得現在這群朋友。 這就是丹丹誤會我的意思了。 我總認為，朋友有很多種，也有很多不同階段還是層級。 不是分高低，不是分親疏蜜離。 我還有跟丹丹說這些話，不知道妳有記得嗎？ 『妳會知道有些朋友適合一起做甚麼，有些事情適合哪些朋友。』 『不是將朋友分種類，或分級，而是每位出現在我們身邊的朋友，他們對我們人生影響的事情 是不同的。』 我喜歡跟朋友相聚，因為跟朋友一起開懷大笑，讓我覺得生命很好，日子很好，人生很好，歲月靜好。 『我知道很多朋友只能陪伴自己一段時間，無法長久，無法一輩子。』 所以我總是珍惜〝當下〞、〝現在〞。 相聚時，專注，用心。 工作時，認真，奮鬥。 學習時，投入，努力。 人生由許多階段連接而成，生活由不同面向組合而成，日子是綜合的寶箱，而非單一口味的獨屬盒。 偶爾跟朋友出去玩玩，放鬆，也不錯。 大部分時間想要學習、累積，讓自己未來爬得更高，走得更遠，這志向，更好。 加油 ~ ！ 妳的人生調色由妳自己決定。 送給妳的塔羅祝福：【滿足 Fulfillment】。 來自宇宙的訊息，這是一張情感的塔羅牌，提醒丹丹，珍惜朋友的關心，她們可能是希望妳在努力的路途上，也可同時間享有友情的潤澤，家人的關心與照顧。當妳退一步去思考朋友的出發點時，妳就會察覺到妳身在充滿愛與關懷裡，心中是滿滿的幸福。 2024-08-25 Blessings to Dandan: Fulfillment To the eager Dandan who arrives early, unable to wait for the agreed-upon time~ As a young person, you have your own thoughts and opinions. You are not confused or flustered; you simply want someone to listen to you, to hear your stories, and to understand your innermost feelings. You believe that the greatest assets of youth are time, energy, and physical strength. I completely agree with this perspective. That's why you want to take advantage of your youth to earn more money and are reluctant to spend too much time and money on entertainment. I truly admire this about you. Back in the day, when I was your age, I considered outings and weekend gatherings with colleagues as the highlights of life. However, with your mature mindset, you believe that while young, with a sharper memory and quicker reflexes, you should focus on learning, accumulating knowledge, and reflecting on life. As a result, you don't go out much with friends, which has led to today's troubles—your friends find you difficult to connect with, while you wish they could understand your desires and ambitions. I remember telling you then: "Your life is yours, and your friends' lives are theirs." "Everyone has different circumstances, which are given by nature; everyone desires a different kind of life, which is what they strive for later." You agreed with these words but still felt out of sync with your friends. Then I shared my own life experiences with you: I believe that youth is the time to strive forward with all your might. Everyone just has different directions they want to pursue. I have friends who love traveling and can devote their salaries, time, and energy to it without getting tired. I'm somewhat the opposite; I prefer stability. Travel is wonderful, but I don't plan it often. Everyone has different perspectives on life, fun, and the meaning of life and different missions they want to accomplish. No matter what, it's all good. I've also had friends who felt they had nothing to talk about with me. Even if I just sat beside them, listening, they found me annoying. So, some of their gatherings didn't include me. When I found out, I was a bit sad but more relieved. I knew these friends were great, so I was reluctant to leave, but in the end, they made the decision for me to part ways, and I just went with the flow, gradually drifting apart. This is what they call "different paths, no mutual plans." If you can't see eye to eye, don't force either side. "There will be a group of like-minded people waiting for you not far ahead." "Perhaps friends who understand you, who can grow and exchange ideas with you, are waiting for you in a new world." I remember saying this to you at the end. Your smile seemed a bit spiritless because you were reluctant to let go of your current group of friends. That’s where you misunderstood me. I always believe there are many kinds of friends and different stages or levels. It's not about ranking higher or lower or being closer or more distant. Did you remember I also told you this? "You will know which friends are suitable for what activities, and what things are suitable for which friends." "It's not about categorizing or grading friends but recognizing that each friend who appears around us has a different impact on our lives." I enjoy gathering with friends because laughing heartily with them makes me feel life is good, the days are good, life is great, and the years are peaceful. "I know many friends can only accompany me for a while, not forever, not for a lifetime." So, I always cherish the "present" and the "now." When gathering, I focus and put my heart into it. When working, I am serious and strive hard. When learning, I dedicate myself and work diligently. Life is composed of many stages; living consists of different facets; the days are a comprehensive treasure chest, not a single-flavored exclusive box. Occasionally going out to play and relax with friends is also good. Spending most of your time learning and accumulating, aiming to climb higher and go further in the future, is an even better ambition. Keep it up~! The colors of your life are yours to choose. Here is a tarot blessing for you: Fulfillment. A message from the universe, this is a card of emotions, reminding you, Dandan, to cherish the care of your friends. They may wish for you to enjoy the nourishment of friendship and the care and support of family even while striving on your path. When you take a step back and consider your friends' perspectives, you'll realize you're surrounded by love and care, and your heart will be filled with happiness. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

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