2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity 即將成為新娘的霜霜 聽到妳滿是煩躁的心情，沒有了即將成為新娘的喜悅和幸福，有點替妳擔心。 妳說，剛跟父母吵了架，為了婚禮。 可，妳自己知道，父母的建議才是好的。 妳就是感到很煩，胸口很堵，很想大聲地發脾氣，可又找不到正當理由，所以就只能在討論婚禮的事情上，找大家的麻煩。 妳說，妳擔心著婚禮還沒舉行，大家的情感都吵散了。 我問了妳，當初答應結婚的決定是什麼？ 妳說，男友想結婚，雙方談了未來的一些事情，妳回家問妳爸媽的意思，家人也覺是結婚的好時機，所以妳也就答應。 我說，以為是因男友求婚浪漫，當下衝動Say了”Yes”。 妳說，妳自己是個理智的人，求婚感覺也沒多浪漫，且妳不喜歡很多人注視下的求婚，還好妳男友夠了解妳，沒有做這些安排，不然妳可能當場的反應會傷到很多人的心，情況會變得很尷尬。 我問，結婚，為何讓妳覺得很煩？是婚禮的瑣碎覺得厭煩？還是其他什麼？ 妳說，妳也不知道，就感覺結婚後，妳不能再成為妳，光是想到這點就覺煩躁不已。 我再深入地詢問，妳說，結了婚後，沒有了自由，像是被綁住，無法呼吸。 我微笑著跟妳回應說，我單身，沒有類似經驗的可跟妳分享。不過從家人、朋友、電視、小說裡，有記得一些事情可以分享。 聊到後來，妳說了一句話，我笑了出來。 妳說，妳知道了，妳陷入了煩躁的情緒裡，但沒有好好想過到底為什麼煩躁，所以好像問題很多，其實，現在冷靜想想，原本糾結的事情，有些，連”事”都稱不上，根本就不是問題。 最後我們的結論就是，溝通，跟現在的未婚夫，未來的老公溝通。 妳跟男友之間的愛很濃，妳擔心婚後吵架會把情感吵薄了，可忘了先思考你們會為什麼事情吵架？吵架之前，是否有什麼想法，就提出來先討論，互相了解呢。 最後，妳說，今晚可以好好睡覺了。 然後我們就結束了談話。 妳，感覺像是位女漢子，一但不糾結，就放下。這樣的個性，挺好。 送給妳祝福的塔羅牌：【負面性Negativity】。 來自宇宙的訊息是，提醒碧霜，遇到糾結的事情時，負面思緒和情緒會先慣性地湧現，這部分要注意。在發生這樣的情況時，適時地與相關的人進行討論、分享，有助於卡住的思緒或情緒。 預祝霜霜 新婚幸福 百年好合！ 2024-08-26 Blessings to Bishuang: Dear Bishuang, who is about to become a bride, Hearing your anxious feelings, lacking the joy and happiness of becoming a bride, I feel a bit worried for you. You mentioned that you just had an argument with your parents about the wedding. But you know that your parents' suggestions are well-intentioned. You just feel annoyed, like there's a weight on your chest, wanting to vent loudly but without a proper reason, so you end up taking it out on the wedding discussions. You said you're worried that even before the wedding happens, everyone's emotions will already be scattered by the arguments. I asked you, what was your initial reason for agreeing to get married? You said your boyfriend wanted to get married. Both of you talked about the future, you went home and asked your parents' opinion, and your family also thought it was a good time to get married, so you agreed. I thought it was because of a romantic proposal from your boyfriend, and in a moment of impulse, you said "Yes." You replied that you are a rational person and the proposal wasn’t particularly romantic. Moreover, you don’t like being the center of attention during a proposal. Fortunately, your boyfriend knows you well and didn’t plan anything like that; otherwise, your reaction might have hurt many feelings, making things awkward. I asked why getting married makes you feel so annoyed. Is it the trivialities of the wedding that you find frustrating, or something else? You said you don’t really know; you just feel that after getting married, you can no longer be yourself, and just thinking about it makes you feel uneasy. I probed a little deeper, and you said that after marriage, there would be no more freedom, like being tied down and unable to breathe. I smiled and responded that, as a single person, I don’t have similar experiences to share. However, from family, friends, TV, and novels, I do recall some things that might be worth sharing. As our conversation continued, you said something that made me laugh out loud. You mentioned that you realized you were caught up in your anxious emotions without really thinking about why, so it seemed like there were many problems. However, upon calmly reflecting, some of the things that were troubling you weren’t even real "issues" at all. Our final conclusion was communication—communicating with your current fiancé, your future husband. The love between you and your boyfriend is strong. You worry that arguments after marriage might dilute your feelings, but you forgot to consider what you might argue about. Before arguing, why not bring up your thoughts and discuss them openly to better understand each other? In the end, you said you could finally have a good night's sleep tonight. And then we ended our conversation. You seemed like a strong woman, someone who, once they let go, truly lets go. That’s a great personality to have. The Tarot card drawn for you: Negativity. The message from the universe is to remind you, Bishuang, that when you encounter tangled situations, negative thoughts and emotions might habitually surface first, and you should be mindful of this. When this happens, it is helpful to discuss and share with the relevant people to clear the blocked thoughts or emotions. Wishing you a happy marriage and a lifetime of love! #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

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成為你探險世界的指南!!! http://news.distractify.com/travel/travel-responsibly/ 1. 要清楚的瞭解,你旅遊的地方,同時也是別人的家. "接觸別人的文化,體驗別人的文化,學習別人的文化" 2. 行前的調查及規畫是非常重要的!!! thisworldrocks.comNo, you don’t have to be the guy who memorized the guidebook or the Wikipedia page for a particular destination, but it’s always a good idea to have a sense of where you’re going. Where do the locals like to spend their time? What is the culture like? Is tipping customary, or will it be offensive? You can never be wholly prepared for every experience abroad, but it’s nice for both parties if you make an effort to minimize unnecessarily awkward interactions with the local people. 3. Respect the culture thisworldrocks.comYou’ll learn a lot about where you’re headed from a little research, some of that may catch you pretty off-guard. Perhaps you never would have known that despite the fact that you’re headed to the hot desert, the conservative culture in that country views the wearing of shorts or skirts as inappropriate. 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Again, you’re supporting local families, you’ll gain privileged insight into what real life is like in that place, and you’ll make a whole family of friends without having to proactively introduce yourself to a bunch of strangers. 9. Try the food twisper.comOne of my biggest regrets as a traveler is flying halfway around the world, just to eat Burger King and drink Starbucks. For a long time I was too meek to eat at local restaurants, let alone get as far out of my comfort zone as would be required to eat at a foreign cart food. Then I realized everyone who lives there does, and for good reason. If you want a genuine taste of what another country has to offer, eat the local food where the rest of the locals are eating. 10. Breathe richculture.coOne of the biggest differences between a traveler and a tourist is the mission. As a tourist, you might attempt to greedily collect photos of major attractions like Pokemon, so that no one viewing the slideshow later knows that you only spent 10 minutes passing by the Louvre on your way to the Eiffel Tower. Trying to do and see it all means you’ll likely get to do very little, and see it all for only an instant. Breathing, slowing down, and tossing the itinerary frees you up to experience things as they come, and more fully immerse in the experience you want. Traveling can also be quite stressful, especially when all the plans go haywire, you miss a connection and are stranded somewhere even-more-foreign, or you do something catastrophic like lose your wallet (as I have done, twice). Breathe then, and remember that it’s all part of the adventure. 11. Be spontaneous ibankcoin.comWith your newfound itinerary-free time, do whatever sounds good in the moment, and change your mind often if you think something else would be better. 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Ditch the tour group, do it on your own travelalltogether.comWhile it is convenient to be with a group of other vacationers and have a manufactured experience delicately balanced for controlled culture shock, there’s a lot to be gained by tackling a new place on your own. Sure, the tour group method will help you see everything you may want to see and more, but on the merits of your research you could likely do the same or better, for much less money. Plus, you don’t have to wait for a herd of people to stop staring at a sculpture you don’t find particularly interesting, nor do you feel herded for wanting to spend an afternoon staring at a painting that your guide has only budgeted 15 minutes for. 14. Seek the road less traveled stepping2yourdreams.files.wordpress.comNot just the road less traveled by tour groups, but the road less traveled in general. You know those hole-in-the-wall places in your hometown? Or your favorite deserted lookout spot? There are those places literally all over the world, and they just take a little finding. 15. The best things in life are still free, no matter where you go lapausecafe.files.wordpress.comWalk the streets, hike the hills, play in the ocean. Visit a park, people watch, and just be generally stoked to be somewhere completely new. You probably paid a bunch to get there, now revel in all the things that don’t cost a dime. 16. Take public transit 3.bp.blogspot.comWhen in doubt, do as the locals do, and the locals take public transit. It’s way cheaper, you’ll probably meet some people along the way, it’ll help you get to know the place you’re in better, and you may even get a little lost. 17.Realize that your ideal vacation might not be where you expect to find it 3.bp.blogspot.comIt’s been ages since your last vacation, and you just want to get away. 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Travel frequenciesoflife.files.wordpress.comWhether you’re an aspiring traveler, a gung-ho tourist, a genuine globetrotter, or anything in between, one of the greatest things you can do for yourself is to just get out there. We live on an amazing planet full of wonders that none of us will ever see all of in our lifetimes, but that should in no way stop you from trying. 

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川普的兒子錄取美國精英名校紐約大學2024 News Collection Barron Trump, was spotted arriving at New York University 前總統唐納德·特朗普最小的孩子巴倫·特朗普週三被發現抵達紐約大學，開始他大學生活的第一天。這位身材高大的 18 歲年輕人肩上隨意挎著一個黑色 Swiss Gear 背包，踏入曼哈頓市中心的校園，周圍是特勤局特工。消息人士告訴《華盛頓郵報》，巴倫穿著白色 Polo 衫、黑色褲子和阿迪達斯瞪羚運動鞋，他的第一站是院長辦公室，然後被送往課堂。巴倫·川普 (Barron Trump) 抵達學校，這是他上大學的第一天。紐約郵報 Former President Donald Trump’s youngest child, Barron Trump, was spotted arriving at New York University Wednesday to kick off his first day of college life. The towering 18-year-old was flanked by Secret Service agents as he stepped onto the downtown Manhattan campus with a black Swiss Gear backpack casually slung over his shoulder. Dressed in a white polo, black pants and Adidas Gazelle sneakers, Barron’s first stop was the dean’s office before being whisked off to classes, sources told The Post. Barron Trump arriving at school for his first day of college. New York Post Barron Trump is attending NYU, leaving behind ‘child-dom,’ his father says The former president’s youngest child is back in New York City, which the elder Trump has described as “dirty” and “unsafe.” Barron Trump is ditching “child-dom” and starting college at New York University, his father said in an interview with The Daily Mail this week. “He’s a very smart guy, and he’ll be going to Stern Business School, which is a great school at NYU,” former President Donald Trump said in the interview published Wednesday. “He’s a very high-aptitude child, but he’s no longer a child. He’s just passed into something beyond child-dom.” The Republican presidential nominee said his son had considered attending the prestigious University of Pennsylvania’s Wharton School, from which Trump and three of his other children graduated, but ultimately decided on the Manhattan school. “It’s a very high-quality place,” Trump said of NYU, adding: “We liked NYU. I’ve known NYU for a long time.” Mystery Solved! Barron Trump Finally Spotted at College The guessing game is finally over. Barron Trump is going to New York University where he will attend the Stern Undergraduate College — which the Daily Beast first reported in April was his top choice. The 18-year-old Trump was seen Wednesday with a backpack, wearing a white polo shirt and Adidas sneakers, going to the NYU Dean’s office building with Secret Service agents who will protect him while his father runs for president, the New York Post reported. He becomes the first Trump to attend a New York City college since his father enrolled at Fordham University in the Bronx in 1964 before transferring two years later to the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania. Barron, a 6’7” teenager who largely steers clear of his father’s limelight, graduated in May from the Oxbridge Academy in Palm Beach, Florida. The elder Trump, who has refused to release his own academic transcripts and threatened any schools that do so, had boasted for months about his son’s college prospects and toyed with the press about where he would enroll. “He’s amazing actually in a certain way,” Trump, who is 6’3”, told Fox and Friends Weekend in June. “He’s tall, good-looking guy. He’s a very good student, and he’s applied to colleges and gets into everywhere he goes. He’s very sought-after from the standpoint he’s a very smart guy. He’s a very tall guy and he’s a great kid. He’s cool. He’s pretty cool, I’ll tell you.” Famous NYU graduates include Lady Gaga, Angelina Jolie, Alec Baldwin, Billy Crystal, Martin Scorsese and Rudy Giuliani. 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2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space

2024 0611 今日塔羅：時空 Time Space 端午連假總共三天，第一天，忙著跟朋友相約聊天。 第二天，忙著趕功課進度，整理電腦資料，清潔家裡。 第三天，睽違很久的睡到自然醒，中午跟家人吃飯相聚。 快樂時光好快就結束了。 接下來規律的學習日子也不錯。 今天哥哥說，他覺得我現在的生活模式挺好的。 有新知的學習，有與他人交流交際，有和朋友相約，有和家人相聚，有時間和心力照顧好自己。 我當下忘了回應他，我也很喜歡現在的生活和現在的自己。 慎終追遠，在端午節日是我們文化上的祭祀。 昨晚，不小心按到了平板，畫面跳出來2019年與老爸對話的視窗畫面。 我愣住了好幾分鐘，眼睛都沒眨一下，直盯著平板。 往上滑看了對話的內容，我貼了一個餐廳的連結，跟爸爸說，打算帶他去那個地方走走。 爸爸回應了我揮揮手。 於是，昨晚我看到時，驚愣住，因我以為爸爸又再跟我揮揮手，打招呼。 老爸，很想您，只是沒再跟任何人提起。 我努力生活，就是希望能讓您放心，沒有罣礙。 我明白，很多人微笑的背後都有不同的感傷故事。 我也是。 確實，自己的感受，心情，自己受，受得住，過得去，那就好了。 『時空』 ~ 情感，穿越了時間，跨越了空間。 愛與在乎，始終都在，不曾停止，不曾消逝，不曾退去。 人的一言一行一決定，總在〝因果業力〞法則上加減乘除。 今日的善，他日的果。 昔日的業，今日的劫。 現在遇到的困境，碰到的困難，遭到的難過，我就會回想著過去，到底，哪裡做錯了？是什麼行為讓別人不開心了？是說錯了話？表錯了情？還是要如何才能討人喜歡呢？ 多數時候是沒有獲得答案的。 是有多擔心害怕不被喜歡？ 有的時候就是需要回到過去，探討、了解，才能知道原因。 時空，就是這樣吸引人去回想過去。 畢竟，我們已經花費人生大部分的時間在想像未來，計畫未來了。 在時空裡，我們能夠有計畫性地規劃著許多事情，有人覺得這就是預言，其實這只是多份心去注意、觀察、思考，也就有了洞悉、卓見及計畫。 檢視過去，洗淨廢棄，在這時空的日子裡。 內觀現在，審度現在，在這時空的日子裡。 想像未來，計畫未來，在這時空的日子裡。 跨越時空的想著、念著、愛著。 願一切安好。 願事事順利。 願日日如意。 願希望實現。 在這『時空』的日子裡，我總忍不住想許願，想著世界和平，想著家國安康，想著大家都平安。 June 11, 2024 Tarot of the Day: Time Space The Dragon Boat Festival holiday lasts for three days. On the first day, I was busy meeting up with friends and chatting. On the second day, I was busy catching up on homework, organizing computer files, and cleaning the house. On the third day, I finally slept in and woke up naturally after a long time, and then had lunch with my family. Happy times pass by so quickly. The regular days of learning ahead are also quite nice. Today, my brother said he thinks my current lifestyle is quite good. I am learning new things, socializing with others, meeting up with friends, gathering with family, and have time and energy to take care of myself. At that moment, I forgot to respond to him, but I also really like my current life and myself as I am now. Honoring ancestors during the Dragon Boat Festival is a part of our cultural rituals. Last night, I accidentally pressed my tablet, and the screen showed a conversation window with my dad from 2019. I was stunned for a few minutes, staring at the tablet without blinking. I scrolled up to see the conversation. I had sent a restaurant link to my dad, telling him I planned to take him there for a visit. Dad responded with a wave emoji. So, when I saw it last night, I was shocked because I thought my dad was waving at me again, saying hello. Dad, I miss you very much, but I haven’t mentioned it to anyone. I am working hard to live well, hoping to put your mind at ease and have no worries. I understand that many people have different sad stories behind their smiles. So do I. Indeed, as long as you can bear and get through your feelings and emotions, that's enough. "Time Space" ~ Emotions transcend time and space. Love and care are always there, never stopping, never fading, never retreating. Every word, action, and decision a person makes is always subject to the law of "cause and effect". Today's good deeds are tomorrow's rewards. Past deeds are today's consequences. When I encounter difficulties and sadness now, I reflect on the past. Where did I go wrong? What actions made others unhappy? Did I say the wrong thing? Did I express the wrong emotions? How can I please others? Most of the time, there are no answers. How much do I worry about not being liked? Sometimes, you need to go back to the past, explore and understand, to find the reason. Time Space attracts people to reminisce about the past. After all, we spend most of our lives imagining and planning for the future. In Time Space, we can plan many things with foresight. Some call it prophecy, but it's really just paying more attention, observing, and thinking, leading to insight, foresight, and planning. Reviewing the past, cleaning up waste, in these days of Time Space. Observing the present, assessing the present, in these days of Time Space. Imagining the future, planning for the future, in these days of Time Space. Thinking, remembering, and loving across time and space. May everything be well. May everything go smoothly. May every day be satisfying. May all hopes be realized. In these days of "Time Space", I can’t help but make wishes, thinking about world peace, family and national well-being, and everyone's safety. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #TimeSpace

2024 0620 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor

2024 0620 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor 昨白天搞砸了兩件事情，精神因前天的晚上，為了準備充裕點好面對昨晚塔羅面談，複習相關資料到凌晨兩點多，後又因太晚去睡覺而遲遲無法順利入睡，導致睡眠不足而恍惚。 第一件事，每天我會在第一聲鬧鐘醒來，起床準備早餐。 早餐準備很簡單兩步驟，按下咖啡機，按下電鍋蒸蛋和饅頭。 然後回去床上賴床一下。 結果昨早上，我忘記了。 想起來時趕緊跑進廚房，要出門時，發現饅頭的中間仍是冷凍狀態，當下沒想那麼多，將蛋放進去午餐袋後，就出門。 等紅綠燈的時候，肚子有點餓，想拿出雞蛋吃，發現只摸到熱呼呼的液狀物質。 看。 我的媽呀！沒有熟的蛋，破殼了，蛋黃流淌在袋子裡，又透過袋子網隙縫滴到車子椅墊上。 顧不了課程已開始進行，清潔、整理要先進行，否則下課時開車門，經過高溫曬過的蛋液，不臭也腥。 今天老師要搭乘火車回台北。 想說順路，載她一程。 到了車站，老師沒下車，繼續在車上跟我聊天。 我不知道車站前停車有科技執法的攝像機，等發現時，已不知道拍了多少照片，罰單會有幾張？罰款會有多少？ 我害怕，卻也無能為力。 自己沒有留心、留意，能怪誰。 晚上要進行面談考試了。 資料好多，頭好痛，肚子好餓，怎麼辦？ 早餐的內容，晚上再吃一次，最是省時，省力，省心。 電鍋蒸著，人先睡著，資料放著，二十分鐘後，醒了，頭不痛了，有食物吃了，可專心讀書了。 今晚有點苛刻自己，無妨。 畢竟，經年累月的積累出來的胖，很久才這樣精簡的一頓，撼動不了已穩若磐石肥肉的。 完成一件拖延二年多的事情。 總算，完成。 原本的一手好牌，被我的漫不經心，拖延至情勢轉變了，不怪誰，但必須得責罰自己。 錯誤的代價，沒上心，等於沒學到，白搭，白費。 如何責罰呢？ 要求自己接下來的暑假，得兢兢業業地整理過往學習資料、資訊，不得延遲。 畢竟，現在是在耕種未來的福田。 現若偷懶，來日，哪來的收成。 今日塔羅牌是『創造者』。 多好啊。 生活的便利起始於創造。 創造的起因於人性。 怎樣的人性會讓人想創造，點子發想。 有時是為了討好他人。 有時是為了拯救世界。 很多時候是為了賺大錢。 更多時候是因為想偷懶。 不管是為了什麼，總之這些的因素轉化成了動力。 動力放在行動十足的人身上，那根本就是上緊發條，加足馬力的情景。 源源不絕的創造力，讓人羨慕不已。 創造力，加上科技產品的應用，生活便利，哄人開心，製造驚喜，製造更多時間得以享受生活，享受人生。 新創意，可落實，會帶來龐大財富。 想法很多，是好事。 想法太多，無法落實，是恐怖的落差，會讓人焦躁，心煩。 有想法，要整理，要釐清，要評估自身能力，要評估輕重緩急，要計畫，要落實。 思慮太多，腦瓜子受不了，會抗議。 若依然沒調整作法，腦袋小宇宙大爆炸，那就糟糕了。 所以，別貪心，別著急，別心慌。 心急吃不了熱豆腐，急躁無法品味細雕慢啄的精緻。 檢視一下。 有時汰換老舊設備，更新老派思維，調整老式觀點，也許就茅塞頓開，發現有時候，想太多了，不知不覺中思緒早就扭歪了卻不自知。 梳理思緒，有助於將創造力發揮價值，並創造價值。 2024-06-20 Today's Tarot: The Inventor Yesterday, I messed up two things. My mind was hazy due to staying up until 2 AM the night before to prepare for last night's tarot reading. I couldn't fall asleep easily, resulting in a lack of sleep and a state of confusion. The first incident happened in the morning. I usually wake up to the first alarm and prepare breakfast. The process is simple: press the coffee machine button, and then the electric cooker button to steam the eggs and buns. Then, I go back to bed for a while. However, I forgot yesterday morning. When I remembered, I rushed to the kitchen, only to find the buns still partially frozen. Without thinking much, I put the eggs into my lunch bag and left the house. While waiting at a traffic light, feeling hungry, I reached for an egg only to find a warm, liquid substance. Oh no! The eggs weren't cooked and had cracked, with the yolk leaking into the bag and dripping onto the car seat. I had to clean up immediately before attending my class, otherwise, the egg liquid would become unbearable under the sun by the time class ended. Today, my teacher is taking the train back to Taipei. I offered her a ride to the station. At the station, she continued chatting with me in the car. Unbeknownst to me, there were surveillance cameras enforcing parking regulations. By the time I noticed, I didn't know how many photos had been taken or how many fines I would receive. I felt helpless and scared, but it was my own negligence. In the evening, I had an interview exam. With so much material to review, my head hurt and I was starving. The simplest solution was to have the same breakfast again for dinner. I set the electric cooker and took a nap. Twenty minutes later, I woke up feeling better, with food ready and a clearer head for studying. I was hard on myself, but it was necessary. After all, years of accumulated weight can't be shed by a single meal. I finally completed a task that had been delayed for over two years. It was my own lack of diligence that allowed the situation to change, and I must hold myself accountable. The cost of a mistake is not learning from it, which is a waste. To penalize myself, I committed to diligently organizing past study materials and information over the summer, with no delays. After all, the present is the time to cultivate future blessings. Slacking off now means no harvest later. Today's tarot card is 'The Inventor.' How wonderful. The convenience of life begins with creation, which is rooted in human nature. Different motivations drive invention—sometimes to please others, sometimes to save the world, often to make money, and more frequently out of laziness. Whatever the reason, these factors convert into motivation. When such motivation drives a proactive person, it's like winding up a clockwork mechanism and boosting its power. Endless creativity is enviable. Combined with the application of technological products, it brings convenience, joy, surprises, and more time to enjoy life. New ideas, if implemented, can bring great wealth. Having many ideas is a good thing. However, too many unimplemented ideas can lead to anxiety and frustration. It's important to organize, clarify, assess one's abilities, prioritize, plan, and execute ideas. Overthinking can overwhelm the brain, leading to protests. If not adjusted, it might result in a catastrophic mental explosion. Therefore, don't be greedy, anxious, or panic. Haste makes waste, and impatience can't savor the finesse of delicate work. Sometimes, replacing outdated equipment, updating old thoughts, and adjusting old perspectives can provide clarity. Often, overthinking leads to distorted thoughts without us realizing it. Organizing thoughts helps maximize creativity and create value. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Inventor

2024 0516今日塔羅：月亮 Moon

2024 0516今日塔羅：月亮 Moon 每日累積的學習，我已較不慌張，也慢慢進入狀況。 雖然跟不上的時候居多，再多花些時間，也可已有明顯進展。 自己可掌控的感覺，慢慢地回到生活裡，很好。 這起頭得一個多月來，從陌生到有點適應的過渡期，不要輕易遺忘。 在這段不輕言放棄的日子裡，一堂一打擊，一天一失落，一堂一進步，一日一讚賞，堂堂、天天、日日、步步都是妙不可言的好時光。 若沒有好同學們的協助與鼓勵，恐被驚嚇幾天後就會萌生退意，或者是，即使繼續學習，可不會像今日這般享受著學習的過程，享受著累積經驗的過程，享受著倉皇失措，不知該如何是好的窘況，還成為我與同學們之間共同的記憶笑點。 我，情感豐沛。 我，敏感察覺。 每天都是我的月亮日，而農曆初一十五對我情緒的影響更是猛烈。 今天我們大家的塔羅牌是『月亮』。 而今天是農曆初九。 算是月兒半熟時，不是月缺，也非月圓。 『月亮』這張塔羅牌 ~ 女人當道日。 聽女人的話，鴻運當頭似榮錦。 讓女人說了算，低谷盡頭似退休。 女人當家，鬍鬚讓柳眉，日日逍遙似神仙。 今天，要相信你的直覺。 活躍得靈感，要記得緊緊抓牢。 敏銳的感知力，讓你有點疲於應付，但只要學會淨化，你就是勇者一枚。 月亮是週期的代表。 陰晴圓缺，既是潮汐漲退，也是情緒高漲與疏離。 有時，有人，莫名的冷淡，無關是非對錯，是月亮啊。 緣分，不分善孽，皆感覺是宿命的牽引，避不開，逃不了。 是真愛，是無法自拔的依戀。 是迷戀，是無法清醒的想像。 真實，需要靠智慧判斷。 《月亮惹得禍》 「我承認都是月亮惹的禍，那樣的夜色太美你太溫柔， 才會在剎那之間只想和你一起到白頭。 我承認都是誓言惹的禍，偏偏似糖如蜜說來最動人， 再怎麼心如鋼鐵也成繞指柔。」 都是月亮的錯，暈黃的朦朧太美讓人感到迷惑。 都是月亮的錯，月弦如勾太動人讓人感到衝動。 浪漫得無可救藥，期盼牽手到白頭。 在月亮的日子裡，夢幻是主調，理智、邏輯無法成為特效藥。 走錯了路，嚐到了人生的苦，才發現失控是瘋魔，自以為是成了無可救藥。 在掌控範圍裡瘋狂。 在理性殿堂裡抓狂。 這樣有界限的毀壞，是可承受的傷。 反覆無常，時而敏感，時而冷淡，若即若離，是人際之間最跨不過的坎。 今天，心情是陰天，可能常會有一點小感傷，但無妨。 若日日是豔陽，苗兒枯死，汗淌淌，腦沉沉，想跳進水裡泡個涼。 若感傷，淚未先留，已曬乾，臉頰像沙灘，淚水已成沙。 說到底，今天，月亮，就是廢話多一耙。 沒力了，散場，待明日再繼續談。 Tarot of the Day for 2024-05-16: The Moon The cumulative learning each day has made me less anxious, and I am gradually getting the hang of things. Although I often fall behind, spending a little more time has led to noticeable progress. The sense of being in control is slowly returning to my life, which is great. Over this past month or so, transitioning from unfamiliarity to a bit of adaptation should not be easily forgotten. During these days of not giving up, each lesson and each setback, each day and each disappointment, each lesson and each progress, each day and each praise, every class, every day, every step is a wonderful time. Without the assistance and encouragement of good classmates, I might have considered quitting after a few days of fright. Even if I continued learning, it wouldn’t be as enjoyable as it is now, enjoying the process of learning, the process of accumulating experience, and even enjoying the panic and confusion, which have become shared memories and jokes among classmates and me. I am emotionally rich. I am keenly perceptive. Every day is my moon day, and the lunar phases on the 1st and 15th of the lunar month have a strong impact on my emotions. Today's Tarot card for all of us is "The Moon." And today is the 9th day of the lunar month. It's a time when the moon is halfway through its cycle, neither new nor full. The Moon Tarot Card ~ A day for women to take the lead. Listening to women brings great fortune. Letting women take charge makes even the lowest points feel like a restful retirement. With women in charge, beards bow to eyebrows, and every day is a carefree delight. Today, trust your intuition. Hold tightly to your lively inspirations. Your acute sensitivity may be tiring, but if you learn to purify it, you are truly brave. The Moon represents cycles. Waxing and waning, it mirrors the ebb and flow of tides, as well as the peaks and valleys of emotions. Sometimes, someone might be inexplicably cold; it’s not about right or wrong, it’s the Moon’s influence. Fate does not distinguish between good and bad; it feels like a predestined pull, unavoidable and inescapable. True love is an irresistible attachment. Infatuation is an unbreakable illusion. Reality requires wisdom to discern. "The Trouble Caused by the Moon" "I admit it’s all the Moon’s fault, the beauty of the night and your tenderness, Making me want to grow old with you in an instant. I admit it’s all the promises’ fault, sweet as sugar, most touching, Even a heart of steel would become soft and pliable." It’s all the Moon’s fault, the hazy beauty is too enchanting, causing confusion. It’s all the Moon’s fault, the crescent is too captivating, causing impulsiveness. Hopelessly romantic, longing to hold hands until old age. In the days of the Moon, fantasy is the main theme, and reason and logic cannot be the cure. Taking the wrong path, tasting the bitterness of life, then realizing losing control is madness, and thinking oneself incurable. Being crazy within control. Being frantic in the hall of reason. This kind of limited destruction is a bearable wound. Inconsistent, sometimes sensitive, sometimes cold, close yet distant, this is the hardest hurdle in human relationships. Today, the mood is overcast, there may be some minor sadness, but it's okay. If every day were sunny, the seedlings would wither, sweat would pour, the brain would feel heavy, and you’d want to jump into water to cool off. If sad, before tears fall, they have dried, cheeks like a sandy beach, tears turned to sand. In the end, today, the Moon means more nonsense. I’m out of energy, show’s over, we’ll talk again tomorrow. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Moon

2024 0617 今日塔羅：狂喜 Ecstasy

2024 0617 今日塔羅：狂喜 Ecstasy 週末週日有沒有玩樂、休息還是跟朋友、家人聚聚。 我連著兩天的學習，被考試、與朋友交流、聽講座、整理好久沒花時間整理的e-mail，這兩天的時光，超級精實，內容堅硬得可以打鐵了。 雖累，但歡喜。 雖乏，但滿足。 今日的塔羅牌是『狂喜』。 真是讓人期待會有什麼事情，讓我們的心情感到喜悅和開心，讓我們的情感覺得甜美和喜樂。 上週六，考試考得很差，不過，沒糾結，我志向沒啥志氣，只求過關，進階到下一階段。 考取最高分的兩位是我朋友們，看到我翹嘟嘟的表情，請我喝抹茶拿鐵，被這樣的關心和接住，很開心，很暖。 學習志工的課程內容中，被提醒著”傾聽”是最好的陪伴，在朋友群裡，關心、接住，再來一場談笑鬧場，外加一頓美食，當下真的會感覺人生一些關卡，也沒那麼嚴肅，沒那麼複雜。 常回頭看過往，不是還在糾結中，不過確實是心裡還沒放下，所以即使往前走，依然常常回首。 停留在心中的未必是那已不重要的人，有的時候是疙瘩，是傷痕，是自己想到都很想嘲弄嗤笑一聲的傻樣。 沒啥需要特別留意，再過個幾年，連笑談都不再記起這樁事了。 “當下”，是最美的一瞬間。 我蠻期待狂喜發生的當下，我會是什麼反應。 大叫，不太容易出現在我個人的反應項目裡。 呆愣，倒是很有可能，我的情緒反應線有時會非常延長，長到都已經散場了，我才反應過來，才想著怎剛剛沒有太好的回應。 『狂喜』 ~ 是享受著情感的甜美與喜悅。 是種輕飄飄飛上雲端的感受。 是想好好珍惜和讚嘆老天與世界。 是想最愛的人，最想念的人也能看到、分享到得願所償的感動。 宇宙說，當在職場上，能帶給他人喜樂的你，也能將這份才華創造出自己所想要的願景。 我曾經經歷過這樣的狂喜和喜樂，即使在收穫前，歷經許多的辛苦和漫長時間的經營。 豐沛且流動的情感，支持著我們勇敢前進，與人分享生命的美好，希望旁人也能夠擁有對於生命狂喜的感動與經歷。 我想，當心中有這樣的想法時，喜悅的種子已栽種在很多人的心中，即使他們不知道，你也不可能知道，這不會影響宇宙的運行和喜樂事情的發生。 享受吧！這被賜予的恩典。 Tarot for Today: Ecstasy (June 17, 2024) Did you spend the weekend having fun, relaxing, or gathering with friends and family? I spent both days studying, taking exams, chatting with friends, attending lectures, and sorting through long-neglected emails. These past two days have been incredibly productive and intense, almost as if the tasks were as hard as forging iron. Despite the exhaustion, there's a sense of joy. Though tired, I am satisfied. Today's tarot card is 'Ecstasy.' It's exciting to anticipate what might bring joy and happiness to our hearts, what might make our emotions feel sweet and delighted. Last Saturday, my exam didn't go well. But I'm not dwelling on it—my aim is not very ambitious; I just want to pass and move on to the next stage. The two highest scorers were my friends. Seeing my pouty face, they treated me to a matcha latte. Their care and support made me feel warm and happy. In the volunteer training course, I was reminded that "listening" is the best form of companionship. Among friends, showing concern, being there for each other, having a good laugh, and sharing a meal can make life's challenges seem less serious and complicated. I often look back at the past, not because I'm still tangled up in it, but because I haven't fully let go. Even as I move forward, I frequently glance back. What lingers in my heart isn't necessarily about those who are no longer important, but sometimes it's about unresolved issues, scars, or moments of foolishness that I now find laughable. There's no need to dwell on them. In a few years, even these memories might fade away. "The present moment" is the most beautiful instance. I'm quite curious about how I'll react when ecstasy occurs. Screaming isn't usually part of my reaction repertoire. Being stunned is more likely—I sometimes take so long to react that I only realize what's happened after the event has passed, wondering why I didn't respond better at the time. 'Ecstasy'~ It's about savoring the sweetness and joy of emotions. It's a feeling of floating up to the clouds. It's about cherishing and marveling at the universe and the world. It's wishing that the ones you love and miss can also see and share the joy of fulfilling dreams. The universe says that when you can bring joy to others in the workplace, you can also use this talent to create the vision you desire. I've experienced such ecstasy and joy before, even though it came after enduring a lot of hardship and a long period of effort. Abundant and flowing emotions support us to move forward bravely, sharing the beauty of life with others. I hope others can also experience the ecstasy and joy of life. I believe that when we have such thoughts in our hearts, the seeds of joy are already planted in many people's hearts, even if they don't know it, and you can't possibly know either. This won't affect the workings of the universe or the occurrence of joyful events. Enjoy this bestowed grace! #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Ecstasy

Alyson’s 4/13 Tarot：慈悲 Compassion (15-57)

Alyson’s 4/13 Tarot：慈悲 Compassion (15-57) 問題：我4/12的未來日記主題 抽牌：慈悲 Compassion 今天要聊的是「慈悲」這張塔羅牌。 且主題是「死亡」裡的慈悲。 「死亡」這張牌並不是厄運的訊息，也不是大難來臨前的警告。 這張塔羅牌是在說，是時候要將過去老舊的匠氣丟棄掉。 何謂”過去”，想當然爾，就是說不是現在，更不用考量會與未來有關。 已踏上新的路程，選擇新的生活，過去的一些習慣，思維，還有技能，有可能都已成沉痾而不自知，卻還當寶貝珍惜著。 該醒醒囉！！ https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/146479027 「死亡」這張塔羅牌，我覺得還有大刀闊斧的意思，該斷得趕緊斷，該換得趕快換，該捨得的，就別再捨不得。 沒有將累贅放掉，卸掉，要如何前進。 沒有卸掉的，無用的舊包裹，只會拖住前進的腳程。 猶豫，從來就都不是個好態度。 趁早，還有趕上的機會，趕緊醒醒吧！ 我參加了完全不懂，沒接觸過的課程訓練。 每天都很吃力，我樂此不疲。 這是我在經歷我的「死亡」階段。 今天凌晨告知大家今日的集體塔羅牌是「大師」。 那時我是想不通的，現在我是沒有太多機會跟別人接觸的，哪有什麼時候可分享經驗呢。 結果事情的真相很讓我意外，也讓人開心。 原來，今天沒有成為「大師」的我，是那個享受被「大師」指導的學習者。 這是豐盈的果實。 是過往的善意積累的回饋。 這次學習的課程，我一直都很緊張，尤其是今天的電腦平面插畫學習，我一直用不好，老是找不到老師剛剛才講解過的樞紐，且電腦還因我過於急躁猛按滑鼠，直接當機，我原本就已經跟不上腳步了，現在被自己搞成直接休息，只能傻眼瞪著電腦螢幕。 經過觀察和注意，今天，我應是那個班級舉手跟老師求救最多次的學生了。 實在是詢問太多次了，後來我不好意思再請教老師了。 於是，轉過頭，請教坐在後面的同學。 哇！是一個年輕，清秀的男孩子。 前幾天的下課時間，他都是趴在桌上休息，都沒機會看他長的模樣呢。 我用誠懇的眼光請教著。 年輕人走到我位置幫我看電腦螢幕，然後告訴我問題點。 我第一次的電腦插畫，畫得真的是不好看，可是這位年輕人，很親切，很友善，很有愛心。 他很真誠地同意了我所說的，我的畫，真的有點奇怪。 然後鼓勵我，多加練習，會越來越好。 直到今天下課時，我問了後面同學好多次。 甚至在有一點點小小進步時，很開心地趕快轉頭跟他說。 很可愛的年輕人，竟然握起拳頭跟我說，太棒了！做得好！ 然後為我鼓掌，替我開心。 這孩子，真的是很溫柔呀。 我真摯回應說，現在的年輕孩子都像你這樣，說話很懂得鼓勵人，且好正向呀！ 他害羞得微笑了。 今天，我想應該不只是今天，應該說從今天開始，我像是擁有自己的小老師那般有人可以依賴。 今天晚上要喝杯啤酒，讓自己心情放鬆一下，也慶祝這週學習有點進步的成果，還有日後有人可以幫忙的幸福。開心呀！ 宇宙呀！ 塔羅呀！ 不僅知道會發生甚麼事情，甚至連心情要如何轉折都知道。 「未來日記」的塔羅紀錄，我都是晚上要寫當天發生的事情時才去翻看之前插牌記錄的筆記。 關於「未來日記」的當天早上或前一天晚上（若我有記得要先描繪日記想要如何寫的這件事情），這時我都是在腦海裡思考當天的預計行程，但只有寫在行事曆上面的事情才會去事先想像，學習、上課，這類事情，在我的觀念裡是日常，比較不會特別去思考和設想。 昨天發生讓人不愉快的事情，今天也就會有後續事情發展。 放過自己，是當陷入不開心的事情時要先做好的事情。 請記得 ~ 先照顧好自己的需求與情緒，不是自私的行為。 我們得先自己有能力，得有好情緒，好態度和健康的身體，才有機會付出。 否則，反而造成家人和旁人的麻煩及負擔。 今天早上，昨天用粗魯態度對待我的人前來解釋，但並非道歉。 我只說，多提醒的話語是我和朋友間都會做出的關心。 她還想說明，但我不想再聽了。 我沒有忘記昨天她的惡質態度，可也直接表達昨日被她那樣無禮對待後的我，生氣和不舒服。 我沒打算原諒，也沒想要再繼續糾結這事情。 遠離，就好。 我沒有惡面相向，但也不想勉強自己說〝沒關係＂之類的話，反過來安慰對方。 她道歉，是她該做的。 接受與否，是我自己可以選擇的。 有時候，就是有人很討厭的會說，＂對方都道歉了，且是小事，幹嘛還抓著不放？＂ 這真的是奇怪的論點。 ＂道歉＂是萬能的免死金牌嗎？ 道歉，是做錯事情的人要回應給受害者的基本禮貌，但並非道德綁架的工具。 她並非跟我熟識的人，我為何需要承擔她的愚蠢行為和事後解釋呢。 我認為我沒有以其人之道還其人之深，已是我對她的「慈悲」。 且，我也不想委屈自己，因此我認為不接受她的解釋是我對自己的「慈悲」。 Alyson’s 4/13 Tarot: Compassion (15-57) Question: Theme of my journal entry on 4/12 Card drawn: Compassion Today's discussion is centered around the Tarot card "Compassion," within the theme of "Death." The "Death" card doesn't signal doom or warn of impending disaster. It suggests it's time to discard outdated attitudes. By "past," it means not the present, let alone the future. Having embarked on a new journey, choosing a new life, some old habits, thoughts, and skills may have become stagnant, yet still cherished. It's time to wake up! I interpret the "Death" card as a call to make bold changes, to cut ties where needed, to let go of what no longer serves us. Holding onto burdens only hinders progress. Hesitation has never been a good attitude. It's time to wake up while there's still a chance! I enrolled in a completely unfamiliar training course. Every day has been challenging, yet I find joy in it. This is my "death" phase. Early this morning, I shared with everyone that today's collective Tarot card is "Master." At the time, I couldn't grasp its relevance, considering I have limited interaction with others these days. But the truth turned out unexpectedly delightful. Today, I, who didn't become "The Hierophant," found myself enjoying being guided by one. It's a rich harvest, a reward for past kindness. Throughout this course, I've been anxious, especially during today's lesson on computer graphic design. I struggled to follow along, often unable to locate what the instructor just explained. Then, my impatience led to a computer crash. I was already falling behind, and now I was stuck, staring at a blank screen. Observing closely, I realized I was the student who raised their hand the most for help. Eventually, I felt too embarrassed to ask the teacher again. So, I turned to the student behind me. Wow! He was a young, handsome guy. In previous days, he always seemed tired during breaks, and I never really got a good look at him. I asked him earnestly for help. He came over, looked at my screen, and pointed out the issue. My first attempt at computer art wasn't great, but this young man was kind, friendly, and compassionate. He agreed my drawing looked a bit odd but encouraged me to practice more, assuring me I'd improve. By the end of today's class, I had asked the student behind me for help countless times. Even when I made a tiny bit of progress, I eagerly turned to him to share. He was adorable, fist-bumping me, saying, "Great job!" and applauding me, genuinely happy for my improvement. What a gentle soul. I replied sincerely that young people like him nowadays are so good at encouraging others and being positive. He smiled shyly. Today, and perhaps from now on, I feel like I have my own little teacher to rely on. Tonight, I'll have a beer to relax, celebrating the progress I've made this week and the happiness of having someone to help in the future. How joyful! Universe! Tarot! Not only do you know what will happen, but you also predict how emotions will shift. I usually review my Tarot notes in the evening when writing about the day's events for my "Future Diary." In the morning or the night before (if I remember to plan my diary entry), I think about the day's schedule, but I only imagine things already written in my calendar. Learning, attending classes—these are part of my routine, so I don't usually dwell on them. Unpleasant events from yesterday will likely have consequences today. Being kind to oneself is essential when feeling unhappy. Remember—taking care of your needs and emotions isn't selfish. We must be capable, emotionally stable, and healthy ourselves before helping others. Otherwise, we'll only burden our family and others. This morning, the person who treated me rudely yesterday came to explain, not apologize. I simply mentioned that reminders like hers are a form of concern I share with friends. She wanted to explain further, but I didn't want to hear it. I haven't forgotten her disrespectful behavior from yesterday, nor have I concealed my anger and discomfort from being treated that way. I don't intend to forgive or dwell on it further. Moving on is best. I won't pretend it's okay or force myself to comfort her. Apologizing is her obligation. Accepting it is my choice. Sometimes, people might say, "She apologized, and it's a minor issue, why hold onto it?" That's a strange argument. Is an apology a cure-all? Apologizing is basic courtesy from someone who's done wrong, not a tool for moral coercion. She isn't someone I know well, so why should I bear the burden of her foolish behavior and subsequent explanations? I believe not retaliating in kind is my "compassion" toward her. And I don't want to feel resentful, so rejecting her explanation is my "compassion" toward myself. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Compassion

Alyson’s 5/21 Tarot：魔術師 Magician (53-57)

Alyson’s 5/21 Tarot：魔術師 Magician (53-57) 問題：我5/20的未來日記主題 抽牌：魔術師 Magician 我今天的塔羅牌是『魔術師』，一位像是有魔法的神秘人物。 今天的電腦學習課程要交一份作業，可家裡並沒有買那昂貴的軟體系統，因此無法在家做功課。 還好，今天，老師有給予一些時間，讓我們可以一邊進行，有疑問還可以跟老師請教。畢竟作業主要是老師需要知道學員的學習狀況，而非把學生逼到瘋狂。 「會」，在這系列的學習課程是關鍵字，也是學習初衷的唯一途徑。 昨晚沒有睡太多，因忙碌和美日學習上課滿滿地一週，每天一大早就要出門。 累過頭了，也就難以入眠。 原本超怕今日上課猛打瞌睡，真實情況是沒有偷打瞌睡，精神反而還可以，真的是要好好照顧身體，今天身體很給面子，撐到最後半小時才開始精神恍惚。 作業已完成，交出去了。 課堂作業也快完成。 今天的學習告一段落。很是開心。 『魔術師』 ~ 宇宙賜與多才多藝的才能，且是已具足這些才能。 想想，我會的項目不少，專精是另一回事，但應是可打趴普通人等。 只是，這些才能沒能成無變現能力，於這個世代來說，比玩票性質更膚淺，比只是玩玩更不用心。 魔法magic，來自古字「magh」，力量的意思。 魔法師，可接收到宇宙的直覺指引，且迅速果決，力量來源於成為宇宙的通道，於是宇宙會以禮還禮。 魔術師擁有透過圖繪或文字把事情改面化的能力。 擁有溝通的天賦，且能將內心裡的爆發力發揮在每一次與人的流動中。 今天真的是太幸運了，是魔術師，好開心。 要讓自己常常成為魔術師，就是要學習，吸收，消化，內化，累積，與經驗。 今日的功課繳交和學習吸收狀況就像是魔術師那般，自然且熟悉地操作著電腦。能這樣自如地運用，這樣的學習進度和成果，我自己很喜歡，也有點小得意。 我可是原本一丁點都不會，沒接觸過也沒注意過呢。 這近一個半月的學習及練習，自己會運用一些了，給自己掌聲鼓勵。 開心。 Alyson’s 5/21 Tarot: The Magician (53-57) Question: The theme of my future diary for 5/20 Card Drawn: The Magician Today’s tarot card is 'The Magician', a mysterious figure who seems to possess magical powers. Today's computer learning course required us to submit an assignment. However, I don't have the expensive software system at home, so I couldn't do the homework there. Fortunately, the teacher provided some time today for us to work on it and ask questions if needed. After all, the purpose of the assignment is for the teacher to understand the students' learning progress, not to drive them crazy. "To know" is the keyword in this series of learning courses and the only path to the original intention of learning. I didn’t sleep much last night due to a busy week filled with daily classes. I have to leave early every morning. Being overtired made it hard to fall asleep. I was initially very worried that I would be dozing off during class today. Surprisingly, I didn’t nod off and felt quite alert. It’s crucial to take good care of the body, and today my body cooperated well, staying alert until the last half hour when I started feeling a bit dazed. The assignment is finished and submitted. The classroom work is nearly complete as well. Today’s learning session has come to an end, and I feel very happy. Magician ~ The universe bestows versatile talents, and these talents are already present within. Reflecting on this, I realize I possess numerous skills. Mastery is another matter, but I should be able to outshine the average person. However, these talents have not turned into productive abilities. I n this era, they are considered superficial and lack dedication beyond mere dabbling. Magic, derived from the ancient word "magh," means power. A magician can receive intuitive guidance from the universe and act swiftly and decisively. Their power comes from being a conduit for the universe, which reciprocates in kind. The Magician has the ability to transform situations through imagery or words. They possess the gift of communication and can channel their inner explosive energy in every interaction with others. Today, I am incredibly fortunate to have drawn the Magician card. It makes me very happy. To often become the Magician oneself requires continuous learning, absorbing, digesting, internalizing, accumulating, and gaining experience. Submitting today’s homework and absorbing the learning content felt as natural and familiar as a magician skillfully operating a computer. Being able to use it so effortlessly reflects a learning progress and outcome that I am quite proud of. Initially, I didn’t know anything, had no experience, and hadn’t paid any attention to it before. After a month and a half of learning and practice, I can now use some of the software. I give myself a round of applause for this achievement. Happy. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Magician

Alyson’s 4/18 Tarot：時空 Space (20-57)

Alyson’s 4/18 Tarot：時空 Space (20-57) 問題：我4/17的未來日記主題 夢中她今年剛離世的父親用著有點憂愁的眼神一直看著我同學。 我帶著同學和她及她的兩個孩子去海邊走走。 走在海灘礁石上，螃蟹在石縫中橫著走。 一邊叮嚀著小孩注意安全，我們兩人都沒說話，只是吹著海風，看著海。 白天的時光，我一直掛念著想詢問宇宙要傳達什麼訊息給我同學。 可，太忙了，沒有時間和機會。 倒是幫課程老師抽了塔羅牌。 她詢問是否要回去接手媽媽的企業。 抽到的是「時空」這張牌。 而這也是我今日的「未來日記」的副標。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/147025012 下課時，看著老師需要走近三十分鐘的路程道車站。 我將車子迴轉，開到她旁邊，跟她說”上車，我載妳一程，去哪？” 我想到最近好像很常有機會捎人載一程的緣分。 老師下車後，手機閃著光，臉書跳出來過去幾年的今天的回憶。 一瞬間，我愣住了。 一剎那，思緒還沒反應過來，淚先流下。 三年． 三年了。 爸爸離開，三年。 爸爸已離開，三年了。 姪子彈奏吉他，唱著送給他阿公的話。 我的淚，如雨下。 姪子的女朋友是爸爸離世後才認識的。 好多次姪子和女朋友聊天時，都會說”我阿公很喜歡 … 。””妳這些話，我阿公聽到會很開心 …。” 「時空」 ~ 過去、現在、未來。 有繼承，有傳承。 有想念，有盼望。 披著獻祭者人皮的「阿茲特克的春之神」 ~ 面對舊有因果業力，迎接著新生。 思緒超越時空，不侷限於現在。 過去和現在，思想與行為模式有著因果關係。 看著過去如何成就了現在，進而思考，未來的光景，是想要的嗎？ 若不想，調整一下，讓業力轉向。 若想，繼續努力，再多堅持一下。 今日享有的，有過往的拼命、計較與繼承。 未來希望擁有的，需倚仗現在的業力去實現。 「時空」這張塔羅牌，讓我現在更想家，更想念爸爸了。 Alyson’s 4/18 Tarot: Space (20-57) Question: My theme for 4/17's future journal Card drawn: Space This morning, I had a dream, a dream about a good classmate. In the dream, her recently departed father looked at my classmate with a somewhat sorrowful gaze. I took my classmate and her two children for a walk by the seaside. As we walked on the beach rocks, crabs scuttled between the crevices. While cautioning the children to stay safe, neither of us spoke; we simply enjoyed the sea breeze and watched the ocean. Throughout the day, I kept thinking about what message the universe might have for my classmate. But, I was too busy, and there wasn't any time or opportunity. Instead, I drew tarot cards for the course teacher. She asked if she should go back to take over her mother's business. The card drawn was "Space." And this was also the subtitle for today's entry in my "future journal." After class, I watched the teacher, who needed to walk about thirty minutes to the station. I turned my car around, drove up beside her, and said, "Hop in, I'll give you a ride. Where to?" I've noticed lately that there have been many opportunities to give someone a lift. After the teacher got off, my phone flashed, and Facebook popped up memories from the past few years. In an instant, I froze. In a moment, before my thoughts could catch up, tears flowed. Three years. It's been three years. Dad left, three years ago. Dad has been gone for three years. My nephew played the guitar and sang words he wanted to say to his grandpa. My tears fell like rain. Thinking about how nephew's girlfriend only met Dad after he passed away. Many times when my nephew and his girlfriend chat, she'd say, "My grandpa would have loved... " "Your words would have made my grandpa very happy..." "Space" ~ Past, present, future. Inheritance, legacy. Yearning, hope. Clad in the skin of a sacrificer, the "Aztec god of spring" ~ Facing old karmic forces, embracing new life. Thoughts transcend space and time, not confined to the present. The past and present, thoughts and behaviors, are causally related. Watching how the past has shaped the present, and then considering, is this the future we want? If not, adjust and redirect the karmic forces. If yes, keep striving, persevere a little longer. What we enjoy today is the result of past efforts, calculations, and inheritances. What we hope for in the future depends on the karmic forces we possess now. The "Space" tarot card makes me miss home and Dad even more now. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Space

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