2025單身即地獄猜我是紐約哪一個大學畢業Fordham University 2020

2025單身即地獄猜我是紐約哪一個大學畢業fordham university 

With a ram! A ram! A ram for victory! Except when it comes to winning an A from the NYC Health Inspector. or most sports. Fordham University 2020 Pizza is good, but love is it! Buffalo Chicken Wraps from the grill were the only delicious food on campus. No class on Wednesdays meant a definite trip to the Bronx Zoo. 清大工學院畢業，在學時修過工業會計、工程經濟、國際經貿法、精實生產與管理等商學院學分，對財務有基礎背景知識。在高科技創業與營運課程中，曾擔任四人團隊中CFO的角色，計畫商業模式與籌資計畫，模擬公司如何在五年內IPO，並實際跟多位創投公司做簡報經驗。畢業後到新加坡工作半年多，協助新加坡國立大學的研究中心的技術商品化，工作內容是商業獲利模式提案與評估行銷預算。在加入專案的過程中發現對財務會計的興趣，想要深入發展這塊領域。工業工程是了解一家公司如何生產運作，而會計是一家公司的營運結果數據，兩者息息相關。非常希望有在會計事務所工作的機會，未來職涯發展希望可以深入產業，規劃財務計畫。I majored in Industrial Engineering and Engineering Management (IEEM) in National Tsing Hua University (Hsintsu, Taiwan) during 2010-2014 and received my bachelor degree of the science and also finished the interdisciplinary program in innovation Design Engineering. After the college training, I went to Singapore to gain internship experience. As a research assistant now at the Connective Ubiquitous Technology for Embodiments (CUTE) Center in National Singapore University, I conduct user study and redesign of few projects.At Tsing Hua, my learning in Innovation Design Engineering was fruitful with high performance. In product design and development class, I find out that people have become more aware of healthy diet and food allergies nowadays. Therefore, our team aimed to develop utensils that could help analyzing our food and detect the substance. We conducted user studies and reconsidered how to make detectors incorporated into the utensils, such as posting the information to the internet platform to build the feedback system. Potential users could take food safer in their own hands by using our technology.In 2012, I receive the Scholarship for the Taiwan to China summer exchange, and went to Harbin Institute of Technology University. As an independent study, I recorded the customer behaviors and queuing behaviors in the supermarket. From this experience, I learned how the cultural and environmental factors affecting design. The experience affect me most is that I had been to food manufacturing factory in 2013 Lean Production class. I interviewed a machine operator; He had a finger cut off by a machine while using the faulty design. He told me how important the work safety and defensive design are. His words was curved in my mind, I realize that thorough user study and good product design can minimize the negative consequences in the working place.I accessed various companies, APPs development startup and factories to conducted field studies at my college years. I have found that many industries are still using traditional way to run the services when companies conduct market surveys by using telephone interviews and conventional questionnaires to analyze user behaviors. In the entrepreneurship course, I and my three friends try to run a startup company, GivtU. We tried to build an environment or a game which can test the customer behavior by using user friendly interaction, so the client doesn’t have to conduct time-consuming surveys. Furthermore, the decision-makers and designers can get more efficiency and accuracy customer behaviors and preference.To gain practical experience, I worked at CUTE Center at NUS since 2014 summer, I engaged in three programs for searching more about the Interactive Digital Media. I am conducting user study of few projects such as Crowd trails and Digital Taste. Digital Taste enable people to experience taste sensations digitally and arms to promote a healthier lifestyle by replacing unnecessary amount of condiments in our daily consumption. I designed the bottle prototype with function as a hydration. During our showcase at Singapore Art Science Museum, we conducted a larger user. We chose six fixed modes and combinations for testing the participants. From the overall user study results, we may conclude that the prototype is able to improve the drinking experience for a number of users. Applying VC in Singapore now, our challenge is how to customize people taste sensation and create new design for making the simulation more natural.“Not only do the thing right, but also do the right thing” goes one of my favorite sayings.Consequently, I sincerely look forward of the challenge to help fulfill my career plan.https://www.linkedin.com/in/annette-li-an-chiu/

質感生活 | 療癒放空系影集: 《Emily in Paris 艾蜜莉在巴黎》學到的人生哲理

“If you are lucky enough to have lived in Paris as a young man, then wherever you go for the rest of your life, it stays with you, for Paris is a moveable feast."- Hemingway,1950「 如果你夠幸運待過巴黎，它將永遠跟著你，因為巴黎是一席流動的饗宴。」- 海明威 這一個月來最受歡迎的影集非《艾蜜莉在巴黎》莫屬了。內有美麗活潑的女主角、隨處可見的帥哥、世界上最浪漫的城市、誇張幽默的劇情和最古老的刻板印象，一切的一切，都讓影集的成功看起來再合理不過。但，真的只是這樣嗎? - 我承認一開始只是覺得女主角穿的很時尚，男主角很帥氣勾人才打開Netflix開始看的XDD 不知道大家是什麼原因入坑的呢? 一開始我動機雖然不純，可是仔細看下來，從艾蜜莉中看到了幾個人生哲理想跟大家分享。 哲理1: Work Life balance "You live to work. We work to live. Yes, it's good to make money, but what you say is success, I say is punishment." －Luc 「 妳是為工作而活，我們是為工作生活。賺錢是好，但妳口中的成功，對我來說是懲罰。」 大家平常工作與生活之間的平衡是怎麼取決的呢? 會報復性出遊或者是報復性購買嗎? 這也許就是一種失衡造成的補償心態。若是每天都能創造一點生活小樂趣，不把整個人生的成敗壓在工作上，想必每天的生活會更美好。 - p.s 這也是我開始寫質感生活的原因之一，不希望我的人生只有工作，而是能細細體會生活，讓生活更多采多姿。 哲理二: 關於愛情... "I don't want 100% of anyone, and I don't want anyone to have 100% of me. And if you're committed or married, that cant happen anyway. That's a fairytale. Bad movie." -Sylvie「 我不想100%擁有一個人，也不想讓任何人擁有100%的我。」 有時候在熱戀時，只想無時無刻和對方黏在一起、想要完全的擁有那一個人，確實，完全佔有一個人的感受很好，彷彿她的世界只有你，你也只有她。但這不是長久之計，每個人終究是個單獨的個體，我們不可能擁有100%的另一個人。Sylvie在這裡提醒了我們，什麼樣才是現實中的戀愛。 - p.s 但還是不要當別人的小三會比較好阿呵呵........雖然在本片把這段感情線營造的很浪漫阿呵呵呵 哲理三: 不同的立場，需要的是討論 "Desire does not mean lack of respect. In fact, quite the opposite. It is a sign of respect. "- Antoine「 慾望不代表不尊重，事實上正好相反， 這是尊重的表現。」 有時候意見與他人相佐時，不妨聽聽對方的想法，再來判定對方是對還是錯，或者是兩者的想法皆有道理。因為出發點不同，就會發展出對一件事情完全不同的相法，而這些想法，有時候能意外的帶來一些好的碰撞。 - p.s 我個人是覺得那個廣告拍的蠻醜的，先不管什麼尊不尊重冏 不知道大家覺得如何呢? 哲理四: 不要試圖討好每個人 "I've spent my entire life wanting to be liked."- Emily「 我浪費了一輩子在試圖讓所有的人都喜歡我。」 大家最怕的事情莫過於被討厭，但是我們不可能做到全部的人都喜歡你這件事情，還記得之前爆紅一時的書"被討厭的勇氣" 嗎? 如果我們已經是行得正、沒有做出傷天害理的事情，人生已經夠苦短了，專注在自己喜歡的事情上面、做自己會比較快樂壓~~~ - p.s 艾蜜莉送機車同事中指還有報復蛋糕之後，反而和同事拉近關係了，所以做自己真的比較快樂辣 (雖然劇情有些許誇飾，但有時候展現真實的自我，反而真的能讓人更欣賞你呦!) 哲理之餘.......? 講了這麼多哲理，我還是必須吐槽一下，歐洲路上實在是小石頭大石頭路太多了，連穿布鞋都有可能跌倒，怎麼可能像艾蜜莉一樣天天穿高跟鞋??? 鞋子超容易卡在縫裡的!然後她的包包，每次去餐廳吃飯都離身體這麼遠，在現實世界中早就被偷走了!!!!!! - 再來，艾蜜莉的好朋友Mindy自稱是中國人，可是她講的中文實在是太可怕了，我都不知道她在講什麼 (演員本人是韓裔美國人，真是辛苦她了)。還有，有沒有那麼剛好碰到人如此好的Camille? 人家把她當閨蜜，她卻....!? (我怕爆別人的雷，不多說) - 最後，艾蜜莉會不會運氣太好了? 樓下就住一個帥哥而且英文很好可以隨時幫她翻譯? 走到哪都可以遇到人想跟她當朋友、約到大咖然後談好生意? 碰到的所有青壯年男子都想要跟她有一腿? 為了她，法國人連她不在場都還是用英文跟彼此交談? 總之 吐槽了這麼多之後，我想說的是，我還是很期待第二季艾蜜莉到底會和哪位男子在一起XDDD 這部劇整體來說非常放鬆，男帥女美，沒什麼壓力負擔，不但可以放空的看，還可以觀賞美麗的東西，看看現在去不了的歐洲，嘲笑一下裡面的許多刻板法國和美國印象，堪稱療癒放空系神劇。想看艾蜜莉可以ㄎㄧㄤ到什麼程度嗎? 讓我們期待第二季吧! #質感生活 #伊始計劃中 #艾蜜莉在巴黎 #emilyinparis #療癒放空系影集 #netflix #第一季

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion 在擁擠的人群中，他像一棵大樹，立在那兒，不管旁邊的攤販如何吆喝叫賣著，他就是靜靜地等待。 在傳統市場裡，人們有著共同的行進動線的默契，當然，也有混亂的時候，但，大多數我們總是習慣從入口的右邊開始，一攤攤的逛，然後走到自己覺得可以回頭的點時，再往回走，再逛起另一邊的攤位。 這傳統市場是我這兩年採買食材的地方。 一開始覺好大，現在依然，沒有一次有全程走完，逛完的。 傳統市場就是如此，多去幾次，嘗試購買不同攤位後，自己喜歡的、習慣的攤位差不多也就拿捏準了，後來的採買就是抓緊一個原則，快，狠、準，從入口開始直接衝去目的攤位，盯上，拿起，付錢，轉身，離開，沒多停留的。 可從前兩個月，注意到了這位賣菜的伯伯，第一次看到，沒跟他買，可能我去的時間太晚了，他賣菜板車上剩下的菜，乾乾扁扁的，感覺不能再放。 可，我買菜挑選的需求是可以再放幾天的，一次吃不完那樣多的呀。 再來注意到老伯伯是在颱風後的採買。 每攤的青菜價格都高得嚇壞人，可每個老闆都說，颱風後，有青菜可以採買已是難得，物稀價當然貴。 我忍痛拿出荷包的紙鈔，買了一小把青菜，這確定是有益身體健康，怎我覺買這把青菜，我的心臟好痛。 這樣一小把的葉菜不夠我未來幾天的人體需求，突然之間聽到老伯伯說，一籃菜50元，不論是哪一種菜。 天呀！ 我問伯伯，您這樣有賺嗎？ 他的聲音輕輕的，有點沙啞，說，沒有。颱風剛過，大家都辛苦了，他有去大盤批菜，就出來賣。大家吃新鮮，吃的開心，這次沒有賺，沒有關係。 老伯伯的菜，比一般菜攤的菜看起來老，長比較大，大部分的人買菜喜歡挑嫩一點的。 我覺老伯伯的心意，讓人感動，我挑了兩盆。 伯伯幫我將菜裝進袋子裡的同時，有其他人靠近了。 結果，我開始幫老伯伯推銷他的菜。 伯伯聽到後對我微微笑。 沒多久，伯伯的菜賣掉了九成。 不是我很會叫賣，實在是老伯伯賣的價錢便宜。 回來後，我趁新鮮川燙了其中一種菜，青江菜。 看起來個頭大，可口感不粗糙，菜的纖維沒有想像中的老，不會不好咀嚼，是很可以的。 於是，這次，我特地去找老伯伯買菜。 一樣的身影，一樣的裝扮，一樣的板車，一樣一籃籃的菜，然後，一樣的寧靜。 結果，一樣，忍不住在其他客人靠近時，幫老伯伯叫賣。 沒想到，這時有位歐巴桑，推擠著老伯伯說，老伯伯擋住她的客人了？！ 伯伯的面前是我，我回頭看，沒有人站在我後面啊。 這位歐巴桑說的客人，是？？？ 伯伯也沒跟歐巴桑理論。 歐巴桑動手把伯伯的板車往旁邊挪動，又往前推，我趕緊跳到旁邊，免得撞到。 然後歐巴桑推著她的板車經過我時，叨唸著，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，就是轉不到她的客人前面去。 我自己翻譯成，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，但都沒有客人上前去。 看了歐巴桑賣的東西，我也只能說抱歉，無法跟她購買呀。 她賣的是痠痛藥膏，這不是我的菜呀。 回家後，老伯伯的身影一直盤繞在腦海裡。 想請宇宙送給老伯伯祝福 ~ 願他安康，願他祥和，願他福氣，願他無生無量。 宇宙送給老伯伯的塔羅牌祝福是【慈悲 Compassion】。 哇！有沒有覺得宇宙、高我、能量、磁場以及塔羅很奇妙。 在總共88張的塔羅牌裡，抽到的牌卡就是如此呼應著老伯伯的調性。 宇宙覺老伯伯的慈悲與祥和是讓人景仰與推崇的。 在世為人，慈悲為懷，虛懷若谷，體諒諒解，寬容包容，這是溫暖的力量，是慈悲祥和的力量，是愛的力量。 November 14, 2024 – The Vegetable Vendor: Compassion Amid the crowded marketplace, he stands like a large tree, rooted in place, quietly waiting while other vendors shout and call to attract customers. In the traditional market, there's an unspoken understanding of the flow of foot traffic, though it can be chaotic at times. Most people start from the right side of the entrance, browsing from stall to stall until they reach a point they consider a turning-back spot, then retrace their steps to explore the stalls on the other side. This market has been my go-to spot for grocery shopping over the past two years. Initially, it felt overwhelmingly large, and even now, I have yet to walk through it in its entirety in a single visit. That's the nature of traditional markets; with each visit, I experiment with different vendors, gradually narrowing down my favorites. Eventually, I adopted a routine: entering, heading directly to the targeted stalls, picking up items, paying, and leaving—no lingering. Two months ago, though, I noticed an elderly vegetable vendor. The first time I saw him, I didn’t buy anything; I was probably too late, and the vegetables left on his cart were somewhat wilted, seemingly unable to last much longer. I prefer produce that I can store for a few days, enough to be used gradually. The next time I noticed him was after a typhoon. Vegetable prices had skyrocketed across all stalls, and vendors explained that post-typhoon greens were scarce and therefore expensive. I reluctantly handed over my cash for a small bundle, painfully aware of the cost for the sake of health. That small bundle wasn’t nearly enough for my needs over the coming days. Then, I overheard the elderly vendor say, “One basket of vegetables, 50 dollars, any kind you want.” I was taken aback! I asked him, "Are you making any profit this way?" With a soft, slightly hoarse voice, he replied, “No. It’s right after the typhoon; everyone’s going through tough times. I managed to get some greens at wholesale, so I brought them out for people to enjoy fresh and happy meals. I won’t make a profit this time, and that’s okay.” His vegetables were more mature and larger than what most shoppers would typically pick, as many prefer tender greens. But I was moved by his kindness and sincerity and chose two baskets. While he packed the vegetables for me, others began approaching his stall. I found myself helping to promote his vegetables. Hearing my efforts, he gave me a gentle smile. Soon, 90% of his vegetables were sold—not because I’m good at marketing but because his prices were simply reasonable. When I got home, I blanched one of the greens—bok choy. Although large, it was surprisingly tender and easy to chew. So, this time, I specifically went back to find the elderly vendor. There he was, with the same demeanor, same attire, same cart, and same quiet presence. Once again, I couldn’t help but encourage other customers to buy from him. Unexpectedly, a middle-aged woman suddenly shoved him, complaining that he was blocking her customers. I was standing in front of him and looked back—there was no one behind me. So, who exactly were her “customers”? Without arguing, the vendor allowed her to push his cart aside. I quickly stepped aside, avoiding a collision as she maneuvered her own cart past me, muttering about how she couldn’t manage to position herself in front of her customers. I interpreted her mutterings as her frustration with not attracting customers. I looked at her goods, which turned out to be pain-relief ointment—definitely not something on my shopping list. Back home, the elderly vendor’s figure lingered in my mind. I silently sent a blessing to him, hoping the universe would grant him health, harmony, fortune, and boundless peace. The Tarot card blessing from the universe for the vendor is Compassion. Isn’t it marvelous how the universe, our higher selves, energy, the magnetic field, and Tarot align in such a magical way? Out of 88 cards, the one drawn resonated perfectly with his spirit. The universe acknowledges the vendor’s compassion and serenity as qualities to be admired. In this world, living with compassion, embracing humility, and showing understanding and tolerance for others embody a warm power—a power of compassionate serenity, the power of love. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

「夏末回憶之戀」！新生代創作歌手AKASAKI第三張單曲夏実/夏實/Sour fruit新發行，中英日歌詞翻譯這裡看

18歲新生代創作男歌手AKASAKI，2024年9月18日正式推出第三張單曲「夏実(Kajitsu)/夏實/Sour fruit」，目前在Instagarm迅速增長的粉絲人氣，不輸給以『晩餐歌』爆紅的15歲tuki.，但同樣令人意外的一點，雖然AKASAKI和tuki.的年紀都很輕，卻能透過音樂描繪出愛情的喜怒哀樂，更多關於AKASAKI的新歌「夏実/夏實/Sour fruit」的意境分享和中英日歌詞翻譯(Kajitsu lyrics)，繼續往下滑看看吧！ 夏実/夏實/Sour fruit中英日歌詞翻譯(Kajitsu lyrics) [Credit] 作詞・作曲：AKASAKI 編曲：DAIKII(AWSM.) illustration：Port 映像：Rerere - 酸っぱい果実に誘われたの 被酸澀果實誘惑的我們 We're attracted by sour fruit ほら、君の目がもう揺らいでる 看吧、你的眼神已經開始動搖 Look、you have feelings for me あの八月に奪われたの 那個8月奪走了 In that August,it was taken away 君と僕の想いで 你和我的思念 Yearnings of yours and mine やるせないこの気持ちと 這種悶悶不樂的的感覺 This unbearable feeling 夏に置いてかれた僕 被夏天遺留下的我 Left behind by summer 君もさ 同じ気持ちなのかな 你是否也有同樣心情呢 I wonder if you feel the same 凛とし美しく切ない君の身体はさ 你凜然美麗又帶著些許哀愁的身軀 Your body is graceful and beautiful,yet sorrowful どこか果実の匂いがしたの 散發著何處而來的果實香氣 There's a scent of fruits from somewhere 儚い空気が 僕を押し寄せ 那短暫的氣息向我襲來 The fleeting air engulfed me 今に耐えれず 君を探した 無法忍耐開始找尋你 Unable to endure it,I began searching for you あるはずもない 足跡をたどる先で 沿著不可能存在的足跡 Following nonexistent footprints 僕は崖の下から… 我從懸崖下開始 I start from the bottom of the cliff 酸っぱい果実に誘われたの 被酸澀果實誘惑的我們 We're attracted by sour fruit ほら、僕の目に狂いは無くて 看吧、我的眼神沒有失常 Look,I am sane あの八月に奪われたの 那個8月奪走了 In that August,it was taken away 君と僕の想いで 你和我的思念 Yearnings of yours and mine 眩い氷が溶けた狭間で 耀眼炫目冰塊融化的縫隙中 In the gap where the dazzling ice melted 君の姿も曖昧になる 你的身影也變得模糊 Your shape becomes blurry 今からそこに僕が行くから 我現在就要前往去那找你 I'm coming to you right now 涙を拭いて待っててね 擦乾眼淚等待著我 So wiping away your tears and waiting for me 君はさ わざとらしい笑顔をする人だね 你啊 總會展露不自然刻意的笑容 You You always fake your smiles その顔 瞳が僕をえぐるの 但這表情透過眼神令我心碎 But that face let me heartbroken あの日の街路樹 キスをかわした 那天在街邊路樹下我們接吻了 That day we kissed under the street trees 辛さと共に 涙した君 流淚的你伴隨著痛苦 Along with the pain, you cried こぼれる記憶 熟れた愛すらも 滿溢而出的記憶 甚至是熟透的愛情 Spilled memories,even the mature love 君の元へ運ぶから 都會帶著它們回到你身邊 I will bring them and back to you 酸っぱい果実に誘われたの 被酸澀果實誘惑的我們 We're attracted by sour fruit ほら、君の目に狂いは無くて 看吧、你的眼神沒有失常 Look,you are sane 僕を優しく包み込むから 你用溫柔將我包裹 I'm surrounded by your tenderness 迷いなんてなかったよ 不帶有一絲迷惘 Without hesitation 眩い氷が溶けた狭間で 耀眼炫目冰塊融化的縫隙中 In the gap where the dazzling ice melted 僕の姿が君と重なる 我的身影與你重疊 My shape overlaps with yours 不意に現れ 君を抱き寄せたら 當我突然出現擁抱住你 When I suddenly appeared and cuddle you あぁ なんて言うのかな 啊 你會說什麼呢 Ah,what would you say? 見えないけど消えない君 看不見但未曾消失的你 Though invisible,you haven't disappeared 巡り巡る過去の話 過往的事情反覆圍繞著 Memories of the past on repeat 手のひらからこぼれ堕ちる 從我的手掌心中流逝 Slipping from my hand 匂いだけが脳を巡る… 只剩香氣在腦海裡繚繞 Only the scent lingered in my mind 見えないけど消えない君 看不見但未曾消失的你 Though invisible,you haven't disappeared 巡り巡る過去の話 過往的事情反覆圍繞著 Memories of the past on repeat 手のひらからこぼれ堕ちる 從我的手掌心中流逝 Slipping from my hand 匂いだけが脳を巡る… 只剩香氣在腦海裡繚繞 Only the scent lingered in my mind 手持ち無沙汰の唾液が 無意識地流下口水 Drooling unconsciously 酸っぱい匂いの先に君は 酸澀香氣的源頭是你 The source of the sour scent is you うずくまりつつ僕を誘う様に 蜷縮並像是在誘惑著我 To crouch and tempt me 僕を抉り捕まえたの 深深刺痛並抓住了我 Deeply pierced and captured me まだ生きてるかの様に 彷彿還活著的模樣 As if you were still alive すぐそこに見えたよ ほらそのまま 一下子就看到 瞧吧 如同原樣 Find you immediately.Look,it's no change 僕の手を取り引き寄せてくれ 牽起我的手把我拉近 Take my hand and pull me closer 久しぶりだね もう二度と逢えないと思ったよ 真的好久不見 還以為沒辦法再次相逢 It's been a while,I thought I'd never see you again ごめんね 對不起 I'm sorry 酸っぱい果実に誘われたの 被酸澀果實誘惑的我們 We're attracted by sour fruit ほら、僕達はもう揺らいでる 看吧、我們已經開始動搖 Look、we have feelings for each other 空に舞いながら頭を巡る 空中飛舞著在腦中盤旋 Our thoughts are floating in the sky 君と僕の思い出 你和我的回憶 Memories of yours and mine 見えないけど消えない君 看不見但未曾消失的你 Though invisible,you haven't disappeared 巡り巡る過去の話 過往的事情反覆圍繞著 Memories of the past on repeat 手のひらからこぼれ落ちる 從我的手掌心中流逝 Slipping from my hand 匂いだけが脳を巡る… 只剩香氣在腦海裡繚繞 Only the scent lingered in my mind 見えないけど消えない君 看不見但未曾消失的你 Though invisible,you haven't disappeared 巡り巡る過去の話 過往的事情反覆圍繞著 Memories of the past on repeat 手のひらから堕ちぬ様に 為了不讓你從手心墜落 To prevent you falling from my hand 光の中君を愛すよ 在光芒之中深愛著你 I will love you in the light 夏実/夏實/Sour fruit歌詞意境 如果單純聽旋律，原本會以為是首輕快的歌曲，但搭配歌詞(Kajitsu lyrics)之後，發現歌曲描繪出一段青澀又帶點傷感的8月夏季之戀，藉由「夏天酸澀的果實」來象徵他逝去的愛情與回憶，歌詞中的主角依舊無法忘懷那個曾經觸手可及但現在已經失去的情人。 圖影來源：官網，僅供文章分享使用 #AKASAKI #夏実 #夏實 #Sourfruit #夏実中文歌詞 #夏實中文歌詞 #Sourfruit中文歌詞 #夏實歌詞翻譯 #夏実日文歌詞 #夏實日文歌詞 #Sourfruit日文歌詞 #夏実英文歌詞 #夏實英文歌詞 #Sourfruit英文歌詞 🍀 暖樂Loftwarm / 撰文編輯 🍀 FB粉絲專頁 👉 點我 🍀 Instagram 👉 點我 🍀 E-mail來信 👉 點我

2024 1116 小夜：財富 Fortune

2024 1116 小夜：財富 Fortune 親愛的小夜 短短相識的時光裡，剛開始的妳熱情，像是急著要求表現，會一直不斷發出求鼓勵的訊息給妳身旁的人，但不包括我。 我能明白這樣背後的心情。 當一個人對於自己所處的位置感到不踏實，擔憂會被人看出來那虛弱的能力，總會有不同於平常的反應。 我的出現並非是要指摘這部分的狀況，我覺能有默契，能互相，能討論的一起合作是職場上最棒的模式。 知識、技術還是專業，趕快學習，盡快累積，就可以了呀。 態度，是基本。 很可惜的是，對於我思緒的分享妳未能聽進，並沒有放在心裡。 妳整天像個陀螺一直轉，可真正完成的事情卻沒有，連一份資料建檔都分好幾次才完成，妳永遠在重新進入一項工作的進度到哪，因為妳總是被人或事打斷後，就轉頭去忙其他的事情。 沒有邏輯，沒有輕重緩急，沒有選擇性的瞎忙，這讓我擔憂不已。 我也是妳自己不小心說出口才知道原來妳背有靠山。 是我眼拙了。 已經厭倦人情糾葛角力鬥爭的我，很快地就明白這兒不適合我的調性。很快地又有新進人員補上了我那沒坐熱的位置，然後那人跟妳共事相處後即刻跟高階主管請命希望公司可以讓妳離開，因覺妳不合適。 說實在的，這樣的發展讓我驚訝不已。過往，對於不適任的同仁我也是會選擇建議中止勞雇關係，可不會是在如此短的時間就下決定。 從妳的文字裡接收到妳憤怒、生氣的情緒。 於是我請宇宙送給妳祝福，抽到的塔羅是【財富 Fortune】。 找到妳的天賦在哪，很是重要。 也許妳有嚮往的工作或職位，那花時間去了解，是否真對妳合適。 記得嗎？我們剛認識的第一天，我一直跟妳詢問與確認，是否真的想要從事這類型工作？現在一直讓妳有情緒的事情都是這職位工作內容的日常。 妳擁有很好的熱情與積極特質，把這運用發揮在妳擅長的方向，事情就會如抓到風的尾巴，乘風飛翔起來。 2024.11.16 Xiao Ye: Wealth (Fortune) Dear Xiao Ye, In the short time we've known each other, you started with an intense enthusiasm, as if eager to prove yourself. You kept sending out messages seeking encouragement to those around you—but not to me. I can understand the emotions behind this. When someone feels insecure about their position, worried that their weaknesses might be exposed, they often react differently from their usual self. My presence wasn’t meant to criticize this; I believe the best workplace dynamic is built on mutual understanding, collaboration, and open discussion. Knowledge, skills, and expertise—just learn them quickly and accumulate them as soon as you can. Attitude is the foundation. Unfortunately, it seems my thoughts didn’t reach you or leave any impression on you. You were constantly busy, spinning like a top all day long, yet accomplishing little. Even a single task like filing a document required multiple attempts to complete. You were always restarting your work because you’d get interrupted by people or things, then shift your focus elsewhere. Lacking logic, prioritization, and discernment, you were stuck in aimless busyness, which worried me deeply. It was only by accident that I learned you had some backing, something I initially overlooked. As someone weary of office politics and power struggles, I quickly realized this environment wasn’t a fit for me. Soon, a new hire replaced me in the position I barely warmed, and after working with you, that person immediately appealed to senior management, suggesting your departure due to perceived unsuitability. Frankly, I was quite surprised by how things unfolded. In the past, I have recommended terminating employment for colleagues who were unfit for their roles, but never within such a short time frame. From your messages, I could sense your anger and frustration. So, I asked the universe to send you a blessing, and the Tarot card drawn was “Wealth (Fortune).” It is crucial to discover where your talents truly lie. Perhaps you have a dream job or role you admire—take the time to explore whether it genuinely suits you. Do you remember our first day together when I kept asking and confirming whether you truly wanted to pursue this type of work? The things now upsetting you are simply the daily realities of this job. You have admirable passion and a proactive spirit. If you channel these qualities into an area you excel in, you’ll catch the tailwind and soar. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

跨年神曲紅髮艾迪Ed Sheeran - Bad Habits 

One, two, three, fourOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohEvery time you come around, you know I can't say noEvery time the sun goes down, I let you take controlI can feel the paradise before my world implodesAnd tonight had something wonderfulMy bad habits lead to late nights endin' aloneConversations with a stranger I barely knowSwearin' this will be the last, but it probably won'tI got nothin' left to lose, or use, or doMy bad habits lead to wide eyes stare into spaceAnd I know I lose control of the things that I sayYeah, I was lookin' for a way out, now I can't escapeNothin' happens after two, it's true, it's true, my bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohMy bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohMy bad habits lead to your very pure intention ends when the good times startFallin' over everything to reach the first time's sparkIt started under neon lights, and then it all got darkI only know how to go too far bad habits lead to late nights endin' aloneConversations with a stranger I barely knowSwearin' this will be the last, but it probably won'tI got nothin' left to lose, or use, or do bad habits lead to wide eyes stare into spaceAnd I know I lose control of the things that I sayYeah, I was lookin' for a way out, now I can't escapeNothin' happens after two, it's true, it's true, my bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohMy bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohWe took the long way 'roundAnd burned 'til the fun ran out, nowMy bad habits lead to late nights endin' aloneConversations with a stranger I barely knowSwearin' this will be the last, but it probably won'tI got nothin' left to lose, or use, or doMy bad habits lead to wide eyes stare into spaceAnd I know I lose control of the things that I sayYeah, I was lookin' for a way out, now I can't escapeNothin' happens after two, it's true, it's true, my bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohMy bad habits lead to youOoh-ooh, ooh-ooh-oohMy bad habits lead to you I found a love for meDarling, just dive right in and follow my leadWell, I found a girl, beautiful and sweetI never knew you were the someone waiting for meCause we were just kids when we fell in loveNot knowing what it wasI will not give you up this timeBut darling, just kiss me slow, your heart is all I ownAnd in your eyes you're holding mineBaby, I'm dancing in the dark with you between my armsBarefoot on the grass, listening to our favorite songWhen you said you looked a mess, I whispered underneath my breathBut you heard it, darling, you look perfect tonightWell I found a woman, stronger than anyone I knowShe shares my dreams, I hope that someday I'll share her homeI found a love, to carry more than just my secretsTo carry love, to carry children of our ownWe are still kids, but we're soak in loveFighting against all oddsI know we'll be alright this timeDarling, just hold my handBe my girl, I'll be your manI see my future in your eyesBaby, I'm dancing in the dark, with you between my armsBarefoot on the grass, listening to our favorite songWhen I saw you in that dress, looking so beautifulI don't deserve this, darling, you look perfect tonightBaby, I'm dancing in the dark, with you between my armsBarefoot on the grass, listening to our favorite songI have faith in what I seeNow I know I have met an angel in personAnd she looks perfect, no I don't deserve thisYou look perfect tonight 夜上海繁花過年曲千里之外 「那薄如蟬翼的未來，經不起誰來拆」 ♣片種：烽火愛情 ♣場景：30年代上海外灘 泰式鐘聲營造的中國風揭開故事的序幕，30年代的上海灘，上演一齣生死氣闊的烽火兒女情。方文山詩意描述那個屬於徐志摩與陸小曼的年代，戰亂的大時代，為了安全，情人分離，「我送你離開，千里之外」誰知到白頭竟然再也無法相見；這次更邀請中國風翹楚費玉清合唱這首古典風情的情歌，堪稱一絕，感人的旋律與畫面由周杰倫一手包辦，從音樂到故事的發想，再延伸到音樂電影的拍攝，周杰倫一氣呵成，編織這齣可歌可泣的時代大劇。 屋簷如懸崖 風鈴如滄海 我等燕歸來時間被安排 演一場意外 妳悄然走開故事在城外 濃霧散不開 看不清對白妳聽不出來 風聲不存在 是我在感慨夢醒來 是誰在窗台 把結局打開那薄如蟬翼的未來 經不起誰來拆我送妳離開 千里之外 妳無聲黑白沉默年代 或許不該 太遙遠的相愛我送妳離開 天涯之外 妳是否還在琴聲何來 生死難猜 用一生 去等待聞淚聲入林 尋梨花白 只得一行 青苔天在山之外 雨落花台 我兩鬢斑白聞淚聲入林 尋梨花白 只得一行 青苔天在山之外 雨落花台 我等妳來一身琉璃白 透明著塵埃 妳無瑕的愛妳從雨中來 詩化了悲哀 我淋濕現在芙蓉水面採 船行影猶在 妳卻不回來被歲月覆蓋 妳說的花開 過去成空白夢醒來 是誰在窗台 把結局打開那薄如蟬翼的未來 經不起誰來拆我送妳離開 千里之外 妳無聲黑白沉默年代 或許不該 太遙遠的相愛我送妳離開 天涯之外 妳是否還在琴聲何來 生死難猜 用一生我送妳離開 千里之外 妳無聲黑白沉默年代 或許不該 太遙遠的相愛我送妳離開 天涯之外 妳是否還在琴聲何來 生死難猜 用一生 去等待 【千里之外電影版】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou [千里之外電影版 Far Away ] -Off... 【心雨】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【心雨 Rainy Mood】-Official ... 【本草綱目】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【本草綱目Chinese Herbal Manua... 【白色風車】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【白色風車 White Windmill】-Off... 【夜的第七章】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【夜的第七章 Chapter Seven】-Off... 【夜的第七章電影版】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【夜的第七章電影版 Chapter Seven】-... 【紅模仿】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【紅模仿 Moulin Rouge】-Offici... 【迷迭香】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【迷迭香 Rosemary】-Official M... 【退後】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【退後 A Step Back】-Official... 【聽媽媽的話】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【聽媽媽的話 Listen to Mom】-Off... 【菊花台】 • 周杰倫 Jay Chou【菊花台 Chrysanthemum Terrac... 

2024 1026 Alyson：先知Seer

2024 1026 Alyson：先知Seer 這兩天進行著傾聽工作時，腦子裡浮現的直覺，常跳脫出需要傾聽者者目前的話題，得試著不留痕跡地將話題朝接收到的直覺議題帶。 我習慣於與個案結束了傾聽後，將剛進行的對話進行彙整，寫出一篇散文紀錄，並且請求宇宙給予個案祝福及指引，最後用AI生成一張圖片，然後工作才算完成。 ”靈性”這兩個字，對我來說太過深奧，也太過神秘，我始終沒有弄懂過。可，就在昨天，突然有了靈性覺醒的感悟。 該怎麼說明呢，就是向宇宙請求給予個案祝福的塔羅牌時，抽出的塔羅牌與自己於與個案對談過程中，腦中浮現的直覺是一樣的概念時，當下，我感覺到自己的腦袋一轟，很是興奮與感動。 當下，我好想大聲呼喊，我的直覺力與宇宙直接連結了，就像是我的食指與ET的食指相接觸，電流嘩啦地串通全身，ET當下的所思、所想也出現在我的腦中，那樣直接與神奇。 然後我回想著最近是否有類似的事情發生，可被記憶力不好的自己打敗，也就終止折騰自己的行為，畢竟，這樣的回溯，沒有太大意義。 也許之前有，但自我沒有覺察到。 沒有覺察到，就沒有了感悟與感觸，也就沒能產生靈性覺醒的火花與自我心靈上的滿足及興奮。 緊張得拿出塔羅牌，這次，是自己想要跟宇宙請求祝福與指引。 請宇宙給予祝福，抽到的塔羅牌是【大師 Master】。 再請宇宙給予指引，要繼續努力學習和精進的是【先知 Seer】。 成為大師級的塔羅閱讀師是我的目標，曾有同學問我沒想過成為塔羅教學者嗎？ 我記得自己當時的回應是，成為傳道、授業、解惑者之前，我認為我需要累積與學習的事情還需非常多，也許日後有機會可以，可，現在，精進自己，並於個案需要指引時，能有所幫助，是此時的重責工作。 對於【先知 Seer】，宇宙給予的建議是我需努力成為一位智者，尤其是我已看到了那道永垂不朽，永不熄滅，永不消失的光。光，或許對此時的我來說，距離非常遙遠，但不妨礙我已見，已觀，已知曉前進的方向。 宇宙說我還需要在靈性技能與鍛鍊上學習得更加精通，且要能透過能量、覺察、特質喚醒與啟發我更多、更高的靈性力量與能量，並且運用我擅長的工具及流程，分享宇宙的智慧及上天給予我的天賦及能量。 我是一個駑鈍的學習者，又不是很勤勞，與積極更是扯不到邊。我總是任性地照著自己的心情和步調，在學習塔羅這條路上慢悠悠地走著、晃著，甚至停頓住，不動。 是的，在這學習路上，有著許多不是很正向的聲音在逼迫著我，確實被疑惑過，我的心志是否還堅定，也被否定了踏上閱讀師的堅定意願。 我沒有任何解釋，我的內心也覺得我是不需跟誰需要解釋的。 我的靈，我的魂，我的高我，如何走這條靈性路，希望用怎樣的腳程走著，想什麼時候快速走，什麼時候啥也不想，就是在路邊休息，看花，看天空，看鳥兒飛過，看大雨落下，都應該也可以是自己決定就好，這也是天意，是自然。 種子何時要冒出來芽，長成苗，是天意，是自然。 如同，太極。 2024 10/26 Alyson: The Seer In the past few days while doing my listening work, certain intuitions would surface in my mind, often diverging from the topic the person needed to talk about. I’d try to subtly guide the conversation toward the topics these intuitions pointed me to. I’m accustomed to wrapping up a session by summarizing the conversation into a prose record, then asking the universe for blessings and guidance for the person I’ve just worked with. I finish by generating an AI image. Only then does the work feel complete. The word “spirituality” has always felt deep and mysterious to me, something I could never fully grasp. But yesterday, I had an awakening moment of spiritual insight. How to describe it? When I drew tarot cards asking for blessings for the person, the card’s meaning aligned with the intuition I’d had during our conversation. In that instant, my mind buzzed with excitement and emotion. I felt like my intuition connected directly with the universe—like my index finger touching E.T.’s, with energy flowing through me, and I could sense E.T.’s thoughts as if they were my own. It felt that direct and wondrous. I started reflecting on whether similar events had happened recently, but my poor memory got the best of me, and I decided to stop overthinking it. This kind of retrospection didn’t hold much meaning anyway. Perhaps it had happened before, but I hadn’t noticed. Without awareness, there’s no insight, no spark of spiritual awakening, and no inner satisfaction or excitement. Nervous yet eager, I took out my tarot cards again. This time, I wanted to ask the universe for my own blessing and guidance. I asked for a blessing and drew The Master. For guidance, the card was The Seer. Becoming a master tarot reader is my goal. A classmate once asked if I’d considered teaching tarot. I remember replying that I still needed to learn and experience so much more before becoming a guide. Perhaps someday, but for now, refining myself and being able to help others in need of guidance is the most important task. For The Seer, the advice from the universe is that I need to work to become a wise person. I’ve already glimpsed that eternal, undying light. That light, though distant, has shown me the direction forward. The universe says I need to deepen my spiritual skills, cultivating awareness and qualities that awaken and elevate my spiritual power. Using my preferred tools and processes, I’m to share the universe’s wisdom and the gifts it has given me. I am a slow learner, not particularly diligent, and certainly not driven. I meander along the path of tarot at my own pace, sometimes even stopping entirely. Yes, there have been many discouraging voices questioning my resolve, doubting my commitment to this path. I have no need to explain myself to anyone. My spirit, my soul, my higher self—how I walk this spiritual path, the pace I choose, when to walk fast, when to rest and simply watch the flowers, the sky, the birds, or the rain—all should be my choice alone. That, too, is destiny and nature. The timing of a seed’s sprouting and growth is destiny, is nature. Just like Tai Chi. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1001 雅婷：更新者 Regenerator

2024 1001 雅婷：更新者 Regenerator 等待，當不確定是否會有希望時，即使短暫也漫長。 等待，清楚明白會有實現的那一天，帶著對未來的期盼，即使漫長，於實現的當下，也就不足為道。 好多年之後的現在，小姪女總算擁有了自己的手機。 以前她總愛借我的手機拍照或錄影，現在她可以自己隨性得隨時拍照和錄影。 可，我會很想念她跟我借手機時，那興奮發光的眼神，與我分享她的發想和構圖時的專注及快樂。 今天線上的客人是一位年輕的美麗媽媽，因為颱風影響，她所在的地方下起了大雨，辛苦得接送孩子回家後，怕溼透的身體會引起感冒，於是又趕忙帶孩子洗澡、吹頭髮，也趕快煮薑茶去寒。 於是，約好的時間，她無法上線，我找不到人。 比原先預約好的時間晚了有二十分鐘後，她上線了，一邊照顧著孩子，一邊跟我聊著天。 在這樣的氛圍與時刻，原先鬱積的煩悶，好像已被雨水打趴在地上，隨著不停落下的雨，一起流進了路邊的水溝，不再淤積於胸口。 雅婷說，原先想聊的，現在已不重要了。 開心她的放下，開啟我的生活小智慧，馬上分享去寒的小方法，不需另外花錢買，不用準備很多東西，就簡單的吹風機，花費短短幾分鐘，既去寒濕出汗，也保暖，身體也就清爽了。 身為媽媽的雅婷，聽到這樣的方式開心極了。 於是她決定當下就結束聊天，她想立即嘗試我分享的法子，讓她的寶貝健健康康，不受今日大雨的侵擾和影響。 宇宙送給雅婷的塔羅祝福：【更新者 Regenerator】。 有著這樣一位細心又疼愛孩子的媽媽，很是幸福。在雅婷的家裡，這股家中活力、溫暖的泉源，源源不絕滋潤著家人的心靈，細心的行為安慰著，保護著家人。孩子因媽媽的豐沛的溫暖與能量，享受著滿滿愛的同時，也健康成長著，不怕外面的世界，不擔憂長大的模樣。 因，媽媽在，一切都不用害怕。 2024 1001 Yating: Regenerator Waiting—when you're unsure if hope will arrive—can feel long, even if it's brief. Waiting—when you're certain that day will come, with hope for the future—can feel long, but in the moment of realization, that length no longer matters. Now, many years later, my little niece finally has her own phone. She used to love borrowing mine to take photos or videos. Now, she can take them whenever she wants, freely. But, I will miss the way her eyes sparkled with excitement when she borrowed my phone, how she focused and shared her ideas and compositions with me so joyfully. Today, my online client was a young, beautiful mother. Due to the typhoon, heavy rain poured down where she was. After the exhausting task of picking up her child, she hurried to bathe and dry her child to avoid catching a cold. She also made ginger tea to ward off the chill. Because of this, she was unable to come online at the scheduled time. I couldn’t reach her. About twenty minutes after our scheduled time, she finally logged in, chatting with me while taking care of her child. In that moment and atmosphere, the gloom that had been building up in my chest seemed to be washed away by the rain. It flowed along with the constant downpour into the roadside drains, no longer clogging my heart. Yating said that what she initially wanted to talk about no longer seemed important. I was happy for her release and shared a little life hack I’d just learned for driving away the cold. It requires no extra money, no special preparations—just a simple hairdryer. In just a few minutes, you can expel the cold and dampness, break a sweat, and warm up your body, leaving you refreshed. As a mother, Yating was delighted to hear this method. She decided to end our chat right then and there because she wanted to try it immediately, ensuring her child stays healthy and protected from the effects of today’s heavy rain. The universe sent Yating a Tarot blessing: The Regenerator. Having such a thoughtful, loving mother is a true blessing. In Yating's home, this vital, warm source of energy constantly nourishes the hearts of her family members. Her attentive actions comfort and protect them. Her child, surrounded by her abundant warmth and energy, thrives in love and grows healthy, unafraid of the outside world and without worry about growing up. Because with mom around, there’s nothing to fear. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor 辛苦了，陸陸，一位新手媽媽。 照顧剛出生三個多月寶寶的妳，在做自己和成為一個好媽媽的角色中徘徊，猶豫中的妳常感到痛苦與辛苦。 痛苦的是，妳覺得怎會有這樣的心態出現，感覺好像對不起自己的寶寶。 辛苦的是，這樣的猶豫與不決，發生的頻率非常高，讓妳在寶寶入睡時，明明已經很累了，卻捨不得休息，因妳害怕著，若不抓住這短短的時間，那妳就更沒有時間，更沒有機會做自己了。 現在的妳，精神不好，體力不佳，沒有人家說的坐完月子，讓身體充分休息與獲得營養滋補的豐腴模樣。 和老公的小小家庭中，不僅沒有人協助，內心的孤單、徬徨更讓妳覺得難過，即使想跟老公說說心裡話，看著他辛苦工作回來後疲憊的樣子，妳內心裡再多的苦澀，也說不出口。 想跟娘家媽媽訴說，又怕遭到責罵。 於是妳決定找我聊聊。 懷孕經驗，我沒有。 生產經驗，我沒有，但有長年痛經的經驗，妳說，這妳不需要。 坐月子經驗，我沒有。 照顧寶寶的經驗，我只有1/10，夠嗎？ 妳說妳笑了出來，當看到我這樣的回應時。 其實，人類始終都是多重角色在生存著。 當我們還小的時候，是孩子，甚至是孫子輩，是兄弟姊妹，也是學生，還有同學與朋友。 長大了，是上班族，但依然還有著孩子的角色，幸福的人也還保有孫 子角色，男女朋友，下屬，同事還有朋友。 當成為媽媽之後，不代表需要漠視、忽視、放棄其他角色。 無論我們一身具備哪些角色，我們自己，絕對不能遺忘呀。 自己是所有其他角色的延伸。 記得自己，照顧自己，認識自己，唯有自己好，其他角色才能做得好。 因此我給妳的建議是，寶寶休息睡覺時，把握這時間，妳也好好休息。寶寶醒來的時候，可以跟寶寶互動，也可讓寶寶自己玩耍，老公回來跟寶寶親近時，這個時段，可以跟老公討論，讓妳做自己想做的事情，即使妳只是躺在沙發上，那也可以，就是不要打擾妳，中斷妳在進行的事情。 平衡，讓我們得以持續擁有能量與力量往前繼續邁進。 宇宙送給妳的塔羅牌祝福是【皇帝 Emperor】。 我腦海中浮現的感受是，請將妳的寶寶視為皇帝，妳是導引他，輔助他，給予他愛和支持的母后。 要成為一個優秀的生命導師，要先有堅強的心智與人生的智慧，要先學習人生的真理與世界運行的道理，要懂得鼓勵與支持，堅持教育與教導，懂得設定目標與堅強地朝目標努力。 當妳明白妳所學習到的，經驗積累的，都是需先成就自己，才有機會傳承給孩子時，成為自己與成為一個好母親，其實是同一件事情，也就不需經歷選擇的過程，也就不會有兩難的痛苦。 祝福陸陸 ~ 妳能想到這樣的猶豫困擾，妳就是已踏上智慧的路途上，成為妳孩子溫暖的依靠。 2024-11-08 To Lulu: The Emperor Thank you, Lulu, a new mother. Caring for a baby just over three months old, you find yourself wavering between being yourself and becoming a good mother. In your hesitation, you often feel both pain and struggle. The painful part is the thought that these feelings somehow mean you’re letting your baby down. The struggle lies in how often these indecisions arise, leaving you reluctant to rest even when your baby sleeps—fearing that if you don’t seize these fleeting moments, you’ll have even less time, even fewer chances, to be yourself. Right now, you’re physically and mentally exhausted. You haven’t had the full rest and nourishing care some say should follow the postpartum period. In your small family with your husband, not only is there no extra help, but the loneliness and uncertainty sometimes feel overwhelming. Even when you want to confide in your husband, seeing him come home so tired from work makes you hesitate, keeping your bitterness inside. You think about talking to your mother, but you’re afraid she might scold you. So, you decided to talk with me. I have no experience with pregnancy. I have no experience with childbirth, though I do know the long struggle of painful menstruation. But you said that wasn’t what you needed. I have no experience with postpartum care. I only have 1/10 of the experience in caring for a baby. Is that enough? You said you laughed when you read my response. Actually, as humans, we always carry multiple roles in life. When we’re young, we’re children, grandchildren, siblings, students, classmates, and friends. As adults, we’re employees, still children, and for the lucky ones, still grandchildren, and we’re also partners, subordinates, colleagues, and friends. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to ignore, neglect, or give up your other roles. No matter what roles we take on, we must never forget ourselves. The self is the foundation from which all other roles extend. Remember yourself, care for yourself, and understand yourself. Only when you are well can you fulfill your other roles well. So, my suggestion for you is to take time for yourself when the baby is asleep. Rest, and when the baby wakes, engage with them or let them play independently. When your husband comes home to connect with the baby, use this time to do something just for you—even if it’s simply lying on the couch, uninterrupted and undisturbed. Balance allows us to sustain the energy and strength to keep moving forward. The tarot card blessing the universe sends you is The Emperor. The feeling that arises in my mind is this: see your baby as the Emperor, and you as the Empress guiding, supporting, loving, and nurturing him. To be an outstanding life guide requires a strong heart and life wisdom. You must first learn the truths of life and understand the principles by which the world operates. It involves learning to encourage and support, committing to teaching and guiding, and setting goals while steadfastly working towards them. When you understand that everything you learn and every experience you gain are all for building yourself so that you may someday pass this on to your child, you’ll realize that becoming yourself and becoming a good mother are, in fact, the same path. There will be no more choices to make, no painful dilemmas to face. Blessings to you, Lulu. Just by reflecting on these struggles and hesitations, you’ve already stepped onto the path of wisdom, becoming the warm support your child can rely on. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man 好久不見了，Derek ~ 看著你的訊息，與跟你對話的過程中，我感受到你的痛苦與已想盡辦法卻仍困在死局裡的狀況。 如同你所寫的，我們算不上熟悉，甚至可以說我們其實也不太認識對方，在那幾天的課程中，我們會閒聊一些，一起吃了頓飯，喝了一杯咖啡，之前的緣分如此淺薄，但依然將對方視為朋友。 時光倒推回去，約莫是去年的此時認識的你，而你的人生如同你的計劃，在今年創業了。 記得那時你跟我分享著這創業夢時，我那時腦海中閃過了幾個模糊畫面和一些情緒。 看著你發亮得意的神情，我也不好意思說太多，只輕輕提了幾句，也不敢說是提醒，就像閒聊般去帶到。 而今日你所說的現在面臨到的問題與困境，竟然與一年前我腦海中浮出的景象重疊了起來，並且清晰許多。 身為淡交的朋友的我，沒有立場，沒有角色，沒有資格去評論任何事情，但確實對現在的你的情況感到擔憂。 於是我馬上向宇宙詢問給你指引，抽到的塔羅牌：【倒吊者 Hanged Man】。 我常對於塔羅牌的神奇感到驚訝不已。 現在的情況對你來說就像是被掐住脖子般那樣窘迫，想盡辦法依然無法解決，快要無法呼吸的痛苦與窒悶。 傍晚冷靜後的我覺得需要多關心你，跟你提起向父母求援，才知道現在你們的關係是僵化與冷漠的。 我的直覺是認為趁這次的關係，一來跟父母多些情感關係的建立與連結，二來可打破你們目前相敬如冰的情況，三來可解決你現在卡住的急迫問題。 固執的你，馬上回應不可能找父母談。 哎呀！你怎就是不懂呢，父母的協助可讓你的危機化為轉機，不管是你的事業還是你們家庭氛圍。 對於倒吊者這張塔羅牌，積極面對問題的關鍵，會有”反轉”的機會。宇宙在告訴你，Derek，藉此機會，你需學習與接納，今日的情況與你的溝通、協調以及認知有很大的關係，你從你自己的角度、視野評估與衡量，然後衝動做了決定，卻又沒能將一些情況周全設想到，所以面對了現在，無論是人、事、金錢都出現了卡住、停滯、掐住的窘迫。 當然，這也與你非常年輕有關係。 試著傾聽。 試著放下自我。 試著就事論事。 也許，你以為的冰山，其實一直想成為你的靠山，只是你很少讓他們有機會接近你。 2024-11-07 Derek: The Hanged Man Hello, Derek. It's been a while. Reading your message and conversing with you, I can sense the pain and frustration you’re enduring, trying everything yet still feeling trapped in a deadlock. As you mentioned, we’re not particularly close; in fact, we barely know each other. During those few days of class, we exchanged small talk, shared a meal, and had a cup of coffee. The bond was brief, yet we still regard each other as friends. Looking back, it was around this time last year that we met, and your life, just as you planned, took a big step forward when you started your own business this year. I remember you telling me about your entrepreneurial dream back then. A few hazy images and emotions flashed through my mind. Seeing your proud, radiant expression, I hesitated to say too much, only lightly mentioning a few things, not as a warning but just casual remarks. Today, as you talk about the challenges and struggles you’re facing, I realize they overlap precisely with the visions I had a year ago, now much clearer. As a distant friend, I hold no position, role, or right to judge, yet I do feel concerned for you in your current situation. So, I immediately asked the universe for guidance on your behalf and drew the Tarot card, The Hanged Man. I'm always amazed by the mysterious insight of Tarot cards. Right now, your situation feels as if a hand is gripping your throat, an unbearable struggle to breathe as you try to break free, yet find no solutions. After calming down in the evening, I felt the need to reach out more, to suggest that you consider asking your parents for help, only to find that your relationship with them is currently distant and cold. My intuition is that this could be a good opportunity to reconnect emotionally with your parents. Not only could this alleviate the current strain, but it might also shift the icy dynamic between you all, while possibly resolving your urgent issue. But your response was immediate—no way you would talk to your parents. Oh! How can you not see? Their support could turn this crisis into an opportunity, benefiting both your business and the atmosphere within your family. Regarding The Hanged Man card, the key to facing challenges lies in seeking a “reversal” of perspective. The universe is telling you, Derek, that this is a time to learn and accept. Today's situation is closely linked to your communication, coordination, and perception. You’ve evaluated and acted based on your own view, making impulsive decisions without fully accounting for other aspects. And now you’re facing blockages, with people, circumstances, and finances all stalled, squeezed, and at an impasse. Of course, part of this is due to your youth. Try to listen. Try to let go of self-centeredness. Try to address matters as they are. Perhaps what you perceive as a cold, distant iceberg has always wanted to be your support. You’ve just rarely given them the chance to come close. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

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