2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death 你說，幾個月前你衝動下犯了一個大錯，這超過一百多天的日子，每夜無法安歇，清醒時間都在煩惱問題該怎麼辦，能怎麼解決，最糟糕的情況有可能會是如何，而你是否能夠承受。 你說，非常痛苦，無法生活，無法靜下心來。 你說，怎會變成這樣，你怎會讓自己變成現在這個模樣？ 我，沒有話語可以安慰你，更無法鼓勵你。 有的時候我們會不知不覺做了某些決定，無法用理智或者是智慧去評論。 我想每個人天性裡的賭性，其實比我們認知的還要強大，且像是躲藏在角落裡，蠢蠢欲動著，只要有機會，就會以猛虎之姿跳躍出來，掌控全局。 你說，無法告知任何人發生了什麼事情，這讓你更痛苦。你形容這段期間不像是活著，比較像是活死人，得撐著這幾口氣，得把問題解決了，不能連累任何人。 我想說點話，卻不知道要說什麼，只能靜靜聽。 你說，你不是想找人說話的，你是想要找人聽你說說話，這幾個月所有的苦與澀，難與痛都在腹內、心上、腦中翻攪著，需要有個出口。 我們嘆，這社會，怎有那麼多心思惡意的壞人。 我們痛，這社會，怎有那麼多有心人利用著已是在低谷的人們，想要奮力一搏的勇氣。 宇宙送給阿寺的祝福是：【死亡 Death】。 這張塔羅牌有著憂傷者坐在愛達荷蛇河上，穿著黝黑深藍色的長袍，斗篷帽遮住了大半張臉，讓人會產生心中一沉的情緒，而後面又是新幾內亞祖靈的面具，像刀子般的鼻尖，讓人感到驚悚害怕。 我們都懼怕死亡，很難接受死亡的發生，而在宇宙裡，在這個萬物繽紛的世界上，死亡，是如常的事情之一，如同太陽升起落下般，那樣的自然。 而當抽到塔羅牌卡的死亡時，更是不需恐懼與擔憂。 孫子兵法說道，『投之亡地然後存，陷之死地然後生。』世界上，沒有任何一個人可以回到過去，然後有機會改變已經發生的事情。 宇宙透過【死亡】這張塔羅牌傳遞著，已發生的事情讓人感傷，而死亡之後呢？除了哀傷，難過，痛苦以外，也有著解放、自由與完完全全地切割。 當然也不能輕忽死亡背後的力量，那失落的情緒，那低迷的心情，那恐懼憂慮的心思，這一波波的不安與害怕，一時無法消散，仍會纏繞著你，要堅定心志，要好好地保有自己的心。 過去的錯的痛苦，放下吧。 人生就像一個杯子，杯內發臭的水得先倒掉，才能注入新氣象，人生也就有了轉機與生機。 加油！ 別被自己的心魔打敗了。 2024-11-29 阿寺：Death You said, a few months ago, in a moment of impulse, you made a huge mistake. Over the past hundred days or so, you haven’t been able to rest at night. During your waking hours, you’ve been consumed with worry—about how to handle the situation, how to resolve it, what the worst-case scenario might be, and whether you could endure it. You said it’s been unbearably painful, that you can’t live your life, can’t calm your mind. You said, how did it come to this? How did you let yourself become the person you are now? I have no comforting words to offer, nor any encouragement to give. Sometimes, we unknowingly make decisions that defy logic or wisdom. I believe the gambling instinct in every person is far stronger than we realize. It lurks in the corners, waiting for the right moment to leap out like a tiger and take control of everything. You said you can’t tell anyone what happened, which makes it even more painful. You described this period as less like living and more like being a walking corpse—barely breathing, holding on just enough to resolve the problem, ensuring no one else gets dragged into it. I wanted to say something, but I didn’t know what to say. I could only listen quietly. You said you weren’t looking for someone to talk to; you just needed someone to listen—to hear all the bitterness, sourness, difficulties, and pain that have been churning within you for months. You needed an outlet. We sighed: How can this society have so many malicious people with scheming minds? We ached: How can this world have so many opportunists preying on those already at rock bottom, exploiting their desperate courage for one last gamble? The universe sent 阿寺 the blessing of Death. This tarot card depicts a sorrowful figure sitting on Idaho's Snake River, draped in a dark navy-blue robe with a hood that obscures much of their face. The image evokes a sinking feeling, and the ancestral mask from New Guinea behind them—with its knife-like nose—adds an air of horror and dread. We all fear death. It’s hard to accept its inevitability. Yet in the universe, in this vibrant world, death is one of life’s constants, as natural as the rising and setting of the sun. Drawing the Death card in tarot is nothing to fear or worry about. As The Art of War says, “Throw them into perilous ground, and they will survive. Plunge them into death ground, and they will live.” No one can return to the past to change what has already happened. The universe, through the Death card, conveys this: while what has occurred may bring sorrow, what follows death is not just grief, sadness, and pain but also liberation, freedom, and a clean break. Of course, we must not underestimate the power behind death—its accompanying emotions of loss, despair, fear, and anxiety. These waves of unease and dread won’t dissipate easily and will continue to entangle you. You must stay steadfast, holding onto your inner self. Let go of the pain of past mistakes. Life is like a cup; the stale water inside must first be poured out before fresh water can flow in, bringing vitality and opportunities for renewal. Stay strong! Don’t let your inner demons defeat you. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance

2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance 預約的時間到了，遲遲沒看到人影上線，原來還在工作，真的是辛苦了。 阿成說自己的房屋銷售員，政府頒布了幾個專案，讓許多年輕人原本只能默默放在心中的購屋念頭，瞬間有了具體實現的機會，因此很多客人約著要看房子。 阿成說，看起來絡繹不絕的客人潮，好像能夠有不錯的成交結果和獎金收入，但實則並沒有如此美好。 他說，大家都會在網路找資料，爬文，做許多的功課。 我則認為這樣是正確的，減少了資訊落差，也就不會有人被當冤大頭任意宰殺，血流成河的慘況。 阿成說，立場不同啦。 我同意。我也反問阿成，你看車子，會不會先做功課，先問一下別人或者上網。 他說，當然會啊。 我說，那就對了呀。房子，多貴，一輩子可能就這麼一次機會，謹慎點再出手，合理呀。 我再進而分享自己的想法給阿成，我說，若房子好，價錢合理，不須你發揮舌燦蓮花之洗腦大法，有興趣的客戶，一看就懂，就下單了。若房子不怎麼樣，價錢又不合理，你再怎麼勤勞，再怎麼帶不同組的客人前往，在現在資訊更為透明的時代，有機會成功嗎？當然沒有。 每個產業都在喊生意不好做，每個老闆都在說壓力好大，每個員工都在哭做不下去了。 會吵的比較會有糖吃，哭、鬧、折騰，好像比較能夠獲得更好的待遇。 所以，遇到人，遇到事，先哭鬧！先比慘！已成為大家面對事情的第一反應。 好像成為了全民運動似的，大家的慣性。 其實，世界上絕頂聰明就那幾個人，世界上80%的財富也在那些人的手上，我們這些80%的平凡人就是努力、認真、拚命在剩下的20%財富爭奪自己的財富地位。 可能我認識的都是一般人，還真沒發覺誰的工作有比較好做。 阿成接著說帶新人很累，很麻煩，不想這樣過日子。 可小小職員的我們哪有說”不”的立場與機會，況且帶新人是很好的學習，但固執的阿成你說，你什麼都不想要，你只想做好自己的工作就好。 可是我們都知道，工作不可能獨善其身，就如同活在這個世界上一樣，人不可能只顧好自己就好。 不過，深感疲憊又覺厭煩的阿成，你已完全不想聽這些話。 我也只能跟你說，照顧好自己，跟主管聊聊，還有最近天氣變化大，注意身體適應。 然後，你說了，你覺得何時開始整個人都不對了。 原來，你帶著客人去了一間不是很乾淨的房子，你說從那天之後你常覺頭暈。 我當下建議你隔天去找專業的人協助一下，並且在心中跟對方打聲招呼，對於打擾了感到抱歉。 你才恍然大悟到自己竟然沒注意到這樣的註記和禁忌，真的是不應該。 看來，最近的你因疲憊和心情不佳，對於工作沒有了之前的嚴謹和熱情，很是可惜。 有些過錯，是完全不可犯的，而我覺你因情緒控制不佳而觸碰到了禁忌，還讓你的客戶因你的不小心而身體不適，這是很不應該。而這些實在很難對於已經不堪負荷的你再多說的話。 只能藉由請宇宙透過抽塔羅牌的指引給你祝福 ~ 而宇宙送給你的塔羅牌祝福是【聰穎 Brilliance】。 宇宙提醒，我跟你分享的是你最近忽視且不在意，但對你而言應是很重要的事情。 如果你有靜下心聽進我傳達給你的文字和有點擔憂你的心思，你應該會有「啊！豁然開朗。」的當下震撼與感受。 倘若沒有，很可惜，你錯過了宇宙透過我們聊天的機會給予你的指引和祝福。 期冀過幾天，你的心情平復許多，能回看我們的對話，也許那時還有機會可以接收到這關鍵的灼見。 2024-11-14 Ah Cheng: Brilliance The scheduled time arrived, yet you hadn’t logged in. It turned out you were still working—really tough on you. Ah Cheng mentioned he’s a real estate agent, and the government recently rolled out a few programs that have given many young people the tangible chance to pursue homeownership, something they’d only dreamed of before. As a result, many clients are eager to schedule viewings. He said that while the influx of clients might look promising for good sales and bonuses, reality isn’t quite as bright. People are doing extensive research online, reading up, and gathering plenty of information. I think this is great—it reduces information asymmetry, which means fewer people end up being taken advantage of. Ah Cheng said our perspectives differ. I agreed and asked if he wouldn’t also research a car before buying, by asking around or looking it up online. He said, “Of course.” So, I replied, “Exactly. Buying a house is even more expensive, and it’s likely a once-in-a-lifetime purchase. It’s only sensible to be cautious.” I went on to share my perspective: if the property is good and the price fair, you won’t need to spin persuasive pitches. Interested clients will know it’s a good deal at a glance. But if the property lacks appeal or is overpriced, no matter how hard you work or how many clients you bring through, your chances of closing the deal in today’s transparent market are slim. Every industry complains business is hard; every boss says they’re under pressure, and every employee laments they can’t go on. People who complain seem to get better treatment, so it’s as if we’ve collectively adopted whining as our first reaction to challenges. It’s almost become a national pastime. In reality, only a few truly brilliant people exist, and 80% of the world’s wealth is in their hands. The rest of us ordinary folks are just striving to claim a piece of the remaining 20%. Maybe I only know regular people, but I haven’t noticed anyone’s work getting any easier. Ah Cheng then said that training new hires is exhausting and complicated, and he doesn’t want to keep doing it. But we’re just small-time employees; we don’t have the power to say “no.” Besides, training new hires is a valuable learning experience, but stubborn Ah Cheng insists he just wants to focus on his own work. We both know work isn’t done in isolation, just as living in this world isn’t. You can’t just look out for yourself. However, an utterly worn-out Ah Cheng doesn’t want to hear this anymore. So, all I can say is: take care of yourself, talk things over with your supervisor, and with the recent weather fluctuations, be mindful of staying well. Then you mentioned that you started feeling off some time ago. It turned out you had shown a client a rather unkempt property, and since that day, you’ve often felt dizzy. I suggested you see a specialist the next day and mentally apologize for any disturbance caused. You realized that you hadn’t observed such precautions and felt it was an oversight. It seems that recently, due to exhaustion and low spirits, you’ve lost the rigor and enthusiasm you once had for work, which is unfortunate. Some mistakes simply can’t be made, and I believe that poor emotional management led you to inadvertently break a taboo, causing discomfort to your client. But given how overburdened you already are, it’s tough to say much more. So, I asked the universe to bless you through a Tarot card pull, and the universe’s gift to you is the Brilliance card. The universe reminds you that I’m sharing with you things you’ve recently ignored or dismissed, but which are very important to you. If you take my words to heart and sense the concern behind them, you might experience a moment of clarity, a “lightbulb moment.” If not, that’s unfortunate—you’ll have missed the universe’s guidance and blessing through our conversation. Hopefully, in a few days, after you’re feeling more settled, you’ll look back on our exchange and still have a chance to receive this crucial insight. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner 最近有朋友們發現，對於文字的用字上，我有自己的較真。 也許我用的詞不常見，或者有可能自創的句子，朋友們覺得很是生動與貼近。 心裡很是開心。 被看見，被欣賞的滿足。 前天晚上的線上課程學習到一個新詞「擾動」。 課堂上老師是用在與靈魂、靈性有關。 比如，擾動靈魂，擾動心性。 不知道大家之前是否有曾聽過這動詞。 以往我只聽過「攪動」、「攪亂」、「擾亂」。 所以一聽到「擾動」，感到好興奮，認為學到一個新詞，且這詞好適合用在身心靈關於能量運動中的狀態。 在『學習者』塔羅牌的這一天，建議大家可以試著將自己的心房打開，也許會不經意的有新學習，新獲得。 在學習過程中，我發現自己總是非常貪心地什麼都想碰觸一些。 以正向思考來說，我的學習是雜食派，只要有興趣的，就東碰一點，西碰一些，妥妥當當地符合學生時代對於經營管理系或企業管理系的期待，就是啥都知道，啥都能扯，能聊，但若再往深一點扒，那就真不知道有什麼料可被挖掘。 以消極面來說，很多面向都知道一些，那可能就是其實都不懂。 不懂深度，不懂門道，不懂專業，也就不懂何謂。 四不懂，就難與專業人士真正的交流與分享，有點可惜。 不過，「多欲為苦，生死疲勞。枉心不歇，歇即菩提。」* 若今日所學能有彈性，是為了累積生命的厚度，想學什麼事情，也要有機緣才有機會學習，這是人生樂事無誤。 喜歡學習的人，對於眼界，不會侷限。 看事情呢，有著更大的寬度與包容。 對新事情喜歡探索，總在探索中，新事物、新訊息，與自己舊有的制約產生衝擊與火花。 我很佩服那些可以從這些火花中，抓到靈感，進而規劃、實現自己的理想或事業的人。 有人喜歡從歷史學習，有人喜歡探索未知。 領航者塔羅牌，這張『學習者』是水晶小孩。 水晶小孩，感覺象徵著剛挖掘出來並洗淨、淨化過的水晶，如同小孩，擁有純真，待鍛鍊、雕琢的心智，像是個大池，等著倒入許多新奇好玩的事物。 這個大池如同我們的心智，倒進入的，將會影響許多事情如何選擇，如何決定的資料來源。 有些是訊息，有些是學習，有些是經驗，有些是代價。 我們的心智需要鍛鍊與磨練，需要學習與吸收。 心智的運作，心智的能量，心智的潛力，心智的影響與心智的陷阱，總是多元、多樣又變化多種。 在鍛鍊歷程中，也要小心注意，過去的成功方式，不一定適用現在，適時的因應與調整是必須的。 這時，新的問題來了，什麼時候需要調整？適時是指什麼？因應對策是什麼？如何調整？調整為什麼？ 要尋求、找到這一切切問題的答案，關鍵只有一個，那就是學習。 不斷學習，精進學習，多元學習，跳出舊有框架思維的學習，也許有機會能慢慢找到答案。 Tarot of the Day, June 27, 2024: The Learner Recently, some friends have noticed that I am quite particular about my choice of words. Maybe the words I use are uncommon, or perhaps I create my own sentences. My friends find them very vivid and relatable. This makes me very happy. The satisfaction of being seen and appreciated is immense. The night before last, I learned a new term, "disturbance," in an online course. The teacher used it in the context of the soul and spirituality, such as disturbing the soul or disturbing the mind. I wonder if any of you have heard this verb before. Previously, I had only heard of "stirring," "disrupting," and "disturbing." So, when I heard "disturbance," I was excited, feeling I had learned a new word that perfectly describes the state of energy movement related to body, mind, and spirit. On this day represented by the 'Learner' tarot card, I suggest that everyone try to open their hearts. You might unintentionally gain new knowledge and new insights. In the process of learning, I find myself always wanting to touch on everything. From a positive perspective, my learning is omnivorous. As long as I am interested, I will touch on a bit of everything. This aligns perfectly with the expectations of students in business management or corporate management, knowing a bit about everything, able to talk about anything, but if you dig deeper, there might not be much substance to uncover. On the downside, knowing a little about many areas might mean understanding nothing deeply. Not understanding depth, not understanding the intricacies, not understanding the profession, and therefore not understanding the essence. This superficial understanding makes it difficult to truly engage and share with professionals, which is a bit unfortunate. However, "Desire leads to suffering; life and death bring fatigue. When the mind ceases, enlightenment is attained."* If today's learning can be flexible, it is to accumulate the depth of life. Wanting to learn something also requires the right opportunity, which is indeed one of life's pleasures. People who love learning are not limited by their perspectives. They see things with greater breadth and tolerance. They love exploring new things, always finding new things and new information that clash and spark with their old conditioning. I greatly admire those who can capture inspiration from these sparks and then plan and realize their ideals or careers. Some like to learn from history, while others like to explore the unknown. The 'Learner' card in the Navigator Tarot represents a crystal child. Crystal children symbolize newly unearthed and purified crystals, much like children, with innocent minds awaiting training and honing, like a large pool ready to be filled with many new and interesting things. This large pool, like our minds, influences the choices and decisions we make with the information poured into it. Some are messages, some are lessons, some are experiences, and some are costs. Our minds need training and honing; they need to learn and absorb. The operation of the mind, its energy, potential, influence, and traps are always diverse and ever-changing. In the process of training, we must also be careful. Past successful methods may not apply now; timely adaptation and adjustment are necessary. This brings a new question: When is adjustment needed? What does timely mean? What are the countermeasures? How to adjust? Why adjust? To seek and find answers to all these questions, there is only one key: learning. Continuous learning, diligent learning, diverse learning, and learning beyond old frameworks may slowly lead to the answers. 補充資料來源：”*”之文句係抄自臉書傅月庵老師之文章擷取而來。 咒語：根據您的要求，我已經為您創作了一幅新的插畫。插畫中的主角是一位約40歲的臺灣女性，她的頭髮是中短的，微卷，且表現出一種俏麗和灑脫的氣質。她身著現代的服裝，並披著紅色的斗篷。她正處於一個充滿書籍和學習材料的環境中，面部表情展現出對新知識的好奇和熱情。背景是一個寧靜的學習環境，充滿了書籍和學習材料，強調了學習和知識的重要性。 #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Learner

羨慕TWICE就輸了！美貌實力人氣具備的Somi在101依舊表現亮眼，出道候補一位的她讓大家都相當看好啊！

最近在韓國熱播的PRODUCE101是第一個打破經紀公司界線，由不同公司旗下的練習生共同受訓、淘汰的選秀節目，參與的經紀公司有JYP、Cube、MBK…共46家公司，練習生總共有101位，年齡層分佈在15-26歲，有韓國、日本、中國、加拿大籍的女孩，在節目結束後將會選出11位成員出道 在101位練習生要脫穎而出真的很不容易，目前在兩集結束下來，排名前兩名都是全昭美Somi和金世靜，究竟他們是什麼來歷呢？（左，Somi、右，金世靜） Somi其實是TWICE選秀節目SIXTEEN裡面的成員之一，加拿大混血的他，美貌讓觀眾非常印象深刻，當時只有14歲的她實力也是受到肯定的，在SIXTEEN裡面不但得到社長的許多讚美，也是許多觀眾相當看好的明日之星 雖然最後沒能被留下繼續留在JYP當練習生，在最後淘汰雖然可惜，但也培養了Somi堅強的意志力，在PRODUCE101裡面曾說過「羨慕TWICE就輸了」的她，也讓大家看到他在這裡必勝的決心 目前位居第二名的金世靜在節目中的表演讓評審還有其他練習生都很印象深刻，在第一集的表演Something New中和Somi一樣獲得A的成績，不管是團體演唱或是solo的表演都是計個別成績，所以其實蠻公平的拉 除了前兩名外，知名度很高的金珠娜也備受大家關注，其實他就是金秀賢的親妹妹拉！一直以來對家庭鮮少透露的金秀賢，觀眾自然也對妹妹很感興趣，實力堅強的金珠娜卻反對利用哥哥炒知名度之說，看來是很有個性啊 最近傳出在春節後將會進行淘汰賽，一次要淘汰掉四十位，經由人氣投票和表演分數決定，不只是練習生們連觀眾都很緊張啊！目前PRODUCE101的主持人張根碩也因為心疼妹妹們而請大家吃飯，替大家提起士氣 ​（圖片來源: Youtube/Tumblr/Google） 第一次看到這麼大型的淘汰賽，從決定出道人選、團體風格到出道曲目都是由觀眾票選，大家快點一起來當製作人拉，目前網友預測的出道人選有金世靜、Somi、崔宥晶、周潔瓊、鄭采妍、劉妍靜、姜美娜、金道妍、金青夏，你們支持的女孩有在裡面嗎？ 資料來源： 整理報導

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor 辛苦了，陸陸，一位新手媽媽。 照顧剛出生三個多月寶寶的妳，在做自己和成為一個好媽媽的角色中徘徊，猶豫中的妳常感到痛苦與辛苦。 痛苦的是，妳覺得怎會有這樣的心態出現，感覺好像對不起自己的寶寶。 辛苦的是，這樣的猶豫與不決，發生的頻率非常高，讓妳在寶寶入睡時，明明已經很累了，卻捨不得休息，因妳害怕著，若不抓住這短短的時間，那妳就更沒有時間，更沒有機會做自己了。 現在的妳，精神不好，體力不佳，沒有人家說的坐完月子，讓身體充分休息與獲得營養滋補的豐腴模樣。 和老公的小小家庭中，不僅沒有人協助，內心的孤單、徬徨更讓妳覺得難過，即使想跟老公說說心裡話，看著他辛苦工作回來後疲憊的樣子，妳內心裡再多的苦澀，也說不出口。 想跟娘家媽媽訴說，又怕遭到責罵。 於是妳決定找我聊聊。 懷孕經驗，我沒有。 生產經驗，我沒有，但有長年痛經的經驗，妳說，這妳不需要。 坐月子經驗，我沒有。 照顧寶寶的經驗，我只有1/10，夠嗎？ 妳說妳笑了出來，當看到我這樣的回應時。 其實，人類始終都是多重角色在生存著。 當我們還小的時候，是孩子，甚至是孫子輩，是兄弟姊妹，也是學生，還有同學與朋友。 長大了，是上班族，但依然還有著孩子的角色，幸福的人也還保有孫 子角色，男女朋友，下屬，同事還有朋友。 當成為媽媽之後，不代表需要漠視、忽視、放棄其他角色。 無論我們一身具備哪些角色，我們自己，絕對不能遺忘呀。 自己是所有其他角色的延伸。 記得自己，照顧自己，認識自己，唯有自己好，其他角色才能做得好。 因此我給妳的建議是，寶寶休息睡覺時，把握這時間，妳也好好休息。寶寶醒來的時候，可以跟寶寶互動，也可讓寶寶自己玩耍，老公回來跟寶寶親近時，這個時段，可以跟老公討論，讓妳做自己想做的事情，即使妳只是躺在沙發上，那也可以，就是不要打擾妳，中斷妳在進行的事情。 平衡，讓我們得以持續擁有能量與力量往前繼續邁進。 宇宙送給妳的塔羅牌祝福是【皇帝 Emperor】。 我腦海中浮現的感受是，請將妳的寶寶視為皇帝，妳是導引他，輔助他，給予他愛和支持的母后。 要成為一個優秀的生命導師，要先有堅強的心智與人生的智慧，要先學習人生的真理與世界運行的道理，要懂得鼓勵與支持，堅持教育與教導，懂得設定目標與堅強地朝目標努力。 當妳明白妳所學習到的，經驗積累的，都是需先成就自己，才有機會傳承給孩子時，成為自己與成為一個好母親，其實是同一件事情，也就不需經歷選擇的過程，也就不會有兩難的痛苦。 祝福陸陸 ~ 妳能想到這樣的猶豫困擾，妳就是已踏上智慧的路途上，成為妳孩子溫暖的依靠。 2024-11-08 To Lulu: The Emperor Thank you, Lulu, a new mother. Caring for a baby just over three months old, you find yourself wavering between being yourself and becoming a good mother. In your hesitation, you often feel both pain and struggle. The painful part is the thought that these feelings somehow mean you’re letting your baby down. The struggle lies in how often these indecisions arise, leaving you reluctant to rest even when your baby sleeps—fearing that if you don’t seize these fleeting moments, you’ll have even less time, even fewer chances, to be yourself. Right now, you’re physically and mentally exhausted. You haven’t had the full rest and nourishing care some say should follow the postpartum period. In your small family with your husband, not only is there no extra help, but the loneliness and uncertainty sometimes feel overwhelming. Even when you want to confide in your husband, seeing him come home so tired from work makes you hesitate, keeping your bitterness inside. You think about talking to your mother, but you’re afraid she might scold you. So, you decided to talk with me. I have no experience with pregnancy. I have no experience with childbirth, though I do know the long struggle of painful menstruation. But you said that wasn’t what you needed. I have no experience with postpartum care. I only have 1/10 of the experience in caring for a baby. Is that enough? You said you laughed when you read my response. Actually, as humans, we always carry multiple roles in life. When we’re young, we’re children, grandchildren, siblings, students, classmates, and friends. As adults, we’re employees, still children, and for the lucky ones, still grandchildren, and we’re also partners, subordinates, colleagues, and friends. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to ignore, neglect, or give up your other roles. No matter what roles we take on, we must never forget ourselves. The self is the foundation from which all other roles extend. Remember yourself, care for yourself, and understand yourself. Only when you are well can you fulfill your other roles well. So, my suggestion for you is to take time for yourself when the baby is asleep. Rest, and when the baby wakes, engage with them or let them play independently. When your husband comes home to connect with the baby, use this time to do something just for you—even if it’s simply lying on the couch, uninterrupted and undisturbed. Balance allows us to sustain the energy and strength to keep moving forward. The tarot card blessing the universe sends you is The Emperor. The feeling that arises in my mind is this: see your baby as the Emperor, and you as the Empress guiding, supporting, loving, and nurturing him. To be an outstanding life guide requires a strong heart and life wisdom. You must first learn the truths of life and understand the principles by which the world operates. It involves learning to encourage and support, committing to teaching and guiding, and setting goals while steadfastly working towards them. When you understand that everything you learn and every experience you gain are all for building yourself so that you may someday pass this on to your child, you’ll realize that becoming yourself and becoming a good mother are, in fact, the same path. There will be no more choices to make, no painful dilemmas to face. Blessings to you, Lulu. Just by reflecting on these struggles and hesitations, you’ve already stepped onto the path of wisdom, becoming the warm support your child can rely on. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian 給找工作遇到挫折的孟孟 ~ 妳說工作好難找。都找不到妳想要的。 討論工作這檔事，我擅長，我以前做人力資源的。 我問了問，想找哪一類的工作？ 妳說，文書方面的。 我再問，有文書處理相關的證照嗎？ 妳說，有。 我又問，文書處理相關證照有官方和民間的，這在履歷加分上是不同層次的，妳的證照是哪單位發的？ 妳猶豫不確定，因從沒注意過。 於是，今天的聊天變成是職涯了解了。 我們聊了妳的想法，就業市場對於履歷如何評核，妳要如何讓自己過去的工作表現於文字描寫上呈現出亮眼的優勢。 我們也聊了證照對於求職的加分和幫助。 然後，我也提了一些建議，畢竟聊天的時間很短暫，無法詳盡地說，但有些功課可以自己上網學習。 因此提供一些建議與查詢資料的建議。 最後，妳說，妳沒想到在這次與我的對話裡可以學習到新思維。妳以為就是聽聽妳的心情，聽妳的抱怨與不安；妳未曾設想過竟然可以獲得具體且有用的事情。 我說，緣分很奇妙吧！老天知道妳面臨的問題，於是安排了妳我這場的相聊。 送給孟孟的塔羅祝福：【守護者 Guardian】 來自宇宙的消息，認真的孟孟，妳的心智如同水晶般，閃耀與美麗。可也因妳美麗的心智迷人且豐富，容易被迷惑，容易被利用。所以要如何守護好妳的初衷，妳的心智，不受外界影響，那是很重要的事情。 祝福孟孟找到喜歡的且合適的工作，並且加強鍛鍊自己的心智，美好的未來，就在不遠前方等著妳。 Blessing for Mengmeng on August 27, 2024: To Mengmeng, who is facing difficulties in job hunting ~ You mentioned that finding a job is challenging and you haven't been able to find what you want. Discussing job-related matters is my expertise—I used to work in human resources. I asked, "What kind of job are you looking for?" You replied, "Something related to clerical work." I then asked, "Do you have any certifications related to clerical work?" You answered, "Yes, I do." I further inquired, "There are official and unofficial certifications related to clerical work, and they add different levels of value to your resume. Which institution issued your certification?" You hesitated, unsure, as you had never paid attention to this before. Thus, today's chat turned into a career exploration session. We talked about your thoughts, how the job market evaluates resumes, and how to highlight your past job performances in writing to stand out. We also discussed how certifications can enhance your job search. Then, I gave some suggestions. After all, our chat was brief, and I couldn't cover everything in detail, but there are some things you can research online yourself. So, I provided some advice and tips for further study. Finally, you said you hadn't expected to gain new perspectives from our conversation. You thought it would be just about sharing your feelings, complaints, and anxieties; you never imagined you would receive concrete and useful information. I said, "Isn't fate amazing? The universe knew about the challenges you are facing, so it arranged for us to have this conversation." Tarot Blessing for Mengmeng: [Guardian] A message from the universe: Dear diligent Mengmeng, your mind is like a crystal—bright and beautiful. However, because your beautiful mind is charming and rich, it's easy to be misled or taken advantage of. Therefore, knowing how to protect your original intentions and keep your mind from being influenced by external factors is very important. I wish Mengmeng finds a job that you love and suits you well. May you also strengthen and sharpen your mind. A wonderful future is just waiting for you not far ahead. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

18種讓妳成為旅遊達人的方法!!!

成為你探險世界的指南!!! http://news.distractify.com/travel/travel-responsibly/ 1. 要清楚的瞭解,你旅遊的地方,同時也是別人的家. "接觸別人的文化,體驗別人的文化,學習別人的文化" 2. 行前的調查及規畫是非常重要的!!! thisworldrocks.comNo, you don’t have to be the guy who memorized the guidebook or the Wikipedia page for a particular destination, but it’s always a good idea to have a sense of where you’re going. Where do the locals like to spend their time? What is the culture like? Is tipping customary, or will it be offensive? You can never be wholly prepared for every experience abroad, but it’s nice for both parties if you make an effort to minimize unnecessarily awkward interactions with the local people. 3. Respect the culture thisworldrocks.comYou’ll learn a lot about where you’re headed from a little research, some of that may catch you pretty off-guard. Perhaps you never would have known that despite the fact that you’re headed to the hot desert, the conservative culture in that country views the wearing of shorts or skirts as inappropriate. Perhaps eating with one hand as opposed to another is offensive, or adding condiments to your food is insulting. Remember, you’re a guest in their country, keeping an open mind and flexing to their cultural demands (however foreign or unusual they may seem) will set you apart from the other “tourists.” 4. Ask before photographing anyone thisworldrocks.comThis is huge, and a great way to demonstrate that you’re respecting local people. It is very much the case that some cultures strongly believe that to be photographed is to lose part of their soul. In other places, the custom for locals allowing themselves to be photographed comes with the expectation of a tip. And if that street performer or vibrantly dressed individual riding some exotic animal declines, respect their wishes as you would hope a traveler in the opposite situation would do for you. 5. Learn a few key phrases 4hdwall.comEven if you have to muscle through them, there is a) nothing more frustrating abroad for both parties than when you can’t communicate basic needs to someone who is trying to help you out but doesn’t speak your language, and b) locals will recognize and almost always appreciate the effort you’re making. Even just knowing the essential simple phrases like “hello,” “please” and “thank you” demonstrates a wealth of respect. 6. Meet some people usimages.detik.comHonestly, one of the greatest things you can collect abroad is friends. People will “remember that time…” infinitely better than you will remember your trip looking at some kitschy souvenir that likely broke on your way home. Plus, there’s a lot you can learn about other countries and cultures by speaking directly with someone who lives it every day (and better still, they can show you places and sites you would have never found on your own). 7. Buy local artisansofmorocco.files.wordpress.comA good guide will take you to parts of the country that are less glamorous, for the opportunity to pick up handcrafted souvenirs made by local artisans. While they may not mention it, not only are those one-of-a-kind crafts a way more awesome thing to take home than a plastic model of whatever city you’re visiting, but also buying those directly benefits the craftspeople and the town they live in. When you see statistics about tourism stimulating economies, that’s a huge part of what they’re talking about, and those villages and towns depend on your dollars much more than those kiosks adjacent to main attractions do. 8. Look into a home stay nobswall.comNothing will give you a more authentic experience in any destination like a homestay. There’s something to be said about a proper home cooked meal, no matter what country you’re in. Again, you’re supporting local families, you’ll gain privileged insight into what real life is like in that place, and you’ll make a whole family of friends without having to proactively introduce yourself to a bunch of strangers. 9. Try the food twisper.comOne of my biggest regrets as a traveler is flying halfway around the world, just to eat Burger King and drink Starbucks. For a long time I was too meek to eat at local restaurants, let alone get as far out of my comfort zone as would be required to eat at a foreign cart food. Then I realized everyone who lives there does, and for good reason. If you want a genuine taste of what another country has to offer, eat the local food where the rest of the locals are eating. 10. Breathe richculture.coOne of the biggest differences between a traveler and a tourist is the mission. As a tourist, you might attempt to greedily collect photos of major attractions like Pokemon, so that no one viewing the slideshow later knows that you only spent 10 minutes passing by the Louvre on your way to the Eiffel Tower. Trying to do and see it all means you’ll likely get to do very little, and see it all for only an instant. Breathing, slowing down, and tossing the itinerary frees you up to experience things as they come, and more fully immerse in the experience you want. Traveling can also be quite stressful, especially when all the plans go haywire, you miss a connection and are stranded somewhere even-more-foreign, or you do something catastrophic like lose your wallet (as I have done, twice). Breathe then, and remember that it’s all part of the adventure. 11. Be spontaneous ibankcoin.comWith your newfound itinerary-free time, do whatever sounds good in the moment, and change your mind often if you think something else would be better. Enjoy being liberated from “doing what you’re supposed to do” and “seeing what you’re supposed to see.” You’ve got limited time, but rather than trying to cram as much as you can in as little time as possible, maximize your experience by going with the flow, and live at the pace you want to live at. 12. Get lost…it’s fun cmm.aeNo seriously, get properly lost. Then breathe, and remind yourself it’ll be okay. Then give yourself the opportunity to get acquainted with a place that’s so much more than an aerial view printed on some paper. Weave between streets, duck into alleys, ask for help if you need it, but explore like you’re discovering the place for the first time (because you are, after all, discovering the place for the first time). 13. Ditch the tour group, do it on your own travelalltogether.comWhile it is convenient to be with a group of other vacationers and have a manufactured experience delicately balanced for controlled culture shock, there’s a lot to be gained by tackling a new place on your own. Sure, the tour group method will help you see everything you may want to see and more, but on the merits of your research you could likely do the same or better, for much less money. Plus, you don’t have to wait for a herd of people to stop staring at a sculpture you don’t find particularly interesting, nor do you feel herded for wanting to spend an afternoon staring at a painting that your guide has only budgeted 15 minutes for. 14. Seek the road less traveled stepping2yourdreams.files.wordpress.comNot just the road less traveled by tour groups, but the road less traveled in general. You know those hole-in-the-wall places in your hometown? Or your favorite deserted lookout spot? There are those places literally all over the world, and they just take a little finding. 15. The best things in life are still free, no matter where you go lapausecafe.files.wordpress.comWalk the streets, hike the hills, play in the ocean. Visit a park, people watch, and just be generally stoked to be somewhere completely new. You probably paid a bunch to get there, now revel in all the things that don’t cost a dime. 16. Take public transit 3.bp.blogspot.comWhen in doubt, do as the locals do, and the locals take public transit. It’s way cheaper, you’ll probably meet some people along the way, it’ll help you get to know the place you’re in better, and you may even get a little lost. 17.Realize that your ideal vacation might not be where you expect to find it 3.bp.blogspot.comIt’s been ages since your last vacation, and you just want to get away. Visions of palm trees and crystal clear waters crashing on amazing beaches flood your mind, and you can almost feel the sun on your skin and the warm white sands between your toes. There’s nothing for miles but you and your book. So (if you’re like me) the first thing you do is Google “Hawaii vacations,” like hundreds of thousands of other people every day. There’s nothing wrong with going to Hawaii, and sure there are spots on the islands where you can have everything you envisioned, but you may also have to share it with a ton of other people. The more readily a vacation spot comes to mind, the more likely you’re not the only one with that idea, so the perfect getaway might take a little more research. Fortunately, there’s a trillion other fascinating and perfect little islands all over the world, and a wealth of resources to help you find the one that will give you the experience you’re looking for, plus perhaps a pleasant surprise. 18. Travel frequenciesoflife.files.wordpress.comWhether you’re an aspiring traveler, a gung-ho tourist, a genuine globetrotter, or anything in between, one of the greatest things you can do for yourself is to just get out there. We live on an amazing planet full of wonders that none of us will ever see all of in our lifetimes, but that should in no way stop you from trying. 

Alyson’s 3/06 Tarot：創造力 Creativity

Alyson’s 3/06 Tarot：創造力 Creativity 問題：我想寫篇好文章，可以吸引多一點人閱讀的文章，請指引主題？ 抽牌：水晶3號 創造力 Creativity 閱讀： 糟糕呀！腦袋裡都是糨糊。 深窟掘，大洞挖， 大腦裡的腦神經元， 要嘛！就是烏鴉鴉一叢叢已耗盡死光， 要嘛！就是一片片灰暗暗開發不起來。 苦了！這下子 … 要怎麼辦？ 還記得如何學說話嗎？ 當想要學習新事物時，都是如何開始的？ 基本功是首要的。 模仿是必須的。 參考是一定的。 尋找靈感是必然的。 該怎麼辦？ 能怎麼辦，就那樣辦。 所以，到底要怎麼辦？ 若天氣好，就出去尋找。 若天氣不好，就看書、上網找。 只要用心去思考，就知道可以怎麼辦。 Question: I want to write a good article that can attract more readers. Please guide me on the topic? Card Draw: Crystal No.3 Creativity Reading: Oh no! My mind is all mushy. Digging deep, excavating big holes, The neurons in my brain, Either all exhausted and dead like a bunch of crows, Or gloomy and undeveloped. It's tough! What do I do now? Do you remember how to learn to speak? How did you start when you wanted to learn something new? The basics are paramount. Imitation is necessary. Reference is definite. Seeking inspiration is inevitable. What to do? Do what I can do. So, what exactly do I do? If the weather is good, go outside and search. If the weather is bad, read books, browse the internet. As long as I think hard, I'll know what to do. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Creativity #Crystals #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #創造力 #水晶 #心智

2024 0207 今日塔羅：改變

2024 0207 今日塔羅：改變 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/137461672 沒有準時發出今日的塔羅牌卡 是故意為之 確實有，因明知要發，卻沒發 非故意為之 也是，想發，可因無想法，不知從何下筆，也就沒發 算是符合今日塔羅”改變”的意思，是吧 今天是農曆年最後一個上班日 早上起來 窗戶霧濛濛的水氣 如此可知外面飄著雨 今日，沒能像前兩天那般有著暖烘烘的太陽 在一兩週之前 心裡就一直浮現 今年農曆年有可能水氣瀰漫，霧濛濛 今日的天氣，是起頭的意思嗎？ 很久沒注意大夥上班的日子 也沒去搞懂為何明天政府調整為休息日 不像過去是從事人力資源的 這樣也挺好的，不是嗎? 該翻篇的 就別再沒有意思的眷戀 這類事情，從來就非關割捨 不是那般重要 也非生命中定得承受的 早上以為今天算是小年 然後被糾正說，明天才是 這又印證了我自己的老話 能不用腦，就懶得用，然後，腦就 … 亂掉了內容 Not sending out today's tarot cards on time. Some are intentional, Certainly, knowing that they should be sent but not sending them out. Not intentional, Also, wanting to send them out, but due to a lack of ideas, not knowing where to start, they weren't sent out. This fits the meaning of "change" in today's tarot, doesn't it? Today is the last working day of the lunar new year. In the morning. The mist on the window Indicates that it's raining outside. Today, there's no warm sun like the past two days. A week or two ago, I've been thinking this lunar new year might be damp and misty. Is today's weather a sign of the beginning? I haven't paid much attention to everyone's working days for a long time. Nor have I understood why the government has adjusted tomorrow to be a day off. It's not like I'm in human resources anymore. That's fine too, isn't it? It's time to turn the page, Let go of meaningless attachment. These things have never been about cutting ties, They're not that important, Nor are they something one must endure in life. In the morning, I thought today was Little New Year, Then I was corrected, tomorrow is. This confirms my own old saying again, If I can avoid using my brain, I'm too lazy to use it, and then... my brain just goes blank. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Change #Worlds #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #地球牌 #改變

最近我低落，0209我的塔羅牌是負面性

2024 0209 除夕日 我自己的塔羅牌是負面性 還真是符合我心中的情緒 這幾天，自己的塔羅牌大多是負面的、消極的 加上自己腦裡的思緒是紊亂 雖不至於不知所措 但無從思考倒是真實的狀態 可能是因為農曆春節 這是團圓日 而我們孩子們與爸媽陰陽兩隔 只能在夢中相見 還好 還有夢 夢裡的爸媽溫柔笑著 媽媽說她想跟爸爸一起去看電影 爸爸喜歡看電影 婚前的爸媽曾經一起看過一次電影 這回憶以前老爸很常提 我趕緊找尋適合的電影片 媽媽又說，別麻煩了，她跟爸爸在家裡看影片也是一樣的 然後媽媽問，知道哪裡有在教瑜珈嗎？ 她知道的那位鄰居已經沒有在教學了 我跟媽媽說老家附近大樓有人在教喔 夢醒了 我卻停留在爸媽的跟前 像以前那樣話家常 討厭清醒 討厭的夢醒時分 New Year's Eve My own tarot cards are negative It really resonates with the emotions in my heart. These days, most of my tarot cards are negative and pessimistic, coupled with the chaos in my mind. Although not completely lost, being unable to think is indeed the reality. Perhaps it's because of the Lunar New Year, this is a day for family reunion. But I with my brothers and parents are separated by life and death, only able to meet in dreams. Fortunately, there are still dreams. In the dream, my parents smile gently. Mom says she wants to go see a movie with dad. Dad likes watching movies. Before they got married, my parents watched a movie together once. This memory is something dad often brings up. I quickly search for a suitable movie. Mom says, don't bother, watching movies at home with dad is just as good. Then mom asks, do you know where they teach yoga? The neighbor she knew no longer teaches. I tell mom that there are people teaching nearby in our hometown. The dream ends, But I linger in front of my parents talking as we used to. Hate waking up. Hate this moment of waking from a dream. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Negativity #Crystals #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #水晶 #負面性

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2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance

2024 1114 阿成：聰穎 Brilliance

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

2024 0627 今日塔羅：學習者 Learner

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羨慕TWICE就輸了！美貌實力人氣具備的Somi在101依舊表現亮眼，出道候補一位的她讓大家都相當看好啊！

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian

18種讓妳成為旅遊達人的方法!!!

18種讓妳成為旅遊達人的方法!!!

Alyson’s 3/06 Tarot：創造力 Creativity

Alyson’s 3/06 Tarot：創造力 Creativity

2024 0207 今日塔羅：改變

2024 0207 今日塔羅：改變

最近我低落，0209我的塔羅牌是負面性

最近我低落，0209我的塔羅牌是負面性