Alyson’s 5/15 Tarot：改變 Change (47-57)

Alyson’s 5/15 Tarot：改變 Change (47-57) 問題：我5/14的未來日記主題 抽牌：改變 Change 今天與朋友討論的事情與今日的塔羅牌非常吻合 ~ 改變。 一個多月以來，每天持續學習新技能，希望能夠累積更多的學習經驗。 一邊學習，一邊思考，該怎麼做可以持續學習與練習，可以如何運用呢。 與同學討論與交換想法，並請教同學之後她會如何持續練習我們現在所學習的技能。 我們都朝著自己設定的未來前進，這樣的感覺，很是不錯。 前幾日才知道昔日有位同事今已成為理財名人，還有雜誌專訪。 我沒有投資理財的知識與技術，雖然非常羨慕，可終究不是適合我的路。 我沒有投資創業的機遇與財力，真的很是羨慕，可總是得面對現實的路。 可，我知道，我也是許多人羨慕的對象目標。 擁有選擇權，已屬幸運與幸福。 我現在要創造的是未來的平穩和豐盈。 如果我想要協助更多人，那我需要具備更多的能力。 我清楚明瞭，我的這一世，是需要不停動手勞動，動腦勞心的。 學習，是不二法門。 累積學習，多元學習，有效學習，融會學習，聰明學習是我這幾年得多加努力，且戰且實驗且調整的策略。 我首先改變的是執行力。 過往想比做的多，我的塔羅老師，我的前主管，都比我還著急。 他們怕我的大運勢都快已經過去了，我仍還在拖遲，在猶豫。 而我擔憂的是，每日我都距離我的大限更靠近一點，再不加緊腳步，如何完成我這一世的使命，對我的英雄之旅，又該如何論結局。 我也改變了思考邏輯。 我不再問怎麼辦，也不問為什麼。 看到學習機會的資訊，時間允許，就立即報名參加。 時光不為誰停留，機會也是，時機更是。 接著我改變我的筆觸。 從提問句，改變為肯定句。 從主觀詞，改變為客觀詞。 從無病呻吟的調性，希望能夠改變為晴朗輕鬆的陽光類型。 最近這段期間，真的是我這輩子最用功，最認真，最癡迷於學習的時光了。 很忙，很累，很是疲倦。 收穫滿滿。 獲益滿滿。 學習滿滿。 喜悅滿滿。 『改變』 就是要如同變色龍，隨著情勢、季節而不斷改變。 改變，是從內心開始營造，非長髮剪成短髮，原是蘿莉風改為清新脫俗風。 改變，最棒的情境是自然地發生，但有時還是得逼迫一下。 停滯不動，如同蟬寶寶變成蛹，若不想使勁地破繭而出蛻變成蝴蝶，死亡也就成了另一個必然的結局。 在改變之前，我做了以下的事情 ~ 第一、 確定目標，重新導航。 第二、 做功課，瞭解實現目標的選擇種類。 第三、 檢視自己，更加了解自己，並明白欠缺甚麼，也就是要學習補足的事情。 第四、 衡量評估自己當下現況可以擔起哪一項選擇。 第五、 行動，學習。 第六、 通告家人、親人、好友們，生活比重因學習而要調整。 這是我這世最後一次志向與職業大翻盤，需下猛藥，需認真面對。 第七、 享受不足，享受吸收知識的過程，像是飢腸轆轆時吃著一口口的美食，那滿足感和喜悅，讓人感到幸福，開心不已。 第八、 一邊學習，一邊審視現實，擬定及調整學習步調、節奏與方向。 第九、 不斷鼓勵、激勵自己並適時犒賞自己。 學習，除了動力，也要不停添加柴火，維持動能。 該休息時，休息。 該獎勵時，獎勵。 第十、 接受唯有現在才是最需重視與珍惜。 當下該怎麼辦，就怎麼辦，別再問怎麼辦。 Alyson's 5/15 Tarot: Change (47-57) Question: The theme of my future diary for 5/14 Drawn card: Change The topic I discussed with friends today aligns perfectly with today’s tarot card ~ Change. For over a month now, I have been continuously learning new skills daily, hoping to accumulate more learning experience. While learning, I think about how I can sustain my practice and how I can apply what I've learned. I discussed and exchanged ideas with classmates, asking them how they plan to continue practicing the skills we are currently learning. We are all moving towards our self-set futures, and it feels great. A few days ago, I learned that a former colleague has become a financial celebrity and has been featured in a magazine interview. I don’t have the knowledge or skills in investment and finance. Although I am very envious, it is ultimately not the path for me. I lack the opportunities and financial means for investment and entrepreneurship. I am indeed envious, but I must face the reality of my own path. However, I know that I am also an object of envy for many. Having the power of choice is already a blessing and a happiness. What I need to create now is future stability and abundance. If I want to help more people, I need to acquire more abilities. I clearly understand that in this life, I need to continuously work hard and think diligently. Learning is the only way. Accumulating learning, diversified learning, effective learning, integrated learning, and smart learning are strategies I must diligently pursue, experiment with, and adjust in the coming years. The first thing I am changing is my execution. In the past, I thought more than I did. Both my tarot teacher and my former supervisor were more anxious than I was. They worried that my major opportunities were slipping away while I hesitated and delayed. What I worry about is that every day brings me closer to my final deadline. If I don’t pick up the pace, how will I fulfill my life’s mission and complete my hero’s journey? I have also changed my thought process. I no longer ask “What to do?” or “Why?” When I see learning opportunities and if time permits, I immediately sign up. Time doesn’t wait for anyone, nor do opportunities or timing. Next, I changed my writing style. From questioning sentences to affirmative ones. From subjective words to objective words. From a tone of lamentation to a bright and relaxed sunshine type. Recently, this has been the most hardworking, earnest, and obsessive learning period of my life. Very busy, very tired, very exhausted. But filled with abundant harvests, benefits, learning, and joy. “Change” means being like a chameleon, constantly changing with the situation and the seasons. Change starts from within, not merely cutting long hair into short or switching from a cute style to an elegant one. The best change happens naturally, but sometimes it needs to be forced. Stagnation, like a cicada larva turning into a pupa, if it doesn’t strive to break out of its cocoon and transform into a butterfly, death becomes the inevitable outcome. Before making a change, I did the following: 1.Confirmed my goals and re-navigated. 2.Did my homework to understand the options for achieving my goals. 3.Examined myself to understand my deficiencies and what I need to learn to fill those gaps. 4.Assessed what choices I can handle given my current situation. 5.Took action and started learning. 6.Informed family, relatives, and friends that my life balance would need adjusting due to my learning. This is my last major ambition and career overhaul in this life, requiring serious effort and a serious approach. 7.Enjoyed the process of learning, akin to savoring delicious food when hungry, bringing satisfaction and joy, making me feel happy. 8.Continuously reviewed reality while learning, adjusting the pace, rhythm, and direction of my learning. 9.Constantly encouraged and rewarded myself appropriately. Learning requires not only motivation but also the continuous addition of fuel to maintain momentum. Rest when needed, reward when deserved. 10.Accepted that only the present moment is most crucial and should be cherished. Do what needs to be done now without asking what to do. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Change

2024 0614 今日塔羅：力量 Strength

2024 0614 今日塔羅：力量 Strength 昨天，又是充滿挫折的一天。 學習了那麼多時數，實際練習也好幾次，但記憶好像僅限於當天存在似的，當需要運用時，腦袋空空。 又完成了一份不是自己獨立作業的作品。 老師笑得無奈，我也微笑得回應了我的無力感。 我很認真學習，真的。 但我卻始終記不住。 現在甚至回頭在翻看講義，陷入像看其他語言書籍或天書，那般難懂，看了數次，也未能勾起一點點回憶。 老師問我說，你都還給我了嗎？ 我尷尬地回應說，是你的，我始終都沒有拿走過。 聽到的同學們哄堂大笑。 難受，無力，難過，無法跨過。 這電腦圖層的變化技巧，我跨不過去。 跟同學分享說，我覺得人工智能的文字生圖方式還是比較適合我。 同學笑說，她同意。她說，我還是比較擅長發號司令，找厲害的人來執行。 原來，我今日的和諧是，我與自己的能力不足和解。 我終究還是放棄了我實在是無法勝任的圖層概念。 於是繳交作業，老師說，這作品，真美。他做的。 我也說，這作品，真的很美。我想的。 我們合作無間。 套句最近我常說的一句話，「我很有想法，但我就是沒有辦法。」 還好，我還有個優點，懂求救，坦率接受也向他人表示自己的無能力情況，並親切拜託他人的協助及指導。 這樣的情況，我認為也能呼應到今日的塔羅牌『力量』。 我們總會覺得，力量是存在在自己的身體裡，肌肉裡，還有意志裡。 這次的學習，我明白，力量，不一定是陽剛，不一定是陰柔，且不一定是發自自己的身體和內心裡。 力量，也可來自於他人。 只要我們能夠尋求協助，並真誠請求他人的協助。 各種不同的力量，串聯在一起，團體在一起，發揮的不會只是團結的力量，還有共同心願的能量。 在『力量』這張牌的圖案裡，有一位輔助祭祀的人，雙肩和頭頂，扛著和頂著一個圓弧底的玉石，玉石中間放著一顆像是會滾動的蛋，若沒能保持平衡，沒能全心專注，很容易就會發生蛋掉落。 而這顆蛋象徵著什麼？ 象徵著每個人心中珍惜，視為珍寶的人事物。 有的人是名聲，有的人是家人孩子，有的人是做人做事的原則，也有的人是日日變動增加的銀行存款。 當認知到自己珍惜的事情，更會花費一百二十個心思去保護，維持，甚至也有可能發生搶奪。 為了保守自己的所愛，所堅持，需要力量。 力量的形容詞是強大。 強大的力量可幫助我們保護好，也有助於我們取得想要的。 為了擁有力量，需要做好多努力。 群體中，是領導者，統御者，擁有力量。 擁有了力量，需繼續堅持原則，並且莫忘初衷。 力量，若沒有慎用，傷人，誤己，又壞事，不得不小心。 在我們平凡人的人生裡 ~ 因被需要，而激發力量。 因被愛著，而產生力量。 因擁有，而擁抱力量。 因失去，而渴求力量。 因力量，得以守護。 因力量，得以展現。 因力量，得以自在。 因力量，得以駕馭。 要溜走的，不甘願留下的，緊握，不放手，不是力量，是蠻力，是暴力。 溫柔的力量，才能直搗人心，才能讓人交心，託付真心，給予真心。 Tarot for Today, June 14, 2024: Strength Yesterday was yet another day full of frustrations. Despite putting in countless hours of study and practice, it felt as though my memory only lasted for the day. When it came time to use that knowledge, my mind went blank. Once again, I completed a project that wasn’t entirely my own work. The teacher smiled wryly, and I responded with a smile that conveyed my sense of powerlessness. I truly am studying diligently. But I just can’t seem to remember. Now, even when I look back at my notes, it feels like I’m reading a foreign language or some incomprehensible text. No matter how many times I review them, they fail to jog any memories. The teacher asked me, “Did you return everything to me?” I awkwardly replied, “It’s yours. I never took it.” The classmates around us burst into laughter. I felt distressed, powerless, and sad, unable to overcome these feelings. This technique of altering computer layers is beyond my grasp. I told my classmates that I find AI-generated text-to-image more suitable for me. One classmate agreed, joking that I’m better at giving orders and finding skilled people to execute them. It turns out, my harmony today is about making peace with my limitations. In the end, I had to give up on the concept of layers that I simply couldn’t master. When I submitted the project, the teacher said, “This work is beautiful. He did it.” I replied, “Yes, it’s truly beautiful. I thought of it.” We collaborated seamlessly. As I’ve often said lately, “I have many ideas, but I just can’t execute them.” Fortunately, I have one advantage: I know how to ask for help, accept my limitations frankly, and sincerely request assistance and guidance from others. This situation, I believe, also resonates with today’s tarot card, Strength. We often think that strength resides within our bodies, muscles, and willpower. Through this learning experience, I’ve come to understand that strength doesn’t have to be masculine or feminine, and it doesn’t always come from within ourselves. Strength can also come from others. As long as we can seek help and sincerely request assistance from others. Different strengths can come together, forming a collective that not only manifests the power of unity but also the energy of shared goals. In the imagery of the Strength card, there is an assistant priest who carries and balances a curved jade stone on their shoulders and head. Inside the jade stone is an egg that seems like it could roll out at any moment. If the balance is lost, if full concentration is not maintained, the egg can easily fall. What does this egg symbolize? It represents the things we cherish and hold dear in our hearts. For some, it’s reputation; for others, family and children; for some, it’s principles in life and work; and for others, it’s the ever-increasing balance in their bank accounts. When we recognize what we cherish, we are more dedicated to protecting, maintaining, and sometimes even fighting for it. To preserve what we love and stand for, we need strength. The adjective for strength is powerful. Powerful strength helps us protect and obtain what we desire. To possess strength, we need to put in a lot of effort. In a group, the leader, the commander, possesses strength. Once we have strength, we must continue to adhere to our principles and never forget our original intentions. Strength, if not used carefully, can hurt others, mislead oneself, and cause harm, so we must be cautious. In our ordinary lives, strength is sparked by being needed. Strength arises from being loved. Strength grows from having something to hold on to. Strength is sought after in loss. Because of strength, we can protect. Because of strength, we can shine. Because of strength, we can be free. Because of strength, we can control. What wants to slip away, what is unwilling to stay, if we grasp it tightly and refuse to let go, that’s not strength; it’s brute force, it’s violence. Gentle strength can touch hearts, build trust, and foster genuine connections and true kindness. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Strength

2024 0430 今日塔羅：先知Seer

2024 0430 今日塔羅：先知Seer 不知道你相信前世今生嗎？ 不知道你相信累世因果嗎？ 不知道你相信每一世的我們，既是來報恩還債，也是來報仇討債嗎？ 我明白有許多人是不相信的，不管是否自己有信仰。 無妨。 這世界有那麼多人，很幸運能有共同認知的我們，也很幸運有完全不認同的你們，還有不認識我，也不認識宇宙、高我的他們。 我們所思、所想、所慮、所愛皆不盡相同。 但這一點，我們絕對都會彼此認同。 那就是，我們有緣，有機會相識，相知。 「我並不同意你的觀點，但是我誓死捍衛你說話的權利。」 ~ 伏爾泰 我同意還非常高興我們彼此信仰、認同的世界裡，都擁有、信任且可依賴的神。 共存，共融，世界也跟著精采萬分。 先知是預言家嗎？ 先知能先知道嗎？ 伊斯蘭教裡的先知多半是指從安拉派遣到世界的多位使者，其中最後一位派遣給全人類的使者是穆罕默德。 伊斯蘭教認為，穆罕默德是先知，但是「先知」並不等於是能夠預知未來的人。 你說：「我不是破天荒的使者；我不知道我要遭遇什麼，也不知道你們要遭遇什麼，我只遵從我所受的啟示，我只是一個坦率的警告者。」~ 《古蘭經》46：9 塔羅牌『先知』，是在說 ~ 今天的你，是一位智者。 你確實比一般大眾早看到了那道光，也許隱隱約約，也許漂浮不定。 也許在古時候看到的光，就如同今日我們稱的”極光”，雖然天天都存在，可未必人人都能看得見。 今天的你，就像牧師、和尚、印度聖人、魔法師、女祭司、法老王甚至是占星家，將指引大家進化，指引大家覺醒。 這過程是艱辛困苦的。 這過程是被敵視排擠的。 這過程是任重而道遠的。 這過程是需有強大毅力與堅忍不拔的心，才能完成的。 這也是在提醒凡夫俗子的我們 ~ 群體中，達成共識是件困難的事情；但依然有人可以做得到。 有的時候，在職場裡，難免，我們會有成為”使者”的時候。 權杖，總是在敲打著我們 ~ 正確的信念與意志。 權杖，總是在提醒著我們 ~ 堅持的原則與初衷。 有些事情，違心，不管強大的誘惑或吸引力，堅定，不動搖，方是正確的決定。 靈性修行、學習與鍛鍊，是一條親近高我、接近宇宙之路。 每個宗教，每個民族，每個地區都有發展出自己的方式，接近能量，接近大地，接近更高的次元世界。 在『先知』這張塔羅牌，我自己目前擁有的經驗很少。 西藏的吟唱，總能震出我隱藏在內心裡的呼喚，觸動到心窩的最深處，淚，不知不覺中就狂流淌。 印度聖人薩圖 – 冥想的力量，夏威夷先知 – 先見的力量，薩滿巫師 – 療癒的力量，希臘東正教祭師 – 符號和儀式的力量，皆是還沒有接觸過、也不認識的神祕。 權杖，反求諸己，回歸到自我的內在。 若你的能量還處於微弱層級，就先好好鍛練自己。 當你在進化並提升自己的靈性與能量的同時，宇宙自然是也在幫你安排，也許是你的導師，也許你會是導師。 看哪一項的因緣先俱足，屆時，我們”順勢”就對了。 Today's Tarot: The Seer Do you believe in past lives? Do you believe in karma accumulated over lifetimes? Do you believe that each of our lives is both about settling debts and seeking vengeance? I understand that many people don't believe in these concepts, regardless of their faith or lack thereof. That's okay. In this world, there are those fortunate enough to share our beliefs, as well as those who vehemently disagree, and those who are completely unaware of me, of you, or of the higher powers governing us. Our thoughts, beliefs, worries, and loves may differ vastly. But there's one thing we all agree upon. That is, we are fated to meet and to know each other. "I may not agree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it." ~ Voltaire I wholeheartedly agree and am immensely grateful that in the world we believe in, we have gods whom we can possess, trust, and rely upon. Coexistence, harmony, and the world becomes infinitely fascinating. Is a seer a prophet? Can a seer foresee? In Islam, a prophet mostly refers to the many messengers sent by Allah to the world, with Muhammad being the final messenger sent to all mankind. While Muhammad is considered a prophet in Islam, being a "prophet" doesn't necessarily mean being able to predict the future. As stated in the Quran 46:9, "I am not a novelty among the messengers, nor do I know what will be done with me or you. I follow only what is revealed to me, and I am no more than a clear warner." The tarot card "The Seer" is saying~ Today, you are a sage. You indeed see the light before most others, perhaps faintly or vaguely, perhaps flickering. Maybe the light you saw in ancient times is akin to what we call "aurora" today—always present, but not always visible to everyone. Today, you are like a priest, a monk, an Indian sage, a magician, a high priestess, a pharaoh, or even an astrologer, guiding others towards evolution and awakening. This process is arduous. This process invites hostility and ostracism. This process is long and challenging. This process demands tremendous resilience and unwavering determination to complete. It also serves as a reminder to ordinary folks like us~ Consensus within a group is hard to achieve, yet some manage to attain it. Sometimes, in our workplaces, we inevitably become "messengers." The wand always taps us~ reaffirming correct beliefs and willpower. The wand always reminds us~ of our principles and original intentions. Some things, against our instincts, despite powerful temptations or allure, require steadfastness, immovability, and constitute the right decisions. Spiritual practice, learning, and training are paths to connect with our higher selves and the universe. Every religion, every ethnicity, every region has developed its own ways to tap into energy, connect with the earth, and reach higher dimensions. In the tarot card "The Seer," I have limited personal experience. Tibetan chants always evoke my hidden calling, touching the deepest recesses of my heart, causing tears to flow uncontrollably. Indian sage Satu—power of meditation, Hawaiian seer—power of foresight, Shamanic healer—power of healing, Greek Orthodox priest—power of symbols and rituals, all are mysteries I have yet to explore and understand. The wand, reflecting back to oneself, returning to the inner self. If your energy is still at a weak level, then train yourself well first. As you evolve and elevate your spirituality and energy, the universe naturally arranges for you—perhaps as a mentor, perhaps mentored by others. Whichever connection fulfills its destiny first, we'll "go with the flow" when the time comes. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Seer

探索象頭神的智慧之泉：向你介紹一副充滿力量的神諭卡牌 - 卡牌開箱系列 Whispers of Lord Ganesha

你有沒有被印度教那豐沛的象徵元素和靈性傳統所深深吸引呢？有沒有試過想在人生路上找尋一種清晰的指引呢？如果有的話，那麼「象頭神低語神喻卡」（Whispers of Lord Ganesha）可能就是為你度身訂造的工具啦！不如和我們一齊踏上這一趟探索塔羅和神諭卡之旅吧！我會在這個全新的文章及影片系列中，為你逐一揭秘「象頭神低語神喻卡」，解構當中的故事、符號意義，以及蘊含的潛在智慧。 象頭神(Ganesha)是誰呢？ 象頭神是印度教裏最受愛戴、最為人敬重的神祇之一。祂那顆大象頭配上人類身體的形象，辨識度超高，是清除障礙、庇佑藝術與科學之神，也是眾人祈求智慧與豐盛的神明。祂的由來和冒險經歷為我們帶來寶貴的人生智慧，教會我們如何克服逆境、擁抱知識，以及學會敬重自己內在的神性。 點解要用神諭卡呢？ 神諭卡其實就好像塔羅牌的親戚一樣，能夠以一種簡單直接的方式，去連結你的直覺、接收靈性的指引，並能以一個嶄新角度去看待你當下的處境。「象頭神低語神喻卡」就特別連繫著祂這位仁慈神祇的能量和智慧。透過卡牌上生動精緻的圖象和發人深省的訊息，我們可以為前行的道路帶來啟示，增強決策能力，並找到一份心靈的平靜與清晰方向。 了解卡牌的背後含義 雖然我們不深入去了解卡牌的背景都可以直接解讀，但如果願意花些時間學習每張卡牌背後的歷史和象徵意義，其實是會加強你和卡牌之間的羈絆的。在我的文章及影片入面，我會帶領大家一齊探索「象頭神低語神喻卡」，為大家提供一些卡牌背後的意義洞見，當中的印度神話故事，甚或與脈輪系統的連繫。 神諭卡啱唔啱你用？ 如果你一直對靈性世界充滿好奇、對象頭神的教導抱有興趣，或者單純在人生中尋找清晰的指引與方向，這套卡牌好可能是一個很合適你的工具。無論你是經驗豐富的靈性探索者，抑或只是一個剛剛開始踏上這條路的初哥，神喻卡的指引方式都是比較溫柔、容易上手。 如果你覺得同「象頭神低語神喻卡」很有緣份，能產生共鳴，我非常樂意為你提供一個專屬的神喻卡讀牌服務。有興趣到時我們可以一齊深入探索卡牌為你捎來的特定訊息，提供指引、支持和靈感啟發。記得去我的 YouTube 頻道上觀看完整的開箱影片，一覽這套精緻卡牌的風采。同時亦密切留意我有關其他迷人卡牌的文章和影片啦！ 如果想了解更多關於這副神諭卡，可以點入以下YouTube 頻道! #Tarot#tarotcards#oracledecks#OracleCard#直覺#神話#神諭卡#靈性連結#象頭神#ganesha#卡牌開箱#印度神

Alyson’s 4/27 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (29-57)

Alyson’s 4/27 Tarot：豐收 Harvest (29-57) 問題：我4/26的未來日記主題 抽牌：豐收 Harvest 總算又到了星期五之夜。 還沒累垮，太好了。 週五晚上的這個時間點，對我而言，就也表示這地獄週我已走到一半路途了，週六的此時，才是我完整走完整個地獄週。 然後，週日好好休息一天，下週一，繼續像苦行僧般的學習、學習、學習。 未來日記的第三週主題是隱士。 今天的副題抽到的塔羅牌是『豐收』。 這光是字面上的意思，就已讓我感覺到美好。 那今日，若真是有豐收的成就，可要好好地慶祝。 這週的課程，對我而言比上週吃力許多，很有壓力。 又有一位同學因覺得跟不上老師的教學進度，心理壓力很大而申請退訓。 本班學員數已是最後的雙位數 ~ 十人。 今晨，雨勢已減弱，路上車潮多，上課遲到，挺不好意思的。 今天課程的內容，聽得懂，跟不上，不管如何追趕，就是跟不上。 還好休息時間，同學來相助，非常有耐心將細節一個一個講解，讓我學習到更多。 這是豐收無誤。 豐收牌 ~ 就像大自然的四季輪迴，是過去努力的成熟結果，就等著我們辛勤收割去。 記得，豐收，不會從天上掉下來，是一路走來彎腰勞動才有的，且還有最後一哩路(勞動收割)，才是確確實實的成果豐收。 這張塔羅牌也是在訴說，結實累累的果實，在樹上，在地上，再不進行採收，果實會腐敗，會掉落，會腐爛，完全失去原有的價值。 提醒著，別貪心，有這些收成已是豐盈，已足夠。 再等待下去，收成不僅不會增加，反而會毀壞，最終是失去。 「想怎麼收穫，先看怎麼栽。」 曾有腦神經的科學研究： 「忍耐是與獎勵迴路有關聯的。獎勵迴路是大腦紋狀體、前額葉皮層和邊緣系統等區域負責處理的。當人完成充滿挑戰任務時，獎勵迴路會釋放多巴胺等神經傳導質，產生愉悅及滿足感，接著會強化人的行為，讓人更願意承擔忍耐。」 雅各書五章7節說：「弟兄們哪，你們要忍耐，直到主來。看哪，農夫忍耐等候地裡寶貴的出產，直到得了秋雨春雨。」 Alyson's 4/27 Tarot: Harvest (29-57) Question: My theme for 4/26 in my future diary Card Drawn: Harvest Finally, it's Friday night again. I'm not completely worn out yet, which is great. For me, this time on Friday night signifies that I've reached the halfway point of this hellish week, and by this time on Saturday, I'll have completed the entire week. Then, a well-deserved rest on Sunday, and next Monday, it's back to learning, learning, learning like a penitent monk. The theme for the third week of my future diary is the Hermit. Today's sub-theme drawn from the tarot is "Harvest." Just the literal meaning alone makes me feel good. So, if there's truly a harvest of achievements today, it's time to celebrate. This week's classes have been much more challenging for me compared to last week, very stressful. Another classmate applied for withdrawal due to feeling unable to keep up with the teacher's pace, experiencing significant psychological pressure. The number of students in our class has dwindled to the final double digits - ten people. This morning, the rain has subsided, but the traffic was heavy, making me late for class, which I felt quite embarrassed about. I could understand today's class content, but I couldn't keep up, no matter how hard I tried. Fortunately, during break time, classmates came to help, patiently explaining each detail to me, allowing me to learn more. This is definitely a harvest. The Harvest card – Like the cycles of nature's seasons, it's the matured result of past efforts, waiting for us to harvest diligently. Remember, the harvest won't fall from the sky; it comes from bending down and laboring along the way, and the final mile (the labor of harvest) is where the real harvest is. This tarot card also speaks of the abundant fruits on trees and on the ground. Without harvesting, the fruits will rot, fall, and decay, losing their original value entirely. It reminds us not to be greedy; having these harvests is already abundant, already enough. Waiting further will not increase the harvest but rather destroy it, ultimately leading to loss. "How you harvest depends on how you plant." There's a neurological study: "Patience is associated with the reward circuit. The reward circuit is responsible for processing in areas such as the striatum, prefrontal cortex, and limbic system. When a person completes a challenging task, the reward circuit releases neurotransmitters like dopamine, creating pleasure and satisfaction, reinforcing the behavior and making people more willing to endure patience." James 5:7 in the Bible says, "Be patient, therefore, brothers, until the coming of the Lord. See how the farmer waits for the precious fruit of the earth, being patient about it, until it receives the early and the late rains." #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Harvest

Alyson’s 3/25 Tarot：大師 Master

Alyson’s 3/25 Tarot：大師 Master https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/144514858 厲害之人， 想說的話，不多。 因多說無意。 想寫的句，不多。 因多寫無義。 很多時候的”有”與”沒有”，不在多。 多說，像是野人獻曝，反而砸了鍋。 多寫，像是言不由衷，反而現了醜。 向許多大師學習 ~ 精。 “精髓”是必殺技。 想擁有自己在江湖上的必殺技？ 開始累積實打實戰經驗值吧。 For those of great prowess, Words are few, For speaking too much is meaningless. Sentences are few, For writing too much is pointless. Often, the difference between "having" and "not having" lies not in quantity. Speaking too much is like a savage exposing himself, only to ruin everything. Writing too much is like insincerity revealed, exposing ugliness. Learn from many masters—the essence. "The essence" is the killer move. Want to have your own killer move in the arena? Start accumulating real combat experience. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Master

Alyson’s 4/10 Tarot：均衡 Equilibrium (12-57)

Alyson’s 4/10 Tarot：均衡 Equilibrium (12-57) 問題：我4/09的未來日記主題 抽牌：均衡 Equilibrium 今天，感覺蠻忙碌的。 因為心上掛念著今天要上課，在清晨六點多醒來一次，然後就又造成八點多真正需要起床的時間，迷迷糊糊地，無法清醒起床。 這真的是有點傷腦筋。 明天開始要比今天更早起床一個多小時。 天兒呀！ 真的是自己給自己找事情，且會非常忙碌。 今天未來日記是第二週主題「死亡」中的「均衡」。 可，到現在晚上九點鐘，我只感受到學習的比重佔滿了腦袋，導致同樣的時間，卻比其他夜晚更為疲憊。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/146079133 均衡，是表示情緒是平衡穩定的。 而今天，沒有太多的情緒起伏，雖然面對一些官僚式作法讓我心裡猛搖頭，但尊重，所以沒有顯露任何內心想法。 塔羅牌「均衡」圖案表示 ~ 若情緒卡在憂鬱或悲傷，要像鴨子花盆，漂浮在情緒水域之上，讓心智與身心達到沉靜的狀態，讓悲傷隨著流水，靜靜伴著你，靜靜地划過心海，慢慢地流向心底最深處，慢慢地進入你深處的記憶，存在，但盡量別引起強大衝擊，讓你的情緒起伏震盪，導致好不容易平靜下來的心，再度因此而狂亂。 今天的「未來日記」與塔羅抽牌，沒有連結之處，更無重疊的軌跡。 若硬要連結牽扯在一起，那就是晚上聽著瑞．強德蘭的「水晶骷髏頭」神秘教導的線上課程。 完全聽不懂，跟不上老師所說的，即使有翻譯的緩衝時間，仍很難了解。 但可能因試著聽，所以情緒是平坦無波的。 只有兩眼間的皮膚有著褶皺，因為聽不懂而一直皺眉。 Alyson's 4/10 Tarot: Equilibrium (12-57) Question: The theme of my journal for 4/09 Card drawn: Equilibrium Today feels quite busy. Waking up around six in the morning, feeling the weight of the day's classes ahead, I couldn't fully rouse myself until after eight, feeling groggy and unable to fully awaken. It's a bit of a headache. Starting tomorrow, I'll need to wake up over an hour earlier than today. Oh, boy! Seems like I'm finding ways to keep myself occupied, and it's going to be hectic. Today's journal theme is "Death" from the second week, focusing on "Equilibrium." However, as it nears nine in the evening, my mind feels consumed with studying, leaving me more fatigued than usual at this hour compared to other nights. Equilibrium implies emotional stability. Today, there haven't been many emotional highs or lows. Though faced with bureaucratic procedures that make me shake my head internally, I choose to respect them, thus not expressing any inner thoughts outwardly. The imagery of the Tarot card "Equilibrium" suggests that if emotions linger in sadness or melancholy, one should float like a duck on the emotional waters, achieving a state of calmness in mind and body. Let sadness drift along the currents, silently accompanying you, gently passing through the sea of your heart, slowly flowing into the deepest recesses of your being, existing but trying not to cause a significant impact that would disrupt the calmness you've painstakingly achieved. Today's "journal of the future" and the Tarot draw don't seem to have any connection or overlapping paths. If one were to forcefully link them, it might be the online course by Rue Quandlran on "Crystal Skulls" mysteries that I listened to in the evening. I couldn't understand it at all, struggling to keep up with the teacher's words, even with translation buffering time; comprehension remained elusive. However, perhaps the attempt to listen kept my emotions flat. The only wrinkles were between my brows, a result of my constant frowning due to the lack of understanding. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Equilibrium

2024 0513今日塔羅：突破 Breakthrough

2024 0513今日塔羅：突破 Breakthrough 剛稍早，雷神可能這次不在團隊內，天空先悶了一些時間，然後碰一聲，大雨直接傾落，連反應的時間都沒有，若人在外面，妥妥成了落湯雞。 人生會有這樣類似的情景，沒有個心理準備，馬上來個大轉變，幾乎通常都是”無常”這腳色的主場。 一瞬間，天雲變色。 一瞬間，山崩地裂。 一瞬間，意外傷亡鐵錚錚的事實，從前再也無法挽回。 今日跟朋友聊著生活，聊著人生，聊著”變數”，剎那間，對於努力前進和拼命動力，有著嘆息的句點。 可是，人生路上，就是這樣，想法改變沒有停止線。 感嘆是一時，計畫與周全是一世。 我們在嘆息聲中領悟。 我們在挫折聲中成長。 我們在悲憤淚水裡立志更加堅強。 我們在打擊崩垮下濛濛渺渺茫茫。 有句歌詞，「愛情就像一條河，每個人都是摸著石頭過河。」 人生，不也是，像一條河，有奔騰，有停滯，有涓涓細流，有深深的漩渦。 今天的塔羅牌是『突破』。 讓我想起以往工作經驗的習慣。 工作，難免會遇到困境，面臨僵局。 我會視情況而思考要如何面對。 有種事情屬於非常重要等級，不過節奏不須太急躁，因重要而無法輕鬆面對，任何的動作皆會影響後續發展與發酵，但還有時間可以酌量。 這時，建議採取的方式”緩”或”暫停”。 等局勢。 局勢先動，我們再伺機調整行動。 也會有這樣的事情，重要且急的事情，且已非初次站在擂台上的局，奪得先機是攸關未來走向甚至結局如何。 『突破』是我曾採用過，且成功的戰略。 而進行突破之前，得先破除僵局。 僵局破除之法在於『突破』之道。 所謂『突破』 ~ 不是”甘願與否”、”願不願意”或”想不想要”的衡量與思考。 面臨的是就是必須轉變，必須調整，必須改變。 帶著急迫的節奏。 帶著且戰且走且調整的謀略。 考驗的是危機處理能力，冷靜思考能力與團戰是否共心。 提刀上馬，勇往直前，跳躍障礙，衝過攔阻，是最佳制敵之心法。 在戰場上，不能讓猶豫拉垮行動力，不能讓三心兩意澆熄戰鬥力。 去吧！衝吧！實踐吧！ 像奔騰跳躍中的駿馬 ~ 蹬！跳躍！漂亮！完美落地！ Today's Tarot: Breakthrough Just a while ago, it seemed like Thor wasn't on the team this time. The sky stayed cloudy for a while, then with a crash, heavy rain poured down without warning, leaving no time for reaction. If you were caught outside, you'd be soaking wet in an instant. Life can throw us similar situations. Without mental preparation, sudden major changes occur, often with the role of "impermanence" taking center stage. In an instant, the sky changes color. In an instant, mountains crumble. In an instant, the harsh reality of unexpected casualties, irretrievable once gone. Today, chatting with friends about life, about the variability of life, there was a sigh, a punctuation mark to the efforts and driving force to move forward. Yet, on the path of life, thoughts change without a stop sign. Sighing is momentary; planning and consideration are lifelong. We find understanding amidst sighs. We grow amidst setbacks. We resolve to be stronger amidst tears of frustration. We navigate through the haze amidst crushing blows. There's a lyric that goes, "Love is like a river, everyone is feeling their way through." Isn't life, too, like a river? It rushes, it stagnates, it trickles, it swirls deep. Today's Tarot card is 'Breakthrough'. It reminds me of habits from past work experiences. In work, encountering difficulties and facing deadlocks is inevitable. I assess how to proceed based on the situation. Some matters are of utmost importance but don't require haste. Because of their significance, they can't be approached lightly; any action will affect subsequent developments and outcomes, but there's still time for deliberation. In such cases, it's advisable to take a "slow" or "pause" approach. Wait for the situation to unfold. Let the situation move first, then adjust our actions accordingly. There are also situations that are both important and urgent, and it's not the first time facing such challenges. Seizing the initiative is crucial for determining future outcomes and even the final result. 'Breakthrough' is a strategy I've employed before and succeeded with. But before a breakthrough can happen, the deadlock must be broken. The method to break the deadlock lies in the path of 'Breakthrough'. The so-called 'Breakthrough' isn't about whether one is willing or unwilling, or whether one wants it or not. It's about the necessity of change, adjustment, and transformation. It's urgent. It requires a strategy of fighting while adapting. It tests crisis management abilities, the capacity for calm reflection, and whether the team is united. Take up the sword, mount the horse, advance courageously, leap over obstacles, and charge through barriers; this is the best strategy for defeating the enemy. On the battlefield, hesitation dulls action; wavering weakens combat prowess. Go forth! Charge! Act! Like a spirited horse leaping forward—kick, leap, elegant, perfect landing! #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Breakthrough

Alyson’s 4/14 Tarot：力量 Strength (16-57)

Alyson’s 4/14 Tarot：力量 Strength (16-57) 問題：我4/13的未來日記主題 抽牌：力量 Strength 昨天參加一個培訓課程，關於協談，關於志工，關於自殺議題。 課程內容是嚴肅的，同學是親切的，老師們與主辦單位的人們很是溫柔。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/146682463 上午滿滿的四小時，有數據分析，有現況分享，有醫師專業知識的傳授。 下午滿滿的四小時，是團體課程，有遊戲，有認知，有分享。 上完一天課程結束後，回到家要寫功課，將一天的學習心得與團體體驗一一回饋。 將所有指定作業完成已凌晨。 太累了，沒有精神再提筆寫「未來日記」的塔羅日誌。 今天補上。(然後今天的，卻又得明天補了，希望明天我可以將進度趕上，別再拖延。) 今天「未來日記」的塔羅抽牌是「力量」。 完完全全地貼切著我今日一整天的學習課程。 我報名參加一個志工培訓課程。 這是『1995』是防治自殺專線志工培訓。 經過三階段的學習與評量後，方能成為志工，才能開始進行協助他人的事情。 若問我，那麼多的志工，為何選擇『1995』？ 很難回答這個問題，因沒有仔細酌量與思考過。 二十多年前知道『1995』，覺得這是很有意義的，且真摯佩服這些大愛的志工們。 這些是無名英雄，協助他人，是不留名，不現身的。 一直有想貢獻能力予社會的想法，在朋友號召下，連同我和幾位朋友就一起報名了。 曾有過想哭卻哭不出來的痛嗎？ 曾有過痛到心已麻痺，只覺空洞嗎？ 找不到生命的出口，眼前雖不是黑暗，但確實是看不清楚的。 在迷濛裡，沒有方向，心，虛浮著，恐懼驟升，無法停歇地慌。 可以跟誰說？ 會讓人擔心的。 會被人責罵的。 不安穩的心，煩憂的事情不間斷，何時可安歇？何處可安息？ 生命的幽谷，這路，多長？多窄？多暗？多讓人害怕？ 不經意掉下的小石，打在無處可躲藏的身心上，痛得眼淚逼出，沒人知道傷痕累累又疲乏的靈魂，早已蒼白無力。 如果，因為我短短的陪伴，靜靜的凝聽，電話那頭的陌生人，在這段時間裡放心地坦述，願意再多走一點點的路，我就會感受到值得。 疼惜每個受傷的靈魂，疼惜每個傷痕，疼惜每個痛苦和難過。 不懂，這世上為何就是有人忍心傷害他人？ 不懂，為何有時施暴者是那些受害者最親近，最親密的人？ 在這麼多不懂和問題下，解題或找到答案從來我就不擅長。 但我能”傾聽”，我能”陪伴”，我能”理解”。 我曾踏上山巔，我也曾走在山坡丘陵與小低谷裡。 低谷就已讓我難受與心傷，那些在幽谷小徑中走不出來的人，又是承受多少的傷和痛。 我認為能有幫助別人的機會，是幸運，是緣分。 我覺得能夠擁有能力去幫助別人，是幸福的人。 我想擁有幫助他人的能力並且也擁有幫助別人的機會，這是福氣，這是福報。 我會珍惜這堅守心智的”力量”。 我會守護好想要付出與貢獻的”心力”。 這是我的寶貝，要更加珍惜保護的寶貝。 「力量」這張塔羅牌，在埃及祭祀人員的頭上頂著一個大盤，上面有顆蛋型狀的寶物，這是讓人用生命，用誓言，用心保護守護的。 如同，我想保守住自己堅強的心志，保守住自己內心的信念與期盼。 ”將愛傳下去” ~ 傳給需要的人。 親愛的宇宙，請賜予我溫柔的力量，堅定的力量，希望的力量。 Alyson's 4/14 Tarot: Strength (16-57) Question: My theme for the diary of 4/13 Card Drawn: Strength Yesterday, I attended a training course on negotiation, volunteering, and suicide prevention. The content of the course was serious, the classmates were friendly, and the teachers and organizers were very gentle. The morning session was packed with four hours of data analysis, current situation sharing, and imparting professional knowledge from doctors. The afternoon session, also four hours long, consisted of group activities, cognitive exercises, and sharing. After completing a full day of classes, I returned home to do my homework, diligently reflecting on the day's learning and group experiences. I stayed up until the early hours of the morning to complete all the assigned tasks. I was too exhausted to muster the energy to write the Tarot journal for the "Future Diary" yesterday. Today, I'm catching up. (And then, today's, which will have to be postponed until tomorrow, hoping I can catch up with my progress tomorrow and not procrastinate anymore.) Today's Tarot draw for the "Future Diary" is "Strength," perfectly reflecting my entire day of learning. I signed up for a volunteer training course. It's the "1995" Suicide Prevention Hotline Volunteer Training. After three stages of learning and assessment, one can become a volunteer and start helping others. If you were to ask me why I chose "1995" out of so many volunteer opportunities, it would be difficult to answer because I hadn't carefully considered or thought about it. More than twenty years ago, I learned about "1995" and felt it was meaningful. I truly admire these selfless volunteers. They are unsung heroes who assist others without seeking recognition or fame. I've always had the desire to contribute to society. At the urging of friends, a few of us signed up together. Have you ever experienced pain so intense that you couldn't cry? Have you ever felt so numb to the point of emptiness? Unable to find an exit from life's struggles, although not in darkness, everything seems blurry. Lost and directionless, with a floating heart, fear rises abruptly, and the panic is relentless. Who can you talk to? It would worry them. You'd be blamed. The restless heart, the continuous worry, When will it find peace? Where can it find solace? How long and narrow is the valley of life? How dark and terrifying is it? The small stones that fall inadvertently, hitting the body and mind with nowhere to hide, the pain forces tears out, but no one knows the soul, battered and weary, has long been pale and weak. If, because of my brief company, quiet listening, the stranger on the other end of the phone feels comfortable enough to confide and is willing to walk a little further, I feel it's worthwhile. Caring for every wounded soul, every scar, every pain and sorrow. Why is it that some people can hurt others without remorse? Why is it that sometimes the perpetrators are the ones closest to the victims? Under so many questions and uncertainties, I've never been good at finding solutions or answers. But I can "listen," I can "accompany," I can "understand." I've walked on mountain peaks, I've walked in hills and valleys. The valleys were already painful and heartbreaking for me. How much pain and hurt do those who can't find their way out of the dark paths of the valley endure? I believe having the opportunity to help others is fortunate, it's fate. I feel that having the ability to help others is a blessing. I want to have the ability to help others and also have the opportunity to help others; this is good fortune, this is karma. I will cherish the "Strength" of my perseverance. I will guard the "heart and soul" I want to contribute and give. It's my treasure, a treasure I must cherish and protect even more. The Tarot card "Strength" depicts a large disk resting on the heads of Egyptian priests, with an egg-shaped object on top, something to be protected with life, vows, and heart. Just as I want to preserve my strong determination and safeguard my inner beliefs and hopes. "Pass on the love" ~ Pass it on to those in need. Dear universe, please grant me gentle strength, firm strength, and hopeful strength. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Strength

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment 給迫不及待，等不及約好的時間，提前到來的丹丹 ~ 年輕的妳，很有自己的想法與主張；妳，不迷惘，不慌張，妳只是想找一個人聽妳說，聽妳訴，聽到妳的心聲而已。 妳覺得，年輕，最大的本錢是時間、精神和體力。這點我非常認同的。所以妳想趁著年輕，多賺錢，不想花費太多時間和金錢在玩樂上面，這點，實在是讓我太佩服妳了。 想當年，在妳這樣花樣年華的年紀，與同事週六的約會和玩耍，可是我認為人生的重頭戲呢。 有著成熟思想的妳認為，年輕，腦子記憶力較好，反應較快，應該用來學習、累積與思考。 所以妳不太跟朋友外出，這就造成了今日的困擾，朋友們覺得妳不好搞，妳希望朋友能懂妳的渴望和企圖。 記得我當下跟妳說 ~ 『妳的生活，是妳的，朋友的生活，是朋友的。』 『每個人的背景條件不同，這是先天給的；每個人想要的生活不同，這是後天自己想要的。』 妳認同了這些話，可仍陷在感覺與朋友格格不入的氛圍裡。 然後我接著跟妳分享了自己的人生 ~ 我覺『年輕呀，正是適合努力往前衝的年紀呢。』 每個人想要衝去的方向不同而已。 我有朋友喜愛旅遊，可以把薪水、時間和心力都用在旅遊，樂此不疲；而我有點相反，我喜歡穩定，旅遊很美好，對我來說卻不會很常安排。 每個人對生活、對樂趣、對人生意義都有不一樣的看法與想要完成的人生使命。 不管是如何，都很好。 我也曾經遇到朋友認為我和他們其他人沒有話聊，聚會時，即使我只是坐在旁邊聽他們說，他們也覺我礙眼。於是，他們有些聚會沒有找我了。 當我知道時，有點難過，不過更多的是鬆了一口氣。 我知道這群朋友很好，所以我捨不得離開，但終究別人幫我做了這個分離的決定，我就順著這個勢，疏離淡去。 這就是所謂的〝道不同，不相為謀〞。 彼此之間說不到一塊，那就別勉強雙方了。 『會有那麼一群跟妳志同道合的人，在前方不遠處等著妳。』 『也許懂妳的，可以跟妳一起成長交流的朋友，在新世界，就等妳去找到。』 我記得我最後是這樣跟丹丹妳說的。 妳的笑有點沒有精神，因妳捨不得現在這群朋友。 這就是丹丹誤會我的意思了。 我總認為，朋友有很多種，也有很多不同階段還是層級。 不是分高低，不是分親疏蜜離。 我還有跟丹丹說這些話，不知道妳有記得嗎？ 『妳會知道有些朋友適合一起做甚麼，有些事情適合哪些朋友。』 『不是將朋友分種類，或分級，而是每位出現在我們身邊的朋友，他們對我們人生影響的事情 是不同的。』 我喜歡跟朋友相聚，因為跟朋友一起開懷大笑，讓我覺得生命很好，日子很好，人生很好，歲月靜好。 『我知道很多朋友只能陪伴自己一段時間，無法長久，無法一輩子。』 所以我總是珍惜〝當下〞、〝現在〞。 相聚時，專注，用心。 工作時，認真，奮鬥。 學習時，投入，努力。 人生由許多階段連接而成，生活由不同面向組合而成，日子是綜合的寶箱，而非單一口味的獨屬盒。 偶爾跟朋友出去玩玩，放鬆，也不錯。 大部分時間想要學習、累積，讓自己未來爬得更高，走得更遠，這志向，更好。 加油 ~ ！ 妳的人生調色由妳自己決定。 送給妳的塔羅祝福：【滿足 Fulfillment】。 來自宇宙的訊息，這是一張情感的塔羅牌，提醒丹丹，珍惜朋友的關心，她們可能是希望妳在努力的路途上，也可同時間享有友情的潤澤，家人的關心與照顧。當妳退一步去思考朋友的出發點時，妳就會察覺到妳身在充滿愛與關懷裡，心中是滿滿的幸福。 2024-08-25 Blessings to Dandan: Fulfillment To the eager Dandan who arrives early, unable to wait for the agreed-upon time~ As a young person, you have your own thoughts and opinions. You are not confused or flustered; you simply want someone to listen to you, to hear your stories, and to understand your innermost feelings. You believe that the greatest assets of youth are time, energy, and physical strength. I completely agree with this perspective. That's why you want to take advantage of your youth to earn more money and are reluctant to spend too much time and money on entertainment. I truly admire this about you. Back in the day, when I was your age, I considered outings and weekend gatherings with colleagues as the highlights of life. However, with your mature mindset, you believe that while young, with a sharper memory and quicker reflexes, you should focus on learning, accumulating knowledge, and reflecting on life. As a result, you don't go out much with friends, which has led to today's troubles—your friends find you difficult to connect with, while you wish they could understand your desires and ambitions. I remember telling you then: "Your life is yours, and your friends' lives are theirs." "Everyone has different circumstances, which are given by nature; everyone desires a different kind of life, which is what they strive for later." You agreed with these words but still felt out of sync with your friends. Then I shared my own life experiences with you: I believe that youth is the time to strive forward with all your might. Everyone just has different directions they want to pursue. I have friends who love traveling and can devote their salaries, time, and energy to it without getting tired. I'm somewhat the opposite; I prefer stability. Travel is wonderful, but I don't plan it often. Everyone has different perspectives on life, fun, and the meaning of life and different missions they want to accomplish. No matter what, it's all good. I've also had friends who felt they had nothing to talk about with me. Even if I just sat beside them, listening, they found me annoying. So, some of their gatherings didn't include me. When I found out, I was a bit sad but more relieved. I knew these friends were great, so I was reluctant to leave, but in the end, they made the decision for me to part ways, and I just went with the flow, gradually drifting apart. This is what they call "different paths, no mutual plans." If you can't see eye to eye, don't force either side. "There will be a group of like-minded people waiting for you not far ahead." "Perhaps friends who understand you, who can grow and exchange ideas with you, are waiting for you in a new world." I remember saying this to you at the end. Your smile seemed a bit spiritless because you were reluctant to let go of your current group of friends. That’s where you misunderstood me. I always believe there are many kinds of friends and different stages or levels. It's not about ranking higher or lower or being closer or more distant. Did you remember I also told you this? "You will know which friends are suitable for what activities, and what things are suitable for which friends." "It's not about categorizing or grading friends but recognizing that each friend who appears around us has a different impact on our lives." I enjoy gathering with friends because laughing heartily with them makes me feel life is good, the days are good, life is great, and the years are peaceful. "I know many friends can only accompany me for a while, not forever, not for a lifetime." So, I always cherish the "present" and the "now." When gathering, I focus and put my heart into it. When working, I am serious and strive hard. When learning, I dedicate myself and work diligently. Life is composed of many stages; living consists of different facets; the days are a comprehensive treasure chest, not a single-flavored exclusive box. Occasionally going out to play and relax with friends is also good. Spending most of your time learning and accumulating, aiming to climb higher and go further in the future, is an even better ambition. Keep it up~! The colors of your life are yours to choose. Here is a tarot blessing for you: Fulfillment. A message from the universe, this is a card of emotions, reminding you, Dandan, to cherish the care of your friends. They may wish for you to enjoy the nourishment of friendship and the care and support of family even while striving on your path. When you take a step back and consider your friends' perspectives, you'll realize you're surrounded by love and care, and your heart will be filled with happiness. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

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