2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress 只是想閒聊的小瑜，在我將話題從天氣開始說起時，妳急迫不耐煩的口氣嚇了我一跳，妳說「別談天氣了，那麼不穩定，煩死了。」 天氣，不是人類的我們可以操控的呀。 喜歡的天氣，享受，不喜歡的天氣，閃躲或躲避，這是我面對季節天候一貫的想法。 一直下雨很多天，會覺得厭煩嗎？ 可能會有一點，但不至於左右我的心情。 天氣這個話題妳不喜歡，那改說說旅遊，如何？ 對這話題妳好像也沒有興趣，直接跳過，沒有任何回應。 沒想到妳反而接著我前面跟天氣有關的話題。 妳說，「擔心什麼卻不來，不擔心的時候又一直來。」 我在猜想最近的妳是否很焦躁，對於什麼事情都是這樣直白的劈過來的感受和對話。 率性呀 ~ 妳。 真好。 妳有自己的想法，且堅持。 妳對於自己沒有歪掉的三觀感到自豪，我則這點也很棒。 我跟妳分享了我的心境，「我在群體中，也是屬於堅持自己想法的類型，有時會比較累，但我不想隨波逐流，也不想忘卻自己的本心和初衷。」 對這段話，妳深表贊同，且很喜歡。 妳甚至還說，妳欣賞我說出來的每一句話，妳感受到每一句話都帶有含意，不是教條，不是教誨，而是讓聽到的人，看到的人，自己用心體會。 也許這是一種交淺言深的交流吧。 送給小瑜的塔羅祝福：【皇后 Empress】。 來自宇宙的訊息，連宇宙都替小瑜高興，對於小瑜能〝維護〞和堅守自己的原則及信念，這是一件很不容易的事情。宇宙提醒著小瑜，在堅持之下，有時也需要耐心傾聽一下旁人的意見或看法，也許會有不同的獲得與學習。 Blessing for Xiaoyu on September 3, 2024: The Empress Xiaoyu, who just wanted to chat casually, I was startled by your urgent and impatient tone when I tried to start a conversation about the weather. You said, "Stop talking about the weather; it's so unstable and annoying." The weather is something beyond our human control. My approach to the weather is simple: enjoy the weather you like, avoid or hide from the weather you dislike. Does it get frustrating when it rains for many days in a row? Maybe a little, but it doesn't affect my mood that much. Since you don't like talking about the weather, how about we discuss travel? You don't seem interested in that topic either, skipping it entirely without any response. Unexpectedly, you picked up on my earlier topic about the weather. You said, "Things you worry about don't happen; things you don't worry about keep happening." I wonder if you've been feeling agitated lately, responding so bluntly and directly in conversations. You're so straightforward. That's great. You have your own opinions and stick to them. You're proud of your uncorrupted values, and I think that's wonderful too. I shared my thoughts with you: "In a group, I'm also the type to stick to my own ideas. It can be tiring sometimes, but I don't want to go with the flow or forget my true self and original intentions." You fully agreed with this and liked it a lot. You even said that you appreciate everything I say, feeling that every word has meaning—not as doctrines or teachings, but as something for the listener or reader to personally reflect upon. Perhaps this is a kind of deep conversation despite our acquaintance being shallow. Tarot Blessing for Xiaoyu: [The Empress]. This is a message from the universe; even the universe is happy for Xiaoyu. It recognizes how difficult it is for you to "maintain" and hold onto your own principles and beliefs. The universe reminds Xiaoyu that while it's important to stay firm, sometimes it's also necessary to patiently listen to others' opinions or perspectives. You might gain new insights and learn something different. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor 辛苦了，陸陸，一位新手媽媽。 照顧剛出生三個多月寶寶的妳，在做自己和成為一個好媽媽的角色中徘徊，猶豫中的妳常感到痛苦與辛苦。 痛苦的是，妳覺得怎會有這樣的心態出現，感覺好像對不起自己的寶寶。 辛苦的是，這樣的猶豫與不決，發生的頻率非常高，讓妳在寶寶入睡時，明明已經很累了，卻捨不得休息，因妳害怕著，若不抓住這短短的時間，那妳就更沒有時間，更沒有機會做自己了。 現在的妳，精神不好，體力不佳，沒有人家說的坐完月子，讓身體充分休息與獲得營養滋補的豐腴模樣。 和老公的小小家庭中，不僅沒有人協助，內心的孤單、徬徨更讓妳覺得難過，即使想跟老公說說心裡話，看著他辛苦工作回來後疲憊的樣子，妳內心裡再多的苦澀，也說不出口。 想跟娘家媽媽訴說，又怕遭到責罵。 於是妳決定找我聊聊。 懷孕經驗，我沒有。 生產經驗，我沒有，但有長年痛經的經驗，妳說，這妳不需要。 坐月子經驗，我沒有。 照顧寶寶的經驗，我只有1/10，夠嗎？ 妳說妳笑了出來，當看到我這樣的回應時。 其實，人類始終都是多重角色在生存著。 當我們還小的時候，是孩子，甚至是孫子輩，是兄弟姊妹，也是學生，還有同學與朋友。 長大了，是上班族，但依然還有著孩子的角色，幸福的人也還保有孫 子角色，男女朋友，下屬，同事還有朋友。 當成為媽媽之後，不代表需要漠視、忽視、放棄其他角色。 無論我們一身具備哪些角色，我們自己，絕對不能遺忘呀。 自己是所有其他角色的延伸。 記得自己，照顧自己，認識自己，唯有自己好，其他角色才能做得好。 因此我給妳的建議是，寶寶休息睡覺時，把握這時間，妳也好好休息。寶寶醒來的時候，可以跟寶寶互動，也可讓寶寶自己玩耍，老公回來跟寶寶親近時，這個時段，可以跟老公討論，讓妳做自己想做的事情，即使妳只是躺在沙發上，那也可以，就是不要打擾妳，中斷妳在進行的事情。 平衡，讓我們得以持續擁有能量與力量往前繼續邁進。 宇宙送給妳的塔羅牌祝福是【皇帝 Emperor】。 我腦海中浮現的感受是，請將妳的寶寶視為皇帝，妳是導引他，輔助他，給予他愛和支持的母后。 要成為一個優秀的生命導師，要先有堅強的心智與人生的智慧，要先學習人生的真理與世界運行的道理，要懂得鼓勵與支持，堅持教育與教導，懂得設定目標與堅強地朝目標努力。 當妳明白妳所學習到的，經驗積累的，都是需先成就自己，才有機會傳承給孩子時，成為自己與成為一個好母親，其實是同一件事情，也就不需經歷選擇的過程，也就不會有兩難的痛苦。 祝福陸陸 ~ 妳能想到這樣的猶豫困擾，妳就是已踏上智慧的路途上，成為妳孩子溫暖的依靠。 2024-11-08 To Lulu: The Emperor Thank you, Lulu, a new mother. Caring for a baby just over three months old, you find yourself wavering between being yourself and becoming a good mother. In your hesitation, you often feel both pain and struggle. The painful part is the thought that these feelings somehow mean you’re letting your baby down. The struggle lies in how often these indecisions arise, leaving you reluctant to rest even when your baby sleeps—fearing that if you don’t seize these fleeting moments, you’ll have even less time, even fewer chances, to be yourself. Right now, you’re physically and mentally exhausted. You haven’t had the full rest and nourishing care some say should follow the postpartum period. In your small family with your husband, not only is there no extra help, but the loneliness and uncertainty sometimes feel overwhelming. Even when you want to confide in your husband, seeing him come home so tired from work makes you hesitate, keeping your bitterness inside. You think about talking to your mother, but you’re afraid she might scold you. So, you decided to talk with me. I have no experience with pregnancy. I have no experience with childbirth, though I do know the long struggle of painful menstruation. But you said that wasn’t what you needed. I have no experience with postpartum care. I only have 1/10 of the experience in caring for a baby. Is that enough? You said you laughed when you read my response. Actually, as humans, we always carry multiple roles in life. When we’re young, we’re children, grandchildren, siblings, students, classmates, and friends. As adults, we’re employees, still children, and for the lucky ones, still grandchildren, and we’re also partners, subordinates, colleagues, and friends. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to ignore, neglect, or give up your other roles. No matter what roles we take on, we must never forget ourselves. The self is the foundation from which all other roles extend. Remember yourself, care for yourself, and understand yourself. Only when you are well can you fulfill your other roles well. So, my suggestion for you is to take time for yourself when the baby is asleep. Rest, and when the baby wakes, engage with them or let them play independently. When your husband comes home to connect with the baby, use this time to do something just for you—even if it’s simply lying on the couch, uninterrupted and undisturbed. Balance allows us to sustain the energy and strength to keep moving forward. The tarot card blessing the universe sends you is The Emperor. The feeling that arises in my mind is this: see your baby as the Emperor, and you as the Empress guiding, supporting, loving, and nurturing him. To be an outstanding life guide requires a strong heart and life wisdom. You must first learn the truths of life and understand the principles by which the world operates. It involves learning to encourage and support, committing to teaching and guiding, and setting goals while steadfastly working towards them. When you understand that everything you learn and every experience you gain are all for building yourself so that you may someday pass this on to your child, you’ll realize that becoming yourself and becoming a good mother are, in fact, the same path. There will be no more choices to make, no painful dilemmas to face. Blessings to you, Lulu. Just by reflecting on these struggles and hesitations, you’ve already stepped onto the path of wisdom, becoming the warm support your child can rely on. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0625 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0625 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment 上週接二連三迎接了幾件重要事情的句點。 若是套在工作環境裡，就是重要專案結案。 可喜可賀。 在人生場子裡面，句點只有死亡。 許多事情在不同階段，是轉換了面向，調整了比重，改變了動名詞。 沒有結束的那一天。 學習的結束，是運用的始點，是開展的起點，是繼續努力的轉捩點。 為了想到就心神嚮往的目標，多加努力是應該的。 只是，今天的塔羅牌是『失望』。 小心，最近期待的事情，別急迫在今天求一個結果，怕與你心中期待的模樣會有落差。 昨天的股市大跌，且感覺收盤尾線更是有點懸涯角度往下用力一撇。 加上今日塔羅牌的主題，看來今天要靠股票賺錢的，可能結果不如預期。 腦筋常會遇到需要急轉彎的尷尬時刻，若某方面，在人生路上發生了轉彎的情況，可能表示老天希望對於這堂課，我們能多些用心，多些想法。 一成不變的直直前進，未必是最快速抵達羅馬的路程。 轉彎，必要。 繞路，必要。 改變，必要。 調整，必要。 差點忘了，在動手之前，先動點腦才不會白忙一場。 Tarot Card for June 25, 2024: Disappointment Last week, we saw the conclusion of several important events one after another. In a work environment, this would mean the completion of a major project. Congratulations. In the grand scheme of life, the only full stop is death. Many things at different stages change their direction, adjust their importance, or transform into different actions. There is no end day. The end of learning marks the beginning of application, the starting point of development, and the turning point for continued effort. It is right to work harder for the goals that stir our hearts. However, today's tarot card is 'Disappointment.' Be careful not to urgently seek a result for something you've been expecting recently, as it might fall short of your expectations. Yesterday, the stock market plummeted, and it seemed like the closing line sharply dropped off a cliff. Combined with today's tarot theme, it looks like making money from stocks today might not meet expectations. Our minds often face moments where a sharp turn is needed. If a turn happens on our life path, it might mean that the universe wants us to pay more attention and give more thought to this lesson. Moving straight ahead without change may not be the quickest way to reach Rome. Turning is necessary. Taking detours is necessary. Change is necessary. Adjustment is necessary. Almost forgot, before taking action, think it through to avoid unnecessary effort. 咒語：這是一幅新的水彩插畫，保持了插畫風格。畫中那位大約40歲的台灣女子有著中短、微捲的頭髮，披著紅色斗篷。她正在辦公環境中，周圍是重要的專案材料。背景是一個大窗戶，透露出城市景觀，象徵股市的起伏。女子正在看著一張名為「失望」的塔羅牌，反思最近的結果並計劃下一步。她在深思的姿勢中，手指輕輕觸摸著塔羅牌。她散發出堅韌和決心的氣息，準備面對任何挑戰。畫面中沒有任何明確的死亡符號，而是專注於女子的力量和韌性。 #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Disappointment

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor 調養休息了七千多個日子，從原本積極的改變，到享受無所事事的美好，再到提不起勁的生活內容，是又到了該改變的時候了。 為何提不起勁？ 不是沒有事情忙碌，而是常在忙碌完後，原本心中的茫然，沒有隨著執行完一件件的計畫而消失，反而茫然的思緒更為嚴重許多。 於是轉念思考，既然茫然，那就再踏入紅塵人群中吧。 就這樣起心動念了，幾天後，突然收到過去一位主管的訊息，有個機會問我有沒有興趣。 我心中一想，這吸引力法則也太猛烈了吧。 思考幾天後，我拒絕了。 我到底在幹什麼？ 不是想回歸職場嗎？為何又拒絕？ 機會送上門不把握，難道要自己去撞牆，還未必有比較好，這樣才甘願嗎？ 可，有的時候，人類會感到痛苦就是理智與期望中間搖擺不定。現實的考量是其一，不想就此輕易放棄是其二，身體心理狀況還未調整好是其三。 於是我又持續沉浸在沒有變化，沒有思緒，沒有進度的歲月陰溝中。突然，那個決定的時間點降臨了。雖然沒有石破天驚的閃電還是打雷，可就在那一瞬間決定，好，把握機會。 今天的面談結束。回來想冷靜一下，於是抽張塔羅牌，請宇宙來個消息吧。 【感知者 Sensor】關於這個機會的塔羅牌。 有意思，這是要如何來讀牌呢？ 這張牌是權杖子牌，討論權杖牌就會需要回歸抽牌人的內心。所以這是否是機會，是挑戰，是命運，端看我怎麼認為，怎麼思考。 在這個機會裡，我應該會有非常多的體驗與感觸，也會藉由這樣的機會而有不同的改變與成長。 是可期待的。 2024-09-05 Opportunity: Seer After more than seven thousand days of recuperation and rest, from initially striving for change, to enjoying the beauty of doing nothing, and finally to a life lacking enthusiasm, it seems that the time for change has come again. Why the lack of enthusiasm? It’s not because there’s nothing to do, but because the original sense of confusion hasn’t disappeared after completing one plan after another. On the contrary, the feeling of being lost has become even more severe. So, I had a change of mind. Since I felt lost, why not step back into the hustle and bustle of the world? Just as I had this thought, a few days later, I suddenly received a message from a former supervisor about an opportunity, asking if I was interested. I thought to myself, the Law of Attraction works so strongly! After thinking about it for a few days, I declined. What am I doing? Didn’t I want to return to the workforce? Why did I refuse again? A chance knocks on the door, and I don’t seize it. Do I have to run into a wall, with no guarantee of a better outcome, to be satisfied? However, sometimes people suffer from wavering between reason and expectation. One reason is practical considerations, another is the reluctance to give up easily, and the third is that my physical and mental state is not yet adjusted. So, I continued to immerse myself in a stagnant, thoughtless, and unprogressive period of time. Suddenly, the moment of decision arrived. Although there was no earth-shattering lightning or thunder, in that instant, I decided to seize the opportunity. Today’s interview is over. I came back to calm down, so I drew a Tarot card, asking the universe for a message. [The Seer] regarding this opportunity. Interesting, how should this card be interpreted? This card is the Page of Wands, and discussing the Wands cards often requires returning to the drawer's inner self. So whether this is an opportunity, a challenge, or destiny depends on how I perceive it and how I think about it. In this opportunity, I should expect to have many experiences and feelings, and through this opportunity, I will undergo different changes and growth. It is something to look forward to. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe 樹樹對於豬隊友般的同組同仁感到氣憤，不能理解為何可以如此不上心，不在意。 樹樹認為若無心，那為何不選擇離開，為何要在公司裡，在團隊中，迫害著別人，影響努力工作者的心情，偷竊認真工作者的努力成果。 樹樹說今天下班前跟豬隊友同事吵架了，其他同事對豬隊友喊請趕快離職，可以嗎。 天兒呀，共事已到這般水火不容的程度，工作時彼此的心情都在煎熬吧。 樹樹問，為何工作上什麼事情都要人家盯？為什麼要這樣擺爛？為何這樣還不離開公司？ 這，有時恐怕連當事人都沒能有所謂的正確答案。 明白我的回覆樹樹應該是不滿意的，但是我認為現在聊的這情況不是在論對與錯，也不是可以說如何思考，如何做是正確的。 『人，這個中文字，很簡單，就2撇，但，也讓我們看出來，當不同的人時，思考方式不同，彼此的距離就會很遙遠，此時就會需要溝通、 協調。』 樹樹無法理解為何我給她這樣沒有具體的句子。 只有短短數十分鐘的時間，該怎麼說？能怎麼說呢？ 有時候，錯誤的人在錯誤的地方，與其他人無法共融，埋怨也就越來越旺盛；有時，正確的人在錯誤的地方，被欺、被凌、被虐，好好的人，再有多強大的雄心壯志，也會被磨到無菱無角。 世上的事情都太難二分法了，即使是孩子眼中也明白，眼睛看到的所有東西，不是只有黑色和白色兩種，所以呀放手未必是懦弱，堅持有可能是逞強。 至於何時放手才比較好，何時應該要堅持？這只怕神仙也不敢論斷，我又怎可能知道呢。拜託，就別問這種傻白甜的蠢問題了吧。 向宇宙請求給樹樹的祝福指引，抽到的塔羅牌是：【宇宙Universe】。 宇宙想告訴年輕又上進的樹樹，這個世界很大，大到我們窮極此生都走不遍，看不完。地球之外還有宇宙，宇宙的無限，更是現在的人類無法想像的神秘與深奧。 現在眼前的不管是不欣賞的人，還是工作上的問題，於宇宙而言如桑海一粟，渺小，沒有重量，也不特別。 樹樹是個自我要求與期望都蠻高的女孩，人生路是一直往前走的，樹樹的志向更是在更高、更遠的層次，不在眼前。 莫位現在的小事給磨損了心志。 離開的時候，就是老天給的答案。 只是，老天從未說過，離開的人會是誰。 Translation: October 25, 2024 - Shushu: The Universe Shushu feels furious at her teammates, whom she describes as "pig teammates," wondering how they can be so indifferent and careless. Shushu can’t understand why, if they lack the will, they don’t choose to leave. Why stay in the company and on the team, making others suffer, impacting the morale of those who work hard, and stealing the achievements of those who put in genuine effort? Shushu mentioned that she argued with her "pig teammate" coworker before leaving work today, and that other colleagues even urged this coworker to leave as soon as possible. Alas, working together has become so unbearable that both sides must be agonizing during work hours. Shushu asks, “Why does everything at work need to be monitored? Why are they slacking off like this? Why don’t they just leave the company?” Sometimes, even those involved might not have a clear answer. I know Shushu may not be satisfied with my response, but I think that this situation isn't about who's right or wrong, nor is it something we can simply reason through or determine what the “right way” is. "The Chinese character for 'person' is simple, made of just two strokes, yet it also reveals that when people differ, the distance in thinking between them can be vast, and that’s when communication and coordination are necessary." Shushu can't understand why I gave her such an abstract reply. With only a few minutes to talk, what more can I say? Sometimes, the wrong person in the wrong place grows increasingly resentful due to incompatibility with others; other times, the right person in the wrong place is deceived, bullied, or oppressed. Even the most ambitious and resilient people can have their sharp edges dulled. Life’s issues rarely divide cleanly; even children understand that the world is not just black and white. So, letting go is not necessarily a sign of weakness, and persistence might sometimes be a form of stubbornness. When is it better to let go? When should one persist? Even deities wouldn’t dare make a call on this, so how could I possibly know? Please, let’s skip these naive questions. Seeking guidance from the universe for Shushu, I drew the tarot card: The Universe. The universe wishes to tell the young and ambitious Shushu that this world is vast—so vast that even in a lifetime, we won’t see it all. Beyond Earth lies the universe, whose boundlessness is mysterious and profound beyond human imagination. The people she finds unappreciative or the issues she faces at work are, in the universe’s eyes, like a grain of sand in the sea—small, weightless, and insignificant. Shushu is a girl with high standards and aspirations. Her life path is always moving forward, with ambitions that reach higher and further, far beyond what’s right in front of her. She should not let these minor issues wear down her will. When it's time to part ways, that is the answer from above. However, heaven never tells us who will be the one to leave. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion 大頭貼放著自己兩歲時的可愛照片，感覺彤彤從小就在愛的氛圍裡成長。 果然沒猜錯，彤彤是獨生女，沒有兄弟姊妹，獨享寵愛，也需一肩扛家庭。 不過還很年輕的彤彤很是明白，自己享有的獨寵，另一個面向就是要承擔更多的責任。 跟彤彤建議說，找幫手很重要，有些事情讓擅長的人協助，會更有幫助。 最近被工作和家裡的事情搞得忙碌不已的彤彤，沒有特別想要談談的事情，也沒有特別想要問的，就只是想跟不認識的我東扯西講，提到什麼聊什麼。 於是我們講到了女孩們最常出現的話題，”胖與瘦”及”甜食與肥胖的關係”。 彤彤竟然說，她愛吃甜食，但她沒胖過。 真的是太讓人羨慕了。 跟我是完全不同類型的。 我是與”瘦”絕緣的連深呼吸都能像氣球般鼓起來的類型。 有時這樣的漫聊，也不錯。 很快的時間到了，要彤彤趕緊去吃晚餐，太晚吃，對胃的負擔比較大。 給彤彤的塔羅祝福：【困惑Confusion】。 來自宇宙的消息，提醒彤彤，因還年輕，所以有些事情搞不太清楚，那是正常的，其實，我年齡半百了，很多事情也還是搞不清楚。 困惑，常常會讓我們陷入迷茫中，有時突破現況需要外力來個石破天驚的大震撼，脈絡也就清晰許多了。 彤彤加油 ~ 。 Blessings to Tong Tong on August 29, 2024: Tong Tong’s profile picture shows an adorable photo of herself at the age of two, giving the impression that she has grown up in an atmosphere full of love. As expected, Tong Tong is an only child with no siblings, enjoying exclusive affection but also having to shoulder the family's responsibilities alone. However, young as she is, Tong Tong understands very well that enjoying exclusive affection also means taking on more responsibilities. I suggested to Tong Tong that finding help is important, and letting those who are good at certain things assist can be more beneficial. Recently, Tong Tong has been overwhelmed by work and family matters. She didn’t have anything specific she wanted to talk about or ask; she just wanted to have a casual chat with a stranger like me, talking about whatever came to mind. So, we ended up discussing topics commonly brought up by girls: "being fat or thin" and "the relationship between sweets and obesity." Tong Tong said that she loves sweets but has never gained weight. How enviable! She’s a completely different type from me—I’m the type that is far from "thin," and even deep breaths can make me puff up like a balloon. Sometimes, such casual conversations are nice. Soon it was time, and I told Tong Tong to go have dinner quickly, as eating too late can be more of a burden on the stomach. Tarot Blessing for Tong Tong: [Confusion]. A message from the universe reminds Tong Tong that since she is still young, it's normal to be unclear about certain things. Actually, even at my age, approaching fifty, there are many things I still don't understand. Confusion often leads us into bewilderment, and sometimes breaking through the current situation requires an external force to create a shocking upheaval, making the context much clearer. Tong Tong, keep it up! #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor 這是宇宙送給覺得自己每天都在苦悶世界裡的怡貞的祝福塔羅牌：【感知者 Sensor】。 這次與個案聊的不是很順利，可以感受得到個案不願意敞開心情和思緒，所以回應的文字簡單，甚至多為不是很有含意的訊息，導致中間我像是在唱獨角戲般，然後個案會突然插進來一句與前文完全無關的問句，這要讓人如何回應。 在這短短三十分鐘的時間裡，怡貞即使是抱怨，文字都那樣簡短，顯得非常無力，感覺連聊聊都使不上力。 就因不到一百個字的回應，我感受到怡貞處於一個封閉的心結裡，想掙脫，但也沒使上蠻荒之力，想改變，卻也沒真正想下定決心。 也許上線找人聊聊天，已是怡貞最近做得最為積極和具體的行為改變。 可，這樣是完全不夠的。 一開始，可能是因為現實，因為壓力，因為許許多多我們無力對抗的因素，所以被困住了。 我們就像被一根細繩綁住的大象，在想要掙開時，被威嚇住，不敢再亂動，即使後來我們已茁壯，已夠堅強，卻仍擺脫不了那細繩綁住的恐懼與制約。 後來，把我們困住的是我們自己。 我們知道要求救，然後，也許，我們就是只有坐在原地等他人救援。 卻沒有奮力自救，沒有用雙手用力扒開身體旁邊的泥土，即使理智告訴我們再不把土撥開，就要被活埋，無法呼吸了，我們依然被動地，等待著他人的援助。 這樣的無力與無奈，我能懂，我也曾經經歷過，甚至不只一次。 別苛責自己，有時我們是沒有意識到被束縛住了。 有時，我們茫然了，忘記了須要專注的焦點是什麼，整天渾渾噩噩的。 但，我們在這樣的情況下，沒有放棄自己，這就是一個很棒的突破口。別輕易否定自己的一切努力。 越是這樣不知所措的時候，越是要打開我們的心靈天線，像是站在草原上，感受著風從哪個方向來，風中的氣味，風的力道，請風帶走我們的憂愁。 去感受大自然，在大樹前面，我們的生命是如此短暫又脆弱，在磅礡瀑布前，我們的意志和力量是如此渺小又薄弱，在萬紫千紅的百花裡，我們的創意和想法是如此蒼白又侷促。 宇宙給怡貞的話在感知者這張塔羅牌裡道盡了祝福與提醒。 我們擁有心靈溝通的力量，全身都是接收器的我們，可以看透，洞悉許多事情的深處及真相，可我們得打開心胸，打開感知的天線，才能接收，才能進而覺知、覺察，甚至調整與改變。 把自己關鎖起來，看似安全，可僵局無法打破，無法從泥沼中逃脫，時間久了，反而是致命等級的危險。 試著從改變一點點開始努力，當僵固的泥土裂了隙縫後，再多做一些積極與努力，會越來越能爬出泥漿，也越來越能活動，進而鼓起力氣，用力掙脫，大步跨步往前邁進，跑向希望，跑向明亮與光彩的世界。 2024 1031 Yizhen: The Sensor This is the blessing Tarot card that the universe has sent to Yizhen, who feels trapped in a world of daily gloom: The Sensor. The recent conversation with the client didn’t go smoothly. I could sense that the client wasn’t willing to open up emotionally or mentally. Their responses were brief, often devoid of any real meaning, leaving me feeling like I was performing a monologue. Occasionally, the client would interject with a question entirely unrelated to the previous discussion, which made it difficult to respond naturally. In just thirty minutes, Yizhen’s replies, though sometimes complaints, were so brief and drained of energy that it felt as if even speaking required too much effort. With responses totaling less than a hundred words, I sensed Yizhen was caught in a closed-off emotional knot—wanting to break free yet lacking the strength to do so, desiring change yet not fully committed to it. Perhaps, coming online to find someone to chat with has been the most proactive step Yizhen has taken recently. But it’s far from enough. Initially, it could have been due to reality, to stress, to countless factors beyond our control, that we felt trapped. We’re like elephants tethered by a thin rope—intimidated into staying put even though we’ve grown strong enough to break free. In the end, we’re bound not by the rope, but by our own conditioning. We know to seek help, but perhaps, we’re simply waiting, sitting in place for someone to rescue us. We don’t actively try to save ourselves, don’t use our hands to claw at the soil beside us. Even when logic tells us that if we don’t break free soon, we’ll be buried alive, gasping for breath, we continue passively awaiting someone else’s assistance. I understand this feeling of helplessness and frustration, having been through it myself more than once. Don’t be too hard on yourself—sometimes we’re not even aware that we’re bound. Sometimes we lose focus, drifting through the day in a fog. Yet, the fact that we haven’t given up on ourselves in this state is a great breakthrough. Don’t easily dismiss your efforts. The more lost you feel, the more important it is to open your inner antenna, as if standing on a vast prairie, sensing the direction of the wind, its scent, and its strength, and letting it carry away our sorrows. Take in nature: standing before a towering tree, we realize our lives are short and fragile; before a majestic waterfall, our willpower and strength seem minuscule; among the colorful blooms, our creativity and ideas feel pale and constrained. The universe’s message to Yizhen, embedded in The Sensor card, is filled with blessings and reminders. We have the power of spiritual communication; we are receivers in our entirety, capable of perceiving and penetrating the essence and truths of many things. But we must open our minds and our sensory antennae to receive, become aware, and, ultimately, to adjust and change. Locking ourselves away may feel safe, but it only keeps us stagnant, unable to escape the mire, which, over time, turns into a perilous trap. Try starting with small changes, and as cracks appear in the hardened soil, gradually add more effort and positivity. You’ll find it easier to crawl out of the mud, move more freely, and build the strength to break free, taking strides toward a world of hope, brightness, and brilliance. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment 這週末週日，很靜。 靜得連門都沒走出去。 想到外面赤熱的太陽，想著自己很難承受溫度急冷急熱的變化，還是別出門找罪受了。 在家，有冷氣，有食物，雖沒有奢華享受，可自己的窩，怎麼待怎麼舒服。 曾有人跟我說，沒出門的日子，怎是過充實的生活呢？ 這道理，其實我是比較沒有辦法接受的，但不評論。 雖然我認為充實生活，為何一定要出門才能擁有。 不過，大家對於充實生活的定義不同，那也就不奇怪想法不一致了。 只是，今天恐會讓大家失望的是，今天的塔羅牌，沒有抽到直接的，顯而易見的正向牌卡。 今天的塔羅牌是『失望』。 對什麼失望呢？ 對人？ 對事？ 對自己？ 對結果？ 我查看了自己今日的行事曆，沒有大事，難道這樣就不擔心會發生失望的情況嗎？ 非也。 我對自己失望的，不會只有今天。 課程結束之後這些天來，蠻多天我都因自己的消極感到失望。 明明，需要做的事情那麼多。 明明，塔羅閱讀師的事情目前是半吊子狀態，還欠一些資料沒提供給老師，可就是沒開始進行。 但我卻仍沒重整好自己。 維基百科裡寫道，「失望是人類情緒的一種，是由於沒有達到某種期望或實現希望的情況而產生的不滿足而導致的情緒。失望和後悔有類似之處，不同之處在於後悔的情緒是由先前的選擇導致了令人不滿的結果而造成，而失望情緒則更多是由於令人不滿的結果，與造成這種結果的原因關聯不大。失望是人的心理壓力的來源之一。研究失望情緒的起因、表現和對人行為、意識的影響是心理學的課題之一。」 失望，是對現況，對當下的情緒。 要如何跨越失望？ 是要等時間過去？ 還是已想好如何主動出擊？ 失望，也會積累。 我曾因積累了太多的失望，對人雖沒產生絕望的心情，可也距離不遠了。 因那時的我對任何人都不感興趣，也不想交流。 是很大的打擊之後的正常反應。 是被背叛欺負之後的正常反應啊！ 於是學習到了，不將自己的情感寄託在他人身上。 先愛自己，且是很愛很愛的程度。 別人如何待我，不好的態度，那就笑看唄，可若是彼此開心互動與往來，當然就是歡喜接受。 不受別人惡意的行徑給困擾。 失望因此就減少。 既然今天塔羅牌是『失望』，那就讓我們小心點行事。 在沒能力對抗或衝破之前，我們躲，我們閃，總可以做到的，是吧。 2024/07/01 Today's Tarot: Disappointment This Sunday was very quiet. So quiet that I didn't even step outside. Thinking of the scorching sun outside and knowing I can hardly withstand sudden changes in temperature, I decided not to go out and suffer. At home, there's air conditioning, food, and while it's not luxurious, my own space is always the most comfortable. Someone once told me, how can you live a fulfilling life without going out? Honestly, I can't quite accept this notion, but I won't argue. I believe that a fulfilling life doesn't necessarily require going out. However, everyone has a different definition of a fulfilling life, so it's not surprising that opinions vary. But today, I might disappoint everyone because today's tarot card is not directly and obviously positive. Today's tarot card is "Disappointment." Disappointed by what? People? Things? Oneself? Results? I checked my schedule for today and there are no major events. Does that mean there's no worry of being disappointed? Not really. I'm often disappointed in myself, and today is no exception. For many days after my course ended, I've been feeling disappointed in my own passivity. Clearly, there's so much to be done. Clearly, I'm still halfway through my tarot reading assignments, with some materials still pending for my teacher, yet I haven't started. But I still haven't managed to pull myself together. Wikipedia states, "Disappointment is a type of human emotion, arising from unfulfilled expectations or hopes. It is similar to regret, but while regret is caused by unsatisfactory results due to previous choices, disappointment is more related to unsatisfactory outcomes, regardless of the cause. Disappointment is a source of psychological stress. Studying the causes, manifestations, and effects of disappointment on human behavior and consciousness is one of the subjects of psychology." Disappointment is an emotion tied to the current state, to the present moment. How do we overcome disappointment? Do we wait for time to pass? Or have we already figured out how to take the initiative? Disappointment can also accumulate. I once accumulated so much disappointment that, although I didn't become completely hopeless about people, I wasn't far from it. At that time, I had no interest in anyone and didn't want to interact. It was a normal reaction after a significant blow. It's a normal reaction after being betrayed and bullied! So I learned not to place my emotional reliance on others. First, love yourself, and love yourself deeply. How others treat me—if it's negative, I'll just laugh it off, but if we have happy interactions, then I'll gladly accept. Don't let others' malicious actions bother you. This way, disappointment decreases. Since today's tarot card is "Disappointment," let's be cautious in our actions. Until we have the ability to confront or overcome it, we can avoid it. We can dodge it, can't we? #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Disappointment

2024 1124 可兒：衝浪者 Surfer

2024 1124 可兒：衝浪者 Surfer 活出自己的模樣，是什麼樣子呢，如果有機會認識可兒，你們就會知道了。 可兒，有著自己的事業，她的事業就是她自己很喜歡的事情，於是在結婚後，跟她先生討論後，就創業了。 因為開創了事業，又有了新的想法，於是就發展出新的興趣，然後又將這興趣學習得很專業，進而又有了新的事業。 可兒，長得非常漂亮，帶著親切溫柔的笑容，那天認識了她的朋友，知她甚深的朋友們都開玩笑地說，我是不是誤會了什麼？！ 這是怎麼樣鐵般的女人友情呀！ 很是羨慕可兒。 聽著可兒跟她自己另一個朋友聊到最近新購入的屋子，她很喜歡，且購入後馬上裝修，最近已跟先生入住。 朋友笑說，怎買屋子像買名牌包，如此輕易就下手。 可兒笑說，剛好手上有錢，剛好看到好房，剛好想買新房，就買了。 我喜歡這樣的對話，坦率，真誠。 喜歡那個氛圍，大夥把複雜的世故都關在門外。 在可兒的店裡，不能皺眉，不能心情不好的猛報怨，要開心自在的聊聊天，喝咖啡，這樣老闆才會開心。 這樣美麗幸福又可愛的女子，還需要祝福嗎？ 人美心善的人，更有能力與影響力。可兒的這輩子，可能就是天使下凡，來人世間玩耍，也給人世間帶來歡樂，帶來愛。 宇宙給可兒的祝福是：【衝浪者 Surfer】。 宇宙提醒著可兒，喜歡熱鬧，喜歡歡騰，老是對於可以衝在大夥前面感到興奮和開心，要注意控管情緒和平衡，別讓自己老是成為那顆充滿氣體，鼓著圓滾滾身體的氣球那樣，一放手就瞬間倏地衝上天去，適時地消氣與冷靜也是生活裡重要的事情。 2024.11.24 Ke’er: The Surfer What does it mean to live authentically as yourself? If you have the chance to meet Ke’er, you’ll understand. Ke’er has her own career, one she genuinely loves. After getting married, she discussed it with her husband and decided to start her own business. Through this entrepreneurial journey, she developed new ideas, which sparked new interests. She then pursued these interests professionally, leading to yet another venture. Ke’er is incredibly beautiful, with a warm and gentle smile. The day I met her friends, who know her deeply, they jokingly said, “Did we misunderstand something?” What kind of unshakable bond is this among women? It’s truly enviable. Listening to Ke’er chat with another friend about a newly purchased house, she expressed how much she loved it. She immediately renovated it after the purchase, and she and her husband have already moved in. Her friend teased her, saying, “You make buying a house look as easy as picking up a luxury handbag!” Ke’er laughed and said, “I just happened to have the money, happened to see a good house, and happened to want a new one, so I bought it.” I love conversations like this—straightforward and genuine. I also love the atmosphere in her circle, where all the complications of the outside world are left at the door. In Ke’er’s shop, you’re not allowed to frown or wallow in bad moods with endless complaints. Instead, it’s a place to chat joyfully, sip coffee, and simply feel at ease—this makes the owner happy. Does such a beautiful, happy, and lovable woman even need blessings? Kind-hearted people who are beautiful inside and out often have more power and influence. Perhaps Ke’er is an angel sent to earth to have fun and bring joy and love to the world. The universe’s blessing for Ke’er is: The Surfer. The universe reminds Ke’er, who loves liveliness and excitement, and thrives on being at the forefront, to manage her emotions and maintain balance. Don’t let yourself become like an overinflated balloon—round, buoyant, and ready to shoot skyward the moment you let go. Learning to deflate and calm yourself when needed is also an essential part of life. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0824 給小夜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 0824 給小夜的祝福：皇后 Empress 給有點膽怯的小夜 很高興認識妳。 一開始妳就直接說了妳的問題和現在遇到的困難。我感覺到的是妳的在乎，因在乎，所以迫切想要有個解決的辦法，可以讓現在的擔憂問題獲得解決。 主管的指責和同事的不友善，不只感覺到挫折，對自己又更沒自信，還讓妳在這樣的工作環境中感到不自在，感覺不被接受，不被期待。 因沒有歸屬感，沒有安全感，一直被緊迫盯人的情況下，妳工作的出錯率更高了。 妳擔憂著，主管會不會這幾天就找你，並且要妳離開。 可，對這份工作，妳也沒有一定很想繼續著心情。 妳很猶豫，卻也擔心著。 哪份工作沒有一定只能誰，才繼續下去。 家族事業都有接班人傳承，何況我們這樣的打工人。 可，不管何時離開，我們不能留下不合格的身影的記憶在任何一個地方。 之後也許會自己選擇離開，可現在面對的問題也要先改善，先面對，先解決。 檢討自己是不二法門，尤其是在自己一直犯錯的時候。 檢討若只在腦袋瓜裡想一想，這是無法做到位的。 寫下來，才能真正的面對，才能抓到如何做得好的精髓。 很高興聽到妳能接受並且要馬上試試我的建議。 就如同我跟妳說的，唯有自己想要面對，問題才會迎刃而解。 我的提醒，讓妳原本昏亂的心思和腦袋冷靜下來，妳自己也就找到如何進行的路了。 祝福妳 ~ 接下來工作順利，工作能力提升，主管讚揚，同事欣賞。 給妳的塔羅祝福：【皇后 Empress】。 來自宇宙的消息，將自己的工作做好，是基本的工作態度與責任。做好了工作，其他想要培育和守護的也就自然可以做到，比如同事情誼和主管的讚賞。一步一腳印，扎實地做好工作，這是讓人接受與欣賞的不二法門。 To a Slightly Timid Xiaoye I'm glad to have met you. From the very beginning, you directly expressed your concerns and the difficulties you're facing now. What I sensed was your care; because you care, you are eager to find a solution that can resolve your current worries. The criticism from your supervisor and the unfriendliness of your colleagues not only make you feel frustrated and less confident in yourself, but also uncomfortable in such a work environment, where you feel unaccepted and unwelcome. Without a sense of belonging and security, and constantly feeling under scrutiny, your rate of mistakes at work has increased. You're worried that your supervisor might call you in the next few days and ask you to leave. However, you're not particularly eager to continue in this job either. You're hesitant but also concerned. No job is irreplaceable; even in family businesses, there are successors. Let alone for us, the working class. But regardless of when we leave, we should not leave behind a memory of ourselves as incompetent. Even if you may choose to leave later, the issues you face now still need to be addressed, confronted, and resolved first. Self-reflection is the only way, especially when you keep making mistakes. If you only reflect in your mind, you can't really address the issues properly. Writing it down allows you to truly confront the situation and grasp the essence of how to improve. I'm glad to hear that you are willing to accept and immediately try my suggestions. As I told you, only when you are willing to face the problems will they be resolved easily. My reminders helped calm your confused thoughts and mind, and you found your way forward. Wishing you the best ~ May your work go smoothly, your skills improve, your supervisor praise you, and your colleagues admire you. Your Tarot Blessing: The Empress. A message from the universe: Doing your job well is a basic work attitude and responsibility. When you do your job well, other things you wish to nurture and protect will naturally follow, such as collegial friendships and your supervisor's appreciation. Step by step, diligently doing your job is the best way to gain acceptance and admiration. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

#Tarot搜尋結果

2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 0625 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0625 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 1031 怡貞：感知者 Sensor

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 1124 可兒：衝浪者 Surfer

2024 1124 可兒：衝浪者 Surfer

2024 0824 給小夜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 0824 給小夜的祝福：皇后 Empress