2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion 在擁擠的人群中，他像一棵大樹，立在那兒，不管旁邊的攤販如何吆喝叫賣著，他就是靜靜地等待。 在傳統市場裡，人們有著共同的行進動線的默契，當然，也有混亂的時候，但，大多數我們總是習慣從入口的右邊開始，一攤攤的逛，然後走到自己覺得可以回頭的點時，再往回走，再逛起另一邊的攤位。 這傳統市場是我這兩年採買食材的地方。 一開始覺好大，現在依然，沒有一次有全程走完，逛完的。 傳統市場就是如此，多去幾次，嘗試購買不同攤位後，自己喜歡的、習慣的攤位差不多也就拿捏準了，後來的採買就是抓緊一個原則，快，狠、準，從入口開始直接衝去目的攤位，盯上，拿起，付錢，轉身，離開，沒多停留的。 可從前兩個月，注意到了這位賣菜的伯伯，第一次看到，沒跟他買，可能我去的時間太晚了，他賣菜板車上剩下的菜，乾乾扁扁的，感覺不能再放。 可，我買菜挑選的需求是可以再放幾天的，一次吃不完那樣多的呀。 再來注意到老伯伯是在颱風後的採買。 每攤的青菜價格都高得嚇壞人，可每個老闆都說，颱風後，有青菜可以採買已是難得，物稀價當然貴。 我忍痛拿出荷包的紙鈔，買了一小把青菜，這確定是有益身體健康，怎我覺買這把青菜，我的心臟好痛。 這樣一小把的葉菜不夠我未來幾天的人體需求，突然之間聽到老伯伯說，一籃菜50元，不論是哪一種菜。 天呀！ 我問伯伯，您這樣有賺嗎？ 他的聲音輕輕的，有點沙啞，說，沒有。颱風剛過，大家都辛苦了，他有去大盤批菜，就出來賣。大家吃新鮮，吃的開心，這次沒有賺，沒有關係。 老伯伯的菜，比一般菜攤的菜看起來老，長比較大，大部分的人買菜喜歡挑嫩一點的。 我覺老伯伯的心意，讓人感動，我挑了兩盆。 伯伯幫我將菜裝進袋子裡的同時，有其他人靠近了。 結果，我開始幫老伯伯推銷他的菜。 伯伯聽到後對我微微笑。 沒多久，伯伯的菜賣掉了九成。 不是我很會叫賣，實在是老伯伯賣的價錢便宜。 回來後，我趁新鮮川燙了其中一種菜，青江菜。 看起來個頭大，可口感不粗糙，菜的纖維沒有想像中的老，不會不好咀嚼，是很可以的。 於是，這次，我特地去找老伯伯買菜。 一樣的身影，一樣的裝扮，一樣的板車，一樣一籃籃的菜，然後，一樣的寧靜。 結果，一樣，忍不住在其他客人靠近時，幫老伯伯叫賣。 沒想到，這時有位歐巴桑，推擠著老伯伯說，老伯伯擋住她的客人了？！ 伯伯的面前是我，我回頭看，沒有人站在我後面啊。 這位歐巴桑說的客人，是？？？ 伯伯也沒跟歐巴桑理論。 歐巴桑動手把伯伯的板車往旁邊挪動，又往前推，我趕緊跳到旁邊，免得撞到。 然後歐巴桑推著她的板車經過我時，叨唸著，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，就是轉不到她的客人前面去。 我自己翻譯成，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，但都沒有客人上前去。 看了歐巴桑賣的東西，我也只能說抱歉，無法跟她購買呀。 她賣的是痠痛藥膏，這不是我的菜呀。 回家後，老伯伯的身影一直盤繞在腦海裡。 想請宇宙送給老伯伯祝福 ~ 願他安康，願他祥和，願他福氣，願他無生無量。 宇宙送給老伯伯的塔羅牌祝福是【慈悲 Compassion】。 哇！有沒有覺得宇宙、高我、能量、磁場以及塔羅很奇妙。 在總共88張的塔羅牌裡，抽到的牌卡就是如此呼應著老伯伯的調性。 宇宙覺老伯伯的慈悲與祥和是讓人景仰與推崇的。 在世為人，慈悲為懷，虛懷若谷，體諒諒解，寬容包容，這是溫暖的力量，是慈悲祥和的力量，是愛的力量。 November 14, 2024 – The Vegetable Vendor: Compassion Amid the crowded marketplace, he stands like a large tree, rooted in place, quietly waiting while other vendors shout and call to attract customers. In the traditional market, there's an unspoken understanding of the flow of foot traffic, though it can be chaotic at times. Most people start from the right side of the entrance, browsing from stall to stall until they reach a point they consider a turning-back spot, then retrace their steps to explore the stalls on the other side. This market has been my go-to spot for grocery shopping over the past two years. Initially, it felt overwhelmingly large, and even now, I have yet to walk through it in its entirety in a single visit. That's the nature of traditional markets; with each visit, I experiment with different vendors, gradually narrowing down my favorites. Eventually, I adopted a routine: entering, heading directly to the targeted stalls, picking up items, paying, and leaving—no lingering. Two months ago, though, I noticed an elderly vegetable vendor. The first time I saw him, I didn’t buy anything; I was probably too late, and the vegetables left on his cart were somewhat wilted, seemingly unable to last much longer. I prefer produce that I can store for a few days, enough to be used gradually. The next time I noticed him was after a typhoon. Vegetable prices had skyrocketed across all stalls, and vendors explained that post-typhoon greens were scarce and therefore expensive. I reluctantly handed over my cash for a small bundle, painfully aware of the cost for the sake of health. That small bundle wasn’t nearly enough for my needs over the coming days. Then, I overheard the elderly vendor say, “One basket of vegetables, 50 dollars, any kind you want.” I was taken aback! I asked him, "Are you making any profit this way?" With a soft, slightly hoarse voice, he replied, “No. It’s right after the typhoon; everyone’s going through tough times. I managed to get some greens at wholesale, so I brought them out for people to enjoy fresh and happy meals. I won’t make a profit this time, and that’s okay.” His vegetables were more mature and larger than what most shoppers would typically pick, as many prefer tender greens. But I was moved by his kindness and sincerity and chose two baskets. While he packed the vegetables for me, others began approaching his stall. I found myself helping to promote his vegetables. Hearing my efforts, he gave me a gentle smile. Soon, 90% of his vegetables were sold—not because I’m good at marketing but because his prices were simply reasonable. When I got home, I blanched one of the greens—bok choy. Although large, it was surprisingly tender and easy to chew. So, this time, I specifically went back to find the elderly vendor. There he was, with the same demeanor, same attire, same cart, and same quiet presence. Once again, I couldn’t help but encourage other customers to buy from him. Unexpectedly, a middle-aged woman suddenly shoved him, complaining that he was blocking her customers. I was standing in front of him and looked back—there was no one behind me. So, who exactly were her “customers”? Without arguing, the vendor allowed her to push his cart aside. I quickly stepped aside, avoiding a collision as she maneuvered her own cart past me, muttering about how she couldn’t manage to position herself in front of her customers. I interpreted her mutterings as her frustration with not attracting customers. I looked at her goods, which turned out to be pain-relief ointment—definitely not something on my shopping list. Back home, the elderly vendor’s figure lingered in my mind. I silently sent a blessing to him, hoping the universe would grant him health, harmony, fortune, and boundless peace. The Tarot card blessing from the universe for the vendor is Compassion. Isn’t it marvelous how the universe, our higher selves, energy, the magnetic field, and Tarot align in such a magical way? Out of 88 cards, the one drawn resonated perfectly with his spirit. The universe acknowledges the vendor’s compassion and serenity as qualities to be admired. In this world, living with compassion, embracing humility, and showing understanding and tolerance for others embody a warm power—a power of compassionate serenity, the power of love. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1001 雅婷：更新者 Regenerator

2024 1001 雅婷：更新者 Regenerator 等待，當不確定是否會有希望時，即使短暫也漫長。 等待，清楚明白會有實現的那一天，帶著對未來的期盼，即使漫長，於實現的當下，也就不足為道。 好多年之後的現在，小姪女總算擁有了自己的手機。 以前她總愛借我的手機拍照或錄影，現在她可以自己隨性得隨時拍照和錄影。 可，我會很想念她跟我借手機時，那興奮發光的眼神，與我分享她的發想和構圖時的專注及快樂。 今天線上的客人是一位年輕的美麗媽媽，因為颱風影響，她所在的地方下起了大雨，辛苦得接送孩子回家後，怕溼透的身體會引起感冒，於是又趕忙帶孩子洗澡、吹頭髮，也趕快煮薑茶去寒。 於是，約好的時間，她無法上線，我找不到人。 比原先預約好的時間晚了有二十分鐘後，她上線了，一邊照顧著孩子，一邊跟我聊著天。 在這樣的氛圍與時刻，原先鬱積的煩悶，好像已被雨水打趴在地上，隨著不停落下的雨，一起流進了路邊的水溝，不再淤積於胸口。 雅婷說，原先想聊的，現在已不重要了。 開心她的放下，開啟我的生活小智慧，馬上分享去寒的小方法，不需另外花錢買，不用準備很多東西，就簡單的吹風機，花費短短幾分鐘，既去寒濕出汗，也保暖，身體也就清爽了。 身為媽媽的雅婷，聽到這樣的方式開心極了。 於是她決定當下就結束聊天，她想立即嘗試我分享的法子，讓她的寶貝健健康康，不受今日大雨的侵擾和影響。 宇宙送給雅婷的塔羅祝福：【更新者 Regenerator】。 有著這樣一位細心又疼愛孩子的媽媽，很是幸福。在雅婷的家裡，這股家中活力、溫暖的泉源，源源不絕滋潤著家人的心靈，細心的行為安慰著，保護著家人。孩子因媽媽的豐沛的溫暖與能量，享受著滿滿愛的同時，也健康成長著，不怕外面的世界，不擔憂長大的模樣。 因，媽媽在，一切都不用害怕。 2024 1001 Yating: Regenerator Waiting—when you're unsure if hope will arrive—can feel long, even if it's brief. Waiting—when you're certain that day will come, with hope for the future—can feel long, but in the moment of realization, that length no longer matters. Now, many years later, my little niece finally has her own phone. She used to love borrowing mine to take photos or videos. Now, she can take them whenever she wants, freely. But, I will miss the way her eyes sparkled with excitement when she borrowed my phone, how she focused and shared her ideas and compositions with me so joyfully. Today, my online client was a young, beautiful mother. Due to the typhoon, heavy rain poured down where she was. After the exhausting task of picking up her child, she hurried to bathe and dry her child to avoid catching a cold. She also made ginger tea to ward off the chill. Because of this, she was unable to come online at the scheduled time. I couldn’t reach her. About twenty minutes after our scheduled time, she finally logged in, chatting with me while taking care of her child. In that moment and atmosphere, the gloom that had been building up in my chest seemed to be washed away by the rain. It flowed along with the constant downpour into the roadside drains, no longer clogging my heart. Yating said that what she initially wanted to talk about no longer seemed important. I was happy for her release and shared a little life hack I’d just learned for driving away the cold. It requires no extra money, no special preparations—just a simple hairdryer. In just a few minutes, you can expel the cold and dampness, break a sweat, and warm up your body, leaving you refreshed. As a mother, Yating was delighted to hear this method. She decided to end our chat right then and there because she wanted to try it immediately, ensuring her child stays healthy and protected from the effects of today’s heavy rain. The universe sent Yating a Tarot blessing: The Regenerator. Having such a thoughtful, loving mother is a true blessing. In Yating's home, this vital, warm source of energy constantly nourishes the hearts of her family members. Her attentive actions comfort and protect them. Her child, surrounded by her abundant warmth and energy, thrives in love and grows healthy, unafraid of the outside world and without worry about growing up. Because with mom around, there’s nothing to fear. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master 老林，從腦海裡突然閃過你的身影，再想到當初你坐在我對面的情景，我深深為自己年輕時傲嬌的樣子感到羞愧，且需要跟你道歉，須打自我的內心跟你好好地說聲對不起。 那時的你，正值人生低谷，主管是你以前的同學，所以你才有機會進到公司。這是主管跟我說的，那時的我並沒有太多的判斷能力，可我確實也因為這樣而開始用有色眼光看待你。 我們那時的主管對我很不好，是一位天蠍女，對待她不喜歡的人會用言語辱罵，用情緒恐嚇。我是單位裡除她以外的唯一女生，所以很快就發現她跟其他同事說話態度和對待我時是天壤地別。 那時的我才25歲。 即使我想用力反抗也無用，因多國股東結構下，同事們各有各的靠山和派系，唯有我沒有。 你幸福多了，不會做的事情，做不來的事情，有你同學指點一二。 而我做對的事情，她會大聲喝罵我說她要的不是結果，她不爽我沒照她交代的過程去做；但我是照她交代的去做啊，但我又可能為每次的工作交代進行錄音當證據呢。 於是，她欺負我，我就不爽你。 她對我兇，我就不理你。 很多次，你想安慰我，但你說你嘴拙，怕說了我更生氣，你也一直勸我服個軟，就雨過天晴。 人，就是這樣，年輕時，筋Q軟，但腰挺很直，脾氣很硬。有了年紀後，筋變硬，懂得彎腰的重要性，但卻彎不下去了。 總之，離開那裡，我告訴自己，絕對要成為更厲害的自己。 我將那時認識的你們所有全都拋卻忘記，唯有欺壓我的人牢記在心裡。 我的2/3人生過去了，有沒有成為更厲害的自己沒人在意。但，我想起了你，想到了那個傲嬌的自己。但我卻忘記了你的名，只記得你的姓氏。 我在心裡跟你致歉，跟你道歉，說對不起，我請宇宙送給你祝福，也請宇宙傳達我的歉意至你的心中，也許你會突然想到我，閃過我的臉孔，那就是你接收到我的心意。 宇宙送的祝福塔羅牌是：【大師 Master】。 記得你的手藝超好，你曾煮過好幾次美食帶來公司分享，你愛你的家人，疼惜你的老婆，這樣的你，現在應是幸福的，你感恩你的同學給你機會，你嘗過低谷的苦澀，這樣的你，從那之後應都是知足快樂的。 我想，在你擅長且喜歡的領域，你應該早已成為一方大師，很多人跟你學習著。 祝福你 ~ 真心誠意！ 希望現在的你，雖然年紀有點老，可擁有專業好手藝的你，跟家人和樂生活，與老婆幸福過日子。 2024.11.28 To Mr. Lin: The Master Mr. Lin, Your image suddenly flashed across my mind, and I recalled the scene of you sitting across from me. I feel deeply ashamed of my arrogant attitude in my younger years and feel the need to sincerely apologize to you from the bottom of my heart. At that time, you were at a low point in your life. Your supervisor was a former classmate, which was why you got the opportunity to join the company. The supervisor shared this with me, and back then, my ability to judge was limited. Unfortunately, I allowed this information to color my perception of you. Our supervisor wasn’t kind to me. She was a Scorpio woman who used verbal insults and emotional intimidation against those she didn’t like. I was the only woman in the department besides her and quickly noticed the stark difference in how she treated me compared to others. I was only 25 at the time. Even though I wanted to resist, it was futile. In a company with a multinational shareholder structure, each colleague had their own allies and factions—except me. You, on the other hand, were more fortunate. When you struggled with tasks, your classmate guided you. Meanwhile, when I completed tasks correctly, I’d still get scolded. She would yell, claiming that while the results were right, she was displeased because I hadn’t followed her specified process. But I had followed her instructions! Yet I couldn’t possibly record every work directive as evidence. Thus, her bullying of me made me resent you. Her hostility toward me made me ignore you. Many times, you tried to comfort me, but you admitted you weren’t good with words and worried that speaking up might make me angrier. You often advised me to soften my stance, saying that things would get better if I let it go. That’s how people are. When we’re young, we’re flexible but stubborn, standing tall and proud with hardened tempers. As we age, our bodies stiffen, but we learn the importance of bending—only to find it harder to do so. In any case, after leaving that place, I told myself I must become a better version of myself. I let go of everyone I knew there, except for the ones who oppressed me—I kept them firmly in my memory. Two-thirds of my life has now passed. Whether or not I’ve become a better person, no one truly cares. But I thought of you and my arrogant younger self. I’ve even forgotten your first name, only remembering your surname. In my heart, I apologize to you, saying, “I’m sorry.” I ask the universe to send blessings your way and to convey my apology to your heart. Perhaps you’ll suddenly think of me and see my face flash before you—that will be my heartfelt message reaching you. The blessing sent by the universe through the Tarot card is: [The Master]. I remember your incredible skills. You cooked many delicious meals and shared them with the office. You loved your family and cherished your wife. Someone like you must be living a happy life now. You were grateful to your classmate for the opportunity and had experienced the bitterness of life’s lows. With that, I believe you have since lived a life of contentment and joy. I imagine that in the field you excel in and love, you’ve already become a master, with many learning from you. Wishing you all the best—sincerely and wholeheartedly! I hope that now, though older, you continue to enjoy a harmonious life with your family, happiness with your wife, and the fulfillment that comes from your exceptional skills. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment 這週末週日，很靜。 靜得連門都沒走出去。 想到外面赤熱的太陽，想著自己很難承受溫度急冷急熱的變化，還是別出門找罪受了。 在家，有冷氣，有食物，雖沒有奢華享受，可自己的窩，怎麼待怎麼舒服。 曾有人跟我說，沒出門的日子，怎是過充實的生活呢？ 這道理，其實我是比較沒有辦法接受的，但不評論。 雖然我認為充實生活，為何一定要出門才能擁有。 不過，大家對於充實生活的定義不同，那也就不奇怪想法不一致了。 只是，今天恐會讓大家失望的是，今天的塔羅牌，沒有抽到直接的，顯而易見的正向牌卡。 今天的塔羅牌是『失望』。 對什麼失望呢？ 對人？ 對事？ 對自己？ 對結果？ 我查看了自己今日的行事曆，沒有大事，難道這樣就不擔心會發生失望的情況嗎？ 非也。 我對自己失望的，不會只有今天。 課程結束之後這些天來，蠻多天我都因自己的消極感到失望。 明明，需要做的事情那麼多。 明明，塔羅閱讀師的事情目前是半吊子狀態，還欠一些資料沒提供給老師，可就是沒開始進行。 但我卻仍沒重整好自己。 維基百科裡寫道，「失望是人類情緒的一種，是由於沒有達到某種期望或實現希望的情況而產生的不滿足而導致的情緒。失望和後悔有類似之處，不同之處在於後悔的情緒是由先前的選擇導致了令人不滿的結果而造成，而失望情緒則更多是由於令人不滿的結果，與造成這種結果的原因關聯不大。失望是人的心理壓力的來源之一。研究失望情緒的起因、表現和對人行為、意識的影響是心理學的課題之一。」 失望，是對現況，對當下的情緒。 要如何跨越失望？ 是要等時間過去？ 還是已想好如何主動出擊？ 失望，也會積累。 我曾因積累了太多的失望，對人雖沒產生絕望的心情，可也距離不遠了。 因那時的我對任何人都不感興趣，也不想交流。 是很大的打擊之後的正常反應。 是被背叛欺負之後的正常反應啊！ 於是學習到了，不將自己的情感寄託在他人身上。 先愛自己，且是很愛很愛的程度。 別人如何待我，不好的態度，那就笑看唄，可若是彼此開心互動與往來，當然就是歡喜接受。 不受別人惡意的行徑給困擾。 失望因此就減少。 既然今天塔羅牌是『失望』，那就讓我們小心點行事。 在沒能力對抗或衝破之前，我們躲，我們閃，總可以做到的，是吧。 2024/07/01 Today's Tarot: Disappointment This Sunday was very quiet. So quiet that I didn't even step outside. Thinking of the scorching sun outside and knowing I can hardly withstand sudden changes in temperature, I decided not to go out and suffer. At home, there's air conditioning, food, and while it's not luxurious, my own space is always the most comfortable. Someone once told me, how can you live a fulfilling life without going out? Honestly, I can't quite accept this notion, but I won't argue. I believe that a fulfilling life doesn't necessarily require going out. However, everyone has a different definition of a fulfilling life, so it's not surprising that opinions vary. But today, I might disappoint everyone because today's tarot card is not directly and obviously positive. Today's tarot card is "Disappointment." Disappointed by what? People? Things? Oneself? Results? I checked my schedule for today and there are no major events. Does that mean there's no worry of being disappointed? Not really. I'm often disappointed in myself, and today is no exception. For many days after my course ended, I've been feeling disappointed in my own passivity. Clearly, there's so much to be done. Clearly, I'm still halfway through my tarot reading assignments, with some materials still pending for my teacher, yet I haven't started. But I still haven't managed to pull myself together. Wikipedia states, "Disappointment is a type of human emotion, arising from unfulfilled expectations or hopes. It is similar to regret, but while regret is caused by unsatisfactory results due to previous choices, disappointment is more related to unsatisfactory outcomes, regardless of the cause. Disappointment is a source of psychological stress. Studying the causes, manifestations, and effects of disappointment on human behavior and consciousness is one of the subjects of psychology." Disappointment is an emotion tied to the current state, to the present moment. How do we overcome disappointment? Do we wait for time to pass? Or have we already figured out how to take the initiative? Disappointment can also accumulate. I once accumulated so much disappointment that, although I didn't become completely hopeless about people, I wasn't far from it. At that time, I had no interest in anyone and didn't want to interact. It was a normal reaction after a significant blow. It's a normal reaction after being betrayed and bullied! So I learned not to place my emotional reliance on others. First, love yourself, and love yourself deeply. How others treat me—if it's negative, I'll just laugh it off, but if we have happy interactions, then I'll gladly accept. Don't let others' malicious actions bother you. This way, disappointment decreases. Since today's tarot card is "Disappointment," let's be cautious in our actions. Until we have the ability to confront or overcome it, we can avoid it. We can dodge it, can't we? #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Disappointment

2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress 只是想閒聊的小瑜，在我將話題從天氣開始說起時，妳急迫不耐煩的口氣嚇了我一跳，妳說「別談天氣了，那麼不穩定，煩死了。」 天氣，不是人類的我們可以操控的呀。 喜歡的天氣，享受，不喜歡的天氣，閃躲或躲避，這是我面對季節天候一貫的想法。 一直下雨很多天，會覺得厭煩嗎？ 可能會有一點，但不至於左右我的心情。 天氣這個話題妳不喜歡，那改說說旅遊，如何？ 對這話題妳好像也沒有興趣，直接跳過，沒有任何回應。 沒想到妳反而接著我前面跟天氣有關的話題。 妳說，「擔心什麼卻不來，不擔心的時候又一直來。」 我在猜想最近的妳是否很焦躁，對於什麼事情都是這樣直白的劈過來的感受和對話。 率性呀 ~ 妳。 真好。 妳有自己的想法，且堅持。 妳對於自己沒有歪掉的三觀感到自豪，我則這點也很棒。 我跟妳分享了我的心境，「我在群體中，也是屬於堅持自己想法的類型，有時會比較累，但我不想隨波逐流，也不想忘卻自己的本心和初衷。」 對這段話，妳深表贊同，且很喜歡。 妳甚至還說，妳欣賞我說出來的每一句話，妳感受到每一句話都帶有含意，不是教條，不是教誨，而是讓聽到的人，看到的人，自己用心體會。 也許這是一種交淺言深的交流吧。 送給小瑜的塔羅祝福：【皇后 Empress】。 來自宇宙的訊息，連宇宙都替小瑜高興，對於小瑜能〝維護〞和堅守自己的原則及信念，這是一件很不容易的事情。宇宙提醒著小瑜，在堅持之下，有時也需要耐心傾聽一下旁人的意見或看法，也許會有不同的獲得與學習。 Blessing for Xiaoyu on September 3, 2024: The Empress Xiaoyu, who just wanted to chat casually, I was startled by your urgent and impatient tone when I tried to start a conversation about the weather. You said, "Stop talking about the weather; it's so unstable and annoying." The weather is something beyond our human control. My approach to the weather is simple: enjoy the weather you like, avoid or hide from the weather you dislike. Does it get frustrating when it rains for many days in a row? Maybe a little, but it doesn't affect my mood that much. Since you don't like talking about the weather, how about we discuss travel? You don't seem interested in that topic either, skipping it entirely without any response. Unexpectedly, you picked up on my earlier topic about the weather. You said, "Things you worry about don't happen; things you don't worry about keep happening." I wonder if you've been feeling agitated lately, responding so bluntly and directly in conversations. You're so straightforward. That's great. You have your own opinions and stick to them. You're proud of your uncorrupted values, and I think that's wonderful too. I shared my thoughts with you: "In a group, I'm also the type to stick to my own ideas. It can be tiring sometimes, but I don't want to go with the flow or forget my true self and original intentions." You fully agreed with this and liked it a lot. You even said that you appreciate everything I say, feeling that every word has meaning—not as doctrines or teachings, but as something for the listener or reader to personally reflect upon. Perhaps this is a kind of deep conversation despite our acquaintance being shallow. Tarot Blessing for Xiaoyu: [The Empress]. This is a message from the universe; even the universe is happy for Xiaoyu. It recognizes how difficult it is for you to "maintain" and hold onto your own principles and beliefs. The universe reminds Xiaoyu that while it's important to stay firm, sometimes it's also necessary to patiently listen to others' opinions or perspectives. You might gain new insights and learn something different. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust 小陸從上一個工作裸辭至今也快要近三年。他說倒也不是著急想要回到職場，純粹是因非常確定，也接受了一個事實，那就是，他個人本身，完全沒有自律的好態度，更沒有自我約束的好習慣。 從剛開始，於半夜滑手機平板，一丁點也不想睡覺，到後來，需要睡覺，想要睡覺，身體卻完全不理會大腦的意識與意志，整個狀況就是身體有自己的節奏與步調，完全無視大腦的命令和意志的渴求。 他形容到那次面試的時間是過去二十年來第一次如此快速且短暫的，徵才公司董事長問了三個問題，卻都在還沒完成回答前打斷了他的陳述與說明，甚至不給予時間與機會提出詢問導致他無法獲得更多訊息。 當下他是不悅的，現在的他認為應該聽從這個情緒的直覺。 因當時他被理智腦給說服了，以為董事長如此簡潔有力的抓重點，於管理風格上是強勢且有力道，是直接表達指示、命令，不需下屬或員工的臆測。 事實的真相總是得進入實際環境裡才知道。 面試時說會成為工作夥伴的年輕孩子早就於上個月前離職了，被告知現職的助理可以協助很多事情，實際狀況是空有熱誠，懷有熱情，可惜沒有該職務的工作基礎，沒有相關經驗，也不具備基礎理論，卻是把基本常識當作知識的叫囂著，把每天忙得像陀螺，對於他在旁的指導與建議，充耳不聞，還反過來指責他沒能快速進入狀況。 在職場最害怕不懂專業的人要帶領真正懂得的人，更危險的是下屬以年資來吆喝新進主管。 此處不宜久留，提出去意。 於面試時被告知的職務工作目標與實際狀況不符合，且感覺上是有刻意、惡意掩蓋實際狀況，即使是職場裡的老鳥，在萬惡的資本家面前，也只有被欺凌的份。 宇宙呼應其需要祝福的指引，抽到的塔羅牌是：【信任Trust】。 宇宙說，遭遇到這樣的事情，更是突顯信任的重要。光，是信任的象徵，讓你感受到有光的存在的人，不要害怕，試著再次給予信任，試著看到他人的善良，試著建立與擁抱新關係，宇宙與老天不會給你無法處理的事務，相信自己的能力，相信自己的際遇，相信善良的自己會遇到美好的機緣。 2024 1024 Xiao Lu: Trust Xiao Lu has been out of work for nearly three years since quitting his last job without securing another. He says it’s not that he’s in a hurry to return to the workforce; rather, he has come to terms with a reality—that he himself lacks a good attitude toward self-discipline and does not have the habit of self-restraint. Initially, he would stay up late at night, scrolling on his phone or tablet, without any desire to sleep. Later, when he needed and wanted to sleep, his body completely ignored his mind’s consciousness and will. His body seemed to have its own rhythm and pace, completely disregarding the brain’s commands and desires. He described a recent interview as the fastest and shortest one he’s had in the past twenty years. The chairman of the recruiting company asked him three questions but interrupted him before he could finish each answer. He wasn’t given the time or opportunity to ask questions, leaving him with no further information. At the time, he was displeased, and now he feels he should have trusted his emotional instinct. Back then, however, his rational mind convinced him that the chairman’s concise focus on key points was a sign of a strong, efficient management style—one where instructions are given directly, leaving no need for employees to guess. But the truth only reveals itself once you are in the actual environment. The young colleague, who was supposed to be his future work partner according to the interview, had already left a month earlier. He was told that the current assistant could help with many tasks, but in reality, while passionate and enthusiastic, the assistant had no foundation for the job. Lacking experience and theoretical knowledge, the assistant mistook basic common sense for expertise, staying busy like a spinning top. Worse still, the assistant ignored Xiao Lu’s guidance and suggestions, even blaming him for not adapting quickly enough. What Xiao Lu fears most in the workplace is when someone without expertise leads those who truly understand the work. Even more dangerous is when subordinates use their seniority to shout down a newly appointed supervisor. This was not a place to stay long, so he decided to leave. The job's responsibilities, as described in the interview, did not match the reality, and it felt as though the truth had been deliberately hidden. Even seasoned professionals can find themselves bullied by ruthless capitalists. Seeking guidance, Xiao Lu turned to the universe and drew the Tarot card: Trust. The universe said that encountering such experiences only highlights the importance of trust. Light is a symbol of trust. Don’t be afraid of those who make you feel the presence of light. Try to trust again, try to see the goodness in others, and try to build and embrace new relationships. The universe and the heavens will not give you more than you can handle. Trust in your abilities, trust in your circumstances, and trust that your kind-hearted self will encounter beautiful opportunities. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor 調養休息了七千多個日子，從原本積極的改變，到享受無所事事的美好，再到提不起勁的生活內容，是又到了該改變的時候了。 為何提不起勁？ 不是沒有事情忙碌，而是常在忙碌完後，原本心中的茫然，沒有隨著執行完一件件的計畫而消失，反而茫然的思緒更為嚴重許多。 於是轉念思考，既然茫然，那就再踏入紅塵人群中吧。 就這樣起心動念了，幾天後，突然收到過去一位主管的訊息，有個機會問我有沒有興趣。 我心中一想，這吸引力法則也太猛烈了吧。 思考幾天後，我拒絕了。 我到底在幹什麼？ 不是想回歸職場嗎？為何又拒絕？ 機會送上門不把握，難道要自己去撞牆，還未必有比較好，這樣才甘願嗎？ 可，有的時候，人類會感到痛苦就是理智與期望中間搖擺不定。現實的考量是其一，不想就此輕易放棄是其二，身體心理狀況還未調整好是其三。 於是我又持續沉浸在沒有變化，沒有思緒，沒有進度的歲月陰溝中。突然，那個決定的時間點降臨了。雖然沒有石破天驚的閃電還是打雷，可就在那一瞬間決定，好，把握機會。 今天的面談結束。回來想冷靜一下，於是抽張塔羅牌，請宇宙來個消息吧。 【感知者 Sensor】關於這個機會的塔羅牌。 有意思，這是要如何來讀牌呢？ 這張牌是權杖子牌，討論權杖牌就會需要回歸抽牌人的內心。所以這是否是機會，是挑戰，是命運，端看我怎麼認為，怎麼思考。 在這個機會裡，我應該會有非常多的體驗與感觸，也會藉由這樣的機會而有不同的改變與成長。 是可期待的。 2024-09-05 Opportunity: Seer After more than seven thousand days of recuperation and rest, from initially striving for change, to enjoying the beauty of doing nothing, and finally to a life lacking enthusiasm, it seems that the time for change has come again. Why the lack of enthusiasm? It’s not because there’s nothing to do, but because the original sense of confusion hasn’t disappeared after completing one plan after another. On the contrary, the feeling of being lost has become even more severe. So, I had a change of mind. Since I felt lost, why not step back into the hustle and bustle of the world? Just as I had this thought, a few days later, I suddenly received a message from a former supervisor about an opportunity, asking if I was interested. I thought to myself, the Law of Attraction works so strongly! After thinking about it for a few days, I declined. What am I doing? Didn’t I want to return to the workforce? Why did I refuse again? A chance knocks on the door, and I don’t seize it. Do I have to run into a wall, with no guarantee of a better outcome, to be satisfied? However, sometimes people suffer from wavering between reason and expectation. One reason is practical considerations, another is the reluctance to give up easily, and the third is that my physical and mental state is not yet adjusted. So, I continued to immerse myself in a stagnant, thoughtless, and unprogressive period of time. Suddenly, the moment of decision arrived. Although there was no earth-shattering lightning or thunder, in that instant, I decided to seize the opportunity. Today’s interview is over. I came back to calm down, so I drew a Tarot card, asking the universe for a message. [The Seer] regarding this opportunity. Interesting, how should this card be interpreted? This card is the Page of Wands, and discussing the Wands cards often requires returning to the drawer's inner self. So whether this is an opportunity, a challenge, or destiny depends on how I perceive it and how I think about it. In this opportunity, I should expect to have many experiences and feelings, and through this opportunity, I will undergo different changes and growth. It is something to look forward to. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion 大頭貼放著自己兩歲時的可愛照片，感覺彤彤從小就在愛的氛圍裡成長。 果然沒猜錯，彤彤是獨生女，沒有兄弟姊妹，獨享寵愛，也需一肩扛家庭。 不過還很年輕的彤彤很是明白，自己享有的獨寵，另一個面向就是要承擔更多的責任。 跟彤彤建議說，找幫手很重要，有些事情讓擅長的人協助，會更有幫助。 最近被工作和家裡的事情搞得忙碌不已的彤彤，沒有特別想要談談的事情，也沒有特別想要問的，就只是想跟不認識的我東扯西講，提到什麼聊什麼。 於是我們講到了女孩們最常出現的話題，”胖與瘦”及”甜食與肥胖的關係”。 彤彤竟然說，她愛吃甜食，但她沒胖過。 真的是太讓人羨慕了。 跟我是完全不同類型的。 我是與”瘦”絕緣的連深呼吸都能像氣球般鼓起來的類型。 有時這樣的漫聊，也不錯。 很快的時間到了，要彤彤趕緊去吃晚餐，太晚吃，對胃的負擔比較大。 給彤彤的塔羅祝福：【困惑Confusion】。 來自宇宙的消息，提醒彤彤，因還年輕，所以有些事情搞不太清楚，那是正常的，其實，我年齡半百了，很多事情也還是搞不清楚。 困惑，常常會讓我們陷入迷茫中，有時突破現況需要外力來個石破天驚的大震撼，脈絡也就清晰許多了。 彤彤加油 ~ 。 Blessings to Tong Tong on August 29, 2024: Tong Tong’s profile picture shows an adorable photo of herself at the age of two, giving the impression that she has grown up in an atmosphere full of love. As expected, Tong Tong is an only child with no siblings, enjoying exclusive affection but also having to shoulder the family's responsibilities alone. However, young as she is, Tong Tong understands very well that enjoying exclusive affection also means taking on more responsibilities. I suggested to Tong Tong that finding help is important, and letting those who are good at certain things assist can be more beneficial. Recently, Tong Tong has been overwhelmed by work and family matters. She didn’t have anything specific she wanted to talk about or ask; she just wanted to have a casual chat with a stranger like me, talking about whatever came to mind. So, we ended up discussing topics commonly brought up by girls: "being fat or thin" and "the relationship between sweets and obesity." Tong Tong said that she loves sweets but has never gained weight. How enviable! She’s a completely different type from me—I’m the type that is far from "thin," and even deep breaths can make me puff up like a balloon. Sometimes, such casual conversations are nice. Soon it was time, and I told Tong Tong to go have dinner quickly, as eating too late can be more of a burden on the stomach. Tarot Blessing for Tong Tong: [Confusion]. A message from the universe reminds Tong Tong that since she is still young, it's normal to be unclear about certain things. Actually, even at my age, approaching fifty, there are many things I still don't understand. Confusion often leads us into bewilderment, and sometimes breaking through the current situation requires an external force to create a shocking upheaval, making the context much clearer. Tong Tong, keep it up! #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0603 今日塔羅：太陽 Sun

2024 0603 今日塔羅：太陽 Sun 昨下了將近一整天的雨，淋濕我的髮，浸濕我的鞋，有點狼狽，心，卻是在跳舞。 害怕悶熱天候的我，這樣的涼爽，像是呼吸著滿滿的薄荷香氣，清新十足，很是舒服。 就是滴滴答答的，難免讓人覺討厭，尤其是騎摩托車的人。 最喜歡的天氣模式就是晚上下點雨，澆熄一些熱氣，白日晴，有藍天，有白雲。 今日塔羅牌是『太陽」。 溫暖與甜蜜。 熱情與光明。 神采飛揚，人都輕盈起舞了。 財運當到不可擋。 團隊領導是要角。 活力、精力、創造力，魅力無限。 心智，通透覺察。 身體，輕盈舒暢。 精神，揚升高亢。 心靈，滿溢圓潤。 旭日東昇的太陽。 Tarot for Today, 2024-06-03: The Sun Yesterday, it rained nearly all day. My hair was drenched, my shoes were soaked. It was a bit messy, but my heart was dancing. I, who fear hot and humid weather, found this coolness like breathing in the full scent of mint—refreshing and very comfortable. However, the constant dripping can be annoying, especially for those riding motorcycles. My favorite weather pattern is a bit of rain at night to cool things down, and then a sunny day with blue skies and white clouds. Today's tarot card is "The Sun". Warmth and sweetness. Passion and brightness. Radiance that makes people dance lightly. Unstoppable financial fortune. Key role in team leadership. Energy, vitality, creativity, boundless charm. Mind, clear and perceptive. Body, light and comfortable. Spirit, elevated and high. Soul, filled with fullness. The rising sun. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Sun

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor 辛苦了，陸陸，一位新手媽媽。 照顧剛出生三個多月寶寶的妳，在做自己和成為一個好媽媽的角色中徘徊，猶豫中的妳常感到痛苦與辛苦。 痛苦的是，妳覺得怎會有這樣的心態出現，感覺好像對不起自己的寶寶。 辛苦的是，這樣的猶豫與不決，發生的頻率非常高，讓妳在寶寶入睡時，明明已經很累了，卻捨不得休息，因妳害怕著，若不抓住這短短的時間，那妳就更沒有時間，更沒有機會做自己了。 現在的妳，精神不好，體力不佳，沒有人家說的坐完月子，讓身體充分休息與獲得營養滋補的豐腴模樣。 和老公的小小家庭中，不僅沒有人協助，內心的孤單、徬徨更讓妳覺得難過，即使想跟老公說說心裡話，看著他辛苦工作回來後疲憊的樣子，妳內心裡再多的苦澀，也說不出口。 想跟娘家媽媽訴說，又怕遭到責罵。 於是妳決定找我聊聊。 懷孕經驗，我沒有。 生產經驗，我沒有，但有長年痛經的經驗，妳說，這妳不需要。 坐月子經驗，我沒有。 照顧寶寶的經驗，我只有1/10，夠嗎？ 妳說妳笑了出來，當看到我這樣的回應時。 其實，人類始終都是多重角色在生存著。 當我們還小的時候，是孩子，甚至是孫子輩，是兄弟姊妹，也是學生，還有同學與朋友。 長大了，是上班族，但依然還有著孩子的角色，幸福的人也還保有孫 子角色，男女朋友，下屬，同事還有朋友。 當成為媽媽之後，不代表需要漠視、忽視、放棄其他角色。 無論我們一身具備哪些角色，我們自己，絕對不能遺忘呀。 自己是所有其他角色的延伸。 記得自己，照顧自己，認識自己，唯有自己好，其他角色才能做得好。 因此我給妳的建議是，寶寶休息睡覺時，把握這時間，妳也好好休息。寶寶醒來的時候，可以跟寶寶互動，也可讓寶寶自己玩耍，老公回來跟寶寶親近時，這個時段，可以跟老公討論，讓妳做自己想做的事情，即使妳只是躺在沙發上，那也可以，就是不要打擾妳，中斷妳在進行的事情。 平衡，讓我們得以持續擁有能量與力量往前繼續邁進。 宇宙送給妳的塔羅牌祝福是【皇帝 Emperor】。 我腦海中浮現的感受是，請將妳的寶寶視為皇帝，妳是導引他，輔助他，給予他愛和支持的母后。 要成為一個優秀的生命導師，要先有堅強的心智與人生的智慧，要先學習人生的真理與世界運行的道理，要懂得鼓勵與支持，堅持教育與教導，懂得設定目標與堅強地朝目標努力。 當妳明白妳所學習到的，經驗積累的，都是需先成就自己，才有機會傳承給孩子時，成為自己與成為一個好母親，其實是同一件事情，也就不需經歷選擇的過程，也就不會有兩難的痛苦。 祝福陸陸 ~ 妳能想到這樣的猶豫困擾，妳就是已踏上智慧的路途上，成為妳孩子溫暖的依靠。 2024-11-08 To Lulu: The Emperor Thank you, Lulu, a new mother. Caring for a baby just over three months old, you find yourself wavering between being yourself and becoming a good mother. In your hesitation, you often feel both pain and struggle. The painful part is the thought that these feelings somehow mean you’re letting your baby down. The struggle lies in how often these indecisions arise, leaving you reluctant to rest even when your baby sleeps—fearing that if you don’t seize these fleeting moments, you’ll have even less time, even fewer chances, to be yourself. Right now, you’re physically and mentally exhausted. You haven’t had the full rest and nourishing care some say should follow the postpartum period. In your small family with your husband, not only is there no extra help, but the loneliness and uncertainty sometimes feel overwhelming. Even when you want to confide in your husband, seeing him come home so tired from work makes you hesitate, keeping your bitterness inside. You think about talking to your mother, but you’re afraid she might scold you. So, you decided to talk with me. I have no experience with pregnancy. I have no experience with childbirth, though I do know the long struggle of painful menstruation. But you said that wasn’t what you needed. I have no experience with postpartum care. I only have 1/10 of the experience in caring for a baby. Is that enough? You said you laughed when you read my response. Actually, as humans, we always carry multiple roles in life. When we’re young, we’re children, grandchildren, siblings, students, classmates, and friends. As adults, we’re employees, still children, and for the lucky ones, still grandchildren, and we’re also partners, subordinates, colleagues, and friends. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to ignore, neglect, or give up your other roles. No matter what roles we take on, we must never forget ourselves. The self is the foundation from which all other roles extend. Remember yourself, care for yourself, and understand yourself. Only when you are well can you fulfill your other roles well. So, my suggestion for you is to take time for yourself when the baby is asleep. Rest, and when the baby wakes, engage with them or let them play independently. When your husband comes home to connect with the baby, use this time to do something just for you—even if it’s simply lying on the couch, uninterrupted and undisturbed. Balance allows us to sustain the energy and strength to keep moving forward. The tarot card blessing the universe sends you is The Emperor. The feeling that arises in my mind is this: see your baby as the Emperor, and you as the Empress guiding, supporting, loving, and nurturing him. To be an outstanding life guide requires a strong heart and life wisdom. You must first learn the truths of life and understand the principles by which the world operates. It involves learning to encourage and support, committing to teaching and guiding, and setting goals while steadfastly working towards them. When you understand that everything you learn and every experience you gain are all for building yourself so that you may someday pass this on to your child, you’ll realize that becoming yourself and becoming a good mother are, in fact, the same path. There will be no more choices to make, no painful dilemmas to face. Blessings to you, Lulu. Just by reflecting on these struggles and hesitations, you’ve already stepped onto the path of wisdom, becoming the warm support your child can rely on. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

#Tarot搜尋結果

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1001 雅婷：更新者 Regenerator

2024 1001 雅婷：更新者 Regenerator

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0701 今日塔羅：失望 Disappointment

2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0603 今日塔羅：太陽 Sun

2024 0603 今日塔羅：太陽 Sun

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor