2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor 調養休息了七千多個日子，從原本積極的改變，到享受無所事事的美好，再到提不起勁的生活內容，是又到了該改變的時候了。 為何提不起勁？ 不是沒有事情忙碌，而是常在忙碌完後，原本心中的茫然，沒有隨著執行完一件件的計畫而消失，反而茫然的思緒更為嚴重許多。 於是轉念思考，既然茫然，那就再踏入紅塵人群中吧。 就這樣起心動念了，幾天後，突然收到過去一位主管的訊息，有個機會問我有沒有興趣。 我心中一想，這吸引力法則也太猛烈了吧。 思考幾天後，我拒絕了。 我到底在幹什麼？ 不是想回歸職場嗎？為何又拒絕？ 機會送上門不把握，難道要自己去撞牆，還未必有比較好，這樣才甘願嗎？ 可，有的時候，人類會感到痛苦就是理智與期望中間搖擺不定。現實的考量是其一，不想就此輕易放棄是其二，身體心理狀況還未調整好是其三。 於是我又持續沉浸在沒有變化，沒有思緒，沒有進度的歲月陰溝中。突然，那個決定的時間點降臨了。雖然沒有石破天驚的閃電還是打雷，可就在那一瞬間決定，好，把握機會。 今天的面談結束。回來想冷靜一下，於是抽張塔羅牌，請宇宙來個消息吧。 【感知者 Sensor】關於這個機會的塔羅牌。 有意思，這是要如何來讀牌呢？ 這張牌是權杖子牌，討論權杖牌就會需要回歸抽牌人的內心。所以這是否是機會，是挑戰，是命運，端看我怎麼認為，怎麼思考。 在這個機會裡，我應該會有非常多的體驗與感觸，也會藉由這樣的機會而有不同的改變與成長。 是可期待的。 2024-09-05 Opportunity: Seer After more than seven thousand days of recuperation and rest, from initially striving for change, to enjoying the beauty of doing nothing, and finally to a life lacking enthusiasm, it seems that the time for change has come again. Why the lack of enthusiasm? It’s not because there’s nothing to do, but because the original sense of confusion hasn’t disappeared after completing one plan after another. On the contrary, the feeling of being lost has become even more severe. So, I had a change of mind. Since I felt lost, why not step back into the hustle and bustle of the world? Just as I had this thought, a few days later, I suddenly received a message from a former supervisor about an opportunity, asking if I was interested. I thought to myself, the Law of Attraction works so strongly! After thinking about it for a few days, I declined. What am I doing? Didn’t I want to return to the workforce? Why did I refuse again? A chance knocks on the door, and I don’t seize it. Do I have to run into a wall, with no guarantee of a better outcome, to be satisfied? However, sometimes people suffer from wavering between reason and expectation. One reason is practical considerations, another is the reluctance to give up easily, and the third is that my physical and mental state is not yet adjusted. So, I continued to immerse myself in a stagnant, thoughtless, and unprogressive period of time. Suddenly, the moment of decision arrived. Although there was no earth-shattering lightning or thunder, in that instant, I decided to seize the opportunity. Today’s interview is over. I came back to calm down, so I drew a Tarot card, asking the universe for a message. [The Seer] regarding this opportunity. Interesting, how should this card be interpreted? This card is the Page of Wands, and discussing the Wands cards often requires returning to the drawer's inner self. So whether this is an opportunity, a challenge, or destiny depends on how I perceive it and how I think about it. In this opportunity, I should expect to have many experiences and feelings, and through this opportunity, I will undergo different changes and growth. It is something to look forward to. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master 老林，從腦海裡突然閃過你的身影，再想到當初你坐在我對面的情景，我深深為自己年輕時傲嬌的樣子感到羞愧，且需要跟你道歉，須打自我的內心跟你好好地說聲對不起。 那時的你，正值人生低谷，主管是你以前的同學，所以你才有機會進到公司。這是主管跟我說的，那時的我並沒有太多的判斷能力，可我確實也因為這樣而開始用有色眼光看待你。 我們那時的主管對我很不好，是一位天蠍女，對待她不喜歡的人會用言語辱罵，用情緒恐嚇。我是單位裡除她以外的唯一女生，所以很快就發現她跟其他同事說話態度和對待我時是天壤地別。 那時的我才25歲。 即使我想用力反抗也無用，因多國股東結構下，同事們各有各的靠山和派系，唯有我沒有。 你幸福多了，不會做的事情，做不來的事情，有你同學指點一二。 而我做對的事情，她會大聲喝罵我說她要的不是結果，她不爽我沒照她交代的過程去做；但我是照她交代的去做啊，但我又可能為每次的工作交代進行錄音當證據呢。 於是，她欺負我，我就不爽你。 她對我兇，我就不理你。 很多次，你想安慰我，但你說你嘴拙，怕說了我更生氣，你也一直勸我服個軟，就雨過天晴。 人，就是這樣，年輕時，筋Q軟，但腰挺很直，脾氣很硬。有了年紀後，筋變硬，懂得彎腰的重要性，但卻彎不下去了。 總之，離開那裡，我告訴自己，絕對要成為更厲害的自己。 我將那時認識的你們所有全都拋卻忘記，唯有欺壓我的人牢記在心裡。 我的2/3人生過去了，有沒有成為更厲害的自己沒人在意。但，我想起了你，想到了那個傲嬌的自己。但我卻忘記了你的名，只記得你的姓氏。 我在心裡跟你致歉，跟你道歉，說對不起，我請宇宙送給你祝福，也請宇宙傳達我的歉意至你的心中，也許你會突然想到我，閃過我的臉孔，那就是你接收到我的心意。 宇宙送的祝福塔羅牌是：【大師 Master】。 記得你的手藝超好，你曾煮過好幾次美食帶來公司分享，你愛你的家人，疼惜你的老婆，這樣的你，現在應是幸福的，你感恩你的同學給你機會，你嘗過低谷的苦澀，這樣的你，從那之後應都是知足快樂的。 我想，在你擅長且喜歡的領域，你應該早已成為一方大師，很多人跟你學習著。 祝福你 ~ 真心誠意！ 希望現在的你，雖然年紀有點老，可擁有專業好手藝的你，跟家人和樂生活，與老婆幸福過日子。 2024.11.28 To Mr. Lin: The Master Mr. Lin, Your image suddenly flashed across my mind, and I recalled the scene of you sitting across from me. I feel deeply ashamed of my arrogant attitude in my younger years and feel the need to sincerely apologize to you from the bottom of my heart. At that time, you were at a low point in your life. Your supervisor was a former classmate, which was why you got the opportunity to join the company. The supervisor shared this with me, and back then, my ability to judge was limited. Unfortunately, I allowed this information to color my perception of you. Our supervisor wasn’t kind to me. She was a Scorpio woman who used verbal insults and emotional intimidation against those she didn’t like. I was the only woman in the department besides her and quickly noticed the stark difference in how she treated me compared to others. I was only 25 at the time. Even though I wanted to resist, it was futile. In a company with a multinational shareholder structure, each colleague had their own allies and factions—except me. You, on the other hand, were more fortunate. When you struggled with tasks, your classmate guided you. Meanwhile, when I completed tasks correctly, I’d still get scolded. She would yell, claiming that while the results were right, she was displeased because I hadn’t followed her specified process. But I had followed her instructions! Yet I couldn’t possibly record every work directive as evidence. Thus, her bullying of me made me resent you. Her hostility toward me made me ignore you. Many times, you tried to comfort me, but you admitted you weren’t good with words and worried that speaking up might make me angrier. You often advised me to soften my stance, saying that things would get better if I let it go. That’s how people are. When we’re young, we’re flexible but stubborn, standing tall and proud with hardened tempers. As we age, our bodies stiffen, but we learn the importance of bending—only to find it harder to do so. In any case, after leaving that place, I told myself I must become a better version of myself. I let go of everyone I knew there, except for the ones who oppressed me—I kept them firmly in my memory. Two-thirds of my life has now passed. Whether or not I’ve become a better person, no one truly cares. But I thought of you and my arrogant younger self. I’ve even forgotten your first name, only remembering your surname. In my heart, I apologize to you, saying, “I’m sorry.” I ask the universe to send blessings your way and to convey my apology to your heart. Perhaps you’ll suddenly think of me and see my face flash before you—that will be my heartfelt message reaching you. The blessing sent by the universe through the Tarot card is: [The Master]. I remember your incredible skills. You cooked many delicious meals and shared them with the office. You loved your family and cherished your wife. Someone like you must be living a happy life now. You were grateful to your classmate for the opportunity and had experienced the bitterness of life’s lows. With that, I believe you have since lived a life of contentment and joy. I imagine that in the field you excel in and love, you’ve already become a master, with many learning from you. Wishing you all the best—sincerely and wholeheartedly! I hope that now, though older, you continue to enjoy a harmonious life with your family, happiness with your wife, and the fulfillment that comes from your exceptional skills. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust 小陸從上一個工作裸辭至今也快要近三年。他說倒也不是著急想要回到職場，純粹是因非常確定，也接受了一個事實，那就是，他個人本身，完全沒有自律的好態度，更沒有自我約束的好習慣。 從剛開始，於半夜滑手機平板，一丁點也不想睡覺，到後來，需要睡覺，想要睡覺，身體卻完全不理會大腦的意識與意志，整個狀況就是身體有自己的節奏與步調，完全無視大腦的命令和意志的渴求。 他形容到那次面試的時間是過去二十年來第一次如此快速且短暫的，徵才公司董事長問了三個問題，卻都在還沒完成回答前打斷了他的陳述與說明，甚至不給予時間與機會提出詢問導致他無法獲得更多訊息。 當下他是不悅的，現在的他認為應該聽從這個情緒的直覺。 因當時他被理智腦給說服了，以為董事長如此簡潔有力的抓重點，於管理風格上是強勢且有力道，是直接表達指示、命令，不需下屬或員工的臆測。 事實的真相總是得進入實際環境裡才知道。 面試時說會成為工作夥伴的年輕孩子早就於上個月前離職了，被告知現職的助理可以協助很多事情，實際狀況是空有熱誠，懷有熱情，可惜沒有該職務的工作基礎，沒有相關經驗，也不具備基礎理論，卻是把基本常識當作知識的叫囂著，把每天忙得像陀螺，對於他在旁的指導與建議，充耳不聞，還反過來指責他沒能快速進入狀況。 在職場最害怕不懂專業的人要帶領真正懂得的人，更危險的是下屬以年資來吆喝新進主管。 此處不宜久留，提出去意。 於面試時被告知的職務工作目標與實際狀況不符合，且感覺上是有刻意、惡意掩蓋實際狀況，即使是職場裡的老鳥，在萬惡的資本家面前，也只有被欺凌的份。 宇宙呼應其需要祝福的指引，抽到的塔羅牌是：【信任Trust】。 宇宙說，遭遇到這樣的事情，更是突顯信任的重要。光，是信任的象徵，讓你感受到有光的存在的人，不要害怕，試著再次給予信任，試著看到他人的善良，試著建立與擁抱新關係，宇宙與老天不會給你無法處理的事務，相信自己的能力，相信自己的際遇，相信善良的自己會遇到美好的機緣。 2024 1024 Xiao Lu: Trust Xiao Lu has been out of work for nearly three years since quitting his last job without securing another. He says it’s not that he’s in a hurry to return to the workforce; rather, he has come to terms with a reality—that he himself lacks a good attitude toward self-discipline and does not have the habit of self-restraint. Initially, he would stay up late at night, scrolling on his phone or tablet, without any desire to sleep. Later, when he needed and wanted to sleep, his body completely ignored his mind’s consciousness and will. His body seemed to have its own rhythm and pace, completely disregarding the brain’s commands and desires. He described a recent interview as the fastest and shortest one he’s had in the past twenty years. The chairman of the recruiting company asked him three questions but interrupted him before he could finish each answer. He wasn’t given the time or opportunity to ask questions, leaving him with no further information. At the time, he was displeased, and now he feels he should have trusted his emotional instinct. Back then, however, his rational mind convinced him that the chairman’s concise focus on key points was a sign of a strong, efficient management style—one where instructions are given directly, leaving no need for employees to guess. But the truth only reveals itself once you are in the actual environment. The young colleague, who was supposed to be his future work partner according to the interview, had already left a month earlier. He was told that the current assistant could help with many tasks, but in reality, while passionate and enthusiastic, the assistant had no foundation for the job. Lacking experience and theoretical knowledge, the assistant mistook basic common sense for expertise, staying busy like a spinning top. Worse still, the assistant ignored Xiao Lu’s guidance and suggestions, even blaming him for not adapting quickly enough. What Xiao Lu fears most in the workplace is when someone without expertise leads those who truly understand the work. Even more dangerous is when subordinates use their seniority to shout down a newly appointed supervisor. This was not a place to stay long, so he decided to leave. The job's responsibilities, as described in the interview, did not match the reality, and it felt as though the truth had been deliberately hidden. Even seasoned professionals can find themselves bullied by ruthless capitalists. Seeking guidance, Xiao Lu turned to the universe and drew the Tarot card: Trust. The universe said that encountering such experiences only highlights the importance of trust. Light is a symbol of trust. Don’t be afraid of those who make you feel the presence of light. Try to trust again, try to see the goodness in others, and try to build and embrace new relationships. The universe and the heavens will not give you more than you can handle. Trust in your abilities, trust in your circumstances, and trust that your kind-hearted self will encounter beautiful opportunities. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0712 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0712 今日塔羅：改變 Change 昨晚跟家人們聊著關於大家都變老了的話題。 鬢如霜。 髮如雪。 時光易催容顏老。 駐顏有術，是另一話題，是我不熟悉的內容。 皺紋，是時光刻鏤的痕跡。 白髮，是智慧精粹的結果。 美麗，不應該被侷限於年輕如昔，貌美如春。 要改變的非外貌，而是觀念。 要改變的非外型，而是觀點。 從心底發出的想要的改變，那可真的是能讓人煥然一新的驚艷。 難免會遇到話不投機的人，說半句都嫌太多的時刻。 改變的不會是別人，若期望著，那是癡心妄想。 改變的從來就是自己。 不為別人而變。 為自己而改，為在乎的人而變。 改變，要忖度情勢。 在沙漠中建立水道，是憨傻，總不能真學愚公移山吧。 老想著改變，也得想想策略，也不能老是天馬行空，得實際一點。 改變，真的得改，尤其是現在變化快速的時代。 若問我，我如何改變？ 我，膽小，不敢太過冒險，一點一點慢慢改。 一段時間之後，再回首，改變的也就不只一點點。 Today's Tarot Reading: Change Last night, I talked with my family about how we're all getting older. Temples like frost. Hair like snow. Time quickly ages our appearance. Having techniques to retain youth is another topic, one I'm not familiar with. Wrinkles are the marks carved by time. White hair is the essence of wisdom. Beauty should not be limited to youthful looks and spring-like charm. What needs to change is not appearance, but perception. What needs to change is not form, but viewpoint. A change desired from the heart can truly bring a stunning transformation. It's inevitable to encounter people with whom conversations are difficult, and moments when even a few words feel too much. You can't change others; expecting that is wishful thinking. The one who changes is always oneself. Don't change for others. Change for yourself, and for those you care about. Change should consider the circumstances. Building a waterway in the desert is foolish; you can't really emulate Yu Gong moving mountains. Wanting change also requires strategy; you can't always be impractical, you need to be realistic. Change, indeed, needs to happen, especially in these rapidly changing times. If you ask me, how do I change? I am timid and afraid to take big risks, so I change little by little. After some time, looking back, the change is more than just a little. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Change

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer 題外話先說一下，最近很高頻率抽到這張塔羅牌，但請宇宙給予祝福的是不同的個案。 想來，一直很深奧、神秘、朦朧的宇宙，最近忍不住想對大家說，不要想這麼多，許多時候真的是，我們庸人自擾呀。 人生，就是感受，享受驚喜的旅途。 今天請宇宙送給陸陸三個月寶寶的祝福塔羅牌：【欣喜者 Rejoicer】。 陸陸說，她的寶寶作息有點混亂，搞得她好累，且都沒有自己的時間。 辛苦的陸陸和先生住在外面，家中沒有人可以帶把手的幫一下，也沒有有經驗的人可以請教，所以遇到狀況，都是先上網看一下別人怎麼說；但常陷入另一個問題，就是寶寶的情況跟網路上找到的資訊，有時只有一小部分類似，有時真的不知道要如何辨識，所以陸陸心中壓力好大，每次寶寶哭鬧不停時，她也會覺得是自己沒有照顧好。 感覺陸陸是個可愛的年輕小媽咪，她說查了幾次網路資訊，也不確定到底找到的是不是正確答案，後來她決定打電話跟人請教，這樣效率比較快，資訊也會比較多。 但她也很想有人可以聊聊天，陪她說說話，所以，用一樣的方式來解決，找傾聽者，找陪聊師。 當我稱讚著陸陸的機智決定，她竟然有著害羞的反應，她說，已經很久沒有聽到別人稱讚她了。 我告訴她，辛苦她了，大家看到小寶寶，大部分的人幾乎都會先稱讚寶寶的，但這也是直接在稱讚媽媽的，小寶寶長得頭好壯壯，可愛極了，都是因有用心、溫柔的照顧，而這樣費心、用心的人，就是媽媽呀。 我知道她想要的是被看到的是她這個人，而不是寶寶的媽媽。陸陸說她不是在跟寶寶爭寵的，我明白的。 女性，很是辛苦的。 女孩，是先成為自己後，才是成為妻子和媽媽。 也因如此，當我看到很可愛的寶寶時，我都習慣先讚賞媽媽，肯定得回應她們的辛苦與用心，再誇獎可愛的寶寶。 而，為何我不是請宇宙祝福陸陸，而是祝福陸陸的寶寶。 因陸陸有我這位跨年朋友陪著呀。 且寶寶好，陸陸會更好。 所以就讓陸陸的寶寶，過著開心的寶寶生活，恣意的笑鬧，任性的喧騰，因為我們都知道，像大王、像皇后般被侍候的生活是只有短短的幾年呀。 2024.10.28 LuLu: The Rejoicer Just a side note: I've been drawing this tarot card quite often lately, but I’ve been asking the universe for blessings for different cases each time. It seems that the universe, which has always been so profound, mysterious, and elusive, can’t help but gently remind us not to overthink—often, we’re just troubling ourselves unnecessarily. Life is about feeling and enjoying the journey of surprises. Today, I asked the universe to send a tarot blessing to LuLu’s three-month-old baby: The Rejoicer. LuLu mentioned that her baby’s routine has been a bit chaotic, leaving her exhausted with barely any time to herself. She and her husband live away from family, so there’s no one to lend a helping hand or offer experienced advice. When issues arise, she has to check online for guidance, though she often finds herself facing another problem: sometimes, her baby’s situation only partially resembles what she reads online, making it hard to figure out the right approach. This has left her feeling a lot of pressure, especially when her baby cries without stopping—she wonders if she’s not doing enough. LuLu seems like a sweet young mom. She mentioned looking up information online several times but wasn’t sure if she’d found the right answers, so she decided to start calling others for advice. It’s quicker and more informative that way. Yet, she also wishes for someone to chat with, to just share her feelings, so she’s trying a similar approach by looking for a listener or a companion to talk to. When I praised her clever decision, she shyly admitted that it had been a long time since anyone complimented her. I told her she’s doing a great job. Most people, when they see a baby, will first compliment the baby, but that’s also indirectly complimenting the mom. A healthy, happy baby is the result of attentive and gentle care—and the one who pours her heart into that is the mom. I understand that she wants to be seen as herself, not just as the baby’s mom. LuLu clarified that she’s not competing with her baby for attention, and I get it. It’s tough being a woman. A girl first becomes herself, then becomes a wife and a mother. Because of this, whenever I see a cute baby, I make it a habit to first appreciate the mom, acknowledging her hard work and dedication, and then praise the adorable baby. And why did I ask the universe to bless LuLu’s baby instead of LuLu herself? It’s because she has a friend in me, a companion for the years to come. And when her baby is happy, LuLu will be even happier. So, let LuLu’s baby live the joyful life of a little one—laughing, playing, being wonderfully noisy. Because we all know, that life of being pampered like a little king or queen lasts only a few precious years. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0603 今日塔羅：太陽 Sun

2024 0603 今日塔羅：太陽 Sun 昨下了將近一整天的雨，淋濕我的髮，浸濕我的鞋，有點狼狽，心，卻是在跳舞。 害怕悶熱天候的我，這樣的涼爽，像是呼吸著滿滿的薄荷香氣，清新十足，很是舒服。 就是滴滴答答的，難免讓人覺討厭，尤其是騎摩托車的人。 最喜歡的天氣模式就是晚上下點雨，澆熄一些熱氣，白日晴，有藍天，有白雲。 今日塔羅牌是『太陽」。 溫暖與甜蜜。 熱情與光明。 神采飛揚，人都輕盈起舞了。 財運當到不可擋。 團隊領導是要角。 活力、精力、創造力，魅力無限。 心智，通透覺察。 身體，輕盈舒暢。 精神，揚升高亢。 心靈，滿溢圓潤。 旭日東昇的太陽。 Tarot for Today, 2024-06-03: The Sun Yesterday, it rained nearly all day. My hair was drenched, my shoes were soaked. It was a bit messy, but my heart was dancing. I, who fear hot and humid weather, found this coolness like breathing in the full scent of mint—refreshing and very comfortable. However, the constant dripping can be annoying, especially for those riding motorcycles. My favorite weather pattern is a bit of rain at night to cool things down, and then a sunny day with blue skies and white clouds. Today's tarot card is "The Sun". Warmth and sweetness. Passion and brightness. Radiance that makes people dance lightly. Unstoppable financial fortune. Key role in team leadership. Energy, vitality, creativity, boundless charm. Mind, clear and perceptive. Body, light and comfortable. Spirit, elevated and high. Soul, filled with fullness. The rising sun. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Sun

Alyson’s 4/17 Tarot：純淨 Purity (19-57)

Alyson’s 4/17 Tarot：純淨 Purity (19-57) 問題：我4/16的未來日記主題 抽牌：純淨 Purity 今天課程休息時間，站在教室外面正在喝水的我，突然間有一位年輕女孩靠近過來。 她問了我對課程的學習狀況，也說了一些她自己的擔憂。 我們彼此交流了一些想法和建議。 女孩說，欣賞我的學習欲望，並說，希望以後當她處於我現在的年紀時，她對學習仍就會有渴望。 我想，這就是我持續學習最根本的初衷 ~ 內心對未知的、不懂的事物的渴望。 「純淨」這張塔羅牌，有著白色的燭光，這是象徵純淨，象徵著覺察上的純淨。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/147021739 近日，因學習的挫折而疏忽了有機會、有時間、有能力可學習，這件事情的本身就已值得開心。 加上我自己有心想要將這課程內容學好。 這是萬事俱備，東風也吹來的好情景。 還有什麼可擔憂的？！ 「純淨」塔羅牌說 ~ 沒有人為的興奮或不天然的物品導致的情緒。 純粹就是自己的內心的現況。 享受這無汙染，無人工的初衷。 因你的熱情，也許會成為一道指引別人的光。 Alyson's 4/17 Tarot: Purity (19-57) Question: My theme for 4/16's future journal Card drawn: Purity During today's break in class, as I stood outside the classroom sipping water, a young girl approached me out of the blue. She inquired about my progress in the course and shared some of her own concerns. We exchanged thoughts and advice. The girl expressed admiration for my thirst for knowledge and mentioned her hope that when she reaches my current age, she'll still have the same eagerness for learning. I realized that this fundamental desire for the unknown, the unfamiliar, is what drives my continuous pursuit of learning. The "Purity" tarot card, with its white candlelight, symbolizes purity, representing purity of perception. Recently, despite setbacks in learning, the mere fact that there are opportunities, time, and capability to learn is reason enough to be happy. Coupled with my own determination to master the course content. Everything is in place, a perfect scenario unfolds. What else is there to worry about?! The "Purity" tarot card says ~ No artificially induced excitement or emotions caused by unnatural objects. Purity is simply the state of one's own heart. Enjoy this uncontaminated, natural essence. Through your passion, you might become a guiding light for others. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYurSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Purity

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe 樹樹對於豬隊友般的同組同仁感到氣憤，不能理解為何可以如此不上心，不在意。 樹樹認為若無心，那為何不選擇離開，為何要在公司裡，在團隊中，迫害著別人，影響努力工作者的心情，偷竊認真工作者的努力成果。 樹樹說今天下班前跟豬隊友同事吵架了，其他同事對豬隊友喊請趕快離職，可以嗎。 天兒呀，共事已到這般水火不容的程度，工作時彼此的心情都在煎熬吧。 樹樹問，為何工作上什麼事情都要人家盯？為什麼要這樣擺爛？為何這樣還不離開公司？ 這，有時恐怕連當事人都沒能有所謂的正確答案。 明白我的回覆樹樹應該是不滿意的，但是我認為現在聊的這情況不是在論對與錯，也不是可以說如何思考，如何做是正確的。 『人，這個中文字，很簡單，就2撇，但，也讓我們看出來，當不同的人時，思考方式不同，彼此的距離就會很遙遠，此時就會需要溝通、 協調。』 樹樹無法理解為何我給她這樣沒有具體的句子。 只有短短數十分鐘的時間，該怎麼說？能怎麼說呢？ 有時候，錯誤的人在錯誤的地方，與其他人無法共融，埋怨也就越來越旺盛；有時，正確的人在錯誤的地方，被欺、被凌、被虐，好好的人，再有多強大的雄心壯志，也會被磨到無菱無角。 世上的事情都太難二分法了，即使是孩子眼中也明白，眼睛看到的所有東西，不是只有黑色和白色兩種，所以呀放手未必是懦弱，堅持有可能是逞強。 至於何時放手才比較好，何時應該要堅持？這只怕神仙也不敢論斷，我又怎可能知道呢。拜託，就別問這種傻白甜的蠢問題了吧。 向宇宙請求給樹樹的祝福指引，抽到的塔羅牌是：【宇宙Universe】。 宇宙想告訴年輕又上進的樹樹，這個世界很大，大到我們窮極此生都走不遍，看不完。地球之外還有宇宙，宇宙的無限，更是現在的人類無法想像的神秘與深奧。 現在眼前的不管是不欣賞的人，還是工作上的問題，於宇宙而言如桑海一粟，渺小，沒有重量，也不特別。 樹樹是個自我要求與期望都蠻高的女孩，人生路是一直往前走的，樹樹的志向更是在更高、更遠的層次，不在眼前。 莫位現在的小事給磨損了心志。 離開的時候，就是老天給的答案。 只是，老天從未說過，離開的人會是誰。 Translation: October 25, 2024 - Shushu: The Universe Shushu feels furious at her teammates, whom she describes as "pig teammates," wondering how they can be so indifferent and careless. Shushu can’t understand why, if they lack the will, they don’t choose to leave. Why stay in the company and on the team, making others suffer, impacting the morale of those who work hard, and stealing the achievements of those who put in genuine effort? Shushu mentioned that she argued with her "pig teammate" coworker before leaving work today, and that other colleagues even urged this coworker to leave as soon as possible. Alas, working together has become so unbearable that both sides must be agonizing during work hours. Shushu asks, “Why does everything at work need to be monitored? Why are they slacking off like this? Why don’t they just leave the company?” Sometimes, even those involved might not have a clear answer. I know Shushu may not be satisfied with my response, but I think that this situation isn't about who's right or wrong, nor is it something we can simply reason through or determine what the “right way” is. "The Chinese character for 'person' is simple, made of just two strokes, yet it also reveals that when people differ, the distance in thinking between them can be vast, and that’s when communication and coordination are necessary." Shushu can't understand why I gave her such an abstract reply. With only a few minutes to talk, what more can I say? Sometimes, the wrong person in the wrong place grows increasingly resentful due to incompatibility with others; other times, the right person in the wrong place is deceived, bullied, or oppressed. Even the most ambitious and resilient people can have their sharp edges dulled. Life’s issues rarely divide cleanly; even children understand that the world is not just black and white. So, letting go is not necessarily a sign of weakness, and persistence might sometimes be a form of stubbornness. When is it better to let go? When should one persist? Even deities wouldn’t dare make a call on this, so how could I possibly know? Please, let’s skip these naive questions. Seeking guidance from the universe for Shushu, I drew the tarot card: The Universe. The universe wishes to tell the young and ambitious Shushu that this world is vast—so vast that even in a lifetime, we won’t see it all. Beyond Earth lies the universe, whose boundlessness is mysterious and profound beyond human imagination. The people she finds unappreciative or the issues she faces at work are, in the universe’s eyes, like a grain of sand in the sea—small, weightless, and insignificant. Shushu is a girl with high standards and aspirations. Her life path is always moving forward, with ambitions that reach higher and further, far beyond what’s right in front of her. She should not let these minor issues wear down her will. When it's time to part ways, that is the answer from above. However, heaven never tells us who will be the one to leave. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor 辛苦了，陸陸，一位新手媽媽。 照顧剛出生三個多月寶寶的妳，在做自己和成為一個好媽媽的角色中徘徊，猶豫中的妳常感到痛苦與辛苦。 痛苦的是，妳覺得怎會有這樣的心態出現，感覺好像對不起自己的寶寶。 辛苦的是，這樣的猶豫與不決，發生的頻率非常高，讓妳在寶寶入睡時，明明已經很累了，卻捨不得休息，因妳害怕著，若不抓住這短短的時間，那妳就更沒有時間，更沒有機會做自己了。 現在的妳，精神不好，體力不佳，沒有人家說的坐完月子，讓身體充分休息與獲得營養滋補的豐腴模樣。 和老公的小小家庭中，不僅沒有人協助，內心的孤單、徬徨更讓妳覺得難過，即使想跟老公說說心裡話，看著他辛苦工作回來後疲憊的樣子，妳內心裡再多的苦澀，也說不出口。 想跟娘家媽媽訴說，又怕遭到責罵。 於是妳決定找我聊聊。 懷孕經驗，我沒有。 生產經驗，我沒有，但有長年痛經的經驗，妳說，這妳不需要。 坐月子經驗，我沒有。 照顧寶寶的經驗，我只有1/10，夠嗎？ 妳說妳笑了出來，當看到我這樣的回應時。 其實，人類始終都是多重角色在生存著。 當我們還小的時候，是孩子，甚至是孫子輩，是兄弟姊妹，也是學生，還有同學與朋友。 長大了，是上班族，但依然還有著孩子的角色，幸福的人也還保有孫 子角色，男女朋友，下屬，同事還有朋友。 當成為媽媽之後，不代表需要漠視、忽視、放棄其他角色。 無論我們一身具備哪些角色，我們自己，絕對不能遺忘呀。 自己是所有其他角色的延伸。 記得自己，照顧自己，認識自己，唯有自己好，其他角色才能做得好。 因此我給妳的建議是，寶寶休息睡覺時，把握這時間，妳也好好休息。寶寶醒來的時候，可以跟寶寶互動，也可讓寶寶自己玩耍，老公回來跟寶寶親近時，這個時段，可以跟老公討論，讓妳做自己想做的事情，即使妳只是躺在沙發上，那也可以，就是不要打擾妳，中斷妳在進行的事情。 平衡，讓我們得以持續擁有能量與力量往前繼續邁進。 宇宙送給妳的塔羅牌祝福是【皇帝 Emperor】。 我腦海中浮現的感受是，請將妳的寶寶視為皇帝，妳是導引他，輔助他，給予他愛和支持的母后。 要成為一個優秀的生命導師，要先有堅強的心智與人生的智慧，要先學習人生的真理與世界運行的道理，要懂得鼓勵與支持，堅持教育與教導，懂得設定目標與堅強地朝目標努力。 當妳明白妳所學習到的，經驗積累的，都是需先成就自己，才有機會傳承給孩子時，成為自己與成為一個好母親，其實是同一件事情，也就不需經歷選擇的過程，也就不會有兩難的痛苦。 祝福陸陸 ~ 妳能想到這樣的猶豫困擾，妳就是已踏上智慧的路途上，成為妳孩子溫暖的依靠。 2024-11-08 To Lulu: The Emperor Thank you, Lulu, a new mother. Caring for a baby just over three months old, you find yourself wavering between being yourself and becoming a good mother. In your hesitation, you often feel both pain and struggle. The painful part is the thought that these feelings somehow mean you’re letting your baby down. The struggle lies in how often these indecisions arise, leaving you reluctant to rest even when your baby sleeps—fearing that if you don’t seize these fleeting moments, you’ll have even less time, even fewer chances, to be yourself. Right now, you’re physically and mentally exhausted. You haven’t had the full rest and nourishing care some say should follow the postpartum period. In your small family with your husband, not only is there no extra help, but the loneliness and uncertainty sometimes feel overwhelming. Even when you want to confide in your husband, seeing him come home so tired from work makes you hesitate, keeping your bitterness inside. You think about talking to your mother, but you’re afraid she might scold you. So, you decided to talk with me. I have no experience with pregnancy. I have no experience with childbirth, though I do know the long struggle of painful menstruation. But you said that wasn’t what you needed. I have no experience with postpartum care. I only have 1/10 of the experience in caring for a baby. Is that enough? You said you laughed when you read my response. Actually, as humans, we always carry multiple roles in life. When we’re young, we’re children, grandchildren, siblings, students, classmates, and friends. As adults, we’re employees, still children, and for the lucky ones, still grandchildren, and we’re also partners, subordinates, colleagues, and friends. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to ignore, neglect, or give up your other roles. No matter what roles we take on, we must never forget ourselves. The self is the foundation from which all other roles extend. Remember yourself, care for yourself, and understand yourself. Only when you are well can you fulfill your other roles well. So, my suggestion for you is to take time for yourself when the baby is asleep. Rest, and when the baby wakes, engage with them or let them play independently. When your husband comes home to connect with the baby, use this time to do something just for you—even if it’s simply lying on the couch, uninterrupted and undisturbed. Balance allows us to sustain the energy and strength to keep moving forward. The tarot card blessing the universe sends you is The Emperor. The feeling that arises in my mind is this: see your baby as the Emperor, and you as the Empress guiding, supporting, loving, and nurturing him. To be an outstanding life guide requires a strong heart and life wisdom. You must first learn the truths of life and understand the principles by which the world operates. It involves learning to encourage and support, committing to teaching and guiding, and setting goals while steadfastly working towards them. When you understand that everything you learn and every experience you gain are all for building yourself so that you may someday pass this on to your child, you’ll realize that becoming yourself and becoming a good mother are, in fact, the same path. There will be no more choices to make, no painful dilemmas to face. Blessings to you, Lulu. Just by reflecting on these struggles and hesitations, you’ve already stepped onto the path of wisdom, becoming the warm support your child can rely on. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0703 今日塔羅：愛 Love

2024 0703 今日塔羅：愛 Love 曾經，我有愛，但說不出口。 曾經，我覺我沒有愛，也沒啥好說出口。 曾經，愛，距離我好遠，好遠。 曾經，愛，晨升日落的一分一秒裡。 為愛，曾經不顧一切，想要付出一切。 為愛，曾經傷痕累累，誰也不再相信。 為愛，癡迷過。 為愛，幸福過。 為愛，痛苦過。 為愛，窒悶過。 愛，是雙刃劍，是手心手背的兩難。 愛，是你的心裡有我，有你，有我們一起。 愛，是為你而勇敢，為你而退一步，為你而方方面面地周到。 愛，說不完，道不盡。 擁有愛，幸福，滿足，是富有，福福泰泰的模樣。 在愛裡，應該像魚兒那般優游自在，想嬉戲時歡騰在一起，不受拘束。 在愛裡，應該像捧著盛開的繽紛花朵，興奮，甜蜜且滿足，不受打擾。 在愛裡，應該像聽到海螺傳出來的聲音，字句都是愛，都是蜜，純淨。 在愛裡，應該像在沙漠中喝到的井水，清心，浸潤，珍惜，得知不易。 寫了這麼多關於愛，我像是也徜徉在一圈圈愛的漣漪中，感受著愛的豐盈與美好。 祝福大家在愛的滋養裡，強壯，無畏，勇敢，且善良。 2024 0703 Today's Tarot: Love Once, I had love but couldn’t express it. Once, I felt I had no love, and nothing worth expressing. Once, love felt so distant, so far away. Once, love was in every second of the rising and setting sun. For love, I once disregarded everything, willing to give everything. For love, I was once scarred, no longer trusting anyone. For love, I was infatuated. For love, I was happy. For love, I was in pain. For love, I was suffocated. Love is a double-edged sword, a dilemma of the palm and the back of the hand. Love is having you in my heart, having me in your heart, and us together. Love is being brave for you, stepping back for you, and being considerate for you in every way. Love is endless, inexhaustible. To have love is to be happy, content, wealthy, and blessed. In love, one should be as free as a fish swimming leisurely, frolicking together when desired, unrestrained. In love, one should hold blossoming flowers with excitement, sweetness, and satisfaction, undisturbed. In love, one should hear the sound from a conch, every word filled with love and sweetness, pure. In love, one should drink from a well in the desert, feeling refreshed, nourished, cherishing, and knowing its rarity. Writing so much about love makes me feel as if I am also drifting in ripples of love, experiencing its fullness and beauty. Wishing everyone to be strong, fearless, brave, and kind, nurtured by love. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Love

#Alyson搜尋結果

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 0712 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 0712 今日塔羅：改變 Change

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 0603 今日塔羅：太陽 Sun

2024 0603 今日塔羅：太陽 Sun

Alyson’s 4/17 Tarot：純淨 Purity (19-57)

Alyson’s 4/17 Tarot：純淨 Purity (19-57)

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 1025 樹樹：宇宙 Universe

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 0703 今日塔羅：愛 Love

2024 0703 今日塔羅：愛 Love