2024 1124 可兒：衝浪者 Surfer

2024 1124 可兒：衝浪者 Surfer 活出自己的模樣，是什麼樣子呢，如果有機會認識可兒，你們就會知道了。 可兒，有著自己的事業，她的事業就是她自己很喜歡的事情，於是在結婚後，跟她先生討論後，就創業了。 因為開創了事業，又有了新的想法，於是就發展出新的興趣，然後又將這興趣學習得很專業，進而又有了新的事業。 可兒，長得非常漂亮，帶著親切溫柔的笑容，那天認識了她的朋友，知她甚深的朋友們都開玩笑地說，我是不是誤會了什麼？！ 這是怎麼樣鐵般的女人友情呀！ 很是羨慕可兒。 聽著可兒跟她自己另一個朋友聊到最近新購入的屋子，她很喜歡，且購入後馬上裝修，最近已跟先生入住。 朋友笑說，怎買屋子像買名牌包，如此輕易就下手。 可兒笑說，剛好手上有錢，剛好看到好房，剛好想買新房，就買了。 我喜歡這樣的對話，坦率，真誠。 喜歡那個氛圍，大夥把複雜的世故都關在門外。 在可兒的店裡，不能皺眉，不能心情不好的猛報怨，要開心自在的聊聊天，喝咖啡，這樣老闆才會開心。 這樣美麗幸福又可愛的女子，還需要祝福嗎？ 人美心善的人，更有能力與影響力。可兒的這輩子，可能就是天使下凡，來人世間玩耍，也給人世間帶來歡樂，帶來愛。 宇宙給可兒的祝福是：【衝浪者 Surfer】。 宇宙提醒著可兒，喜歡熱鬧，喜歡歡騰，老是對於可以衝在大夥前面感到興奮和開心，要注意控管情緒和平衡，別讓自己老是成為那顆充滿氣體，鼓著圓滾滾身體的氣球那樣，一放手就瞬間倏地衝上天去，適時地消氣與冷靜也是生活裡重要的事情。 2024.11.24 Ke’er: The Surfer What does it mean to live authentically as yourself? If you have the chance to meet Ke’er, you’ll understand. Ke’er has her own career, one she genuinely loves. After getting married, she discussed it with her husband and decided to start her own business. Through this entrepreneurial journey, she developed new ideas, which sparked new interests. She then pursued these interests professionally, leading to yet another venture. Ke’er is incredibly beautiful, with a warm and gentle smile. The day I met her friends, who know her deeply, they jokingly said, “Did we misunderstand something?” What kind of unshakable bond is this among women? It’s truly enviable. Listening to Ke’er chat with another friend about a newly purchased house, she expressed how much she loved it. She immediately renovated it after the purchase, and she and her husband have already moved in. Her friend teased her, saying, “You make buying a house look as easy as picking up a luxury handbag!” Ke’er laughed and said, “I just happened to have the money, happened to see a good house, and happened to want a new one, so I bought it.” I love conversations like this—straightforward and genuine. I also love the atmosphere in her circle, where all the complications of the outside world are left at the door. In Ke’er’s shop, you’re not allowed to frown or wallow in bad moods with endless complaints. Instead, it’s a place to chat joyfully, sip coffee, and simply feel at ease—this makes the owner happy. Does such a beautiful, happy, and lovable woman even need blessings? Kind-hearted people who are beautiful inside and out often have more power and influence. Perhaps Ke’er is an angel sent to earth to have fun and bring joy and love to the world. The universe’s blessing for Ke’er is: The Surfer. The universe reminds Ke’er, who loves liveliness and excitement, and thrives on being at the forefront, to manage her emotions and maintain balance. Don’t let yourself become like an overinflated balloon—round, buoyant, and ready to shoot skyward the moment you let go. Learning to deflate and calm yourself when needed is also an essential part of life. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation 給迷茫中的可欣 ~ 迷茫是人生中一定會遇到的坎，可出現還不只一次。 一開始我確實以為想聊這話題的妳，可能才剛從學校畢業沒有多久。 妳擁有敏銳的直覺，馬上告訴我妳是一位30歲的大女孩，然後又馬上反應出對這樣的年紀還對未來是沒有方向的，覺害羞，不好意思。 若年紀是標準，那現在半百的我，對於接下來還在找尋方向，確認目標，不就得自我羞愧而亡了。 不應該這樣思考的。 年紀，累積了經驗，增添了智慧，突破了困難，並不是就代表接下來就一帆風順的。 人生無論何時都常會遇到需要思考，需要適應調整的局面。 誰幾歲遇到什麼事情，這也沒有一定的公式可套入，畢竟，人生的軌跡不會重疊，不會一致，只有類似，卻又不盡相同。 請宇宙送給妳的祝福，抽到的塔羅牌是【停滯 Stagnation】。 有點遺憾，可這樣也好。 跟妳聊天過程中，確實有發現妳沒有很專心，同時間可能還在進行其他的事情，甚至也許我們的對話內容沒能吸引住妳的注意力，所以妳的回覆和回應都是簡短的語句，感覺有點在應付我而已。 若真是這樣的情形，那真是蠻可惜的。妳錯過了我的金玉良言，錯失了我經驗的分享，錯開了我識人、讀人的到位剖析。 也許就是因為如此，即使經過聊天後，妳還沒懂得現在所處的問題核心是什麼，所以妳被困住了，無法行動，無法前進。 認知沒有打破，意念沒有形成，沒有因緣俱足的能量，也就造成窒礙難行的情景。 想改變，需打自內心。 這是我個人經驗打磨出來的結論。 很多話，不需說出口。 因妳要說服的人是妳自己。 靜下心，好好思考。想要什麼，適合什麼，只有自己最清楚，旁人所說的，只會是建議，只能是僅供參考而已。 2024/11/20 To Kexin: Stagnation To the lost Kexin ~ Feeling lost is an inevitable part of life, and it’s something we’ll encounter more than once. Initially, I thought that someone who wanted to discuss this topic might have just graduated from school. But your keen intuition quickly corrected me, revealing that you are a 30-year-old young woman. Then, almost instantly, you shared a sense of embarrassment and unease about still feeling directionless at your age. If age were the benchmark, then I, at almost 50, would have to drown in shame for still searching for direction and clarifying my goals. But this is not the way to think. Age accumulates experiences, adds wisdom, and helps us overcome challenges—but it doesn’t guarantee smooth sailing ahead. Life, at any stage, often presents situations requiring deep thought, adaptation, and adjustment. There’s no fixed formula for when and what kind of challenges one might face. Life paths don’t overlap or align perfectly; they’re only similar yet uniquely distinct. The Tarot card drawn for you, as a blessing from the universe, is Stagnation. It’s a little disappointing, but perhaps it’s a good thing. During our conversation, I noticed that your attention wasn’t entirely focused. Perhaps you were multitasking, or maybe our discussion didn’t capture your full interest. Your responses were brief, almost as if you were merely humoring me. If that’s the case, it’s truly a pity. You missed my pearls of wisdom, my shared experiences, and my sharp insights into understanding and analyzing people. Perhaps that’s why, even after our chat, you still don’t grasp the core issue of your current situation. You remain stuck, unable to act or move forward. When your understanding hasn’t shifted, your mindset hasn’t formed, and the necessary energy hasn’t come together, obstacles arise, and progress is hindered. To create change, it must come from deep within your heart. This conclusion is one I’ve honed from my own experiences. Many things don’t need to be said aloud. After all, the person you need to convince is yourself. Take a moment to quiet your mind and think deeply. What do you truly want? What suits you best? Only you can know these answers. What others say are merely suggestions—for reference, and nothing more. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion 在擁擠的人群中，他像一棵大樹，立在那兒，不管旁邊的攤販如何吆喝叫賣著，他就是靜靜地等待。 在傳統市場裡，人們有著共同的行進動線的默契，當然，也有混亂的時候，但，大多數我們總是習慣從入口的右邊開始，一攤攤的逛，然後走到自己覺得可以回頭的點時，再往回走，再逛起另一邊的攤位。 這傳統市場是我這兩年採買食材的地方。 一開始覺好大，現在依然，沒有一次有全程走完，逛完的。 傳統市場就是如此，多去幾次，嘗試購買不同攤位後，自己喜歡的、習慣的攤位差不多也就拿捏準了，後來的採買就是抓緊一個原則，快，狠、準，從入口開始直接衝去目的攤位，盯上，拿起，付錢，轉身，離開，沒多停留的。 可從前兩個月，注意到了這位賣菜的伯伯，第一次看到，沒跟他買，可能我去的時間太晚了，他賣菜板車上剩下的菜，乾乾扁扁的，感覺不能再放。 可，我買菜挑選的需求是可以再放幾天的，一次吃不完那樣多的呀。 再來注意到老伯伯是在颱風後的採買。 每攤的青菜價格都高得嚇壞人，可每個老闆都說，颱風後，有青菜可以採買已是難得，物稀價當然貴。 我忍痛拿出荷包的紙鈔，買了一小把青菜，這確定是有益身體健康，怎我覺買這把青菜，我的心臟好痛。 這樣一小把的葉菜不夠我未來幾天的人體需求，突然之間聽到老伯伯說，一籃菜50元，不論是哪一種菜。 天呀！ 我問伯伯，您這樣有賺嗎？ 他的聲音輕輕的，有點沙啞，說，沒有。颱風剛過，大家都辛苦了，他有去大盤批菜，就出來賣。大家吃新鮮，吃的開心，這次沒有賺，沒有關係。 老伯伯的菜，比一般菜攤的菜看起來老，長比較大，大部分的人買菜喜歡挑嫩一點的。 我覺老伯伯的心意，讓人感動，我挑了兩盆。 伯伯幫我將菜裝進袋子裡的同時，有其他人靠近了。 結果，我開始幫老伯伯推銷他的菜。 伯伯聽到後對我微微笑。 沒多久，伯伯的菜賣掉了九成。 不是我很會叫賣，實在是老伯伯賣的價錢便宜。 回來後，我趁新鮮川燙了其中一種菜，青江菜。 看起來個頭大，可口感不粗糙，菜的纖維沒有想像中的老，不會不好咀嚼，是很可以的。 於是，這次，我特地去找老伯伯買菜。 一樣的身影，一樣的裝扮，一樣的板車，一樣一籃籃的菜，然後，一樣的寧靜。 結果，一樣，忍不住在其他客人靠近時，幫老伯伯叫賣。 沒想到，這時有位歐巴桑，推擠著老伯伯說，老伯伯擋住她的客人了？！ 伯伯的面前是我，我回頭看，沒有人站在我後面啊。 這位歐巴桑說的客人，是？？？ 伯伯也沒跟歐巴桑理論。 歐巴桑動手把伯伯的板車往旁邊挪動，又往前推，我趕緊跳到旁邊，免得撞到。 然後歐巴桑推著她的板車經過我時，叨唸著，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，就是轉不到她的客人前面去。 我自己翻譯成，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，但都沒有客人上前去。 看了歐巴桑賣的東西，我也只能說抱歉，無法跟她購買呀。 她賣的是痠痛藥膏，這不是我的菜呀。 回家後，老伯伯的身影一直盤繞在腦海裡。 想請宇宙送給老伯伯祝福 ~ 願他安康，願他祥和，願他福氣，願他無生無量。 宇宙送給老伯伯的塔羅牌祝福是【慈悲 Compassion】。 哇！有沒有覺得宇宙、高我、能量、磁場以及塔羅很奇妙。 在總共88張的塔羅牌裡，抽到的牌卡就是如此呼應著老伯伯的調性。 宇宙覺老伯伯的慈悲與祥和是讓人景仰與推崇的。 在世為人，慈悲為懷，虛懷若谷，體諒諒解，寬容包容，這是溫暖的力量，是慈悲祥和的力量，是愛的力量。 November 14, 2024 – The Vegetable Vendor: Compassion Amid the crowded marketplace, he stands like a large tree, rooted in place, quietly waiting while other vendors shout and call to attract customers. In the traditional market, there's an unspoken understanding of the flow of foot traffic, though it can be chaotic at times. Most people start from the right side of the entrance, browsing from stall to stall until they reach a point they consider a turning-back spot, then retrace their steps to explore the stalls on the other side. This market has been my go-to spot for grocery shopping over the past two years. Initially, it felt overwhelmingly large, and even now, I have yet to walk through it in its entirety in a single visit. That's the nature of traditional markets; with each visit, I experiment with different vendors, gradually narrowing down my favorites. Eventually, I adopted a routine: entering, heading directly to the targeted stalls, picking up items, paying, and leaving—no lingering. Two months ago, though, I noticed an elderly vegetable vendor. The first time I saw him, I didn’t buy anything; I was probably too late, and the vegetables left on his cart were somewhat wilted, seemingly unable to last much longer. I prefer produce that I can store for a few days, enough to be used gradually. The next time I noticed him was after a typhoon. Vegetable prices had skyrocketed across all stalls, and vendors explained that post-typhoon greens were scarce and therefore expensive. I reluctantly handed over my cash for a small bundle, painfully aware of the cost for the sake of health. That small bundle wasn’t nearly enough for my needs over the coming days. Then, I overheard the elderly vendor say, “One basket of vegetables, 50 dollars, any kind you want.” I was taken aback! I asked him, "Are you making any profit this way?" With a soft, slightly hoarse voice, he replied, “No. It’s right after the typhoon; everyone’s going through tough times. I managed to get some greens at wholesale, so I brought them out for people to enjoy fresh and happy meals. I won’t make a profit this time, and that’s okay.” His vegetables were more mature and larger than what most shoppers would typically pick, as many prefer tender greens. But I was moved by his kindness and sincerity and chose two baskets. While he packed the vegetables for me, others began approaching his stall. I found myself helping to promote his vegetables. Hearing my efforts, he gave me a gentle smile. Soon, 90% of his vegetables were sold—not because I’m good at marketing but because his prices were simply reasonable. When I got home, I blanched one of the greens—bok choy. Although large, it was surprisingly tender and easy to chew. So, this time, I specifically went back to find the elderly vendor. There he was, with the same demeanor, same attire, same cart, and same quiet presence. Once again, I couldn’t help but encourage other customers to buy from him. Unexpectedly, a middle-aged woman suddenly shoved him, complaining that he was blocking her customers. I was standing in front of him and looked back—there was no one behind me. So, who exactly were her “customers”? Without arguing, the vendor allowed her to push his cart aside. I quickly stepped aside, avoiding a collision as she maneuvered her own cart past me, muttering about how she couldn’t manage to position herself in front of her customers. I interpreted her mutterings as her frustration with not attracting customers. I looked at her goods, which turned out to be pain-relief ointment—definitely not something on my shopping list. Back home, the elderly vendor’s figure lingered in my mind. I silently sent a blessing to him, hoping the universe would grant him health, harmony, fortune, and boundless peace. The Tarot card blessing from the universe for the vendor is Compassion. Isn’t it marvelous how the universe, our higher selves, energy, the magnetic field, and Tarot align in such a magical way? Out of 88 cards, the one drawn resonated perfectly with his spirit. The universe acknowledges the vendor’s compassion and serenity as qualities to be admired. In this world, living with compassion, embracing humility, and showing understanding and tolerance for others embody a warm power—a power of compassionate serenity, the power of love. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death 你說，幾個月前你衝動下犯了一個大錯，這超過一百多天的日子，每夜無法安歇，清醒時間都在煩惱問題該怎麼辦，能怎麼解決，最糟糕的情況有可能會是如何，而你是否能夠承受。 你說，非常痛苦，無法生活，無法靜下心來。 你說，怎會變成這樣，你怎會讓自己變成現在這個模樣？ 我，沒有話語可以安慰你，更無法鼓勵你。 有的時候我們會不知不覺做了某些決定，無法用理智或者是智慧去評論。 我想每個人天性裡的賭性，其實比我們認知的還要強大，且像是躲藏在角落裡，蠢蠢欲動著，只要有機會，就會以猛虎之姿跳躍出來，掌控全局。 你說，無法告知任何人發生了什麼事情，這讓你更痛苦。你形容這段期間不像是活著，比較像是活死人，得撐著這幾口氣，得把問題解決了，不能連累任何人。 我想說點話，卻不知道要說什麼，只能靜靜聽。 你說，你不是想找人說話的，你是想要找人聽你說說話，這幾個月所有的苦與澀，難與痛都在腹內、心上、腦中翻攪著，需要有個出口。 我們嘆，這社會，怎有那麼多心思惡意的壞人。 我們痛，這社會，怎有那麼多有心人利用著已是在低谷的人們，想要奮力一搏的勇氣。 宇宙送給阿寺的祝福是：【死亡 Death】。 這張塔羅牌有著憂傷者坐在愛達荷蛇河上，穿著黝黑深藍色的長袍，斗篷帽遮住了大半張臉，讓人會產生心中一沉的情緒，而後面又是新幾內亞祖靈的面具，像刀子般的鼻尖，讓人感到驚悚害怕。 我們都懼怕死亡，很難接受死亡的發生，而在宇宙裡，在這個萬物繽紛的世界上，死亡，是如常的事情之一，如同太陽升起落下般，那樣的自然。 而當抽到塔羅牌卡的死亡時，更是不需恐懼與擔憂。 孫子兵法說道，『投之亡地然後存，陷之死地然後生。』世界上，沒有任何一個人可以回到過去，然後有機會改變已經發生的事情。 宇宙透過【死亡】這張塔羅牌傳遞著，已發生的事情讓人感傷，而死亡之後呢？除了哀傷，難過，痛苦以外，也有著解放、自由與完完全全地切割。 當然也不能輕忽死亡背後的力量，那失落的情緒，那低迷的心情，那恐懼憂慮的心思，這一波波的不安與害怕，一時無法消散，仍會纏繞著你，要堅定心志，要好好地保有自己的心。 過去的錯的痛苦，放下吧。 人生就像一個杯子，杯內發臭的水得先倒掉，才能注入新氣象，人生也就有了轉機與生機。 加油！ 別被自己的心魔打敗了。 2024-11-29 阿寺：Death You said, a few months ago, in a moment of impulse, you made a huge mistake. Over the past hundred days or so, you haven’t been able to rest at night. During your waking hours, you’ve been consumed with worry—about how to handle the situation, how to resolve it, what the worst-case scenario might be, and whether you could endure it. You said it’s been unbearably painful, that you can’t live your life, can’t calm your mind. You said, how did it come to this? How did you let yourself become the person you are now? I have no comforting words to offer, nor any encouragement to give. Sometimes, we unknowingly make decisions that defy logic or wisdom. I believe the gambling instinct in every person is far stronger than we realize. It lurks in the corners, waiting for the right moment to leap out like a tiger and take control of everything. You said you can’t tell anyone what happened, which makes it even more painful. You described this period as less like living and more like being a walking corpse—barely breathing, holding on just enough to resolve the problem, ensuring no one else gets dragged into it. I wanted to say something, but I didn’t know what to say. I could only listen quietly. You said you weren’t looking for someone to talk to; you just needed someone to listen—to hear all the bitterness, sourness, difficulties, and pain that have been churning within you for months. You needed an outlet. We sighed: How can this society have so many malicious people with scheming minds? We ached: How can this world have so many opportunists preying on those already at rock bottom, exploiting their desperate courage for one last gamble? The universe sent 阿寺 the blessing of Death. This tarot card depicts a sorrowful figure sitting on Idaho's Snake River, draped in a dark navy-blue robe with a hood that obscures much of their face. The image evokes a sinking feeling, and the ancestral mask from New Guinea behind them—with its knife-like nose—adds an air of horror and dread. We all fear death. It’s hard to accept its inevitability. Yet in the universe, in this vibrant world, death is one of life’s constants, as natural as the rising and setting of the sun. Drawing the Death card in tarot is nothing to fear or worry about. As The Art of War says, “Throw them into perilous ground, and they will survive. Plunge them into death ground, and they will live.” No one can return to the past to change what has already happened. The universe, through the Death card, conveys this: while what has occurred may bring sorrow, what follows death is not just grief, sadness, and pain but also liberation, freedom, and a clean break. Of course, we must not underestimate the power behind death—its accompanying emotions of loss, despair, fear, and anxiety. These waves of unease and dread won’t dissipate easily and will continue to entangle you. You must stay steadfast, holding onto your inner self. Let go of the pain of past mistakes. Life is like a cup; the stale water inside must first be poured out before fresh water can flow in, bringing vitality and opportunities for renewal. Stay strong! Don’t let your inner demons defeat you. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man 好久不見了，Derek ~ 看著你的訊息，與跟你對話的過程中，我感受到你的痛苦與已想盡辦法卻仍困在死局裡的狀況。 如同你所寫的，我們算不上熟悉，甚至可以說我們其實也不太認識對方，在那幾天的課程中，我們會閒聊一些，一起吃了頓飯，喝了一杯咖啡，之前的緣分如此淺薄，但依然將對方視為朋友。 時光倒推回去，約莫是去年的此時認識的你，而你的人生如同你的計劃，在今年創業了。 記得那時你跟我分享著這創業夢時，我那時腦海中閃過了幾個模糊畫面和一些情緒。 看著你發亮得意的神情，我也不好意思說太多，只輕輕提了幾句，也不敢說是提醒，就像閒聊般去帶到。 而今日你所說的現在面臨到的問題與困境，竟然與一年前我腦海中浮出的景象重疊了起來，並且清晰許多。 身為淡交的朋友的我，沒有立場，沒有角色，沒有資格去評論任何事情，但確實對現在的你的情況感到擔憂。 於是我馬上向宇宙詢問給你指引，抽到的塔羅牌：【倒吊者 Hanged Man】。 我常對於塔羅牌的神奇感到驚訝不已。 現在的情況對你來說就像是被掐住脖子般那樣窘迫，想盡辦法依然無法解決，快要無法呼吸的痛苦與窒悶。 傍晚冷靜後的我覺得需要多關心你，跟你提起向父母求援，才知道現在你們的關係是僵化與冷漠的。 我的直覺是認為趁這次的關係，一來跟父母多些情感關係的建立與連結，二來可打破你們目前相敬如冰的情況，三來可解決你現在卡住的急迫問題。 固執的你，馬上回應不可能找父母談。 哎呀！你怎就是不懂呢，父母的協助可讓你的危機化為轉機，不管是你的事業還是你們家庭氛圍。 對於倒吊者這張塔羅牌，積極面對問題的關鍵，會有”反轉”的機會。宇宙在告訴你，Derek，藉此機會，你需學習與接納，今日的情況與你的溝通、協調以及認知有很大的關係，你從你自己的角度、視野評估與衡量，然後衝動做了決定，卻又沒能將一些情況周全設想到，所以面對了現在，無論是人、事、金錢都出現了卡住、停滯、掐住的窘迫。 當然，這也與你非常年輕有關係。 試著傾聽。 試著放下自我。 試著就事論事。 也許，你以為的冰山，其實一直想成為你的靠山，只是你很少讓他們有機會接近你。 2024-11-07 Derek: The Hanged Man Hello, Derek. It's been a while. Reading your message and conversing with you, I can sense the pain and frustration you’re enduring, trying everything yet still feeling trapped in a deadlock. As you mentioned, we’re not particularly close; in fact, we barely know each other. During those few days of class, we exchanged small talk, shared a meal, and had a cup of coffee. The bond was brief, yet we still regard each other as friends. Looking back, it was around this time last year that we met, and your life, just as you planned, took a big step forward when you started your own business this year. I remember you telling me about your entrepreneurial dream back then. A few hazy images and emotions flashed through my mind. Seeing your proud, radiant expression, I hesitated to say too much, only lightly mentioning a few things, not as a warning but just casual remarks. Today, as you talk about the challenges and struggles you’re facing, I realize they overlap precisely with the visions I had a year ago, now much clearer. As a distant friend, I hold no position, role, or right to judge, yet I do feel concerned for you in your current situation. So, I immediately asked the universe for guidance on your behalf and drew the Tarot card, The Hanged Man. I'm always amazed by the mysterious insight of Tarot cards. Right now, your situation feels as if a hand is gripping your throat, an unbearable struggle to breathe as you try to break free, yet find no solutions. After calming down in the evening, I felt the need to reach out more, to suggest that you consider asking your parents for help, only to find that your relationship with them is currently distant and cold. My intuition is that this could be a good opportunity to reconnect emotionally with your parents. Not only could this alleviate the current strain, but it might also shift the icy dynamic between you all, while possibly resolving your urgent issue. But your response was immediate—no way you would talk to your parents. Oh! How can you not see? Their support could turn this crisis into an opportunity, benefiting both your business and the atmosphere within your family. Regarding The Hanged Man card, the key to facing challenges lies in seeking a “reversal” of perspective. The universe is telling you, Derek, that this is a time to learn and accept. Today's situation is closely linked to your communication, coordination, and perception. You’ve evaluated and acted based on your own view, making impulsive decisions without fully accounting for other aspects. And now you’re facing blockages, with people, circumstances, and finances all stalled, squeezed, and at an impasse. Of course, part of this is due to your youth. Try to listen. Try to let go of self-centeredness. Try to address matters as they are. Perhaps what you perceive as a cold, distant iceberg has always wanted to be your support. You’ve just rarely given them the chance to come close. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master 老林，從腦海裡突然閃過你的身影，再想到當初你坐在我對面的情景，我深深為自己年輕時傲嬌的樣子感到羞愧，且需要跟你道歉，須打自我的內心跟你好好地說聲對不起。 那時的你，正值人生低谷，主管是你以前的同學，所以你才有機會進到公司。這是主管跟我說的，那時的我並沒有太多的判斷能力，可我確實也因為這樣而開始用有色眼光看待你。 我們那時的主管對我很不好，是一位天蠍女，對待她不喜歡的人會用言語辱罵，用情緒恐嚇。我是單位裡除她以外的唯一女生，所以很快就發現她跟其他同事說話態度和對待我時是天壤地別。 那時的我才25歲。 即使我想用力反抗也無用，因多國股東結構下，同事們各有各的靠山和派系，唯有我沒有。 你幸福多了，不會做的事情，做不來的事情，有你同學指點一二。 而我做對的事情，她會大聲喝罵我說她要的不是結果，她不爽我沒照她交代的過程去做；但我是照她交代的去做啊，但我又可能為每次的工作交代進行錄音當證據呢。 於是，她欺負我，我就不爽你。 她對我兇，我就不理你。 很多次，你想安慰我，但你說你嘴拙，怕說了我更生氣，你也一直勸我服個軟，就雨過天晴。 人，就是這樣，年輕時，筋Q軟，但腰挺很直，脾氣很硬。有了年紀後，筋變硬，懂得彎腰的重要性，但卻彎不下去了。 總之，離開那裡，我告訴自己，絕對要成為更厲害的自己。 我將那時認識的你們所有全都拋卻忘記，唯有欺壓我的人牢記在心裡。 我的2/3人生過去了，有沒有成為更厲害的自己沒人在意。但，我想起了你，想到了那個傲嬌的自己。但我卻忘記了你的名，只記得你的姓氏。 我在心裡跟你致歉，跟你道歉，說對不起，我請宇宙送給你祝福，也請宇宙傳達我的歉意至你的心中，也許你會突然想到我，閃過我的臉孔，那就是你接收到我的心意。 宇宙送的祝福塔羅牌是：【大師 Master】。 記得你的手藝超好，你曾煮過好幾次美食帶來公司分享，你愛你的家人，疼惜你的老婆，這樣的你，現在應是幸福的，你感恩你的同學給你機會，你嘗過低谷的苦澀，這樣的你，從那之後應都是知足快樂的。 我想，在你擅長且喜歡的領域，你應該早已成為一方大師，很多人跟你學習著。 祝福你 ~ 真心誠意！ 希望現在的你，雖然年紀有點老，可擁有專業好手藝的你，跟家人和樂生活，與老婆幸福過日子。 2024.11.28 To Mr. Lin: The Master Mr. Lin, Your image suddenly flashed across my mind, and I recalled the scene of you sitting across from me. I feel deeply ashamed of my arrogant attitude in my younger years and feel the need to sincerely apologize to you from the bottom of my heart. At that time, you were at a low point in your life. Your supervisor was a former classmate, which was why you got the opportunity to join the company. The supervisor shared this with me, and back then, my ability to judge was limited. Unfortunately, I allowed this information to color my perception of you. Our supervisor wasn’t kind to me. She was a Scorpio woman who used verbal insults and emotional intimidation against those she didn’t like. I was the only woman in the department besides her and quickly noticed the stark difference in how she treated me compared to others. I was only 25 at the time. Even though I wanted to resist, it was futile. In a company with a multinational shareholder structure, each colleague had their own allies and factions—except me. You, on the other hand, were more fortunate. When you struggled with tasks, your classmate guided you. Meanwhile, when I completed tasks correctly, I’d still get scolded. She would yell, claiming that while the results were right, she was displeased because I hadn’t followed her specified process. But I had followed her instructions! Yet I couldn’t possibly record every work directive as evidence. Thus, her bullying of me made me resent you. Her hostility toward me made me ignore you. Many times, you tried to comfort me, but you admitted you weren’t good with words and worried that speaking up might make me angrier. You often advised me to soften my stance, saying that things would get better if I let it go. That’s how people are. When we’re young, we’re flexible but stubborn, standing tall and proud with hardened tempers. As we age, our bodies stiffen, but we learn the importance of bending—only to find it harder to do so. In any case, after leaving that place, I told myself I must become a better version of myself. I let go of everyone I knew there, except for the ones who oppressed me—I kept them firmly in my memory. Two-thirds of my life has now passed. Whether or not I’ve become a better person, no one truly cares. But I thought of you and my arrogant younger self. I’ve even forgotten your first name, only remembering your surname. In my heart, I apologize to you, saying, “I’m sorry.” I ask the universe to send blessings your way and to convey my apology to your heart. Perhaps you’ll suddenly think of me and see my face flash before you—that will be my heartfelt message reaching you. The blessing sent by the universe through the Tarot card is: [The Master]. I remember your incredible skills. You cooked many delicious meals and shared them with the office. You loved your family and cherished your wife. Someone like you must be living a happy life now. You were grateful to your classmate for the opportunity and had experienced the bitterness of life’s lows. With that, I believe you have since lived a life of contentment and joy. I imagine that in the field you excel in and love, you’ve already become a master, with many learning from you. Wishing you all the best—sincerely and wholeheartedly! I hope that now, though older, you continue to enjoy a harmonious life with your family, happiness with your wife, and the fulfillment that comes from your exceptional skills. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

18種讓妳成為旅遊達人的方法!!!

成為你探險世界的指南!!! http://news.distractify.com/travel/travel-responsibly/ 1. 要清楚的瞭解,你旅遊的地方,同時也是別人的家. "接觸別人的文化,體驗別人的文化,學習別人的文化" 2. 行前的調查及規畫是非常重要的!!! thisworldrocks.comNo, you don’t have to be the guy who memorized the guidebook or the Wikipedia page for a particular destination, but it’s always a good idea to have a sense of where you’re going. Where do the locals like to spend their time? What is the culture like? Is tipping customary, or will it be offensive? You can never be wholly prepared for every experience abroad, but it’s nice for both parties if you make an effort to minimize unnecessarily awkward interactions with the local people. 3. Respect the culture thisworldrocks.comYou’ll learn a lot about where you’re headed from a little research, some of that may catch you pretty off-guard. Perhaps you never would have known that despite the fact that you’re headed to the hot desert, the conservative culture in that country views the wearing of shorts or skirts as inappropriate. Perhaps eating with one hand as opposed to another is offensive, or adding condiments to your food is insulting. Remember, you’re a guest in their country, keeping an open mind and flexing to their cultural demands (however foreign or unusual they may seem) will set you apart from the other “tourists.” 4. Ask before photographing anyone thisworldrocks.comThis is huge, and a great way to demonstrate that you’re respecting local people. It is very much the case that some cultures strongly believe that to be photographed is to lose part of their soul. In other places, the custom for locals allowing themselves to be photographed comes with the expectation of a tip. And if that street performer or vibrantly dressed individual riding some exotic animal declines, respect their wishes as you would hope a traveler in the opposite situation would do for you. 5. Learn a few key phrases 4hdwall.comEven if you have to muscle through them, there is a) nothing more frustrating abroad for both parties than when you can’t communicate basic needs to someone who is trying to help you out but doesn’t speak your language, and b) locals will recognize and almost always appreciate the effort you’re making. Even just knowing the essential simple phrases like “hello,” “please” and “thank you” demonstrates a wealth of respect. 6. Meet some people usimages.detik.comHonestly, one of the greatest things you can collect abroad is friends. People will “remember that time…” infinitely better than you will remember your trip looking at some kitschy souvenir that likely broke on your way home. Plus, there’s a lot you can learn about other countries and cultures by speaking directly with someone who lives it every day (and better still, they can show you places and sites you would have never found on your own). 7. Buy local artisansofmorocco.files.wordpress.comA good guide will take you to parts of the country that are less glamorous, for the opportunity to pick up handcrafted souvenirs made by local artisans. While they may not mention it, not only are those one-of-a-kind crafts a way more awesome thing to take home than a plastic model of whatever city you’re visiting, but also buying those directly benefits the craftspeople and the town they live in. When you see statistics about tourism stimulating economies, that’s a huge part of what they’re talking about, and those villages and towns depend on your dollars much more than those kiosks adjacent to main attractions do. 8. Look into a home stay nobswall.comNothing will give you a more authentic experience in any destination like a homestay. There’s something to be said about a proper home cooked meal, no matter what country you’re in. Again, you’re supporting local families, you’ll gain privileged insight into what real life is like in that place, and you’ll make a whole family of friends without having to proactively introduce yourself to a bunch of strangers. 9. Try the food twisper.comOne of my biggest regrets as a traveler is flying halfway around the world, just to eat Burger King and drink Starbucks. For a long time I was too meek to eat at local restaurants, let alone get as far out of my comfort zone as would be required to eat at a foreign cart food. Then I realized everyone who lives there does, and for good reason. If you want a genuine taste of what another country has to offer, eat the local food where the rest of the locals are eating. 10. Breathe richculture.coOne of the biggest differences between a traveler and a tourist is the mission. As a tourist, you might attempt to greedily collect photos of major attractions like Pokemon, so that no one viewing the slideshow later knows that you only spent 10 minutes passing by the Louvre on your way to the Eiffel Tower. Trying to do and see it all means you’ll likely get to do very little, and see it all for only an instant. Breathing, slowing down, and tossing the itinerary frees you up to experience things as they come, and more fully immerse in the experience you want. Traveling can also be quite stressful, especially when all the plans go haywire, you miss a connection and are stranded somewhere even-more-foreign, or you do something catastrophic like lose your wallet (as I have done, twice). Breathe then, and remember that it’s all part of the adventure. 11. Be spontaneous ibankcoin.comWith your newfound itinerary-free time, do whatever sounds good in the moment, and change your mind often if you think something else would be better. Enjoy being liberated from “doing what you’re supposed to do” and “seeing what you’re supposed to see.” You’ve got limited time, but rather than trying to cram as much as you can in as little time as possible, maximize your experience by going with the flow, and live at the pace you want to live at. 12. Get lost…it’s fun cmm.aeNo seriously, get properly lost. Then breathe, and remind yourself it’ll be okay. Then give yourself the opportunity to get acquainted with a place that’s so much more than an aerial view printed on some paper. Weave between streets, duck into alleys, ask for help if you need it, but explore like you’re discovering the place for the first time (because you are, after all, discovering the place for the first time). 13. Ditch the tour group, do it on your own travelalltogether.comWhile it is convenient to be with a group of other vacationers and have a manufactured experience delicately balanced for controlled culture shock, there’s a lot to be gained by tackling a new place on your own. Sure, the tour group method will help you see everything you may want to see and more, but on the merits of your research you could likely do the same or better, for much less money. Plus, you don’t have to wait for a herd of people to stop staring at a sculpture you don’t find particularly interesting, nor do you feel herded for wanting to spend an afternoon staring at a painting that your guide has only budgeted 15 minutes for. 14. Seek the road less traveled stepping2yourdreams.files.wordpress.comNot just the road less traveled by tour groups, but the road less traveled in general. You know those hole-in-the-wall places in your hometown? Or your favorite deserted lookout spot? There are those places literally all over the world, and they just take a little finding. 15. The best things in life are still free, no matter where you go lapausecafe.files.wordpress.comWalk the streets, hike the hills, play in the ocean. Visit a park, people watch, and just be generally stoked to be somewhere completely new. You probably paid a bunch to get there, now revel in all the things that don’t cost a dime. 16. Take public transit 3.bp.blogspot.comWhen in doubt, do as the locals do, and the locals take public transit. It’s way cheaper, you’ll probably meet some people along the way, it’ll help you get to know the place you’re in better, and you may even get a little lost. 17.Realize that your ideal vacation might not be where you expect to find it 3.bp.blogspot.comIt’s been ages since your last vacation, and you just want to get away. Visions of palm trees and crystal clear waters crashing on amazing beaches flood your mind, and you can almost feel the sun on your skin and the warm white sands between your toes. There’s nothing for miles but you and your book. So (if you’re like me) the first thing you do is Google “Hawaii vacations,” like hundreds of thousands of other people every day. There’s nothing wrong with going to Hawaii, and sure there are spots on the islands where you can have everything you envisioned, but you may also have to share it with a ton of other people. The more readily a vacation spot comes to mind, the more likely you’re not the only one with that idea, so the perfect getaway might take a little more research. Fortunately, there’s a trillion other fascinating and perfect little islands all over the world, and a wealth of resources to help you find the one that will give you the experience you’re looking for, plus perhaps a pleasant surprise. 18. Travel frequenciesoflife.files.wordpress.comWhether you’re an aspiring traveler, a gung-ho tourist, a genuine globetrotter, or anything in between, one of the greatest things you can do for yourself is to just get out there. We live on an amazing planet full of wonders that none of us will ever see all of in our lifetimes, but that should in no way stop you from trying. 

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer 題外話先說一下，最近很高頻率抽到這張塔羅牌，但請宇宙給予祝福的是不同的個案。 想來，一直很深奧、神秘、朦朧的宇宙，最近忍不住想對大家說，不要想這麼多，許多時候真的是，我們庸人自擾呀。 人生，就是感受，享受驚喜的旅途。 今天請宇宙送給陸陸三個月寶寶的祝福塔羅牌：【欣喜者 Rejoicer】。 陸陸說，她的寶寶作息有點混亂，搞得她好累，且都沒有自己的時間。 辛苦的陸陸和先生住在外面，家中沒有人可以帶把手的幫一下，也沒有有經驗的人可以請教，所以遇到狀況，都是先上網看一下別人怎麼說；但常陷入另一個問題，就是寶寶的情況跟網路上找到的資訊，有時只有一小部分類似，有時真的不知道要如何辨識，所以陸陸心中壓力好大，每次寶寶哭鬧不停時，她也會覺得是自己沒有照顧好。 感覺陸陸是個可愛的年輕小媽咪，她說查了幾次網路資訊，也不確定到底找到的是不是正確答案，後來她決定打電話跟人請教，這樣效率比較快，資訊也會比較多。 但她也很想有人可以聊聊天，陪她說說話，所以，用一樣的方式來解決，找傾聽者，找陪聊師。 當我稱讚著陸陸的機智決定，她竟然有著害羞的反應，她說，已經很久沒有聽到別人稱讚她了。 我告訴她，辛苦她了，大家看到小寶寶，大部分的人幾乎都會先稱讚寶寶的，但這也是直接在稱讚媽媽的，小寶寶長得頭好壯壯，可愛極了，都是因有用心、溫柔的照顧，而這樣費心、用心的人，就是媽媽呀。 我知道她想要的是被看到的是她這個人，而不是寶寶的媽媽。陸陸說她不是在跟寶寶爭寵的，我明白的。 女性，很是辛苦的。 女孩，是先成為自己後，才是成為妻子和媽媽。 也因如此，當我看到很可愛的寶寶時，我都習慣先讚賞媽媽，肯定得回應她們的辛苦與用心，再誇獎可愛的寶寶。 而，為何我不是請宇宙祝福陸陸，而是祝福陸陸的寶寶。 因陸陸有我這位跨年朋友陪著呀。 且寶寶好，陸陸會更好。 所以就讓陸陸的寶寶，過著開心的寶寶生活，恣意的笑鬧，任性的喧騰，因為我們都知道，像大王、像皇后般被侍候的生活是只有短短的幾年呀。 2024.10.28 LuLu: The Rejoicer Just a side note: I've been drawing this tarot card quite often lately, but I’ve been asking the universe for blessings for different cases each time. It seems that the universe, which has always been so profound, mysterious, and elusive, can’t help but gently remind us not to overthink—often, we’re just troubling ourselves unnecessarily. Life is about feeling and enjoying the journey of surprises. Today, I asked the universe to send a tarot blessing to LuLu’s three-month-old baby: The Rejoicer. LuLu mentioned that her baby’s routine has been a bit chaotic, leaving her exhausted with barely any time to herself. She and her husband live away from family, so there’s no one to lend a helping hand or offer experienced advice. When issues arise, she has to check online for guidance, though she often finds herself facing another problem: sometimes, her baby’s situation only partially resembles what she reads online, making it hard to figure out the right approach. This has left her feeling a lot of pressure, especially when her baby cries without stopping—she wonders if she’s not doing enough. LuLu seems like a sweet young mom. She mentioned looking up information online several times but wasn’t sure if she’d found the right answers, so she decided to start calling others for advice. It’s quicker and more informative that way. Yet, she also wishes for someone to chat with, to just share her feelings, so she’s trying a similar approach by looking for a listener or a companion to talk to. When I praised her clever decision, she shyly admitted that it had been a long time since anyone complimented her. I told her she’s doing a great job. Most people, when they see a baby, will first compliment the baby, but that’s also indirectly complimenting the mom. A healthy, happy baby is the result of attentive and gentle care—and the one who pours her heart into that is the mom. I understand that she wants to be seen as herself, not just as the baby’s mom. LuLu clarified that she’s not competing with her baby for attention, and I get it. It’s tough being a woman. A girl first becomes herself, then becomes a wife and a mother. Because of this, whenever I see a cute baby, I make it a habit to first appreciate the mom, acknowledging her hard work and dedication, and then praise the adorable baby. And why did I ask the universe to bless LuLu’s baby instead of LuLu herself? It’s because she has a friend in me, a companion for the years to come. And when her baby is happy, LuLu will be even happier. So, let LuLu’s baby live the joyful life of a little one—laughing, playing, being wonderfully noisy. Because we all know, that life of being pampered like a little king or queen lasts only a few precious years. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor 調養休息了七千多個日子，從原本積極的改變，到享受無所事事的美好，再到提不起勁的生活內容，是又到了該改變的時候了。 為何提不起勁？ 不是沒有事情忙碌，而是常在忙碌完後，原本心中的茫然，沒有隨著執行完一件件的計畫而消失，反而茫然的思緒更為嚴重許多。 於是轉念思考，既然茫然，那就再踏入紅塵人群中吧。 就這樣起心動念了，幾天後，突然收到過去一位主管的訊息，有個機會問我有沒有興趣。 我心中一想，這吸引力法則也太猛烈了吧。 思考幾天後，我拒絕了。 我到底在幹什麼？ 不是想回歸職場嗎？為何又拒絕？ 機會送上門不把握，難道要自己去撞牆，還未必有比較好，這樣才甘願嗎？ 可，有的時候，人類會感到痛苦就是理智與期望中間搖擺不定。現實的考量是其一，不想就此輕易放棄是其二，身體心理狀況還未調整好是其三。 於是我又持續沉浸在沒有變化，沒有思緒，沒有進度的歲月陰溝中。突然，那個決定的時間點降臨了。雖然沒有石破天驚的閃電還是打雷，可就在那一瞬間決定，好，把握機會。 今天的面談結束。回來想冷靜一下，於是抽張塔羅牌，請宇宙來個消息吧。 【感知者 Sensor】關於這個機會的塔羅牌。 有意思，這是要如何來讀牌呢？ 這張牌是權杖子牌，討論權杖牌就會需要回歸抽牌人的內心。所以這是否是機會，是挑戰，是命運，端看我怎麼認為，怎麼思考。 在這個機會裡，我應該會有非常多的體驗與感觸，也會藉由這樣的機會而有不同的改變與成長。 是可期待的。 2024-09-05 Opportunity: Seer After more than seven thousand days of recuperation and rest, from initially striving for change, to enjoying the beauty of doing nothing, and finally to a life lacking enthusiasm, it seems that the time for change has come again. Why the lack of enthusiasm? It’s not because there’s nothing to do, but because the original sense of confusion hasn’t disappeared after completing one plan after another. On the contrary, the feeling of being lost has become even more severe. So, I had a change of mind. Since I felt lost, why not step back into the hustle and bustle of the world? Just as I had this thought, a few days later, I suddenly received a message from a former supervisor about an opportunity, asking if I was interested. I thought to myself, the Law of Attraction works so strongly! After thinking about it for a few days, I declined. What am I doing? Didn’t I want to return to the workforce? Why did I refuse again? A chance knocks on the door, and I don’t seize it. Do I have to run into a wall, with no guarantee of a better outcome, to be satisfied? However, sometimes people suffer from wavering between reason and expectation. One reason is practical considerations, another is the reluctance to give up easily, and the third is that my physical and mental state is not yet adjusted. So, I continued to immerse myself in a stagnant, thoughtless, and unprogressive period of time. Suddenly, the moment of decision arrived. Although there was no earth-shattering lightning or thunder, in that instant, I decided to seize the opportunity. Today’s interview is over. I came back to calm down, so I drew a Tarot card, asking the universe for a message. [The Seer] regarding this opportunity. Interesting, how should this card be interpreted? This card is the Page of Wands, and discussing the Wands cards often requires returning to the drawer's inner self. So whether this is an opportunity, a challenge, or destiny depends on how I perceive it and how I think about it. In this opportunity, I should expect to have many experiences and feelings, and through this opportunity, I will undergo different changes and growth. It is something to look forward to. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0717 今日塔羅：誠信 Integrity

2024 0717 今日塔羅：誠信 Integrity 這幾日，與一位朋友討論著計劃和時間。 之前他曾允諾可等待我確定的日期。 這兩日與他確認與敲定日期時，他表示，希望可以提早。 我這邊卻有難度。 當初討論出來的日期就是我比較可以進行的時候。 現，他因自己的一些規畫，所以時間有點困難，希望我調整。 並非我不願意，真的是有困難，無法調整。 於是，他一咬牙說，既然當初說好是那一日，那就不變吧。 我謝謝他的體諒，也知道他是沒有辦法才會提出是否可調整的想法。 因我們都是重然諾的人。 我們一旦承諾了，不管經過多少時間，也許中間會有許多變數，甚至自己吃虧或者是會有其他的影響，可是，我們的承諾品質不會改變，承諾的內容不會改變，承諾的價值不會改變。 過去，我寧願讓人辜負我，我也重然諾。 結果就是被當猴子耍弄，被辜負，被欺壓，搞得自己像是個呆瓜般，受人嘲笑。 而，我們的良善不應該被欺負得。 我們的善良應該要發揮在值得的人身上，不然我們就是另類的”幫兇”，因我們默許他們的欺凌，而沒有反抗，沒有反擊。 於是，我再也不沉默。 我還是會做到我的誠信，我還是會遵守我的承諾，但，我也不再讓人隨意揮霍我的好，我的溫柔，我的關心呵護和我對朋友的愛。 今天是『誠信』的一天。 如果你遺忘很久了，請趕緊想起來。 如果你遺失很久了，請趕緊找回來。 如果你遺棄很久了，請趕緊撿回來。 我個人認為『誠信』是身為一個人的基礎。 沒有了誠信，管你位置有多高，管理權勢有多大，都是讓人在心底裡瞧不起。 況且，世事輪迴，世道有報。 若你不怕，跟天抗吧。 畢竟，這世間很多的道理，只要是君子，知悉了，不須人管自然自律；非君子者，知悉也好，不知也罷，不管天道地道與人道，他只有承認他自己的道。 面對這樣的人，我們不跟他爭論，不與他辯駁。 惡人，就讓老天收拾吧。 我們良善之人的誠信陽關道，建立在互諒、互持、互挺、互懂之上。 妥協，是因想求得共好，而非爭輸贏。 誠信，是內心裡正直的道路，是行走在現實社會中的自律標準。 誠信，是美德，非惡魔的謊言所能遮蔽的恆久之光芒。 誠信，是正直信念，是我們須捍衛的信念。 我，誠信，為自己，為家人，為朋友，為眾生，為萬物。 我，誠信，為遵從自己內在的光與聖道。 我，誠信，為遵從自己發願的善與行願。 我，誠信，為遵從世界美好的大同。 Tarot Reading for 2024-07-17: Integrity These past few days, I've been discussing plans and timing with a friend. He had previously promised to wait for me to confirm the date. When I checked and finalized the date with him these past two days, he expressed a desire to move the date up. However, it is difficult for me. The date we initially agreed upon was the one that worked best for me. Now, due to his own plans, he finds the date difficult and hopes I can adjust. It's not that I am unwilling, it’s just genuinely challenging and unfeasible for me to adjust. So, he gritted his teeth and said, "Since we originally agreed on that date, let's stick to it." I thanked him for his understanding, knowing that he wouldn't have asked for an adjustment if it wasn’t necessary. We both value keeping our promises. Once we make a commitment, no matter how much time passes, no matter the variables or personal sacrifices involved, our promise's quality, content, and value remain unchanged. In the past, I would rather be wronged than break my promises. The result was that I ended up being toyed with, betrayed, oppressed, and made a fool of, ridiculed by others. But our kindness should not be taken advantage of. Our kindness should be directed toward those who deserve it; otherwise, we become accomplices by tolerating their bullying without resistance or retaliation. Therefore, I will no longer remain silent. I will maintain my integrity and keep my promises, but I will no longer allow others to squander my kindness, my gentleness, my care, and my love for friends. Today is a day of 'Integrity.' If you have forgotten it for a long time, please remember it quickly. If you have lost it for a long time, please retrieve it quickly. If you have abandoned it for a long time, please pick it up quickly. Personally, I believe that 'Integrity' is the foundation of being human. Without integrity, no matter how high your position or how great your power, you will be despised in people's hearts. Moreover, the world follows cycles, and there are consequences for our actions. If you are not afraid, then challenge the heavens. After all, many truths in this world are self-evident to a gentleman, requiring no external enforcement for self-discipline; for those who are not gentlemen, it makes no difference whether they know or not. They will acknowledge only their own path, regardless of divine or human principles. In dealing with such people, we do not argue or dispute. Let heaven deal with the wicked. Our integrity as kind-hearted people is built on mutual understanding, support, and empathy. Compromise seeks common good, not victory or defeat. Integrity is the path of righteousness within our hearts, the standard of self-discipline in society. Integrity is a virtue, an everlasting light that cannot be obscured by the devil's lies. Integrity is a belief in righteousness that we must defend. I uphold integrity, for myself, for my family, for my friends, for all beings, and for all things. I uphold integrity to follow my inner light and holy path. I uphold integrity to follow the good I have vowed and the actions I have committed to. I uphold integrity to follow the ideal of a harmonious world. #DreamCatchTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Integrity

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