2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation 給迷茫中的可欣 ~ 迷茫是人生中一定會遇到的坎，可出現還不只一次。 一開始我確實以為想聊這話題的妳，可能才剛從學校畢業沒有多久。 妳擁有敏銳的直覺，馬上告訴我妳是一位30歲的大女孩，然後又馬上反應出對這樣的年紀還對未來是沒有方向的，覺害羞，不好意思。 若年紀是標準，那現在半百的我，對於接下來還在找尋方向，確認目標，不就得自我羞愧而亡了。 不應該這樣思考的。 年紀，累積了經驗，增添了智慧，突破了困難，並不是就代表接下來就一帆風順的。 人生無論何時都常會遇到需要思考，需要適應調整的局面。 誰幾歲遇到什麼事情，這也沒有一定的公式可套入，畢竟，人生的軌跡不會重疊，不會一致，只有類似，卻又不盡相同。 請宇宙送給妳的祝福，抽到的塔羅牌是【停滯 Stagnation】。 有點遺憾，可這樣也好。 跟妳聊天過程中，確實有發現妳沒有很專心，同時間可能還在進行其他的事情，甚至也許我們的對話內容沒能吸引住妳的注意力，所以妳的回覆和回應都是簡短的語句，感覺有點在應付我而已。 若真是這樣的情形，那真是蠻可惜的。妳錯過了我的金玉良言，錯失了我經驗的分享，錯開了我識人、讀人的到位剖析。 也許就是因為如此，即使經過聊天後，妳還沒懂得現在所處的問題核心是什麼，所以妳被困住了，無法行動，無法前進。 認知沒有打破，意念沒有形成，沒有因緣俱足的能量，也就造成窒礙難行的情景。 想改變，需打自內心。 這是我個人經驗打磨出來的結論。 很多話，不需說出口。 因妳要說服的人是妳自己。 靜下心，好好思考。想要什麼，適合什麼，只有自己最清楚，旁人所說的，只會是建議，只能是僅供參考而已。 2024/11/20 To Kexin: Stagnation To the lost Kexin ~ Feeling lost is an inevitable part of life, and it’s something we’ll encounter more than once. Initially, I thought that someone who wanted to discuss this topic might have just graduated from school. But your keen intuition quickly corrected me, revealing that you are a 30-year-old young woman. Then, almost instantly, you shared a sense of embarrassment and unease about still feeling directionless at your age. If age were the benchmark, then I, at almost 50, would have to drown in shame for still searching for direction and clarifying my goals. But this is not the way to think. Age accumulates experiences, adds wisdom, and helps us overcome challenges—but it doesn’t guarantee smooth sailing ahead. Life, at any stage, often presents situations requiring deep thought, adaptation, and adjustment. There’s no fixed formula for when and what kind of challenges one might face. Life paths don’t overlap or align perfectly; they’re only similar yet uniquely distinct. The Tarot card drawn for you, as a blessing from the universe, is Stagnation. It’s a little disappointing, but perhaps it’s a good thing. During our conversation, I noticed that your attention wasn’t entirely focused. Perhaps you were multitasking, or maybe our discussion didn’t capture your full interest. Your responses were brief, almost as if you were merely humoring me. If that’s the case, it’s truly a pity. You missed my pearls of wisdom, my shared experiences, and my sharp insights into understanding and analyzing people. Perhaps that’s why, even after our chat, you still don’t grasp the core issue of your current situation. You remain stuck, unable to act or move forward. When your understanding hasn’t shifted, your mindset hasn’t formed, and the necessary energy hasn’t come together, obstacles arise, and progress is hindered. To create change, it must come from deep within your heart. This conclusion is one I’ve honed from my own experiences. Many things don’t need to be said aloud. After all, the person you need to convince is yourself. Take a moment to quiet your mind and think deeply. What do you truly want? What suits you best? Only you can know these answers. What others say are merely suggestions—for reference, and nothing more. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion 在擁擠的人群中，他像一棵大樹，立在那兒，不管旁邊的攤販如何吆喝叫賣著，他就是靜靜地等待。 在傳統市場裡，人們有著共同的行進動線的默契，當然，也有混亂的時候，但，大多數我們總是習慣從入口的右邊開始，一攤攤的逛，然後走到自己覺得可以回頭的點時，再往回走，再逛起另一邊的攤位。 這傳統市場是我這兩年採買食材的地方。 一開始覺好大，現在依然，沒有一次有全程走完，逛完的。 傳統市場就是如此，多去幾次，嘗試購買不同攤位後，自己喜歡的、習慣的攤位差不多也就拿捏準了，後來的採買就是抓緊一個原則，快，狠、準，從入口開始直接衝去目的攤位，盯上，拿起，付錢，轉身，離開，沒多停留的。 可從前兩個月，注意到了這位賣菜的伯伯，第一次看到，沒跟他買，可能我去的時間太晚了，他賣菜板車上剩下的菜，乾乾扁扁的，感覺不能再放。 可，我買菜挑選的需求是可以再放幾天的，一次吃不完那樣多的呀。 再來注意到老伯伯是在颱風後的採買。 每攤的青菜價格都高得嚇壞人，可每個老闆都說，颱風後，有青菜可以採買已是難得，物稀價當然貴。 我忍痛拿出荷包的紙鈔，買了一小把青菜，這確定是有益身體健康，怎我覺買這把青菜，我的心臟好痛。 這樣一小把的葉菜不夠我未來幾天的人體需求，突然之間聽到老伯伯說，一籃菜50元，不論是哪一種菜。 天呀！ 我問伯伯，您這樣有賺嗎？ 他的聲音輕輕的，有點沙啞，說，沒有。颱風剛過，大家都辛苦了，他有去大盤批菜，就出來賣。大家吃新鮮，吃的開心，這次沒有賺，沒有關係。 老伯伯的菜，比一般菜攤的菜看起來老，長比較大，大部分的人買菜喜歡挑嫩一點的。 我覺老伯伯的心意，讓人感動，我挑了兩盆。 伯伯幫我將菜裝進袋子裡的同時，有其他人靠近了。 結果，我開始幫老伯伯推銷他的菜。 伯伯聽到後對我微微笑。 沒多久，伯伯的菜賣掉了九成。 不是我很會叫賣，實在是老伯伯賣的價錢便宜。 回來後，我趁新鮮川燙了其中一種菜，青江菜。 看起來個頭大，可口感不粗糙，菜的纖維沒有想像中的老，不會不好咀嚼，是很可以的。 於是，這次，我特地去找老伯伯買菜。 一樣的身影，一樣的裝扮，一樣的板車，一樣一籃籃的菜，然後，一樣的寧靜。 結果，一樣，忍不住在其他客人靠近時，幫老伯伯叫賣。 沒想到，這時有位歐巴桑，推擠著老伯伯說，老伯伯擋住她的客人了？！ 伯伯的面前是我，我回頭看，沒有人站在我後面啊。 這位歐巴桑說的客人，是？？？ 伯伯也沒跟歐巴桑理論。 歐巴桑動手把伯伯的板車往旁邊挪動，又往前推，我趕緊跳到旁邊，免得撞到。 然後歐巴桑推著她的板車經過我時，叨唸著，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，就是轉不到她的客人前面去。 我自己翻譯成，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，但都沒有客人上前去。 看了歐巴桑賣的東西，我也只能說抱歉，無法跟她購買呀。 她賣的是痠痛藥膏，這不是我的菜呀。 回家後，老伯伯的身影一直盤繞在腦海裡。 想請宇宙送給老伯伯祝福 ~ 願他安康，願他祥和，願他福氣，願他無生無量。 宇宙送給老伯伯的塔羅牌祝福是【慈悲 Compassion】。 哇！有沒有覺得宇宙、高我、能量、磁場以及塔羅很奇妙。 在總共88張的塔羅牌裡，抽到的牌卡就是如此呼應著老伯伯的調性。 宇宙覺老伯伯的慈悲與祥和是讓人景仰與推崇的。 在世為人，慈悲為懷，虛懷若谷，體諒諒解，寬容包容，這是溫暖的力量，是慈悲祥和的力量，是愛的力量。 November 14, 2024 – The Vegetable Vendor: Compassion Amid the crowded marketplace, he stands like a large tree, rooted in place, quietly waiting while other vendors shout and call to attract customers. In the traditional market, there's an unspoken understanding of the flow of foot traffic, though it can be chaotic at times. Most people start from the right side of the entrance, browsing from stall to stall until they reach a point they consider a turning-back spot, then retrace their steps to explore the stalls on the other side. This market has been my go-to spot for grocery shopping over the past two years. Initially, it felt overwhelmingly large, and even now, I have yet to walk through it in its entirety in a single visit. That's the nature of traditional markets; with each visit, I experiment with different vendors, gradually narrowing down my favorites. Eventually, I adopted a routine: entering, heading directly to the targeted stalls, picking up items, paying, and leaving—no lingering. Two months ago, though, I noticed an elderly vegetable vendor. The first time I saw him, I didn’t buy anything; I was probably too late, and the vegetables left on his cart were somewhat wilted, seemingly unable to last much longer. I prefer produce that I can store for a few days, enough to be used gradually. The next time I noticed him was after a typhoon. Vegetable prices had skyrocketed across all stalls, and vendors explained that post-typhoon greens were scarce and therefore expensive. I reluctantly handed over my cash for a small bundle, painfully aware of the cost for the sake of health. That small bundle wasn’t nearly enough for my needs over the coming days. Then, I overheard the elderly vendor say, “One basket of vegetables, 50 dollars, any kind you want.” I was taken aback! I asked him, "Are you making any profit this way?" With a soft, slightly hoarse voice, he replied, “No. It’s right after the typhoon; everyone’s going through tough times. I managed to get some greens at wholesale, so I brought them out for people to enjoy fresh and happy meals. I won’t make a profit this time, and that’s okay.” His vegetables were more mature and larger than what most shoppers would typically pick, as many prefer tender greens. But I was moved by his kindness and sincerity and chose two baskets. While he packed the vegetables for me, others began approaching his stall. I found myself helping to promote his vegetables. Hearing my efforts, he gave me a gentle smile. Soon, 90% of his vegetables were sold—not because I’m good at marketing but because his prices were simply reasonable. When I got home, I blanched one of the greens—bok choy. Although large, it was surprisingly tender and easy to chew. So, this time, I specifically went back to find the elderly vendor. There he was, with the same demeanor, same attire, same cart, and same quiet presence. Once again, I couldn’t help but encourage other customers to buy from him. Unexpectedly, a middle-aged woman suddenly shoved him, complaining that he was blocking her customers. I was standing in front of him and looked back—there was no one behind me. So, who exactly were her “customers”? Without arguing, the vendor allowed her to push his cart aside. I quickly stepped aside, avoiding a collision as she maneuvered her own cart past me, muttering about how she couldn’t manage to position herself in front of her customers. I interpreted her mutterings as her frustration with not attracting customers. I looked at her goods, which turned out to be pain-relief ointment—definitely not something on my shopping list. Back home, the elderly vendor’s figure lingered in my mind. I silently sent a blessing to him, hoping the universe would grant him health, harmony, fortune, and boundless peace. The Tarot card blessing from the universe for the vendor is Compassion. Isn’t it marvelous how the universe, our higher selves, energy, the magnetic field, and Tarot align in such a magical way? Out of 88 cards, the one drawn resonated perfectly with his spirit. The universe acknowledges the vendor’s compassion and serenity as qualities to be admired. In this world, living with compassion, embracing humility, and showing understanding and tolerance for others embody a warm power—a power of compassionate serenity, the power of love. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death 你說，幾個月前你衝動下犯了一個大錯，這超過一百多天的日子，每夜無法安歇，清醒時間都在煩惱問題該怎麼辦，能怎麼解決，最糟糕的情況有可能會是如何，而你是否能夠承受。 你說，非常痛苦，無法生活，無法靜下心來。 你說，怎會變成這樣，你怎會讓自己變成現在這個模樣？ 我，沒有話語可以安慰你，更無法鼓勵你。 有的時候我們會不知不覺做了某些決定，無法用理智或者是智慧去評論。 我想每個人天性裡的賭性，其實比我們認知的還要強大，且像是躲藏在角落裡，蠢蠢欲動著，只要有機會，就會以猛虎之姿跳躍出來，掌控全局。 你說，無法告知任何人發生了什麼事情，這讓你更痛苦。你形容這段期間不像是活著，比較像是活死人，得撐著這幾口氣，得把問題解決了，不能連累任何人。 我想說點話，卻不知道要說什麼，只能靜靜聽。 你說，你不是想找人說話的，你是想要找人聽你說說話，這幾個月所有的苦與澀，難與痛都在腹內、心上、腦中翻攪著，需要有個出口。 我們嘆，這社會，怎有那麼多心思惡意的壞人。 我們痛，這社會，怎有那麼多有心人利用著已是在低谷的人們，想要奮力一搏的勇氣。 宇宙送給阿寺的祝福是：【死亡 Death】。 這張塔羅牌有著憂傷者坐在愛達荷蛇河上，穿著黝黑深藍色的長袍，斗篷帽遮住了大半張臉，讓人會產生心中一沉的情緒，而後面又是新幾內亞祖靈的面具，像刀子般的鼻尖，讓人感到驚悚害怕。 我們都懼怕死亡，很難接受死亡的發生，而在宇宙裡，在這個萬物繽紛的世界上，死亡，是如常的事情之一，如同太陽升起落下般，那樣的自然。 而當抽到塔羅牌卡的死亡時，更是不需恐懼與擔憂。 孫子兵法說道，『投之亡地然後存，陷之死地然後生。』世界上，沒有任何一個人可以回到過去，然後有機會改變已經發生的事情。 宇宙透過【死亡】這張塔羅牌傳遞著，已發生的事情讓人感傷，而死亡之後呢？除了哀傷，難過，痛苦以外，也有著解放、自由與完完全全地切割。 當然也不能輕忽死亡背後的力量，那失落的情緒，那低迷的心情，那恐懼憂慮的心思，這一波波的不安與害怕，一時無法消散，仍會纏繞著你，要堅定心志，要好好地保有自己的心。 過去的錯的痛苦，放下吧。 人生就像一個杯子，杯內發臭的水得先倒掉，才能注入新氣象，人生也就有了轉機與生機。 加油！ 別被自己的心魔打敗了。 2024-11-29 阿寺：Death You said, a few months ago, in a moment of impulse, you made a huge mistake. Over the past hundred days or so, you haven’t been able to rest at night. During your waking hours, you’ve been consumed with worry—about how to handle the situation, how to resolve it, what the worst-case scenario might be, and whether you could endure it. You said it’s been unbearably painful, that you can’t live your life, can’t calm your mind. You said, how did it come to this? How did you let yourself become the person you are now? I have no comforting words to offer, nor any encouragement to give. Sometimes, we unknowingly make decisions that defy logic or wisdom. I believe the gambling instinct in every person is far stronger than we realize. It lurks in the corners, waiting for the right moment to leap out like a tiger and take control of everything. You said you can’t tell anyone what happened, which makes it even more painful. You described this period as less like living and more like being a walking corpse—barely breathing, holding on just enough to resolve the problem, ensuring no one else gets dragged into it. I wanted to say something, but I didn’t know what to say. I could only listen quietly. You said you weren’t looking for someone to talk to; you just needed someone to listen—to hear all the bitterness, sourness, difficulties, and pain that have been churning within you for months. You needed an outlet. We sighed: How can this society have so many malicious people with scheming minds? We ached: How can this world have so many opportunists preying on those already at rock bottom, exploiting their desperate courage for one last gamble? The universe sent 阿寺 the blessing of Death. This tarot card depicts a sorrowful figure sitting on Idaho's Snake River, draped in a dark navy-blue robe with a hood that obscures much of their face. The image evokes a sinking feeling, and the ancestral mask from New Guinea behind them—with its knife-like nose—adds an air of horror and dread. We all fear death. It’s hard to accept its inevitability. Yet in the universe, in this vibrant world, death is one of life’s constants, as natural as the rising and setting of the sun. Drawing the Death card in tarot is nothing to fear or worry about. As The Art of War says, “Throw them into perilous ground, and they will survive. Plunge them into death ground, and they will live.” No one can return to the past to change what has already happened. The universe, through the Death card, conveys this: while what has occurred may bring sorrow, what follows death is not just grief, sadness, and pain but also liberation, freedom, and a clean break. Of course, we must not underestimate the power behind death—its accompanying emotions of loss, despair, fear, and anxiety. These waves of unease and dread won’t dissipate easily and will continue to entangle you. You must stay steadfast, holding onto your inner self. Let go of the pain of past mistakes. Life is like a cup; the stale water inside must first be poured out before fresh water can flow in, bringing vitality and opportunities for renewal. Stay strong! Don’t let your inner demons defeat you. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master 老林，從腦海裡突然閃過你的身影，再想到當初你坐在我對面的情景，我深深為自己年輕時傲嬌的樣子感到羞愧，且需要跟你道歉，須打自我的內心跟你好好地說聲對不起。 那時的你，正值人生低谷，主管是你以前的同學，所以你才有機會進到公司。這是主管跟我說的，那時的我並沒有太多的判斷能力，可我確實也因為這樣而開始用有色眼光看待你。 我們那時的主管對我很不好，是一位天蠍女，對待她不喜歡的人會用言語辱罵，用情緒恐嚇。我是單位裡除她以外的唯一女生，所以很快就發現她跟其他同事說話態度和對待我時是天壤地別。 那時的我才25歲。 即使我想用力反抗也無用，因多國股東結構下，同事們各有各的靠山和派系，唯有我沒有。 你幸福多了，不會做的事情，做不來的事情，有你同學指點一二。 而我做對的事情，她會大聲喝罵我說她要的不是結果，她不爽我沒照她交代的過程去做；但我是照她交代的去做啊，但我又可能為每次的工作交代進行錄音當證據呢。 於是，她欺負我，我就不爽你。 她對我兇，我就不理你。 很多次，你想安慰我，但你說你嘴拙，怕說了我更生氣，你也一直勸我服個軟，就雨過天晴。 人，就是這樣，年輕時，筋Q軟，但腰挺很直，脾氣很硬。有了年紀後，筋變硬，懂得彎腰的重要性，但卻彎不下去了。 總之，離開那裡，我告訴自己，絕對要成為更厲害的自己。 我將那時認識的你們所有全都拋卻忘記，唯有欺壓我的人牢記在心裡。 我的2/3人生過去了，有沒有成為更厲害的自己沒人在意。但，我想起了你，想到了那個傲嬌的自己。但我卻忘記了你的名，只記得你的姓氏。 我在心裡跟你致歉，跟你道歉，說對不起，我請宇宙送給你祝福，也請宇宙傳達我的歉意至你的心中，也許你會突然想到我，閃過我的臉孔，那就是你接收到我的心意。 宇宙送的祝福塔羅牌是：【大師 Master】。 記得你的手藝超好，你曾煮過好幾次美食帶來公司分享，你愛你的家人，疼惜你的老婆，這樣的你，現在應是幸福的，你感恩你的同學給你機會，你嘗過低谷的苦澀，這樣的你，從那之後應都是知足快樂的。 我想，在你擅長且喜歡的領域，你應該早已成為一方大師，很多人跟你學習著。 祝福你 ~ 真心誠意！ 希望現在的你，雖然年紀有點老，可擁有專業好手藝的你，跟家人和樂生活，與老婆幸福過日子。 2024.11.28 To Mr. Lin: The Master Mr. Lin, Your image suddenly flashed across my mind, and I recalled the scene of you sitting across from me. I feel deeply ashamed of my arrogant attitude in my younger years and feel the need to sincerely apologize to you from the bottom of my heart. At that time, you were at a low point in your life. Your supervisor was a former classmate, which was why you got the opportunity to join the company. The supervisor shared this with me, and back then, my ability to judge was limited. Unfortunately, I allowed this information to color my perception of you. Our supervisor wasn’t kind to me. She was a Scorpio woman who used verbal insults and emotional intimidation against those she didn’t like. I was the only woman in the department besides her and quickly noticed the stark difference in how she treated me compared to others. I was only 25 at the time. Even though I wanted to resist, it was futile. In a company with a multinational shareholder structure, each colleague had their own allies and factions—except me. You, on the other hand, were more fortunate. When you struggled with tasks, your classmate guided you. Meanwhile, when I completed tasks correctly, I’d still get scolded. She would yell, claiming that while the results were right, she was displeased because I hadn’t followed her specified process. But I had followed her instructions! Yet I couldn’t possibly record every work directive as evidence. Thus, her bullying of me made me resent you. Her hostility toward me made me ignore you. Many times, you tried to comfort me, but you admitted you weren’t good with words and worried that speaking up might make me angrier. You often advised me to soften my stance, saying that things would get better if I let it go. That’s how people are. When we’re young, we’re flexible but stubborn, standing tall and proud with hardened tempers. As we age, our bodies stiffen, but we learn the importance of bending—only to find it harder to do so. In any case, after leaving that place, I told myself I must become a better version of myself. I let go of everyone I knew there, except for the ones who oppressed me—I kept them firmly in my memory. Two-thirds of my life has now passed. Whether or not I’ve become a better person, no one truly cares. But I thought of you and my arrogant younger self. I’ve even forgotten your first name, only remembering your surname. In my heart, I apologize to you, saying, “I’m sorry.” I ask the universe to send blessings your way and to convey my apology to your heart. Perhaps you’ll suddenly think of me and see my face flash before you—that will be my heartfelt message reaching you. The blessing sent by the universe through the Tarot card is: [The Master]. I remember your incredible skills. You cooked many delicious meals and shared them with the office. You loved your family and cherished your wife. Someone like you must be living a happy life now. You were grateful to your classmate for the opportunity and had experienced the bitterness of life’s lows. With that, I believe you have since lived a life of contentment and joy. I imagine that in the field you excel in and love, you’ve already become a master, with many learning from you. Wishing you all the best—sincerely and wholeheartedly! I hope that now, though older, you continue to enjoy a harmonious life with your family, happiness with your wife, and the fulfillment that comes from your exceptional skills. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man 好久不見了，Derek ~ 看著你的訊息，與跟你對話的過程中，我感受到你的痛苦與已想盡辦法卻仍困在死局裡的狀況。 如同你所寫的，我們算不上熟悉，甚至可以說我們其實也不太認識對方，在那幾天的課程中，我們會閒聊一些，一起吃了頓飯，喝了一杯咖啡，之前的緣分如此淺薄，但依然將對方視為朋友。 時光倒推回去，約莫是去年的此時認識的你，而你的人生如同你的計劃，在今年創業了。 記得那時你跟我分享著這創業夢時，我那時腦海中閃過了幾個模糊畫面和一些情緒。 看著你發亮得意的神情，我也不好意思說太多，只輕輕提了幾句，也不敢說是提醒，就像閒聊般去帶到。 而今日你所說的現在面臨到的問題與困境，竟然與一年前我腦海中浮出的景象重疊了起來，並且清晰許多。 身為淡交的朋友的我，沒有立場，沒有角色，沒有資格去評論任何事情，但確實對現在的你的情況感到擔憂。 於是我馬上向宇宙詢問給你指引，抽到的塔羅牌：【倒吊者 Hanged Man】。 我常對於塔羅牌的神奇感到驚訝不已。 現在的情況對你來說就像是被掐住脖子般那樣窘迫，想盡辦法依然無法解決，快要無法呼吸的痛苦與窒悶。 傍晚冷靜後的我覺得需要多關心你，跟你提起向父母求援，才知道現在你們的關係是僵化與冷漠的。 我的直覺是認為趁這次的關係，一來跟父母多些情感關係的建立與連結，二來可打破你們目前相敬如冰的情況，三來可解決你現在卡住的急迫問題。 固執的你，馬上回應不可能找父母談。 哎呀！你怎就是不懂呢，父母的協助可讓你的危機化為轉機，不管是你的事業還是你們家庭氛圍。 對於倒吊者這張塔羅牌，積極面對問題的關鍵，會有”反轉”的機會。宇宙在告訴你，Derek，藉此機會，你需學習與接納，今日的情況與你的溝通、協調以及認知有很大的關係，你從你自己的角度、視野評估與衡量，然後衝動做了決定，卻又沒能將一些情況周全設想到，所以面對了現在，無論是人、事、金錢都出現了卡住、停滯、掐住的窘迫。 當然，這也與你非常年輕有關係。 試著傾聽。 試著放下自我。 試著就事論事。 也許，你以為的冰山，其實一直想成為你的靠山，只是你很少讓他們有機會接近你。 2024-11-07 Derek: The Hanged Man Hello, Derek. It's been a while. Reading your message and conversing with you, I can sense the pain and frustration you’re enduring, trying everything yet still feeling trapped in a deadlock. As you mentioned, we’re not particularly close; in fact, we barely know each other. During those few days of class, we exchanged small talk, shared a meal, and had a cup of coffee. The bond was brief, yet we still regard each other as friends. Looking back, it was around this time last year that we met, and your life, just as you planned, took a big step forward when you started your own business this year. I remember you telling me about your entrepreneurial dream back then. A few hazy images and emotions flashed through my mind. Seeing your proud, radiant expression, I hesitated to say too much, only lightly mentioning a few things, not as a warning but just casual remarks. Today, as you talk about the challenges and struggles you’re facing, I realize they overlap precisely with the visions I had a year ago, now much clearer. As a distant friend, I hold no position, role, or right to judge, yet I do feel concerned for you in your current situation. So, I immediately asked the universe for guidance on your behalf and drew the Tarot card, The Hanged Man. I'm always amazed by the mysterious insight of Tarot cards. Right now, your situation feels as if a hand is gripping your throat, an unbearable struggle to breathe as you try to break free, yet find no solutions. After calming down in the evening, I felt the need to reach out more, to suggest that you consider asking your parents for help, only to find that your relationship with them is currently distant and cold. My intuition is that this could be a good opportunity to reconnect emotionally with your parents. Not only could this alleviate the current strain, but it might also shift the icy dynamic between you all, while possibly resolving your urgent issue. But your response was immediate—no way you would talk to your parents. Oh! How can you not see? Their support could turn this crisis into an opportunity, benefiting both your business and the atmosphere within your family. Regarding The Hanged Man card, the key to facing challenges lies in seeking a “reversal” of perspective. The universe is telling you, Derek, that this is a time to learn and accept. Today's situation is closely linked to your communication, coordination, and perception. You’ve evaluated and acted based on your own view, making impulsive decisions without fully accounting for other aspects. And now you’re facing blockages, with people, circumstances, and finances all stalled, squeezed, and at an impasse. Of course, part of this is due to your youth. Try to listen. Try to let go of self-centeredness. Try to address matters as they are. Perhaps what you perceive as a cold, distant iceberg has always wanted to be your support. You’ve just rarely given them the chance to come close. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0831 給29黃的祝福：高塔Tower

2024 0831 給29黃的祝福：高塔Tower 你的暱稱讓我覺得好奇妙，忍不住在打完招呼後的第一句話就直接問你，為何名字叫〝29黃〞。 在你有點曬黑的年輕臉龐上出現了很可愛的微笑卻酷酷地說，〝姓黃，今年29歲〞。 我笑著問，那去年的暱稱是〝28黃，明年要改成30黃嗎？〞 你聽到後，笑了出來，接著說〝不知道。去年暱稱跟這無關。〞 年輕人呀！你是聊天句點王嗎？！這對話，很難接著說呀。 〝是什麼因素讓你想來這的？〞 〝好奇。〞 〝那，有什麼特別想問的？〞 〝沒有。〞 〝那你對什麼感到好奇？〞 〝沒有，就只是想看看是什麼。〞 〝那現在來了，看到了，有對什麼好奇，想了解嗎？〞 〝沒有。〞 〝Mr. 29黃，現在，我們開始冷場了喔。怎麼辦？〞 〝那就隨便閒聊吧。〞 〝好，那聊工作，如何？〞 果然，工作真的是最好的話題。 然後你驚訝於我對你的工作生態有些重點式了解和體會，也讓你產生了對我的工作背景感到好奇心。 你說你喜歡我描述的這句話 ~ 『夏日太陽的毒辣也毒不過人心的惡毒。』 在工作環境裡，我們沒求富貴，沒要升上青天，只求平安，平穩，卻像是要為國爭光那般，老是得經歷披荊斬棘的嚴酷現實拷打。 沒想到這樣聊著，時間也很快接近尾聲。 我跟你說，無所問，就別再花這樣的錢了。 你笑著回答說〝好〞。 請宇宙送塔羅祝福給Mr. 29黃：【高塔Tower】 來自宇宙的訊息，畫眉鳥啼叫了，春來到了。是得突破厚重的冰層，是得從高樓塔頂一躍而下的勇氣，是將過往在躍下過程中，與空氣摩擦，將不淨、汙穢，甚至是不好的，藉由重重的摩擦力去除掉。如果你想轉換，如果你想轉變，那勢必得先經過脫胎換骨的磨難與考驗，最重要的是你已在心裡準備好即將面對與接受的這一切。 A Blessing for 29 Huang on August 31, 2024: Your nickname made me feel so curious that I couldn't help but ask you right after saying hello, "Why do you call yourself '29 Huang'?" A cute smile appeared on your slightly tanned young face, and you coolly replied, "My surname is Huang, and I am 29 years old this year." I chuckled and asked, "So, was your nickname last year '28 Huang,' and will it be '30 Huang' next year?" You laughed and replied, "I don't know. Last year's nickname wasn't related to this." Oh, young people! Are you the king of conversation enders?! This is such a difficult conversation to continue. "What made you want to come here?" "Curiosity." "Then, is there anything specific you want to ask?" "No." "So, what are you curious about?" "Nothing, just wanted to see what it's like." "Now that you're here, and you've seen it, is there anything you're curious about and want to understand?" "No." "Mr. 29 Huang, we're starting to hit a deadlock here. What should we do?" "Then let's just chat casually." "Okay, how about we talk about work?" As expected, work really is the best topic. Then you were surprised by how well I understood and empathized with the key points of your work environment, which in turn sparked your curiosity about my work background. You said you liked how I described this: "The fierce summer sun is not as vicious as the malice in people's hearts." In the workplace, we don't seek wealth or high status; we only seek safety and stability. Yet, it's like striving for national glory, constantly facing the harsh reality of challenges and difficulties. Before we knew it, our conversation was nearing its end. I told you, if you have no questions, don't waste your money like this anymore. You smiled and replied, "Alright." May the Universe send a Tarot blessing to Mr. 29 Huang: [The Tower] The message from the universe is that the robin is singing, and spring has arrived. It's time to break through the thick ice and to have the courage to leap from the top of a tall tower. During the descent, the friction with the air will remove the impurities, filth, and even the bad things. If you want transformation and change, you must go through the ordeal and trials of rebirth. The most important thing is that you are already mentally prepared to face and accept all of this. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer 題外話先說一下，最近很高頻率抽到這張塔羅牌，但請宇宙給予祝福的是不同的個案。 想來，一直很深奧、神秘、朦朧的宇宙，最近忍不住想對大家說，不要想這麼多，許多時候真的是，我們庸人自擾呀。 人生，就是感受，享受驚喜的旅途。 今天請宇宙送給陸陸三個月寶寶的祝福塔羅牌：【欣喜者 Rejoicer】。 陸陸說，她的寶寶作息有點混亂，搞得她好累，且都沒有自己的時間。 辛苦的陸陸和先生住在外面，家中沒有人可以帶把手的幫一下，也沒有有經驗的人可以請教，所以遇到狀況，都是先上網看一下別人怎麼說；但常陷入另一個問題，就是寶寶的情況跟網路上找到的資訊，有時只有一小部分類似，有時真的不知道要如何辨識，所以陸陸心中壓力好大，每次寶寶哭鬧不停時，她也會覺得是自己沒有照顧好。 感覺陸陸是個可愛的年輕小媽咪，她說查了幾次網路資訊，也不確定到底找到的是不是正確答案，後來她決定打電話跟人請教，這樣效率比較快，資訊也會比較多。 但她也很想有人可以聊聊天，陪她說說話，所以，用一樣的方式來解決，找傾聽者，找陪聊師。 當我稱讚著陸陸的機智決定，她竟然有著害羞的反應，她說，已經很久沒有聽到別人稱讚她了。 我告訴她，辛苦她了，大家看到小寶寶，大部分的人幾乎都會先稱讚寶寶的，但這也是直接在稱讚媽媽的，小寶寶長得頭好壯壯，可愛極了，都是因有用心、溫柔的照顧，而這樣費心、用心的人，就是媽媽呀。 我知道她想要的是被看到的是她這個人，而不是寶寶的媽媽。陸陸說她不是在跟寶寶爭寵的，我明白的。 女性，很是辛苦的。 女孩，是先成為自己後，才是成為妻子和媽媽。 也因如此，當我看到很可愛的寶寶時，我都習慣先讚賞媽媽，肯定得回應她們的辛苦與用心，再誇獎可愛的寶寶。 而，為何我不是請宇宙祝福陸陸，而是祝福陸陸的寶寶。 因陸陸有我這位跨年朋友陪著呀。 且寶寶好，陸陸會更好。 所以就讓陸陸的寶寶，過著開心的寶寶生活，恣意的笑鬧，任性的喧騰，因為我們都知道，像大王、像皇后般被侍候的生活是只有短短的幾年呀。 2024.10.28 LuLu: The Rejoicer Just a side note: I've been drawing this tarot card quite often lately, but I’ve been asking the universe for blessings for different cases each time. It seems that the universe, which has always been so profound, mysterious, and elusive, can’t help but gently remind us not to overthink—often, we’re just troubling ourselves unnecessarily. Life is about feeling and enjoying the journey of surprises. Today, I asked the universe to send a tarot blessing to LuLu’s three-month-old baby: The Rejoicer. LuLu mentioned that her baby’s routine has been a bit chaotic, leaving her exhausted with barely any time to herself. She and her husband live away from family, so there’s no one to lend a helping hand or offer experienced advice. When issues arise, she has to check online for guidance, though she often finds herself facing another problem: sometimes, her baby’s situation only partially resembles what she reads online, making it hard to figure out the right approach. This has left her feeling a lot of pressure, especially when her baby cries without stopping—she wonders if she’s not doing enough. LuLu seems like a sweet young mom. She mentioned looking up information online several times but wasn’t sure if she’d found the right answers, so she decided to start calling others for advice. It’s quicker and more informative that way. Yet, she also wishes for someone to chat with, to just share her feelings, so she’s trying a similar approach by looking for a listener or a companion to talk to. When I praised her clever decision, she shyly admitted that it had been a long time since anyone complimented her. I told her she’s doing a great job. Most people, when they see a baby, will first compliment the baby, but that’s also indirectly complimenting the mom. A healthy, happy baby is the result of attentive and gentle care—and the one who pours her heart into that is the mom. I understand that she wants to be seen as herself, not just as the baby’s mom. LuLu clarified that she’s not competing with her baby for attention, and I get it. It’s tough being a woman. A girl first becomes herself, then becomes a wife and a mother. Because of this, whenever I see a cute baby, I make it a habit to first appreciate the mom, acknowledging her hard work and dedication, and then praise the adorable baby. And why did I ask the universe to bless LuLu’s baby instead of LuLu herself? It’s because she has a friend in me, a companion for the years to come. And when her baby is happy, LuLu will be even happier. So, let LuLu’s baby live the joyful life of a little one—laughing, playing, being wonderfully noisy. Because we all know, that life of being pampered like a little king or queen lasts only a few precious years. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

「優雅是唯一不會褪色的美」奧黛麗赫本的15句優雅語錄

奧黛麗赫本（Audrey Hepburn）出生在「女神」這個詞還沒被廣泛運用的時代，但從她那精緻的臉蛋到她的行為舉止，卻可說是最和「女神」一詞相稱的女星。雖然終其一生她的電影作品算起來並不多，但一半以上都是經典，例如《羅馬假期》、《第凡內早餐》、《窈窕淑女》等。 「經典之所以為經典，在於它的永恆不變」，無論潮流如何更迭、時代的巨輪如何轉動，赫本在大家心目中永遠是「高貴優雅」的代名詞。今天5月4日正是她87歲冥誕，讓我們一起學習她的精神吧！ 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 優雅是唯一不會褪色的美 Elegance is the beauty that never fades. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 我相信粉紅色。我相信開心大笑是燃燒卡路里最棒的方式。我相信親吻、多多親吻。我相信身處逆境時要更堅強。我相信快樂的女孩是最美的。我相信明天又是全新的一天。我相信奇蹟。 I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 女人的美不在於外表，而是她的靈魂。是她給予的關懷以及她展露的熱情。 The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode, but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she shows. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 沒有事情是不可能的，「不可能」這個字本身就含有「不，可能」 Nothing is impossible, the word itself says “I”m possible”! 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 我從不把自己當偶像看。別人的想法並不是我的想法。我只是做好自己的事而已。 I never think of myself as an icon. What is in other people”s minds is not in my mind. I just do my thing. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 生命中最要緊的事即是彼此。 The best thing to hold onto in life is each other. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 最重要的事莫過於享受你的人生，活得開心，這是最重要的。 The most important thing is to enjoy your life—to be happy—it”s all that matters. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 女人的美不在於她穿的衣服、她擁有的體態或者她梳髮的樣子。女人的美絕對是從眼睛散發的，因為那是通往她內心充滿愛的門房。 The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 與其聽從別人口中的評價，你更可以從他評斷別人的言論看出他是什麼樣的人。 You can tell more about a person by what he says about others than you can by what others say about him. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 我想一個人，但不想孤單一人。 I don”t want to be alone, I want to be left alone. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 女人的美是隨著年齡增長的。 The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 我生來便帶著極大被愛的渴望和給予愛的能量。 I was born with an enormous need for affection, and a terrible need to give it. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 當你沒有可以為之泡杯茶的對象，當沒有人需要你，那才是我認為的生命的盡頭。 When you have nobody you can make a cup of tea for, when nobody needs you, that’s when I think life is over. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 隨著年齡增長，你會發現你有兩隻手，一隻是幫助自己，一隻是幫助別人。 As you grow older, you will discover that you have two hands, one for helping yourself, the other for helping others. 奧黛麗赫本的優雅語錄 你心碎了，就這樣。沒有什麼好抱怨或指責的。你只要需要足夠的幸運來找到欣賞你的人。 Your heart just breaks, that”s all. But you can”t judge or point fingers. You just have to be lucky enough to find someone who appreciates you. ＊本文由 ELLE Taiwan 報導，未經授權同意不得轉載＊ 更多流行時尚資訊，盡在《ELLE》 延伸閱讀 「胖沒關係，美就行了！」30句范冰冰的超霸氣語錄 童話故事現代真人版！你不知道的威廉王子與凱特王妃的愛情故事 喬治王子超萌搭訕直擊 凱特王妃出訪最新美照曝光！ 「活出自己的價值才是幸福」 零負評女神林依晨的「晨神語錄」 沒有公主病的真公主！夏綠蒂小公主甜笑超萌特輯 資料來源： ELLE

神鬼獵人、瘋狂麥斯、腦筋急轉彎等十大好片金言

2016年奧斯卡邁入第88屆，今年好片如雲，到底有哪些好片呢？且讓我們用每部片的金玉良言台詞，來帶你走一遭吧！人生總有各式各樣的不如意，但電影裡的故事總能讓我們找到出口，透過金句良言，希望也能帶給大家生命的力量。 我們一共介紹了入圍奧斯卡的10部電影，分別是： 神鬼獵人：復仇應交給上帝，不是我“Revenge is in God’s hands, not mine.” 驚爆焦點：永遠不要猶豫伸出你的手。也永遠不要猶豫接受別人伸出的手。“Never hesitate to hold out your hand; never hesitate to accept the outstretched hand of another.” 驚爆焦點：多一點憐憫 ，能讓世界少一點冷酷和多一點正義。A little bit of mercy makes the world less cold and more just.” 丹麥女孩：我愛妳，因為妳是唯一一直懂我的人。妳讓我存在變得可能。“I love you because you’re the only person who made sense of me. You…made me possible. ” 丹麥女孩：我這輩子沒喜歡幾個人，你／妳就佔了兩個。“I”ve only liked a handful of people in my life, and you”ve been two of them.” 《瘋狂麥斯：憤怒道》 「我們在這荒地遊蕩，該何去何從，才能找到更好的自我？」 《翻轉幸福》 「我相信平凡與不凡每天都在相遇，我有切實的野心和創意，就去實踐。」 翻轉幸福：「你不要以為這世界欠你什麼，這世界什麼也沒欠你。」 《愛在他鄉》 「家就是那個，永遠有個人等著你回來的地方。」 大賣空： 讓你陷入困境的通常不是你不了解的，而是你自認為太了解的。 “It ain”t what you don”t know that gets you into trouble. It”s what you know for sure that just ain”t so.” 大賣空：錯誤的事情總是會東窗事發，我們什麼時候忘了這個千古不變的道理？Fraud has never ever worked. Eventually, things go south. When the hell did we forget all that? 絕地救援：每個人類成員都有一種本能：幫助彼此走出困境“Every human being has a basic instinct: to help each other out. “ 不存在的房間：媽：「你會愛上它的。」傑克：「什麼？」媽：「這個世界。」 不存在的房間:「這裡有好多事情，但是有時候會有點可怕。但是沒問題的，因為這世界還是只有你跟我」 因為愛你：就當你覺得不可能再更糟時，你就發現菸沒了 Just when it can”t get any worse, you run out of cigarettes. 因為愛你：我不知道我要什麼。如果我對每件事都說好，我怎麼可能知道？ I don”t know what I want. How could I know what I want if I say yes to everything? 絕地救援： 我估計你會把這叫做一個“失敗”，不過我更喜歡“學習經歷”的說法。I guess you could call it a “failure”, but I prefer the term “learning experience”. 腦筋急轉彎:「不要鑽牛角尖，問題總能找到出口。」 腦筋急轉彎：「哭泣幫助我們放慢速度去檢視生命中遇到的難題。」 【本文由Marie Claire美麗佳人提供，未經授權，請勿轉載！】 延伸閱讀 說出女人的心聲！凱特布蘭琪面臨人生中的困境 等了23年抱到小金人！李奧納多刻名時這樣開玩笑…… 狂奪六座奧斯卡金獎，「Mad Max 瘋狂麥斯憤怒道」的狂人場景設計到底怎麼來的 2016第88屆奧斯卡完整得獎名單！李奧納多成本屆影帝，首度拿小金人 美麗佳人23週年慶StayDifferent影展 5部超越性別與傳統的精選影片，傳遞無懼不同的勇氣！ 資料來源： Marie Claire美麗佳人

因為Facebook，在世界兩端的她們重新找回另一個自己，天生一對在現實中真實上演！

相遇的故事，宛如電影《天生一對》的電影情節，在現實生活中真實上演。分開近30年的他們，分居地球兩邊，在27歲的Anaïs Bordier，出生於南韓，後來被法國夫妻領養現居於英國倫敦的她，傳送一封Facebook的信開始說起‧‧‧ 在2013年二月的某一天，Anaïs Bordier一位居於倫敦的法國設計師，偶然在YouTube影片看到跟他長的一模一樣的美國女演員－Samantha Futerman。 在一番調查後，發現她不僅也出生南韓，兩人還同月同日生，Samantha也同樣是被領養的。於是Anaïs透過Facebook傳了封訊息‧‧‧ 原文 Hey, My name is Anaïs, I am french and live in London, About 2 months ago, my friend was watching one of your videos with Kevjumba on youtube, and he saw you and thought that we looked really very similar…like… VERY REALLY SIMILAR…we were making jokes about it etc. (I’m always being violent with people and hitting them too hahaha) Today, he saw the trailer of 21 & over and told me he saw you again, I then checked your name on the cast, stalked you A BIT, and found out you were born the 19th of november 1987. I checked more of your videos (which are hilarious) and then came upon how it feels to be adopted’… and discovered you were adopted too. So..I don’t want to be too Linday Lohan, well…but..how to put it..I was wondering where you were born? I was born on the 19th of November 1987, in Busan but my papers were made at the Holt Chuldren’s Institute, so “officially” I was born in Seoul. My korean name is Kim Eunwha. I arrived in France the 5th March 1988, so 3 months later. You can check my facebook if you want to check the pictures and videos. It’s more obvious on videos… Let me know…don’t freak out…Lots of love Anaïs 內容描述大致是說，她與朋友在YouTube看到她參與的影片《21 & over》，發現他們兩個真的長的太像了，在打探一番，發現她生日也在1987年11月19日。而Anaïs又不想太戲劇化嚇到她，只想知道他在哪裡出生。Anaïs闡述了一下自己的出生背景「我出生在釜山，1987年11月19日，身份證明是由Holt幼兒機構所發出，所以官方來說我是在首爾出生的，我的韓國名字叫Kim Eunwha，在出生3個月後，1988年3月5日來到法國。可以看我的Facebook，如果願意和我聯繫的話，請告訴我‧‧‧」 兩人很快的明白，雖然他們一位美國人一位是法國人，受不同的教育與文化薰陶，其實兩位是流著同樣血脈的雙胞胎。 （圖片來源: aplus,facebook） Anaïs與Samantha的第一次見面，連廁所都捨不得上的談上整整3小時。而這讓人感動又激動的故事，從目睹一切到第一次相見、做DNA測試，都將由Samantha Futerman 和 Ryan Miyamoto在Kickstarter上所募集的資金，拍攝成記錄片《Twinsters》。現在就來看看這場，從相認至相識，屬於雙胞胎姊妹的預告旅程。 資料來源： aplus,facebook 

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