Dreamcatcher - Silent night GF

Dreamcatcher - Silent night GFRIEND - Mermaid EXO - Don't go

GFRIEND - Mermaid Dreamcatcher

GFRIEND - Mermaid Dreamcatcher - Silent night EXO - Don't go

Dreamcatcher - Silent night EX

Dreamcatcher - Silent night EXO - Don't go GFRIEND - Mermaid

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity 即將成為新娘的霜霜 聽到妳滿是煩躁的心情，沒有了即將成為新娘的喜悅和幸福，有點替妳擔心。 妳說，剛跟父母吵了架，為了婚禮。 可，妳自己知道，父母的建議才是好的。 妳就是感到很煩，胸口很堵，很想大聲地發脾氣，可又找不到正當理由，所以就只能在討論婚禮的事情上，找大家的麻煩。 妳說，妳擔心著婚禮還沒舉行，大家的情感都吵散了。 我問了妳，當初答應結婚的決定是什麼？ 妳說，男友想結婚，雙方談了未來的一些事情，妳回家問妳爸媽的意思，家人也覺是結婚的好時機，所以妳也就答應。 我說，以為是因男友求婚浪漫，當下衝動Say了”Yes”。 妳說，妳自己是個理智的人，求婚感覺也沒多浪漫，且妳不喜歡很多人注視下的求婚，還好妳男友夠了解妳，沒有做這些安排，不然妳可能當場的反應會傷到很多人的心，情況會變得很尷尬。 我問，結婚，為何讓妳覺得很煩？是婚禮的瑣碎覺得厭煩？還是其他什麼？ 妳說，妳也不知道，就感覺結婚後，妳不能再成為妳，光是想到這點就覺煩躁不已。 我再深入地詢問，妳說，結了婚後，沒有了自由，像是被綁住，無法呼吸。 我微笑著跟妳回應說，我單身，沒有類似經驗的可跟妳分享。不過從家人、朋友、電視、小說裡，有記得一些事情可以分享。 聊到後來，妳說了一句話，我笑了出來。 妳說，妳知道了，妳陷入了煩躁的情緒裡，但沒有好好想過到底為什麼煩躁，所以好像問題很多，其實，現在冷靜想想，原本糾結的事情，有些，連”事”都稱不上，根本就不是問題。 最後我們的結論就是，溝通，跟現在的未婚夫，未來的老公溝通。 妳跟男友之間的愛很濃，妳擔心婚後吵架會把情感吵薄了，可忘了先思考你們會為什麼事情吵架？吵架之前，是否有什麼想法，就提出來先討論，互相了解呢。 最後，妳說，今晚可以好好睡覺了。 然後我們就結束了談話。 妳，感覺像是位女漢子，一但不糾結，就放下。這樣的個性，挺好。 送給妳祝福的塔羅牌：【負面性Negativity】。 來自宇宙的訊息是，提醒碧霜，遇到糾結的事情時，負面思緒和情緒會先慣性地湧現，這部分要注意。在發生這樣的情況時，適時地與相關的人進行討論、分享，有助於卡住的思緒或情緒。 預祝霜霜 新婚幸福 百年好合！ 2024-08-26 Blessings to Bishuang: Dear Bishuang, who is about to become a bride, Hearing your anxious feelings, lacking the joy and happiness of becoming a bride, I feel a bit worried for you. You mentioned that you just had an argument with your parents about the wedding. But you know that your parents' suggestions are well-intentioned. You just feel annoyed, like there's a weight on your chest, wanting to vent loudly but without a proper reason, so you end up taking it out on the wedding discussions. You said you're worried that even before the wedding happens, everyone's emotions will already be scattered by the arguments. I asked you, what was your initial reason for agreeing to get married? You said your boyfriend wanted to get married. Both of you talked about the future, you went home and asked your parents' opinion, and your family also thought it was a good time to get married, so you agreed. I thought it was because of a romantic proposal from your boyfriend, and in a moment of impulse, you said "Yes." You replied that you are a rational person and the proposal wasn’t particularly romantic. Moreover, you don’t like being the center of attention during a proposal. Fortunately, your boyfriend knows you well and didn’t plan anything like that; otherwise, your reaction might have hurt many feelings, making things awkward. I asked why getting married makes you feel so annoyed. Is it the trivialities of the wedding that you find frustrating, or something else? You said you don’t really know; you just feel that after getting married, you can no longer be yourself, and just thinking about it makes you feel uneasy. I probed a little deeper, and you said that after marriage, there would be no more freedom, like being tied down and unable to breathe. I smiled and responded that, as a single person, I don’t have similar experiences to share. However, from family, friends, TV, and novels, I do recall some things that might be worth sharing. As our conversation continued, you said something that made me laugh out loud. You mentioned that you realized you were caught up in your anxious emotions without really thinking about why, so it seemed like there were many problems. However, upon calmly reflecting, some of the things that were troubling you weren’t even real "issues" at all. Our final conclusion was communication—communicating with your current fiancé, your future husband. The love between you and your boyfriend is strong. You worry that arguments after marriage might dilute your feelings, but you forgot to consider what you might argue about. Before arguing, why not bring up your thoughts and discuss them openly to better understand each other? In the end, you said you could finally have a good night's sleep tonight. And then we ended our conversation. You seemed like a strong woman, someone who, once they let go, truly lets go. That’s a great personality to have. The Tarot card drawn for you: Negativity. The message from the universe is to remind you, Bishuang, that when you encounter tangled situations, negative thoughts and emotions might habitually surface first, and you should be mindful of this. When this happens, it is helpful to discuss and share with the relevant people to clear the blocked thoughts or emotions. Wishing you a happy marriage and a lifetime of love! #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0824 給小夜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 0824 給小夜的祝福：皇后 Empress 給有點膽怯的小夜 很高興認識妳。 一開始妳就直接說了妳的問題和現在遇到的困難。我感覺到的是妳的在乎，因在乎，所以迫切想要有個解決的辦法，可以讓現在的擔憂問題獲得解決。 主管的指責和同事的不友善，不只感覺到挫折，對自己又更沒自信，還讓妳在這樣的工作環境中感到不自在，感覺不被接受，不被期待。 因沒有歸屬感，沒有安全感，一直被緊迫盯人的情況下，妳工作的出錯率更高了。 妳擔憂著，主管會不會這幾天就找你，並且要妳離開。 可，對這份工作，妳也沒有一定很想繼續著心情。 妳很猶豫，卻也擔心著。 哪份工作沒有一定只能誰，才繼續下去。 家族事業都有接班人傳承，何況我們這樣的打工人。 可，不管何時離開，我們不能留下不合格的身影的記憶在任何一個地方。 之後也許會自己選擇離開，可現在面對的問題也要先改善，先面對，先解決。 檢討自己是不二法門，尤其是在自己一直犯錯的時候。 檢討若只在腦袋瓜裡想一想，這是無法做到位的。 寫下來，才能真正的面對，才能抓到如何做得好的精髓。 很高興聽到妳能接受並且要馬上試試我的建議。 就如同我跟妳說的，唯有自己想要面對，問題才會迎刃而解。 我的提醒，讓妳原本昏亂的心思和腦袋冷靜下來，妳自己也就找到如何進行的路了。 祝福妳 ~ 接下來工作順利，工作能力提升，主管讚揚，同事欣賞。 給妳的塔羅祝福：【皇后 Empress】。 來自宇宙的消息，將自己的工作做好，是基本的工作態度與責任。做好了工作，其他想要培育和守護的也就自然可以做到，比如同事情誼和主管的讚賞。一步一腳印，扎實地做好工作，這是讓人接受與欣賞的不二法門。 To a Slightly Timid Xiaoye I'm glad to have met you. From the very beginning, you directly expressed your concerns and the difficulties you're facing now. What I sensed was your care; because you care, you are eager to find a solution that can resolve your current worries. The criticism from your supervisor and the unfriendliness of your colleagues not only make you feel frustrated and less confident in yourself, but also uncomfortable in such a work environment, where you feel unaccepted and unwelcome. Without a sense of belonging and security, and constantly feeling under scrutiny, your rate of mistakes at work has increased. You're worried that your supervisor might call you in the next few days and ask you to leave. However, you're not particularly eager to continue in this job either. You're hesitant but also concerned. No job is irreplaceable; even in family businesses, there are successors. Let alone for us, the working class. But regardless of when we leave, we should not leave behind a memory of ourselves as incompetent. Even if you may choose to leave later, the issues you face now still need to be addressed, confronted, and resolved first. Self-reflection is the only way, especially when you keep making mistakes. If you only reflect in your mind, you can't really address the issues properly. Writing it down allows you to truly confront the situation and grasp the essence of how to improve. I'm glad to hear that you are willing to accept and immediately try my suggestions. As I told you, only when you are willing to face the problems will they be resolved easily. My reminders helped calm your confused thoughts and mind, and you found your way forward. Wishing you the best ~ May your work go smoothly, your skills improve, your supervisor praise you, and your colleagues admire you. Your Tarot Blessing: The Empress. A message from the universe: Doing your job well is a basic work attitude and responsibility. When you do your job well, other things you wish to nurture and protect will naturally follow, such as collegial friendships and your supervisor's appreciation. Step by step, diligently doing your job is the best way to gain acceptance and admiration. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

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2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

2024 0826 給霜霜的祝福：負面性 Negativity

Dreamcatcher - Silent night EX

Dreamcatcher - Silent night EX

Dreamcatcher - Silent night EX

2024 0824 給小夜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 0824 給小夜的祝福：皇后 Empress