2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion 在擁擠的人群中，他像一棵大樹，立在那兒，不管旁邊的攤販如何吆喝叫賣著，他就是靜靜地等待。 在傳統市場裡，人們有著共同的行進動線的默契，當然，也有混亂的時候，但，大多數我們總是習慣從入口的右邊開始，一攤攤的逛，然後走到自己覺得可以回頭的點時，再往回走，再逛起另一邊的攤位。 這傳統市場是我這兩年採買食材的地方。 一開始覺好大，現在依然，沒有一次有全程走完，逛完的。 傳統市場就是如此，多去幾次，嘗試購買不同攤位後，自己喜歡的、習慣的攤位差不多也就拿捏準了，後來的採買就是抓緊一個原則，快，狠、準，從入口開始直接衝去目的攤位，盯上，拿起，付錢，轉身，離開，沒多停留的。 可從前兩個月，注意到了這位賣菜的伯伯，第一次看到，沒跟他買，可能我去的時間太晚了，他賣菜板車上剩下的菜，乾乾扁扁的，感覺不能再放。 可，我買菜挑選的需求是可以再放幾天的，一次吃不完那樣多的呀。 再來注意到老伯伯是在颱風後的採買。 每攤的青菜價格都高得嚇壞人，可每個老闆都說，颱風後，有青菜可以採買已是難得，物稀價當然貴。 我忍痛拿出荷包的紙鈔，買了一小把青菜，這確定是有益身體健康，怎我覺買這把青菜，我的心臟好痛。 這樣一小把的葉菜不夠我未來幾天的人體需求，突然之間聽到老伯伯說，一籃菜50元，不論是哪一種菜。 天呀！ 我問伯伯，您這樣有賺嗎？ 他的聲音輕輕的，有點沙啞，說，沒有。颱風剛過，大家都辛苦了，他有去大盤批菜，就出來賣。大家吃新鮮，吃的開心，這次沒有賺，沒有關係。 老伯伯的菜，比一般菜攤的菜看起來老，長比較大，大部分的人買菜喜歡挑嫩一點的。 我覺老伯伯的心意，讓人感動，我挑了兩盆。 伯伯幫我將菜裝進袋子裡的同時，有其他人靠近了。 結果，我開始幫老伯伯推銷他的菜。 伯伯聽到後對我微微笑。 沒多久，伯伯的菜賣掉了九成。 不是我很會叫賣，實在是老伯伯賣的價錢便宜。 回來後，我趁新鮮川燙了其中一種菜，青江菜。 看起來個頭大，可口感不粗糙，菜的纖維沒有想像中的老，不會不好咀嚼，是很可以的。 於是，這次，我特地去找老伯伯買菜。 一樣的身影，一樣的裝扮，一樣的板車，一樣一籃籃的菜，然後，一樣的寧靜。 結果，一樣，忍不住在其他客人靠近時，幫老伯伯叫賣。 沒想到，這時有位歐巴桑，推擠著老伯伯說，老伯伯擋住她的客人了？！ 伯伯的面前是我，我回頭看，沒有人站在我後面啊。 這位歐巴桑說的客人，是？？？ 伯伯也沒跟歐巴桑理論。 歐巴桑動手把伯伯的板車往旁邊挪動，又往前推，我趕緊跳到旁邊，免得撞到。 然後歐巴桑推著她的板車經過我時，叨唸著，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，就是轉不到她的客人前面去。 我自己翻譯成，她一直走來走去，轉來轉去，但都沒有客人上前去。 看了歐巴桑賣的東西，我也只能說抱歉，無法跟她購買呀。 她賣的是痠痛藥膏，這不是我的菜呀。 回家後，老伯伯的身影一直盤繞在腦海裡。 想請宇宙送給老伯伯祝福 ~ 願他安康，願他祥和，願他福氣，願他無生無量。 宇宙送給老伯伯的塔羅牌祝福是【慈悲 Compassion】。 哇！有沒有覺得宇宙、高我、能量、磁場以及塔羅很奇妙。 在總共88張的塔羅牌裡，抽到的牌卡就是如此呼應著老伯伯的調性。 宇宙覺老伯伯的慈悲與祥和是讓人景仰與推崇的。 在世為人，慈悲為懷，虛懷若谷，體諒諒解，寬容包容，這是溫暖的力量，是慈悲祥和的力量，是愛的力量。 November 14, 2024 – The Vegetable Vendor: Compassion Amid the crowded marketplace, he stands like a large tree, rooted in place, quietly waiting while other vendors shout and call to attract customers. In the traditional market, there's an unspoken understanding of the flow of foot traffic, though it can be chaotic at times. Most people start from the right side of the entrance, browsing from stall to stall until they reach a point they consider a turning-back spot, then retrace their steps to explore the stalls on the other side. This market has been my go-to spot for grocery shopping over the past two years. Initially, it felt overwhelmingly large, and even now, I have yet to walk through it in its entirety in a single visit. That's the nature of traditional markets; with each visit, I experiment with different vendors, gradually narrowing down my favorites. Eventually, I adopted a routine: entering, heading directly to the targeted stalls, picking up items, paying, and leaving—no lingering. Two months ago, though, I noticed an elderly vegetable vendor. The first time I saw him, I didn’t buy anything; I was probably too late, and the vegetables left on his cart were somewhat wilted, seemingly unable to last much longer. I prefer produce that I can store for a few days, enough to be used gradually. The next time I noticed him was after a typhoon. Vegetable prices had skyrocketed across all stalls, and vendors explained that post-typhoon greens were scarce and therefore expensive. I reluctantly handed over my cash for a small bundle, painfully aware of the cost for the sake of health. That small bundle wasn’t nearly enough for my needs over the coming days. Then, I overheard the elderly vendor say, “One basket of vegetables, 50 dollars, any kind you want.” I was taken aback! I asked him, "Are you making any profit this way?" With a soft, slightly hoarse voice, he replied, “No. It’s right after the typhoon; everyone’s going through tough times. I managed to get some greens at wholesale, so I brought them out for people to enjoy fresh and happy meals. I won’t make a profit this time, and that’s okay.” His vegetables were more mature and larger than what most shoppers would typically pick, as many prefer tender greens. But I was moved by his kindness and sincerity and chose two baskets. While he packed the vegetables for me, others began approaching his stall. I found myself helping to promote his vegetables. Hearing my efforts, he gave me a gentle smile. Soon, 90% of his vegetables were sold—not because I’m good at marketing but because his prices were simply reasonable. When I got home, I blanched one of the greens—bok choy. Although large, it was surprisingly tender and easy to chew. So, this time, I specifically went back to find the elderly vendor. There he was, with the same demeanor, same attire, same cart, and same quiet presence. Once again, I couldn’t help but encourage other customers to buy from him. Unexpectedly, a middle-aged woman suddenly shoved him, complaining that he was blocking her customers. I was standing in front of him and looked back—there was no one behind me. So, who exactly were her “customers”? Without arguing, the vendor allowed her to push his cart aside. I quickly stepped aside, avoiding a collision as she maneuvered her own cart past me, muttering about how she couldn’t manage to position herself in front of her customers. I interpreted her mutterings as her frustration with not attracting customers. I looked at her goods, which turned out to be pain-relief ointment—definitely not something on my shopping list. Back home, the elderly vendor’s figure lingered in my mind. I silently sent a blessing to him, hoping the universe would grant him health, harmony, fortune, and boundless peace. The Tarot card blessing from the universe for the vendor is Compassion. Isn’t it marvelous how the universe, our higher selves, energy, the magnetic field, and Tarot align in such a magical way? Out of 88 cards, the one drawn resonated perfectly with his spirit. The universe acknowledges the vendor’s compassion and serenity as qualities to be admired. In this world, living with compassion, embracing humility, and showing understanding and tolerance for others embody a warm power—a power of compassionate serenity, the power of love. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor 辛苦了，陸陸，一位新手媽媽。 照顧剛出生三個多月寶寶的妳，在做自己和成為一個好媽媽的角色中徘徊，猶豫中的妳常感到痛苦與辛苦。 痛苦的是，妳覺得怎會有這樣的心態出現，感覺好像對不起自己的寶寶。 辛苦的是，這樣的猶豫與不決，發生的頻率非常高，讓妳在寶寶入睡時，明明已經很累了，卻捨不得休息，因妳害怕著，若不抓住這短短的時間，那妳就更沒有時間，更沒有機會做自己了。 現在的妳，精神不好，體力不佳，沒有人家說的坐完月子，讓身體充分休息與獲得營養滋補的豐腴模樣。 和老公的小小家庭中，不僅沒有人協助，內心的孤單、徬徨更讓妳覺得難過，即使想跟老公說說心裡話，看著他辛苦工作回來後疲憊的樣子，妳內心裡再多的苦澀，也說不出口。 想跟娘家媽媽訴說，又怕遭到責罵。 於是妳決定找我聊聊。 懷孕經驗，我沒有。 生產經驗，我沒有，但有長年痛經的經驗，妳說，這妳不需要。 坐月子經驗，我沒有。 照顧寶寶的經驗，我只有1/10，夠嗎？ 妳說妳笑了出來，當看到我這樣的回應時。 其實，人類始終都是多重角色在生存著。 當我們還小的時候，是孩子，甚至是孫子輩，是兄弟姊妹，也是學生，還有同學與朋友。 長大了，是上班族，但依然還有著孩子的角色，幸福的人也還保有孫 子角色，男女朋友，下屬，同事還有朋友。 當成為媽媽之後，不代表需要漠視、忽視、放棄其他角色。 無論我們一身具備哪些角色，我們自己，絕對不能遺忘呀。 自己是所有其他角色的延伸。 記得自己，照顧自己，認識自己，唯有自己好，其他角色才能做得好。 因此我給妳的建議是，寶寶休息睡覺時，把握這時間，妳也好好休息。寶寶醒來的時候，可以跟寶寶互動，也可讓寶寶自己玩耍，老公回來跟寶寶親近時，這個時段，可以跟老公討論，讓妳做自己想做的事情，即使妳只是躺在沙發上，那也可以，就是不要打擾妳，中斷妳在進行的事情。 平衡，讓我們得以持續擁有能量與力量往前繼續邁進。 宇宙送給妳的塔羅牌祝福是【皇帝 Emperor】。 我腦海中浮現的感受是，請將妳的寶寶視為皇帝，妳是導引他，輔助他，給予他愛和支持的母后。 要成為一個優秀的生命導師，要先有堅強的心智與人生的智慧，要先學習人生的真理與世界運行的道理，要懂得鼓勵與支持，堅持教育與教導，懂得設定目標與堅強地朝目標努力。 當妳明白妳所學習到的，經驗積累的，都是需先成就自己，才有機會傳承給孩子時，成為自己與成為一個好母親，其實是同一件事情，也就不需經歷選擇的過程，也就不會有兩難的痛苦。 祝福陸陸 ~ 妳能想到這樣的猶豫困擾，妳就是已踏上智慧的路途上，成為妳孩子溫暖的依靠。 2024-11-08 To Lulu: The Emperor Thank you, Lulu, a new mother. Caring for a baby just over three months old, you find yourself wavering between being yourself and becoming a good mother. In your hesitation, you often feel both pain and struggle. The painful part is the thought that these feelings somehow mean you’re letting your baby down. The struggle lies in how often these indecisions arise, leaving you reluctant to rest even when your baby sleeps—fearing that if you don’t seize these fleeting moments, you’ll have even less time, even fewer chances, to be yourself. Right now, you’re physically and mentally exhausted. You haven’t had the full rest and nourishing care some say should follow the postpartum period. In your small family with your husband, not only is there no extra help, but the loneliness and uncertainty sometimes feel overwhelming. Even when you want to confide in your husband, seeing him come home so tired from work makes you hesitate, keeping your bitterness inside. You think about talking to your mother, but you’re afraid she might scold you. So, you decided to talk with me. I have no experience with pregnancy. I have no experience with childbirth, though I do know the long struggle of painful menstruation. But you said that wasn’t what you needed. I have no experience with postpartum care. I only have 1/10 of the experience in caring for a baby. Is that enough? You said you laughed when you read my response. Actually, as humans, we always carry multiple roles in life. When we’re young, we’re children, grandchildren, siblings, students, classmates, and friends. As adults, we’re employees, still children, and for the lucky ones, still grandchildren, and we’re also partners, subordinates, colleagues, and friends. Becoming a mother doesn’t mean you have to ignore, neglect, or give up your other roles. No matter what roles we take on, we must never forget ourselves. The self is the foundation from which all other roles extend. Remember yourself, care for yourself, and understand yourself. Only when you are well can you fulfill your other roles well. So, my suggestion for you is to take time for yourself when the baby is asleep. Rest, and when the baby wakes, engage with them or let them play independently. When your husband comes home to connect with the baby, use this time to do something just for you—even if it’s simply lying on the couch, uninterrupted and undisturbed. Balance allows us to sustain the energy and strength to keep moving forward. The tarot card blessing the universe sends you is The Emperor. The feeling that arises in my mind is this: see your baby as the Emperor, and you as the Empress guiding, supporting, loving, and nurturing him. To be an outstanding life guide requires a strong heart and life wisdom. You must first learn the truths of life and understand the principles by which the world operates. It involves learning to encourage and support, committing to teaching and guiding, and setting goals while steadfastly working towards them. When you understand that everything you learn and every experience you gain are all for building yourself so that you may someday pass this on to your child, you’ll realize that becoming yourself and becoming a good mother are, in fact, the same path. There will be no more choices to make, no painful dilemmas to face. Blessings to you, Lulu. Just by reflecting on these struggles and hesitations, you’ve already stepped onto the path of wisdom, becoming the warm support your child can rely on. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1124 可兒：衝浪者 Surfer

2024 1124 可兒：衝浪者 Surfer 活出自己的模樣，是什麼樣子呢，如果有機會認識可兒，你們就會知道了。 可兒，有著自己的事業，她的事業就是她自己很喜歡的事情，於是在結婚後，跟她先生討論後，就創業了。 因為開創了事業，又有了新的想法，於是就發展出新的興趣，然後又將這興趣學習得很專業，進而又有了新的事業。 可兒，長得非常漂亮，帶著親切溫柔的笑容，那天認識了她的朋友，知她甚深的朋友們都開玩笑地說，我是不是誤會了什麼？！ 這是怎麼樣鐵般的女人友情呀！ 很是羨慕可兒。 聽著可兒跟她自己另一個朋友聊到最近新購入的屋子，她很喜歡，且購入後馬上裝修，最近已跟先生入住。 朋友笑說，怎買屋子像買名牌包，如此輕易就下手。 可兒笑說，剛好手上有錢，剛好看到好房，剛好想買新房，就買了。 我喜歡這樣的對話，坦率，真誠。 喜歡那個氛圍，大夥把複雜的世故都關在門外。 在可兒的店裡，不能皺眉，不能心情不好的猛報怨，要開心自在的聊聊天，喝咖啡，這樣老闆才會開心。 這樣美麗幸福又可愛的女子，還需要祝福嗎？ 人美心善的人，更有能力與影響力。可兒的這輩子，可能就是天使下凡，來人世間玩耍，也給人世間帶來歡樂，帶來愛。 宇宙給可兒的祝福是：【衝浪者 Surfer】。 宇宙提醒著可兒，喜歡熱鬧，喜歡歡騰，老是對於可以衝在大夥前面感到興奮和開心，要注意控管情緒和平衡，別讓自己老是成為那顆充滿氣體，鼓著圓滾滾身體的氣球那樣，一放手就瞬間倏地衝上天去，適時地消氣與冷靜也是生活裡重要的事情。 2024.11.24 Ke’er: The Surfer What does it mean to live authentically as yourself? If you have the chance to meet Ke’er, you’ll understand. Ke’er has her own career, one she genuinely loves. After getting married, she discussed it with her husband and decided to start her own business. Through this entrepreneurial journey, she developed new ideas, which sparked new interests. She then pursued these interests professionally, leading to yet another venture. Ke’er is incredibly beautiful, with a warm and gentle smile. The day I met her friends, who know her deeply, they jokingly said, “Did we misunderstand something?” What kind of unshakable bond is this among women? It’s truly enviable. Listening to Ke’er chat with another friend about a newly purchased house, she expressed how much she loved it. She immediately renovated it after the purchase, and she and her husband have already moved in. Her friend teased her, saying, “You make buying a house look as easy as picking up a luxury handbag!” Ke’er laughed and said, “I just happened to have the money, happened to see a good house, and happened to want a new one, so I bought it.” I love conversations like this—straightforward and genuine. I also love the atmosphere in her circle, where all the complications of the outside world are left at the door. In Ke’er’s shop, you’re not allowed to frown or wallow in bad moods with endless complaints. Instead, it’s a place to chat joyfully, sip coffee, and simply feel at ease—this makes the owner happy. Does such a beautiful, happy, and lovable woman even need blessings? Kind-hearted people who are beautiful inside and out often have more power and influence. Perhaps Ke’er is an angel sent to earth to have fun and bring joy and love to the world. The universe’s blessing for Ke’er is: The Surfer. The universe reminds Ke’er, who loves liveliness and excitement, and thrives on being at the forefront, to manage her emotions and maintain balance. Don’t let yourself become like an overinflated balloon—round, buoyant, and ready to shoot skyward the moment you let go. Learning to deflate and calm yourself when needed is also an essential part of life. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor 調養休息了七千多個日子，從原本積極的改變，到享受無所事事的美好，再到提不起勁的生活內容，是又到了該改變的時候了。 為何提不起勁？ 不是沒有事情忙碌，而是常在忙碌完後，原本心中的茫然，沒有隨著執行完一件件的計畫而消失，反而茫然的思緒更為嚴重許多。 於是轉念思考，既然茫然，那就再踏入紅塵人群中吧。 就這樣起心動念了，幾天後，突然收到過去一位主管的訊息，有個機會問我有沒有興趣。 我心中一想，這吸引力法則也太猛烈了吧。 思考幾天後，我拒絕了。 我到底在幹什麼？ 不是想回歸職場嗎？為何又拒絕？ 機會送上門不把握，難道要自己去撞牆，還未必有比較好，這樣才甘願嗎？ 可，有的時候，人類會感到痛苦就是理智與期望中間搖擺不定。現實的考量是其一，不想就此輕易放棄是其二，身體心理狀況還未調整好是其三。 於是我又持續沉浸在沒有變化，沒有思緒，沒有進度的歲月陰溝中。突然，那個決定的時間點降臨了。雖然沒有石破天驚的閃電還是打雷，可就在那一瞬間決定，好，把握機會。 今天的面談結束。回來想冷靜一下，於是抽張塔羅牌，請宇宙來個消息吧。 【感知者 Sensor】關於這個機會的塔羅牌。 有意思，這是要如何來讀牌呢？ 這張牌是權杖子牌，討論權杖牌就會需要回歸抽牌人的內心。所以這是否是機會，是挑戰，是命運，端看我怎麼認為，怎麼思考。 在這個機會裡，我應該會有非常多的體驗與感觸，也會藉由這樣的機會而有不同的改變與成長。 是可期待的。 2024-09-05 Opportunity: Seer After more than seven thousand days of recuperation and rest, from initially striving for change, to enjoying the beauty of doing nothing, and finally to a life lacking enthusiasm, it seems that the time for change has come again. Why the lack of enthusiasm? It’s not because there’s nothing to do, but because the original sense of confusion hasn’t disappeared after completing one plan after another. On the contrary, the feeling of being lost has become even more severe. So, I had a change of mind. Since I felt lost, why not step back into the hustle and bustle of the world? Just as I had this thought, a few days later, I suddenly received a message from a former supervisor about an opportunity, asking if I was interested. I thought to myself, the Law of Attraction works so strongly! After thinking about it for a few days, I declined. What am I doing? Didn’t I want to return to the workforce? Why did I refuse again? A chance knocks on the door, and I don’t seize it. Do I have to run into a wall, with no guarantee of a better outcome, to be satisfied? However, sometimes people suffer from wavering between reason and expectation. One reason is practical considerations, another is the reluctance to give up easily, and the third is that my physical and mental state is not yet adjusted. So, I continued to immerse myself in a stagnant, thoughtless, and unprogressive period of time. Suddenly, the moment of decision arrived. Although there was no earth-shattering lightning or thunder, in that instant, I decided to seize the opportunity. Today’s interview is over. I came back to calm down, so I drew a Tarot card, asking the universe for a message. [The Seer] regarding this opportunity. Interesting, how should this card be interpreted? This card is the Page of Wands, and discussing the Wands cards often requires returning to the drawer's inner self. So whether this is an opportunity, a challenge, or destiny depends on how I perceive it and how I think about it. In this opportunity, I should expect to have many experiences and feelings, and through this opportunity, I will undergo different changes and growth. It is something to look forward to. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0828 給小怡的祝福：滋養 Nurturing

2024 0828 給小怡的祝福：滋養 Nurturing 辛苦了，小怡。 才剛加班完，趕著跟我約。 妳說心情很不好，因為辦公室有不喜歡的人。 這種情緒點我懂。 可是每天都在同一間辦公室，為何今天心情特別不好。 妳想了想說，可能是覺很累吧。 累，是因為加班。 很累，然後看到不喜歡的人也在加班，不舒服的心情就湧上來了。 這樣的小怡，真可愛。 若換成我，我很累，很忙，不喜歡的人卻可以準時下班輕鬆走人，這樣的情況就會激起我的心中怒火。 可位低，無權，言輕的我們，能怎麼辦？ 我分享了過去我自己的做法，妳聽得眼睛睜大，還反問我，可以這樣拒絕主管的指示和安排嗎？ 其實，當然是不太好。只是那時的我真的是年輕氣盛呀。 現在回首，當然會覺得可以有更好的方式和態度去面對及處理，可在那當時，那堵在胸口的一口火氣，吞不下，那就只能選擇冒出頭。 於是磕碰撞痛，走得跌跌撞撞，走得東搖西晃，不是很舒坦的人生路。 我們一邊有點小抱怨工作環境的不如意，一邊嘲笑過去個性嗆辣的我，爭得當下一口氣，不懂伏與忍的謙遜，享受到短暫的快感，逞一時之快，對於現況與問題，依然無力。 我們最後笑話說，就看不到不喜歡的人，降低受其影響，做好自己的工作就是了。 時間久了，也就麻痺了。 麻木了，也就忘了原本一直過不去的坎是什麼。 有點逃避的做法，可我們也不想太過委屈自己。 不喜歡，就是不喜歡。 躲不過，閃遠點總可以吧。 這真的是職場話題常會有的無言的結論呀。 給小怡塔羅祝福：【滋養 Nurturing】。 來自宇宙的訊息，有些事情才剛培植種下，需要時間的養育，在工作上可以多花些精神與氣力，投注更多的耐心與堅持，多扛起一些責任，在果實成熟時，妳將會擁有意想不到的豐收成果。 2024-08-28 Blessings for Xiaoyi: Nurturing You've worked hard, Xiaoyi. You just finished working overtime and rushed to meet me. You said you were in a bad mood because there's someone in the office you don't like. I understand that kind of feeling. But since you're in the same office every day, why did you feel especially bad today? After thinking for a bit, you said it might be because you're feeling very tired. The fatigue is due to overtime work. You're really tired, and then seeing the person you don't like also working overtime just brought up uncomfortable feelings. You're so adorable, Xiaoyi. If it were me, I'd feel very tired, very busy, and if the person I don't like could leave work on time without any hassle, that would ignite a fire in my heart. But what can we do when we're in low positions, have no power, and our words carry little weight? I shared with you how I handled similar situations in the past, and you listened with wide eyes, even asking if it's really okay to refuse the supervisor #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust 小陸從上一個工作裸辭至今也快要近三年。他說倒也不是著急想要回到職場，純粹是因非常確定，也接受了一個事實，那就是，他個人本身，完全沒有自律的好態度，更沒有自我約束的好習慣。 從剛開始，於半夜滑手機平板，一丁點也不想睡覺，到後來，需要睡覺，想要睡覺，身體卻完全不理會大腦的意識與意志，整個狀況就是身體有自己的節奏與步調，完全無視大腦的命令和意志的渴求。 他形容到那次面試的時間是過去二十年來第一次如此快速且短暫的，徵才公司董事長問了三個問題，卻都在還沒完成回答前打斷了他的陳述與說明，甚至不給予時間與機會提出詢問導致他無法獲得更多訊息。 當下他是不悅的，現在的他認為應該聽從這個情緒的直覺。 因當時他被理智腦給說服了，以為董事長如此簡潔有力的抓重點，於管理風格上是強勢且有力道，是直接表達指示、命令，不需下屬或員工的臆測。 事實的真相總是得進入實際環境裡才知道。 面試時說會成為工作夥伴的年輕孩子早就於上個月前離職了，被告知現職的助理可以協助很多事情，實際狀況是空有熱誠，懷有熱情，可惜沒有該職務的工作基礎，沒有相關經驗，也不具備基礎理論，卻是把基本常識當作知識的叫囂著，把每天忙得像陀螺，對於他在旁的指導與建議，充耳不聞，還反過來指責他沒能快速進入狀況。 在職場最害怕不懂專業的人要帶領真正懂得的人，更危險的是下屬以年資來吆喝新進主管。 此處不宜久留，提出去意。 於面試時被告知的職務工作目標與實際狀況不符合，且感覺上是有刻意、惡意掩蓋實際狀況，即使是職場裡的老鳥，在萬惡的資本家面前，也只有被欺凌的份。 宇宙呼應其需要祝福的指引，抽到的塔羅牌是：【信任Trust】。 宇宙說，遭遇到這樣的事情，更是突顯信任的重要。光，是信任的象徵，讓你感受到有光的存在的人，不要害怕，試著再次給予信任，試著看到他人的善良，試著建立與擁抱新關係，宇宙與老天不會給你無法處理的事務，相信自己的能力，相信自己的際遇，相信善良的自己會遇到美好的機緣。 2024 1024 Xiao Lu: Trust Xiao Lu has been out of work for nearly three years since quitting his last job without securing another. He says it’s not that he’s in a hurry to return to the workforce; rather, he has come to terms with a reality—that he himself lacks a good attitude toward self-discipline and does not have the habit of self-restraint. Initially, he would stay up late at night, scrolling on his phone or tablet, without any desire to sleep. Later, when he needed and wanted to sleep, his body completely ignored his mind’s consciousness and will. His body seemed to have its own rhythm and pace, completely disregarding the brain’s commands and desires. He described a recent interview as the fastest and shortest one he’s had in the past twenty years. The chairman of the recruiting company asked him three questions but interrupted him before he could finish each answer. He wasn’t given the time or opportunity to ask questions, leaving him with no further information. At the time, he was displeased, and now he feels he should have trusted his emotional instinct. Back then, however, his rational mind convinced him that the chairman’s concise focus on key points was a sign of a strong, efficient management style—one where instructions are given directly, leaving no need for employees to guess. But the truth only reveals itself once you are in the actual environment. The young colleague, who was supposed to be his future work partner according to the interview, had already left a month earlier. He was told that the current assistant could help with many tasks, but in reality, while passionate and enthusiastic, the assistant had no foundation for the job. Lacking experience and theoretical knowledge, the assistant mistook basic common sense for expertise, staying busy like a spinning top. Worse still, the assistant ignored Xiao Lu’s guidance and suggestions, even blaming him for not adapting quickly enough. What Xiao Lu fears most in the workplace is when someone without expertise leads those who truly understand the work. Even more dangerous is when subordinates use their seniority to shout down a newly appointed supervisor. This was not a place to stay long, so he decided to leave. The job's responsibilities, as described in the interview, did not match the reality, and it felt as though the truth had been deliberately hidden. Even seasoned professionals can find themselves bullied by ruthless capitalists. Seeking guidance, Xiao Lu turned to the universe and drew the Tarot card: Trust. The universe said that encountering such experiences only highlights the importance of trust. Light is a symbol of trust. Don’t be afraid of those who make you feel the presence of light. Try to trust again, try to see the goodness in others, and try to build and embrace new relationships. The universe and the heavens will not give you more than you can handle. Trust in your abilities, trust in your circumstances, and trust that your kind-hearted self will encounter beautiful opportunities. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0830 給馨的祝福：衝浪者 Surfer

2024 0830 給馨的祝福：衝浪者 Surfer 馨 ~ 妳說自己害羞內向，可我卻覺得妳很勇敢，妳希望可以突破原來的樣子，希望自己在喜歡的人面前，可以自在一些。 當看到喜歡的人時，妳會不自覺臉紅，心跳會跳很快，講話會變得結結巴巴的，看來，妳的紅鸞星很是興奮、開心呀。 有喜歡的人，是一件很棒的事情。 面對喜歡的人，舉足無措，那是暗戀的美麗，曾有個作家說，關於愛情，她最喜歡的是曖昧的階段，就是感覺有意卻無心，有時卻變成是像是有心卻無意。 會注意對方的所有，包含情緒反應。 看著對方，不管是怎樣的神情，都自帶濾鏡得覺得真好看。 妳說，從認識之後，他蠻常約妳一起出門，且每次雙方之間都很有話可以聊。 我感覺對方，對妳也是有那麼一點意思的。 在在意的人面前，不管是誰，都是舉促不安，沒有自信，直到確認彼此關係後，才能慢慢地相處自在，自然，到默契十足，身上有著對方的影子。 我鼓勵妳可以藉由即將到來的中秋節，讓自己的情感多表達一些出來。可妳拒絕了，妳說，沒有勇氣，怕會變得尷尬，也擔心著對方不是有著同樣奔赴的心情，那就困窘了。 而妳還沒準備好面對結果，不管是開心還是難過。 套句我最近課程的老師很喜歡說的話 ~ 人，不管做什麼事情，怎麼舒服自在怎麼來。 這位老師是深圳人，所以用詞跟我們不太一樣，但不覺這句話很有舒適坦然的味道嗎？！ 我不只喜歡這句，也非常認同，所以當下就跟妳分享。 不急，想怎麼做，都好；想用怎樣的步伐前進，都好。 唯有妳自己自在了，在感情的水到渠成中，才更能享受愛情的甜與蜜，喜悅與幸福。 為馨的愛情加油打氣，送給馨的塔羅祝福：【衝浪者 Surfer】。 來自宇宙的訊息，希望馨能夠勇敢一些，像個孩子，自然自在的表達自己的情感和喜歡的心情。壓抑，會讓妳更加不知所措，相對的，將情感表露出來，可以享受到情感奔騰時的喜悅與暢快，熱情與興奮。當然我們無法確定對方的心意，不過，我們也知道，沒有讓對方知道，若對方也是消極被動的個性，那結果就有可能會讓人覺得可惜了。 Blessings to Xin on 2024-08-30: Surfer Xin, You say you are shy and introverted, but I think you are very brave. You want to break out of your shell and be more at ease in front of the person you like. When you see the person you like, you can’t help but blush, your heart beats faster, and your words become stuttered. It seems your romantic star is quite excited and happy. Having someone you like is a wonderful thing. Feeling lost and clumsy in front of them is the beauty of a secret crush. A writer once said that what she loves most about love is the ambiguous phase, when it feels like there is intent without intention, and sometimes, it seems like there is intention without intent. You notice everything about the other person, including their emotional responses. No matter what expression they have, they always seem to look good through your eyes. You mentioned that since you met, he often invites you to go out, and you always have a lot to talk about together. I feel that he also has a bit of interest in you. In front of someone who matters, everyone feels uneasy and lacks confidence until the relationship is confirmed. Only then can you slowly feel at ease and natural with each other, reaching a point of deep understanding, with traces of each other in your lives. I encourage you to express your feelings more during the upcoming Mid-Autumn Festival. But you declined, saying you didn't have the courage and were afraid it might become awkward. You’re also worried that he might not share the same feelings, which would be embarrassing. You’re not ready to face the outcome, whether it's happiness or sadness. As my recent course instructor often says, "Whatever makes you feel comfortable and at ease, just do it." This instructor is from Shenzhen, so their wording is a bit different from ours, but doesn’t this phrase have a comfortable and straightforward feeling to it?! I not only like this phrase but also strongly agree with it, so I immediately shared it with you. There’s no rush. Whatever you want to do is fine; whatever pace you want to move at is fine. Only when you feel at ease can you truly enjoy the sweetness and joy, the happiness and fulfillment of a relationship that naturally unfolds. Cheering for Xin’s love, here’s a tarot blessing for you: The Surfer. The message from the universe hopes that Xin can be a bit braver, like a child, naturally and freely expressing her emotions and feelings. Repressing them will only make you feel more at a loss. On the contrary, expressing your feelings allows you to enjoy the joy and exhilaration of emotions running wild, the passion and excitement. Of course, we can't be sure of the other person's feelings, but we also know that if we don't let the other person know, and if the other person is also passive and reserved, the outcome might be regrettable. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer 題外話先說一下，最近很高頻率抽到這張塔羅牌，但請宇宙給予祝福的是不同的個案。 想來，一直很深奧、神秘、朦朧的宇宙，最近忍不住想對大家說，不要想這麼多，許多時候真的是，我們庸人自擾呀。 人生，就是感受，享受驚喜的旅途。 今天請宇宙送給陸陸三個月寶寶的祝福塔羅牌：【欣喜者 Rejoicer】。 陸陸說，她的寶寶作息有點混亂，搞得她好累，且都沒有自己的時間。 辛苦的陸陸和先生住在外面，家中沒有人可以帶把手的幫一下，也沒有有經驗的人可以請教，所以遇到狀況，都是先上網看一下別人怎麼說；但常陷入另一個問題，就是寶寶的情況跟網路上找到的資訊，有時只有一小部分類似，有時真的不知道要如何辨識，所以陸陸心中壓力好大，每次寶寶哭鬧不停時，她也會覺得是自己沒有照顧好。 感覺陸陸是個可愛的年輕小媽咪，她說查了幾次網路資訊，也不確定到底找到的是不是正確答案，後來她決定打電話跟人請教，這樣效率比較快，資訊也會比較多。 但她也很想有人可以聊聊天，陪她說說話，所以，用一樣的方式來解決，找傾聽者，找陪聊師。 當我稱讚著陸陸的機智決定，她竟然有著害羞的反應，她說，已經很久沒有聽到別人稱讚她了。 我告訴她，辛苦她了，大家看到小寶寶，大部分的人幾乎都會先稱讚寶寶的，但這也是直接在稱讚媽媽的，小寶寶長得頭好壯壯，可愛極了，都是因有用心、溫柔的照顧，而這樣費心、用心的人，就是媽媽呀。 我知道她想要的是被看到的是她這個人，而不是寶寶的媽媽。陸陸說她不是在跟寶寶爭寵的，我明白的。 女性，很是辛苦的。 女孩，是先成為自己後，才是成為妻子和媽媽。 也因如此，當我看到很可愛的寶寶時，我都習慣先讚賞媽媽，肯定得回應她們的辛苦與用心，再誇獎可愛的寶寶。 而，為何我不是請宇宙祝福陸陸，而是祝福陸陸的寶寶。 因陸陸有我這位跨年朋友陪著呀。 且寶寶好，陸陸會更好。 所以就讓陸陸的寶寶，過著開心的寶寶生活，恣意的笑鬧，任性的喧騰，因為我們都知道，像大王、像皇后般被侍候的生活是只有短短的幾年呀。 2024.10.28 LuLu: The Rejoicer Just a side note: I've been drawing this tarot card quite often lately, but I’ve been asking the universe for blessings for different cases each time. It seems that the universe, which has always been so profound, mysterious, and elusive, can’t help but gently remind us not to overthink—often, we’re just troubling ourselves unnecessarily. Life is about feeling and enjoying the journey of surprises. Today, I asked the universe to send a tarot blessing to LuLu’s three-month-old baby: The Rejoicer. LuLu mentioned that her baby’s routine has been a bit chaotic, leaving her exhausted with barely any time to herself. She and her husband live away from family, so there’s no one to lend a helping hand or offer experienced advice. When issues arise, she has to check online for guidance, though she often finds herself facing another problem: sometimes, her baby’s situation only partially resembles what she reads online, making it hard to figure out the right approach. This has left her feeling a lot of pressure, especially when her baby cries without stopping—she wonders if she’s not doing enough. LuLu seems like a sweet young mom. She mentioned looking up information online several times but wasn’t sure if she’d found the right answers, so she decided to start calling others for advice. It’s quicker and more informative that way. Yet, she also wishes for someone to chat with, to just share her feelings, so she’s trying a similar approach by looking for a listener or a companion to talk to. When I praised her clever decision, she shyly admitted that it had been a long time since anyone complimented her. I told her she’s doing a great job. Most people, when they see a baby, will first compliment the baby, but that’s also indirectly complimenting the mom. A healthy, happy baby is the result of attentive and gentle care—and the one who pours her heart into that is the mom. I understand that she wants to be seen as herself, not just as the baby’s mom. LuLu clarified that she’s not competing with her baby for attention, and I get it. It’s tough being a woman. A girl first becomes herself, then becomes a wife and a mother. Because of this, whenever I see a cute baby, I make it a habit to first appreciate the mom, acknowledging her hard work and dedication, and then praise the adorable baby. And why did I ask the universe to bless LuLu’s baby instead of LuLu herself? It’s because she has a friend in me, a companion for the years to come. And when her baby is happy, LuLu will be even happier. So, let LuLu’s baby live the joyful life of a little one—laughing, playing, being wonderfully noisy. Because we all know, that life of being pampered like a little king or queen lasts only a few precious years. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0930 婷婷：抱負Aspiration

2024 0930 婷婷：抱負Aspiration 凡人一枚的我，在自己的人生路上跌跌撞撞得，南牆，可是不陌生，撞了好幾回了，應該留下了不少印記在牆面上。 至於是否血淋淋的，還是撞出個小凹洞，甚至害得牆面也裂痕，這我倒是不確定。 總之，我總是撞得自己頭昏眼花，痛到眼眶紅通，眼淚快要飆出時，覺得丟臉就趕緊轉向別處，不敢再回首。 最近花了些時間思考和決定。 已過了三心兩意，一心多用的年紀，現在的腦袋和心臟只夠專注一件事情，沒法分心。 於是忙了那，塔羅的分享就只能中斷。 可惜不？ 那是一定。 但也沒有他法。人總是要為過去內耗過度付出遲來的代價。 萬幸，人生還有選擇機會。 慶幸，還有時間可以再度分享。 昨天是一位年輕的漂亮媽咪，婷婷。 她說著老公總把她當作三頭六臂的”使喚”著。 其實，我覺她在講這些事情的時候，心中甜蜜多過辛苦，得意多過抱怨的。 可能剛結束中秋家人團圓和朋友歡聚，所以在疲憊的情況下，一開始聊的時後情緒和言詞上是有一點點埋怨。 沒有多久，話鋒就轉變。 分享著老公如何護著她和孩子，公婆家如何依賴她和寵著她的孩子。 她希望能成為老公最有力的後勤部隊，對自己的要求頗高，擔憂自己分身乏術，所以才想找人聊一下。 宇宙送給婷婷的塔羅牌是：【抱負 Aspiration】。 宇宙對於婷婷給予直接的鼓勵與祝福。她為家人的努力，會有很好的成果。去做吧，努力加油。 2024 0930 Ting Ting: Aspiration As a mere mortal, I've stumbled and fallen many times along my life's path. The "wall" of failure is not unfamiliar to me—I've run into it more than a few times, probably leaving many marks on its surface. Whether those marks are bloodstained, small dents, or even cracks in the wall, I can't be certain. All I know is that I always end up dizzy, my eyes red from the pain, on the verge of tears. Yet, just when I feel embarrassed, I quickly turn away, not daring to look back. Recently, I took some time to reflect and make a decision. I am past the age of indecision and multitasking; my mind and heart can now only focus on one thing at a time, unable to be distracted. As a result, I’ve had to pause my tarot card sharing. Is it a pity? Absolutely. But there's no other way. We all have to pay a belated price for the excessive energy we’ve drained in the past. Fortunately, life still offers choices. Thankfully, there’s still time to share once again. Yesterday, I spoke with a young, beautiful mother named Ting Ting. She mentioned how her husband often treats her like she has "three heads and six arms," always ordering her around. Yet, I felt that while she was saying these things, there was more sweetness than hardship in her heart, more pride than complaint. Perhaps the recent family gatherings for the Mid-Autumn Festival left her feeling a bit exhausted, so at first, her tone had a touch of grievance. But soon, the conversation shifted. She began to share how her husband protects her and their child, and how her in-laws rely on her and dote on her child. She hopes to be her husband's most powerful support, holding herself to high standards and worrying that she may not be able to handle it all, which is why she wanted to talk to someone. The Tarot card that the universe sent to Ting Ting was: Aspiration. The universe directly encouraged and blessed Ting Ting. Her efforts for her family will yield great results. Go for it, and keep striving. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian 給找工作遇到挫折的孟孟 ~ 妳說工作好難找。都找不到妳想要的。 討論工作這檔事，我擅長，我以前做人力資源的。 我問了問，想找哪一類的工作？ 妳說，文書方面的。 我再問，有文書處理相關的證照嗎？ 妳說，有。 我又問，文書處理相關證照有官方和民間的，這在履歷加分上是不同層次的，妳的證照是哪單位發的？ 妳猶豫不確定，因從沒注意過。 於是，今天的聊天變成是職涯了解了。 我們聊了妳的想法，就業市場對於履歷如何評核，妳要如何讓自己過去的工作表現於文字描寫上呈現出亮眼的優勢。 我們也聊了證照對於求職的加分和幫助。 然後，我也提了一些建議，畢竟聊天的時間很短暫，無法詳盡地說，但有些功課可以自己上網學習。 因此提供一些建議與查詢資料的建議。 最後，妳說，妳沒想到在這次與我的對話裡可以學習到新思維。妳以為就是聽聽妳的心情，聽妳的抱怨與不安；妳未曾設想過竟然可以獲得具體且有用的事情。 我說，緣分很奇妙吧！老天知道妳面臨的問題，於是安排了妳我這場的相聊。 送給孟孟的塔羅祝福：【守護者 Guardian】 來自宇宙的消息，認真的孟孟，妳的心智如同水晶般，閃耀與美麗。可也因妳美麗的心智迷人且豐富，容易被迷惑，容易被利用。所以要如何守護好妳的初衷，妳的心智，不受外界影響，那是很重要的事情。 祝福孟孟找到喜歡的且合適的工作，並且加強鍛鍊自己的心智，美好的未來，就在不遠前方等著妳。 Blessing for Mengmeng on August 27, 2024: To Mengmeng, who is facing difficulties in job hunting ~ You mentioned that finding a job is challenging and you haven't been able to find what you want. Discussing job-related matters is my expertise—I used to work in human resources. I asked, "What kind of job are you looking for?" You replied, "Something related to clerical work." I then asked, "Do you have any certifications related to clerical work?" You answered, "Yes, I do." I further inquired, "There are official and unofficial certifications related to clerical work, and they add different levels of value to your resume. Which institution issued your certification?" You hesitated, unsure, as you had never paid attention to this before. Thus, today's chat turned into a career exploration session. We talked about your thoughts, how the job market evaluates resumes, and how to highlight your past job performances in writing to stand out. We also discussed how certifications can enhance your job search. Then, I gave some suggestions. After all, our chat was brief, and I couldn't cover everything in detail, but there are some things you can research online yourself. So, I provided some advice and tips for further study. Finally, you said you hadn't expected to gain new perspectives from our conversation. You thought it would be just about sharing your feelings, complaints, and anxieties; you never imagined you would receive concrete and useful information. I said, "Isn't fate amazing? The universe knew about the challenges you are facing, so it arranged for us to have this conversation." Tarot Blessing for Mengmeng: [Guardian] A message from the universe: Dear diligent Mengmeng, your mind is like a crystal—bright and beautiful. However, because your beautiful mind is charming and rich, it's easy to be misled or taken advantage of. Therefore, knowing how to protect your original intentions and keep your mind from being influenced by external factors is very important. I wish Mengmeng finds a job that you love and suits you well. May you also strengthen and sharpen your mind. A wonderful future is just waiting for you not far ahead. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

DreamCatch...搜尋結果

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1114 賣菜老伯伯：慈悲 Compassion

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1108 陸陸：皇帝 Emperor

2024 1124 可兒：衝浪者 Surfer

2024 1124 可兒：衝浪者 Surfer

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0828 給小怡的祝福：滋養 Nurturing

2024 0828 給小怡的祝福：滋養 Nurturing

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 0830 給馨的祝福：衝浪者 Surfer

2024 0830 給馨的祝福：衝浪者 Surfer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 0930 婷婷：抱負Aspiration

2024 0930 婷婷：抱負Aspiration

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian

2024 0827 給孟孟的祝福：守護者 Guardian