2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation 給迷茫中的可欣 ~ 迷茫是人生中一定會遇到的坎，可出現還不只一次。 一開始我確實以為想聊這話題的妳，可能才剛從學校畢業沒有多久。 妳擁有敏銳的直覺，馬上告訴我妳是一位30歲的大女孩，然後又馬上反應出對這樣的年紀還對未來是沒有方向的，覺害羞，不好意思。 若年紀是標準，那現在半百的我，對於接下來還在找尋方向，確認目標，不就得自我羞愧而亡了。 不應該這樣思考的。 年紀，累積了經驗，增添了智慧，突破了困難，並不是就代表接下來就一帆風順的。 人生無論何時都常會遇到需要思考，需要適應調整的局面。 誰幾歲遇到什麼事情，這也沒有一定的公式可套入，畢竟，人生的軌跡不會重疊，不會一致，只有類似，卻又不盡相同。 請宇宙送給妳的祝福，抽到的塔羅牌是【停滯 Stagnation】。 有點遺憾，可這樣也好。 跟妳聊天過程中，確實有發現妳沒有很專心，同時間可能還在進行其他的事情，甚至也許我們的對話內容沒能吸引住妳的注意力，所以妳的回覆和回應都是簡短的語句，感覺有點在應付我而已。 若真是這樣的情形，那真是蠻可惜的。妳錯過了我的金玉良言，錯失了我經驗的分享，錯開了我識人、讀人的到位剖析。 也許就是因為如此，即使經過聊天後，妳還沒懂得現在所處的問題核心是什麼，所以妳被困住了，無法行動，無法前進。 認知沒有打破，意念沒有形成，沒有因緣俱足的能量，也就造成窒礙難行的情景。 想改變，需打自內心。 這是我個人經驗打磨出來的結論。 很多話，不需說出口。 因妳要說服的人是妳自己。 靜下心，好好思考。想要什麼，適合什麼，只有自己最清楚，旁人所說的，只會是建議，只能是僅供參考而已。 2024/11/20 To Kexin: Stagnation To the lost Kexin ~ Feeling lost is an inevitable part of life, and it’s something we’ll encounter more than once. Initially, I thought that someone who wanted to discuss this topic might have just graduated from school. But your keen intuition quickly corrected me, revealing that you are a 30-year-old young woman. Then, almost instantly, you shared a sense of embarrassment and unease about still feeling directionless at your age. If age were the benchmark, then I, at almost 50, would have to drown in shame for still searching for direction and clarifying my goals. But this is not the way to think. Age accumulates experiences, adds wisdom, and helps us overcome challenges—but it doesn’t guarantee smooth sailing ahead. Life, at any stage, often presents situations requiring deep thought, adaptation, and adjustment. There’s no fixed formula for when and what kind of challenges one might face. Life paths don’t overlap or align perfectly; they’re only similar yet uniquely distinct. The Tarot card drawn for you, as a blessing from the universe, is Stagnation. It’s a little disappointing, but perhaps it’s a good thing. During our conversation, I noticed that your attention wasn’t entirely focused. Perhaps you were multitasking, or maybe our discussion didn’t capture your full interest. Your responses were brief, almost as if you were merely humoring me. If that’s the case, it’s truly a pity. You missed my pearls of wisdom, my shared experiences, and my sharp insights into understanding and analyzing people. Perhaps that’s why, even after our chat, you still don’t grasp the core issue of your current situation. You remain stuck, unable to act or move forward. When your understanding hasn’t shifted, your mindset hasn’t formed, and the necessary energy hasn’t come together, obstacles arise, and progress is hindered. To create change, it must come from deep within your heart. This conclusion is one I’ve honed from my own experiences. Many things don’t need to be said aloud. After all, the person you need to convince is yourself. Take a moment to quiet your mind and think deeply. What do you truly want? What suits you best? Only you can know these answers. What others say are merely suggestions—for reference, and nothing more. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0930 婷婷：抱負Aspiration

2024 0930 婷婷：抱負Aspiration 凡人一枚的我，在自己的人生路上跌跌撞撞得，南牆，可是不陌生，撞了好幾回了，應該留下了不少印記在牆面上。 至於是否血淋淋的，還是撞出個小凹洞，甚至害得牆面也裂痕，這我倒是不確定。 總之，我總是撞得自己頭昏眼花，痛到眼眶紅通，眼淚快要飆出時，覺得丟臉就趕緊轉向別處，不敢再回首。 最近花了些時間思考和決定。 已過了三心兩意，一心多用的年紀，現在的腦袋和心臟只夠專注一件事情，沒法分心。 於是忙了那，塔羅的分享就只能中斷。 可惜不？ 那是一定。 但也沒有他法。人總是要為過去內耗過度付出遲來的代價。 萬幸，人生還有選擇機會。 慶幸，還有時間可以再度分享。 昨天是一位年輕的漂亮媽咪，婷婷。 她說著老公總把她當作三頭六臂的”使喚”著。 其實，我覺她在講這些事情的時候，心中甜蜜多過辛苦，得意多過抱怨的。 可能剛結束中秋家人團圓和朋友歡聚，所以在疲憊的情況下，一開始聊的時後情緒和言詞上是有一點點埋怨。 沒有多久，話鋒就轉變。 分享著老公如何護著她和孩子，公婆家如何依賴她和寵著她的孩子。 她希望能成為老公最有力的後勤部隊，對自己的要求頗高，擔憂自己分身乏術，所以才想找人聊一下。 宇宙送給婷婷的塔羅牌是：【抱負 Aspiration】。 宇宙對於婷婷給予直接的鼓勵與祝福。她為家人的努力，會有很好的成果。去做吧，努力加油。 2024 0930 Ting Ting: Aspiration As a mere mortal, I've stumbled and fallen many times along my life's path. The "wall" of failure is not unfamiliar to me—I've run into it more than a few times, probably leaving many marks on its surface. Whether those marks are bloodstained, small dents, or even cracks in the wall, I can't be certain. All I know is that I always end up dizzy, my eyes red from the pain, on the verge of tears. Yet, just when I feel embarrassed, I quickly turn away, not daring to look back. Recently, I took some time to reflect and make a decision. I am past the age of indecision and multitasking; my mind and heart can now only focus on one thing at a time, unable to be distracted. As a result, I’ve had to pause my tarot card sharing. Is it a pity? Absolutely. But there's no other way. We all have to pay a belated price for the excessive energy we’ve drained in the past. Fortunately, life still offers choices. Thankfully, there’s still time to share once again. Yesterday, I spoke with a young, beautiful mother named Ting Ting. She mentioned how her husband often treats her like she has "three heads and six arms," always ordering her around. Yet, I felt that while she was saying these things, there was more sweetness than hardship in her heart, more pride than complaint. Perhaps the recent family gatherings for the Mid-Autumn Festival left her feeling a bit exhausted, so at first, her tone had a touch of grievance. But soon, the conversation shifted. She began to share how her husband protects her and their child, and how her in-laws rely on her and dote on her child. She hopes to be her husband's most powerful support, holding herself to high standards and worrying that she may not be able to handle it all, which is why she wanted to talk to someone. The Tarot card that the universe sent to Ting Ting was: Aspiration. The universe directly encouraged and blessed Ting Ting. Her efforts for her family will yield great results. Go for it, and keep striving. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1116 小夜：財富 Fortune

2024 1116 小夜：財富 Fortune 親愛的小夜 短短相識的時光裡，剛開始的妳熱情，像是急著要求表現，會一直不斷發出求鼓勵的訊息給妳身旁的人，但不包括我。 我能明白這樣背後的心情。 當一個人對於自己所處的位置感到不踏實，擔憂會被人看出來那虛弱的能力，總會有不同於平常的反應。 我的出現並非是要指摘這部分的狀況，我覺能有默契，能互相，能討論的一起合作是職場上最棒的模式。 知識、技術還是專業，趕快學習，盡快累積，就可以了呀。 態度，是基本。 很可惜的是，對於我思緒的分享妳未能聽進，並沒有放在心裡。 妳整天像個陀螺一直轉，可真正完成的事情卻沒有，連一份資料建檔都分好幾次才完成，妳永遠在重新進入一項工作的進度到哪，因為妳總是被人或事打斷後，就轉頭去忙其他的事情。 沒有邏輯，沒有輕重緩急，沒有選擇性的瞎忙，這讓我擔憂不已。 我也是妳自己不小心說出口才知道原來妳背有靠山。 是我眼拙了。 已經厭倦人情糾葛角力鬥爭的我，很快地就明白這兒不適合我的調性。很快地又有新進人員補上了我那沒坐熱的位置，然後那人跟妳共事相處後即刻跟高階主管請命希望公司可以讓妳離開，因覺妳不合適。 說實在的，這樣的發展讓我驚訝不已。過往，對於不適任的同仁我也是會選擇建議中止勞雇關係，可不會是在如此短的時間就下決定。 從妳的文字裡接收到妳憤怒、生氣的情緒。 於是我請宇宙送給妳祝福，抽到的塔羅是【財富 Fortune】。 找到妳的天賦在哪，很是重要。 也許妳有嚮往的工作或職位，那花時間去了解，是否真對妳合適。 記得嗎？我們剛認識的第一天，我一直跟妳詢問與確認，是否真的想要從事這類型工作？現在一直讓妳有情緒的事情都是這職位工作內容的日常。 妳擁有很好的熱情與積極特質，把這運用發揮在妳擅長的方向，事情就會如抓到風的尾巴，乘風飛翔起來。 2024.11.16 Xiao Ye: Wealth (Fortune) Dear Xiao Ye, In the short time we've known each other, you started with an intense enthusiasm, as if eager to prove yourself. You kept sending out messages seeking encouragement to those around you—but not to me. I can understand the emotions behind this. When someone feels insecure about their position, worried that their weaknesses might be exposed, they often react differently from their usual self. My presence wasn’t meant to criticize this; I believe the best workplace dynamic is built on mutual understanding, collaboration, and open discussion. Knowledge, skills, and expertise—just learn them quickly and accumulate them as soon as you can. Attitude is the foundation. Unfortunately, it seems my thoughts didn’t reach you or leave any impression on you. You were constantly busy, spinning like a top all day long, yet accomplishing little. Even a single task like filing a document required multiple attempts to complete. You were always restarting your work because you’d get interrupted by people or things, then shift your focus elsewhere. Lacking logic, prioritization, and discernment, you were stuck in aimless busyness, which worried me deeply. It was only by accident that I learned you had some backing, something I initially overlooked. As someone weary of office politics and power struggles, I quickly realized this environment wasn’t a fit for me. Soon, a new hire replaced me in the position I barely warmed, and after working with you, that person immediately appealed to senior management, suggesting your departure due to perceived unsuitability. Frankly, I was quite surprised by how things unfolded. In the past, I have recommended terminating employment for colleagues who were unfit for their roles, but never within such a short time frame. From your messages, I could sense your anger and frustration. So, I asked the universe to send you a blessing, and the Tarot card drawn was “Wealth (Fortune).” It is crucial to discover where your talents truly lie. Perhaps you have a dream job or role you admire—take the time to explore whether it genuinely suits you. Do you remember our first day together when I kept asking and confirming whether you truly wanted to pursue this type of work? The things now upsetting you are simply the daily realities of this job. You have admirable passion and a proactive spirit. If you channel these qualities into an area you excel in, you’ll catch the tailwind and soar. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1219 江蕙演唱會：報酬 回饋 Reward

2024 1219 江蕙演唱會：報酬 回饋 Reward 看到很喜歡的歌手江蕙要開演唱會的消息，很是替江蕙開心。 她的歌聲，撫癒安慰過很多人的心靈，她的溫柔嗓音，極具療癒的能量。 前幾週在跟弟弟的通話裡，我淚流得不停。 子欲養而親不在之痛，常折磨著我。 夏天，就會想到爸爸喜歡泡冷泉，過去每次想請假帶他去，老人家總擔心常請假會造成我在公司工作上的困難，即使再三跟他保證絕對不會，他還是固執堅持不肯。 後來還會跟我說，即使我請假，也都預約安排好，他就是不會去。 結果，就是再也沒有機會了。 秋天，是我和爸爸最喜歡的日本青森蘋果盛產季節。 當時工作忙碌的我訂購，然後快遞寄回家裡。 收件人寫著爸爸的名字，因一生都在付出，送禮物給家人的他，很少用這樣的方式收到禮物。 他一邊碎念著我就愛玩這些五四三，內心裡卻是很開心。 有朋友笑有必要這樣多此一舉嗎？明明就住附近。 我開心得回應說，這是種特別的儀式，跟我拿回家，讓他開心地點不一樣。 過去用心的地方就是現在這幾年心痛的時刻。 多想再買好幾次水果寄給爸爸。 多想再安排很多次驚喜給爸爸。 江蕙的演唱會，也是曾經送給爸爸的禮物。 爸爸從未參加過演唱會，旦他又無法久坐，為了這些我絞盡腦汁。 光是買到門票就是一個工程。 謝謝那時協助幫忙買到票的同事，因為是秒殺，所以中午休息時間一到，數十位同事一起幫忙購買，才搶奪成功。 真的是非常幸福，有這麼多人幫忙。 真的是非常幸運，買到票了。 快到演唱會的日期，公司發生了讓人難過的事情。 高階主管的離世讓許多人心都慌了，這位是提攜、扶持、協助後進成長、茁壯至獨立單飛非常付出的主管。 他的告別式剛好與演唱會同一天。 我，該如何是好啊？！ 最後我們出動了三台車，讓當天都順順利利圓圓滿滿。 首先，一大早，我將車停放在演唱會舉辦場地的停車場，這種時候，停車費已不是考量因素，而是如何在演唱會結束時，可以快速離開現場，讓爸爸早點回家休息。 同事開著車至停車場接我前往告別式現場。 送別了主管，大夥找一個地方坐坐，喝咖啡，一來是太感傷難過了，二來是讓我趁機休息一下，晚上還需要照顧爸爸。 回到演唱會場地後，等待哥哥開車送爸爸來演唱會現場。 直至當晚深夜回到家，我悲傷與興奮的情緒交錯著。 這真的是充滿不捨、愛與重視、珍惜的一日。 江蕙要再開演唱會了，爸爸已離開了。 現在，演唱會對我已沒有太強大的吸引力了。 最美的風景，我已親臨看過。 最美好的戰役，我也陪爸爸一起奮戰過。 最棒的回憶，在我腦海裡，刻印在我心裡。 而江蕙的歌聲，聲聲切切依然能牽引著我的思念，將我勾回那晚在台北小巨蛋的座位，我問爸爸，你開心嗎？ 傲嬌的爸爸說，下次不要再這樣安排了，麻煩到好多人，他覺很不好意思。 我同爸爸說，別擔心。人情，我還，你呢，就負責開心享受。 爸爸，若我現在再問你一次，那次我們一起去聽江蕙的演唱會，你開心嗎？！你會想怎麼回答我呢。 請宇宙送給江蕙演唱會的塔羅祝福：【報酬 回饋 Reward】。 這真是美好的祝福。這演場會圓了許多人的期待，功德無量。 我期盼著自己的能力與能量也能慢慢地豐厚，有一天，也能大大地撫慰安慰有心人。 福生無量 ~ #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1121 佩蓉：和諧 Harmony

2024 1121 佩蓉：和諧 Harmony 我很喜歡佩蓉這個小女孩，從認識她開始，不管何時跟她對話，她的回應，她的語句和用詞，甚至文字，都是那樣輕輕得語調，帶著正向，不評論、不指責。 曾問她，下班後，她都在忙什麼呢？ 她的答案讓人大吃一驚，卻又在聽完答案後，有著了然的認知與喜悅，很想送給她祝福。 當然，我當下也馬上回應給她我內心的感動與祝福的話。 佩蓉說，她下班後，會先騎車去黃昏市場買菜，然後回家煮晚飯，等爸爸、哥哥及姊姊下班後，回到家有熱騰騰的飯菜吃，就如同媽媽還在世的時候那樣。 佩蓉的媽媽生病離開了。 記得那天她跟我說時，眼睛閃著碎光，她抬起頭，用力眨眨眼，硬是把淚水擠回去，不讓流下。 帶點哭意的微笑，她說，不能說了，不能講媽媽，她會無法忍住。 於是她說著她開始學煮飯的事情。 佩蓉在公司是短時間打工，年紀輕輕的她，為何是做這樣的決定？在那家公司短暫協助幫忙完後，她有著自己的重要規劃。 她要和雙胞胎姐姐一起創業，開早餐店，賣飯糰。 她喜歡料理，喜歡做菜給爸爸、哥哥姊姊吃，她想要多花一點時間跟家人在一起，而上班，佔據太長的清醒時間，所以決定創業。 我覺她的決定真好。 一個很棒的女孩，有自己的想法、規劃，又孝順。 因此請宇宙送給她祝福，抽到的塔羅牌是【和諧 Harmony】。 非常貼近佩蓉的個性與處事方式，不急不躁的做著應該做的工作，不管是哪位同事前來詢問事情，沒有將個人喜惡情緒放入，就是傾聽問題，協助處理或回覆。 在她年紀輕輕，又個子小小的身上，我看到了悠悠歲月慢慢地過的寧靜祥和。 佩蓉只要持續地保持自己現在的模樣，就能實現她的理想生活。 莫忘初衷。 2024/11/21 - Peirong: Harmony I really like Peirong, this young girl. Since I first met her, no matter when we have conversations, her responses, choice of words, and even her written expressions always carry a soft and gentle tone—positive, non-judgmental, and free of criticism. Once, I asked her what she usually does after work. Her answer was astonishing at first, but as I listened, it filled me with understanding and joy. I couldn’t help but want to send her blessings. Of course, I immediately shared with her the heartfelt emotions and blessings I felt at that moment. Peirong said that after work, she rides her bike to the evening market to buy groceries, then goes home to cook dinner. She ensures that when her father, brother, and sister return from work, they are greeted with a warm, home-cooked meal—just like when their mother was still alive. Peirong’s mother had passed away after an illness. I still remember the day she told me this. Her eyes sparkled with fragments of light as she tilted her head upward, blinking hard to force back tears, refusing to let them fall. With a tearful yet smiling expression, she said, “I can’t talk about it; I can’t mention Mom, or I won’t be able to hold back.” She then shifted the conversation to how she started learning to cook. Peirong works part-time at the company for a short period. Such a young girl—why did she make this choice? After completing her temporary role at the company, she has her own important plans. She and her twin sister plan to start their own business—a breakfast shop selling rice rolls. She loves cooking and enjoys making meals for her father, brother, and sister. She wants to spend more time with her family, and since work takes up too much of her waking hours, she decided to pursue entrepreneurship. I think her decision is wonderful. She’s an amazing girl with her own ideas and plans, as well as a deep sense of filial piety. So, I sent blessings to her through the universe. The Tarot card drawn for her was Harmony. It perfectly aligns with Peirong’s personality and approach to life. She does her work with calmness and patience. Regardless of which colleague approaches her with questions, she sets aside her personal emotions, listens attentively, and assists with solutions or responses. In her young age and petite frame, I see a serene tranquility that reflects the slow, steady passing of time. As long as Peirong continues to stay true to herself, she will achieve the life she envisions. Never forget your original intention. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1117 Derek：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1117 Derek：欣喜者 Rejoicer Dear Derek, 自從你跟我說了你遇到的困境與問題後，對於你的情況，我實在是沒有實質能力可幫忙，記得當下能為你做的就是向宇宙請求指引，並將訊息轉達給你。 那時的你，心亂如麻，心思紊亂的情況下，恐也無法聽進去太多。 今天稍早突然湧起一股直覺，想再度請求宇宙給予你祝福。 抽到的塔羅牌是【欣喜者 Rejoicer】。 真是太好了。我的心，鬆了一口氣，看來你的貴人應該是有被你的熱誠和誠意打動了，助你一臂之力，扶你度過難關。 我也就趁著心意正熱，心情因抽到的牌卡為你感到歡喜，詢問了你： 現在的情況如何了？一切都還好嗎？是否正如抽到的牌卡，問題解決，事情正在轉好中，而你，也因此次的經驗，更懂得，也更明白，更珍惜，急就章的風險，冒進的危險，及伙伴共事之情誼與私人情感交流是不相同的遊戲。 你回覆說，總算，鬆一口氣。不過，貴人對於你的事業現況有很多建議與看法，要你提交改善計畫書，也要提列更為具體的還款時間表。 你說，還是不能掉以輕心，但，最為危難的時間確實已過去。 哇！姊姊我真的是很為你高興。 這人生課程，學習費不便宜，換從高度思危來衡量，值得。 畢竟，你才20幾歲，何況，這不會是你唯一的一次創業。 人生中，遇到的，都是有利於自己的，且都是此生必要走過的路。 跌倒，讓人生經驗值瞬間加值好幾倍。 跌跤跌的早，不愁沒有早知道，因為留的青山在，不怕沒柴燒。 坎坷年輕走，年輕，貴在跌得起，因我們還有時間可以爬起身，站起來，再度投入奮戰，擁抱東山再起的乘風歸來。 福生無量。祝福你 ~ 2024-11-17 Derek: Rejoicer Dear Derek, Ever since you shared your challenges and difficulties with me, I’ve been acutely aware that I lack the practical ability to help you. At the time, all I could do was ask the universe for guidance and relay the messages to you. Back then, you were in a state of turmoil—your thoughts chaotic and scattered—making it hard for you to absorb much. Earlier today, I suddenly felt a strong intuition to once again seek blessings for you from the universe. The Tarot card I drew was The Rejoicer. How wonderful! I felt a sense of relief wash over me. It seems that your benefactor must have been moved by your passion and sincerity, lending you a helping hand to navigate through this difficult time. While feeling this surge of joy and warmth from the card’s message, I took the opportunity to ask about your current situation: How are things now? Is everything okay? Are things improving as suggested by the card? Has the issue been resolved? And most importantly, have you, through this experience, gained deeper understanding and clarity? Perhaps now you better recognize the risks of quick fixes, the dangers of being overly ambitious, and the differences between professional partnerships and personal emotional connections. You replied, “Finally, I can breathe a little easier.” You also mentioned that while your benefactor has provided significant guidance and support, they also have many suggestions and opinions about your current business state. They’ve asked you to submit a plan for improvement along with a more concrete repayment timeline. You admitted you cannot let your guard down just yet, but the most critical and dire period has indeed passed. Wow! I’m genuinely happy for you. This life lesson may have come at a steep price, but when evaluated from a higher perspective, it’s worth it. After all, you’re only in your twenties, and this is unlikely to be your last entrepreneurial venture. In life, every encounter is for our growth, and every path is one we’re meant to walk. Falling down can instantly multiply our life experience several times over. Falling early in life ensures fewer regrets down the road because, as long as the “green hills remain,” there will always be fuel for the fire. Facing hardships while young is a blessing. Youth allows us to recover from setbacks, to stand up again, to rejoin the fight, and to one day return triumphantly, riding the winds of our resurgence. May blessings be abundant. Wishing you the best! #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer 題外話先說一下，最近很高頻率抽到這張塔羅牌，但請宇宙給予祝福的是不同的個案。 想來，一直很深奧、神秘、朦朧的宇宙，最近忍不住想對大家說，不要想這麼多，許多時候真的是，我們庸人自擾呀。 人生，就是感受，享受驚喜的旅途。 今天請宇宙送給陸陸三個月寶寶的祝福塔羅牌：【欣喜者 Rejoicer】。 陸陸說，她的寶寶作息有點混亂，搞得她好累，且都沒有自己的時間。 辛苦的陸陸和先生住在外面，家中沒有人可以帶把手的幫一下，也沒有有經驗的人可以請教，所以遇到狀況，都是先上網看一下別人怎麼說；但常陷入另一個問題，就是寶寶的情況跟網路上找到的資訊，有時只有一小部分類似，有時真的不知道要如何辨識，所以陸陸心中壓力好大，每次寶寶哭鬧不停時，她也會覺得是自己沒有照顧好。 感覺陸陸是個可愛的年輕小媽咪，她說查了幾次網路資訊，也不確定到底找到的是不是正確答案，後來她決定打電話跟人請教，這樣效率比較快，資訊也會比較多。 但她也很想有人可以聊聊天，陪她說說話，所以，用一樣的方式來解決，找傾聽者，找陪聊師。 當我稱讚著陸陸的機智決定，她竟然有著害羞的反應，她說，已經很久沒有聽到別人稱讚她了。 我告訴她，辛苦她了，大家看到小寶寶，大部分的人幾乎都會先稱讚寶寶的，但這也是直接在稱讚媽媽的，小寶寶長得頭好壯壯，可愛極了，都是因有用心、溫柔的照顧，而這樣費心、用心的人，就是媽媽呀。 我知道她想要的是被看到的是她這個人，而不是寶寶的媽媽。陸陸說她不是在跟寶寶爭寵的，我明白的。 女性，很是辛苦的。 女孩，是先成為自己後，才是成為妻子和媽媽。 也因如此，當我看到很可愛的寶寶時，我都習慣先讚賞媽媽，肯定得回應她們的辛苦與用心，再誇獎可愛的寶寶。 而，為何我不是請宇宙祝福陸陸，而是祝福陸陸的寶寶。 因陸陸有我這位跨年朋友陪著呀。 且寶寶好，陸陸會更好。 所以就讓陸陸的寶寶，過著開心的寶寶生活，恣意的笑鬧，任性的喧騰，因為我們都知道，像大王、像皇后般被侍候的生活是只有短短的幾年呀。 2024.10.28 LuLu: The Rejoicer Just a side note: I've been drawing this tarot card quite often lately, but I’ve been asking the universe for blessings for different cases each time. It seems that the universe, which has always been so profound, mysterious, and elusive, can’t help but gently remind us not to overthink—often, we’re just troubling ourselves unnecessarily. Life is about feeling and enjoying the journey of surprises. Today, I asked the universe to send a tarot blessing to LuLu’s three-month-old baby: The Rejoicer. LuLu mentioned that her baby’s routine has been a bit chaotic, leaving her exhausted with barely any time to herself. She and her husband live away from family, so there’s no one to lend a helping hand or offer experienced advice. When issues arise, she has to check online for guidance, though she often finds herself facing another problem: sometimes, her baby’s situation only partially resembles what she reads online, making it hard to figure out the right approach. This has left her feeling a lot of pressure, especially when her baby cries without stopping—she wonders if she’s not doing enough. LuLu seems like a sweet young mom. She mentioned looking up information online several times but wasn’t sure if she’d found the right answers, so she decided to start calling others for advice. It’s quicker and more informative that way. Yet, she also wishes for someone to chat with, to just share her feelings, so she’s trying a similar approach by looking for a listener or a companion to talk to. When I praised her clever decision, she shyly admitted that it had been a long time since anyone complimented her. I told her she’s doing a great job. Most people, when they see a baby, will first compliment the baby, but that’s also indirectly complimenting the mom. A healthy, happy baby is the result of attentive and gentle care—and the one who pours her heart into that is the mom. I understand that she wants to be seen as herself, not just as the baby’s mom. LuLu clarified that she’s not competing with her baby for attention, and I get it. It’s tough being a woman. A girl first becomes herself, then becomes a wife and a mother. Because of this, whenever I see a cute baby, I make it a habit to first appreciate the mom, acknowledging her hard work and dedication, and then praise the adorable baby. And why did I ask the universe to bless LuLu’s baby instead of LuLu herself? It’s because she has a friend in me, a companion for the years to come. And when her baby is happy, LuLu will be even happier. So, let LuLu’s baby live the joyful life of a little one—laughing, playing, being wonderfully noisy. Because we all know, that life of being pampered like a little king or queen lasts only a few precious years. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1127 Z：豐收 Harvest

2024 1127 Z：豐收 Harvest 天上星星那麼多，地上人兒到處走，知心能有幾個人？ 你說，朋友是世界上最恐怖的生物；我說，至少你還有家人，有許多人，家人是比壞人還恐怖的惡人。 你說，信任這種東西毫無價值；我說，這東西，對我來說無價，但我不輕易承諾，一旦承諾了，朋友可以完全信任我。 你說，我們是朋友嗎？ 我說，我們是朋友。 你說，那可以成為知己嗎？ 我說，是傾聽、陪伴的朋友。 你說，我沒回答你的答案。 我說，你想要的，我已承諾。 有些話，看透不能說破呀。 你問，相信朋友嗎？ 我說，非常相信。 你說，那是因為我沒被朋友騙過，所以才依然如此單純。 我說，不，你不了解。我被朋友欺瞞過，欺騙過，甚至誑過，被當傻子耍過，私底下嘲笑過。 你問，那為何還相信朋友？ 我說，因為幾個壞蛋而拋棄其他的朋友，那是最大的損失，也是太過精明的人才會做的選擇。像我，傻傻的，相信不是每個人都一樣，不是每個朋友都像那些壞人那樣會欺騙人。 有情，很好。 友情，很美。 能夠擁有有情義的友情，那真是我人生很棒的事情。 你說，好羨慕。 我說，不需，你也會有，慎選朋友就好。 你問，可慎選後仍被騙呢？ 我笑著說，沒有人敢承諾或擔保未來。而為了日後不知道的事情先掛念，先煩憂，不也是太精明，所以把自己困住，綑綁起來了。 你說，不懂。 我說，無妨。有些事，有些話，我也是被現實折騰過，南牆狠狠地用力撞過，體驗過血淋淋的疼痛後，才懂。不懂，機緣未到，但若是要大痛過後才懂，那寧願不要懂，快樂、開心，就好。 宇宙送給你的塔羅祝福是：【豐收 Harvest】。 含意是你過往的苦痛與難過都結束了，你所堅持，所努力的獲得的成果也已成熟，是採收的時刻了。 別錯過了黃金豐收期。 花朵有最佳盛開的時候，果實有最佳品嘗的時刻，錯過了，就錯過最好的賞味期，也錯過了最好的售價。 2024.11.27 Z: Harvest There are countless stars in the sky, People wandering all over the earth, But how many can truly understand you? You said, "Friends are the scariest beings in the world." I said, "At least you still have family. For many, family can be worse—villains more terrifying than bad people." You said, "Trust is worthless." I said, "To me, trust is priceless, but I don't make promises lightly. Once I do, friends can trust me completely." You asked, "Are we friends?" I said, "Yes, we are friends." You asked, "Can we be confidants?" I said, "We are friends who listen and accompany each other." You said, "That doesn't answer my question." I said, "What you desire, I have already promised. Some things are better left unsaid once understood." You asked, "Do you trust friends?" I said, "Absolutely." You said, "That's because you've never been deceived by a friend, so you remain so naive." I said, "No, you don’t understand. I’ve been lied to, deceived, even fooled like a fool and mocked behind my back." You asked, "Then why still trust friends?" I said, "Abandoning all friends because of a few bad ones is the greatest loss. That’s a choice only overly calculating people make. As for me, I'm foolish enough to believe not everyone is the same, and not every friend is like those who deceive." Affection is wonderful. Friendship is beautiful. Having heartfelt friendships is one of the most extraordinary things in life. You said, "I envy you." I said, "You don't need to. You’ll have it too, just choose your friends wisely." You asked, "But what if I still get deceived after choosing carefully?" I smiled and said, "No one can promise or guarantee the future. Worrying about the unknown in advance only binds and traps you with excessive caution." You said, "I don’t understand." I said, "That’s fine. Some things, some truths, I only came to understand after being tormented by reality, crashing into the wall painfully, and experiencing raw, bleeding pain. If you don’t understand, it’s simply that the time isn’t right yet. But if understanding means enduring great suffering first, then I’d rather you never understand. As long as you’re happy and joyful, that’s enough." The Tarot blessing the universe has sent you is: [Harvest]. It signifies that the pain and sorrow of the past have come to an end. The efforts and persistence you’ve poured in have borne fruit and matured; now is the time to reap the rewards. Don’t miss this golden harvest season. Flowers bloom at their best moments, Fruits ripen at their peak. If you miss it, you miss the optimal time to savor it—or the best price it could fetch. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1125 致你們，親愛的燭火們：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 1125 致你們，親愛的燭火們：滿足 Fulfillment 這世界不只不完美，還有著嚴重的殘缺。 這社會不只不友善，還有著殘忍的嚴苛。 有人仗著權勢欺壓弱小的人們，有人仗著錢勢污辱窮苦的人們，有人仗著高位壓榨下層的人們，有人仗著武力鞭打霸凌無力反擊的人們。 這世界很殘酷，這社會很難看。這是我們每天都看到的新聞。 而小小的我，在一個小小的地方，看著一群少少的人，每天輪流著，在一間間小小的房間哩，拿起話筒，語調輕柔，耐心地聽著許多人訴說。 在這裡，每一個人沒有名字，沒有自己。 在這裡，每一個人沒有情緒，沒有自我。 在這裡，只有一個個像是一根根的蠟燭，點燃著小小燭火，只盼能給予電話那一端的人，一點點微弱的光，一點點微弱的暖。 這光，不明亮，但也許是個希望。 這光，不暖和，但也許是個盼頭。 沒在幽暗峽谷裡行走過的人，無法明白整個漆黑的夜晚是多麼駭人。 我們鑿不開峽谷厚重的山壁，敲不開蓋住燦浪陽光的泥土。外面的世界百花盛開，萬物生機，在黃土的土石地上，連水都抓不住痕跡，生機，是那樣微弱且稀薄。 這群志工們，在這樣寸土不生的貧瘠領土，日日夜夜地墾荒，只要有一點希望，堅持不放棄。 沒人知道他們的名和姓，沒人看到他們的身影，他們像是許許多多個蝙蝠俠，守護著每一通來電，而電話那頭的求助者，像是一個個敗壞高潭市，聽到溫暖的聲音，如同呼喊蝙蝠俠的聚光燈，有了生機，湧出了希望。 對這群心善且日復一日，年復一年的志工們感到衷心誠意的敬佩。 請宇宙送給這些志工們祝福，抽到的塔羅牌是【滿足 Fulfillment】。 真是讓人感動。是的，這群沒名沒姓的志工們，不為什麼，都只是因為自己能夠付出，能幫助到人而內心感到滿足。 這真的是很偉大。很讓人敬佩。 我很幸運能夠看到這麼一群默默付出的人們，即使我知道這社會有多可惡，但在許多地方，我也知道這世界有多善良，多溫暖。 佛說，人的出生都是來了卻過去累世的緣分。 即使只是擦肩而過，那也是段美麗的情緣。 願 ~ 大家都能珍惜眼前的，身旁的人們。 November 25, 2024 To You, Dear Candlelights: Fulfillment This world is not only imperfect—it is deeply flawed. This society is not only unkind—it is cruelly harsh. There are those who wield power to oppress the weak, those who use wealth to demean the poor, those who exploit their positions to crush those below, and those who resort to violence to bully the defenseless. This world is brutal; this society is unsightly. We see it every day in the news. And yet, here I am, in a small corner of this vast world, watching a small group of people take turns each day. In tiny rooms, they pick up their microphones, speaking softly, patiently listening to the stories shared by many. Here, no one has a name. No one is themselves. Here, no one shows emotion. No one asserts their identity. Here, they are like candles—each one igniting a small flame, hoping to offer a faint light, a faint warmth, to the person on the other end of the phone. This light is not bright, but perhaps it is a glimmer of hope. This warmth is not strong, but perhaps it is a promise to hold on. Those who have not walked through the dark valleys cannot understand how terrifying an entire pitch-black night can be. We cannot carve through the heavy walls of the canyon, nor break through the soil that blocks the shining sun. Outside, the world blooms with vibrant life, but on this barren land, even water cannot leave a trace. Vitality is sparse and fragile here. Yet this group of volunteers, on this infertile and desolate ground, persist day and night, tirelessly cultivating. As long as there is a hint of hope, they refuse to give up. No one knows their names, no one sees their faces. They are like countless Batmen, protecting every incoming call. And the callers—like the broken citizens of Gotham City—find hope and life in these warm voices, as though responding to the Bat-Signal shining in the night. I feel profound and heartfelt admiration for these kindhearted volunteers, who dedicate themselves year after year, day after day. May the universe bless them. The Tarot card drawn for them is Fulfillment. How moving this is. Yes, these nameless and selfless volunteers find inner fulfillment simply in the act of giving and helping others. It is truly extraordinary and deeply admirable. I am fortunate to witness such a group of quietly dedicated individuals. Though I know how vile this society can be, I also know, in many places, how kind and warm this world truly is. Buddha once said that every human birth is meant to resolve the karmic ties of past lives. Even if it’s just a fleeting encounter, it is still a beautiful connection. May we all cherish what is before us and the people around us. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2025 0115 讀好書：死亡 Death

2025 0115 讀好書：死亡 Death 聽說這個農曆春年有9天連假，哇！好像很久沒有這麼長的假期了。 這麼長的假期，好多朋友已經安排了出國旅遊，國內遊玩。 過年過節總是有人欣喜有人感傷。 今天就不提這些了，自己的感觸只能自己嚐。 今天想著規劃一下農曆年節要做什麼，也就想到，話說我已偷懶好久，沒有拾起書本閱讀。 長期腦袋沒有輸入廣泛的知識、豐沛的文字與情感共鳴，整個人就像乾澀、透風、滿是孔洞的絲瓜刷，只有清洗功能，沒有營養價值，沒有滋潤功能。 趁圖書館還沒休館，來讀幾本書吧。 請宇宙給予指引，要找哪一類的圖書呢？ 塔羅抽牌：【死亡 Death】。 腦海裡直接蹦出來〝生死學〞這三個字。 然後第二個跳出來的直覺思緒是〝玄學〞。 奶奶走後的幾年，我瘋狂地想要學習、參透生死這個事情。 生死學的書和電影在那幾年被我無數次翻閱和反覆觀看，甚至當時還報考相關研究所。 考試結果是落榜呀！從小到大，對於念書、考試，實在是非常困難。但若是不帶目的性地閱讀，不為考試而讀書，我反而能夠記得較多，也較能於日常生活運用。 以馬雅13月亮曆之曆法為核心概念與知識依歸的13月曆計算機，透過其計算得知我是『超頻藍手』，透過藍手，能使我獲得最大力量。而藍手指的是是「實踐的力量，透過雙手的碰觸，能夠展現各項技藝以及發揮療癒的能量，不空想持續做，將可在創造的過程中知曉一切。」 這與我總是認為做中學，學中做，這樣的知識獲得與經驗累積更是實際的，更是有用的，更是扎實的。 話，可以說得漂亮，說得如真如夢。 做，是實踐，是落實，是切切實實。 而玄學？ 這是我最近才剛開始接觸的。 還不知道要如何定義與說明，也不知道自己所理解的是否正確。 目前正在努力改變自己的思維方式，從觀看的短視頻或相關影音，或得到一個自己很是佩服但卻常做不到的事情，那就是『語言、文字是有能量的。』 這觀念我很是相信，也曾執著堅持過。 但我本就是悲觀念頭多過樂觀正面，遇事，總習慣先負面思考。 我曾經給自己設下這句話為宗旨，那就是不管工作還是遇到事情，「做最壞結果的打算，朝最好結果努力，所以所有準備、思慮、努力，要全面，要細緻，要謹慎，要反覆衡量各種可能性的發生。」 而這幾年，我卻忘記了自己曾經訂下的行事標竿的後半句。 結果就是自己像是個負面吸磁體，一堆以為莫名其妙的雜七雜八事情接二連三的發生，打得我遍體鱗傷，痛得我嗤牙裂嘴，疼得我支離破碎。 【死亡 Death】，也帶著打掉重練，蛻皮重生之涵義。 你是否也曾像我這樣思考過，既然，人的一生，最終也是一堆黃土，那為何要出生？生而為人，平靜、平凡的一生不好嗎，為何要如此努力？既然人生躲不開，逃不了，避不掉所謂的業力反噬和遭遇，那努力能改變什麼？多做佈施行善又能改變什麼？ 對於上面的疑問，最近的我是自己有著一些想法。 平凡人的我，能回饋社會，貢獻社會的就是一顆良善慈悲的心，做著一些小善小公益的事情。 許多的偉人，他們之所以成為偉人，那皆是他們的一生，所言、所行、所成就的豐功偉業，是給社會，給世界帶來更好、更良善、更崇高的事蹟，是改善社會，促進進步的大事。而平凡眾生，如螞蟻大軍，集結成團、成隊、源源不絕，累積出來的善良、福報也能成大事，甚至能協助偉人成就更高的偉業。 所謂的凡走過必留下痕跡，蒼天從來就沒有漏掉誰，只是每個人功德不同，無論是累世、現世，甚至未來世。 人因曾經或現在的業障、歷劫、修行、此生課題而遭遇困難、磨難、甚至是業力報應，又因惡意、故意、有意而加重懲罰，可也因佈施、因善良、因福報而有了能量交換，減損厄運的破壞，於是糾葛的過程，煎熬的時間，痛苦的心志是必然要走過一遭的，而人在做天在看，加加減減之下，終究是善人一枚的你，結果終究會圓滿無事平安的。 只是，劫數難逃，這一遭，勢必得走個一回。 有點玄，有點意思，有那麼一點點學理，卻又有點自欺欺人的自我安慰與寬慰。 這是我現在認為的玄學之道。 以後，會如何思考，目前尚無法知，無法測 …. 待繼續學習。 決定了，這個農曆年，就來研讀研讀生死學和玄學。 #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot #玄學 #願將來勝過往 #能量交換 #佈施

#Tarot搜尋結果

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation

2024 0930 婷婷：抱負Aspiration

2024 0930 婷婷：抱負Aspiration

2024 1116 小夜：財富 Fortune

2024 1116 小夜：財富 Fortune

2024 1219 江蕙演唱會：報酬回饋 Reward

2024 1219 江蕙演唱會：報酬回饋 Reward

2024 1121 佩蓉：和諧 Harmony

2024 1121 佩蓉：和諧 Harmony

2024 1117 Derek：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1117 Derek：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1127 Z：豐收 Harvest

2024 1127 Z：豐收 Harvest

2024 1125 致你們，親愛的燭火們：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 1125 致你們，親愛的燭火們：滿足 Fulfillment

2025 0115 讀好書：死亡 Death

2025 0115 讀好書：死亡 Death

#Tarot搜尋結果

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation

2024 1120 可欣：停滯 Stagnation

2024 0930 婷婷：抱負Aspiration

2024 0930 婷婷：抱負Aspiration

2024 1116 小夜：財富 Fortune

2024 1116 小夜：財富 Fortune

2024 1219 江蕙演唱會：報酬 回饋 Reward

2024 1219 江蕙演唱會：報酬 回饋 Reward

2024 1121 佩蓉：和諧 Harmony

2024 1121 佩蓉：和諧 Harmony

2024 1117 Derek：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1117 Derek：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1127 Z：豐收 Harvest

2024 1127 Z：豐收 Harvest

2024 1125 致你們，親愛的燭火們：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 1125 致你們，親愛的燭火們：滿足 Fulfillment

2025 0115 讀好書：死亡 Death

2025 0115 讀好書：死亡 Death

2024 1219 江蕙演唱會：報酬回饋 Reward

2024 1219 江蕙演唱會：報酬回饋 Reward