2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death 你說，幾個月前你衝動下犯了一個大錯，這超過一百多天的日子，每夜無法安歇，清醒時間都在煩惱問題該怎麼辦，能怎麼解決，最糟糕的情況有可能會是如何，而你是否能夠承受。 你說，非常痛苦，無法生活，無法靜下心來。 你說，怎會變成這樣，你怎會讓自己變成現在這個模樣？ 我，沒有話語可以安慰你，更無法鼓勵你。 有的時候我們會不知不覺做了某些決定，無法用理智或者是智慧去評論。 我想每個人天性裡的賭性，其實比我們認知的還要強大，且像是躲藏在角落裡，蠢蠢欲動著，只要有機會，就會以猛虎之姿跳躍出來，掌控全局。 你說，無法告知任何人發生了什麼事情，這讓你更痛苦。你形容這段期間不像是活著，比較像是活死人，得撐著這幾口氣，得把問題解決了，不能連累任何人。 我想說點話，卻不知道要說什麼，只能靜靜聽。 你說，你不是想找人說話的，你是想要找人聽你說說話，這幾個月所有的苦與澀，難與痛都在腹內、心上、腦中翻攪著，需要有個出口。 我們嘆，這社會，怎有那麼多心思惡意的壞人。 我們痛，這社會，怎有那麼多有心人利用著已是在低谷的人們，想要奮力一搏的勇氣。 宇宙送給阿寺的祝福是：【死亡 Death】。 這張塔羅牌有著憂傷者坐在愛達荷蛇河上，穿著黝黑深藍色的長袍，斗篷帽遮住了大半張臉，讓人會產生心中一沉的情緒，而後面又是新幾內亞祖靈的面具，像刀子般的鼻尖，讓人感到驚悚害怕。 我們都懼怕死亡，很難接受死亡的發生，而在宇宙裡，在這個萬物繽紛的世界上，死亡，是如常的事情之一，如同太陽升起落下般，那樣的自然。 而當抽到塔羅牌卡的死亡時，更是不需恐懼與擔憂。 孫子兵法說道，『投之亡地然後存，陷之死地然後生。』世界上，沒有任何一個人可以回到過去，然後有機會改變已經發生的事情。 宇宙透過【死亡】這張塔羅牌傳遞著，已發生的事情讓人感傷，而死亡之後呢？除了哀傷，難過，痛苦以外，也有著解放、自由與完完全全地切割。 當然也不能輕忽死亡背後的力量，那失落的情緒，那低迷的心情，那恐懼憂慮的心思，這一波波的不安與害怕，一時無法消散，仍會纏繞著你，要堅定心志，要好好地保有自己的心。 過去的錯的痛苦，放下吧。 人生就像一個杯子，杯內發臭的水得先倒掉，才能注入新氣象，人生也就有了轉機與生機。 加油！ 別被自己的心魔打敗了。 2024-11-29 阿寺：Death You said, a few months ago, in a moment of impulse, you made a huge mistake. Over the past hundred days or so, you haven’t been able to rest at night. During your waking hours, you’ve been consumed with worry—about how to handle the situation, how to resolve it, what the worst-case scenario might be, and whether you could endure it. You said it’s been unbearably painful, that you can’t live your life, can’t calm your mind. You said, how did it come to this? How did you let yourself become the person you are now? I have no comforting words to offer, nor any encouragement to give. Sometimes, we unknowingly make decisions that defy logic or wisdom. I believe the gambling instinct in every person is far stronger than we realize. It lurks in the corners, waiting for the right moment to leap out like a tiger and take control of everything. You said you can’t tell anyone what happened, which makes it even more painful. You described this period as less like living and more like being a walking corpse—barely breathing, holding on just enough to resolve the problem, ensuring no one else gets dragged into it. I wanted to say something, but I didn’t know what to say. I could only listen quietly. You said you weren’t looking for someone to talk to; you just needed someone to listen—to hear all the bitterness, sourness, difficulties, and pain that have been churning within you for months. You needed an outlet. We sighed: How can this society have so many malicious people with scheming minds? We ached: How can this world have so many opportunists preying on those already at rock bottom, exploiting their desperate courage for one last gamble? The universe sent 阿寺 the blessing of Death. This tarot card depicts a sorrowful figure sitting on Idaho's Snake River, draped in a dark navy-blue robe with a hood that obscures much of their face. The image evokes a sinking feeling, and the ancestral mask from New Guinea behind them—with its knife-like nose—adds an air of horror and dread. We all fear death. It’s hard to accept its inevitability. Yet in the universe, in this vibrant world, death is one of life’s constants, as natural as the rising and setting of the sun. Drawing the Death card in tarot is nothing to fear or worry about. As The Art of War says, “Throw them into perilous ground, and they will survive. Plunge them into death ground, and they will live.” No one can return to the past to change what has already happened. The universe, through the Death card, conveys this: while what has occurred may bring sorrow, what follows death is not just grief, sadness, and pain but also liberation, freedom, and a clean break. Of course, we must not underestimate the power behind death—its accompanying emotions of loss, despair, fear, and anxiety. These waves of unease and dread won’t dissipate easily and will continue to entangle you. You must stay steadfast, holding onto your inner self. Let go of the pain of past mistakes. Life is like a cup; the stale water inside must first be poured out before fresh water can flow in, bringing vitality and opportunities for renewal. Stay strong! Don’t let your inner demons defeat you. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0828 給小怡的祝福：滋養 Nurturing

2024 0828 給小怡的祝福：滋養 Nurturing 辛苦了，小怡。 才剛加班完，趕著跟我約。 妳說心情很不好，因為辦公室有不喜歡的人。 這種情緒點我懂。 可是每天都在同一間辦公室，為何今天心情特別不好。 妳想了想說，可能是覺很累吧。 累，是因為加班。 很累，然後看到不喜歡的人也在加班，不舒服的心情就湧上來了。 這樣的小怡，真可愛。 若換成我，我很累，很忙，不喜歡的人卻可以準時下班輕鬆走人，這樣的情況就會激起我的心中怒火。 可位低，無權，言輕的我們，能怎麼辦？ 我分享了過去我自己的做法，妳聽得眼睛睜大，還反問我，可以這樣拒絕主管的指示和安排嗎？ 其實，當然是不太好。只是那時的我真的是年輕氣盛呀。 現在回首，當然會覺得可以有更好的方式和態度去面對及處理，可在那當時，那堵在胸口的一口火氣，吞不下，那就只能選擇冒出頭。 於是磕碰撞痛，走得跌跌撞撞，走得東搖西晃，不是很舒坦的人生路。 我們一邊有點小抱怨工作環境的不如意，一邊嘲笑過去個性嗆辣的我，爭得當下一口氣，不懂伏與忍的謙遜，享受到短暫的快感，逞一時之快，對於現況與問題，依然無力。 我們最後笑話說，就看不到不喜歡的人，降低受其影響，做好自己的工作就是了。 時間久了，也就麻痺了。 麻木了，也就忘了原本一直過不去的坎是什麼。 有點逃避的做法，可我們也不想太過委屈自己。 不喜歡，就是不喜歡。 躲不過，閃遠點總可以吧。 這真的是職場話題常會有的無言的結論呀。 給小怡塔羅祝福：【滋養 Nurturing】。 來自宇宙的訊息，有些事情才剛培植種下，需要時間的養育，在工作上可以多花些精神與氣力，投注更多的耐心與堅持，多扛起一些責任，在果實成熟時，妳將會擁有意想不到的豐收成果。 2024-08-28 Blessings for Xiaoyi: Nurturing You've worked hard, Xiaoyi. You just finished working overtime and rushed to meet me. You said you were in a bad mood because there's someone in the office you don't like. I understand that kind of feeling. But since you're in the same office every day, why did you feel especially bad today? After thinking for a bit, you said it might be because you're feeling very tired. The fatigue is due to overtime work. You're really tired, and then seeing the person you don't like also working overtime just brought up uncomfortable feelings. You're so adorable, Xiaoyi. If it were me, I'd feel very tired, very busy, and if the person I don't like could leave work on time without any hassle, that would ignite a fire in my heart. But what can we do when we're in low positions, have no power, and our words carry little weight? I shared with you how I handled similar situations in the past, and you listened with wide eyes, even asking if it's really okay to refuse the supervisor #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man 好久不見了，Derek ~ 看著你的訊息，與跟你對話的過程中，我感受到你的痛苦與已想盡辦法卻仍困在死局裡的狀況。 如同你所寫的，我們算不上熟悉，甚至可以說我們其實也不太認識對方，在那幾天的課程中，我們會閒聊一些，一起吃了頓飯，喝了一杯咖啡，之前的緣分如此淺薄，但依然將對方視為朋友。 時光倒推回去，約莫是去年的此時認識的你，而你的人生如同你的計劃，在今年創業了。 記得那時你跟我分享著這創業夢時，我那時腦海中閃過了幾個模糊畫面和一些情緒。 看著你發亮得意的神情，我也不好意思說太多，只輕輕提了幾句，也不敢說是提醒，就像閒聊般去帶到。 而今日你所說的現在面臨到的問題與困境，竟然與一年前我腦海中浮出的景象重疊了起來，並且清晰許多。 身為淡交的朋友的我，沒有立場，沒有角色，沒有資格去評論任何事情，但確實對現在的你的情況感到擔憂。 於是我馬上向宇宙詢問給你指引，抽到的塔羅牌：【倒吊者 Hanged Man】。 我常對於塔羅牌的神奇感到驚訝不已。 現在的情況對你來說就像是被掐住脖子般那樣窘迫，想盡辦法依然無法解決，快要無法呼吸的痛苦與窒悶。 傍晚冷靜後的我覺得需要多關心你，跟你提起向父母求援，才知道現在你們的關係是僵化與冷漠的。 我的直覺是認為趁這次的關係，一來跟父母多些情感關係的建立與連結，二來可打破你們目前相敬如冰的情況，三來可解決你現在卡住的急迫問題。 固執的你，馬上回應不可能找父母談。 哎呀！你怎就是不懂呢，父母的協助可讓你的危機化為轉機，不管是你的事業還是你們家庭氛圍。 對於倒吊者這張塔羅牌，積極面對問題的關鍵，會有”反轉”的機會。宇宙在告訴你，Derek，藉此機會，你需學習與接納，今日的情況與你的溝通、協調以及認知有很大的關係，你從你自己的角度、視野評估與衡量，然後衝動做了決定，卻又沒能將一些情況周全設想到，所以面對了現在，無論是人、事、金錢都出現了卡住、停滯、掐住的窘迫。 當然，這也與你非常年輕有關係。 試著傾聽。 試著放下自我。 試著就事論事。 也許，你以為的冰山，其實一直想成為你的靠山，只是你很少讓他們有機會接近你。 2024-11-07 Derek: The Hanged Man Hello, Derek. It's been a while. Reading your message and conversing with you, I can sense the pain and frustration you’re enduring, trying everything yet still feeling trapped in a deadlock. As you mentioned, we’re not particularly close; in fact, we barely know each other. During those few days of class, we exchanged small talk, shared a meal, and had a cup of coffee. The bond was brief, yet we still regard each other as friends. Looking back, it was around this time last year that we met, and your life, just as you planned, took a big step forward when you started your own business this year. I remember you telling me about your entrepreneurial dream back then. A few hazy images and emotions flashed through my mind. Seeing your proud, radiant expression, I hesitated to say too much, only lightly mentioning a few things, not as a warning but just casual remarks. Today, as you talk about the challenges and struggles you’re facing, I realize they overlap precisely with the visions I had a year ago, now much clearer. As a distant friend, I hold no position, role, or right to judge, yet I do feel concerned for you in your current situation. So, I immediately asked the universe for guidance on your behalf and drew the Tarot card, The Hanged Man. I'm always amazed by the mysterious insight of Tarot cards. Right now, your situation feels as if a hand is gripping your throat, an unbearable struggle to breathe as you try to break free, yet find no solutions. After calming down in the evening, I felt the need to reach out more, to suggest that you consider asking your parents for help, only to find that your relationship with them is currently distant and cold. My intuition is that this could be a good opportunity to reconnect emotionally with your parents. Not only could this alleviate the current strain, but it might also shift the icy dynamic between you all, while possibly resolving your urgent issue. But your response was immediate—no way you would talk to your parents. Oh! How can you not see? Their support could turn this crisis into an opportunity, benefiting both your business and the atmosphere within your family. Regarding The Hanged Man card, the key to facing challenges lies in seeking a “reversal” of perspective. The universe is telling you, Derek, that this is a time to learn and accept. Today's situation is closely linked to your communication, coordination, and perception. You’ve evaluated and acted based on your own view, making impulsive decisions without fully accounting for other aspects. And now you’re facing blockages, with people, circumstances, and finances all stalled, squeezed, and at an impasse. Of course, part of this is due to your youth. Try to listen. Try to let go of self-centeredness. Try to address matters as they are. Perhaps what you perceive as a cold, distant iceberg has always wanted to be your support. You’ve just rarely given them the chance to come close. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1001 雅婷：更新者 Regenerator

2024 1001 雅婷：更新者 Regenerator 等待，當不確定是否會有希望時，即使短暫也漫長。 等待，清楚明白會有實現的那一天，帶著對未來的期盼，即使漫長，於實現的當下，也就不足為道。 好多年之後的現在，小姪女總算擁有了自己的手機。 以前她總愛借我的手機拍照或錄影，現在她可以自己隨性得隨時拍照和錄影。 可，我會很想念她跟我借手機時，那興奮發光的眼神，與我分享她的發想和構圖時的專注及快樂。 今天線上的客人是一位年輕的美麗媽媽，因為颱風影響，她所在的地方下起了大雨，辛苦得接送孩子回家後，怕溼透的身體會引起感冒，於是又趕忙帶孩子洗澡、吹頭髮，也趕快煮薑茶去寒。 於是，約好的時間，她無法上線，我找不到人。 比原先預約好的時間晚了有二十分鐘後，她上線了，一邊照顧著孩子，一邊跟我聊著天。 在這樣的氛圍與時刻，原先鬱積的煩悶，好像已被雨水打趴在地上，隨著不停落下的雨，一起流進了路邊的水溝，不再淤積於胸口。 雅婷說，原先想聊的，現在已不重要了。 開心她的放下，開啟我的生活小智慧，馬上分享去寒的小方法，不需另外花錢買，不用準備很多東西，就簡單的吹風機，花費短短幾分鐘，既去寒濕出汗，也保暖，身體也就清爽了。 身為媽媽的雅婷，聽到這樣的方式開心極了。 於是她決定當下就結束聊天，她想立即嘗試我分享的法子，讓她的寶貝健健康康，不受今日大雨的侵擾和影響。 宇宙送給雅婷的塔羅祝福：【更新者 Regenerator】。 有著這樣一位細心又疼愛孩子的媽媽，很是幸福。在雅婷的家裡，這股家中活力、溫暖的泉源，源源不絕滋潤著家人的心靈，細心的行為安慰著，保護著家人。孩子因媽媽的豐沛的溫暖與能量，享受著滿滿愛的同時，也健康成長著，不怕外面的世界，不擔憂長大的模樣。 因，媽媽在，一切都不用害怕。 2024 1001 Yating: Regenerator Waiting—when you're unsure if hope will arrive—can feel long, even if it's brief. Waiting—when you're certain that day will come, with hope for the future—can feel long, but in the moment of realization, that length no longer matters. Now, many years later, my little niece finally has her own phone. She used to love borrowing mine to take photos or videos. Now, she can take them whenever she wants, freely. But, I will miss the way her eyes sparkled with excitement when she borrowed my phone, how she focused and shared her ideas and compositions with me so joyfully. Today, my online client was a young, beautiful mother. Due to the typhoon, heavy rain poured down where she was. After the exhausting task of picking up her child, she hurried to bathe and dry her child to avoid catching a cold. She also made ginger tea to ward off the chill. Because of this, she was unable to come online at the scheduled time. I couldn’t reach her. About twenty minutes after our scheduled time, she finally logged in, chatting with me while taking care of her child. In that moment and atmosphere, the gloom that had been building up in my chest seemed to be washed away by the rain. It flowed along with the constant downpour into the roadside drains, no longer clogging my heart. Yating said that what she initially wanted to talk about no longer seemed important. I was happy for her release and shared a little life hack I’d just learned for driving away the cold. It requires no extra money, no special preparations—just a simple hairdryer. In just a few minutes, you can expel the cold and dampness, break a sweat, and warm up your body, leaving you refreshed. As a mother, Yating was delighted to hear this method. She decided to end our chat right then and there because she wanted to try it immediately, ensuring her child stays healthy and protected from the effects of today’s heavy rain. The universe sent Yating a Tarot blessing: The Regenerator. Having such a thoughtful, loving mother is a true blessing. In Yating's home, this vital, warm source of energy constantly nourishes the hearts of her family members. Her attentive actions comfort and protect them. Her child, surrounded by her abundant warmth and energy, thrives in love and grows healthy, unafraid of the outside world and without worry about growing up. Because with mom around, there’s nothing to fear. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress 只是想閒聊的小瑜，在我將話題從天氣開始說起時，妳急迫不耐煩的口氣嚇了我一跳，妳說「別談天氣了，那麼不穩定，煩死了。」 天氣，不是人類的我們可以操控的呀。 喜歡的天氣，享受，不喜歡的天氣，閃躲或躲避，這是我面對季節天候一貫的想法。 一直下雨很多天，會覺得厭煩嗎？ 可能會有一點，但不至於左右我的心情。 天氣這個話題妳不喜歡，那改說說旅遊，如何？ 對這話題妳好像也沒有興趣，直接跳過，沒有任何回應。 沒想到妳反而接著我前面跟天氣有關的話題。 妳說，「擔心什麼卻不來，不擔心的時候又一直來。」 我在猜想最近的妳是否很焦躁，對於什麼事情都是這樣直白的劈過來的感受和對話。 率性呀 ~ 妳。 真好。 妳有自己的想法，且堅持。 妳對於自己沒有歪掉的三觀感到自豪，我則這點也很棒。 我跟妳分享了我的心境，「我在群體中，也是屬於堅持自己想法的類型，有時會比較累，但我不想隨波逐流，也不想忘卻自己的本心和初衷。」 對這段話，妳深表贊同，且很喜歡。 妳甚至還說，妳欣賞我說出來的每一句話，妳感受到每一句話都帶有含意，不是教條，不是教誨，而是讓聽到的人，看到的人，自己用心體會。 也許這是一種交淺言深的交流吧。 送給小瑜的塔羅祝福：【皇后 Empress】。 來自宇宙的訊息，連宇宙都替小瑜高興，對於小瑜能〝維護〞和堅守自己的原則及信念，這是一件很不容易的事情。宇宙提醒著小瑜，在堅持之下，有時也需要耐心傾聽一下旁人的意見或看法，也許會有不同的獲得與學習。 Blessing for Xiaoyu on September 3, 2024: The Empress Xiaoyu, who just wanted to chat casually, I was startled by your urgent and impatient tone when I tried to start a conversation about the weather. You said, "Stop talking about the weather; it's so unstable and annoying." The weather is something beyond our human control. My approach to the weather is simple: enjoy the weather you like, avoid or hide from the weather you dislike. Does it get frustrating when it rains for many days in a row? Maybe a little, but it doesn't affect my mood that much. Since you don't like talking about the weather, how about we discuss travel? You don't seem interested in that topic either, skipping it entirely without any response. Unexpectedly, you picked up on my earlier topic about the weather. You said, "Things you worry about don't happen; things you don't worry about keep happening." I wonder if you've been feeling agitated lately, responding so bluntly and directly in conversations. You're so straightforward. That's great. You have your own opinions and stick to them. You're proud of your uncorrupted values, and I think that's wonderful too. I shared my thoughts with you: "In a group, I'm also the type to stick to my own ideas. It can be tiring sometimes, but I don't want to go with the flow or forget my true self and original intentions." You fully agreed with this and liked it a lot. You even said that you appreciate everything I say, feeling that every word has meaning—not as doctrines or teachings, but as something for the listener or reader to personally reflect upon. Perhaps this is a kind of deep conversation despite our acquaintance being shallow. Tarot Blessing for Xiaoyu: [The Empress]. This is a message from the universe; even the universe is happy for Xiaoyu. It recognizes how difficult it is for you to "maintain" and hold onto your own principles and beliefs. The universe reminds Xiaoyu that while it's important to stay firm, sometimes it's also necessary to patiently listen to others' opinions or perspectives. You might gain new insights and learn something different. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion 大頭貼放著自己兩歲時的可愛照片，感覺彤彤從小就在愛的氛圍裡成長。 果然沒猜錯，彤彤是獨生女，沒有兄弟姊妹，獨享寵愛，也需一肩扛家庭。 不過還很年輕的彤彤很是明白，自己享有的獨寵，另一個面向就是要承擔更多的責任。 跟彤彤建議說，找幫手很重要，有些事情讓擅長的人協助，會更有幫助。 最近被工作和家裡的事情搞得忙碌不已的彤彤，沒有特別想要談談的事情，也沒有特別想要問的，就只是想跟不認識的我東扯西講，提到什麼聊什麼。 於是我們講到了女孩們最常出現的話題，”胖與瘦”及”甜食與肥胖的關係”。 彤彤竟然說，她愛吃甜食，但她沒胖過。 真的是太讓人羨慕了。 跟我是完全不同類型的。 我是與”瘦”絕緣的連深呼吸都能像氣球般鼓起來的類型。 有時這樣的漫聊，也不錯。 很快的時間到了，要彤彤趕緊去吃晚餐，太晚吃，對胃的負擔比較大。 給彤彤的塔羅祝福：【困惑Confusion】。 來自宇宙的消息，提醒彤彤，因還年輕，所以有些事情搞不太清楚，那是正常的，其實，我年齡半百了，很多事情也還是搞不清楚。 困惑，常常會讓我們陷入迷茫中，有時突破現況需要外力來個石破天驚的大震撼，脈絡也就清晰許多了。 彤彤加油 ~ 。 Blessings to Tong Tong on August 29, 2024: Tong Tong’s profile picture shows an adorable photo of herself at the age of two, giving the impression that she has grown up in an atmosphere full of love. As expected, Tong Tong is an only child with no siblings, enjoying exclusive affection but also having to shoulder the family's responsibilities alone. However, young as she is, Tong Tong understands very well that enjoying exclusive affection also means taking on more responsibilities. I suggested to Tong Tong that finding help is important, and letting those who are good at certain things assist can be more beneficial. Recently, Tong Tong has been overwhelmed by work and family matters. She didn’t have anything specific she wanted to talk about or ask; she just wanted to have a casual chat with a stranger like me, talking about whatever came to mind. So, we ended up discussing topics commonly brought up by girls: "being fat or thin" and "the relationship between sweets and obesity." Tong Tong said that she loves sweets but has never gained weight. How enviable! She’s a completely different type from me—I’m the type that is far from "thin," and even deep breaths can make me puff up like a balloon. Sometimes, such casual conversations are nice. Soon it was time, and I told Tong Tong to go have dinner quickly, as eating too late can be more of a burden on the stomach. Tarot Blessing for Tong Tong: [Confusion]. A message from the universe reminds Tong Tong that since she is still young, it's normal to be unclear about certain things. Actually, even at my age, approaching fifty, there are many things I still don't understand. Confusion often leads us into bewilderment, and sometimes breaking through the current situation requires an external force to create a shocking upheaval, making the context much clearer. Tong Tong, keep it up! #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor 調養休息了七千多個日子，從原本積極的改變，到享受無所事事的美好，再到提不起勁的生活內容，是又到了該改變的時候了。 為何提不起勁？ 不是沒有事情忙碌，而是常在忙碌完後，原本心中的茫然，沒有隨著執行完一件件的計畫而消失，反而茫然的思緒更為嚴重許多。 於是轉念思考，既然茫然，那就再踏入紅塵人群中吧。 就這樣起心動念了，幾天後，突然收到過去一位主管的訊息，有個機會問我有沒有興趣。 我心中一想，這吸引力法則也太猛烈了吧。 思考幾天後，我拒絕了。 我到底在幹什麼？ 不是想回歸職場嗎？為何又拒絕？ 機會送上門不把握，難道要自己去撞牆，還未必有比較好，這樣才甘願嗎？ 可，有的時候，人類會感到痛苦就是理智與期望中間搖擺不定。現實的考量是其一，不想就此輕易放棄是其二，身體心理狀況還未調整好是其三。 於是我又持續沉浸在沒有變化，沒有思緒，沒有進度的歲月陰溝中。突然，那個決定的時間點降臨了。雖然沒有石破天驚的閃電還是打雷，可就在那一瞬間決定，好，把握機會。 今天的面談結束。回來想冷靜一下，於是抽張塔羅牌，請宇宙來個消息吧。 【感知者 Sensor】關於這個機會的塔羅牌。 有意思，這是要如何來讀牌呢？ 這張牌是權杖子牌，討論權杖牌就會需要回歸抽牌人的內心。所以這是否是機會，是挑戰，是命運，端看我怎麼認為，怎麼思考。 在這個機會裡，我應該會有非常多的體驗與感觸，也會藉由這樣的機會而有不同的改變與成長。 是可期待的。 2024-09-05 Opportunity: Seer After more than seven thousand days of recuperation and rest, from initially striving for change, to enjoying the beauty of doing nothing, and finally to a life lacking enthusiasm, it seems that the time for change has come again. Why the lack of enthusiasm? It’s not because there’s nothing to do, but because the original sense of confusion hasn’t disappeared after completing one plan after another. On the contrary, the feeling of being lost has become even more severe. So, I had a change of mind. Since I felt lost, why not step back into the hustle and bustle of the world? Just as I had this thought, a few days later, I suddenly received a message from a former supervisor about an opportunity, asking if I was interested. I thought to myself, the Law of Attraction works so strongly! After thinking about it for a few days, I declined. What am I doing? Didn’t I want to return to the workforce? Why did I refuse again? A chance knocks on the door, and I don’t seize it. Do I have to run into a wall, with no guarantee of a better outcome, to be satisfied? However, sometimes people suffer from wavering between reason and expectation. One reason is practical considerations, another is the reluctance to give up easily, and the third is that my physical and mental state is not yet adjusted. So, I continued to immerse myself in a stagnant, thoughtless, and unprogressive period of time. Suddenly, the moment of decision arrived. Although there was no earth-shattering lightning or thunder, in that instant, I decided to seize the opportunity. Today’s interview is over. I came back to calm down, so I drew a Tarot card, asking the universe for a message. [The Seer] regarding this opportunity. Interesting, how should this card be interpreted? This card is the Page of Wands, and discussing the Wands cards often requires returning to the drawer's inner self. So whether this is an opportunity, a challenge, or destiny depends on how I perceive it and how I think about it. In this opportunity, I should expect to have many experiences and feelings, and through this opportunity, I will undergo different changes and growth. It is something to look forward to. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master 老林，從腦海裡突然閃過你的身影，再想到當初你坐在我對面的情景，我深深為自己年輕時傲嬌的樣子感到羞愧，且需要跟你道歉，須打自我的內心跟你好好地說聲對不起。 那時的你，正值人生低谷，主管是你以前的同學，所以你才有機會進到公司。這是主管跟我說的，那時的我並沒有太多的判斷能力，可我確實也因為這樣而開始用有色眼光看待你。 我們那時的主管對我很不好，是一位天蠍女，對待她不喜歡的人會用言語辱罵，用情緒恐嚇。我是單位裡除她以外的唯一女生，所以很快就發現她跟其他同事說話態度和對待我時是天壤地別。 那時的我才25歲。 即使我想用力反抗也無用，因多國股東結構下，同事們各有各的靠山和派系，唯有我沒有。 你幸福多了，不會做的事情，做不來的事情，有你同學指點一二。 而我做對的事情，她會大聲喝罵我說她要的不是結果，她不爽我沒照她交代的過程去做；但我是照她交代的去做啊，但我又可能為每次的工作交代進行錄音當證據呢。 於是，她欺負我，我就不爽你。 她對我兇，我就不理你。 很多次，你想安慰我，但你說你嘴拙，怕說了我更生氣，你也一直勸我服個軟，就雨過天晴。 人，就是這樣，年輕時，筋Q軟，但腰挺很直，脾氣很硬。有了年紀後，筋變硬，懂得彎腰的重要性，但卻彎不下去了。 總之，離開那裡，我告訴自己，絕對要成為更厲害的自己。 我將那時認識的你們所有全都拋卻忘記，唯有欺壓我的人牢記在心裡。 我的2/3人生過去了，有沒有成為更厲害的自己沒人在意。但，我想起了你，想到了那個傲嬌的自己。但我卻忘記了你的名，只記得你的姓氏。 我在心裡跟你致歉，跟你道歉，說對不起，我請宇宙送給你祝福，也請宇宙傳達我的歉意至你的心中，也許你會突然想到我，閃過我的臉孔，那就是你接收到我的心意。 宇宙送的祝福塔羅牌是：【大師 Master】。 記得你的手藝超好，你曾煮過好幾次美食帶來公司分享，你愛你的家人，疼惜你的老婆，這樣的你，現在應是幸福的，你感恩你的同學給你機會，你嘗過低谷的苦澀，這樣的你，從那之後應都是知足快樂的。 我想，在你擅長且喜歡的領域，你應該早已成為一方大師，很多人跟你學習著。 祝福你 ~ 真心誠意！ 希望現在的你，雖然年紀有點老，可擁有專業好手藝的你，跟家人和樂生活，與老婆幸福過日子。 2024.11.28 To Mr. Lin: The Master Mr. Lin, Your image suddenly flashed across my mind, and I recalled the scene of you sitting across from me. I feel deeply ashamed of my arrogant attitude in my younger years and feel the need to sincerely apologize to you from the bottom of my heart. At that time, you were at a low point in your life. Your supervisor was a former classmate, which was why you got the opportunity to join the company. The supervisor shared this with me, and back then, my ability to judge was limited. Unfortunately, I allowed this information to color my perception of you. Our supervisor wasn’t kind to me. She was a Scorpio woman who used verbal insults and emotional intimidation against those she didn’t like. I was the only woman in the department besides her and quickly noticed the stark difference in how she treated me compared to others. I was only 25 at the time. Even though I wanted to resist, it was futile. In a company with a multinational shareholder structure, each colleague had their own allies and factions—except me. You, on the other hand, were more fortunate. When you struggled with tasks, your classmate guided you. Meanwhile, when I completed tasks correctly, I’d still get scolded. She would yell, claiming that while the results were right, she was displeased because I hadn’t followed her specified process. But I had followed her instructions! Yet I couldn’t possibly record every work directive as evidence. Thus, her bullying of me made me resent you. Her hostility toward me made me ignore you. Many times, you tried to comfort me, but you admitted you weren’t good with words and worried that speaking up might make me angrier. You often advised me to soften my stance, saying that things would get better if I let it go. That’s how people are. When we’re young, we’re flexible but stubborn, standing tall and proud with hardened tempers. As we age, our bodies stiffen, but we learn the importance of bending—only to find it harder to do so. In any case, after leaving that place, I told myself I must become a better version of myself. I let go of everyone I knew there, except for the ones who oppressed me—I kept them firmly in my memory. Two-thirds of my life has now passed. Whether or not I’ve become a better person, no one truly cares. But I thought of you and my arrogant younger self. I’ve even forgotten your first name, only remembering your surname. In my heart, I apologize to you, saying, “I’m sorry.” I ask the universe to send blessings your way and to convey my apology to your heart. Perhaps you’ll suddenly think of me and see my face flash before you—that will be my heartfelt message reaching you. The blessing sent by the universe through the Tarot card is: [The Master]. I remember your incredible skills. You cooked many delicious meals and shared them with the office. You loved your family and cherished your wife. Someone like you must be living a happy life now. You were grateful to your classmate for the opportunity and had experienced the bitterness of life’s lows. With that, I believe you have since lived a life of contentment and joy. I imagine that in the field you excel in and love, you’ve already become a master, with many learning from you. Wishing you all the best—sincerely and wholeheartedly! I hope that now, though older, you continue to enjoy a harmonious life with your family, happiness with your wife, and the fulfillment that comes from your exceptional skills. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust 小陸從上一個工作裸辭至今也快要近三年。他說倒也不是著急想要回到職場，純粹是因非常確定，也接受了一個事實，那就是，他個人本身，完全沒有自律的好態度，更沒有自我約束的好習慣。 從剛開始，於半夜滑手機平板，一丁點也不想睡覺，到後來，需要睡覺，想要睡覺，身體卻完全不理會大腦的意識與意志，整個狀況就是身體有自己的節奏與步調，完全無視大腦的命令和意志的渴求。 他形容到那次面試的時間是過去二十年來第一次如此快速且短暫的，徵才公司董事長問了三個問題，卻都在還沒完成回答前打斷了他的陳述與說明，甚至不給予時間與機會提出詢問導致他無法獲得更多訊息。 當下他是不悅的，現在的他認為應該聽從這個情緒的直覺。 因當時他被理智腦給說服了，以為董事長如此簡潔有力的抓重點，於管理風格上是強勢且有力道，是直接表達指示、命令，不需下屬或員工的臆測。 事實的真相總是得進入實際環境裡才知道。 面試時說會成為工作夥伴的年輕孩子早就於上個月前離職了，被告知現職的助理可以協助很多事情，實際狀況是空有熱誠，懷有熱情，可惜沒有該職務的工作基礎，沒有相關經驗，也不具備基礎理論，卻是把基本常識當作知識的叫囂著，把每天忙得像陀螺，對於他在旁的指導與建議，充耳不聞，還反過來指責他沒能快速進入狀況。 在職場最害怕不懂專業的人要帶領真正懂得的人，更危險的是下屬以年資來吆喝新進主管。 此處不宜久留，提出去意。 於面試時被告知的職務工作目標與實際狀況不符合，且感覺上是有刻意、惡意掩蓋實際狀況，即使是職場裡的老鳥，在萬惡的資本家面前，也只有被欺凌的份。 宇宙呼應其需要祝福的指引，抽到的塔羅牌是：【信任Trust】。 宇宙說，遭遇到這樣的事情，更是突顯信任的重要。光，是信任的象徵，讓你感受到有光的存在的人，不要害怕，試著再次給予信任，試著看到他人的善良，試著建立與擁抱新關係，宇宙與老天不會給你無法處理的事務，相信自己的能力，相信自己的際遇，相信善良的自己會遇到美好的機緣。 2024 1024 Xiao Lu: Trust Xiao Lu has been out of work for nearly three years since quitting his last job without securing another. He says it’s not that he’s in a hurry to return to the workforce; rather, he has come to terms with a reality—that he himself lacks a good attitude toward self-discipline and does not have the habit of self-restraint. Initially, he would stay up late at night, scrolling on his phone or tablet, without any desire to sleep. Later, when he needed and wanted to sleep, his body completely ignored his mind’s consciousness and will. His body seemed to have its own rhythm and pace, completely disregarding the brain’s commands and desires. He described a recent interview as the fastest and shortest one he’s had in the past twenty years. The chairman of the recruiting company asked him three questions but interrupted him before he could finish each answer. He wasn’t given the time or opportunity to ask questions, leaving him with no further information. At the time, he was displeased, and now he feels he should have trusted his emotional instinct. Back then, however, his rational mind convinced him that the chairman’s concise focus on key points was a sign of a strong, efficient management style—one where instructions are given directly, leaving no need for employees to guess. But the truth only reveals itself once you are in the actual environment. The young colleague, who was supposed to be his future work partner according to the interview, had already left a month earlier. He was told that the current assistant could help with many tasks, but in reality, while passionate and enthusiastic, the assistant had no foundation for the job. Lacking experience and theoretical knowledge, the assistant mistook basic common sense for expertise, staying busy like a spinning top. Worse still, the assistant ignored Xiao Lu’s guidance and suggestions, even blaming him for not adapting quickly enough. What Xiao Lu fears most in the workplace is when someone without expertise leads those who truly understand the work. Even more dangerous is when subordinates use their seniority to shout down a newly appointed supervisor. This was not a place to stay long, so he decided to leave. The job's responsibilities, as described in the interview, did not match the reality, and it felt as though the truth had been deliberately hidden. Even seasoned professionals can find themselves bullied by ruthless capitalists. Seeking guidance, Xiao Lu turned to the universe and drew the Tarot card: Trust. The universe said that encountering such experiences only highlights the importance of trust. Light is a symbol of trust. Don’t be afraid of those who make you feel the presence of light. Try to trust again, try to see the goodness in others, and try to build and embrace new relationships. The universe and the heavens will not give you more than you can handle. Trust in your abilities, trust in your circumstances, and trust that your kind-hearted self will encounter beautiful opportunities. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer 題外話先說一下，最近很高頻率抽到這張塔羅牌，但請宇宙給予祝福的是不同的個案。 想來，一直很深奧、神秘、朦朧的宇宙，最近忍不住想對大家說，不要想這麼多，許多時候真的是，我們庸人自擾呀。 人生，就是感受，享受驚喜的旅途。 今天請宇宙送給陸陸三個月寶寶的祝福塔羅牌：【欣喜者 Rejoicer】。 陸陸說，她的寶寶作息有點混亂，搞得她好累，且都沒有自己的時間。 辛苦的陸陸和先生住在外面，家中沒有人可以帶把手的幫一下，也沒有有經驗的人可以請教，所以遇到狀況，都是先上網看一下別人怎麼說；但常陷入另一個問題，就是寶寶的情況跟網路上找到的資訊，有時只有一小部分類似，有時真的不知道要如何辨識，所以陸陸心中壓力好大，每次寶寶哭鬧不停時，她也會覺得是自己沒有照顧好。 感覺陸陸是個可愛的年輕小媽咪，她說查了幾次網路資訊，也不確定到底找到的是不是正確答案，後來她決定打電話跟人請教，這樣效率比較快，資訊也會比較多。 但她也很想有人可以聊聊天，陪她說說話，所以，用一樣的方式來解決，找傾聽者，找陪聊師。 當我稱讚著陸陸的機智決定，她竟然有著害羞的反應，她說，已經很久沒有聽到別人稱讚她了。 我告訴她，辛苦她了，大家看到小寶寶，大部分的人幾乎都會先稱讚寶寶的，但這也是直接在稱讚媽媽的，小寶寶長得頭好壯壯，可愛極了，都是因有用心、溫柔的照顧，而這樣費心、用心的人，就是媽媽呀。 我知道她想要的是被看到的是她這個人，而不是寶寶的媽媽。陸陸說她不是在跟寶寶爭寵的，我明白的。 女性，很是辛苦的。 女孩，是先成為自己後，才是成為妻子和媽媽。 也因如此，當我看到很可愛的寶寶時，我都習慣先讚賞媽媽，肯定得回應她們的辛苦與用心，再誇獎可愛的寶寶。 而，為何我不是請宇宙祝福陸陸，而是祝福陸陸的寶寶。 因陸陸有我這位跨年朋友陪著呀。 且寶寶好，陸陸會更好。 所以就讓陸陸的寶寶，過著開心的寶寶生活，恣意的笑鬧，任性的喧騰，因為我們都知道，像大王、像皇后般被侍候的生活是只有短短的幾年呀。 2024.10.28 LuLu: The Rejoicer Just a side note: I've been drawing this tarot card quite often lately, but I’ve been asking the universe for blessings for different cases each time. It seems that the universe, which has always been so profound, mysterious, and elusive, can’t help but gently remind us not to overthink—often, we’re just troubling ourselves unnecessarily. Life is about feeling and enjoying the journey of surprises. Today, I asked the universe to send a tarot blessing to LuLu’s three-month-old baby: The Rejoicer. LuLu mentioned that her baby’s routine has been a bit chaotic, leaving her exhausted with barely any time to herself. She and her husband live away from family, so there’s no one to lend a helping hand or offer experienced advice. When issues arise, she has to check online for guidance, though she often finds herself facing another problem: sometimes, her baby’s situation only partially resembles what she reads online, making it hard to figure out the right approach. This has left her feeling a lot of pressure, especially when her baby cries without stopping—she wonders if she’s not doing enough. LuLu seems like a sweet young mom. She mentioned looking up information online several times but wasn’t sure if she’d found the right answers, so she decided to start calling others for advice. It’s quicker and more informative that way. Yet, she also wishes for someone to chat with, to just share her feelings, so she’s trying a similar approach by looking for a listener or a companion to talk to. When I praised her clever decision, she shyly admitted that it had been a long time since anyone complimented her. I told her she’s doing a great job. Most people, when they see a baby, will first compliment the baby, but that’s also indirectly complimenting the mom. A healthy, happy baby is the result of attentive and gentle care—and the one who pours her heart into that is the mom. I understand that she wants to be seen as herself, not just as the baby’s mom. LuLu clarified that she’s not competing with her baby for attention, and I get it. It’s tough being a woman. A girl first becomes herself, then becomes a wife and a mother. Because of this, whenever I see a cute baby, I make it a habit to first appreciate the mom, acknowledging her hard work and dedication, and then praise the adorable baby. And why did I ask the universe to bless LuLu’s baby instead of LuLu herself? It’s because she has a friend in me, a companion for the years to come. And when her baby is happy, LuLu will be even happier. So, let LuLu’s baby live the joyful life of a little one—laughing, playing, being wonderfully noisy. Because we all know, that life of being pampered like a little king or queen lasts only a few precious years. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

#DreamCatc...搜尋結果

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

2024 1129 阿寺：死亡 Death

2024 0828 給小怡的祝福：滋養 Nurturing

2024 0828 給小怡的祝福：滋養 Nurturing

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 1107 Derek：倒吊者 Hanged Man

2024 1001 雅婷：更新者 Regenerator

2024 1001 雅婷：更新者 Regenerator

2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 0903 給小瑜的祝福：皇后 Empress

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0829 給彤彤的祝福：困惑Confusion

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 0905 機會：感知者 Sensor

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1128 老林：大師 Master

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1024 小陸：信任 Trust

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer

2024 1028 陸陸：欣喜者 Rejoicer