Alyson’s 2/20 Tarot：明朗/通透 Illumination

Alyson’s 2/20 Tarot：明朗/通透 Illumination 昨日凌晨突然清醒 以為已是早晨 看了時鐘發現才僅睡了2個多小時 於是再躺回床上希望能夠再入睡 翻來覆去還是難眠狀態 索性俐落起床 換了一身運動服裝 在自己客廳裡做暖身操、原地踏步走 發揮當日牌卡”創造力”的其中一個特質 ~ 改變原有習性 於是就在醒來、運動、睡覺、醒來、閱讀中 度過已很久沒有如此充實的早晨時光 今天我自己的塔羅牌抽到”明朗/通透” 這也是權杖牌卡之一 權杖，是個人信念、意念的範疇 透過創造力發揮 昨日下午也外出散步 這已暌違好幾個月的活動項目 在春暖花開的天氣裡總算恢復了 傍晚想一想創造力還能如何運用 於是開始整理起廚房的儲物櫃 讓儲存的乾糧食物能在賞味期限裡發揮它們的價值 完成一件一件小事情 這也代表著自己的內心裡很清楚明白 該做什麼 可以怎麼做 能夠如何做 雖慢，可是有確實進行，那就是不同 這也安撫了一直有點內疚的小心靈 知道自己過於懶散 有時也會因懶惰、提不起勁的狀態，對自己生氣 現在好了 開始動了 環境，整齊清潔，淨化了 心，舒坦許多，也就像是經過洗滌般，明朗通透 Yesterday, in the early hours of the morning, I suddenly woke up, thinking it was already morning. Checking the clock, I realized I had only slept for a little over two hours. So, I tried to go back to sleep, tossing and turning, but still unable to doze off. I decided to get up decisively, changed into workout clothes, and did some warm-up exercises and paced around in my living room. I applied one of the traits of "creativity" from yesterday's card—changing old habits. Thus, I spent a morning filled with waking up, exercising, sleeping, waking up, and reading, something I hadn't experienced in a long time. Today, my own tarot draw revealed "illumination," also one of the suit of wands cards. Wands represent personal beliefs and thoughts. Through exercising creativity, I also went for a walk yesterday afternoon, an activity I hadn't done in months. Finally, in the warm spring weather, I resumed it. In the evening, I pondered how else I could utilize creativity. So, I began organizing the kitchen pantry, ensuring that the stored dry food items would be used within their expiration dates to maximize their value. Completing each small task also signifies clarity within myself—I know what needs to be done, how to do it, and what I'm capable of doing. Though progress may be slow, it's still progress, and that's what makes it different. It also soothes the slightly guilty conscience that I've been feeling due to my laziness. Sometimes, I get angry with myself for being too lazy or lacking motivation. But now, things are better. I've started moving. The environment is tidy and clean, purified. My mind feels much more at ease, as if it's been cleansed, clear, and transparent. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Illumination #Wands #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #權杖 #明朗通透 #信念

2024 0122 今日牌卡：沉著、冷靜、平靜

今日牌卡：沉著 冷靜 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/132587416 心，定 八風吹不動 念，堅 石錘敲不散 淡定 也就不受約束 淡漠 也就不被擺弄 在自己的城堡裡 悠然不得 不被外面風吹草動影響 不因物喜己悲七上八下 沉著‧冷靜‧平靜 Calm the mind, unmoved by the eight winds. Hold onto thoughts, unshaken by the hammer's strike. Maintain composure then there is no constraint. Remain indifferent, and manipulation has no hold. In one's own fortress, dwell peacefully, unaffected by external influences. Neither elated by favorable circumstances, nor distressed by adversities. Serenity. Composure. Tranquility. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Dream #Equanimity #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #沉著冷靜平靜

2024 0101 新年快樂！今日牌卡：協力

https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/128291608 今日牌卡：協力 2023最後的週末假日 和朋友們相聚談笑 時光就是這麼美好 2024，新的一年 還請大家也多多指教、關照 讓我在你們的世界裡 如同你們在我的生命裡那般 ~ 重要 願來年我們都健康、快樂與幸福 新年快樂 The last weekend of 2023 With friends get talking and laughing together The time was so wonderful 2024, new year Please give me your advice and care Let me go into your world As like you have an important place in my life Wish in the coming year, we will be healthy, happy, and satisfied Happy New Year #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotcards #Tarotreader #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人

2024 0208 今日塔羅：力量

2024 0208 今日塔羅：力量 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/137467693 “力量”這張是獅子座牌 有統治者地位象徵的意涵 力量 是自我駕馭 是領導統御 是權勢、權威 是上位者的氣勢 是上位者需看全面的宏觀氣度 除了獅子的特徵以外 還有其他不同的意涵 不過覺獅子就可代表今日的意識 今天，放假第一天 心情歡快得多變 就讓獅子奔跑跳躍吧!! "Strength" card represents the Leo zodiac sign, symbolizing a position of connotation. Strength is self-mastery is leadership and governance is power, authority is the demeanor of the superior, is the macroscopic attitude of the superior, considering the whole. In addition to the characteristics of Leo, there are other different meanings, but Leo is enough to represent today's consciousness. Today, the first day of vacation, mood is cheerful and changeable, let the lion run and jump!! #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Strengt #Lion #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #力量 #獅子座

2024 0416 今日塔羅：憤怒 Anger

2024 0416 今日塔羅：憤怒 Anger 經過了這多天的激勵與正向的日子，身體和心情應該都疲憊了。 如果這時，有人不長眼，或喜歡來撞槍口，那就 … 咻！蹦！火花四起。 有人生氣了！ 有人爆走了！ 有人抓狂了！ 多日的太過或不及，心情會失衡的。 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/146791456 我太弱了，才經過幾天的長時間學習，昨天身體就憤怒得抗議。 按摩推拿時，疼得一直大聲喊。 按摩的師傅說，不推開不行。 又回到過去的模樣，身體早就不舒服了，雖有察覺，但依然把”忍”放在第一選擇順位。 宇宙說，置之不理的，不會消失，只是暫時沒繼續嘶喊。 不過，要小心，眼前的平和不是真實的。 再次席捲而來的情緒風暴，威力怕一波比一波兇猛。 要多加提醒，提醒旁人，沒事勿靠近，提醒自己，發覺第一口火氣從身體往外衝出時，趕緊讓自己到無人境界，降低爆炸範圍，避免殃及無辜，盡量別發生禍從口出的壞事。 不然，之後會很痛恨暴怒中的自己。 宇宙透過「憤怒」這張塔羅牌說： 感受到怒火在胸中翻攪覆騰，像是仙人掌到處扎人外，請趕快冷靜下來，思考到底是甚麼勾起你的火焰。 是對現況的不滿？ 是對自己的失望？ 是對挫敗的熟捻？ 是對成功的遙遠？ 有人會將憤怒化為動能，逼自己改變、改進。 有人會將憤怒化為目標，逼自己前進、拼命。 塔羅又說，憤怒是情緒的其中一種面向，是自然的事情，我們應該允許情緒自由進出，只是要讓憤怒之火提煉出些東西，不要只傷了身，傷他人的心，傷了自己於人群中的名。 Today's Tarot: Anger After several days of inspiration and positivity, both body and mind should be exhausted. If, at this moment, someone decides to push your buttons or provoke you, then... swoosh! Boom! Sparks will fly. Someone is angry! Someone is losing control! Someone is going berserk! Too many days of excess or deficiency can throw emotions off balance. I felt so feeble after just a few days of intensive learning. Yesterday, my body protested in anger. I screamed loudly during the massage. The masseur said, "We have to work it out." I reverted to my old ways, feeling physically uncomfortable long before, although I was aware, I still prioritized "endurance." The universe says, What is ignored doesn't disappear; it just stops screaming temporarily. However, be cautious, the apparent tranquility is not real. The next emotional storm might be fiercer. Remind others to stay away when necessary. Remind yourself, when you feel the first surge of anger rising from within, quickly retreat to solitude, minimize the explosion radius, avoid harming innocents, and try your best to avoid saying regrettable things in the heat of the moment. Otherwise, you'll deeply regret your actions in anger later on. Through the "Anger" Tarot card, the universe speaks: Feel the rage boiling in your chest, like cacti prickling everywhere. Please calm down quickly and reflect on what exactly is igniting your flames. Is it dissatisfaction with the current situation? Disappointment in yourself? Frustration from setbacks? Or a distant longing for success? Some people turn their anger into motivation, forcing themselves to change and improve. Some people turn their anger into goals, pushing themselves forward relentlessly. The Tarot also says, anger is just one facet of emotions, a natural occurrence. We should allow emotions to come and go freely, but we must refine the fire of anger to produce something constructive. Don't just hurt yourself physically, hurt others emotionally, or tarnish your reputation among others. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Anger

2024 0114 今日牌卡：失望

今日牌卡：失望 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/131228755 昨日有去投票嗎？ 結果，總是有歡有樂，然後另一面就是悲與傷 終究不是一次定終生的事情 莫傷，莫悲，莫失望 身強體壯才能懷抱下一個春夏秋冬，才有辦法迎接下次的大選投票日 Did you vote yesterday? The ending always has happiness and joy, and then the other side is sadness. But this is not a life-defining moment. Don’t be sad, don’t be sorrowful, and don’t be disappointed. Be healthy and survive next spring, summer, autumn, and winter, which could welcome the president's next vote. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotcards #Tarotreader #Tarotreading #Dream #Disappointment #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #失望

2024 0228 今日塔羅：教皇.大祭司

2024 0228 今日塔羅：教皇.大祭司 https://dcalyson0110.pixnet.net/blog/post/142069714 今日，台灣放假一天。 祝福化為星星掛在天空上的人們。 這是昔日血跡斑斑，淚水淌淌的感念。 如何滋養生命的厚度？ 歷史偉人總是犧牲小愛，小我，成就大愛，無我。 我，沒有辦法。 我太過小家子氣，一心掛念的永遠只有家人。 那要多大的堅持，經過重重試煉、砥礪，還要拋卻個人情感的覺悟而成為偉人。 這類的節日，從來，就不覺得是屬於幾個特定的領導人。 拋頭顱、灑熱血，犧牲奉獻是最前線和第一線的人們。 那些很多不被知道，不被記得的一般人， 他們具備的情操與為國家付出的偉大，是自由、是民主、是意識的智者，我們的生命之師。 Today, Taiwan is on holiday for a day. Blessings to those who hang like stars in the sky. This is a remembrance of the blood-stained and tearful past. How to nurture the depth of life? Historical greats always sacrifice personal loves and selves to achieve great love, selflessly. I, cannot. I am too petty-minded; my thoughts are always with my family. What perseverance is required, enduring trials and hardships, and even attaining the enlightenment of forsaking personal emotions to become great. Such holidays have never been about specific leaders. Those who sacrifice their lives and shed their blood are the frontline and first-line individuals. Those many unknown and forgotten ordinary people, their integrity and the greatness of their sacrifice for the country, are the wise ones of freedom, democracy, and consciousness, the teachers of our lives. #DreamCatcher #Tarot #Tarotreader #Tarotcards #Hierophant #Dream #Alyson #塔羅 #捕夢人 #教皇 #大祭司

2024 0618 今日塔羅：負面性 Nagativity

2024 0618 今日塔羅：負面性 Nagativity 昨日有小小的不開心。 上課教室空調因過去空間配置與現在的方式不一樣，導致左右兩邊像是冰山和赤道。 左邊舒適宜人時，右邊得穿上戴帽外套，冷風還會從袖口、褲管口灌進，冷吱吱的。 若是右邊溫度感受舒服，那左邊就會像被掐喉般，悶得透不過氣來。 因此，右邊同學去調整了空調設定，左邊同學不開心，自己又不想說這事，用一個很可笑的理由要我去跟右邊同學溝通。 我拒絕了。 我表示，這是小事，你可以直接跟他溝通的。 這與我跟那位同學交情比較好，無關。 沒把這事放在心上的我，在休息時間跟左邊同學打招呼，被他刻意忽視，不理會。 我就這樣被列入他冷暴力的名單裡。 多無辜呀。 對於不成熟、不理智的人，我們很多時候真的是莫可奈何。 我當然可不以為意，但同學的態度確實有讓我感到難過和不舒服。 在過去幾週一起上課的期間裡，這位同學很常找我協助他，在休息時間一直拉著我要聽他說一些負面心情的話。 他說，他沒有可以說說話的人。 他今天的反應讓我反思過去幾週我對他的包容與體諒是不是太多了。 不過這樣多次互動，也就較清楚知道，課程結束後與他不會成為朋友我也不會有小小的難過。 結果，今天的塔羅牌抽到『負面性』。 若你也有這樣的情緒，不妨抽絲剝繭一下，想想是甚麼事情，甚麼原因造成的。 我現在的這課程蠻吃力的，週一確實會是大家要為新的一週學習課程重新調整步調，週二大部分同學都已可進入狀況。 不過，週二的課程內容很繁瑣，非常細緻的各種人工智能指令。 還沒上課，我的心已感到比平時多些煩躁。 可能積累了這段時間的疲憊，也沒能找到時間好好休息，我的心情就也輕鬆不起來，直盼望著這週趕緊結束，趕快過去。 我好再度迎接”無所事事的美好歲月”。 『負面性』 ~ 總看到對方的缺點。 昨天的我，是。 總覺得對方過於負面。 昨天的我，是。 最近開始抱怨自己，批評別人。 關於自己，我是。 關於他人，有一點點 … 其實也就是有。 學習 ~ 學習對負面思緒說”不”。 學習對負面情緒說”滾”。 學習對負面腦袋說”斷”。 學習對負面體驗說”捨”。 學習對負面批判說”離”。 學習看見光，享受光的明亮。 學習感受愛，沉浸愛的溫暖。 學習辨真實，相信實的穩固。 學習悟真理，了解真的坦率。 Tarot for Today, 2024-06-18: Negativity Yesterday, there was a bit of unhappiness. In the classroom, the air conditioning setup didn't match the current space layout, causing the left and right sides to feel like an iceberg and the equator, respectively. When the left side felt comfortable, people on the right had to wear hooded jackets, with cold air seeping in through sleeves and pant legs. If the right side felt comfortable, the left side would feel suffocatingly hot. As a result, a student on the right adjusted the air conditioning settings, which made the students on the left unhappy. Instead of voicing this issue, one of them asked me to speak to the student on the right, using a ridiculous excuse. I refused. I said this was a small matter that they could handle directly. This had nothing to do with the fact that I was better friends with the student on the right. I didn't dwell on this, but during the break, when I greeted the student on the left, they deliberately ignored me. Just like that, I was added to their silent treatment list. How innocent I am. Dealing with immature and irrational people often leaves us helpless. While I can shrug it off, the student's attitude did make me feel sad and uncomfortable. Over the past few weeks of class, this student often sought my help and constantly pulled me aside during breaks to vent their negative feelings. They said they had no one else to talk to. Their reaction today made me reflect on whether I had been too tolerant and understanding over the past few weeks. However, after these repeated interactions, it's clear that once the course is over, I won't feel sad about not becoming friends with them. As it turns out, today's tarot card is "Negativity." If you also have such emotions, try to dissect and analyze what events and reasons caused them. This course I'm taking is quite challenging, and Mondays are when everyone has to readjust to the new week's learning pace. By Tuesday, most students are already in the groove. However, Tuesday's course content is very detailed and intricate with various AI commands. Even before class started, I felt more restless than usual. Perhaps due to accumulated fatigue and not finding time to rest properly, I haven't been able to lighten my mood, and I'm just hoping this week will end quickly so I can return to "the beautiful days of doing nothing." Negativity Always seeing others' flaws. Yesterday, that was me. Always feeling that others are too negative. Yesterday, that was me. Recently starting to complain about myself, criticize others. About myself, yes. About others, a little bit...actually, yes. Learning Learn to say "no" to negative thoughts. Learn to say "go away" to negative emotions. Learn to say "cut off" to negative thinking. Learn to say "let go" to negative experiences. Learn to say "leave" to negative criticism. Learn to see the light, enjoy the brightness of light. Learn to feel love, immerse in the warmth of love. Learn to recognize truth, believe in the solidity of truth. Learn to understand truth, appreciate the honesty of truth. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Negativity

2024 0620 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor

2024 0620 今日塔羅：創造者 Inventor 昨白天搞砸了兩件事情，精神因前天的晚上，為了準備充裕點好面對昨晚塔羅面談，複習相關資料到凌晨兩點多，後又因太晚去睡覺而遲遲無法順利入睡，導致睡眠不足而恍惚。 第一件事，每天我會在第一聲鬧鐘醒來，起床準備早餐。 早餐準備很簡單兩步驟，按下咖啡機，按下電鍋蒸蛋和饅頭。 然後回去床上賴床一下。 結果昨早上，我忘記了。 想起來時趕緊跑進廚房，要出門時，發現饅頭的中間仍是冷凍狀態，當下沒想那麼多，將蛋放進去午餐袋後，就出門。 等紅綠燈的時候，肚子有點餓，想拿出雞蛋吃，發現只摸到熱呼呼的液狀物質。 看。 我的媽呀！沒有熟的蛋，破殼了，蛋黃流淌在袋子裡，又透過袋子網隙縫滴到車子椅墊上。 顧不了課程已開始進行，清潔、整理要先進行，否則下課時開車門，經過高溫曬過的蛋液，不臭也腥。 今天老師要搭乘火車回台北。 想說順路，載她一程。 到了車站，老師沒下車，繼續在車上跟我聊天。 我不知道車站前停車有科技執法的攝像機，等發現時，已不知道拍了多少照片，罰單會有幾張？罰款會有多少？ 我害怕，卻也無能為力。 自己沒有留心、留意，能怪誰。 晚上要進行面談考試了。 資料好多，頭好痛，肚子好餓，怎麼辦？ 早餐的內容，晚上再吃一次，最是省時，省力，省心。 電鍋蒸著，人先睡著，資料放著，二十分鐘後，醒了，頭不痛了，有食物吃了，可專心讀書了。 今晚有點苛刻自己，無妨。 畢竟，經年累月的積累出來的胖，很久才這樣精簡的一頓，撼動不了已穩若磐石肥肉的。 完成一件拖延二年多的事情。 總算，完成。 原本的一手好牌，被我的漫不經心，拖延至情勢轉變了，不怪誰，但必須得責罰自己。 錯誤的代價，沒上心，等於沒學到，白搭，白費。 如何責罰呢？ 要求自己接下來的暑假，得兢兢業業地整理過往學習資料、資訊，不得延遲。 畢竟，現在是在耕種未來的福田。 現若偷懶，來日，哪來的收成。 今日塔羅牌是『創造者』。 多好啊。 生活的便利起始於創造。 創造的起因於人性。 怎樣的人性會讓人想創造，點子發想。 有時是為了討好他人。 有時是為了拯救世界。 很多時候是為了賺大錢。 更多時候是因為想偷懶。 不管是為了什麼，總之這些的因素轉化成了動力。 動力放在行動十足的人身上，那根本就是上緊發條，加足馬力的情景。 源源不絕的創造力，讓人羨慕不已。 創造力，加上科技產品的應用，生活便利，哄人開心，製造驚喜，製造更多時間得以享受生活，享受人生。 新創意，可落實，會帶來龐大財富。 想法很多，是好事。 想法太多，無法落實，是恐怖的落差，會讓人焦躁，心煩。 有想法，要整理，要釐清，要評估自身能力，要評估輕重緩急，要計畫，要落實。 思慮太多，腦瓜子受不了，會抗議。 若依然沒調整作法，腦袋小宇宙大爆炸，那就糟糕了。 所以，別貪心，別著急，別心慌。 心急吃不了熱豆腐，急躁無法品味細雕慢啄的精緻。 檢視一下。 有時汰換老舊設備，更新老派思維，調整老式觀點，也許就茅塞頓開，發現有時候，想太多了，不知不覺中思緒早就扭歪了卻不自知。 梳理思緒，有助於將創造力發揮價值，並創造價值。 2024-06-20 Today's Tarot: The Inventor Yesterday, I messed up two things. My mind was hazy due to staying up until 2 AM the night before to prepare for last night's tarot reading. I couldn't fall asleep easily, resulting in a lack of sleep and a state of confusion. The first incident happened in the morning. I usually wake up to the first alarm and prepare breakfast. The process is simple: press the coffee machine button, and then the electric cooker button to steam the eggs and buns. Then, I go back to bed for a while. However, I forgot yesterday morning. When I remembered, I rushed to the kitchen, only to find the buns still partially frozen. Without thinking much, I put the eggs into my lunch bag and left the house. While waiting at a traffic light, feeling hungry, I reached for an egg only to find a warm, liquid substance. Oh no! The eggs weren't cooked and had cracked, with the yolk leaking into the bag and dripping onto the car seat. I had to clean up immediately before attending my class, otherwise, the egg liquid would become unbearable under the sun by the time class ended. Today, my teacher is taking the train back to Taipei. I offered her a ride to the station. At the station, she continued chatting with me in the car. Unbeknownst to me, there were surveillance cameras enforcing parking regulations. By the time I noticed, I didn't know how many photos had been taken or how many fines I would receive. I felt helpless and scared, but it was my own negligence. In the evening, I had an interview exam. With so much material to review, my head hurt and I was starving. The simplest solution was to have the same breakfast again for dinner. I set the electric cooker and took a nap. Twenty minutes later, I woke up feeling better, with food ready and a clearer head for studying. I was hard on myself, but it was necessary. After all, years of accumulated weight can't be shed by a single meal. I finally completed a task that had been delayed for over two years. It was my own lack of diligence that allowed the situation to change, and I must hold myself accountable. The cost of a mistake is not learning from it, which is a waste. To penalize myself, I committed to diligently organizing past study materials and information over the summer, with no delays. After all, the present is the time to cultivate future blessings. Slacking off now means no harvest later. Today's tarot card is 'The Inventor.' How wonderful. The convenience of life begins with creation, which is rooted in human nature. Different motivations drive invention—sometimes to please others, sometimes to save the world, often to make money, and more frequently out of laziness. Whatever the reason, these factors convert into motivation. When such motivation drives a proactive person, it's like winding up a clockwork mechanism and boosting its power. Endless creativity is enviable. Combined with the application of technological products, it brings convenience, joy, surprises, and more time to enjoy life. New ideas, if implemented, can bring great wealth. Having many ideas is a good thing. However, too many unimplemented ideas can lead to anxiety and frustration. It's important to organize, clarify, assess one's abilities, prioritize, plan, and execute ideas. Overthinking can overwhelm the brain, leading to protests. If not adjusted, it might result in a catastrophic mental explosion. Therefore, don't be greedy, anxious, or panic. Haste makes waste, and impatience can't savor the finesse of delicate work. Sometimes, replacing outdated equipment, updating old thoughts, and adjusting old perspectives can provide clarity. Often, overthinking leads to distorted thoughts without us realizing it. Organizing thoughts helps maximize creativity and create value. #DreamCatcherTarot #Tarot #DCTarotreader #Tarotcards #BeYuSelfBOSS #BlessedDream #Alyson #Inventor

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment

2024 0825 給丹丹的祝福：滿足 Fulfillment 給迫不及待，等不及約好的時間，提前到來的丹丹 ~ 年輕的妳，很有自己的想法與主張；妳，不迷惘，不慌張，妳只是想找一個人聽妳說，聽妳訴，聽到妳的心聲而已。 妳覺得，年輕，最大的本錢是時間、精神和體力。這點我非常認同的。所以妳想趁著年輕，多賺錢，不想花費太多時間和金錢在玩樂上面，這點，實在是讓我太佩服妳了。 想當年，在妳這樣花樣年華的年紀，與同事週六的約會和玩耍，可是我認為人生的重頭戲呢。 有著成熟思想的妳認為，年輕，腦子記憶力較好，反應較快，應該用來學習、累積與思考。 所以妳不太跟朋友外出，這就造成了今日的困擾，朋友們覺得妳不好搞，妳希望朋友能懂妳的渴望和企圖。 記得我當下跟妳說 ~ 『妳的生活，是妳的，朋友的生活，是朋友的。』 『每個人的背景條件不同，這是先天給的；每個人想要的生活不同，這是後天自己想要的。』 妳認同了這些話，可仍陷在感覺與朋友格格不入的氛圍裡。 然後我接著跟妳分享了自己的人生 ~ 我覺『年輕呀，正是適合努力往前衝的年紀呢。』 每個人想要衝去的方向不同而已。 我有朋友喜愛旅遊，可以把薪水、時間和心力都用在旅遊，樂此不疲；而我有點相反，我喜歡穩定，旅遊很美好，對我來說卻不會很常安排。 每個人對生活、對樂趣、對人生意義都有不一樣的看法與想要完成的人生使命。 不管是如何，都很好。 我也曾經遇到朋友認為我和他們其他人沒有話聊，聚會時，即使我只是坐在旁邊聽他們說，他們也覺我礙眼。於是，他們有些聚會沒有找我了。 當我知道時，有點難過，不過更多的是鬆了一口氣。 我知道這群朋友很好，所以我捨不得離開，但終究別人幫我做了這個分離的決定，我就順著這個勢，疏離淡去。 這就是所謂的〝道不同，不相為謀〞。 彼此之間說不到一塊，那就別勉強雙方了。 『會有那麼一群跟妳志同道合的人，在前方不遠處等著妳。』 『也許懂妳的，可以跟妳一起成長交流的朋友，在新世界，就等妳去找到。』 我記得我最後是這樣跟丹丹妳說的。 妳的笑有點沒有精神，因妳捨不得現在這群朋友。 這就是丹丹誤會我的意思了。 我總認為，朋友有很多種，也有很多不同階段還是層級。 不是分高低，不是分親疏蜜離。 我還有跟丹丹說這些話，不知道妳有記得嗎？ 『妳會知道有些朋友適合一起做甚麼，有些事情適合哪些朋友。』 『不是將朋友分種類，或分級，而是每位出現在我們身邊的朋友，他們對我們人生影響的事情 是不同的。』 我喜歡跟朋友相聚，因為跟朋友一起開懷大笑，讓我覺得生命很好，日子很好，人生很好，歲月靜好。 『我知道很多朋友只能陪伴自己一段時間，無法長久，無法一輩子。』 所以我總是珍惜〝當下〞、〝現在〞。 相聚時，專注，用心。 工作時，認真，奮鬥。 學習時，投入，努力。 人生由許多階段連接而成，生活由不同面向組合而成，日子是綜合的寶箱，而非單一口味的獨屬盒。 偶爾跟朋友出去玩玩，放鬆，也不錯。 大部分時間想要學習、累積，讓自己未來爬得更高，走得更遠，這志向，更好。 加油 ~ ！ 妳的人生調色由妳自己決定。 送給妳的塔羅祝福：【滿足 Fulfillment】。 來自宇宙的訊息，這是一張情感的塔羅牌，提醒丹丹，珍惜朋友的關心，她們可能是希望妳在努力的路途上，也可同時間享有友情的潤澤，家人的關心與照顧。當妳退一步去思考朋友的出發點時，妳就會察覺到妳身在充滿愛與關懷裡，心中是滿滿的幸福。 2024-08-25 Blessings to Dandan: Fulfillment To the eager Dandan who arrives early, unable to wait for the agreed-upon time~ As a young person, you have your own thoughts and opinions. You are not confused or flustered; you simply want someone to listen to you, to hear your stories, and to understand your innermost feelings. You believe that the greatest assets of youth are time, energy, and physical strength. I completely agree with this perspective. That's why you want to take advantage of your youth to earn more money and are reluctant to spend too much time and money on entertainment. I truly admire this about you. Back in the day, when I was your age, I considered outings and weekend gatherings with colleagues as the highlights of life. However, with your mature mindset, you believe that while young, with a sharper memory and quicker reflexes, you should focus on learning, accumulating knowledge, and reflecting on life. As a result, you don't go out much with friends, which has led to today's troubles—your friends find you difficult to connect with, while you wish they could understand your desires and ambitions. I remember telling you then: "Your life is yours, and your friends' lives are theirs." "Everyone has different circumstances, which are given by nature; everyone desires a different kind of life, which is what they strive for later." You agreed with these words but still felt out of sync with your friends. Then I shared my own life experiences with you: I believe that youth is the time to strive forward with all your might. Everyone just has different directions they want to pursue. I have friends who love traveling and can devote their salaries, time, and energy to it without getting tired. I'm somewhat the opposite; I prefer stability. Travel is wonderful, but I don't plan it often. Everyone has different perspectives on life, fun, and the meaning of life and different missions they want to accomplish. No matter what, it's all good. I've also had friends who felt they had nothing to talk about with me. Even if I just sat beside them, listening, they found me annoying. So, some of their gatherings didn't include me. When I found out, I was a bit sad but more relieved. I knew these friends were great, so I was reluctant to leave, but in the end, they made the decision for me to part ways, and I just went with the flow, gradually drifting apart. This is what they call "different paths, no mutual plans." If you can't see eye to eye, don't force either side. "There will be a group of like-minded people waiting for you not far ahead." "Perhaps friends who understand you, who can grow and exchange ideas with you, are waiting for you in a new world." I remember saying this to you at the end. Your smile seemed a bit spiritless because you were reluctant to let go of your current group of friends. That’s where you misunderstood me. I always believe there are many kinds of friends and different stages or levels. It's not about ranking higher or lower or being closer or more distant. Did you remember I also told you this? "You will know which friends are suitable for what activities, and what things are suitable for which friends." "It's not about categorizing or grading friends but recognizing that each friend who appears around us has a different impact on our lives." I enjoy gathering with friends because laughing heartily with them makes me feel life is good, the days are good, life is great, and the years are peaceful. "I know many friends can only accompany me for a while, not forever, not for a lifetime." So, I always cherish the "present" and the "now." When gathering, I focus and put my heart into it. When working, I am serious and strive hard. When learning, I dedicate myself and work diligently. Life is composed of many stages; living consists of different facets; the days are a comprehensive treasure chest, not a single-flavored exclusive box. Occasionally going out to play and relax with friends is also good. Spending most of your time learning and accumulating, aiming to climb higher and go further in the future, is an even better ambition. Keep it up~! The colors of your life are yours to choose. Here is a tarot blessing for you: Fulfillment. A message from the universe, this is a card of emotions, reminding you, Dandan, to cherish the care of your friends. They may wish for you to enjoy the nourishment of friendship and the care and support of family even while striving on your path. When you take a step back and consider your friends' perspectives, you'll realize you're surrounded by love and care, and your heart will be filled with happiness. #DreamCatcher #Alyson #Tarot

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Alyson’s 2/20 Tarot：明朗/通透 Illumination

Alyson’s 2/20 Tarot：明朗/通透 Illumination

2024 0122 今日牌卡：沉著、冷靜、平靜

2024 0122 今日牌卡：沉著、冷靜、平靜

2024 0101 新年快樂！今日牌卡：協力

2024 0101 新年快樂！今日牌卡：協力

2024 0208 今日塔羅：力量

2024 0208 今日塔羅：力量

2024 0416 今日塔羅：憤怒 Anger

2024 0416 今日塔羅：憤怒 Anger

2024 0114 今日牌卡：失望

2024 0114 今日牌卡：失望

2024 0228 今日塔羅：教皇.大祭司

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